The Wheeling daily intelligencer. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1865-1903, 1897-09-16
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please Is a womans meter, and II heI
husband Is only critic she soon loses
her chief incentive.
Allow her also respectful amount
of admiration from other men, and lei
her see that you also take pride and
pleasure In that admiration. To receive
1t IL woman's preroBative, and II she
| Is permitted to receive Il frankly an(
naturally, the exaggerated sweetness OF
forbidden fruit" will not tempt her
Many woman gets into mischief sim
| ply because her husband has becomd
too Indifferent or lazy to admire her
pretty gowns and personal charms, 81
she finds appreciation elsewhere, and, II
he jealousy objects, she may then puri
loln II under the rose"
on the other hand, II your wife has
become fat forty and commonplace
| don't blame her for IT, She has not be-
| come so 10 spite you, nor does She, in all
probability enjoy 1t more than you do,
Never allow your mind for an instant
to make disloyal comparisons between
her and other women, or tell her how
she has changed from the golden-haire
angel OF her twentles You may be suro
she realizes II bitterly enough herself
- - AAANAAh FtAN " IlthSdllk lllllllI
about her, repeat Il, but never listen
to unkind criticisms of her-even from
your mother. There never was a mother
who thought her daughter-in-law hall
good enough for her son.
Pollteness IS the best lubricant for
married life During courtshlp, thu
man makes the best Of himself in mind
manner and dress, but after marriage
when many illusions are necessarily
lost, he needs these far more. The ad.
miration of his wife is far more neces.
sary, yet more difficult to keep DO not
| allow the lover TO degenerate into thu
husband A little expressed sympathy
Is often better than checks, and box
Of flowers sent to the mother OF youI
children will give more pleasure than
to your fiancce. If you have good rea-
son to scold, try not to be noisy about
It. A woman prefers polite ill-temper
A loud voice or rough manner will try
her more than thousand bitter accu-
satlons made with civil suavity. And
| after you havo scolded, and she bursts
| into tears, don't bang out of the room
| remarking that you never could abide
nervous and hysterical women. Nevei
| find fault or critlcise your wife befora
the children or servants. Much of your
own comfort depends upon their respect
for her, but you cannot expect them L
obey one 20 whom you show so little
respect, -l- .,..
Remember that the caro- and annoy.
ancc of business are fully equaled by the
small oxasperaions Of her household
II the cook gets drunk and leaves YOU
dlnnerless, or the baby breaks the
| choicest bit OF brlc-a-brac, It Is quite
as trying to your wife as is the frlvolity
Of your typewriter, or the stupidity Of
| your partner to you. II your wife has
ordinary intelligence, tell her about YOU
business. Men often think their wives
unreasonable In asking for money dur.
ing hard times, but IL they are kept ir
| ignorance as to how that money Is
earned, and Of the risk and difficulty
and ceaseless caro- OF business. one
| should not blame her for asking fol
what seems to her a simple matter OF
volltlon, II you treat her as an intel.
llgent comrade instead of as a child
there will be fewer domestic cyclones
when new gowns are wanted.
When you come home tired and fret,
full the quiet house Is delightful resi-
and change TO you, but remember It Il
only through her labors II Is charming
and that those four walls may seem a
prison, In the evening she, too, may
| like change and rest.
Never laugh at or discourage her am,
bltions-soclal or otherwise Ambition
Is often but another word for growth.
| AS you have your way In great things
allow her hers in small ones. She Ia!
10 live where and In whatever fashion
I you think neCessary-to mold her life
to your pattern. and she often feels Xix,
n square peg In a round hole. SO II sh,
prefers n blue drawing room to n vel
low one. wants you to put on n dlnnei
coat In the evening or asks you TO Civ,
up an evening NJ the club for som,
pleasure, do lt-and what Is more, max,
believe you like II.
In fact treat you wife as you fame!
you would have treated the flrst cir
you ever loved, who married-not you
but the other man.