The Tucson citizen., 1902-04-28
WHEN TO MARRY.
Nearly All Our Self Made Men W0@.
ded ON Small Incomes.


ded ON Small Incomes.
why should lovers defer their mar.
riage a day longer than the time when,
as far as we mortals can discern the
future, the prospect Of a comfortable
home Is reasonably assuredT says Cy.
rus c. Adams in Ainslee's. "It Is sense
less to wait for tie coming Of affiuent
days. Their lives should be united, and
each In his way should help to bring
about the advent of easier times II
they are ever to come. 1t Is as foolish
to wait for larger income than Is
really required as it is for parents to
slave and drudge that their children
may enjoy n degree of aftluence they
have never known.
This Is the rock upon which the
French nation has split They are
frugal and thrifty people. 1t Is Inter
esting to know that many Of the taste
full, artistic and costly products OF
France are made almost exclusively
for the foreign trade. Two thirds Of the
best chnaware Of Limoges, for exam
pie, comes to the United States. y well
to do Frenchwoman Is likely to use
preparation Of rice -four as cosmetic,
leaving the delicate perfumes and other
toilet articles OF Paris for her Ameri-
can and British sisters, who are willing
to spend more money for such things
But the rich fMher unfortunately con-
ceives 1t to be his duty to leave his
children richer than himself If, on the
other hand, he be poor tiller OF the
soil, 1t is disgraceful not to educate his
son to a trade or n profession so that
the family name may have higher
place in the social scale.
This deplorable ambition fixes upon
the family burden almost too great to
be borne, and parents deliberately re-
strict the number Of their children. I'm
large districts. particularly in northern
France, families Of more than two chill
dren are rare Many Of the young peo-
pie, seeing the hard lives their parents
lead, defer their own marriage In order
to better their fortunes. till at last even
the desire 10 marry Is extinguished.
Parents and children Of all lands may
well heed the lesson in sociology that
France Is now teaching.
Nearly all our self made men, lead
ers in the professions and in business,
married young and on very moderate
incomes. Many assumed without the
slightest trepjdation the responsibility
Of supporting a wife on $1,000 year
or less. These men usually have very
pronounced views on the inadequate
knowledge Of the value Of money and
how to take care Of 1t possessed by the
majority Of young men and women.
The views of these young persons as to
the amount Of income upon which they
may prudently marry vary, Of course,
according to the circumstances In which
they have lived. Many an intelligent
girl who works In New York kitchens
has no doubt whatever that she and the
steady, Industrious fellow she intends
to marry will have comfortable home
on $l2 to S14 week.
"a penniless German schoolteacher
who came to Philadelphia when a
young man and who In his old age
lives In New York on the rentals Of
apartment houses bought with 100000
he earned slowly in manufacturing, as
serted the other day that $1,000 to
$500 a year in New York would give
to young married couples of refinement
a comfortable home books. music and
amusements and everything they might
need for the rational enjoyment Of life.
~I.t So, a.,
Of thrift. There IS scarcely any doubt
that any man and wife gifted with his
ability to disburse dollars to the very
best advantage would be able to realize |
his idea Of comfortable married life op
a email income"