The Manning times. [volume] (Manning, Clarendon County, S.C.) 1884-current, 1901-11-27
HAXIMs FOR TIE GIRL IN LOVE,
Wiss Conclusions That Esve Beer
Born Of Experience.

ooAA VI SA % AeoS9'
You love for yourself, and If you
marry, You seal the destiny, happy CT
vrs:ohsd, Of your own life. There
fcre, ncvar naIr7 for others. Marry
f@r ycu sake. -Les ID human being,
how; Yer dear 10 you, hs7e a right to
violate the true Instinct Ct your hesr:,
OF put cons raint on your love.
Oaly be csrefu' d. not imagine that
you are in love before you hsvs tr;el
ell Il tests which may con7ipc, yau
thai you really are. You m.y be only
tco liable to mistake caprice, fsncy,
romantic dsy dream for tue love.
First love is seldom true lows. A
Rhole ssries Of light faaoies which have
been mistaken for love have often been
followed by the earnest passion Of a
life
The creduiisy Of women on The SUB
jaos Of bei>g loved is very great. They
of.en mistake little admiration f,r q
particular regard, ani on this founds-
ton build up q castle ID the air acd
! fl it with eli the trsafures of their
brightest hopes Il is raser to be very
SIX ptiosl on the subj ,ct Of hei5g loved !;
but il you make the mistake. take all
the blame ca yourself snd save your
dignity by secrecy, if you cannot keep
youc heart f :om loving.
Men will always be polite, attentive
c2m plim mary and paying yoa al gorts
Of llstle f.tteries, both of words snd
actions. Ac,ers them quietly and
calmly, as your tight, put never seem
to give more weight than in nine CASTS
Gu Of ten they have.
Hurry no courtship into ID ergage'
ment, and never make sn engagement
from which you cannot honorably with,
draw.
When you feel perfectly sure that
you love man, there are many subtle
1sss :os you TO lot hin knoa it. |
have always failed to uoderstsrd Vhy
wcm u should not choose their hus-
bands and why only unmarried reigning
queens can do 50 l DO not zee why
they shou d not propose. 0: course,
they should do 20 in manner quite
different from that il which men pro.
po'e.
Bat very often s girl can make her
ohoics from circle Of sdnirers, giving
the needed encouragement to the one
she prefers, aad deciding for herself
her life's destiny.
There ars men, a2d very ef:en the
best, too, who ara ahy and Eeed en-
corragenent, inssuuch as it should be
remembered that the msn who declare
their love in SONS beautiful Language
srs those Hho love least truly.
The real lovar is stammer.r. Ii
the woman whom he loves should Ee-
turn his sGection, she should give him
sll the discreet encouragement she can.
Better marry a man of this sort han
q Thomss Carlyle, who spent his life
writing sweet love letters to his wife
and neveT succeeded in saying pleas
ant shirg TO heC and in making hel
happy when ia Isr presence.
Ii ever you recei7s from nan love
letter Wo;ded in most ezq1isise style,
fu'l Of poetry and Professions Of deer
attachment, take it fer grated sts'
N IN has had long eSpe1lel C, il such
letter wiring,
There is not single man, really and
truly il love Who wouia not be asham.
ed to read, especially to have read aloud
a letter he ha: written to the object Of
his affection.
Never tell any one that you have re
jscted The advances Of such and suct
man.
The man who boasts Of his coIquasts
cad: the man who boasts Of those he
has not not made is cur and scound
rel. The woman who boss;s Of the of
fets she has refused is woman thai
lacks refinement and tact,
After all. there is very little diff ST.
ence between the qualities Of q perfect
gentleman and those Of G perfect lady