The Wichita daily eagle. [volume] (Wichita, Kan.) 1890-1906, 1894-09-01
ON MAKING LOVE
The Antique, the Progressive and
the EpheusTeL
< ChaPe-on Gives Some Interesting OBJ
se-Tstiors Upon the Workings OF
the Tender Passion in Young
Girls OF To-Day.

'You see,7 said the chaperon of q
quartette Of lively girls at Long
Branch says the Chicago Inter Ocean,
there are now three kinds Of court
tng-the antique, the progressive and
the ephemeral. Odd. isn't it, where
the heart IS concerned? Both the an
1lque and the ephemeral kind are
found among the old girls and boys and
the debutaEtes. while the progressive
sort IS confined mostly 20 those who
have been in society half dozen sea-
sons or less.
The antique Is the kind which has
for its password one lie, one love. The
ephemeral lends TO the fancy of the
hour without further reelection. The
progressive IS one with which we have
10 deal in answering the query: Where
are the old favOrities. and why are the
younger set 50 POPULAR
1t is most natural that the matured
bachelor and the rosebud should enjoy
each others society. This is epheme-
raj, no responsibility, no care; but the
rosebud has decided advantage over
her courtly gallant; for, while she is
becoming sl1illful in the use of Cupids
weapons. he is losing time and ground
and some day win awaken TO the truth
that he is growing old. bald and ride
ulOuS.
What does the young girl see in
her old escort? Mostly attention,
which IS very tiattering TO her in her
first season out. And the bachelor
what does he see in her? He Is lonely
The women Of his set have disappeared
somewhere. and he is willing to buy
candy, kiss lap dogs, do anything to be
entertained and entertaining. In this
capacity the bachelor is most
useful member of society. He has
even been known to walk around with
grandmamma and to carry the mar
ried sisters baby and luggage 10 the
train.
Progressive courtship is curious.
When young woman begins to enter
tam serious thoughts of her future.
whether in choosing a profession,
business cc a husband. she rises above
driftwood and marks tree that viii
shelter her. Her time. also, is a con-
sideration. She cannot waste years
dallying with an old bean. perennial.
These perennials are many of them
good souls, nice for escorts. but not up
to date enough for ideal husbands. So
the marriageable women, those who
can preside with dignity over neat
homes-the bellies, in short, of past
seaSOnS-leave the ranks and form new
ties
When a young woman becomes in
different TO parties, likes distant
friends, protracted visits and can't be
located. keep a sharp lookout among
the marriage notices. The Out-of-town
men secure most OF the home prizes
The only chance for home bachelors is
TO emulate the example Of the girls
that IS, to go out of town, too. where
they are not known rs everlastincs.
suppose, however, that they can
not give up the old favorites: suppose
that there is a great Juggling ct the
heart when they think of losing them.
In such cases. if the men value their
happiness and wish to wager on their
chances they must become specialists
in love and ply their skill increasingly
as the summer season approaches.
Good by. sweetheart If said idly, viii
be detected by no one more quickly
than by the young lady herself, and
the chance viii be greatly in favor of
that London, Philadelphia or Balti-
more man"