The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1899-12-17
GETTING ON IN SOCIETY.
SOME or THE EASY WAYS IN WINCH
IT rs ItCOMPLIsBED.


ci.,y onJ hor .yea ,rcre wa deripp doun m iat
~ nance .i,,, tho interest met stronrera en- oten
sbo,, In ,ho .cc,u,,. they read of tho rr.o, doing.
~ snr,. Now ynrLcra Her e,pressio, hc,,.vod
t,mili,,;,,. with ,h.p albouph 1, was only ,h.
ro r,os I'D mo-, ,hci, owners iba, shc L,cv ,t,e,
a ,n,r,.n, .h, nous.d "put these ,,co,l,, oh.
soid. mentioning n n,mc. 81 SEQ thev wsre at
Tho Ior,.o.,s dir,.r II,u 1, tho vo,,J did ,hov
rc, i,g sh, ,.us.d ,or nm ,pa,x.r and IN, Man
~ ia, wo,,d t.i, hat A.. had 4, saw .,r,o,hi,o
How did ib,v Get ing' he rcneo,ct ,f,e, bc,
"Itoy doca ,pvbody yet i'm
"rbat il WIN, | do not know" s,e .,awe,cd
"D,,, 60, understand what m.o,o when
, p.,a,p has 4, v,.,, deal of money and oom,a
~ an old family ar brings letters NJ i,,roduc,o,
from other cities i, il ensy enough to o., that
he should he inyit,,l ali about and bc among
In, most ,ops,,ruo,s ps,p,. in s,,;.,y an,
,rcs, ro,,,o mr.. rc,fec,,y ,,,d;no,v s.w no,
'hcSe people arc per'ec'y ordinary "a" het
once at the theatre AMI she was not even bcauu
full know I, was she because woman sitting
o"in" wv 'n'" .,''' VOC on" 'a''' NV W
her first name. She said, too. that It was aston
yn,n Sh. 10 ,,,h.h,y .,,rsc,ivo md h,,gb,
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w Sm' .",s a,"u '' .o Tvs" ' ,na ,".. ,ss,
III, oil, ~, ,,l.d 81, ,,,,,, hs, s,c.,v"
pnpw WV w 20" !" '"'o. Nv
What an awful lot OF struggling ana pushing
and wire pulling u must take" persisted the limo
60, o.. ,ra,,., III. ,hn, Ia coma h,,, .
cen" ior woman 'h' ''a' " '",no "c'o
stranger and manage 10 make herSH popular
In such SCI, don't believe II is worth the while
.,o, - 4, Il. mir, ,n hc ,,or,d nil IN. Tim. With
Just tho pcopl" that are IN the public eye and
arc always talked about and written about and
seem al 'he Top "' everything WIN Al, "s Mrug
CLING there must he some COMPENSATION Tor u
after while"
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~" ""'' "o ""''u 'u'h'" "" '"~'N
seriously a, the Innocent lie seemed on the
Iii -, 80 ,,.,n' ~
e'" "oS'i w" '" ''au'hE N'e "s' VI ""o> VIC
he started TO speak and restrained himself, but
at the third time his voice was solemn do yuu
t..i m. h..,,n,, I.c,,,,.,- no ..l.d
'"' INC nearing V''u''' u, "ss
talking about, Yes putting the paper down. IF
4, 4. ,,,.,,.,,,.-
Is 'h'ies,ink
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certain subjects 10 realize that IL is bound W be
instructive to you So think will begin now
without passing ON 'he subject Of its interest.
gave II once several years ago TO woman who
sent to nsk me some questions about an article
she had Ius' "r",en We" 10Th So''e'y was inc
subject her paper dealt with and shc ought to have
known better than ~ writ. what she did nvns
a. -, a, - . =, =, ~.
Ih'cu WIN 'ne ous'"'nnS accounts W inc hear'-
burmnRs and bitterness experienced by persons
struppine 10 &c, into the M rtcuIAr set Nh which
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'hey hao SCI 'neh hrhf's hu"oh on INC amoun'
OF money demanded. on the length and authen-
,ici,v nf IN, pcdivree IN, hid To noas .ss and nj,
:, -, - ,,I., !,
'be uemehuous h'ulaai'S' DECENTRALIZATION and
heartessncss Of the life that women in society
or those STRUGGLING To &c, into what they consid-
cred socie'y are oompeiIed 10 iehd' she read me
the article and asked me what thought OF IL
I was the authority she had selected, because a
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lohS cNPefIch'" nhu tnade III" ihuiliar WIN What
New York society II made up OF. had seen IL
g,,x from, , small b,dv in which .,c,v r,.,,h.,
80 "''''
khc" 'he "'het anu 'ooN ms pleasures simply
and modestly, up to the great luxurious wealthy
.l.h,,.t. h,dx tbs, a ~ today An., .h. h "A
~, mo - ~a'' ,"' Sno n"u
READ hef afucie 10 me could ieci 'he expression
in my face showed that disagreed with It,
This xomn, uns horn and by.d Il, NJ yo,L
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nan n.ed w r.ut9ic par, OF het iis ana was known
70 most q VIC scl ,n New o'k that rs com monty
u .,, S o. SS INC nnrou'aey o. hei
N,CM' WIS ny caHS v" af'uuh' IoI, .Nnu eh'
planed y on 'hs giound thHi devotion to The edn.
ChUoh oi ntr 'niu'cn hau kcp' net from iehily
| seeing much Ut the world In which she lived