Ceredo advance. [volume] (Ceredo, W. Va.) 1885-1939, 1901-07-24

this week 1 worked until ten o'clock.
Three nights last week / sat up until
IL with the children while you and
Mr.. Ward went to entertainments or
were out TO dinner"
But what shall we do?' Mrs. Ward
suddenly cried out despairingly.
Some one must stay with the chill
dren. And Mr.. Ward and / have So
cial duties we cannot neglect. / am
sure we go out very little compared
with other people"
81 can't answer your questions"
Barbara replied. But l know one
reason why / feel like leaving is be-
cause | never know whether my work
is going to end at eight or nine or ten
or eleven o'clock. There is no regu-
lar hours OF labor in a hired girls
life, in this house"
Neither are there any regular
hours of labor in mothers life in "A
home" said Mrs. Ward, quietly. as
your burden harder than mine? Or
is it any harder than your own will
be if you ever have n home and chill
dren as j have?"
The sudden question smote Bar
bara as Il new one, and in moment
she felt conscious of an unthought OF
problem in the social economics of
housekeeping. She had not thought
% all out, as she had told her mother
If the home life was never to be free
from the necessary drudgery of life,
why should she complain if in the
course of service in n family exact
hours and limits of service could not
very well be determined? She was
somewhat troubled in her mind to
have the question thrust upon her
just now. She was not prepared for il.
"ln any case" she finally said. re-
luctantly, 1.-The hours are so long and
so uncertain that"
"But you have Thursday afternoon
and nearly all of Sunday. You have
more real leisure than | have"
But you would not be willing to
change places with me?" Barbara
asked, looking at Mrs. Ward doubt
fully.
1T is not question of changing
places. l simply want you to see that
in the matter of time you are not
abused. But go on with the other
reasons" And Mrs. Ward folded her
hands in her lap with resigned air
that made Barbara vince little. for
what she was going to say next
would in all probability anger her.
Another reason why l have decided
to leave is the Sunday work. During
the four Sundays | have been here
you have invited in several friends
to Sunday dinner. This makes Sun
day morning my hardest day"
aft has co th;u In.t ,,,outt
that is true" Mrs. Ward confessed
reluctantly; but it has been rather
unusual. In three instances remem-
Der the gentlemen invited were par
ticnlar business friends of Mr.. Ward.
ana he was anxious to please them.
and invited them home with him
from church rather than send them
to hotel. But such social courtesies
are part of "A mans home life.
What shall he do? Never invite n
friend home 20 dinner for fear of
Giving the girl little extra trou bic >"
Il don't mind it during the week."
barbara replied, thoughtfully. "but It
docs not seem to me to be Just the
thing on Sunday. A good many fam
lies make il a rule not to have eX-
ira Sunday dinners. Do YOU think il
is quite fair?"
I'VE haven't time to discuss il. Go
on Mrs. Ward answered not sharp
ly, rs Barbara thought She might.
There We're traces of tears in the
older woman's eyes that disarmcd
Barbara at once. The excitement of
her nervous tension was beginning
20 subside. and the attempt to mar
rate her grievances in their o, ser was
helping her to see ther. i'm their lust
light. Besides, Barbara had received
some new ideas since she sat down 10
give her reasons for leaving. The
next time she spoke il was with a
feeling Of doubt as to her position.
There is another thing that / have
felt n good deal, Mrs. Ward. You
have asked me To give reasons. You
will not think me rude if go on?"
81 asked you to go on" Mrs. Ward
replied. smiling feebly.
Well during the four weeks have
been in the family, you have never
/ invited me to come into the family
worship, and you have never asked
me 20 go TO church with you. al
though | told YOU when came that
was a member Of a Christian En-
dcavor society in Fairview before we
moved 20 Crawford. ] don't mind so
much being left out of the ch arch
services, but ] cannot get over the
4 feeling that as long as ] am "A hired
servant ] have no place. so far as IN,
religious life is concerned, I'm the fam
I iy where ! serve"
Contrary 10 Barbara expec+,tio,
Nr Ward did not reply at once: and
when she did, her voice was not an.
grv ~ was, rather, sorrowful
statement that gave Barbara reason
/ to ask herself stiIl other questions.
There are some places in family
that are sacred 90 itself Mr.. Ward
bias always said that ne thought the
hour Of family dcvotions was one of
The occasions when n family had a
right 10 be- all by itself OF course.