The Pacific commercial advertiser., 1900-11-24

o hedrt, when tbo
ohn mnu,n clustered the parents, ann,
In,uhood, Isa have been tasanments Of
10, com1orted; and wban Thus W.
ps, r,s lao.her was added tba, 10 the lo,.ss
n,ass was still beside h,' vi his fats.a
biaspeo bls MS more firmly "ln; nm; her hss,
~ ne even more subtle ne, nef symps,s
ne couid still put his ca la suppOrtsE
Gnu leei that it was beat;n'o 70 her hess,
lor nun alone And Isaans lor hin AM
eu. On let us consecrato was eon,s,
the piace where light Is n ue hone
darhened lives, and wherap ~. back ,,.
ties, new hopes Ana ts
oiu marriage that Isaac .h W.T. IRON hi,
sears Ola when he led ReSoe'e ever fsr,y
n,arliage .hal altar People lieea iva a 10 hs
.hose Gays than they do non. longer h 4
DETER AFFORD putting off tho ", w. and could
. pelieVe IN early marriages "euuhig Tnig esy
10 promote morality. Deferro, lhey tend
are temptations to wickednoeeu Marriages
tie OF life is almost alwaTss The bat.
sihhlhS OF ones career. The at The be
man needs wedlock. Soo;a. Is that
nad way when two canno, NY in
than one; and young men arn n'e cheaper
ihlluences, who, when in tha Under under bad
ing OF life, and when they aro ,iy morn.
j teu tnan at any later period - Uel'er Fl.
getner with one who is their STOW %.
mate, are debarred from ra,,qual equal AMI
mere prudential reasons an, s,hs, frOn
and life are sacrificed IN tha ue heart
Is SAID that men who wait I'm mpo.Ne ~ l.
Iorty years OF age, select prudan,sS sn
Tor the wife who was NOT sra. Alas
heart! Prudence is good. hn, sWee;.
prudence? Is it simply tho ~, "nat Is
ton of the head leagued with ~ oaeuia,
Is there no prudence in tho inul' pOxs',
of a generous love? Is there no aspiration aploH
in the faith by which. voked t.uusAce ,.ce
two young persons go down in.s
struggle of life, saying, Come wsoS ut
woe, come storm, come calm lo,., Vne
match for circumstances. and wo ~ Z
all to each other?'' Woe he IN ,h,s "Hs
ETY. in which the customs and ,ha Mt
ners of the times put off, beyond ~ &
riod of romance, the wedding NJ
young man has got the idea into NJ
that he cannot afford to marry n NV
iduces the whole question To a sr,.
short division. He takes his income ' IN u
divides himself into il. and no tr5r sui ali
it goes once and nothing over Wb. may =
there nothing over? Because ,he aisi,'
lis so large. Let him exercise nttls oov
: mon sense and reduce his divisor ~.
him reduce his idea of living and ha Nm
find that it will go into his income ,,,.
with remainder over. The youny r,.
needs to be helped here bv the yonr.
woman. No young woman of sense VII,
expect that her young husband can !.
t will place her at the beginning of ,be,
! welded life where she was when she sa
Y her fathers house. She will he xnm,
: to grow up to that. And in this work N.
1 man will find the true wife real helm
: meet. In the language of the old Seo,rl
: lproverb she saves a quarter and earn
e Ianother quarter of the family neon,
Y lBleSSed indeed is that woman who Ioyin
|. and choosing, is won and chosen and xiv
: ling herself freely, romantically, II 70
: will God be thanked for the romance
= goes down to the level of her husband
e Inothingness and poverty, that she and
D may, with willing hands, from the hO
:, tom build up their estate. And THOUSAND
# of such women there are who, when ON
IS they are called, and know their maste
d love, go cheerfully out with the your
% man and take their part and lot vii
y him, led by love, fed by love, and al Ia
g, rewarded by love!
,e A woman who is not fit for poor mar
l. wife, as a rule, is not fit for any mar
l. wife, especially in land like AmeriC
II where no man knows how soon he M
1t be poor. But suppose he does wait IN
n he is forty and she thirty-tive, and th
c. marrieS the woman of his choice One
10 the first things she tells him is that
g. would have jumped at him ten years
g lif he had only said the word; she want
ne him to say it dreadfully, and il ant
aa broke her heart because he didn't 'e
No sad is the fate of that man VINO heas
lv voice in his Eden at twenty-five SyAe
ia Here is the woman have MADE y
IA thee" and replies. Il cannot hN N
NJ for ten or fifteen years yet" WAk
"a man is saving money, he Is wasting Y
nm The Registrar General of Scotland
CO recently shown from statistics tha' II
~ THE age of twenty to twenty-five
~ as many bachelors die as married ID
~: ii was startled when / read this al
ba risk I had run in remaining snge
,a long as I did. The average for ~
"a women was better, as it ought 10 o'
m Icause they are not the greatest siui
"a in this matter; they cannot always
-. as they like. And then after maries'
10 you would have a happy welded me
nv together and alone, if you have 70 ~
the desert for it, and feed on heFps' }
"a many there are who live in notes
"a boarding houses, because they are uh'
ling to take the house that they cSn
&C ford; and they cannot afford 70 '@he
W.. house that they fain would i've !"
~ cause furniture is SO dear ano u'e .
sn they move in requires certain am
"y lof appearance, you know. HOW 9I. Sl
a. drives men into extravagances! nv
ID drives them out of simplicity anu ~. =.
N a manly willingness to i've aOeO.
~ u to their circumstances! Ostenla','n
oe the place of honest reality anu =,
~, long, the man is educated 10 pe |" ~ :,
on and steals: and the woman tahss 'T. NJ ~
ne virtue, because that pays the p.io s.sr
lo- travagance quicker than any,n.ns q
ne But 1 have detained you TOO ions
lat DIV. God bless the husbands anJ
zen OF this community! God make 1nvn naao,
81 ed lives fountains of virtue anu "'''''
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