The Wichita daily eagle. [volume] (Wichita, Kan.) 1890-1906, 1894-07-20

IT struck me rs I listened 70 their chat
ter that it would be a good thing if men
might know Just what women say of
them in the Sanctity of bOudoir, and |
determined to betray confidence. BE as
sured that when a woman has her hair
down and is lolling with cooling drink
in the shaded silence OF her own little
sanctum she is apt to speak the truth.
L think " said No. l, that men don't
give sufficient attention 20 tritles- Ii there
Is one thing in the world q man should be
particular about, it Is his clothes. But
the American man does not dress well.
Outside Of New York and few other big
towns he doesn t even approach the correct
standard. "
You are not exploiting the dude, are
you2" asked No. ?, lifting her eyebrows.
Not bit Of it. I think all sensible
women deteSt the dude"
so do l. so far, then, 1 quite agree
with you"
Il mean the carelessly dressed man,
when by little interest and attention he
could be most pleasing sight. mean
the man who gets one suit Of clothes at
time and wears that with dust and creaSes,
day in and day out, to business. When
II Is worn out, ne gets another, and so on
Men should do as we women do, even
when our means are very small. They
should have two business suits going az a
time-twO at least-mOre If they can az
ford ii. II wouldn't cost a bit more in
the end. After wearing one a fC-v DAYS It
should be left at home or at q tailor for
busting and pressing. He should be par
ticular about his linen, and il pays 10
wear the very best He should strive 20
pay certain homage 10 fashion, for moth
ing becomes absolutely popular thing
unless there is "A good reason FOR IT,.
Exactly said No ?. Il remember
once that i could have fallen deeply in
love with a man but for the ahoninabio
ties and scarfs he insisted on wearing
They were ecru and scarlet or snuff color
and pjnk-and his scarfpiusi When he
didn't have golden calf stuck In his hid
eous neck decoration. he had silver ele-
plant / remember l summoned courage
10 speak OF the matter, and he was enrag-
ed He stood up for that silver elephant
in a way 10 turn your blood cold.
Il can understand how that would AZ
feet you. Men don't realize how well
women reason from small things. II he
was rooted in bad taste and you married
him, fancy the strain upon your brain and
health IL he insisted on filling the house
with bric-a- braC that was horrid and plush
furniture Of vile col0rs that would set your
teeth on edge. It's the same rule applied
moro ditfu~ely Now, there another GU
rious thing l want 10 tell you. Men have
really better skins than women when they
take care of them. The man who i do
voted 70 a daily bath morning or night,
If it's only "a sponge bath, has always. an
less there is something cOnstitutionally
wrong. a good, wholesome, cool looking
skin. IL takes lot Of little tridcs 10 make
a woman look her best. H'r abundant
hair must have a curl IN it; she must
have pretty throat, pink and white
skin, red, fresh lips, beauty 81 eye. Be
coming eo1ors arr great advantage To
her. 20 is = weU;ikn vel which hides an
occasional frccklc and gives completeness .
70 her costume. But mon need only % b. .
well Rroomcd ard tidily dressed IN quiet
colon, o. be- perfectly acceptable. a man
may BE- reclaimed. cross eyed and have an
utterly hopeless nose but If you are inn
pressed by his absolute, fawless ciea1li- /
ness he viii BE- interesting"
''Nh4, about hsrs:'
Wei. man sh0uld - course. get F.
what j. most becoming. but not II 10 f. 10 4
unconventional thar DO j, labeled queer +
This Is not the latitude for the .ornarer0, F
and yachting caps arr ridiculous save on f.
or near the water. 4 high hai should al .
ways p reserved A. a dress affair Just a.
woman game bonnet -. Derbl"s .
like. and whatever -tvIe f. N reZie Usu-
ally looks the beet. Ih1-e straw hats with .
round, Wabbly Crown and rolled up Eritns,
which make every man look Ike s.i0cr
Of meat joints or q mixer ~ drink
should b. avoided ike the plague b. al T.
sensible men
4 think Jewelry l. horrid on man,
don = yous.'
of oogr-e- 7 dou't mind rsg and
good. plain watch. rlr DO mon.
Vow. what trait, 20 you think women
hate most 10 men,
The crwsralr nan is = horror % az
women. Tie cG-r- Ha.e man ls equally
had EF -Ea- T Don moan The nan -
slight physique ard delicate fea.C-s 51t
Ee WHO Eaes r1-i-c irf1 rhe smallest a.
fair - DIE sisters ard ziss. w-o likes ~
70 shopping who s5-- g. VINO rar@ groo
keeps an ..cr.urt ~ tt- s-ral..-- to--
hold eTpsud.-.l-f-- .l IA. who 1.-.rrrs t..a
woman Place, g. we. a. her s4,s-
faults
There IS o1e stEil T5-7e " sad No q
] E@rs Is The man who j. 'closs AID
SIC vTags,l her bead
sob Ae' EG1-t him ou- - eTr--fi.az
II a man is pocr. 7 cons thlrE fEeyr 81 %
retlnsc woman living Wao -h.1ks iee 20
a-nz. a. a man fsr 't1- frdad .nrtlsc .
-.Tely ard ce.lcately she trlas 20 D. rs 70
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