Elmore bulletin. [volume] (Rocky Bar, Idaho) 1889-1906, 1894-04-28

THEY SHOULD LEARN 10 coNTNok.
on CONCEAL THE rEELINa.

THEY SHOULD LEARN 70 coNTNok
on CONCEAL TAE FEELING.
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yAsorsunNts Kisd Of usIpasss'-os~
sage Advise from = wsns.-
The following missivs flutesrsd into -
recsntly and seems deserving of A open
reply, since the writer b ons of : inrrn
ciasss
DuAa Fmnmo Nina. wrrnox Il en- : ssrnnrue
2 you; sgs yos s.s :. =. srissd 2 y ~, wenss,
advice am = newly uefried Wits. lo1m4
my husband and he - desoted 10 ~ MI
suifcr the Agonies " tonth daily tnsoHG4
jealousy. I am jsalocs q s.esy vesnea -
one but mo. and want 70 - : Doo1 vife 81
make him happy. but ths Isant a1on111no -
pays 70 any woman sends me into : feeW =
jsalousy.
In society nov falss many nsn wsrs to -
wives II made M susplcious of al uGu. 90
now that an . wifs an null q feaf ~ ~
husband Will b false 70 me- H T. - Gee1 -
me am ashamed Of the~e tho1uhcA 1ou -
what 10 do 70 curs myssh Of ny 1eolceng: =
ous Of.
In ths ilrst place. my dear young wounnn.
you want to realize the great truth tha4
thoughts are things, and that by dweIliu9
ON any one idea you can produces condt-
tion TO correspond with Il. space h 0llo1
with influences aud forces ready toreap0nd
70 your thought. Every time you think
Jealous Thoughts you attract Jealous fcroos
that will In tinse. n ron continns ID this
1aw ksx.k - - - -
ron. On the contrary. u you think snd
say, "He u true. he y loyal. be love- -
and h worthy q my love-" yOu ateynet
forces Of love and truth which strenGthem
him to rssist every temptation life n,ay
offer.
In the nsxt place you want 70 cuitivsss
that rarest Of all plants Ia ths gaFdsn =
love-eommoR sense.
Sit down and consider The situa&icn.
Why did your husband select yon - ~
women TO become his wifs' Probably ~
cause he loved you more than al otAsm
Well, thcn, with. hin love and biz daily
compant0nship TO start with you hnye .
great advantage over all rivalA You have
the power In your hands 70 fan this 1ams
Of love into = steady nre or 70 Qusnch 4
forever.
However much man may b. imbuod
with sentiment. he likes comfort ard penco
| Of mind m . steady home diet n you d.
prive him OF these sentimental ideas l0vs
is Of very little value TO him.
Every time you allow your unreasonable
jealousy 70 make him uneomfoxtabls you
lose ground with him and make II mors
? possible Tor him TO turn elsewhere Tor dis
: traction.
9 Added 70 this. you show yourself IN q
|, unbecoming mood and he win ba inclinsi
h 70 CONTRAST q sulien, fearful wife with
' more agreeable women he meets else
! where
Whatever You may feel. You ou9ht 10 b
able to control yourself for the s4ke o
!. your appearance In the eyes Of this mn,
o you love.
o A perpetuaily Jealous wife. rsmsmbsr, 1
r the most unlovable object possible. and
% you feel yonr emotions getting hsyond eon
4 troll manage 20 secinde yourself and cry |
q out alone good cry - often great =
{, lief to = woman. But Il would BE- well I
!" steam and hathe your facs well hefors ~
allow your husband to sse you.
q Make your mind that nowhere elsa q
n earth sh2u -yeuv husbanH and sneh con
- tori. snch affection. such choerfuinans sue
d. agreeable manners as he finds with yog
10 Unless he h the trashie1t sort Of characfe
10 less being he h not going 70 be tlisIoyal |
!. the woman who exhibits all these qualltio
I, Try and become = good comrade TO yoz
= husband. Make him feel that he can npea
y his opinions freely to you. that you unde
o stand him fully, and when be express
admiration Of other women brace yours
up and agree with him. Brace yours
still further and show polite attention
ko the women he admircs.
N Nothing win more fully convinoe III
- that you respect his TASTES and that SC
- have confidence Ina your own position uuf
sT cient TO admit his friends TO your regard.
40 Since you lore him no devotcs!ly and i
lis 70 morbidly Jealous this win be dificu
task for you- But love Il full az hax
cd ships and the effort IL worth making.
NV Aside from this IL In . wise thing
=. study carefully and eioskly the won
=. whom you fear ~ rivals Iike shyiI
~ horse when driven closs 70 the piecs
IN futtering paper which has CAUSED him
ey snort and culver with terror, you will
come calm and self possessed when y
mt discover On close acquaintance how bArl
nm less are the women you have consider
,ra dangerous rivals
an On the contrary, n ron avoid them .
.. disparAgc them you will foster your jealo
''' imagination and figure your husband 4
. chivalric defense Of them. which will
Va maddening 70 yeur jsAious heart. :
Am you will lower yourself In your hunban'
nd esteem. while u you are agresahls Z
be- attentive 10 his friends he will Admire !
OF respect you.
tha Talk TO him Of your pride IN hls loyal
- tell him that you realize the temptatil
- with which mans life II surrounded !
'h' praise him for giving you reason 70 rogp
him. n he Is q manly man he Will
greater happiness In being worthy q y
praise ard pride than In yioldinx n /
an passing temptation other women .
offer II you accuse him q neglect end
NV fidelity and nag him with Your 5<ni
npy fears you viii drive him to others Tor q
VA. fort and distraction.
=. Avoid talking with other women ah
oas fnithleaa husbands who deceive tranf
rfes wives. Many women have = mania 4
ear late cases IL Irfideiity. and teAloun VI
,,,,sx aeem fascinated with the nuhjeck ~
e ID ~ you would infcction
ON II obliged tolinten 10 such rec1o2IA \
by . mental comment that ron 4oxn y
and only one side Of tho story. X6o d. ~
49, know what cAuee tho xt<w E&x4 9
80 husbands 70 become fo1@hIcea 1ax
u a. seemingly "10vufHd and 1xuatfnE W1to''
,hed nsRRcd her husband into in@1slltx b.
rom marrow. pseay splx1k g 1T nndln!
- sukAl mAtters--e9 c1ae t1elste1t mc94
III has driven sleep nom lnxur1n41 plz
rank Think u this v@4n xeu hear - Q1g~
rork or neglected Wt<ek instead @ peco1
- excited Nnd mcrhM on ths suhject
Almost al je&fpus people ARE 4eiaaH
unwilling 10 neeord tho Abef44 taA{
No douf{ y1n receiys complin,epte !