Deseret evening news. [volume] (Great Salt Lake City [Utah]) 1867-1920, 1899-11-25

10 tell his wife how much more cul.
tiyated and learned the American wo-
man Is than the American man.
I'm going TO have him smile politely
at the assumption that the belonging
20 browning handbook club OF an
Ibscn study class means real culture
My hero shall sit calmly by and hear
women whose one aim In life IL to
outshlno their friends talk about hlrh
ideals and noble standards.
My hero IL going to hear himself and
his ways and his thoughts and his
habits and his ideals criticised and yiu-
dictivcly attacked. In large and en-
thusiastic conventions To which the
woman he supports In ease aud luxury
" q delegate.
Hes going to look At the woman he
loves and say. "Ah. we'll, she doesn't
mean It. bless her heart" when she has
held him and all his tribe and follow
Ing W to scorn and obloquy because
he forgot to mail letter telling the ash
man To come nj 6 o'clock Instead u nt
l.ii.
He's going TO stop In the mIds, NJ a
crowded busy, hurrying. dlatrscting
day. day fpcnt In hard nrht Tor a
few more dollars for hcr-tn match a
sample NJ shop. 80 ~ 60 give her
time 20 go to the club ana discuss her
shameful subsection.
Hes going L. como home DO tired that
h. can scarcely hold hls head up. 10
tirsd that VI u were not for the woman
and her children. there at home. be-
would wish he could lc down H1me-
where. whore h. could hear the trees
rustlirr and sleep away HI llie-and
hos going TO swallow u hasty dinner
ard force himself into 70 dfsss suit to
'fu. Ia u afuuld reception, Just because
she wants him Co take her there.
He's going to-but I can't tell II all
hera-t viii take n book to DO 70.
Look Ut the man you hrpwbeat my
rnnd ilcHiIHtlc. weil-mcaning woman
io1i nt him with all his folllrs and all
his faults.
Think " him when he's cross be-
tuuf. sou want him to ask his way
somewhere. and he'd rath'r die with
hia masculine conceit upon him than
60 acknowledge that he doesn't know
every thlug-cNen tho street De cannot
IND
Ilomomhor him when ho has little
cold. ana gets ~ scared o. death over
tho least pain that he wants To send
for the doctor. and make hls VIII i'm
mciintcly call to mind his deadly de-
vouon TO his hat. hi queer cling
INK Co strange hours Tor eating his way
% wanting to know why you can't make
n $50 gown look as well ns 800 one
the woman across the way has.
ntng TO your mind al his strange
Intolerance which makes him hate In "a
woman tho very faults he Induces In
her think ~ him at his worst. bis very
worHt-Rnd then consider u litiiy-ian't
u wondefiui--not that there are pa
man. bad men, but that thoro are "a
many good unoaf
Put yourself In his placc-iust r. min
| ute-lust n little, generous, honest. fair
| minded miuutc--cOuld you beat the bur.
den he carries onc-half as wcll ~ h,
| bears ~
Gould you grind, grind. grind. ut IN,
/ money. making mill. slck or we'll houe'
/ ful or Discouraged. rain or shine. lovyt
~ unloVcd. ns he does, and make ai
good a face of cheer and happiness
| over ~
Women have their wrongs and thci
soffows, only woman who has ful
the knife In her own heart knows how
dcep and how aFonlzing woman
pain can be,
Women have their cares. their ankle
ties their responsibilities. 30 crcatur
who lives can deny that.
Mcu have their faults. Erlevouz an
hard for the women Who love them I
bear. No man lives who VIII oven tr
to deny that.
Men do not claim the privileges Z
omniscienco.
That Is a distinctly feminine trait.