The Washington bee. [volume] (Washington, D.C.) 1884-1922, 1895-09-14

We should cultivate our minds as
rel as our appearance; if not, after
ares when youth has passed away, all
nat we possess will lay uncultivated
srd dwindle to nothing.
There is nothing that keeps a man
from marrying more than the constant
nroof of how recklessly young girls
ffnend money. If married woman is
eytrayagant with money, her huaband
seldom gives her enough to meet the
/ demands even of the household.
Men have a truer sense of the value
4 of money because they are compelled
10 earn it, and when money comes hard
is value is greatly impressed.
Entertaining ladies allow people to
Gee of bright intellect to see their
thoughts in formation, for prepared
talk has a ready-made flatness.
II YOU wish to be popular talk about
what interests your companions and
not what interests you.
Don't talk about a person who was
once your bosom friend if so YOU
will never have friend.
A disposition to find fault or depre-
ciate the little favors shown YOU, not
only makes you unhappy but causes
yOur WOuld-be friends to dislikes YOU.
Beware of the person who is ALWAYS
giving good advice to others and his
open actions are just to the contrary,
for he is a pretender.
Happy is the girl who knows her best
friend is true and is not always CRYING
down the reputation of some one else's
best girl.
Women as we'll as men often cause
one another to lose confidence in each
other by repremanding without cause
and becoming jealous when it is not
necessary.
When person does the best he can,
no more should be expected of him,
but fate seems to make it appear that
more one does more he shall have
to do.
If complaints must be made let them
come at the proper time, but do not
imperil your digestion by eating while
you are in an irritated and discontinued
frame of mind.
Pleasant talk relieved by an occa-
sonal laugh is more beneficial than
great deal of medicine.
The lessen of law and obedience is
one that needs to combine with love in
the very first instructions given to chill
dren. To learn to obey is the hardest
and most valuable lesson a child can
ever acquire.
Many girl encourages another in
the habit of borrowing by being too
Cowardly to say no. The proper thing
to say Is, you cannot afford to lend it.
Don't spend your money on the last
bit of cheap jewelry, for the time will
come when yon will need fresh hat
or gown.
Women who are cautious in their
Investments, are generally honest
about paying what they owe.
The girl who knows nothing about
her clothes, or the value of them who
uses her money for nonsense, is not fit
to be the mistress of household nor
the wife of either rich or poor man.
Very often man who loves a girl is |
afraid to ask her to bebome his wife for |
fear he hasn't money enough to support |
her Such should not be the case, for |
a true girl never marrries for wealth. |
E. CT was impressed with your
statement as TO how girls should act |
but differ widely in your requirements,
concerning social company.
We should realize the danger of sci
fShness and the neglect Of the duties
owed to the world and all mankind.
p. DIS it ever permissible in what
is called politeness to ask personal
questions such as age, income the cost
OF an article, ETC.?
A good man does not abuse the con-
hdenCe which is placed in him. When
he does SO he is no longer a good man,
but yagabond and should be Stunned
by those who he may injure.
When man insults lady she should
Show by her GOODNESS of MANNER, that
she resentS the impertinence of which
he has been guilty and drop his &C
qualntance Immediately.
Should a man forget the dignity of
his Office, it would be we'll for a woman
TO teach him to remember it.
J. E.-Consistent kindness will
Sooner or later win the heart of a
woman as well as a child. Once this
Is accomplished you will be rewarded.
Turn a deaf ear to unkind speeches
When you know that as near as posi-
Die, You are trying to do your duty.
NJ. Bit is unfortunate to have a
jealous lover. Jealousy is not always
caused by love for one another. Some
Tunes a man is jealous of a girl because
ne thinks she is loved by another, es-
pecially when his own love is scattered.