The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1896-03-29

ooHeHoW IN your love there comes a
sIeaI pity and although strong minded
women would blame you, you love him
ana care Tor him as you might for one of
your children Your love ceases TO be
tnat wonderful one which should exist
between husband and wife, but becomes
instead maternal in its character and your
SiItitude toward him, this man who prom
lsea 70 take care Of you, is that of a
mother toward a naughty child.
There are vicious husbands, thoughtless
husbands. mean husbands, ill-tempered
husbands. but between you and me. my
oear little woman, there is no husband
quite as bad as the all-around fool. He
never does or says the right thing; he
never appears to advantage, and no mat
yer how kind of heart you may announce
tnat ne IS, lookers-on do not hesitate to
say tnat he is wonderfully weak of brain.
personally, believe the average woman
would rather be beaten by a man with
some intelligence than adored by a fool
anu Ihat is one~of the things that makes
me slad am woman. Even If one is a
1901 one self, one does not want to marry
S-,i tSot, ana go on populating the world
WIN WIZ. Tools Tor ever and for ever.
=, she asked me another question, did this
NIUE woman who wrote the charming let
Yer she said, DO you believe in d.
VoreeI' l wish 1 knew how to saw mo.
so loudly that IL would reach the ears OF
edch woman who had ever thought of il
dnu convince them that one of these won
derful new guns was near her and thar
she was struck by one of the FIVE hundred
SStlots that they sent out every minute.
Sonetlmes, between two married people
lungs reach such point that 1t is wiser
Tor them to separate; to live apart and 10
is3u llVes that give no scandal But the
ulNorce-oh, no! Once a woman is d.
E0rced from one man and marries an
other she becomes demoralized and falls
v W sSS why she may not continue the d.
aEHlclhg and the remarrying as long as she
pleases. She forgets that the dav will
come when the only bloom on her cheeks
II an artlncial one; when the beautifui
hair is false; when the ewes have iost
tneir glow, and she is tired of life What
VIII VIII s she think about then? Always OF
a N
nad not been so easily irritated aboIIt
tnls, SO suspicious about that or SO de-
s seiiTTi IN ABOUT something else, she might
~ Is beautiful thing, to my way of
+ , Sni,ihIhs, 10 see two people, no longer
$Oune. the woman no longer beautiful
from that standpoint that demands ROSY
cheeks, bright eyes and many locks han
Ply with each other. OF course thew have
Hsu thelr misunderstanding of course
enere nave been times when it seemed to
Sach as II the other could no longer be en-
u9rSu, out then one of the two remember
eG me vows they had taken and yielded,
dnu SO all Ire was made smoother and
lhey grew gradually to understand lust
what each liked best what each most en-
Joyed; and, although the big world was
around them. IL was outside theml and
love ana peace resigned in the little world
MADE by these two. In my friends little
Ietter sne SAID, What would you do If the
man you lover cared for another woman ?''
1 snail not answer her, but l will LET a
learned man tell her what he thought. DIR
Johnson said that he would never receive
DUCK 10 MS nome daughter whose COM
plant was that her husband had been un-
Ialthful TO her: and his reason for this
was; mat II a husband had been unfaith-
Iul IL was the wife's own fault, since she
mad not succeeded in pleasing him,
:, wonder If have said all there is about
PAD husbands2 don't like to attack the
men. They have always been good and
Kind to me, and am forced to Judge them
by what see of them. My friend you
may take It as truth that two people
are required 70 make happy home. Many
bad husband has been unconsciously re-
formed by his wifes wisdom.
don't like to say that women never
need reformation. But there are bad hus-
bands. Else wDmen wouldn't be glad
M gt5s,. ftney went on in the morning and
oldn return until night But so much
Is IN the hand of the woman Man is
Ine lower animal. To be quite honest
1 have never been quite sure whether
ne was ABOVE or below the monkey So
IL is IN the inner, better nature of woman
to train him in the way he should sSo
To train him to be more gentle: to he
more afectionate; more generous and
less fault-1nding. l don't believe there
is any redemption for the sullen or the
think that he will have hereafter. and
l can imagine that heaven, to some Wo-
men VIII mean looking down to where
their husbands are and reminding them
OF the past. 1t would be rather nasty
thlng 10 DO; still, there would be a GER
tain satisfaction about 1t, and no woman
could be blamed for doing it who had
llved with man who was all-round hor-
rid. But then there are so many good
men. And nice men. And lovable men,
And generous men. And among these
there ought to be a man pleasing to
that nice little woman and her neighbor
ana Bah.