The Pascagoula democrat-star. (Pascagoula, Miss.) 1878-1920, 1900-04-20
BY MISS l.. d. BOBERrsON, ~ MOBILE.

Golfers Weekly, N. Y, Sept. IA. 1892.
M husband is invuInerable to love,
tact and common sense. He will yield
as surely to such Il crptor as the
needle does to the pole Let whosOevr
will test the following rules:
First, love him. Not with senti-
mental gush. but with that frank
trust that knows no suspicion-even
il YOU find the letter Of anOther's fair
hand In the packet which you are
lnending. 1t is likely an appeal for
charity or some INDECENT widow beg.
ving a position for her son. Nothing
makes a mans heart as obdurate as a
Wife's distrust.
Do not indulge In prying into his
affairs. II he does fool you little,
are you happier for detecting #? ii
lie still clings to bachelor days habits
of lingering out late at night, do not
indulge In tears and npbraidings.
Bestir yourself. II the sitting
rooms upholstery is too flne for him
to ioll upon, oyeit0ut! Place on the
center table a soft, glowing light.
Lay his favorite papers on the corner.
and especially never tear up hls
"latest." Set comfortable easy
chair, stripped of all jingling furbe-
loxs, close by. Putslippers and dress
ing gown in easy reach.
Appareled In a dainty, becoming
gown. await his coming as you used
to do as his sweetheart. Greet him
winsOmcly, however late the hour.
Honey entices bees; vinegar, never.
Such home comfort will So permeate
him through and through that there
after he will stride by all OF the al
lurements In town to get t., 1t and to
you. Then be c0mpaniOnable. Ii he
likes politics, metaphysics, the turf
or chess, and you do not, appropriate
some of that spare time, devoted to
novels in posting yourself. Study like
you use to do your Latin IT, avoid be.
Ing "kept In" II you desire to keep
him In" just chat upon his "hobby"
with him, and you will have no trou-
BILE 1t al..
II yeu wish him to spend his even.
ings at home with you, d. not save all
Of your graces and smiles for outsiders
and deluge him, like shOwerbath,
with complaints and household tribu.
lations a. soon as he comes In from the
days business cares. You will soon
be spending them 'al0ne," for he will
remain out late hoping to fnd your
tongue stilled In slumber on his return.
II he Is a huntsman, d0 not plant
the entire back yard In flowers, and
then say there Ia no place for dog.
Humor his fads Of fishing and bird.
hunting II you want tn keep him from
hunting worse amusements. To pre-.
vent his eyes from ever turning IN
seek beauty and grace In other women,
make yourself as sweet and attractive
looking at home as lies within your
power. Remember how much care
and thought you used to spend to win
his heart; now exercise some OF 1t III
keep that heart.
Live within his income however
small, and you can always readily vet
money out Of him. Never make bills
that he cannot pay, and he will always
be agreeable, genial and loving.
Do mot become extremely affection
ate when you want something-he will
soon learn the trick. Ask frankly
The shy tremnr iu your Voice will new
er meet REFUSAL.
When he comes In with brow stern
and lowering, do not imagine that III
does not 1--we you, aud seek solitude u
cry about II. Something IL the mat
ter. Maybe u 10 . desperate crisis
Adroitly decoy him Into conversation
upon I pleasant topic. He Will 40 N
" hide the conflict within.