New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1893-09-03
HOME AND SOCIETY.
~ ESSENTIAL OF "sMARrNEss.
x, wr1IrTURNED OUT" GIRL-DAINriNEs'
~ TRIPLES THE MUSICAL GIRL
FASHIONABLE BALLET DANCING
PRINCESS NAYS WAIST.

~ TRIPLES THE MUSICAL GILL
FASHIONABLE BALLET DANCING
PRINCESS NAYS WAIST.
o,,,rg that men OF society dislike so
much or criticise so freely as unudiness -.
r.r Sovenly details in the way OF snoes'
v,oves ties etc. are always pouceu anu ~
.,snted upon, and to say woman Is shai
"well-turned-out" is to give the hignes. M" ,.s
,.s IN their vocabulary. Very expensive e'o'"''
20 not at all necessary to insure masculine app
~,,or ON the contrary the simplest toilets are .ne
LET admired If the fit and style are GOOD anu !,
,h. accessories are carefully consdered-ahu, "oo'
al ~ the gown is fresh and unsoieu' ine'
omethnr quite fascinating about oa,h'is s"o1
toot peeping in and out among the irhis Vi ".'
.,aa ~. and nowadays expense need be no ODD
r..,. as the pretty suede shoes black ana "hi'e'
.rd tan and gray. are very reasohaoe =" 80 -
r,ven a girl who is far from wealthy "a" ea9",
o1ord several pairs TO wear on espec'ai o0e" Iii,
while her feathers. tan and BLACK can 80 80
-. vent brilliantly clean by the right sort OIL pon''
NON also is more apt to admire sVle 'na
.,,v girl who is Chic and dresses eHec'iNe
" is generally much more or a peiie ',ia" ~ on
beautiful sister. who perhaps relies 100 m'uS Ia
-. nrettness for her attractions After all Is sa'u
he' -, clothes are and will remain one OF the
81, Factors of our existence, the tailor mah's 'e
- and the dressmaker the woman, as lar as CA
,arnals CO. Humilatng as 1t may seem d o s.,
Inc or an unbecomng gown often influences u ,..
more than women. much as 'he' WV
dream of. 40 .o,,s sp,r,s for the
-. ,r or two that they are always open pehiio
=, ,be wast?" asked a hypercriticai youth III.
.,or dav 81 never saw anything IKE It, a''
sunday in church three girls were si''ihe =" III.
new in front of me, ana assui. ~
80 was tidly put together at the waist Now'
- ,yaist and skirt never come apart nc
',,nuod addressing his companion pray ho"
a. ,ou manage it? should really like 10 tell my
s,s,erss who are always coming apart
..rhey will not thank you for quoths me "
-, - LAUGHED his companion, ''but unless .hihes
~. seved together there is only one way, anu nc
" - oar tho hand of the skirt very tlght' o'hei-
IL. a. &c sure TO sag below the belt. Anu peS'ue'
..,s ,here should be two sets OF hooks anu 80
- that there is a good lap Tell your sisters :" ~
these two essentials anu am a
will have no more trouble
-..,oss IN triAes is very attractive GIT
.,a, &c wrapped in good paper ana 'eu WIZ
re,tv ribbon for instance, looks TWICE % -
w. az the same present carelessy eNei -
80 Knows how a table may be maze ieiiieu "
phe ~ -. .ha more setting of the china, glass
- o,,,arv and how the touch OF the mistress
hand will convert the clumsy disposition % 49, a..
axnerienced servant into an ARRANGEMENT " r,,,rs
pansar The same room with the same furhi'ure
-, ,ooI az widely different as the DESERT "a
may iooN .,a Garden of Eden, according to the
-. .hown nv its occupant. This power Vi h'',e
ss,nos cannot be overestimated. ana II 10 nv W"
In things inanimate, but in woros anu go
.h,s most desirable quality OF taste may o
sested A kind action may be maue " -.
'es'eu - ,s. WOW no bestowed tactfully, by force
gthe,ou' -. no deemed a trihe, but which some
- 4. ~ the greatest importance. On the o''e,
"a a careless neglectful manner VIII aiios' -
. kinoness of the pleasure IL was ii'e" s, .. th.
,o,, and render 1t absolutely distas'eiui !" ''S
recipient.
A.. rno,sh woman asserts that the reason tnat
.ho voung girl is declared Impossible III Ems Ems ~
society. the reason why no man "ah'. " liter.
- ,s easlv discovered: it Is because the h'hei''
"e'' A.. A., warns 10 dwell exclusively upon
.,o,f his doings his sayings and his 1eehnss,
nd natent endurance not being charac.eris'io u
south the young girl is written down as u"s'NA-
nathetic and crude.
Although exceptionally good voices are porn, no,
snade really wonderful results may pe ao'Ne ~
with an ordinary organ by proper cui''d"o,, N
t,rea with a fair amount Of perseverance. Many
D 49,, &c weak and insignificant in the begin
80 Nc deveIoped even great merit i never
was more surprised in my life SAID a iaoy ~
.neakng Of a school friend TO hnu Maj! % e
-art as a vocalist Of the first order Iei"e
when she first began singing lessons a. Nh
C,s and she had thin, reedy little pipe 'ha' wa'
60, ,auphable But she had wonderful perse-
%srance and ! am told that this dehghtlui resu''
10 due simply to the excellent training she mas au
abroad combined of course, with her OWN ue'e
mination to succeed , ~,,a an
such cases are by no means rare anu s'iou -
a.o rorarts 10 give their children every ad'
.o,,asa In this direction. Try to ma the VOICE.
trs,ead of waiting for 1t to assert ITSELF anu
NAV become a treasure-trove OF the eiea'e ~
IN the household. Although children shouiu NC IN
~oa 20 sing particularly tooether, 1t is not wei
to commence the regular training ui'i '"e :,
.umc,artlv developed physically; and even lhe" II
ons without saving that 1t should be not over
trained This is particularly necessary III inc .d'ee
that show exceptional merit; many an organ "
oualty has been ruined by overtrahihe anu w. -,
10y Nature. although she can be materially
-, 80, no WISHED Boys as a rule, should pe
s.oo, seventeen and eighteen before their voice'
.ra trained and in cases, where an iiidi
vdual is backward in development IL Is -.
wait until a year or so later o'iris ee' W
ural voices sooner. and may begin says 'o'''pe
tent authority at fifteen in some cases. yea
80. 4. bowever better OF course it Is well
,ou,n fact that dissipation of any kind RUNS th'
voice: the cigarette-smoking youth may aS We
give I'D all hope Of acquiring charhi'He a.. a.a>
-.ad,v summoned accomplishment III Is Po''''''
pain sometimes, to see me VOICES h'eia' -.
S.red through indulgence. Much worse thah oury
,ng talent as did the condemned Hebrew Oh ou
&c the cruelty Of deliberately destroying IT,
v,,sa narents will by-and-by cease to nnict III
,,iserv of persistent piano-training on ua"e"'
III Save only ordinary ability. Much money Il
as,.d much precious time thrown away OH I'm
,s,r,ment by not specially clever ana muslca
Girls. who generally drop it after marriage, I'm
ST. ,nonev and time spent on the cultivation o
The voice and the study Of the theory OF mus,
would mean untold pleasure Tor the singer ao
"a Cor her friends The power 10 play sooo dc
or should be acquired at the same time
This is an accomplishment which Is too seldom
found and which might well be studied Wy 3"
Who has not sufficient musical gift to warran
more severe study. Quick reading ana ss,nnn
,nek n
49, .., ord great is the pleasure she ca
aovolp"ss nan and woman of society VIII