Evening star., 1902-09-02
PARENTS WHO ARE WISE
-E7c5TLNcE OF EDUCATING
ENc -IE-H1Ne TEE YOUNG.
Causes q tie CHILD Seeming 10 Grow
Away FROM Parental
CCI-rCl.
Erou no Pittsnrrf s.sac,tc.

From thr Pittsnur5 'sHzc'tc.
OF FL N. moral subjects thai shouiG en-
gage me attention Of ihouShtfu. people IN
Ibis age of rapid and startling changes IN
ths srcial anC economical CONDITIONS OF tht
oorr.tr,- tF,ere Is none more important than
the education and training Of the young
1t is affirmed and is doubt largely true,
that too much of ths serious problem mas
been turned over 10 the speCiatsts to soiVe
and too little OF It kept for personal pa
rental and family treatment. one OF the
saddest vet one OF the Most common, COM
plants Of the average parent Is tn&t the
child grows away f1om the parental ad-
wee and control as tns Years climb toward
the Ins torlty MARI. The sadness OF TINS
,Crcpjs nj grows out Of the IGIsconception
Of he c4uses Leading to IT Usually the
rn.staFen parent takes such ioOsenlns OF
the parental influence tC mean q tendency
or tHe part of the child 10 be dIsobeolent
or W ward when Geai!J the instances IL
WL-Cl ms - the cast are rare.
Developing Judgment.
The tTc1itIe lies IA another direction,
Tuh futy developed faculties With awak-
.niaf Judgments on most subjects ii Is q
Singular exhItuion OF unfairness and
biuaae-lns 10 EnG SO many parents treat
ing nc mai is!riug chtd win the SANS mar
row laws Cf government and COn1rol that
suFCed during the perIud OF iH3&ncr. Hy
coat I.IIUE course OF UnrleiGl2g dictator
sI-g after H Dov or gIrl has grown oiu
enough 10 understand and Judge facts 1or
Themselves - ItcIt snort Of fpiiy on the
part Cf a parent EutnOrry that war once
based upon q simple 'beCaHsS say 80
must if 1t hopes t. succeed II effectively
shaping tHs cnud : life. te prepared t" deaf
VIII me cIIG ? own developing Judgment
OF tlt .aStHess and fairness Of tHe several
laws instituted for lis control. Instead of a
far "a. a rs4H fasFsa
upon . child tnaL !;yI4CTeS the fact tHat II
has passed BEYOND the swaddiing Clothes
period parents ShutBo cultivate InG5 pemdeH.
Judgment IN the roHHE man or woman by
such iUdiCtOUS ueferenCe 70 their opinions
thc.r growing ANA expanding IneaS anG
their budding hoTeh, ~ wall beSeI In Them
u MEASURE Of seit-respec; spirit Of self
reliance Untrn 60 30 far toward the aC-
COnrlisurIeH: o. IrttS purposes Don't q
or treating the young man or the yuuns
of yUa! hCts' with the same >or
OF Dine paT,ut.,. ipse 'iIxtT tn3t sufhted Il
bring ohedisule UbeE they Wert CnndreI
n LlBsfCr
Cons1deraie Treatment
There is ever reason h this age Of spH
clal temptation foG IRE yOung tnat parents
rhouiG Keep effective ana loving oversgh
OF the ives Of tue.T chiidreh until tine,
have pessed the danger points oc earl,
manhood anu woHauHOot. Tins can oni,
be done ~ Cuusiderat. and wise treatmen
based upnU Just regard for the child
own individuality. The news Of the pas
week contained jus' as the news of ever,
week contains pathetic stories Of heart
broken anG home disgraCed BY the over
act a 'soInebocp's = thItG " tn. Wrongdo
ing that cqrninates IN crime has behind /
long hidden history of 'wrongdoiuS'' /
the moral and social training OF the cui
prit To keep the love, esteem ana Obedl
.enee Of your children Throughout the year
in which they maj uring and forrnin
haDits that will fiS forever their place
lfs Is a. great anu commanding task, bu
one that il worth aii the stndy. patieno
and iove that "a bs put into IT. The re
ward IL <peyDiIa CoInBuia ton, both ior pal
Ont ana r.GUd