The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1896-11-22

No scorn is attached to man who
known as wishing to marry" Why, the
in the name of all that is logical, says
writer in Woman, should such desil
on the part of a woman be treated wit
contumely and ridicule? Let us be hone,
for ourselves and for our daughters an
confess that, anyway, ninety-nine out
a hundred of US want to marry, and al
conscious of a certain blank in our live
If we do not. Nature implanted in US tn
wish for a mate; society encourages L
in the desire for home. 1 do not sa
that wish to see modest English maiden
setting out misunderstanding on thei
own account, but 1 do say that the tire
and flushed mother, who chaperons he
daughters when she would often niue
rather be comfortably tucked In bed q
home, who is pleasant to eligible you1
men and cold to ineligible, is deserving, NJ
of disdaln. but of all sympathy and prais
AS for the average English middle-claI
father. words fail to express my scot
for his usual Indifference to the situatiq
You never hear a man who wants hui
hands for his daughters; 1t is always tf
wife who takes the responsibility and p
blame; or, if one does hear of such ana
omaly. the news is generally accompaniea
by the observation, "Oh, yes, he wansto
get her marrled-he would like to trfvfl-
or to live In rooms in town-or, perhfs 10
marry again himself" Now, what
mother is wishful to dispose of hertaugh-
ter in order that she may travel or hVe
in chambers in town, or even mary again
herself? No, she generally lets hf oaush-
ter go from her only in ordertnat the
child she loves may be ensuredthe tenn
poral welfare which she cannot lretene 70 I
despise She it is who arranget the Mite
parties at which the father grunples' "ho
encourages possible suitors to seeher slIls
in their own homes; and who, she ~
sensible, teaches those girls TIE little 90
nestle accomplishments whict are neces-
sary in every housewife. hofever liberal
may be the scale upon with her estap-
dishment is conducted. Tfe head OF the
house has, in many cases, forgotten that
once he too, was young, nat he liked to
look out among the pretty faces Of his
acquaintance for possible mate, and
that he was pleased to receive welcome
from the parents of the girl TO whom ne
began to look for his uture happiness.
Now, he crowds out comments about "a
pack of young fools apund the place.;
asks If he may never smoke pipe IN
peace" and finally, waking up 10 nnd MN
self sitting at the head of a tabletui OF
Old maids, asks his vile resentIuily now
1t is she never MANAGED to get some OF
those girls married." hlst as If 1t were not
every bit as much lis responsibility ana
business as hers.
No, let US be franber In our treatment or
marriage, and not pretend that no desire
for husband turks in the bosom OF any
Well-condueted girl, and that mother
VINO wants to see her daughters happlly
settled is merely worldly and a schem-
Ing woman. ! wish we could borrow some
Of the matter-of-fact simplicity OF our
French neighbors in this matter; that the
dot grew with the daughter, and that Tor
British youth to be presented to Brit
$50 maiden as & possible sutton were not
considered an entirely demoralizing sit
uation. Last Of all. let me put In plea
LOT the mothers interest In the worldly
soods OF the young men who hover around
her tea-table, and to suggest that surely
sne is justified in giving the cold shoulder
tosuch as simply cannot afford to marry.
AFTER all, she is only chary of her daugh-
Iers affections, and would not have them
lies toll.
mere girl says the New York Sun.
wno recently has appeared on the Boule-
.stNln s4ssFa
..ues a well-groomed youngster has at
uacted much notice, although she is aP-
pSSlently not unconscious OF the fact that |
sne Is comedy. When she first appeared |
s sae bright morning two weeks ago, 1t was
S asy TO misjudge her at first sight. She |
s sss graceful and slight, and her gown |
NV s.lu reach quite to the tops Of her lit |
~, ~ shoes. She wore a natty little hat |
III nnlined with pink roses, and the white |
.eu that was drawn over her face didn't |
y t the pink color that was displayed |
a, ser race high up near the eyes. A Sec
W look at her-and it was but natural |
l. DeAtoW it-showed that She was |
N.Y.. panese girl, and very pretty one. II |
mn ork Is new to her. she accepts II |
Neernedly. There is nothing In her |
n, 'iuer 10 suggest that she is not perfectly /
eva no'ne here, and the attention that, slo |
AM gs her charge has won the admiration |
rs seen her.
rar science does all that II proposes TO DO |
ill., 'ne nousekeeper, says Godey's Maya
pn,. paDies will not entirely usurp the
hi 'Ii9n furnished from the friendly bot
prf,Nr.i, lchen chemistry has reached such /
|asbee loh that we are told delectabie
bgres, may be compounded from bottled
MI ne nus; the advanced school OF chem
|ttn5,c,oo okery processes to be able to re-
|av ny :, anything, from the succulent tur-
|re ~ the esculent mushroom of the gour-
|hs , wsait6hout the Interpolation OF nature.
|hsndS 'UW0 chef will no longer be In de-
I'm ,.,S 1nu even the humble kitchen soul
ston 'ofeea 70 seek some other aVo-
egoksr,e. heeeping WILL in this millennium OF
y De reduced to a fine art, as, with