The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1900-01-14

VIII always De poor u DSSuuSS 'ANS N"iihSt
see the wisdom of it.
The graduate from the matrimonial
schools viii always pay cash for what
she gets. Trades people profit by giving
credit. The economical housewife viii
appropriate this profit to herself She
will not allow bills to run and accumu-
late TO worry her by their size at the
end of month or two. and constitute
troubles 10 be conhded to a husband. who
should be spared domestic annoyances.
Men resent being met with tales Of
woe concerning the iceman, the milk
man and the tradespeople'
Not That sort of Burden.
But you just said married life was
easier because there was always the other
to share the burdens.
Yes, but there shouldn't he any bur
dens-not of that nature. They are mere
w the result of mismanagement,a and can
be readily done away with when women
are provided with opportunities for study
ing the proper method for managing nus
bands and homes.
women ought also to understand the
trend of modern ethics. The unsophlsti-
Gated girls of the period expect to marry
men quite as good as themselves with a
natural love for hearth and home They
don't realize that these natural instincts
i'm women are cultivated habits in man,
and that their incentive must he the fer
tilizer TO help in the cultivation
"They must also appreciate that, afte'
years of bachelor life. lived in accordance
with the standards of the age, 1t Is not
a remarkable coincidence to7haNe nm stay
out late and return in anything but apple
pie order in the wee small hours of the
morning. Under such conditions a wife
should not find fault. Il is her cue to
Encourage it?''
well" responded this matrimonial en-
cyclopedia. that is just what most of
them do. When he doesn't arrive for din
ner she is hurt. BY the close of dinner
she is angry Each succeeding hour adds
fuel 10 the flame BY the time he ar
rives the accumulated wrath of seven or
eight hours awaits him. The hne ecorn
and splendid arguments are lost upon hlm
his brain is not in condition 10 receive
logic The only effect of the curtain lee
ture viii be retorts for which he is not
RESPONSIBLE but which will cause deep
wounds"
when Hubby Comes Home Late.
"And the High School way?"
"Help him to his room and make the
best of things. Then go TO sleep ana,
above all things, don't cry. If your hus-
band is waywards you will need all your
good looks. The next day he'll cal you
a trump and himself a brute You il tel
him not that you were angry, but lonely
time he's out he'll remember it. You can
do more next morning with ten words and
YOUR arms around him than by scolding
all night
The matrimonial schools would also
teach women that there must be some
thing more than sentiment in successful
married life There must be harmony OF
tastes and thoughts and inclinauons, and
this is easily cultivated. The happest
married people are they who have some
ding to do and to talk about besides SEN
timent. and the daily accounts There is
as much in the choosing of a eongenial
husband as there is in his management.
"Of course, ! do not contend that all
the duties should devolve upon the wife.
There should be training schools for hus-
bands, TOO, but l believe the most urgent
need is for the women's schools. Not be-
cause they are not already superior to
men, but because they WELD greater In
f1uence.
1T is through the women that the fire.
quency of divorce must be stopped, and 1t
is through them that marriage must be
recognized as a state of harmony
"Of course" concluded the disciple of
Hyman, "there are some people who could
never win diplomas; who could never be
trained and never be happy. They are
not the sort of clay that can be moulded
into any shape. They are looking for trou-
Bile, and the easiest way for such people
to find what they are looking for is to get
married"
Mrs. Williams says more nice things
about matrimony than any woman in ever
met, and the extraordinary point is that
she herself is married. For centuries we
have had old maids publishing books of
Hints to Young Wives" but 1t is quite
unusual for a woman who has been
through the mill" 10 have time and in
clination to offer her bewildered sisters
a set of applied principles for turning out
all wheat and no chaff.