The Lamar register., 1895-06-29

matter -of-tAet way,
perhaps. Of looking at the subject ou'
Il II usuaily the point at issue. To an
awcr one question with another.
might again be asked. What Is Implied
By -gettlnx on In society," Those VINO
d. NOT get on know good deal about
this depressing condition and could
give the BEST Interpretation of Nhht
mot Ge<tSng on" signifies. Society pop
ulAritv b attained not by one type OF
volIan Alone, but by many and most
dfversfred types. One thing is GER
tain. ho~ever, circumstances and sur
rcuudInks either create and foster pop
ulartty or are dead against Its groNih-
Riches and rank are. II goes without
ssytnx. the mos; sure means to his
end and are the direct road to success
BeAuty- axain. scores for its possesSofs
q dixtiuet popularity In society. and
when thess three gifts are united the
po&iffon Is exceptionally strong and
eomm4ndx success. As regards the In
4tyidunIfty Of society women apart
nom aurrounaiHss. what qualities are
bee< su1tec Tor winning the race and
reachtnx the geais Docs the yiync!ous
and nwry. animated and demonstra-
ttve pomAn. or the reserved. seif-con-
tAlned md composed one come most to
the hunt and gain the greatest num-
ber = eseial Iaureis, Placing them
A1oe ~ eide and judging from results.
~ prrusnent gains arc TO the latter.
WnmGn ~ this order are pre-eninent-
y nae11sfui on various counts: what
syef = Iaeking in them OF hrilitaney
md An1naiion. and even Of brain
pouW. b eouaterhalaseed by an
anscEas es persistent perseverance that
produer1 slow hut sure effect An
amazing Woman Is led away from her
point by the talen; she possesses. she Is
dsiightful company. bat she does not
tnspfre the reliance upon her or the be-
lief IN her that the less clever woman
dces- uh1ie from a mRrriageable point
Of vfew : woman who sees the humor-
ous eite ~ every situation in daily
life T. rot the one a man desires TO
maka his wife. and a woman without
q sctntfiiation of humor In her com
position Is chosen before one who Is
danxerously clever. For whyr Mos;
men look Cor haven OF rest when en-
terinG Into matrimony and prefer
placid and reserved woman. even to
insipidLty. to one whose conversational
powers are undeniable,
Il Is the placid woman who scores
the grentast success in society. Her
hue&end ii under the spell OF her infiu-
encs<and never attempts to evade or
cpnte1f II: her will is law. and all that
she pr4jects and desires Is carried out
II within the region OF possibility.
Perhaps the secret OF her supremacy
IL that she Is an unknown quantity;
she suggests the probability OF there
being 8 depth in her character not cas-
ily fathomed. Of there being so much
in her II the right note were only
ntruck 70 sound IL As a girl this piac-
|fdity and nnruified eompospre attract
I'd mary suitors, as a woman II secured
|her FIRM footing in society. and the
70 which she belonged believed
10 any extent and was not sur
- q II the strides she made in pop
kAXz fand TO see how easily she grew
VA fthe light OF mediocre women
ne many. and 1t is to them the
share OF social disappoint-
Vol Their mediocrity consists
b being neither one thing nor
ier7 not amusing nor brilliant,
~ &.reiy taikatiye: chatty. II not gos-