Arizona daily citizen., 1901-10-18
CUPID'S ODD FRANKS.
WHY SOME WOMEN FELL IN LOVE
WITH THEIR HUSBANDS.

Peculiar Reasons That at Times In
nuence the Eair Sex In Matters of
the Heart-The Woman Who Won
aud Welded a Woman Bater.
II there Is one question more than
another 10 which it Is dtticult to get or
rye Il satisfactory answer II is surely
this why did you fall In love with
your husbaudt" In 10 cases out OF 20
woman would probably confess candid
ly that she did not know or else she
would declare concluslyely that she
dld because she did, and that ought to
end the matter.
In the rare eases where the lady con-
llescends TO declare her reason the an
twcrs are both interesting aud In
structlve.
Whatever made you marry the prs-
onerT London magistrate asked a
woman whose face bore striking" evil
dcnce of her husbands affection. "Be-
cause he punched all the other fellows
heads" she answered. land nobody
else dared make love to me-"
Another good lady confessed that she
fell In love with her husband because
he was the "only man who ever dared
to snub her" While other men were
stumbling over each other to pay her
court and attention, he always treated
her with absolute indifference and even
rudeness.
The consequence was that she de-
termlned to bring him to her feet and
his knees. She succeeded, but lost her
heart In the attempt.
Il fell In love with my husband"
one lady recently declared. because
he was the only man about whom no
one was ever heard to say an unknd
word. Even the women, although he
paid them no special attention, were
agreed that lie was "A darling and, al
though he was plain, almost to ugli-
ness, and old enough almost to be my
father, loved him and determined to
marry him long before he had any
such thought of me-"
Not long ago q Yorkshire lady OF
wealth and beauty shocked her friends
T ~ AhS PVOh NA'PRtC" ~ b0A
come to her ears that he had long low
ed her In silence and had counted each
day happy IL he only caught distant
glimpse of her. She discovered that
he was devoted son and brother and
IA man of unusual gifts and culture for
his humble position, and. moved by
one OF those sudden, generous I'm.
pulses to which some women are lia.
ble she sought an interview with him,
told him that she had learned his Sc
cret and offered him her band aud for
tune. THIS may appear strange aud
Improbable thing. but thousands know
that It Is literally true.
Another lady whose marriage result
ed from similar impulse gives this
explanation OF 1t. Among the friends
Of her family was an old bachelor with
reputation for Crustness who had
known her from child and had often
nursed her In early days. TO her he
had always been gentle and kind. aud
she had loved him in way" as long
as she could remember.
One day she said, why have you
never married, Mr. --W
Marry, my dear? Why, no one
would ever marry grumpy old man
Ike me!'
"Of course they wouldT she answer
ed Indignantly. why, would marry
you myself"
Thank you. my dear" came the un-
expected answer. Then wen consider
the matter ended"
In spite OF her surprise and misgiv-
jngs the girl loyalty kept her promise,
and she has never bad reason to regret
her moments indlscretion."
A lady friend OF the writer married
her husband for the very illogical rea-
son that he was an avowed woman
hater. He made no secret OF his aver
sion to the fair sex aud declared 1t so
constantly that, as she says. II vowed
| would convert him and make him
change his mind, at least so far as one
Of my sex was concerned" He was
not difficult to convert, for within l2
months he had forsworn his creed so
far as to conduct one OF the hated