The Jersey City news. (Jersey City [N.J.]) 1889-1906, 1896-08-04
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morons sheets-the bold and successful
wiles Of the ubiquitous widow in captar-
ing her second choice. Cutting, on,
nsisht say in many Instances. with ar
easy saip. the towline vita which an
unmarried woman had him successfully
in tow.
SO vexatious has this peculiar member
Of the existing social state Become thai
there are nurmuT among the feminine
portion ss.ao threaten to petition the pow
ers that be to lsgislate against her, to re-
strict her powers, ard to rendes her wiles
and graces. as far at least. as mankind
are concerned, null and void.
II has always been a question Of great
interest 10 other woman now she who
has once married secures a secord choice
more readily over the young girl, many
times more fresh. fair and attractive in
every particular than her successful rival
The HiHdoo woman to Whom the sis
fers Of Chistendom go as missionaries
have this one advantages over the
christianized woman according to the
light. TIE widow is not recognized
among them. She cannot marry again.
She has nc place in their social scheme.
There has no doubt been times when
tie woman among whose nation the suite
is an unknown institution. nave almost
believed in their ininost hearts that this
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bar 1oosa $500 .s4 -. ,sa-,
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n rba onnas;.e so ,rays - 49,
sn,os+ Mil a,,anr - sa~sn
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II is rrne ma 4bs caar, ~ 4na ,,.t4an,
FIR rhe AVERAGE y se,,Igne -nsna eonsis+s
of her exnerienaa damonstra+ ed /, tho
eass and ns+ura,ness If har ral.-ians
with him The ufi5axv has long sinca
ceased il reoara the masaulina ana,,al &c
. wonderful oombina t;an Of o,,astaes 10
be worshiped altar cH as ha is reveal
ed 10 her. To her he is simuly a man
Ia be admired if ne can win her admira-
t:on. 10 he ALWAYS i,n.5srssoaa and SYM
patn.zed with from a rational staudnojnf.
as one human being svmpathizes with
ard understand another.
The woman who has once hem
through the mill Of m4trimonv is GEN
orally more communicable has more
tact in pleasing the masculsne fancy
than the young girl. and while she IS
lust as modest. as refined aud sensitive
as the maiden, the d~ifacut;es mar besst
the path 10 the one are lacking in the
case Of her who ms been alres1iv wed
The thousand ard one little mfg and
tits with which the maid loves 10 vex
the puzzled soul of a lover are eonsnie-
uoasiy absent from the programme pur-,
sued in laying siege to the widows feel
ings. This does NOT usaan that she z
more easily satisaed-sae i naene axaet;ng
frequently in a second than In a arst
choice. but she is more reasonable less
pettlsh and fractions. while she may he
more elusive and c-aptixating than in her
first wooiae. To the practical-rnjnded the
widow has much the best Of it. when il
fairs She has a previous Knowledge
which promises to make the wheels of the
domestic naachlsSe run more s,noothIv and
with none Of that friction that is .inevi-
table with an Inexperienced wife M MAT
ter low gillsng she may he II have an
things in her domain as nice as the most
eyac.ing husband ea,,5a w;sh
Grabbed sp;nsfers ard farlarn maa+sns
NAV clarncr far laws IN nreven- me rysiv
WIDOW from anpropria t.rg their nossssla
mate.
The eoteries Of d~esertad buds NAV ,aol
daezers at her and play a game AZ social
freeze-out On summer resort n;szzae
SOLELY for her benefis n,t ike carraf,
ether good AID soe.st and f4noa bapo-ad
customers. she is here ia sAay saa,ning-
IL "a 49, 80 boar4s - -s,nan~ ,,;sn
arr:ageab daughters ana snataa ina
chance of possible husbands from less az
perianced hands.
The Elder Weuers advice 10 his SON
is TO tire point, and Dean sw;frs warning
against them was Just az earnest as IL
a little less kindly: Marry her not un-
less her first was hung. and even then
she may comparison pursue and say
the saiioWs was too good for YOU"
Inougn the summer girl Of '@ is given
70 boating tennis cycling and loves to
spend many hears IN the s7rf, she has
pS no means grown hadaffenent to the
@ppeah@aee - pun oana ana fingIeft part
- Lronls or ~psmpadouFs-
@hetnsf sic Dc at seasho1s or climb
- ss seNasloos pfooie1n con
Aesp as Aaf 4 cfinap
- - daa-ss~ - ~ saAeis ior
rs,nIss 80 = "sSf
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