The Jersey City news. (Jersey City [N.J.]) 1889-1906, 1898-08-13

In W0man'S World.
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Of doing it. Care in dress argues a cer-
tain respect for ones self, and people are
very prone to take you at your own esti-
mate. The well dressed woman aims to
have all things in her toilet harmonious,
having no one feature conspicuous. You
know at a glance she is well gotten up,
and yet no one particular thing claims
your attention. She does not put on all
sorts of incongruous combinations. nor is
she ever over dressed. To be understood
is always more eommendable and safer
than TO be over dressed"
One of the hardships Of life is the fact
that we have to bear so many unneces-
sary unpleasantnessses and are the vic
Tins Of SO many proftless and useless
tragedies, that are none the less bitter
because they are so little and sordid. 20
as we may, we cannot enlancipate our
selves from our surroundings, and even
the freest of us are slaves to the whims
and caDrices Of those with whom we
live.
Not long ago a gentleman was telling
a story about a friend, whose wife, al
though a good womans was one of those
uncomfortable creatures who are forever
f~reltiag and nagging all about her At
4 j. CT I r. o4EdEnE manner 10 SldlluL L dl1I
1anar 800 qua lo,,i4 hit as II was
dana rtfar stonne7 nv tba gallerv where
III nastas % antartaininp several
friends .4Gooa hive soru said he. touch
iny bis hat .T,m sorry FOR yer. sor. /
can lave; yer can't"
surely such a story voices much of the
pathos of our common experience. There
are 50 many times. there are so many
places that We can't leave. 1t is the peo-
pie to whom we are tied by a thousand
bonds Of affection. Of mutual interest, Of
duty and Responsibility; have our
happiness inStheir keeping, and, oh, the
pity of It'll they are SO careless of their
trust, and we have no resoureet We can't
leave.
There is in reality no more ungenerous
trait IN human nature than TINS takihs
advantage OF the utter he4plesshess g
those Of our own household. IheV can
bound to stay on ana enquire u.s. az W.
trace upon 7. lhlnN q .ne soa Is
eractoh % canvas q ~ ana = a,ar
soon as lhe H&stliase
suoslaea mo istiess stoSe1 1890
much as e aS;- N. "eii' = -
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to Please. lh1Hh q ene az
known VINO were vefltaele fflice I'D
ings in their counting Gays, put whu' ohes
married, would speak to theif waves ~ Z
way they would not care 70 nave usep
to a good COOK who could give "arnius
and leave.
an
your pFosher ! ~ q
some. ana now thae re ! isp'ee e.
old yon cannot deny that ne Is a"A"atu
writes Ruth Ashmore, couhselins tHe sls-
ter how to influence her prother' y me
August ladies Home journal ne
suggests to you a shape not unlike thaf
Of a. spider, for he seems principally arms
and legs, while he has wonderful ability
in the way of stumbling when he ought
to walk straight. The girl who tries to
40 right should be quick enough to realize
tbat 70 make her brother more at ease
- tha oeneral world she must clear from
sis p,;na any ideas he NAV have as to his
~, 1,rl5 If baantv and grace. The boy
a;ahtaa,, ,,s,,o11,- neads a GOOD dose of
o1sa 10 be,ie,,es that
susaa u soofe - hin, when
$3.50 a;r1 -
ne y n'iouuesu - : ! =
oeesut know "tt"e =
a pretty glfl. TOT Sne status at" 'oN