The Yale expositor. (Yale, St. Clair County, Mich.) 1894-current, 1900-03-30
TALMAGE'S SERMON.
HOME LIFE THE SUBJECT LAST
SUNDAY.
The Duties of Parents to Their Child
rem - "A Wise Son Malketh Glad
Father; but Foolish Son Is the
Heayiness of His Mother"

persons who seem to have no especial
interest in the welfare Of their chill
dren. The father says: MY boy must
take the risks | took in life. If he
turns out well, all right; if he turns out
i'll, he will have to bear the conse-
quences. He has the same chance that
! had. He must take care of himself"
A shepherd might just as well thrust
a lamb into a den of lions and say,
Little lamb, take care Of yourself"
Nearly all the brute creation are kind
enough to look after their young. |
was going through the woods, and
heard shrill cry in nest. | climbed
up to the birds nest, and found that
the old bird had left the brood to
starve. But that is very rare occur
renee. Generally a bird will pick your
eyes out rather than surrender her
young to your keeping or your touch.
A lion will rend you if you come too
near the wheps; even the barnyard
fowl, with its clumsy foot and heavy
wing, will come at you if you approach
its young too nearly. and God certain
ly intended to have fathers and moth
ers as kind as the brutes.
Christ comes through all our house
hold today, and he says: You take
care of the bodies Of your children and
the minds of your children. What are
you doing for their immortal souls?' |
read of a ship that foundered. A life
boat was launched. Many of the pas
sengers were in the water. A mother
with one hand beating the waves and
the other hand holding her little child
out toward the lifeboat cried out, Save
my child" And that imprisoned cry
is the one that finds an echo in every
parental heart in this land today.
Save my child" That man out there
says: Il have fought my own way
through life. have got along tolerably
well. The world has buifeted me, and
| have had many a hard struggle. 1t
doesn't make much difference what
happens TO me, but save my child
You see, have a subject Of stupendous
import, and | am going, as God may
help me, to show the cause Of parental
solicitude and then the alleviations of
that solicitude.
The first cause of parental solicitude,
think, arises from the imperfection OF
parents on their own part. We all
somehow want our children to avoid
our faults. We hope that If we have
any excelences they will copy them,
but the probability is they will copy
our faults and omit our eXcellences.
Children are very apt to be echoes of
the parental life. Some one meets a
lad in the back street, finds him smok-
ing and says: why. | am astonished
at you, What would your father say
if he knew this? Where did you get
that cigar?" "Oh, picked it up on the
street," What would your father say
and your mother say if they knew
this?" oh" he replies, that's moth
ing. My father smokes" There is not
one of us today who would like to have
our children copy all our example. And
that is the cause of solcitude on the
part Of all Of us. We have so many
faults we do not want them copied
and stereotyped in the lives and char
acters of those who come after us.
The Matter of Discipline.
Then solictude arises from our con-
scious insufficiency and unwisdom of
discipline. Out OF 20 parents there may
be one parent who understands how
thoroughly and skillfully to discipline;
perhaps not more than one out of 20
! We, nearly all of us, err on one side ~
on the other Here is a father who
says: II am going to bring up my chill
dren right. My sons shall know moth
ing but religion, shall see nothing but
religion and hear nothing but rell'
gion" They are routed ont at O'Clock
in the morning to recite the Ten Com
mandments. They are wakened III
from the sofa on Sunday night to re
cite the Westminster catechism. The!l
bedroom walls are covered with relig
ious pictures and quotations of Scrip
ture, and when the boy looks for thu
day of the month he looks for it in {
religious almanac. If a minister comes
to the house, he is requested to take tn
boy aside and tell him what grea
sinner he is. 1t Is religion morning
noon and night.
Time passes on, and the parents ar
waiting for the return of the son a
night. 1t is o'clock, it is 10 o'clock
it is IL o'clock, it is IL o'clock, it /
half-past IL o'clock. Then they hea
a rafting Of the night key, and Georg
comes in and hastens up stairs lest h
J be accosted. His father says, George
, where have you been?" He says, g
, have been out" Yes, he has been out
and he has been down, and he ha
started on the broad road to ruin TO
this life and ruin for the life to come
and the father says to his wife
Mother, the Ten Commandments ar
a failure. No use of Westminster cate
chism. | have done my very best 70
that boy. Just see how he has turne
out" All, my friend. you have stuffe
, that boy with religion. You had n
sympathy with innocent hilarities. Yo
had no common sense. A man at mid
, life said to me: 81 haven't much desir
for religion. My father was as good
man as ever lived. but he TANNED r.
ligion down my throat when ] was