The Wheeling daily intelligencer. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1865-1903, 1898-01-06

And Win and Harry. az tho row,
Call: "Shat's the matter with him HOWL
Ar;a I'm walked UP at AL the clatier
Such uproar In tho house no mnRep,
Sihen baby wakes.
SO II asleep. or it awake.
Thri hotse exists but for his sake,
And such u tiny fellow-he,
TO be boss OF this family.
Eva Lovett In The Independent.
Lucy A. Hayes. IN New York Times:
What IS born and bred In a mar
sticks to him." Is a saying more Wise
than elegant. We have all met The wo-
woman, costly attired. itowery OF
speech, genial OF manner. YET lacking
the essential charm of o lady-;hat
charm which can no more be analysed
and described than can the scent %
the rose, but whlci, we fee, through all
our beiag when we are in the presence
OF Its owner. be she talking or silent.
grave or gav. II IS born and bredin her.
II is, cot put ~ with her evening
gown or laid aside with the same Tits
lthe manly tenderness OF her father and
the womanly grace and virtue Other
mother blended with the daughters life
current--it Is her home education.
The ,smilc, the graceful .acl!nation.tae
sweet sollcitude OF a%aother.s comfort,
the quick eye and the firm, gentle hand
are all part o: herself. seen by her with
baby eyes, learned unconsclously, and
therefore never TO be forgotten. She Is
as different from her nelgabor Lady
Show as the rose Is from the dandel!on.
Some like dandelioas. Ali love the
roses.
Lldy Show is lova6!e. too. but she
shows her carlg training. She is lovabia
because she does mo-, try 10 conceal her
earir t%.aGsinS. thereby becoming stu
and rrnatura, and didactic and ho:r:i.
As with wom.E. go With men. We all
Know the selt-important little mar with
the large yisitinH card and the stu lar-
ger display OF "gopd form, don't you
know" He tells US that he Is SELF
made" He is wealthy and at the top
OF the ladder. else. be sure we would
not tolerate him for one minute, This
energyIIs to be commended. Nothing
succeeds like success Yet We shrink
from him. We remember the poo. fsl-
lows, the good fellows. whom lie jos
tied and crushed down and stamped on
before lie reached the toy OF the lad
der. We do not want our SORE to be.
Ike the little man In aught save his
success. This little man has had a sell
fish. brutal father and a %rat.ent. hard
wording mother. Selishness and pa
tient .oiling were born and bred IN
him. His early education at home was
rude and incomplete. He Is not TO be
blamed too much that he has no fine
feeling nov
Next comes Lord Show. stout, horld.
gool-ratured, good-hear,ed. all s,eS-
cept a gentleman. He is !ovable. too.
but he shows his early training. His
father was 4 country gentleman OF
-easy-Eo!ng habits who married a third
rate actress while he was under the in
nuence OF wine. He knew none o. ,Ss
Sweetness OF a refined home life. He Is
0 10 be blamed too much.
Aloug comes a gentleman, He has
not walked over any one to get on fas-
ter himself, and he shows It In the
easy grace and dignity OF his bearing.
IN! the kind glance OF his eye as well as
In his pleasant voice aud reverence for
women, be they worthy or not. The
gentleman was born and bred among
sweet, good women. He cannot bear
to think that they are not all angels.
His father was a man OF noble ain In
life-his mother. well, she was your and
my ideal lady. What is born and
bred in n man sticks TO him." The cdu-
cation OF the home, Is !ndellbly stamped
on the children OF the home. The home
mas not be rich In costly furniture, but
II should be Immediately clean. and
beauty OF hampers and beautiful
thoughts and words and actions. and
beautiful daily living should all. be
the-e.
II the best china Is not used every
day, how a you expect your sors and
daughters to handle china gracefully by
and by?If1thc parlors be mt used ev-
cry day, how can you expect Vour chill
dren 20 b cSeasy IN parlors by and by?
Men are only boys grown tall" They
keep their boyhood The finest
things ots,earth ore not Zoo nne for
home use. The sweetest behavior In the
world is rot too good for home use-for