Idaho County free press. [volume] (Grangeville, Idaho Territory) 1886-current, 1897-06-25
HOMES SEAMY SIDE.


Small MiseFies which No Art Can Prevent
A great deal il said and written now
adays about the art of homemaking,
while very little thought is expended
upon the fact that in the home certain
small miseries arise and flourish which
NO art can better or subdue.
In most homes there are great capa-
bilities for happiness, and SO in direct
proportion of unhappiness. Not every
man or woman, however well-inten-
toned, true, and conscientious, can
make the home what it ought to be.
And one Of the most fruitful causes OF
unhappiness, next to bad temper, il to
be found in poor housekeeping.
Many a woman, in every respect ad-
mirable and intelligent beyond the av-
erage, cannot entirely grasp the mys-
teries of housekeeping. And that 1t
is not matter of intelligence is shown
by the fact that some of the best and
most skillful housewives have been
those who turned their attention to
little else than the ordering of their
dinners and the scrupulous neatness
Of their homes. And who shall say that
these did not make success OF house.
keeping? So many, many things enter
into the housekeeping for the good or
i'll of the household. The wife or house.
keeping sister may be orderly, the hus-
band or brothers the reverse; or the
wife totally regardless Of system, while
the husband counts a misplaced article
L. If OF rf}n
for which no future punctuality or neat
ness may condone; and these things
occurring day after day, year in and
wear out, a consequent struggle en-
sues which renders life martyrdom.
The more trivial the occasion, the more
bitter the sense of defeat.
"Oh," said q woman, whose house,
keeping was to her as the grinding
of the pilgrims pebbles i'll his shoes.
II know l am miserable failure as
q housekeeper! I can do half dozen
things we'll, but cannot keep house"
Now there is no more reason in the
world why that woman should wear
herself into nervous prostration trying
TO do a thing that in all her life she
will never compass than there is that
any man should become lawyer when
his tastes and aptitude are for medi-
cine or mechanism.
"My wife and l are much fonder OF
each other since we sit down every day
with dozen people than when we dined
alone" said jolly husband, who went
through life very respectfully and hap
PLY, though he never had home. 1t
is sad, but nevertheless true. that the
dispositions of some couples change en-
tirely for the better as soon as they
are freed from the shackles of house
keeping. Faultfinding ceases, anxious
lines smooth away, and both husband
and wife draw a long breath of relief.
have known q most devoted hus-
band and wife who, after the various
domestic complications caused by the
civil war, looked the matter of house
keeping squarely in the face. The wife
no longer young, felt that she could not
without great personal exertion and un'
told worry, take up housekeeping or
a totally different basis from that will
which she had been familiar, and hel
husband was wise and considerate
enough to accept her view Of the stu
alton. And to the end OF their lives
they boarded. So it goes. Work that
to one woman is pleasant, to another
one is irksome; but there is no use II
fretting over circumstances-it is fai
better to accept the inevitable with goot
grace.-Harper's Bazaar. .s-