Bismarck weekly tribune. [volume] (Bismarck, Dakota [N.D.]) 1884-1943, 1893-04-07
WOMAN AND HOME.
RULES TO BE OBSERVED IN TRYING
TO WIN A MANS AFFECTIONS.

The Sovereignty Of Love-England's Prob
able Future Queen-The First Lady of
France-some Women Grow Rich-Teas-
ing Young Children.
Why is matrimony such an interesting
topic? There has been more said upon it
began, and everybody has a word of advice
to offer upon the mooted question. 1t is
certainly a great art to get married. In the
first place, you must select the one to marry
that is, if you are a man. Should you be
a woman, the stern necessity is imposed of
waiting until some one selects you. 1t is to
by a worthy man that these reflections are
intended.
Now, it is not so easy to be selected as
some women suppose. Man is a deep ami
nal; he is Il thinker. His eyes may some
times be attracted by a pretty face or viva
cious manner and thereby cause patronage
to flow toward the waiting ice cream mag
nate In summer OF to the keeper Of sleighs
in snowy weather, but these attributes will
not always tempt him to marry. Reflect
for a moment. Does a man when his court.
ing days are over desire a doll-some one to
preside simply in the parlor or on festive
occasions? The answer is emphatically in
the negative. The right kind Of a man
wishes a woman who in an emergency is
capable of officiating in every part of the
house, although she may never be called
upon to do 80. The reserve power should
be on hand.
Three rules ought to be observed in the
process OF winning mans affection. Your
chances of matrimony are greatly enhanced
If you are: l. Neat. 2. Amiable. 8. Aztec.
tionate. Neatness is a prime requisite, and
it applies in many particulars. A soiled
dress, teeth that show neglect and hair be-
tokening lack of attention are not at all
agreeable to the average masculine being.
He notices these things. He finds out If
you bite your finger nails, only dress we'll
when he comes to see you, can't cook prop
erly Or don't look as attractive to your
brother as you appear to him. He is lucky
If he discovers these failings before mar.
riaye, but a miserable mortal, worthy of
unlimited commiseration, if the discovery
is postponed until after the HONEYMOON ia
over
In the second place, %amiability is a very
important faculty to possess. You can do
more with a man by being amiable than by
having an unbending will. Never lose your
temper. and he won't lose his. Suppose you
are in an ice cream saloon Greeting thoueht)
and a careless waiter happens to upset the
cooling Wand upon your dress. Here is an
opportunity. If your lovely eyes flash fire
and cause the unfortunate wretch of q
waiter to wish he was on board the fas. 1t
trolley car in existence, beware of YOU
companion He doesn't like it. On the
other hand. should you suppress your an.
noyance, smile and apologize for the errinp
attendant, your chances of becoming some.
body's wife are increased at least 8Sk per
cent.
Thirdly, be affectionate. Be loving to
your relatives. If you don't love your fa-
Their and peaceful little brother, how in the
name of reason are you going to love a hus-
bandf He is Of the same tribe as they. He
has doubtless the same cranky eccentr;ci-
ties Hs thev possess. 'IEa ueu.,. ..v.x.