The Kimball graphic. (Kimball, Brule County, Dakota [S.D.]) 1883-1905, 1897-10-16
oEscoRps IN MARRIAGE.
An Italian Soul Surgeon" Unveils Same
of the Causes OF Marital Misery.

shAs 'Nh-sAh ''ofh' - .t'fsi- III
of the Causes OF Marital Misery.
The want of harmony in sentiment
has only too many and too varied forms
in the marriage relation, writes P.of.
Pao!o Montcgaxza on tile art OF taking
81 wife, but al the foundation there is nj.
ways this skeleton: That which | like
You dislike; tina, which makes you
happy makes me suffer-
Woman is an ~crlninc, who allows her
self TO be Killed rather Than cross field
OF SNOW soilel by mud. Man, on the
contrary, is like u chimpanxce. who
loves dirt and soils himself with ii.
There is no part OF his body or soul
which does no, love this mid. How
a two such creatures ike toge,her9
He is an opttnist even to cynicism,an
egotist even 10 alteration OF himself, and
his motto is: "Apres moi lie ~delugc."
She is Il pessimist from having placed
her ideal so high THAT 10 human hand
can reach il. She cannot live au hour
without loving and defeating 81 thought,
al act or n sacrifice 10 TIL" good of some
fel!ow-creaturc. How could they live
together:
He has ncver felt the want OF the
supernatural and believes neither in
God nor in . soul. She was boru Il
mystic, and the maternal education has
made her religious and snpersiilious.
She has n very strong tendency 10 as
ceticism. How could two such beings
be happy together?
lie Is frank, expansive even to impru-
dence. impetuous ~ TO wrath. He
says oul slraightly what he thinks,
swears and curses, only to forget with
in an hour the storm which overwheim-
ed him. She is close. shut us with
seven seals. timid. diilident, and only
expresses the tenth part Of what she
fees, anu even regrets that Slight ex-
pausion. Susceptible as a sensitive
plant, she st.rts il she meets a grain Of
sand, n hair or a feather which touches
her. She finds N oifense and want OF
respect i'll everything. suspects evil
everywhere and even in good seeks bad
intentions with all the zeal Of al inquis-
itor. VIII iileSe two live happily to-
gethcr?:
He is misamthropn from Incidence
aud diflidence; he dctesls society and
avoids it. she adores cheerful society,
garrulous and merry talk, thealers,
balls, lot that she may seek an oppor-
tunity for sin i'll these PAGES, but SIM
ply because she adores uhat is noisy
and deafening, Joining these two to-
gether-how can they possibly bless
m~atrimony:?
By instinct and education he isdemo-
cratic, detests all forms of despotism
from the taiior the government. He
IS a socialist and would be an anarchist
II he hal not 4 sound heart and did not
love his kind p~assionaiely. She is of y
decayed noble family, keeps and adores
the lamlly coat OF arms; when any one
from poilteness calls her marchionesS
she reddens with pleasure and her heart
swcils with pride. She has Il profound
aud sincere respect for authority and
bows rcrerentiy before priests. soldiers.
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