The Savannah morning news. (Savannah, Ga.) 1900-current, 1902-08-10

acknowledge that as far as the elders
are concerned this system is a great
relief There is no noise or n2ggnig
of any kind; the father can come
home and find an atmosphere of quiet
and peace. The children, prettily dress
ed and on their best behavior, come
| to him after he has had his comfort
able dinner and is ready to enjoy their
company AS l say, for the seniors
| of a family such a training is perfect
and cannot be too highly commended.
| The only question is, Does il develop
the children as they should be devel-
| oped? Is such suppression good for
| them in after life, or rather does it
contribute to their future success in
the great world outside of the narraw
walk of their home?
~ was told not to talk to older
people until was Is, and then I was
sent out to dinner parties and told
to make myself agreeable said one
! of these beautifully brought up maid
! ems plaintively, but l can't say
word So in nine cases out of ten
she sits wall flower, while her moth
er has. the modification of seeing the
tyre that she has always disapprovad
of score a distinct success.
I'm contradistinction to Mrs. A.
Mrs. rs theory is that children should
/
! only has them with her at all times
az home. but she takes them with
| her wherever she goes. They are pref
| ty and attractive and receive a lot
of sttcntion. Will this be bad for
them later on, or will it develop them
and give them confidence in the
worlds approval? Constituted as the
world is nowadays, l very much fear
| that the admirable discipline main
= I. - i
| a handicap while the high spirits and
ready chatter fostered by indulgent
-; Mrs T. will insure the confidence that
/ begets success"
! What a difference there is in the
| attracilon CT those two girls!' said en-
older woman, speaking of a couple of
debutartes, one dignified maiden OF
the highest breeding, and the other
regular little chatterbox, whose man.
ners certainly lacked the form" of
| We're &c We're.
yes, isn't there?" answered the
man, quite misunderstanding her pref
erence. II cannot get on at all with
| Miss :. She is so dreadfully stiff, but
Miss VI. is no end of good sort!''
The sweetheartless girls of New
York, says the New York Herald, who
want good time. need an escort and
have saved little money may soon
/ be following the lead of their more
! up-to-date London sisters.
When a London shop girl gets hun
CRY for loop the-loops and pop and
| peanuts or their English equivalents
she saves up for a month, gets a day
of and buys a young man for the
day.
The excitement in London usually
consists, as 1t would here, of a trip
| to the seaside, with whatever extras
she may be able to afford.
This Is quite a common occurrence
among London girls" said the mana
ger of a great wholesale clothing fac
| tory recently. And the young men
are actually bought.
1.-THE young woman bears the whole
of the expenses for both parties, and
often thinks herself more than lucky
If able to secure the companionship OF
good-looking fellow for the day.
II know this is done in nearly all
large London houses of employment.
A loverless girl, If fond of life and
sightseeing, feels mighty proud to
sport a sweetheart on holiday occa-
sions.. Then there is always the
chance of the borrowed beau falling in
/ love during the outing. the damsel
| doing her best to please and inspire
| him. AS you may imagine, many hap
i Ply engagements accrue, and lots of
marriages take place in the long run.
1.-The girl who is bent on purchasing
, a lover prefers to make advances to-
ward some young fellow who works in
a different factory, or is not mixed up
with her work companions. If he is
quite unknown to her associates so
much the better; she may, granted her
1 conscience is of elastic character, in
duce them to believe him to be bona
fide lover, and If she can secure his
photograph It is exhibited with pride
throughout the workroom.
What about the young men? They
are of the free and easy class who be-
tray no shame in helping to spend the
girls hard-earned money. There is no
real harm in their motives; and as
for the lack Of modesty on the part
of the woman, it never strikes either
party as anything very forward, so
used are they to independence and lib
erty of movement.
Very soon they pick out the desir-
able young man. Where he proves to
be a jolly companion he is asked
again, and the girls purse is given into
his keeping for the day-a pardonable
piece of deception, no woman wishing