The Wichita daily eagle. [volume] (Wichita, Kan.) 1890-1906, 1894-08-04
The MODEL HUSBAND.
ara Henry Ward Beschsr Tells What lie
Should he Like.

should re Like.
There is no period in a mothers life
that brings more anxious care. writes
Mrs Henry Ward Beccher ia the La
dies Home journal, than when She
sees her daughters. who are blossom
ing into voruanhood. beginning u at
tract the attention of yo1ng men, and
IL becomes evident 10 the mother. &c
least, that simple friendly relations are
fast developing into some thing stronger
and closer 4 wise mother may not re-
veal her anxiety 70 her daughters, or
tell them 20 whnt she sees this friend
hhip tending. But. influenced b. the
rowing conpanlonsnip and counsers
which have constantly blessed them
from earliest childhood, the daughters
cannot fail 70 have gathered some ideas
Of the peculiar characteristics which
should b. plainly developed IN "A lover.
Even in the first days Of womauhoo6 a
young girl cannot fail % understand
that marrisge with a man lacking GER
tain qualities must he a miserabla
failure.
Our daughters surely know that
morality, the strfctest temperance. a
stesdfast adherence n. and correct Rp-
probation q what is right. Joined to
true affection and Rentleness, must bo
the unmistakabie characteristics both
Of friend and lover, always ready 20
PrHtfy the wishes 81 friends al all
times, without regard 20 any sacrifice
that may Dc necessary. II such wishes
q, svr a
on principle or honor; earnest and active
ia the discharge 90 all duties, leaving
none half accomplished even % obliva
the wishes Of the best beloved. Can
any true woman love or respect a man
IN whom these traits arc not fully de-
veloped2
But important as such qualities mos.
certainly ere. they are by no means all
that our laaThtcrs should be satisfied
With iu "a husband We claim that tho
hu band ard wife nre equal. and arc
bound % labor for one purposa. united
II; the ig.lIiu~ u true home. work.
lag together in spirit. Soit each accept
ing that part - th--~ duties which the
abilities that have tsen glssu them are
best adapted o. perform. Bot there =
stin something more that ths ievsr
must - able o. offer before q. a hus-
band. Ls can E-ase happy ho1lc.
True home courtseiss should -. given
- friends and acquaintance, bot love
thoul1 be Spontaneously manifested -
The wife before and beyond al Others
There reeG - no foolish -su tiu1~1taliry
in this, tut manly. open attcn's 5u that
s. easily recognized &C spTins~sr., frU1a
the same spirit fhat enriched the days
a. their courtshiy. Dos tbs s~ern .
small thing Ah bEt 6; has g-cas
power - iururr tac happiezt ha.uss u
is not fSe tear TIA, love has grown
cold soon after marriage f. e0usaul-
mated TIA: - often fades tie russs
from tie cheek. or 6izla the tTfghtness
e. The yy-ug uifa's eycs-I.ot - E1nea.
The lack - lore ~ r4lssiug tbs frye and
sweet tna1.ff.stati1u - H. Ia the Ei-Gs-
PIE. loving courtssi-s II sv~ry-t3aT he
after marriage there u ga rIila4itet
power thzt Re maiden EttIs dreams
q before laarrlagr. Ho-s lauch t-cs
la~Ti1css ioos. v0~t trnr can
give. Hos ru..cn sadncas All direa-a.
TT there are experienced o. tLs lsea
q thea.
Such comparatively s-laI things "a
far - zaz<e cp .hs fail ss-a ahso,1ts.y
reos-sa-y - tree fuzrr'ed aap.iaeE<
Ee~ aude-stzTsd bow kfn4 roT;s. =
srz-5I~ q simple cares can brighten zzt
snr.ch wlale DAY tsr re wifs. 2ad
r--zks hard datses p-eazzl%