The Savannah morning news., 1902-01-26
WOMAN'S
WORLD.

L,
o1wavs refrain from doing to any lady
Of YOUR acquaintance.
Newer he moody, sull1y. Never fidget.
war bore your wife about little
t,ings. Be generous to her, and always
1saerful. Amiability and cheerfulness
40 the keynotes of happiness in matri-
monial life.
Never NEEDLE with your wifes pri-
,.ato affairs nor with her correspondence,
..bich YOU must hold sacred. Never in
,orfere with her management of your
bousehold. Let her be the absolute mis-
trass of that department.
overlook her little fads and short
comings, and praise her when she does
,,or hest. Praise, praise, praise al
ways.
When she has her little fits of temper,
bor moods, never aggravate her. If lit
,le annoyances, which you had foresee
and warned her against, should happen
don't give yourself airs, or, worse still,
cav TO her: II told you So She would
he right in never forgiving you.
Mover criticse her. Women and chill
5ran cannot stand criticism, especially
when it comes from the people they
1--we. 1 mean, their own
Never find fault with a new dress, es-
nsciallv if it is a costly one; because,
rs she wants to please you and to ap-
near her best for you, she Will never
again wear that dress, and you will
have to buy her new one. Praise that
dress old man. Be sure that you do.
When you have something on your
mind don't brood over it, don't con-
s,ne your own smoke; have it out at
once Never allow clouds to accumu-
late clear the sky at once, and every
thing will be bright.
Never write to your wife all the
nretty things you have to say to her.
Sow them TO her when you are with
her With sensible women few sweet
words whispered into the ears are
worth thousands conveyed by mail.
For a Woman Never lavish your
caresses, even your attentions, on your
husband when you suspect that he is
NOT in the mood to appreciate and en-
The most devoted and loving of
husbands has his moments of cares. In
those moments he does not want the
sweetheart wife, he wants the discreet
friend. the cool-headed counsellor, and
the pdIluGi clilA
wife should be.
The part of a wife is many-sided.
Happy the husband who possesses one
whose versatility enables her to play
the right part at the right time.
When your husband asks for little
dish Of his predilectionr which ne can
get at his club whenever he likes, but
which he prefers to have in ms own
house and in your company, do not re-
fuse il to him on the plea that you
know best what is good for him.
He generally knows that himself.
Your husband, am sure, has no OBJ
lection to your entertaining your Iady
friends at luncheon when he is working
in the city. Encourage him in his de-
sire to sometimes have a little stag
dinner party in his own house.
I know men who are obliged TO en-
iov that little treat in their clubs.
am aware. dear madame, that you are
none of those but some of your friends
may be.
Never go in for an explanation" on
any unpleasant subject while your nus
band is i'll or in trouble.
Be magnanimous enough to wait un-
til he is in fighting trim; that IS only
fair
Never abuse men without acknowl-
edging that they have some redeemlng
features Remember that women VINO
have good husbands do not abuse men,
that beautiful women never abuse men,
that women who have inspired love
seldom or never abuse men.
The keynote of family happiness IS
liberation and cheerfulness. Do not air
vour grievances: put up with faults,
foibles and shortcomings. We are none
of US perfect, not even yourself, per-
haps, my dear lady.
"Of course" said little Miss Wise
acre, "it is quite impossible that TINS
state Of things should go on"
Decidedly" exclaimed another deb
untante; 'it is perfectly intolerable TO
be put in such position. l vote that
We institute a strike"
This proposition was received with
great approval by the other members
OF the very youthful party. says the
New York Tribune, but, after discuss
ms the pros and cons, was voted I'M
practicable.
The only recourse, so far as can
see, is to give up society,"" sighed
third speaker, land that seems pity,
does it not, when we all might have
such good time, if the conditions were
only faVorable?"
What is the trouble?" asked Pater-
1amilias, VINO was reading at one end
OF the room, while the girls chatted of
thelr affairs at the other. "It seems
very serious''-
SO it is, Mr.. Smith," chorused the
indignant conclave. 1--WE are discuss
ing the humiliating position in which
we are placed at every big dance now
audSs unless we have partners for
everything beforehand-which very
IeW OF us ever have. Nice, attractive
sil!s are left out for supper and the
VCullon by the dozen this winter, and
tle consequence is that we go to our
uahces as If it were to our execution"
ana It isn't because we mind not
utenclng,' added one of the girls; "al-
enoush, of course, we like 1t very
Inuch' It is being on appreciation for
oons men and boys to take or leave,
- uhey feel inclined. l wonder, sir"
rae concluded rather pertly, that our
peIa allow us to be placed in that
iEeSlgon. pied5n. 1t certainly is not very dig
isu in.s 10 be looked over by the young
our fate" "
mis- season the COMPLAINT of the
ppartnerless maiden is much more pro-
Sced than ever before. and there is
nao' u'ecioed feeling of revolt among the
IN, leu ones in consequence.
staa1ere sere Is no reason why 1 should
Of tL, ~ and l won'tl" exclaimed one
rnai'as winters buds, vehemently "It
blo me teel Inundated and misera-
on 10 De standing up with a smirk
tnan Ivy race and waiting for a. young
r.t,, VINO Fails to come. No. mamma:
danan go to dinners and very small
cbaoess' perhaps, where have a fair
thsnL put no more balls for me.
And I'll