The Forrest City times. [volume] (Forrest City, Ark.) 1871-1919, 1901-11-29
and in this way the same end Is sec Ired
D.ges ion waits on appetite aud health on

and in this way the same end Is scored
" D!ges ion waits on appetite and health on
both. "
Bat how often is the appetite destroyed and
thu effect of the meal neuttsliz ed by the
sharp word and the scolding tougl4e. Better
far meal in silence than in dissentinn /: but
better still, one in which light, mirthful or
any other interesting subject is enjoyed with
the TODD.
come to the subject OF ch IA training with
tear and trembling. | give you my own ideas
here. you may take them for what they are
WORTH. The first lessons We give them are in
sell .eontrol, confidence. love and truth.
" I'm their natures tue .OughiY imbuea with
these four virtues they can never make very
RraNe mistakes, Ncv ar dsappoint n child il
II j. possible to ayolsl il. Never tell them a
lalSeuooi Always keep promises to them.
Try not TO wound their selt-esteeu. never
correct them in tn presence Of Others If YOU
can possibly wait. DO not let one know that
Noh mink II = Ia a. Answer their questions
| carefully. II Jon insist on their doing a
ihlng. give then the reason. When you are
cross and worried don't imagine il j. the
Guild aud cor tect 1t. when you are at fault.
Don't ever Use sarcasm with enid. they
cannot unde rstand. and do not lanuw how 10
meet H. lie one with them always. never let
them grow away from you. enter into their
Jtys and SO .rews, keep their confidence and
sympathy. Let them never he AFRAID to come
10 mother with anything. do not hc harsh in
YOUR Judf meuts; but try T. remember how
You ielt, or would have. under the same cir
cumsiaf .ccs when you werea child. DO not
hamper them with overdressing
Thef is no inconsistency at once so glar-
ing a. al no sight SO pathetic, as enid dressed
80 pt nniy nat II Is afraid To play in the dirt
Tor ear of soling its clothes There are IN
dow atcdly times for children TO be dressed up,
Dui when chlio is. as SO many are, dressed
ull from morning until night, and has con-
SANITY ringing in its ears the Injunction. not
d soil its clothes II would seem as il more
unnatural state of affairs could scarcely ex-
lst. child is happiest when nj play, and
generally the dIrtier il is the happier u is
Ot course. mean wholesome dirt. l. e, they
should haze a bath aSd clean clothes once a
Gay, aud in warm weather again on being
made ready Tor bed. Let the little oues play
IN the dirt and sand they are happiest ana
healthiest so. We never Gct so close 10 moth
or earth again and are never go natural
: Let them therefore know well the soil. IT il
ahout the only rival TO the doctor aud his
most effective one. If the family purse can
hot stand tue aundry bills. get them little
ovefHlls aud sunho anets or broaa-brimmed
mats then turn the M loose in the fresh air
what rosy little cheeks. bright eyes and how
happy they viii be- Lei them climb trees aud
tihe horses. Give the little girls and boys the
same training in the house and out of IT, and
our next generation will be a vast improve
ment. teYen over the present onel
Chlidr-n should ave some special thing TO
~ III comes hess as well directed play
lhey are happiest when busy. The stucy of
nature should be encOurag ed. They need
someone To direct them. preferably the moth.
or, III she can nnsi time from her manifold
dutles. During vacation they should study
WIN books rather than from books The
right KIND of books are not only necessary
but desirable: HDtany. Astronomy. Phys
Geography, Zaobgy or almost any branch
or natural science, may be taken up in
fatlona way ~ the Talnhles in the fields aud
woods oY any VINO care TO do il. 4 largo
sized held giass. makes the study of the heay-
ems oil much greater interest.
Will close with this thought ut isl pity
mat more OF usvan aot cultivate the two told
way OF looking at things. There would be
less friction IN life II We did-sweeter sympH-
my kinder unders tan,sing and broader and
fuicr living. The tact is. that we never
reach the dignity IF true living unless we do
learn This all tmpo rtant lesson, And that II
may be cultivated, admits OF no doubt.
IL is simply question of learning not To
condemn generally what individually does
nor happen - be ~ OR taste. IL for exam
pie. we are fond of seeing tragedy enacted
on tue stage We should not therefore corr
demp cOmesiy. "
ne most ancom Portable people in the
worla are those who assert tscir Judgments
IN hard, de ssive and rnal manner a. il
'heS were the courts ui last resort. On the
oiher hRnd tie brightest ana best minds are
ihose that ia sc most respect tor the opinions
o. o'hers. They possess the Judgment Df
Iact togethe with the individual modif1ca-
tion. Ihat Is true judgment. That shows
ne bread rIind, the judicial character. fhe
safe charat ter