The Salt Lake herald. [volume] (Salt Lake City [Utah]) 1870-1909, 1902-05-18
Some 'Dont's" Which Every Won
Should Apply to Her Own Cas-

--g WYNN
Should Apply to Her Own Cas-
lWhat to Eat
\ man, my dear. is like any otAs--r
fed pet, stroke him the rfgbt ----
ne shows his paws. the wrong 49,
he shows his claws. He breads &c.
unsolicited --
OF course, you are not satisfied -a.
your husband. That shows Won ana
normal right thinking woman Hr -,-
should bear In mind that YOU carr1+ ~
off his moral eXCresceuees by harFI----
them with butcher knife Ra--sT.--
that, unless he is a druukard on q ~
Jomaniac, he is great deal better ~,
most Of the company he is ohH-s5 Ii
Keen. away from home Your F---.-.
horizon is narrow, it is difficult M IN
TO see beyond H. but If you could -.5hr.
that your husband is thrown via IN
Kinds Of people who do an kinds CT u1rs
you would treat his moral infi~f.-.
with that sOliCitude you would rr.h
upon him II he had q fever And vbe-
he does that which Is overly wrong Won
would come 20 his rescue as If yau vera
MS lawyer, unblaming seeking he bs-
way out Of the difficulty.
You complain that he does not -r=-s
his evenings at home You uwff-f
either. If you had a Dleasanter p.1es 10
go. suppose you were your husband a-i
came home for an evening. and vo1r Iar-
ing wife congratulated herself that sa
nad lived 10 see miracle. wondered tsr
II happened, If there were no other ras
Tor you to go; thought YOU ought 90 h,rs
been home last evening. thought r
would be out tomorrow night Etc. ana
sent you to bed early 20 catch w IN
your sleep? You would doubtless a11s-
clate she was giving you good mei.c1.
but you wouldn't be in a hurry for a-
other dose.
When you married the man he thought
ne had a mind Of his own To may B
years before you can change his Opinion.
Meanwhile, study him. get him hy heart
but keep him guessing about YOU
Laugh at his weaknesses and he vii
remember to try to overcome them Si0T
the funny side Of his faults and you Vl
shame him away from them.
Remember the following "d0nts' and
you win not need an accident policy.
Don't make a god of man unless you
want him TO make fool Of himself
Don't treat him as II he were your
master; let him keep an office boy 10
kick.
Don't talk too much. What you say
VIII thus become moro or less oracular
Don't meet him with q smile until
ne wishes you'd take something for d.
Don't agree with him until he is nav
seated. The matrimonial system requires
a certain amount of acid only let % b
wholesome.
Don't try to manage his business a.
Ism making anything like the success o.
II that he could, with your tactics. but l'
IS too dense to understand that.
Don't scold him. Don't bite him Tt-
sarcasm. When he is proof against re9
son, try gentle TidicUle. He likes a .i-.H
affectiOnate piEching.
Don't lower your standard OF purity
Show no appreciation Cf coarse joke.
When he married you Ea thought lo-
were a lady; don't let him make a1I
thing else of you.
Don't tell him il is his "0wn fault 3.
is no more iufallible than you are p.
probably thinks he is. and you nee1-
contradict MIN To isn't worth VIII
BE kind and sympathetic always
pays 100 cents on the dollar anywhere
any time
Don't visit too much and entertain p
proportion. A true man loves Es l
because IL is the temple or d2m9
happiness A true woman loves o. u
the same reason. The charm is lost F--
IL becomes a visiting mart 49,
Don't throw the poker chips our ~ .
kitchen window and entirely prom.
cards, don't call him tobacco wore +.
wine vat I'm other words. -'FlN
speaking. if "Ephraim is Joined To -
idols, let him alone"
Don't neglect 90 mention 0ecas
that he is an unusual character. a---r-.
from any you ever knew. tie likes ~.
Always be discovering new and atl..-
bic traits. As long as you can SCI -..-
out in attractive language you are --
OF q hearing. -
Don't criticise his taste- it s-ils --
first rate. Don't wear his ties I
read the comic weekly while le -1 ~.
ing his collar button, take D. OF. anu ~
il to him Don't omit % nraia.. ..
brightest and most 0rigi0a. rel.aI q W" ~.
as my husband says he N-i .'l
when 20 quit --
Don't overlook his couuzei. such as .
is. 10 is volunteered for Tglr goa
ways ask his advice. He VIII zen
what he thinks and forget about d.
can then do as sou please ---.
Don't fail % admire his t1ea---
IL YOU do so with mental re7-i e.
Don't talk Christian science -
when he has the LC0tll-Le. a.- ~
mention the patience 0t job WE. - =.
q carbuucIe ON the back Hl -.-
Don't allow him 20 be showed -l.=- ~.
religious literature when .a IS r-1- ~
don't have the minister call g-.s-.- 90
the doctor am
Don't fail 20 laugh at his Jokes. ~ n
courage his ambitions tn ate ~.
income. Don't be- petty or 57.-'---.- -.5--
fret Don't tell him you Tl.l you - r..
married him-the chances aI. .-- ~
wish Il any more than De does. T. 1s a. b
Their Of YOU will wish a. it you ----
each other as you would ba -l--