The Wichita daily eagle. [volume] (Wichita, Kan.) 1890-1906, 1902-11-23

@--J1cr and unless she mas an experienced
mother who watches over her. she fans
headlong INTO IoFe with the drst fool who
takes the trouble 10 na-te- her simple
vanity.
But il is ret The very young girl Nho
counts L IS wilh the American woman
thar Ne would deal
Il IS quite true that n these DAYS we
American gi-ls are becoming. every year.
more discriminating. less willing 70 &C.
ceDt in any serious way. the men who
cross cur paths. We do nos love On IN
impulse; we Dc not marry ss.st for the
sake Of being styled Mrs instead CT
Mss
Nowadays. The term cd maid has
fallen out o. Use For II. az the present
time. a woman Is not married. Il means
merely thar she does not care % De. that
she Is not waiting easeriy for "a mar
tut c0ntenrediy fer the nan, ard. Il
he never cones. then she prefers 70 keep
her seif-Tespect aud rensin uuwedded-
Womanhood itself has not changed IL
the slightest nor viii Il ever do so. Her
nature is as emotional as ever 1t IS only
thar her intelligence and feeling have
become keener and amer. ard no longer
responds 70 every casual appeal. She has
Tar more FAR more than she had tn TIE
past ard. IT, consequence. she demanIs
Tar more from him whom she gives Il
all
What then. are the qualities ard attrib-
utes which. il man possesses them.
Sill make him such that after she has
known him. cannot let him pass out Of her
life unl7yed And lovi-g MIN whom she
knows has the power 10 read her very
heart-sJrings
First of all we would consider locks.
Good looks IN a man. in ~ opinion.
are slperaous. II IS true handsome
man has a certain preliminary advantage
ever his rival bat this counts for but
litrle IN the end. This is exempliaed By
John wilkes who was more than ugly.
when ne said Give me a half-hour s
start and / am not sfraid az the hand
scmest man In England WHAT woman
dees like in man. e an air Of distinc-
ton, a touch OF breeding. an indescri8-
able something in bearing and manner
thac marks him out as apart from the
common. and makes others recognize in
stantiy that place mus, be made Tor him
and Difference shown him Dress comes
in also Women despise a man who gives
much thought to clothes. yet. OF the 9TH
or hand. they wish him % be wei se:-up.
neat. Wholesome. Trim and vell-groomed.
So every man should be- nor as a matter
cf conscious effort. but by an Instructive
sense Of fitness and good taste Women
VIII pardon sioveniness in 2 genius. but
they win never Ike il. 8 woman prefers
g man whom ether women Viii approve
o. ara admire.
To please us American sirls. a man
must Bee ar ease in any SET. he equal CD
emergencies. De able 10 carry N an awk-
ward situation with perfect seif-posses-
sion. Ana sight aicng with this. he must
have "a En0wledge % the proper thing
20 DO che Ht.le courtesfes. the delicate
and tactful attentions thar mean every
ching or nothing. every possible occur
erce provided for. every wait aEticl-
paved a woman hates blundeTs. and
VIII trust q man IN srcat things. il she
SECS that h has genius Cor making
small things come Off well such man IS
Hkely % Understand q woman and every
woman a8oras the man who can Do that-
81 hen % woman meets The man who uu-
tlrds her She can make these words
~ Emerson her creed When meet a
man whose mind IS IKE ms oNa- bur
stronger. then become his very slave.
Women Ike liberal.-y iu d rlau, Ierge-
mes OF view contempt ~ the petty
certain splendid ear lessaess ahpGt the
s--l things that do aot count. Iirate