The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1898-02-06


well formed for she is pleasing TO man
and to women, too. The girl was a typi-
cal yo dng woman of the period, independ-
ent, mpusive and also introspective.
Tow, when a man wants to do any lit
tle thing for you, the matron went on.
u him do it, even if he is as old as Me-
tAuselah, and pretend that il is the very
hing you want him to do. that nobody else
could have done it half so we'll and that
life would not be worth living if he had
not done that very thing for you. Nine
young women out of ten. nowadays. when
man offers to do some trifling service for
her, protest This is a great mistake The
protesting woman may please q man oc-
casionally, but she can never make herself
eternally pleasing to him. Suppose a man
offers 10 take letter to the box on the
corner for YOU to buy some medicine that
he thinks would do your cold good to step
around to a library to get some books that
you are wishing for; don't protest Your
impulse and the impulse of the average
woman of to-day is, 10 say rather lmpa-
tiently, on, wouldn't trouble you for
worlds l can mail my own letter, or I
never take medicine for cold or L have
something else can read tonight In
your heart you appreciate the mans offer.
but you obey your first impulse and that
is to protest. Now, know men well ard
they aren't half bad. They are creatures
who never do anything that they do not.
want to do, end it provokes them beyond
polite expression to have a woman show
that she had rather do things for herself.
Every woman loves TO be pleasing to men.
and the woman who makes Ahel greatest
success along this line is she who always
under all circumstances, allows men to do
things for her. Every woman should see
TO il that she brushes down and chokes
out the impulse in her to protest
philosophers tell us that that which
helps or hinders fellowship makes the
good and bad of manners. Protesting on
the part of women certainly binders fell
lowship between them and men. Perh1ps
it is putting i too strongly to say that
these protesta@ons are bad manners but
il is surely bad policy to refuse to allow
men to serve YOU Try the advise Of
woman of the world and do not protest if
YOU would make yourself pleasing to the
sex that can never rid itself of The idea
that we owe our being to an expression
of its generosity. that if man had not
granted spare rib that he had about him
we never would have been at all BY all
means let every man living do every little
thing on earth for you that he wants 10 do
You'll find that you get a great deal more
out Of life, that you will afford him IN
limited opportunities to pat himself on the
back, aEd that you will not only make
yourself pleasing to him. but that YOU VIII
make him pleased with himself, which is
the scientific basis Of success in society"
Another folding bed story-from Kan
sas this time-brings up once more the dis
puted question: is the folding bed a neces-
sity2 The furniture dealers say, says the
New York sun that il is. but then they
say, too, that there is no danger about il,
and that the stories against It's good fame.
are myths, libe.s. There's honsemaid in
Kansas who knows better. She may have
been lineal descendant of the Irish kings
and eligible to the order Of the Crown.
but the rooms In the ancestral mansion
We're small However. the family didn't
allow thai to drive them TO folding beds.
As Nora puts t. "Divil a haythen tran
did we have on the premises"
When Nora arrived in this country she
Joined her brother in Kansas. Thats how
she happeud to work for Mrs. Perkins.
Tho day of her advent in the Perkins
household she faLed to put in an appear
ance at luncheon time Mrs. Perkins