Pine Bluff daily graphic., 1894-04-18
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,t,e. of the Wife in the Domestic

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 ., tbe Wife in the Domestic W pus'Ns system.
 ...os like roses, have thorns that
 reas and promote discomfort |Fetf M uus when and where you are un- |lefeinsa a The virtue of honemaking |s hs ' sadly marred in various ways. apy Oe o,aan 2s,s knows in her inner con ssers sness to just what extent her c'2'iS.,sa burden. If she carries it on o'pe ,a,,iders. ,s i as Atlas did the world sf sne tbsn battling with one of the 'l.'.. '...os,no forces which fate stations at E's.oslns aarner ostensibly to thwart her ss's Home should be a haven or s'7as a,. ,.osort to which we may all re- ess @ to escape the conhiet and stri6e ' ., !, outside world. It should be a '.sa Ts' where everything is free and TT ss.ona in it should be individuallzed se' sa tbe motto should be unity in di" nsity. ,4 ,,, 4i,. .sf @i' measure of home all day, seeking s5 G tbe diversion which one duty, 9sno st as q foil to another duty can .s@isb is on the wrong track. She IS ,,rr; mo a thorn on the roseate virtue home devotion that will one day ,~s of itself and prick her own hR- srs and more than likely pierce heT s er heart. She will feel 0 pa@g i.an her children tell her she is bt7s I,,s the times, for in the minds of the Excessive young ieonoclasts of the {s;lv she has perhaps forgotten to .aft the quality of unselfishness. It nn f do for the mother to be mo- ,nolist in this matter of unselfishness. H is a demonstrable fact that the .s,aan who is thoroughly absorbed in .,s home. living for domestic sys- m chasing up speclzs of dust plod- ne along like plow horse in the n,e groove her mother and grand other did before her, is not the wo' an who instills into her children the aatest love of home. Self-sacrifice as Ina aternal monopoly is a very thrifty afn on the virtue of homemaking. rbe mental. moral, physical and ,ancial slavery of mothers to ehil- sn is another thorn. There Is 8 dis. action to be made between devotion d slavery. The tendency of the nerican woman to lose sight of her |ties of wife, allowing herself to be sorbed in the capacity of mother, is as sof the forces that threaten to un- mine our social and domestic sys- n England has race of home-lov- z people, and the world over there folves for the grown-ups more than re The children live in q nursery, d the boys go away to school, and' anions are feature of the annual and of events. Individual interest 3hines without the home is a great nent to the bond within t. There woman in this city who has put at idea into practical execution by Ming the children to different ices in the summer time for their ting Each child has well-seleeted end and in pairs they separate, one the mountains. one to the seashore, Ether to the plantation and so on. Iey are glad to go and infinitely hap .r to return, and then such visiting there is and such relating of experi- ces! 1t takes 8 year to tell all they re absorbed
 Zoo much of home isan domination eedon in it is the alto -be-desired alitT. Freedom in 1t is more apt to nerate self-respeet and self-reliance tside of it than subjection to auto ltic rules of method and system that Iwith the old-time laws of the Medes q Persians
 rhe mother, of all persons, has the lst right to become seIf-centered ncentration of thought and energy to certain degree necessary to the scess of the home, but that the mind the mother be in a receptive state to Ter conditions and events is equally iential The home must reach out q allow it's sympathies to expand, the world needs it. The circum- abed love which does not penetrate ycnd the four walls of home is a gatiye force which initiates against s science of home-mal1ing -Balti- lre Sun.