The Montgomery advertiser. [volume] (Montgomery, Ala.) 1885-1982, 1902-05-11
CHIvALROUS HUSBANDS
THE BEST WAY 10 ENSURE
GETTING ONE.
Rev: =. J. Hardy, Author Of Glow
to De Happy, Though Married"
Makes Suggestions.

| Chicago Tribune. ~.
Men cannot be chivalrous and self-de-
| uying II women do not give them the
| chance OF cultivating these noble cuali-
| ties. Instead Of this some fondly foolieh
wives encourage their husbands In rude
ness and eelfshness by NOT demanding
and even insisting upon that attention,
| consideration, and help which every wo-
man, much more a wife. may claim from
q man. Sometimes 1t 10 a woman's high
est pleasure to bear all her husbands
ure, she makes him weak. inefficient, and
chiidlshly selfish. II she had taken q
proper stand and respected herself and
| her sex during the first year of married
ufe, things would have been. different.
no be ever beloved one must be ever
agreeable" 80 II Is most foolish. a. well
as wrong, for q young woman. when
married. to lay aside those graces and
band. II is this sort Of thing thai made
Swift say that ythe reason why % few
marriages are happy 10 because young
women spend their time In making nets.
not in maAng cages"
think not. the husband gained, that all
The prize oY happi., SIS must suii be wen:
And oft the careless find It to their cost.
Tho lover in the husband may be lost"
Young wife--"Suppose you were to come
down late one morning and fnd the cof-
| fee cold. what would YOU do? Her
Husband--"My dear. ] would make 1t hot
| for you." or course husband ought not
to expect much when he Is tinpunctual
at meals, but still 1t is never safe for a
wife to disregard the ,recept-Fecd the
brute" s
The following remedy has been suggested
for a delicate wife: For a slight head
ache give her a dozen pair OF gloves;
II 1t grows worse. = new gown. In ex-
treme cases a new hat has been known
IN tSrO Erp
debility. a new horse and carriage: for
dullness. theater ticket. extremG weak
ness. a trip to the sea; nervous irrita-
bility. invite the Hon Of the season 70
begin his Inarrted iife by administering
drugs In this way, for the domestic phnss.
macopoeia would soon be exhausted. but
there is one thing to do, and that Is to
abstain from nagging linen can nag as
we'll as women. arousing jealousy and
every other action that may even re-
motely injure the health OF his wife.
Who has not heard OF bad-husband
headache. or one brought on by the wor-
rydng and fault-fnding of selfish man,
man Is always bound to protect the
health ana happiness Of his wife. but this
ls especially the case during the flrst year
OF marriage. And the wife on her part
ought. for the sake of others, II not for
her own sake. to think more OF her health
than OF dancing about from one kind OF
dissipation to another. Ignorance OF the
| tdWS VI NATURE uDtS nOt Eldke n yQuNk
woman more innocent or better in any
way. and II may destroy or blight her
married life.
what Is the reason" one frishman
sssed ano.hsr sst you ans yoas wife
piled Pat. we are both of one mind
she wants to be master, and so do IT,
They go to church and say IT Wilt" and
then. perhaps. on the way home. one or
the other says II WON'T and that be-
gins Vt.
A man said. in the presence OF Arch
deacon Paley. that he and his wife had
lived together for thirty years and never
ment was: "Praiseworthy, but how
dull. There is more spice and zest In
domestic life when husband and wafe do
not think exactly alike, and II either
mistake. besides being tyrapnicai. to
try to crush the opinions and indfvidu-
atty out of the other There 10 room
In the world for both. and God knew what
he was about when He made them not the
same. bat of different pattern.
A husband said of his wife, ST would
not mind her having the last word. II 1t
we're the last word, but there are always
more last words" In the first year of
cannot get too many words from his
wife. but his opinion will alter in this
respect IL she acquire the most dangerous
habit OF trying to get the last word. An
newly married couple. when first alone.
should eat ounce together. in token,
as this fruit was the symbol of good will
that their conversation should be mutual
~ pleasant The Young husband need not
he afraid of spelling his wife by kind
ness. for an ounce of praise Is worth
more than pound Of fault-finding.
woman. like the Kohi-noor. mounts to
the price that's put on her"
When wife has been planning and
working all day in order that she and
her house may be pleasant for her hus-
bands reception on his return from work.
does she not deserve word of praise
instead of having all her efforts accepted
as "a matter of course In sullen silence?
my master" said the dog, 'is all very