The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1898-02-20

since. Sne looks aDOub dnu dUONc anu dlouhu
her now. and when she gets tired she retires
within herself, not for self.study, as she used to.
but to study the people and things she has been
observing. This man was an old man rs years
go, but he was still boyish in feeling. 1t all
came about in this way: He was taking the girl
for a drive. as he frequently docs. and he
noticed that she wasn't p~rattling away at her
usual gait. There was a look about her mouth
and eyes. too. that he didn't quito understand.
Are you interested in any man y he blurted
out without any frills or furbelows.
I'm interested enough in one to want to
know in what way he likes me-" she answered
with equal frankncss.
"Weli. i won't ask you who he is said the
man with a kindly smile, but l shall tell you
my daughter IL l had been blessed with one.
My dear little woman. there are men and men
IN this world, and there are women and women.
liking these women. We wont go into
the disliking part Of 1t to-day. because
say, right here that n girl can win a man who
really. dislikcs her far easier than she can one
takes a certain cmount of real interest to dis
like one, you know. and you have something
positive to go on. But that's another story. A
man can like a woman and respect her, or he
can like her without respecting her, or he can
respect her without liking her. Again,
no can love her desperately without re-
specting her. 1t Is hosh and nonsense to say
Is that man can like. love, and respect q woman.
II you want to make, a man feel that way to.
ward you. you can make him:, and SO can any
other woman. just reason a bit with yourself,
and do it aloud. BY that I mean arrive at con.
clusions and put Them into, words. Don't sit
What he doesn't; First make him like you.
want to be attracted first. So start out by max
ing a man like you; then compel him to respect
you, and last force him To love you; and when |
cay love 1t doesn't necessarily mean the love
that leads to marriage. hut genuine affection
sionally between two women. Make him like
you. / repeat. and when he does don't go both
Rest content in the fact that he does. That's
the mischief. with you women. As tho darkies
d9Tn South crit1urs say, you you are the SDo question 6
lets, you know that he is fond of you, You i'm
medintely, ask him why and fret and fume be-
morbid introspection; and | want to tell you
fatty men hate that. They'd a great deal
philosophize with EN-. Substitute merry Jest.
Ing for philosophy. Don't toll EN- your trou.
!ieve you haven't any, Men love prosperity.
It's q comfortable kind of atmosphere, you
know ss,,od ! do a,a not mean that {Gu mustn't
proper spirit, for the young man of to-day does
not like a girl WITHOUT depth. purpose; and, sin.
and quirks and merry iests and laughter and
apparently hearty happiness: and you'll bind
OF all take an old mans advice. who all
men folks. and make all your men friends
like and respect and love you, and inspire
them with the same feelings for themselves. and
"Thank you" answered the young woman,
simply, If you men knew how we women
to me. YOU wouldn't be so sparing of your
superior knowledge Of men and women and
their true and best relations to each other and
OF life generally"
Women don't miss 1T far when they say that
fhia aaaanp'a narasnla draap,a ~ haautr
Many OF them are so thin and fluffy and cobweb.
like that they almost look as il they might van
ish with handling. The parasol is one OF the So
called summcr girls most effective weapons of
attack and defence. 1t is a pretty background
for her pretty face, and from beneath II she can
hide or show her feelings at will. 1t may seem
queer to the men folks, but the last thing u
woman considers in selecting one parasol or
n whole outlay is whether they will protect her
from sun and rain. The first thing she lends an
eye to is bocomingness and II is n positive fact
that in every parasol department there arc large
mirrors. before which the women try their sun.
shades Just ms religiously ana revercntly rs they
do their hats.
The SWEETEST parasols for afternoon wear are
made OF white. Some of the hRndsomcst have
duchesselace covers in new designs with panels.
set on over a black chiffon foundation with
ing; Even more dressy but less expensive par.
asols are made of white or cream silk fish net
row satin ribbon. Another pretty design is
made OF white, chiffon fullcd on aud
trimmed with fluffy rutles of the same
material edged with very narrow black
velvet ribbon. White and black Is the favorite
combination for dress parasols. A new design
Is n parasol made of heavy satin and entirely
covered with full frills of narrow satin ribbon.
These are particularly effective in ccrisc, tur-
quoise blue, and white. and will he much used
with t~ailorlmNdc suits OF piquG ana duck. The
handles OF all parasols are much handsomer and
longer than ever before.
The chemisette has come into fashion again.
A chemisette is, in a woman's wardrobe, no
more and no less than the dickey in a mans
wardrobe. but no disrespCct attaches TO the
woman who wears u chemisette. In fact. it ia "a
acraaRarv haaiUuad IN ha unrn with faflnr p,nJa