Daily Kennebec journal. [microfilm reel] (Augusta, Me.) 1870-1975, 1901-08-31

abroSa'e their authority with rep,,5
10 their sroWh-up children. Iiany-th,
maJoilt H-perhaps-give it IN alto.
gether' except in the matter Of money
othefs ma new ways hard ia learn
ana so set themselves to fight a losing
game. with public opinion ,r,i,e,
them quite little children often live
on terms of something like .ou,ti,v
| with their fathers and mothc,s ond
arc trc2ted by them as inexn.,i,nc, Il
| but reasonable creatures. To ~ mar
| suadcd and directed rather than crm.
! mandcd until they are of an ,ao :,
| direct themselves. Any susn-cion IF
ltdi "a lhe part oI the Child would be
| acutely painful to most modorn nnr-
e"'S' announcer instance of the growing
tqu"htS OF thc present day is the in
timacE and friendship which often ex-
~ between men ana women of totally
different standing in the matter of ace
anu mat not only where difference of
sex GENES in to smooth away tie dis
parity OF years. Young men ana older
men. young women and Older women
1--we often on terms of close affection
and intimately. No particular reyna.t
is cNacted on the one hand and anv
appearance of patronage would be re-
scented on the other. While this
scmhlance of equality produces much
mat IS both pleasing ana profitnbIc
outside the domestic circle. inside il is
apt sometimes to call attention 70 the
Old pToverh: II two men ride n horse
one must iGc behind" Close mental
quarters may develop sympathy, but
they may also develop friction We
cannot help thinking that the extent 10
winch this friction goes is cxacger-
ated by the writer in the Monthly Re
View. Granting, however. that par
cntS ana children are for the moment
IN what is called "a tight place" il is
Stlll surely possible that by Il little tact
and Self-controi ON both SIDES the fam
lily boat may be stcered back into still
waters. Mrs. Bell seems to believe.
that this steering can, in the ease of
mothers and daughters. be done bv the
sclf-sacritice and effort of the moth
eTs alone. For our part. we think
responsibility rests with the daughters
in an almost equal degree. With per
feet justice, Mrs. Bell regrets the
tendency she sees to make no effort to
learn the art OF home life III -oy.
Take care CT the friends ana the re-
I,tiors viii ,.l., 49, - -,
am LIE "I themselves.
it1'd t4'HShIp n. WIS admit, of little
value, unleS friendship is grated imam
il birt the oi,-aa,d ~ L.. -
:, '"N, VI lli'idNH!p
is necessarily reciprocal. and if young
people demand that the split of a,.-
thority should be- replaced by friend
'hlp. they must accept the responsible
ItH. = well rs the freedom of thu, nr,v
position.
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