Morning journal and courier. [volume] (New Haven [Conn.]) 1848-1894, 1893-07-26
THE WIFE.
That IL TO Say. n Woman Who H.
Married.

Married.
From the New York sun
Do yen see the womabg
l do see the woman.
Who Is shsf
She is the wife of the man with her.
Are all women EivesI
They all want TO b..
wbyi
give it up.
The Bible says scme,birg about it.
doesn't IT.
Yes, but since the Bible We have gone
ahead.
Howl
Education.
Isn't education blessing II you have iii
That depsnds.
There is. then, education and educsiioni
MOst distingt!yely.
How long has thia woman been married.
Ten yesrs.
How old is she noEi
Twenty
She was married at nineteen, thenl
Yes, and her husband was twenty-three.
Is she happily msrTiedi
Oh, she SCENE 10 get along very com
fortably with her husband.
They sppear to be tired of each otheli
No, not that; they are used TO each
other
They don't talk much, do theyi
They haven't anything TO talk about
Why not.
Well, she talks to her friends, and he
talks to his; and they have gradually set
tied into the belief that husbands and
wives don't have to talk to each other.
Is 1t that they are uncongenisll
She wonld not say 90.
Bet they were devoted loversi
Devoted.
Couldn't stay away from each ether
minutef
Not unless they were perfectly miserable.
They had plenty 20 talk about tbeng
Not plenty in gusutity, but In quality.
the Fubjsci is one that stands su infinite
amount of talking under fsynTing condI-
tions
Love. prssuratI
OF course.
Why don't :hsy talk Il nuvg
They're married.
Don't married people talk luv+l
They ssS it is SO silly.
Don't yen guppose they thought Of shii
/ whtn they wttc Cnur.inLg
Hardly; conrtshIp is NOT a time al
A
ding day.
People make mir,Akes in that, dom
theyl
Yes, indeed
But these two were so youngl
That's one of ths mistakes.
Should she have EsitedE
At least five years. woman can do
vast deal of beneficial thinking in hvl
years at that period Of her life.
1 ~ -.
wsItedl
The years compel 1t; for years bring eT
peTienee, ard experience is q school IL
which even fools mus. learn.
Don't people become set in their ways
they wsit too longi
| II they do 1t Is not nearly 80 bad ss get
ting set in ezch others wsys, and RoinI
atout together as one person, always lone
~ unless thst psrEon have company.
Scma women have coEgenisl husbands
haven't tbe;i
Yes, but not IS the resul: of youthful
marriage, prompted ny wild, tumnltuouF
absorbing, ineffabls, urslterable love, sue
q summer novels are loaded with.
What do yea expect them to hsvei
Just that.
Is there q remeiys
Yes. they should be sensible.
Would 60 many marry II they werei
No, but there would be happier, at leRs
plessanteT. msrrisges. i; isn't quantit
so much as quality that we need in thi
business.
Shouldn't wives snd husbands be loTeTi
Better he frIf nia and companions.
wbyE
Because Lovers quarrel and are silly
they neglect forbearsnee and depend uPo
forgiveness; thoy wound snd count "a
4 healing as atcnsInent; they act hrst an
= think aftsrrard Friends don't do tbs
they forbear so they need not forgive; the
= make no wounds TO heal; they think b
: fore they act In other words they are II
q tlonsl bsinga-
\ But cold and unfeelIpgl
i Not at all; for friendship IS more er
! during than love, as love is generally prR
4 | tised.
? Don't most women say they prefer
a Quarrel and make upl
r Most women ssy a great many thin
v they are sorry for.
Z Is marriage q fsilurei
Like every other human affair, Il is
e improperly managed.