The record-union., 1896-11-13
HOW TO TRAIN YOUR HUSBAND
An Eminent Teacher of Cooking
PhilOsophizes.

The heart of man is reached quicker
| by tempting dish than in any other
way. The lack Of culinary skill has
been the cause of many divorces.
The secret of the wonderful charm a
wife has for her husband lies in the
interest she shows in him, and the tact
| with which she makes him think well
of himself. 1t is not advisable for a
wife to give her husband piece Of
her mind too often. Men have a way
of their own of not wanting to be set
right. The causes Of so many unhappy
marriages are largely due to the du-
p!icity practised by both parties before
marriage, each one showing off to the
best advantage.
AS rule men judge women by out
ward appearances. They take women
more for what they seem to be more
than for what they are The good quail
tiles of the plain, sensible girl are fire.
quently unnoticed, and the girl who is
cCnspicuously dressed, is good dancer,
has a f1attering manner, is chosen for
wife.
| A clever woman can rule her husband
entirely, if she be wise enough not to
let him know that he is ruled. She can
inspire him to accomplish great and no.
bic deeds by giving him confidence In
himself. 1t is not advisable for mar
ried woman to be one of the so-called
woman's rights order. The homes of
such women are generally unhappy
This reminds me of story ] read
once of ragged little boy who stood
blubbering on the street. When a po-
liceman asked why he was crying, he
said: I'm cold and hungry" Where
is your home?" Il amt got no home"
But where is your mother?" an
there" pointing to building where the
mother was delivering speech on wo-
mans suffrage. The policeman knew
enough.
If woman wants to be a stump
speaker and be leader in the cam
paign for woman's suffrage she must
not marry. The woman who becomes
a wife and mother is in duty bound to
take care Of her home. I would advise
every married woman to keep her house
clean and orderly, and make herself al
tractive to her husband as she can
Men are not fond Of slovenly women
A careless woman will soon lose tbs
affection of her husband and drive him
from home into the arms Of other wo-
men.
Always greet the coming Of your hus-
band with a pleasant smile Never be
cross. Never be sentimental; long
faces and teary expressions are only
attractive in novels. Men outside OF
books do not like to wipe away tears.
Try and cultivate common sense. A
man soon gets tired Of an 11nraa CON a hi q
and peevish wife. Do not get into a
temper. Avoid everything unpleasant.
1t is man-like to walk away at the first
sign of storm, and, remember, you
love your husband very much, show it
| by your actions rather than words.
Remember what Byron says: "A mans
love Is of mans life thing apart" and
because your husband does not say,
each day. Il love you," do not imagine
his love has grown cold
If you are jealous of him, conceal it.
The green-eyed monster has broken UP
many home. If your husband stays
out late at night, don't stay up for him,
you only make yourself miserable. Some
women have a habit of waiting meals
fol their husbands They think they
not at home, and by so doing make the
whole household uncomfortable.
Have regular hours for meals, and
when the time is come, sit down and
eat. Put his meal aside, and serve it
with a smile when he arrives Men
cannot always be Cinderellas. Business
will frequently detain them
GESINE LEMCKE.