Deseret evening news. [volume] (Great Salt Lake City [Utah]) 1867-1920, 1896-10-02

csuficc iu fne chIi must in limo Do
adjusted tn tue mluDtououi rhythm OF
social ll't; but he docs not think that
this lguur % adjustment should be
forced uu r. Guild uniii the ninth OF
tunth year. lie cuniinuesi
"iD bu sure. INDULGENCE OF se'callol
vhimt ard tue impulaivenesa Of chIii'
feu must mol 20 beypnd certain iimi's,
which, however, cannot possibly be
determined by general principles.
Hence model father anu model
mother should by constant reflection
aud according 10 various tEpefiencse
determine fut each Individual cste
where 10 draw the line. luttead OF
this, tomeihing cleo happens utually.
The 'capflclousnosi' aud impuislvonoiR
Vt the chilli finally produce lu macy
parent, even In tue most loving ones,
sta'u ~ Indefinite tNciiubiniy which
unconsCiously prompts them 20 oppose
tho vish VI tue uhll.. In many
families there b. aOu of
bitter struggle between parents ami
Chiiufbu, which does not az all UxClu 10
mutual love, which, however, trans
forms the mutual Naturalization
into two like poles which fuIol each
other. II the boy wauts 10 cat be 10
told Immediately that u ~ too early or
too late, aud that hu mult wall. ifhu
WAuta o. take a walk % Il saii that tho
weather j. too disagreoahlu 10 too cool,
anu that b. hal better stay ut home.
frequently There foil0wa 10 the miuu
Of lno iatHJf upon the fut oppoiitiln
feeling % fcmofse, aud Ia COME.
qutucc he grants tho wish; but, na n
general ruie, whenever a child uttOts
wish ia almowhat lively manner OF
sOmtwhnt UNEXPECTEDLY, no matter
how reasonable nli lual 70 10, tue fifni
fcAotiou 10 the fathurly % m0ihtfly
heart 10 refusal. This malicious
tendency 10 most frequently mUt
win IN nervous persons vino
at present., unfortunately, form
so lntsu part VI the intelligent glasses
In civilized nations, anu al bottom %
10 nothing but an UXoitcHbllity pro.
duCUd ny physical anu moral disturb.
auccs caugtd BY the wnimt " chidrun,
In cUIHquUucB OF this tgciiabilily
tue mlud n gradually ovll,ditp0sei an
c1nti1liol by an indefinite aud uali.
unc1uiuIoua inttigalion to thwAfi the
child.
'On the other hand We take children
too seriously whom We want " compel
then h observe all tho c.muiicaiui
i1fmalillus OF social intercourse. II
m y DO said that thfoc.fguflha OF the
education which children receive Of
heir parents olnsitH iu iultiAtiun iu tlu
f1rmH " intrfclufsu. Why iu thls
dcut2 Why Nv tho greater part OF tho
im0 wasted 10 tvaChiuE children whom
asa whore 10 iaho ~ tnuir bats, b "
g. behave under given circumstances
OF Ia tho presence VI certain poo.
s0uF, how ~ eat, how 10 walt2
Why are thu children Cor.
mvutud with the Incubation %
3. eiai etiquette and ceremony an
these ttings ought 10 b. known, sure
enough, but The iratnlug Of them costs
much LABOR at the age before tue eighth
" niath scar, while nt o later ptrl0l
they ate acquired win tho greatest
unse. All thvso Iaigs, though uuiyef.
sally usniui, ttili afu wituolt any great
Significance, i1t tho external iofms
have no organic connection Of Any
toft With the tuutlments which they
arc 10 ,xpfoss. What IL tue reason, Tor
Instance, that the ilitlug o tue hat
llgnifi respect Of pouout2 HubCa,
siuoe these actions nave no rational
basis by which the child might 40.
count Tor their significance, ho an
learn them only BY much practice.
And this practice IL ull The moro di1l.