The Jersey City news. (Jersey City [N.J.]) 1889-1906, 1899-07-22

In Woman's World.


| essary, so that evaporation may con-
stantly go on. If from any cause butter
becomes rancid melt it over the fire and
to every pint of iquefied butter add a
pint of cold water In which has been
mixed a teaspoonful of soda and a tables
spoonful of salt. Mix well, let 1t boil over
the fire, and then put it away in a cool
place. When perfectly cold the butter
can be removed in a hard cake, and can
be put away for cooking purposes.
OIL can be prevented from becoming
rancid, if It is of good quality in the first
/ place. Two or three tablespoonfuls Of ta-
BILE salt should be added to every quart
bottle of oil, and the bottles should be
left uncorked, being shaken occasionally.
;
| In the family there is the constant
! contact, and relations are necessarily 50
intimate that unless the temperaments
/ of the members are compatible there
may be discomfort in the constant close
contact alone, for which no party is at
fault. Under this condition slight occa-
sions for vexation or disturbed temper
may induce sharp conflict or agitation
of feeling. This is apt to be the fact
with children of parents who are not
well adapted temperamentally.
Friendships of any depth and strength
of affection are not apt to spring IN
between persons of incompatible tenn
peraments. Often, too, we may highly
esteem a person for sterling qualities,
while we are well aware that we would
not enjoy the constant close familiar life
of the family with them. This is simply
a matter of congeniality of tempera-
nj rrba1 ~ - narhon r col7aYu that
/ the children in a family are trained to
such manners toward each other to tend
to preserve a state of mutual respect and
courtesy, the same as they are taught to
observe in regard to other people.
The closer the relation the more care
full it is necessary to be to avoid what
| will pain, disturb, or in any way make
| uncomfortable those with whom we are
associated. Familiarity should not breed
! contempt of good manners. 1t ought TO
be held a misdemeanor that brothers and
sisters should allow themselves to be
lass careful to avoid offending or hurting
| each other than outside persons.
The more in~terdependent the relation,
as in the family, the more should the
unruly member be ~zealously guarded
from the bluntness or sharpness nat
may hurt, and the conduct from in
trusive offending. What courtesy. dis
| erection and kindly consideration would
| withhold to avoid offense to other peo-
Pile is much more incumbent upon the
members of the constantly associated
family.
yul p9qousIp pBq Gus PIES eYzltARD .sIN
Another source of inharmony and some
times of very serious suffering is the ty-
ranny Of love. Many times the solitude Of
| affection becomes despotic. It's very try
ing to be sure that one very dear to us
| should choose a course that to us seems
unwise and perhaps p~erilous. But the
first consideration in all social relations
and friendships should be to respect indi-
viduality and the rightfuI freedom of
every human soul.
Through love we may suffer the keenest
pain as we'll as the highest joy. But love
beareth all things and endureth all things,
and suffers rathe than inf1icts suffering
only possible spirit which can preserve
harmony in the home. If the members
Of the family, when they are sufficiently
mature to understand. nd they are incom-
patible, the only remedy is to seek
harmony by practicing the two bears,
bear and forbear.
scarce a village is too small for public
buildings for education, for the admins
tration Of the law, for religious instruc-
ton and for amusementss but how many
are the towns that can show a hospital?'
asks Helen C. Candee in the July WON
ans Home Companion" writing Of the
Need Of Town Hospitals and telling
how to start one. Matters are very well
for the sick in comfortable homes, where
the invalid is given a room, is nursed by
the most efficient member of the family,
and attended by the best physicians. But
how is it with the ignorant poor who live
in crowded cottages, whose attendants
know nothing of hygiene. and who wait
too long before seeking the services of q
doctor, reading the expense thereof?
These are the people whom it IS a delight
toshelp. and whom the hospital most bene-
fits. There is, however, a growing inclin-
alton on the part of well-to-do people TO
seek hospital treatment for surgery and
certain kinds of illness. This makes II
advisable to fit up one or two private
rooms for such patients as wish to occupy
them. Patients of this kind may. and
generally dO, pfOVlue tuelI VWA piiNdtC
nurse, but In addition pay generously, and
are a welcome source of income to a
hospital. 1t is to be reckoned that TWEEN
ty per cent. of the expenditures are to be
gained from patients, for the hospital can
be free only for those who are absolutely
unable to pay. The remainder must be
raised. and this is where the feeling OF
public spirit blends with the feeling of
universal brotherhood, and the hospital
will come to be supported because the
town is proud of it.
ssThere is one more point in favor of the
hospital in small towns. its benefit to the
physicians. Although their services are
free to the institution-except In the case
Of patients in private rooms. who are
able to pay for treatment-they are helped
by enlarged experience, and by association
with the famous DOCTORS who from time
to time are called from large cities for an
operation or a consultation"
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MANY women, unwilling of a complex
sympathetic nervous system and of an
tract OF Involuntary muscle tis-
sue" says DR.. Arabella Kenealy. .con-
scientiously believe and sc%rupulously act
upon the belief that in pushing their mus
Gle powers to an extreme they are indi
rectly developing the potential limbs of
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