The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1894-11-18

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love. All Of which does not mean that she
ia anything but an estimable person.
E-oisu Is not an acquired fault, but
fundamental fact, and unless she is a
f psychological freak no woman can be so
. much interested ira anything else as she
is On herself
But just because of the an pervading law
of interest i'm ones self it is a great mis-
. take so let that interest become too appar-
emit lie was "a wise man who defined
bore as "a man who talked about himself
when YOU wanted TO talk about yourself.
Because the second party to q. converse
ton is always as self-absOrbed as the
firstOue il is "a mistake TO talk m UGH about
ones self. J. is a mistake, that is if one
cares at an for the good will, peace and
. happiness OF her listeners, or for that gilt
teriug baubla known as social success.
The world does not care for your all
uents unless it recalls some ai}ment of
the worlds own. The world is not at all
interested in your hopes, aims. dresses,
eugagements, servants, babies, and the
like. 1t cares only for its own.
Therefore the woman who uspires to be
popular must resolutely deny herself the
exquisite pleasure of talking about her
sell She must. by reading, sightseeing,
tleater-gOiuE. ana the like, M herself to
converse iutelligently on other subjects
than herself. She must draw o-Ier people
out concerning themselves She must
give up the rare delight of re ating her
own experiences and emotions, unless she
does ii i'm the privacy of her own room
and to the unresponsive, undisturbed
doors and mirrors. That mi sht prove
relief to her and would certainly make her
40 enemies as any other form Of personal
conversation surely would.
The giving of wedding presents, says the
New York World, IS in no wise on the
decline, and according TO Boston re
ports members of the particular set there
are inauguratnC the custom of sending
engagement presents. When a. recent en-
gagement was announced, that Of Miss
Alice Hastings, daughter of DR.. and Mrs.
William II. Hastings, to Mr.. George
Crompton of Worcester, the young couple
received no less than seN'enty-tive presents
many of them Of great value.
a woman visiting in Denver just before
election, says the New York SUM- writes
very pleasantly to her friends in the
east of the women who we're actively en-
gagged in the political campaign, and also
of her Impressions in reg ard to the charm
ing effect equal rights seems to have had
upon them. They were delightful in con
Vcrsaton, so animated end interested in
political affairs, and, oOvo all, so de-
termned to defeat their Objectionable
governor. Politics We're talked every day
and every whore, and precinct meetings,
beautiful in their harmony, We're held in
elegant parlors. Lists Of unregistered
men and women We're distributed among
the workers for personal attention, which
was never i'm one inst lance neglected. Even
the men conceded that the women We're
the best, most persuasive work ers. At
ward meeting where both sexes We're
represented and speech as made the in
tricacies of the Australian ballot
were explained to them by going
through the form of voting, with
every possible situation which might arise
at the polls brought up for at object les
son Women swelled the nun bers at the
torchlight professions, half filled the halls
where political meetings WO'e held, and
waved their handkerchiefs vigorously
when the men shouted. At n meeting of
the Fortnightly club a brilliant club wo-
man from Chicago paid a glowing tri-
butte to the women present for the ele-
waited tone of their conversation, in which
she said she had never DOUBTED the right
Of equal suffrage. but she had had fears
/ of it's feasibility and Of its influence on
women. but since she had been in Den
Yer, and had heard politics talked by
them-had seen what a sense of duty was
doing for the most thoughtless, and what
earnest work they were all doing, she
could never fear again.
As soon as suffrage was conferred upon
women the literary clubs formed classes
for the study of how to insure good gov
! crnment. and invited all women to join.
meaning,
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hold;
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dwelling
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