Wheeling Sunday register. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1882-1934, 1898-04-10

she says fellow doesn't understand
the little things
Mrs. Burton dropped back in her
chair.
OH she said with an air of COM
plete understanding. Then she leaned
over and patted a cushion for him,
and pushed the smoking tabaret where
he could reach it, There was never a
woman who didn't enjoy talking about
J small .y,OI> a. Ont'+ ha, you?''
she said wit arscTpathy "Oh, well,
vcu mustn't give up. I've known scores
atterns,'3 like that. She'll probably
Siih-.' after awhile that none of the
men does the little things. and then
you will stand as good a chance as any
one"
But | want to learn to do them,
he said very humbly. The little wo-
man looked at him speculatively.
1T isn't in most men" she said
They couldn't do them if they had a
diagram. When one of them does
know by instinct he the most splendid
lover in the world; but, if | hadn't me-
Tom, I'd have gone to my grave think
ing such lovers didn't exist outside of
books Now, in the first place, you
must think all the world of the girl.
But | do" murmurs the attentive
young man on the divan
Perhaps you do; but most men
don't. They think a good deal more OF
their own comfort, and they haven't
any idea of being really selfish. How
ever, we'll say that you do love her
enough The next thing is to show
her that you do"
The lover looked injured. Just
didn't r. he protested Il spent every
cent | had on her
YES. that's all man thinks neces-
sary," the mentor said, with fine con-
tempt. 'Of course, girls do like that;
but it isn't the essential thing. The
little things
The listener groaned dismally
But wait" she went on. I'm just
going to tell you about those little
things"
He sat ND and looked resolute.
1T isn't easy to explain she SAID,
thoughtfully. but may be | can give
you some idea. A girl loves to feel
that she is absolutely necessary to her
sweetheart; that nothing else pushes
her aside for a moment. IL he goes
out with her he must not lose sight
of her. He must know she is having
a good time. If she is left alone Tor an
instant he ought to be there. II she
seems bored by some one he must
rescue her. If her bouquet or fan is
missing he must be the one who no.
tees it and finds it. When she looks
his way. When she looks his way he
must meet her eyes. He must make
her feel that she isn't thoroughly con-
scious that there is any one on earth
save her. He needn't be cringing,
Women like manly man. but they
love to be loved If a girl is tired or
doesn't feel we'll, the lover should
know it, and show her that he knows.
Why. my dear Tom always knew every
time a shadow crossed my face, and
felt nv headaches before | knew | had
them. A man doesn't remember his
sweetheart's whims and tastes, nor
the things she says. If she has ever
said she loved a certain waltz or a
flower. that ought to be enough to
make him associate it with her. IT
she has ever said she liked certain
dishes. he shouldn't need to consult
her when he orders a luncheon. Any
thing that concerns her comfort should
be of such vital Importance to him
that he couldn't forget it. Do you
like Wagner?
The change was trifle brusque, but
the learner admitted that he didn't ike
no did
9Well, if were man, and my