The Washington bee., 1895-12-21

A hard cold, advice it is, for a person
10 advise one TO do what they fail to do
themselves.
The greatest mistake that most So
called converSationaliStS make is to
commence talking on first introduc-
ton of ancient history.
Beware ofthe man who is continually
looking for ladies" for he is sinner
of the deepest dye and only seeks their
degradation.
A man whose motives are pure, will
treat every woman with respect, and
when he detects one who is not lady,
he will treat her with the uttermoSt
contempt.
The impression made by saving
pleasant things is much deeper and
more lasting if uttered in sweet voice
than if spoken in harsh disagreeable
voice.
Bessie If you wish to have some
thing new for the holidays in the way
of entertaining, would suggest to
have "topic dinner of twenty-five
courses" At the beginning of each
COulSG, q uCW kOplS UC
duCed and discussed throughout the
course.
Many young girl is actually fidgety
because she thinks to be a success she
must be full of life," and always on
the go. If such is ones temperament
it may be sometimes attractive, though
il is very tlresome,
When man YOU don I remember at
all plunges into a conversation, babit
of repose will enable you to keep an
anmoved and quiet demeanor till
something he says enables you to
@'ptace" him.
The girl who is always in hurry to
gabble would betray herself at once.
Let all young women take to cult
'ating the ability to be quiet, and they
will find and promptly appreciate its
social values
Be your own counselor. Remember
the old adage, 'three may keep a Sc
cret, iftwo ofthem are dead.
Pretended manners are not very be-
coming. No matter how fine person
may look, except their manners are nat
ural and that of every day, it can be
detected with an unfavorable impress
sion At once.
Cultivate short memory as TO all
unkindness and forbearance till your
heart yields fine crop oft.
Act as if you expected to live hun
dred years, but might die tomorrow.
1t is not wise for a girl to marry a
man with the idea of reforming him,
though some men are reformed and
stay reformed through the influence of
good woman.
No one was ever reformed by scold-
my, sarcasm or fault finding or COM
plants, for such soon becomes an old
story, where kindness is always new.
Pay but little attention to mean
small things, bear not malice and re-
member that she shall be Judged with
out mercy, who has shown no
mercy"
A person who has not the self-respect
TO save himself will not respect anv
one enough to be saved by them from
degradation.
Gentleman are never over-dressed,
nor bolsterous and are never effusive.
hlrls should take warning
One does not need to be beautiful to
be attractive. A pleasant manner,
great deal of consideration and an in
tereStlng mode of speech, not only at
tracts, but holds admiration where alb
solute beauty often fails.
fyou are associating with person
whose influence does not seem to be
tor YOUR good, it is wise to discontinue
such acquaintance.
Reader: fully agree with you that
word of praise does everybody good
and 1t would be well if more people
said kind words to ono another.E
Don't drawl out your words into long
tails or clip them into docked stumps,
nor loop them on to others with chains
of 'erS"
When you are'conversing, don't al
low small trifle like a spider on the
wall, or butterfly on the lawn distract
you. Pay undivided attention TO the
conversation on hand.
Marriages means partnership for life
and divorces are merely exceptions
that prove the rule.
Dear girls. DO remember that talk is
cheap and can be made to order as
idsi as the wlry tongue ofmen can talk.
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