The Wilmington daily Republican. (Wilmington, Del.) 1890-1902, 1898-10-24

thence and perhaps having been miSin-
formed of the ohild's doings, found out
his mistake, and In the evening of the
Same day gathered all bis family together
and said: Now, have ono explanation
to make and one thing to say. Thomas,
this morning rcbuked you very unfairly.
am very sorry for 1t. l rehuked you In
the presence of tho whole family, and now
/ ask your forgiveness In their presence
1t must have. taken some courage to do
that. It,was right, was 1t not9 Never DO
ashamed to apologize for domestic inaccu-
racy. Find out the points, what are the
weak points, II may call them so, Of your
companion and then stand aloof from
them DO not carry the fire Of your tenn
per too near the gunpowder II the wife
bo easily fretted by disorder in. the house.
hold, let the husband be caref,& where he
throws his slippers If the husband come
home from the store with his patience OK
hausted, do not let the wife unnecessarily
| cross his temper, but both stand up for
your rights, and will promise the ever
lasting sound Of the warwhoop. Your life
will be spent In making up, and marriage
will BIZ to you an unmitigated curse. Cow
per said:
Tho kindest and the happiest pair
Will find occasion to forbear
And something, every day they live.
To pity and perhaps forgive.
advise also that you make your chief
pleasure circle around about that homo.
1t is unfortunate when 1t Is otherwise II
the husband spend the most of his nights
away from home, Of choice and not Of
necessity, he is not the head Of the house,
hold; he is only the cashier. II the wife
throw the cares of the household into the
servants lap and then spend five nights
Of the week at the opera or theater, she
may clothe her children with satins and
laces and ribbons that would oonfound
French milliner, but they are orphans. 1t
Ia sad when child has no one to say its
prayers to because mother has gono off to
the evening entertainment In India they
bring children and throw them to tho
crocodiles, and 1t seems very oruel but
the jaws of social dissipation are swallow
ing down more little children today than
all the monsters that ever crawled upon
the banks Of the Gangesl
Goddess Firesides.
I have seen the sorrow of goddess
mother on the death Of child sho had
neglected. 1t was not so much grief that
she felt from the fact that the child was
dead az the fact that she had neglected 1t.
She said, II had only watched over and
cared for the child, know God would not
have taken It," The tears came not. 1t
was dry, blistering tempest-a scorch-
Ing SIMEON of the desert. When she wrung |
her hands, it seemed as If she would twist |
her fingers from their sockets; when she |
seized her hair, 1t seemed as If she had in |
wild terror grasped u coiling serpent with
her right hand. No tears Comrades Of
tho little one came in and wept over the
coffin, neighbors came in, and the mo-
ment they saw the still face of the child
the shower broke. No tears for her. God
gives tears as tho summer rain to the
parched soul, but in all tho universe tho
driest and hottest, the most scorching and
consuming thing Is mothers heart II she
has neglected her child, when once it Is
dead. God may forgive her, but she will
never forgive herself The memory will
sink tho eyes deeper into the sockets and
pinch tho face and whiten tho hair and
cat up tho heart with vultures that will
not be satisfied forever plunging deeper
their iron beaks. Oh, you wanderers from
your home, go back to your duty The
brightest flowers In all the earth are those
which grow In the garden of Christian
household, clambering over tho porch of
Christian home.
l advise you also to cultivate sympathy
of occupation. Sir James Mcintosh, one
of the most eminent and elegant men that
ever lived, while standing at the very
height Of his eminence, said to a great
company Of scholars, "My wife made me-"
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hand, the husband ought to be- sympa-
thetic with the wife's occupation II ia
no easy thina to keen house. MANY n wo-
man who could hive endured martyrdom
as we'll AS Margaret. the Scotch GIRL has
actually been worn out by house manage.
ment.
Kitchen Martyrs.
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r. ia verv annov,nn aftor tho rovationsni
tbe dav around tha s.ovo Nv ,ba ran,stnn w
the tablo ~ in Tho ,,,,rSor,, Nv 1ar,or ~
have tho husband sov. W., l,a,, nn+h
in. about tro,,hlo Won o,,,ht t, Nv T.,
tbe store half an ham, Synratbv ~
II IN, husband = ,ynrt covor
hin, rgitb tho cont ~ Tho furnace ~ H.
,lors Of leather ur soan factories lat not
be wife hs oosilv Sisa,,etod NJ tho ha
,ri,,od hands or ,,,soyoru oro,no vo,,,
,,jno aro ono ro,r i,,torasts arn o',o ro''.
osses aro onn Ia Inv hoid of tha INV ,nos yon ~
ise with bo.h bonds To,;r bsnJs to naht
he batt,ss. fomr evos ~ w"toh Tow e shs
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luslc. 10 Is very sad thing when wife
NOT suited unless her husband has what =
called q genteel business. 30 lar as /
nderstand 'genteel business, 1t Is q
,methlng TO which man goes at 10 y
CLOCK IN the morning ana from which 4