The Marlboro democrat. [volume] (Bennettsville, S.C.) 1882-1908, 1901-11-29
HAxtnts ron THE otar,s M love,
WNiaa Conclusions THAT Have Boon

sfAxrnts ron The otar,s N 1ovs,
wiaa Conclusions THAT Hava Been
Horn oi Experisnoe.j a
You love for yourself, and if ycu
marry, You seal the destiny, happy or
wreched, Of your own life. Thoro.
foro, neyor marry for others. Marry
for you sake. - Let no human being,
however, dear 10 you, have a right to
violate tho true Instinct Of your heart,
or put a oonstrsint on your love. 4,
Ooly be careful; do not imagine that
you arc in love boforo you have tried
all the tests which may convince you
thai you roslly are. You may be only
too liable to mistake a caprice, FANCY,
. romantic day drosm for true love. /,
Blrst love is seldom true lovo. a
whole series Of light fancios which have
boon mistaken for love have often been
followed by tho earnest psssion Of a
life. u h "
The oredulity Of women on tho sub
ject Of beicg loved is very great. They
often mistake little admiration for q
Particular regard, and on this founda-
tion build up q castle in the air and
| III! it with all tho tre asures Of thoir
brightest hopes 1t is eater to be very
skaptioal on the subjso Of being loved ;
but If you make tho mistake. take all
tho blame on yourself and save your
dignity by secrecy, il you cannot keep
your hoart from loving. '
Men will always bo polite, attontive
complimentary and pay ing yon all sorts
of littlc fattorios, both Of words and
actions. Accept them quietly and
calmly, as your right, but never -uoem
to give moro weight than in nine case
cut Of ton they have.
Hurry no oourtship into an ergageS.
mont, and neyer mako an engagement
from which you cannot honorably with.
draw.
When you feel perfectly aure that
you love man, thero arc many subtle
ways for you to lot him know it.
have always failed to understand why
woman should not choose thoir hus-
bands and why only unmarried reignine
queens can do 30 l do not SEQ why
they should not propose. OF course,
they should do SO in manner quite
dllforent from that in which mon pro.
| p0ao.
But very often girl can make her
choicc from circle of admirers, giving
tho needed encouragement to tho one
she prefers, and deciding for hersolf
her lifo's destiny.
There arc men, and very elton the
bost, too, who arc shy and need on.
couragomont, inasmuoh as it should bo
remembered that the mon who declare
thoir love in some beautiful language
sro those who love least truly.
The real lover is q stammertr, IL
tho woman whom he loves should re-
turn his affection, sho should give him
all the discreet encouragement sho can.
Better marry a man of this sort hsn
q Thomss Carlyle, who spent his life
writing sweet love lotters to his wife
and never succeeded in saying pleas-
ant thing to her and in making her
happy when in her nreaanoa.
! If ever you reoeive from man love
letter worded in most exquisite stble.
full OF poetry and Professions Of dsep
attachment, take 1t for granted that
msn has had o long experleI % in sach
letter writing. RI. mn
There is not o single man, really snd
truly ia loyetwho would not be ashasn.
Cd to read, espccially; to have road aloud
q lot ter a no has writton 20 the object, Of
| his affection. y, 4, b
Neyor tellany ono that you hive 10,
teoted the advannes Of snoh iai,fssg s,bl Z,
! a men. 81 4s S;.yyil3 4 y q IN
The man who boasts Of his oonauestIi
q oad:tho man who boasts ofSthoao BE
has not not nado is cur and a sooupd.
rei. The woman who boasts OF tho pf.
fors che has refused is . woman tE al
lacks refinement and tact, sSI S25
After all, there Is very little diffsr.
enoe betweon tho qualities Of perfot
| gentleman and those Of o perfect lady,