The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1898-06-12
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Woman lie instinctively Jealous. Man is. too,
but he won't acknowledge It, and rarely shows
H. Indeed. he speaks Of jealousy ns one of
Woman's few base and roprehensible traits, and
declares that IL is at the bottom Of more misery
than the devil himself. There's one man In this
city who doesn't think that way. He is a ply
OiolHn with n largo practice among the very rich
and the very poor. He ought to know what he
y talking about, for he has seen much jealousy
tn his time and watched It's physical and pSy-
Geological effect.
IT don't know what to do about Polly" q
0otinP mother said to him recently. "She has
the most Jealous disposition I've ever known;
not %envious, mind you. but jealous. She is as
generous and loving az she can be, and is al
ways glad to SEQ other people get what they
want, but she 10 jealous Of the affections of
those she loves. It 10 such n hateful trait, and
I'm sure Idon't know whore she gets 1t, unless
from her fathers side, for nobody in my family
was ever Jealous. I wish you'd tell me how to
Obliterate this dcspicable passion in her."
Jealousy isn't a despicable passion" an
gwered tho doctor calmly. land you mustn't
think of trying 10 eliminate It from your daugh-
Ssr's nature. Jealousy has q distinct beneficial
value, not only on womankind but mankind.
The thing for you to do is to teach your dauRh-
~ 10 COuLEOl tulI phbhlOus II " hllON u v
control her. as she must do. Judging from what
you have told mo. What are her symptoms Z"
any different from those Of Eve girls out
Often." answered the mother; but I do not like
them. all the same. Polly can't bear to have
any one she cares for show another person any
attention. She is Jealous II her father caresses
enc Of tho other children a wee bit more than he
does her, she is Jealous II I see a great deal of
any one Of my friends, she gets furious II her
hr0fhar nava nnnna GIRL oyar n CaFtain aTnnOnt 0f
attention. she is angry II her sister goes out
with another girl, and she fumes and frets her
self into q fever IL her fance. who is absolutely
devoted to her. 90 much as mentions another
girl. especially II 1t happens to be ono that he is
fond OF. Really, the girls health is being at-
fected. I believe and I know her disposition is.
she 10 nsrvous. irritable. sulky, moody and what
not, and. altogether, is becoming quite unbeara-
BILE. Now. what am 1 to dot"
81 thought So" said tho doctor. i've had
lots OF cases like that. Jealousy. which I hold 10
q ino thing In itself, has the upper hand of
Polly. and you must help her to get the upper
hand OF 1t. She must do this through her will.
1t is a great mistake to suppose that we must
surrender our will to come out OF darkness into
light. You know it is only through will that
any progress can be made. for growth 10 through
desire. and desire is the expression OF will. You
may wonder what this has to do with jealousy,
but you'll see In a minute. Will Is a divine in.
heritance given to us 40 that we may overcome
our passions. and love 10 absolutely the only
source OF will. Passions mastered are use.
full ana obedient slaves: uncontrolled they
Expresses itssit. In the body and that's
the reason ,Polly's health Is being under.
tinuos to fostSr It she will drive 4 her lance and
dfi' natu Hl that that t ons?. hs family Il Is can't q Ti'G r pttoS H%s9.
Many n man y driven away from homo. driven
woman, on account Of the insane and unreaSon%.
PIE Jealousy Ct hts wife; In such 1n ga eases the wife
II she makes jeaiousy her slave she can eSaini
husband. family and friends to her. especially tho
"Why. what do you mean r. interrupted the
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3, %siR'p9tInG 2 LITTLE swestnssS e one ), KIND here re and
shows a proper amount of jealousy. she can bind
him 70 her and deter this amusing but no.
married women. so much 6orated BY their own
sssi sSSs m s%s to to hiSs ess T tSsy ssaI %er Iot tsp ,st to
ali the b~ugaboos Of tho hereafter ever presented
from P ~ Ss9 fsa,9 Inlp iss;,D WS sSa has = woman nn1. !.
FL w3s dps.nt She shSS can aS UsS Il to 6s d e %s,s : man nun gp;
great mistake in surprising that the way to a
man'sheart 10 through his stomach; It'll through
his vanity. The average man Is immensely
pleased when any woman in whom be is interest
edgives evidence of Jealousy. preSyidsd she doesit
as you say your daughter docs, for those things
man makes a bad mistake TO DO anything or in
dulGe in any emotion that lessenS her beauty.
is Jealous. and q man knocks under at once"
but how can teach my girl to do thatf'
deal %1n .b bossnfhs eEyss siHf.alos ssid Ro tho d tSiRE. a f FFSns
dESnhIy and ShoI lGvi t ; sSdv tfSn s1 Q byw to .G yOGi, |,
making herself and every, one around her miser
able b giving way to this passion, bqt At tn:
taGe., Til her that when Jealousy rules . wo
Ss!ititlinG,' Tsso5 her hat she can sSnq %Ss
e fsar T I%pe:si6le. and MAJ thapt sFiiffes she s0T loves s'P tSess
have no fosrif they chance to show affection fol
another than herself. Parents mako such
that master their children. in groaninE and say
inR that It IL the Old Adam in them and can
to human beings Is a positive beneht to tho race
II mastered. and probably most Of all the pas
Bions this emotion OF jealousy
Blue 10 certainly the predominatlng color II
woman's dress from tho crown of her head Il
tho SoleS Of her feet. The very newest stock
ings are a brilliant Yale blue with lace stripes
ana arc emoroloereu IN reu' yelio"' OF "hlLe
preferably the latter. They come from Parii
arc made OF the finest silk. and are worn wit
tans or black patent leather shoes. There |
only one objection To blue s~tockinRs-they fade
Unless q woman has a very largo income sh
must lGuDder them herself or supervise 1t /
keep them looking Mt NIL presentable for even
short time. The patriotic stocking Is. ais
selling like hot cakes and is designed 70
country wear with white pique and duck suits
It 10 striped in red and white half way up tn
log. and has a blue. top embellisbed with whit
stars. 1t 10 astonishing to see the number Q
refined looking. carefully dressed women pul
chasing such hosiery. for surely only a wonla
of hopelessly bad taste. would trample on tn
nag OF her country. A very pretty stocking
just over from Paris has q blue openwork foe
and calf. and a top striped In red, yellow. gree
and dark blue. Women with large ankle
should stick TO black stockings. Nothing ~
centuHtes bad lines and prominent bones q
these bright hues do.