The Jersey City news. (Jersey City [N.J.]) 1889-1906, 1893-11-17
ADVICE TO old MAIDS
Make the Best of the Situa-
ton and Don't Become
Cranks.
SO SAYS REV. DIR. CRoNIN.
He Cautions Young Ladies Not 10
Marry for Money! Young
Mans Thousand.

Ihe fIav. Henry y. Crou1u, Pastor OF
the Second Presbyteriau Church.
delivered an interesting lecture on Love
Courtshfp and Marriage" last evening at
the church on Third street. The lecture
shows careful preparation and soma
sound advice was given to young men
aud young m The audience was
large and composed chiefly of young
people who were undoubtedly In
search Of pointers" Among other
things Mr.. Cronin said:-"Ws havs
divine authority that it is not we'll for
man to be alone ami therefore I would
advise every young man to marry. Th
saviour recognized and graced the
marriage ceremony with dis prsse lcs.
and therefore 1t Is no Jew question ina
! am to discuss tonight. God CAV woman
rs . com paniou for man. aud for this
reason the mau should leave his father
aud mother 20 join hand. In molly wedlock
with the woman he selects for his wits
The step is y serious one, 1t IL true and
the bond is oniy broken by death.
THE marriage tie Ii of lasting benefit
TO the human race. 1t supports social
order, and it 10 only through 1t that
truth and Righteousness Is given from
one generation. To another. Il ~ QUO
orabie and absolutely indisasnsa III Co
any we'll conducted community. But
before any one takes the Important
step there are many things th u
should be considered. IL lhs
young lady about to wed / would say
consider the matter earnestly and
th~oughtfully, make sure tn 1t your hus-
band Is earnest and that he loves you
truly. Examine mis- character. See that
he has no bad habits. Toe saying that a
reformed man makes ths best husband
is false. Bad habits once formed by a
man can nevsr be abandoned. Do not
marry n nan to reform hun. Ii you do
you will be disappointed.
DON'T MARRY FOR MONEY.
Above ali things don't marry for mon
ey. Don't marry the golden coin but
marry the maa. Wealth seldom brings
happiness aud mothers make u big mis-
take when they train thstr daughters to
seek the favor of the men who are
wealthy. and VINO would pa considered a
good match. Aud wnen you ara mar
a suddsn drop when the hon
eymoon Is over. No matter
now long you are married trsat -FOUR
husband as you di when he wts -FOUR
swee heart. II be goes to the club or
stays GU late at nights, attire Yourself in
tasty gowns. Ms you dld wneu you were
single. Make every thing comfortable for
your husband aud yon will dud thai he
will he willing to spend his time at
home,n
To the young men Mr.. Cronin said:-
MARRY by all means and do not be
afraid to start out on a Thousand dollars
q year. Your fathers started at consider
ably Less than that and they prospersd,
n today are able TO give You a weekly
allowance. Se.ect your wife carefully,
and when you select one treat her with
hes same respect You did as a sweetheart.
ADVICE TO L MAIDS.
"To the women VINO law Desn left out
In the cold world | would saY:-'Do not
go moplnG about, but adopt q cheerful
smile and pleasant manner, and show the
horrid men just what they missed. Do
not find fault With aim lst every msa DO
cause you we're not chosen to act as Is
partner tor one of them.e Tasrs Is joy
and happiness in this world for you evsa
If you do not marry. Mako ths bsst of
the situation aud do not become a
reu L. - L