Grand Rapids herald. [volume] (Grand Rapids, Mich.) 1892-1959, 1893-07-31

VII nss F~sp~es par~4ts whose ssthonry
tE<y 10 ma v~psca Who - thass
yosax nssa tAAs swAs1ss through the
sts.ss. vita t,s<is shnmhs la their vest.
sA.1sax stcss tAAss father - The I'd
naAa.- tbs governs. ''shs squire.
''ths Old sAsp." ~ snssr mosAss - ''ths
Old wuaanr They are sho-s who N
ynsh. IN shai1Apcd. nevvr lsaxnsd % TO
sy<>t sashsrsfy Eh. having heard that
k,s ssAa kAd dksa M thar w,ckuins~s.
fed ever hsckward and hcoss has mech
and dsi Wal ~ inisht. What v life
o. . fashsr whose spns Ars dsbanehesl
The dass - shs v~lhsy " psss~nat TO his
tssss. and he drsvinS rains that drip
through the roof u shs s~puichsr are
swssss sess Che wincs % Hclbon-
Thsse n~a b hsrmoay tpssween the
fAther's gossrnrnsas and the mothers
govvnasesk The fsstSs VIII b tempt
Ell 10 40 great rsxcr. The mother will bs
tempted to ~ great leni~ncy. Her ten
aernsss VII ovsreospe Der. Her voice Is
. little softer; Der hand sssns better a.
10 pull OUT q thorn and scothc pang.
Chilassn wanting any thing from the
mother cry for It. They hops 10 dissolve
her will with tears. But tho mother
must not interfere. mu~t not coax on.
muse not beg for shs child when the
hour Gomez for the assertion Of parental
supremacy sasi tho subjugxtion II .
ohild's sempes. There comes In the his
tory Of every child an hour when IL Is
tested whssaer the parents shall rule or
the child shall rule. That Is the crucial
hour. II the cAlli triumphs IN that hour,
then he vail some day make you crouch
II il a horrible scene. l have witnessed
it--a mother GENE 10 old ase. shivering
with terror Ia the presence os son who
cursed her gray hssirs and Knocked her
wrinkled face and begrudged her tho
crust she munched with her toothless
gums.
How sharper than . s-rpsnt's tooth II II
To hare n thsnkisss childi
CONTROL YOUR TExrER
Bat. on the other hand. too great rig
or must be avoided. IL Is sad thing
when domestic government becomes cold
military dsspoiisin- Trappers on tho
prairie fight Gre with fire. but you cam
not successfully fight your childs bad
temper with yonr own bad temper. We
must not be too minute in our inspec-
ton. We cannot expect our children TO
te perfect. We must not see every
thing. Since we have two or three faults
Of our OWE, we ought not to be too
rough when We discover that our chill
dren have rs many. II tradition be
true, when we were children we were
not all little Samuels, and our PARENTS
were not fearful lest they could not raise
us because of our premature goodness.
You cannot scold or pound your chill
drcn into nobility Of character The
bloom Of chili's heart can never be
soen under a cold drizzle. Above all.
avoid frettiag and scolding in the house
hold. Better than 10 years OF fretting
al your children is one good. round. old
fashioned application Of the slipper,
That minister Of the gospel Of whom we
read in the newspapers that he whipped
his child 10 death because he would not
ray his prayers will never come 70 can
oni1atiOn. The arithmetics cannot cal
: culste how many thousands of children
have been ruined forever either through
too great rigor or too great leniency.
Tie heavens and the earth are filed
with the loan u the sacrificed. In this
important matter seek divine direction.
@ father, O mother. Some one asked
the mother 81 Lord Chief Justice Mans
field If she was not proud TO have three
snch eminent SONS and all Of them 81
good No." she said. Iii Is nothing 10 be
proud Of. but something for which IL be
very grateful"
Again. there are mShy who are sacri-
icing their children 10 a spirit Il world.
illness. Some one asked "a mother whose
children had turned out very well wha;
was the secret by which che prepared
them for usefulness and for tho Chris.
tan life. and sh. said: This was the
secret When in the morning WASHED
my children. prayed that they might
b. wasaesl In the fountain Of Saviour
mercy. When put on their garments
Iprsyea that they might b. arrayed IN
the robe u ssvionr's Righteousness
When gave them food. prayed that
they might BE- fed with mamma from
heaven. When I started them ON tbs
road 10 school. prayed that their patti
fright le - the shining light. brighter
and brighter 10 the perfect day. wh@
rrt them 10 sleep. prayed that they
might - enfoided in The saviour arms.
.'Ch. yon say. that was very old fash
smell II WIS quite old fashioned. Bui
10 sou srppo.. that n child under such
nurture ~ that ever tnrued cut bsdi
TOO aucH wonLpIIxEss
In our dAv mos, boys start out with n,
idea higher man the all encompassins
dollar. They star, in IA age whic,
teasis u can scratch tho Lords Prayei
os. 10 cent piece. and the Ten Com
nanimsEts GA n 10 cent piece. ChildreI
arr taught 20 resince morals and religion
time and eternity. 20 vulgar fractions
IL SEEMS o. - their chief attainment
that "a cents make dime. and 20 dime,
make a dollar How 70 ge, money !,
on.y equlled by he other art. how q
keep ~ Tell me. We who know. whs'
chance there IA for these who start onr
n iifs With such perverted sentiments
TIE money market resornds again snt
again vish 10 downfall a such reopIs
Ii | had a drop - bicoI cn the tip II I
psn. would ter ron Nv what s~fa'
tragedy rnsny = no yoaih Of this coun.
Try ara ru.ne'i.
Further "a thousands ilnd tens 4 thou
sands ~ fhc daughters u America sr,
sarrfa ri - ~rtFlaiiness. Tl.sy sre tssngh'
% b ia .5uspatliY with 81 TIE srtifcisli
ffss - s,-sierv. Thsv ara in9.cfa~t Inn