The Savannah morning news. (Savannah, Ga.) 1900-current, 1902-03-02
WOMAN'S
WORLD.

OiRalI in the New 4ork Journal. But
NOW can you help being familiar when
,,o,, are married? Well, that is where
= little diplomacy will come to your
rescue.
" YOU keep a bottle of wine open
the wine will get fiat Keep it we'll
oorked, and only open 1t when YOU
want to help yourself.
Familiarity is to love what air is to
x,ine-it takes the zest out of it.
therefore, be faTniliar when it is i'm
nossibIe for you to be quite dignifed,
and no more Do not forget that it is
familiarity that often prevents you
from seeing in your wife many physi-
cal attractions and mental qualities
which strangers see in her.
If you are too near you cannot see.
Remain at certain distance, and then
have good look at her.
How many men are there who never
had a good look at their wives until
they got bit Jealous and had the
curiosity of knowing whether they
were as beautiful as they had heard
other men say they werei
If YOU have a wife, forget and sell
dom avail yourself of the famiHarities
which the law enables you to take
with her. Forget that you are mar
ried and only remember that you and;
your wife live together because you
love each other.
You cannot be at your Wife's feet
making love to her all day long, but
you can spend your life paying atten-
tions to her, never treating her with
negligence or want of due considera-
ton on the plea that latter all, what
does it matter? She is my wife,"
Certainly not. You should never do
to her what you, as gentleman,
would never think of doing TO any wo-
man of your acquaintance for whom
YOU entertain feelings of friendship
and respect. You should never pass be-
fore her, you should never yawn be-
fore or read your newspaper at table.
You should never fail to take off your
hat when you meet her in the street,
when you part with her or see her off
to a train or a carriage. You should
never interrupt her when she is speak
ing, or contradict her before strang-
ers,
When you come home you should
now and then bring her a few flowers
In order to do that you need not be
rich. Il is not only a fifty -dollar bas-
ket which is acceptable; a little SOU
venir worth "a few cents represents to
a loving woman the same thoughtful
idea that dictated the purchase of one
rose or a little bunch of violets.
When through cares of business or
any other cause, you are moody and
sulky spare her your presence unless
you know she has the power to cheer
you up. Never try to be loving when
you are not in the mood; a woman
never fails to distinguish the real ar
ticle from the sham one; you cannot
deceive her.
Always control yourself, and never
let her see the different changes of your
temperament. Ask her advice before
you take any decision.
You need not follow it if it does not
suit your convenience. but she will be
pleased and grateful to be asked and
TO feel that she is an important MEM
Der of the community.
Never call her Love- Sweetheart -
Lulu" "Ducky," before your friends
and acquaintance. still less before
strangers The most really loving cou-
pies indoors are, as a rule, the most
dignifed ones outdoors. In word,
remember that woman. If sensible,
does not Judge you from what you
say. but from what you do.
Have for her every possible consid-
Grafton and you will find that there
is nothing like it to sweeten matri-
wants sWeetening, and no mistake.
If you want to keep your wine in fine
condition see that the cork is in, and
tight, too. If you want love in mar
ried life to last see that there is no
undue familiarity fndulged in between
your wife and yourself.
You have a great future. I shall
hear of you many times again"
he
World, Emperor William of Germany
Greeted Miss Geraldine Farrar, daugh-
ter of the crack first base player of a
Philadelphia baseball team, who made
her debut last week at the Royal Opera
in Berlin
The Emperor added that he consid-
cred Miss Farrar an ideal Elsa, and
the Empress expressed the most fat
tering approval.
1t was at the annual gala court per-
torrance OF opera.
A young American girl (she is now
only 2O) by singing half a dozen songs
IN perfect German, and in a voice
which bids fair to be the most splen-
did soprano on the operate stage thus
made herself the most talked of singer
in Europe.
The management of the Royal Opera
House has engaged her for Ave years
at salary OF $4,000 for each season.
maurice Grau cabled an offer of S.
VOO, but was outbid by the German
lmpresario
The story of the lucky Yankee girl
VINO has captivated Germany, the war
rlor emperor and the gracious En-
press reads like a fairy tale
Jerry Farrar, as she is known in
her httle native town of Melrose, Mass,
the daughter of Sidney Farrar the
baseball player.
IN the middle eighties Sid Farrar
was at the hight of his fame as first
oase on Philadelphia team. Every
s"nere ne went he took with him
Je.ry chubby, brown-haired baby
Win very fat face and the bright
81 OF blue eyes. All the old-tim base
voH enthusiasts remembers Jerry of
th he sturdy fists, the short frocks and
me me extraordinary command of base
al an talk. She was commonly called
le Kld, and it was a matter of re-
SCI SCI throughout the baseball fraternity
mt nat Jerry was not a boy, and conse-
Huently no matter how robust she
+Iohea or what a fine kid" she was,
base" 0e0oie AiS'
IN 1894, when Jerry was IL years old
Inc Ine sang In a little opera called Mar
ne pay, written by local musicians
~ Melrose and performed for one of
"e charities of the village.
Geraldine Farrar, as she was set
bboWn on the bill, appeared as a tam
Dourlne girl and it was the opinion of
me audience that 1.-The kid" did herself
trerV proud, and, in fact. eclipsed all
tue singing that orxho5,, a. A6oI-aa.