The Washington bee., 1895-09-28

The man or woman who depends on
amusemeuts and entertainments for the
happiness Of his life is a most unfortu.
nate being and slave to the accidents
and incidents of life.
Personal happiness that is worth hav.
ing must be based on right feeling,
right doing and generous impulses,
thoughtfulness of others and forgetful-
ness of ones self
A work in the line that one enjoys is
like rowing with the the tide or sowing
with the grain.
Talk can be made to order as fast as
the tongue can run, hence girls should
not believe all that a man says and
think him too interesting to live with
out.
Girls are too quick TO accept of a
mans attention because of his position
or looks. They should first find out
whether or not he is married, his char
acter and disposition. A married man
posing as single deserves more abuses
than he gets; but girls should look at
the matter seriously before accepting
his company, SO as to avoid trouble.
] do not approve of love at first
sight; girl should first play man to
find out whether he amounts to any,
thing, and if he becomes impatient and
goes away you may feel thankful that
you are rid of a knave.
A person that breads to be corrected
or criticized never has manner of ele-
ganCe or an expression of charm.
Great men nor women are not those
who despise the days of small doings,
but those who improve them the most
carefully.
Ella.-Loud perfumes are vulgar, but
delicate choice ones denote refinement.
When care and conscience, adapti-
bility, and an amiable temper are
shown in a woman, she is very apt to
make gentle, faithful wife for kind
and protecting husband.
A girl who is refined in taste and
quick in perception, demands her
rights and sees that she gets them,
would make a conSiderate wife for
kind husband.
Don't be guilty of making special
effort after effect, but be ambitious,
hopeful and merry in all your methods
and thereby be a pleasing study.
An impetuous or impulsive person is
very apt to look too far ahead of him.
objects which would be of great serv-
ice to him.
A well-bred man raises his hat to
woman though he may have never seen
her before, if he meets her in any place
or manner or circumstances where they
cannot help seeing each other; for in
stance, in a country foot-path SO mar
row that one has to make way for the
other, or on flight of stairs.
A bright home makes merry heart
and quarrelsome woman make an un-
happy home.
Persons desi1ous to be thought ladies
should not converse Screamingly, ap-
parently for the purpose of attracting
attention.
Some women succeed in drawing at |
tention by being loud and uncouth, but |
the attention they elicit is not of a COM
pllmentary nature.
There is magnetism in kind, loving |
woman whose voice is usually of a me-
lodious sound, which is almost irresist-
ible and is apt to catch the most stern
est heart.
A sad spectacle is home in which
the mother is a drudge, while the
daughters recline at their ease, never
dreaming of their responsibilities.
B. CAS- you are very stout, have
all your waists made the half fitting or
three-quarter length coat, since it con-
Ceals rather than reveals your too
prominent outlines. One of the COM
monest mistakes of the fat woman is
to suppose that the short, perky basque
is her only choice.
1t is good for a woman to dress well,
as she is then able to devote her mind
to other things without hindrance, as
1t is the shabby woman who cannot for
moment forget what she has on.
A good husband keeps his wife in {
the wholesome ignorance of unneces-
Sary secrets.