The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1899-05-21
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han through drink, says Dorothy
tNf t,a New Orleans Picayune. More
t,Iled by GOODNESS and neglect than
orsb treachery. A man oftener WOUNDS
tics feelings through careiessness
.,rough brutality. The dear, bfunder-
ga, ,-,,,7r goes along, trampling down the
aovers that bloom in woman's
~, INST through sheer stupidity and In
lines out of ten it is his mothers
p1. because she didn't teach him the
IS he ought to have known.
nI believe that it Is just as much every
.r,sn,s duty to train her sons to be good
'..n.nds as it is their fathers to teach
some honest business, and il seems
that nowhere else in our whole lives
fau as signally in our obligations to
t..r women as right here. We know, as
..-,,inlv as we can know anything IN
,,. world. that when our children are
-,,7,r they are going to get married, yet
,eat il as If it were such remote
.,ntingency there was no use in preparing
The result Is a boomerang that
,,es hack and Stays us. foist my
fer
ola thing on earth about housekeeping or
5.r,ssfic science or anything that goes to
.so ordering, and upbuilding of a happy
and prosperous home, on your son, who is
inst as ignorant, and untaught, and undis-
o,nIired in everything that goes to his part
of The contract. and then we mothers, who
wand give our hearts blood to save them
sirgla pang. must stand aside and look
,,sIrla.slv on while they founder, and
sometimes perish in the quicksands of
married life And, oh! the pity of 1t; all
tho time there was a safe way around the
danger. If only we who have been over the
road before them had taken the trouble TO
show them the path.
DThe mistake we make in married life
is in depending on inspiration, instead of
n-eparation. 1t is undoubtedly true that
4 every now and then we are inspired TO do
A the right thing the kind thing, the low
ing thing, just as every now and then we
4 feel particularly in the humor, for doing
4 biz days work; but If we only labored
on the occasions when we felt a special
4 Inspiration We should starve to death in
the between times, and il is even so in
4 married life Many and many a womans
4 mode exhibitions of her husbands affec-
ton. What makes for prosperity and hap
piness is the even, sustained, everyday at
tenton TO business, in love as well as
a work.
Il suppose there has always got to be
"A different point of view in the way a man
looks al his duty to his wife and the way
4 she looks at it. If a man provides his wife
with good home, and pays her bills with
I'M.
siders that he has done his full duty to
her and that she is an unreasonable crank
If she wants anything else. Moreover, ne
H considers, as a general thing, that that
gives him liberty to do as he pleases at
home and 10 dump on his family all the
bad temper and bad manners that the rest
OF the world would send him to Coventry
for if he displayed them in public. What
the woman wants is fove-not love that is
taken for granted-but that assures her
daily and hourly of its existence in words
n ana caresses, she wants sympathy and I'M
4 Outstanding, and ii man will give her
these she viii let him starve her, and beat
her and misJreat her, and yet folow~him
. through the world as hunbly and loyalty
as dog follows his master.
d can tell you one thing, and that is if
the women ever have a hand in making the
laws there win be a mighty shaking up
N Oh the things for which divorces are grant
e. and about the chief indictment on the
docket will be for guinness and sullen-
n ness. Personally, and believe ninety-nine
women out of a hundred will agree with
me would rather be married to a man
VINO came home raving drunk once
month and save me a good beating, and
was pleasant and agreeable the rest of the
tine than to one of the impeccable saints
We all know, who sit up in the amen cor
her at church and lead the temperance
IaAy' and who, S65 days in the year, show
tneir Iamhles nothing but face so sour
auu gum 1t curdles every particle of the
milk of human kindness in the ueighbor-
heod.
among the very prettiest gowns are the
an-"hlte 1t is a fad this year. says Har-
yer bazar, to wear all white or all black,
ana consequently there have been a great