The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1896-01-19

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llon must often place her at seeming
disadvantage. Lapses into irritability or
depression, errors Of judgment and taste,
are not in his sight, evidence that his
marriage was a failure, or even a mis-
take. Like the brave, level-headed fellow
ne Is, ne reasons that the woman for
WhOm he would have laid down his lie
ing in 1895.
osity and industry Of the American nus
band which are made by Mrs. Burton Har-
rison leaves no doubt in the readers mind
that she considers him in the light OF an
IDEAL. Yet he can bear Improvement ana
she gives him some good advice. 800
IF critically regarded" she says, the
ordinary American husband is ever dis
covered TO fall short of the high STANDARD
OF consideration for his wife attributed
70 MIN by public voice, It seems 10 me
II Is in thinking that freedom and plenty
OF money to spend, without giving ac-
count of it, will take the place OF his per-
sonal attentions to her. He should appear
more with her in public; wear less or the
air or martyr led to the stake when IN
attendance on her before the world, and
pay more heed at home to the tritling OBJ
serVances OF convention and dress ana
manner that are so prOvokingly important
to the happiness of most women. \ very
small show of effort, in the matter Of
externals and in courtesy of daily speech,
VIII sometimes go to the heart of a VIE,
when a gift of value, or a concession OF
points in dispute between them, will leave
IL cold and untouched"
Elizabeth Bisland gives a concise pic
ture OF the average woman's ideal thus'
practically what every woman hopes FOR
and desires in her mate is that he should
be man. Not merely person OF the
masculine sex, nor creature of impossi-
bile and conflicting virtues, but one IN
whom the elements d.e so blended that
within the strong circle of his Virihty she
finds space 10 develop the best of all her
She further says: Her ideal husband
is distinctly jealous husband, not, OF
course, to the point Of being vain, un-
easy fool, but sufficiently so to prove TO
his wife that he values her-as much as
his money, we Will say-which he would
surely not leave lying on the roadside to
be snatched at by every passer-by, and
which he will freely incur Inconvenience
or even danger to defend"
The restlessness of the modern woman
she lays upon the shoulders of the hus-
band who is not ideal. The wife Of the
good man finds no restriction of her lib
erty i'm marriage, no lack of freedom to do
all the good work Of any kind for which
she has capacity. It is the selfish, infe-
rior man who falls below the ideal who is
responsible for the unpleasant develop
ments in modern woman. She finds a
strong, If uneXpressed, sentiment in the
maturity, must follow the boys into the
world and assume their own support.
A friend of Mr. X. has recently mar
ried a very wealthy, but very stout widow
says TIE Boston Budget. Soon after he
had returned from the bridal trip and
had taken up his residence in Medford
he gave a house-warming. Among the
guests who enjoyed his hospitality was
Mr.. X. After making tour of the house
he repaired to the dining-room to con-
graduate his host who stood smiling by
the side of his generously proportional
.'Fine house, George" began Mr.. X.
Glad you like it,
superb grounds"
do you think SOP"
ION, yes And magnificent view"
we are rather pleased with it,
That cut glass is beautiful"
Gifts from friends"
Pictures like old masters"
Several of them are"
Mr.. X. could no longer restrain his en-
by thunder George!" he said. conf
denually, you have married a fat
thing"
I'm managing my numerous progeny"
remarked a mother in Israel, TO a writer
in the New York Tribune, not long ago,
i am always reminded of the trials OF
a French bonnie who lived with us when
the children were little, and who always
took the two older boys out for their dali
| ly constitutional Teddy the younger
ways forging ahead intent on getting to
the end of his journey, or on the out
look for something Of interest, while Har-
~, the elder, who was dreamy little
fellow, and inclined TO be lazy invariably
Jagged behind So, whenever / saw the
trio, the unfortunate Celestine was heino-
DRAGGED forward by Ted while she in her.
turn, was endeavoring to keep Harry up
to the pace of his more impetuous brother
ana have always heard the ejaculation,
which became with her q regular formu-
lar and refrain: - rretoz-VOus MonsielI,.
Teddy Mais Venez done, Monsieur AIRY -
How often ii is in families that one
child requires urging forward, and another
needs restraint, even when the same goal
is the end in viewl A morbid, shy girl
shunS society, which is precisely the ex-
perience she needs, while her sister. on
the contrary, wishes to be on the go the
whole time, and would neglect everything
for social pleasures. An intellectual and
ambitious lad devotes himself to his stud
les to the detriment of his health, while
another member of the same family re-
quireS to be coached through every exam
ination. 1t seems to be continually ar
retez Vous,' or 'venez DONE and often
think of Celestine and her struggles
while endeavoring to shove on one child
and restrain another"
The very latest outcome of the Trilbv
fad, which is now raging fast and furious
! " in England, says the Times Democrat.
muslin and is embroidered and tucked
and friled around the skirt, and is al
| together the most dainty and frivolous
J apron Imaginable.
The bib is also plated, and embroidery
! runs along its top and around the EMAIL
! let's. As first produced, these aprons were
ornamented with the design of a prin-
rose which is the emblem of a BODY of
English women interested in politics.
] since lnaL llmes however, other flowers
have been used in the embroidery of the
! new apron
The Trilby apron is now to be seen at
many fashionable afternoon functions in
London, and will doubtless soon become
the rage in this country also. 1t is a
charming fashion that men especially will
welcome with effusion. In no other ear
ment does there Turk such possibility of
coquetry as in belaced and befrilled
white apron 1t is so essentially femi-
nine 1t has such an enticing stay-at-home
and housewifery air as might well induce
any man to reflect how pleasant it would
be to have a trig little woman in snowy
apron pour tea for him not only at swell
functions, but at a breakfast table built
for two.
Women seem to be on the increase, SAYS
the Philadelphia Times, not numerically
be it said, but physically. They are all
so tall that besides them many men seem
pigmies. Many of the well-known beau
ties are tall. Among those Of English