The citizen. (Frederick City, Md.) 1895-1923, 1901-02-01
CHOOSING A HUSBAND
PRACTICAL ADVICE TO GIRLS ON
WHOM TO MARRY.
Men Have Their Faults Just the
Same as WOmen-The Average Man
Has Been SpoiIed-DesirabIe Quail
tiles In "a Husband

zine devoted to the interests of women"
There are dozens of such, you know, in
this country and in other countries too.
In your magazine devoted to the inter-
ests of women" there is, maybe chap
ter telling girls just how they ought to
mt themselves to be good and agreeable
homemakers, how amiable they should be
and careful to be always smiling and
agreeable when their husbands come
home after the days work has come to
an end, and in these same journals from
time to time, ana, in fact, in a general
variety of publications-da weeklics
and monthlies-there is plenty of space
given over to articles on whom to mar
ry.' This advice, no doubt. you have
noticed, is indirectly intended for the
young man who is contemplating matri-
mony or is likely to at one time or an
other.
This young man is advised to avoid
taking for a wife girl who is untidy in
dress, unamiabe in disposition and Civ
en- to ''nagging." Oh. there are hun
dred little bad traits that woman NAV
possess that are pointed out to the young
man who may marry.
Kind, thoughtful and generous are these
scribeS, and true enough. too often, are
their remarks. But where. oh. where is
the one who will point out to the woman
who may marry a bit of written sermon
on whom to marry"
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!Ls 'hat the average man receives. Jack
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sure "i appearing much better ana would
appear "ueh DETER WIS II expected OF
MN ne mas hothlhG To i've up to. BY
ei! ""uE accepts MN as he IS
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man Writings II you are the least bit
u STUDENT Oh human nature you Will
li!li'uialeN acknowledge the grain of
run 'ii'' inspired TINS paragraphs
- YOU W'Sn 10 hhd OUT Il person )
weak points: Note the tallhSs he has
inc lulcheSt eye Tor IN others. They
ma! not ne the very iallhi@N ne IS him
sell conscious or but they viii be their
heNt door heiShhorS' NO man keeps such
jealous LOOKOUT as rival.
10 expect ol the average man that he
ne without iaults would be looking for
EoaS among men. mat he has faults
you ahu must acEhoWled@c' but why
should ms be overlooked any more than
'nost VI I"e average woman:
ASaIn ! SaN' me average man does not
lii"Ne '"' pt>' Oh hlllScIl' because we do
not expect MN TO- II you pin him night
uoWh 70 truLllul answer, am quite
certain ne VIII honestly confess TINS HIM
sell am quite certain too that the
| fancy he would quite enjoy the novelty
of being expected to be amiable and rca-
sonably patient, to not be excused for
being too law to mike n corpful tnil,t