The Iola register. [volume] (Iola, Allen County, Kansas) 1875-1902, 1893-07-14
IN WUMAN'S BEHALF.
A NEW PROFESSION.
Profitable Employment Can Always BE
Found for Competent Housekeepers.

Found for Competent Housekeepers.
a fine and profitable business for
women, pursued as profession, is that
of housekeeping. Every woman thinks
herself fitted to keep house;" but in
sober truth those who are really fitted
for it-that is, thoHe who are thorough
ly educated in its requirements so that
they would have right to practice it
as they would any other trade or pro-
fession and receive money for it-are
by no means many. Yet if the womea
who have peculiarly strong domestic
| inclinations would recognize that this
trend of their talent is towards house
keeping. and then prepare themselves
seriously from the first step to the last,
there would be sensible addition
made to the comfort of the world, and
new opening established through
which many women, instead of now
and then one, could earn their liveli-
| hoods.
As it now is. when there seems to be
| nothing else that q woman can do, and
| she has not home into which she can
| take boarders for its support, she adj
| vertises herself as a housekeeper for a
gentleman's family. ''widower pre-
| ferred." If she had learned her bust
| ness, as she would have that of dress
making. or type-writing. or school
teaching, or surgery. or any thing
else, in short, she would never have to
make that humiliating postscript of
''widower preferred In that case the
widower would not be preferred. She
would go into house where there was
| wife who wished and wearied for her,
and would pursue her duties under no
offensive suspicion of an intention ulti-
mately to marry the widOwcr 1t would
make small difference to her if her en-
ployer were man or woman. although
she might perhaps slightly prefer the
woman for the sake of the sympathy
which one woman has for another: but
she would go on with her tasks. her
plans, her oversight. occupied with the
house and keeping it in order, with the
children and their clothes and their
health, with the table, the servants, |
the linen, with the whole round of the |
years work which keeps house and |
home in running order. and would pay
no more heed to the personally of the |
man OF the house, as an individual |
pleasant or unpleasant to her, than if |
she were an automa ton that had been |
wound up to go through its motions at |
his service.
1t is no trifiing education that WOMB
an will need to be competent for the |
place in this light She will have to !
have the ordinary school education, that |
she may not be illiterate, that she may |
be capable of directing the children's |
lessons if she have the oversight of |
children; she will want some knowl-
edge of the world, and acquaintance
with the manners of the highly bred;
she will want to cultivate all the com
nonsense with which nature may have
endowed her in order that she NAV
carry herself inoffensively: she will
want courage to assert her rights and
to maintain her place among the insub-
ordinate, with neatness order. patience,
6rmncss, foresight. and absolute truth
fulness: she will need good-nature and
sweet temper, that she may be an
agreeable feature in the house. and
modesty, that She may be an unObtru-
sive one. and tact, to keep herself out
of the way when not wanted, to put
herself in the way at any demand for
her. She will require low voice, too,
a gentle movement, pleasant manner,
d quiet taste in dress.
But beside these things our house
keeper is no houseEcepcr at all if she
does not know the way to handle n
broom, the way to firt a buster. the
way to make the intricacies of spring
and fall cleaning endurable to the in
mates OF the house; does not know how
the dishes should be washed without ,
nicking them: how the meats should
be bought, should be cut. be dressed;
how the meals should be prepared and
served, how the sweetmeats, the pick
les, the catsupS should be made; how
TO cut out and haste and sew, how the
should be done: she must
know, indeed. everything that pertains
to the practical side of the family COM
tort and nicety-must know it all, even
+ she is never going to be called upon
20 do thus and 50 with her own hands.
The women who will thus equip them
selves have to advertise for no position;
he schools that can turn them out '
will be beset with applicants; and the
themselves will not only have
provided for their own comforta bic and
support, but they will =
have learned how to make suffering !
happy. and will have added ..
mother profession to those already
pursued by wonen-a profession in !,
Iced. and not an upper class of service. !,
-IIarper's Bazar.