The times. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1890-1903, 1893-03-26
ETIQUETTE OF VISITING CARDS.
Those Of tho Variety SO Profusely Used In
Fashionable Like.

Fashionable Lie.
Provincial folks or the uninitiated find 10
phase of fashionable social life in big city
so sadly perplexing as the strict and
elaborate card etiquette at present OBJ
served. Very great stress Is laid upon the
receiving ard distributing Of these bits OK
pasteboard, and deaections from rules laid
down are regarded as proof OF unpardona
bic ignorance.
Two Inaccessible but very common az
fronts to form is for man to have his
name engraved simply John Jones'" Mr..
should invariably precede it, The other
blunder is for young woman to forego the
Miss. 1t has bold, crude look to be SET
down as Mary or Nancy without the cour-
tesy's prefix. A third stupid mistake often
made is for girl 10 have card separate
from her mothers As long as Mary and
Nancy are really youthful they should only
appear under their mammals wings on the
same square Of pasteboard, trihe lower
down. II there are several sisters, then the
older ones gradually graduate to having
cards of their own, and the younger girls
appear with mammals. SO strictly Is this
rule observed by well informed persons
that If two of the daughters are in society
and two more are to DO introduced a.
debutantes the cards go out, "Nrs. jones'"
below, Misses JONES'" and still lower
down misses Geraldine and Amethyst
Jones'" If under the chaperonage Of
married woman. all the foregoing rules are
carefully observed by young women.
When leaving neghborhood for an ex-
tended absence, L. Il. c. are in order, and
upon returning this simple visiting card is
Immediately posted. After a woman has
met man once or twice, it is customary
to signify her willingness TO have him call
by sending her card. This is also done
when she visits n strange city and happens
to court acquaintance there of either sex.
Upon returning home in the autumn, after
moving into new house, in moments Of
rapture and in depths Of despair the per-
sonal card is ever TO the fore.
Those used by matrons are always slight
" larger and thicker than the ones affected
By maids, but all alike are written in de-
cidedly heavier lines than of old Script OF
every description is bad form, and only the
delicate copper plate can be tolerated by
smart people The old fashioned habit OK
bending card through the center, or creas-
ing its corners TO signify for whom and how
many a call was intended, is wretchedly
bad style today. 1t is supposed that visit
ors are superior TO such small economies
and are willing to honor each individual
separately A pretty and rapidly increas-
ing custom is for those with wide ac-
quaintance to send especially designed cards
for Christmas. For example, Mr.. and Mrs.
Jones send Christmas greetings, 1892, to
-" and engraved as the ordinary carte do
viste, and then the name Of Mr.. and Mrs.
Brown or Robinson is written below.
Men who observe the graceful ceremonies
OF society are as fastidious as women con-
corning correct use OF the card. Bach
elors very frequently have their favorlte
club address IN the lower left hand corner
as residence or preferring it for a mail
center. Altar receiving any special courte-
sizes from members Of their own sex In a
strange city, men always post a card upon
leaving the place. There is one exception
In the form, when calling upon lady, for
a man to send in his card in advance Of his
entrance. If it happens to be her day at
home or a reception. he is simply an
nounced and on leaving the house deposits
cards for the entire family with the butler.
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