The Jersey City news., 1902-03-01

viii have to remind him Of It.
IN provincial France you must not walil
on the street with any man but that for
tunate one who is to lead you to the altar
No man comes to call on you unless he
has announced to the world IN general
that he has his eye upon you as his future
wife, and then the visits are conducted in
the presence Of the family. one ehaperon
not being adequate to cope with the situ~
alton.
Should you go to the theatre with any
one less close in relationship than q
father or brother your character viii be
as completely lost as the gospels of St.
Peter. And if you were to venture inside I
a restaurant you would be regarded as
| person sompared to whom Nero and Cali
] gula were respectable and moral.
Why do women dislike women2 1T
( isn't jealousy" said one Of the sex. be
cause the dislike is not confined to honely
and unsuccessful women, and the objects
are not always pretty and successful ones |
( It may be because women are not 50 cas-
lily done. says an exchange.
TT is not because women are women
that they are disliked by their own sex
in business. 1t is because the average
home woman doesn't understand. She
! is usually monarch Of her home. abso-
lutely the most important person II Il.
and she loses the true appreciation Of the
Importance Of other people outside #. A
man in business is constantly brought in
contact with men who are his equals or
I superiors, who have equal rights with
/ him. whereas a woman may spend TWO
+ hours day visiting with callers Of her
own grade of intelligence. as against six
teen spent with the children and the SER
wants When she does meet men Il i5
either in the capacity Of grocery boys or
clerks whose business it is to defer to her
{ opinion. however illogical. or n social
way. when it isn't worth while to combat
+ her ideas If they happen to be erratic.
$50 that unless she makes a very great
effort she becomes positive and dogmatc.
and when she meets other women where
4 there is a clash of interests she expects
/ the same Difference from thin that she
receives in her daily surroundings from
men. and this is in a great measure the
reason why women's discussion. when It
strays outside the realms OF dress ana
babies, is not always as peaceful as IS de-
sirable."
One of the mistakes of women IS N rot
knowing how to eat If a man Is not 70
be fed when she is. she thinks a cup Of
tea and anything handy is good enough.
If she needs TO save money she does it
at the butchers cost. If she is busy she
will not waste time in eating. II she Is
unhappy, she goes without food. A man
eats if the sheriff is at the door. II his
dork drives, il the undertaken inter-
rupts; and he is right. A woman VIII
choose ice cream instead OF beefsteaK.
and a man win not.
Another of her mistakes is IN not
knowing how to rest. II she is tired, she
may sit down but she will darn stock
ings. crochet shawls. enbroider doylies.
4 She doesn't know that hard work tires.
If she is exhausted, she will write JET
ters, figure her accounts. or read up for
some circle or club She VIII laugh at
you, if you limited that reading or writ
ing could. fail to rest her. All over the
country womens hospitals flourish. be-
cause women do not know how 10 rest.
Another mistake on the list is their
constant worrying. Worry and hurry are
their enemies. and yet they hug them TO
their bosons. Women cross bridges be-
fore they come to them, and even build
bridges.
Women are not jolly enough. They
make too serious business of life. and
laugh at its little humors too seldom.
Men stop in the midst Of perpiexities and
have a hearty laugh; and It keeps them
young. Women cannot. and that IS one
reason why they fade so early
Correct breathing is the first part to
cultivate in the pursuit of beauty just
as it is the first step toward improse-
ment in health. AS woman breathes
so she is: for the noise fthe chest IS
the keynote to the whole figure. When
the chest is in proper position. the fine
points of artistic wearing apparel and all
the little frills of fashion are seen to
/ best advantage. Even humble materials
assume a certain elegance hitherto un-
known. But if it is carried badly the
figure droops and falls into ugly ansfes-
Nothing sets well; no garment seems
right. It is always wrong TO make the
bone structure do most ofthe work in
keeping the body upright. The muscles
should hold it in position. otherwise grace
is out of the question and good health
difficult. To breathe correctly keep the
chest up, out, forward, as il pulled up
7 by 4 button. Keep the cnln. the Bpst tAI
chest on a line. Hold the shoulders on
a lire with the hips The observance OF
these directions will insure 10 golf skirts
and rainy-day costumes q real dignity
and picturesque effect Breathe upward
and outward, as if about to hy. drawing
in the air with slow, deep breaths and
letting it out gently. This conscious deep
breathing repeated ten or twenty times
at intervals during the day tends y *
pand the chest permanently, to give Il
classic poise and style. Repeated for
times it is said to be d cure for worry.
Sleeping cars on railways have been
brought to a great pitch of perfection.
and it now appears that inventors are
turning their attention to automobiles,
which are to be SO adapted that they may
be used by night as well as day. Ths
idea is that by a little arrangements OF the
j framing and mechanism quite snug llt-
tie bedroom may be made of an automo-
bile. and there are those who think that
the new form well be much in demand.
especially for folk who like novel honey.
moons.
One would have thought that the rattle
and the throb and the smell which one