The Jersey City news., 1902-01-25

one room. while the mate is hidden in
another. Guests should separate. ladies
taking one room. gentlemen another Iae
youth who finds the slipper should go 70
the other room and find the maiden wn9
holds its mate, and 10 these lucky ones
should be given prizes. This couple ot
course, will be partners at the supper
which follows. Among the rest distribqte
/ slippers cut from fancy stiff papers. only
two Of each kind being made. On one put
j thts:-
Te prince, VINO holds this slipper IN band.
Go make a search through this merry
band,
And find We a maiden whose tiny shoe
Is mate 10 the one now held by you.
And claim your Cinderella.
On its mate put this verse;
Ye Cinderella. who holds this shoe.
Some one now is looking for you
/ SO keep your slipper and patiently wait
Till comes the prince who has found its
mate,
And claims his Cinderella.
Distribute these among the dancers.
then serve refreshments AS far as L
fA4Ao" t&t-9 - OA4H1iAdA anu Will HaF 2 a.
least the merit of being Something new
These are mems views OF women
He is fool who thinks, by force or
skill, to turn the current Of wonaans
will-Samuel Take.
The INST beautiful object in the world.
i will be allowed is beautiful woman
MacauIay.
If the heart of man is depressed with
cares, the mist is dispeIled when a woman
appears.-Gay.
Lovely woman, that caused our cares,
can every care beguiIe.-Beresford.
| Raptured man quits each doing sage.
Oh, woman, for thy lovelier page.-Moora.
Kindness in woman, not their beauteous
looks shall win my Shakespeare
| He that would have fine guests, let him
have fine wife.-Ben Jonson.
| A woman's strength Is most potent
when robed in gentleness.-Lamartine
Disguise our bondage as we win. It's
woman, woman. rules us still--Moore.
Women need not look at those dear to
them to know their moods.-Hewells
/ Oil and water-woman and secret-are
hostile properties-Bulwer Lytton-
Remember, woman is most perfect when
most womanly.-Gladstone
1 Earth has nothing more tender than a
pious woman's heart.-Luther.
/ word that is gradually coming into
it's own again after a period OF neglect
Is lady" After having been overworked
until it lost its Significance the word was
suddenly subdued and expelled from all
| polite, if not educated conversation
Now there is a tendency to receive
/ lady back into the modfsl vocabulary.
/ fryc -711 L.
talk Of persons who fatter themselves
it must be uttered with slight en-
/ phasis in order TO show that the word
has just been taken up
Party has, after a term OF hanisfl-
ment, been restored to high favor IN
drawing room conversation. Only a few
years ago the word was as much scornsd
as lady in circles that were supposed
! to be critical in details of such impur-
tance 1t was never heard.
But new party" is among the over
| worked words of the fashionable vo-
ea,bulary and is added to every term OF
description.
Thus one hears of musical PARTIES
dancing parties and so throughout the
whole category.
It is queer how ironelad IS the hold Of
convention and conventional eonsidera-
tons. They have a tighter grip and
wider influence than law. reason. sent-
ment or ethics itself. A woman WHOSE
marriage may be termed mediumly sue
eessful admfttde candidly, not long ago
that at the very last moment, never,
never would she have married her hus-
band had it not been for the thought Of
all the conventional considerations In
VOWED. 'sOn the way to our wedding
said the woman, I'VE had the most awful
kind of a row that made me vow in
ward1y never never TO marry him. Then
the thought Of the ceremony TO come on
at a friends house. the breakfast that.
/ thanks 10 her, was prepared and invtted
guests and how they would ali talk at
any change of pian- I gritted my teeth
and went through it. But it was tbs
thought OF the conventions alone that
kept me up. No other possible pressure
could have induced me to marry him
after such row as we had on our way
to the wedding. .
The habit of bringing fault ard weak
ness TO the front cannot be too strongly
condemned. It kills sympathy and fos-
ters a repellant attitude that rejects "a
!, overtures however well intentfeaed t2a
may be. 1t actually Increases ina ysfyt
evils it deplores by keeping them cons
stantiy in view. Parents and teachers
often make this fatal mistake. Anxious
to cure habit. but thoroughly unwiss
in their method, they harry continually
upon it, and keep reminding the child
of its presence, its enormity and its dam
gers. until at length ne comes to regard
it as a necessary part OF himself An
experienced teacher has said that an
infaliible way to make a boy absolutely
stupid is TO assure him constantly that
he is so; and the same thing Is equally
true Of most of their faults
Only through good can we prodnce
good; and If we would truly help and
improve a child, we must ind out the
best that Is in him. and from that point
endeavor to develop that which Is lack
ing. Bear In mind that goodness And
truth so hand in hand, and to welcome
and emphasize the one is the strest way
to attain the other in its fuliness.
To cure a child OF Group, wiring flannel
cloths cut Of hot water and appiy ffeln
10 the throat changing them frequently.
says the Ladies' Home Joursaa1 Make