Arizona republican. [volume] (Phoenix, Ariz.) 1890-1930, 1901-06-27
lIATRIMONIAL ADVICE.

Ngv e soy to you: wife Before | was
marrlel | u.ci to DO thin and DO that.
She Will sent it. Before you were
married Is period Of your life in which
III, takes 20 interest. and she would
rather never hear It mentioned.
You like 10 h ar Cf what your wife
vas, and did, and said before she was
married, That's the difference.
when You wish TO offer sympathy
and confidence to a widow don't try
To console her by saying that her nus
lard has gJn to a better home Sha
might bring action against you for lib ,.
II YOU set any value on your tim,
neye. attempt 10 prov" that your wife
Is wrong IN saving this or in thinking
that \ clever man does rot commit
such a mistake in matrimony. He
agrees or T. mains silent II he is a
man Of great refinement and has con-
side ration for his wiz : feelings. he
agrees purely and Imply ard does not
remain silent, whish would be prov0k-
ing I'm the extreme. Lunatic asylums
are full Of men who have tried II argue
in matrimonial life.
II Your husband canrot afford to give
You exp usive Jewels, have enough deli
CaCy never to mention the jewels o.
Mrs. Su-and-So before him. The most
poignant nlffering that man who
loves bic wife may perhaps have to en-
du. is II feel that he cganot afford
t. give her dresses and s"welry as eT-
pensiye as tAose Of her female arquain-
tancgs
Whenever You have an oTpJrtunity
give your husband a chance to appeao
At his best. lie viii praise you for II
and 80 win everybody else
Never interrupt him, n,N,r correct
him before strangers, Il YOU do. you
make him ridiculous ard yourself ten
lines more So
\ wife may speak ainlrlncly Of a
man t. her husband. II win prob
ably join her But for The love Of all
that you hold most sacred in this world
and the next. my dea. man. never
speak ddmiringly of a woman to Your
wife or YOU viii be treated as a mons
ter Of cruelty. Her privileges are not
yours. OF course. YOU hIv- your own.
Apropog Of this have you ever tried
to hold NJ a woman Of your acquain-
t'ncc as model to your wife? Now.
have YOU? No? oh do try. just for
fun. II YOU want 80 fJresre the result.
just rem mber the feelings you enter
taired when you We're q boy. for the
boy that was constantly offered to you
Il Il model TO initiate.
When | was a boy | waited patiently
fOr two years % pay out that boy and
show aim how ! appreciated his per
lection, got him in corner OF the
playground and gave MIN the most ia
NOUS licking he ever got in his life.
The greatest wisdom in matrimony,
as in politics, consists in knowing how
to accept aCcOnpli u d facts and make
the bea; OF them Not only should ven
I" 50 in the case Of important facts.
such as the discovery Of SHORTCOMINGS
ana defects in your hu&tand or in your
Wlie, as the case may be. but in the
sma'' st detail" Of everyday life.
If your wife's new dres when fin
ished and brought home. does not come
up to your expectations. do not find
tault with it, on the contrary. admire
it, and say she never ht1 one that
suited her and fitted her so well
Say - whether she ordered 1t vita
or without your advice. If you don't,
she will imms diateiv take a dislike to
II, di"arj it-and you will have to buy
her another.