The Washington bee., 1897-02-13

u.,dco.-You desire to know If a
In WilI assist one he desplses. Ot
Pgou-se not. The person who speaks
MaCsnorher and acts to the contrary
,.,,,inu 10 battle his best friend.
rea-You should never make an en-
-,r-r,ent to meet in church. Remem
taSS tb. church is a sacred place. La
Siae never meet gentleman in the
street.
n PITS folly to waste your time
,,y longer on a person you nave
faijed to reform in three years.
N.-Ask your mother's consent
Girls are not much thought OF VINO 90
moi respect the advice OF their parents
F V.-Dont forget the fact that
,o,r own interest is at stake when you
associate with people of questionable
character.
EMMY titles are very prevalent
,mong some of our society gentle
men Girls don't get fooled. A lab
oring man will often make the better
provider.
We should not seek or ask for what
we can never get. Life is only what
you make 1t.
People who are over anxious about
yom welfare are often so more or less
for their own advantage.
Lottie.-The only way to gain friends
IS TO attend to your own affairs.
A silent listener is better than gos-
siping one, who tries to be converse
tionlist. A great volley of words in
one breath shows a nervous dlSpoSi-
ton.
ANY one who tries to deceive his best
friend, cen never be true to HIM
self. Snch actions lead only to degra'
dstion and shame.
Leua.-To worry about your age is
all folly Physicians say that a woman
is at her best when thirty-five and
surely at twenty-five a girl is quite
youthful.
For a gentleman to take a lady'S
arm in the day time shows ignorance
or too much affectation. OF course in
yalids are excepted.
Fannie. Some people claim to be
lace readers. But moi a bit of ii is
true. have seen some of the most
sober faces with heart always full OF
Joy and some merry looking faces,
whose possessorS Ion't seem to know
how to give a pleasant reply. Girls
take my advice and don't judge by
faces but by actions.
The person who advises you to do
what he himself would not do is a
traitor.
ennie.-It may seem sometimes
that obstacles and difficulties are al
ways IN our way. Only a clear under
standing is necessary then we Can
wisely plan to avoid and overcome
them.
Candidate. The social life Of a
church should not be the first OBJ
iect Of your thought; ifso, your chris
,lan life is already failure.
Juliet.-Oh, no, a highly educated
woman will hardly be happy with ar
ignorant husband Though since there
are so many more women than men,
suppose some of our educated girls
will have 10 own the name of ignorant
men.
Bride.-You should furnish the Invi
tstions and give the reception. 1t i:
only matter of desire as to giving tht
groom present. 1t is certainly very
unusual. ] he groom oft-timeS pre-
SentS the bride with handsome gift
E.R--There is no impropriety il
addressing your doctor, "my dear doc
tor." Well, it is quite the proper
thing.
Mani -Hairoline rubbed on tn,
scalp three times a week, will preven
II from falling out. Address 2oS {
street, n. W.
No girl should wear a ring belonging
to young man except he gives it tC
ner TO keep and even then she ShoulC
not except it, except they are more
than mere friends,
NlSlior.-When invited to a BRIDE
recep ion, if you cannot attend, yol
should send your card as that denote
visit OF a desire to come Invitation
DO not signify presents, though the,
are often looked upon in this light b,
ignorant people.
At home wedding the bride anC
groom stand facing the clergymen anC
ne faces the assembled company.
Z. B.-When introducing two gen
Gemen whose names are the Sam
tnelr christian names should be men
toned.
kva.-lt is certainly improper t,
!unch with man whose acquaintanc
$50 short, that you do not know
whether he is single or not.
Mamie.-You should not fuss. AS
rule dissatisfied people are neve
happy. You have asked for advic
Whe.hIr one is in earnest, if he tell
YOU SO. Men of course, are peculiar
re must appreciate you from the fac
he Is never happy unless he is in you
company Go to school and think no
OF courtShip.
ESSle.-Be womanly and true t
your friends. A person who suspi
ClonS everybody is himself guilty c
Some Offense.
Elia.-You should not be so suspi
lous. You are slowly poisoning tn
mower that is blooming and destroyin
t9e night that is burning for you. w
S;.;" 81 kno" the sweetness of your dispc