The herald. [microfilm reel] (Los Angeles [Calif.]) 1893-1900, 1893-06-27
SEX RELATIONSHIP.
A CALM AND DlSPAssloNATE VIEW OF
1.-THE WOMAN QUESTION:

Tho Future of "a Nations Prosperity De-
ponds In Great Part on the Marriage Re-
lation- Lessons Drawn from the History
of Ancient Greece and Rome.
The rights and wrongs of women are
now debated with a vigor and virulence
which increase every day. Those who
demand for women not only all the priv
ileges which men possess, bu5 also con-
tinued exemption from their response
bilities, would carry the principle of fe-
male emancipation to point which has
aroused opposition on the part of many
who in every great question of the day
are admittedly leaders of the party of
progress. While the contest RACES as to
whether women are to know, say and do
everything that the coarsest of men can,
or, on the other hand, be kept completely
in the background, people arc apt to for
get what is really the crucial point of
the whole question.
They forget that the position of WON
en-, and Of men, too, for that matter,
is inseparably bound up with the rela-
tionships between the sexes known as
marriage; are apt to forget the impor-
lance Of that relationship not only to in
dividuals, but to the state; are apt to
forget that too rigorous subsection of
women may bring us near to barbarism,
too great an emancipation may lead to
that corruption which has so often in
the worlds history been the outcome of
civilization which has not placed due
restraint on the passions and impulses.
Tho prosperity of country depends
on the proper maintenance of the rela-
tons between husband and wife quite
as much as on its outer strength, and
however great and powerful q country
may seem to be, if these domestic rela-
tons are unhealthy, if the wife has not
her place in the social polity, that coun-
try is rotten to the core, and it's complete
decay and Generalization are inevitable.
Speaking generally, there are four as
poets or ideals of the status of the wife
-four ways in which her position is re-
garded by men.
There is the method of the barbarian,
that of the oriental, that of western civ
ilization, that of corrupt civilization,
which last is practically the degraded
form of the third. The barbarian re-
CARDS his wife as mere slave-a squaw
to cook bis food, carry his burdens, sub
nit to his i'll usage. The oriental sees in
his wife plaything to crafty his pas
sions. to be kept in the strictest seclu-
sion. and to be treated altogether as a
brainless being; regarded by him, in
fact, go far as any respect is concerned,
much as the squaw is regarded by the
savage.
From the third point of view the wife's
position is very different. True, she is
the mother of her husbands children;
true. she has duties to perform which
hcr husband would disdain; true. her
husband is the head of the family, and
she bears his name. But with all this
she is looked upon as her husbands
eguai. is the sharer of his counsels, bis
Intelligent partner and has right to ex-
pect from him the fidelity which in the
case of the savage or the oriental is so
one sided.
The credit of placing this view of mar
ried life before mankind has been
claimed by Christian writers for their
religion Bat although we must admit
that Christianity has done much to inn
prove the position of woman, yet the
high ideal which we have termed that of
western civilization existed in very
strong degree in ancient Greece, still
more strongly among the Romans and
tho nations Of western Europe, whom
they conquered and civilized long before
Christianity was preached. and the noble
qualities which we admire in those races
may often be directly traced to the in
huence of wives and mothers.
But high as is thisideal history shows
that there are dangers which threaten
those societies where it prevails; dan
ger tho outcome Of that very civilization
which it has done SO much to perfect
Luxury prosperity. too great liberty,
want of mutual respect and continual
striving after new sensations are too apt
to destroy that wholesome state of things
which has been the palladium of every
great nation. and we too often have ex-
amples of the fourth ideal, which, though
springing from the third. is so distinct
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itself Where wife is no longer con
tent with taking her share in the battle
of life, no longer content to recognize
the fact that there are things which it
better becomes the woman to do than
tho man, and vice versa; when she insists
on aping and sharing the follies and
vices of the man, on casting from her
that modesty and reserve which are
woman's greatest charms; when she
spurns maternity and domestic duties as
trivial or monotonous, then indeed the
marriage state must fall into disrepute;
then the fatherland must surely suffer
1t was this which led to the unspeak-
able horrors of imperial Rome; it was
the unsexed women, their prohigacy only
equaled by their audacity, who were re-
sponsible as much as Nero and Domi-
tan themselves for the downfall of Ro-
man civilization. Ohio and Silius would
have been impossible but for Poppea
and Messalina. In latter times, too. and
even in Christian countries, where the
marriage tie was in theory held SO sa-
cred that If duly celebrated it could only
be dissolved by death, we have seen a
state of things as bad.-Westminster
Review.
NIustaches and Boards.
Englishmen only generation ago had
such n detesfation of rnustaches and