The Daily Ardmoreite. [volume] (Ardmore, Okla.) 1893-current, 1902-04-24
BREAD AND BRIDES.
THE PARTS vIANps PLAY IN MAR
RAGE CEREMONIES.

| Cbinn-MRrried by Candy.
The important part which different
viands play in marriage ceremonies
makes rather an interesting story.
For example, the Swedish bride fills
tier pocket with bread. which she dis.
penses TO every one she meets on her
way TO church, every piece she gives
AWAY averting, as she believes a mis-.
fortune.
On the threshold OF her new home a
bride in SerNia is presented with a
plate OF bonbons. one OF which she and
the bridegroom share between them,
the divided bonbon signifying that DO
bitterness shall divide them. A sieve
or wheat corn is also given TO the bride.
or this she takes three handfuls,
throws 1t over her head. emptying the
sieve upon the ground. The scattered
corn denotes that the bride brings Joy
and prosperity into her new home. The
bride Is still outside the door. nor can
She enter until she has placed two
loaves OF bread beneath her arms and
taken bottle OF wine into her hands.
With these emblems she at length
crosses the threshold OF her future
home At the first meal of the newly
married pair bread and wine must be
taken by both TO denote that thence
forward all they have shall be equally
divided between them and that their
married life shall be passed in unity
and fidelity.
a Russian wooing eliminates in the
betrothal feast, at which the bride elect
In return for long tress of hair which
she has given TO the bridegroom re-
ceives bread and salt and an almond
cake.
In Holland IL young man is In love
with q girl and wishes TO ask her hand
In marriage he buys small sweet
cake and. wrapping it up in soft paper.
proceeds TO the house of his inamorata.
He Is ushered into the midst of the
family circle. Without word he
walks up to the young lady and LAYS
the cake on the table before her The
rest OF the family affect not to notice
anything unusual and continue their
work or their reading. The young mau
turns aside and talks to the father or
mother on some very ordinary subject,
keeping his eyes eagerly fixed on the
girl while he is conversing. If she ac-
cepts his offer, she takes up the cake
and eats II. II she is a coquettish
damsel. she tortures the young man by
turning IL over and playing with il be-
fore she decides to taste il and then en-
raptures him by eating it TO the last
| crumb If. on the other hand, she
wishes to have nothing more to do
with her admirer. she puts IL back on
| the table. The young man takes up
the cake and, with n "Vaarvoal byza.
men," leaves the house The matter is
then kept a profound secret by both
families, and the outer world never
hears of 1t. In place of wedding cake
in Holland wedding candies are given
-"bruid zuikers" they are called.
They are passed around by children
and are served in flower trimmed bas-
kets.
Bride pudding is the name Of the
piece de resistance served at Morse
peasant wedding. This is not brought
on the table until the last day of the
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giver up TO feasting and merrymaking
The appearance OF the bride pudding
Is the signal of dismissal. and at the
close Of the feast the guests say fare
well, presenting mt the same time their
gifts, which consist OF cash. This the
bride receives, the bridegroom present.
ing each donor with n glass of wine.
Partaking of two tiny glasses OF wine
is all the ceremony necessary 10 make
Il marriage In some Chinese provinces,
provided a quantity OF fireworks are
set of. These are to wake the great
joss from his sleep that he may wit.
ness the ceremony.
At Hebrew wedding man and wife
sip from one cup OF wine. symbollzng
participation in the joys and pain OF
earthly life. The emptied goblet is
placed on the floor and crushed into
| thousand pieces by the bridegroom,
who thus shows that he will put his
| foot on all evils that may enter the
| family circle.
At an Egyptian wedding feast meat
is not eaten because OF the belief that
1t would lead TO future chickering's be-
tween them. Eggs, fruits and sweets
are served. The first meal in the new
house cannot be touched until. after
every device known TO the bridegroom,
the bride has been at last induced TO
speak. Once she utters a word. he claps
his hands, and supper is brought to
them.
Married by candy is the plan in Bur.
ma. or all marriage rites this takes
the palm for conciseness and sweet
simplicity. Here the dusky lady takes
the Initiative. Seeing youth who
pleases her, she offers him a sweet IL
he accepts her proposal. he promptly
eats the token OF affection. and they
are thereby made man and wife. In
the act of eating, alone this most prim-
tive rite consists. II the youth be not
| favOrably dispOsed he remarks with