Democratic Northwest and Henry County news. [volume] (Napoleon, O. [Ohio]) 1894-1905, 1895-08-15


periences with Women Guests.
A bachelor said in my presence a year
or two ago: "Women are not by nature
or habit so clean or orderly as men or
| so delicate in their ideas of small mat
tiers. 4"
combated the assertion, with indig-
nant protests, and assured the speaker
that only disappointed bachelor, whom
some woman's peridy had soured, could
make such a statement.
Nevertheless l set about studying the
habits of the sexes in these respects, and
began to question people who had wide
opportunities of judging such matters,
and the result has not been wholly COM
plimentary to my sisters.
First, noticed the dress of men and
women in public conveyances. 1t is
rarely indeed one sees man, with any
claims to respectable attire, who dis
plays soiled collar, cuffs or shirt front.
But I have observed soiled laces about
the neck of many an otherwise richly
and fashionably attired woman, and
soiled white gloves are woefully in evil
dence and ruin scores of handsome toi-
let's
do not think have ever seen fringes
or tatters about the ankles of a man.
1t seems to be an understood law
among the most ordinary types of re-
spectacle men that the first raveled seam
or ripped lining shall be attended to by
the tailor before the garment is worn
again. But women who carry fortunes
upon their backs display torn founces
and ragged laces frequently on the street
crossings or in alighting from vehicles.
Only few weeks ago I walked be-
hind young lady in prominent New
York avenue and admired the perfect
fit of her brand new promenade costume
and the exquisite details, which exhib-
tied excellent taste and Judgment of the
wearer or her modiste. Hat, gloves,
gown and wrap and veil were in har-
mony. But suddenly there came q mud
dy crossing. The lady lifted her dress
and showed charming foot elegantly
booted; but, alas, above it silk petit
coat, with three rags hanging from it.
The harmony was ruined by q discord.
Just as was about to emerge from
Turkish bath establishment one day
young woman who speaks three Ian
guages fuently and who belongs to a
rich and influential family entered and
tossed off an expensive cloak, display.
ing faded silk waist which was out at
the elbows and badly soiled about the
neck Her skirt was trim and modish,
her cloak. and bonnet irreproachable,
but the waist she wore was inexcusably
shabby. could not help but wonder if
she had appeared in this garment at the
breakfast table.
Perhaps in similar intimacy men may
see similar untidiness among members
of their own sex, but doubt it.
On the other hand, where is the wo-
man who could endure for ten minutes
the filth of smoking car" in which
refined men pass hours? The recollection
of passing through one by accident to
reach parlor car is sufficient to un-
utIf6 tllo average WUudu.
Talking with lady who has large
country home, where she entertains ex-
tensively, I asked her opinion on this
subject. She gave it as follws:
II will tell you our experience" she
said, (which, I fear, is not a solitary
one. Tt SO happened that two young la
dies and two young gentlemen had been
passing week under my roof, and the
morning of their departure my house
keeper was i'll, and went in person to
super!ntend the cleaning Of the rooms
which they had occupied,
"The young ladies, mind you, had
been reared in homes of culture and
learning and were to all appearance
dainty and refined specimens of their
sex. Yet this was the condition of the
rooms which they had occupied for
week:
"The handsome dresser cloth was
stained and spattered by toilet creams
and washes. A box of face powder had
been overturned on the velvet carpet,
and the print Of small slipper toe had
tracked it about the room. A large, un-
slightly roll of mixed blond and brunette
combings' protruded from pasteboard
receptacle like last years bird nest.
Three toilet bottles were minus their
shoppers. -Four cambria handkerchiefs
and one glove were found under the
bed, and in the sweepings of the room
were discovered 81 dresspins, four hat
pins and two lacepins containing jew
els
"When the room just vacated by the
men was Investigated, the only souve-
Mrs remaining were two half burned
cigars, small heap Of cigar ashes on
the mantelpiece and one quill toothpick
Oh the floor.
"FSure, and I'd rather clean up after
tin gintlemen than one lady any day.
remarked my servant, and in view of
The contrast between the two rooms l
rould not rebuke her. T"
Another hostess whom I consulted on
this subject said: 81 do not know that
l have found men guests neater than
women, but I have found them more
delicate minded in regard to many mat
ters. For instance, the seemingly best
bred girls and the richest are often ex-
ceedingly careless in small matters.
They will borrow wrap from hostess
when they have mislaid their own Or it
is inaccessible, and they will leave this
garment on veranda chair or in boat
with reckless disregard Of conse-
quences, 4"
Another lady said: II think men bathe
much more than women do and are
more particular about the details of
their clothing and dress. I think it is
more than balanced by many of their
unclean habits - smoking, chewing,