The times. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1890-1903, 1894-07-29
MAKING CORRECT CALLS.
xrcErrrS or ErIQUErTE MARION
THE sOCIAL WHEELS.
,bo New Arrival should Take tho 1nitia-
U,e-Cards and Personal Csils-Nhat
poiiscness Requires.

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fcw words ON the fashion OF paying
ell returning calls may not be inappro-
".t. as pOluts often occur or "a some
lf pcsglc,ing character The broad
Time of calling is generally under
f. that is 90 saw that calls must In
course Dee made and consequently
,.rrcd What Is 90 be said about nrst
.. ON arrival should calls bc made
. ..rt on friends and acQuaintanCcS, OF
Ia they take the Initiative and hc
o.. tret 10 calie This question. SO often
b4s Int one answer. not only ON the
....l If ttQucttc hut also irOu com
. sense roinf Of Wow
ami, al shoni5 he tho first to call
... by So doing. Intimate the fact OF
.-on sd.ircss. Otherwise weeks may
..-. before acquaintanccs become
.,.r, of the exact whereabouts OF those
CO.,. have arrived. and when the stay is
.. short orn limited ~ weeks. the
. ..-,uN r.,I fe country calling
.....,, l,~,,aipf4uop>. although intl-
.,l.r4.nif, ,,..a~lon. IN to be re-
. =. .'ln, Instances. and In is then
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t..' .'S ",,SN ,' No1 az nome VIII "r
II nus instinct "s' g'i
is . i'".t-t's SHOWN TO lAe person 'd4Iti
"..'. ,lo' y,,2,f,II' IL l2iina a N"sl1
'-F+.HttV'. WI~l'u, ANil4N',0
Nt "ouI1 hr az % eehdl''h. ana WIN
Nt"lnt "til"N'il* "oAll NOT hc TOT Ui-
-."S ON tAr GROUND mat those VINO
rally do So. illness or absence couId
ll'nc prevent ttlS from being 0DIc" TWO
IImldatie pai0 10 the acceptance oi ln-
t.ttiu-S.
After The FIRST interchange Of calls what
l.netn OF time should follow before d
pa ctilt nus is point where lit
g. H'Sildu"h steps iu- sly new ar
HtS tahei ana been called upon
l.t N'eh, "hch should the call
tp'alel Most probably some kind
I'D INVITATION VIII reach her II an
'.A ,...'' comment she VIII nave the
emmy oi IrlNllt cards aiterWart
G. ...'- j., j., - d u.i.HeI H'i,ttoh' aiI,
'.lNDlSt " I'm" l,ite NtrnS Wound
i'"'t ulne wherein 10 can h5
-" ..i'-' .''Dr VliI5 HiiniHS "a "Iiei stay
- GOWN "ttttWlse SIX weeks or two
t calling. NOt Infrcqutnuy new ar
r. i-s ont invitations ass soon as calls
.r been returned This gives an OPEN
.- t.r further callug 0n the new arrival
IT. mutations are az the nature as before
stated. otherwise the acceptance Of an
ir.Iuun % luncheon or afternoon tea Is
equivalent % call and does not ncccssi-
f.- subsequent one. providing people
af- intimate with tacn other other"iac
avg invitation 10 luncheon call
tIlN follows within fortnight
question that occurs to many is
whether 10 rs more correct % return a
t~-f 04ll on an "at home day or on any
o..tI day OF the week. To return cal
.r 400 Eat home lay would Doe the correct
thing % DO for various reasons. The mis-
tr.-- # the house would he sure 10 be- at
home. and. being no home. she would pro-
baby prefer 10 receive calls on that day
tt 10 almost amounts % matter on
convenience on the part of the caller as
~ whether engagements permit Is IL
etiquette to call second time before
Dall has been retururd2 The answer is
LN. not regards mere UrQNulllfdIfte
even II ihr can IS DELAYED IL must sun