Grand Rapids herald. [volume] (Grand Rapids, Mich.) 1892-1959, 1892-09-11

lar VIII women lie
may Do able 70 enjoy himself ~ Z fhoa-
sand ways without hszr. yet te issocratlv
uneasy II he finds himself ouIslde tie
pale Of her regard.
Some II the most brilliant men tha
world has known dia not know how -
please women. They Toald have ben
no less great and faT more agreeable
had they possessed tins faculty
While there are VARIETY u tastes ia
this matter, there are certain things
which a man must lot 10 Il be- would
please us. Personal expeTience, ollseIaa-
tion and the condolences u hundreds q
girls aud the criticisms II hundreds q
women al render ne certain u ny
grounds IA this nlat.er
The very first thing q man should
learn iswhen 70 gcl 4 have knoxsI. a fas-
cinating ard charming fellow. who bad
made an excellent impression. to-uttar-
~ ruin his chances o. pleasing a Lady
by prolonging his call uniil he s-esIfei
her.
IL Is a dangerous thing 20 DO once.
twice il Is fatal Uutl a woman doves
her patience Il easily exhausted. and
once impatient with "a man for ms lsck
Of perception she never feels the proper
respect afterward
The finest strain 81 music falls an
needed on the most appreciative 'esr>s a
played too long, the grsl5ds.st osssrss b.
comes tedious Il il ifngers 6lrough I've
long acts; the most cutertafrEng rnaa
can prolong tbs call until be bocouness a
bore.
A short visit drought 70 az end az the
moment when the lazy seems Tsort~iu-
terested is a SURF WY ~ securing E,fts.s-
ant recollections from her. No matter
If she pouts at the brevity q TIE os.n. a
wise man win not prolong n. bat Win
make his exit WITH graceful cosnpli-
ment Better leave Der po1Hng with
pique than saghing with relief
Neither should man call too con-
stantly until he n All afiiszsccd lower.
BE lacks wisdom II he does not allow
himself 10 be missed now sxd then
have heard scores Of girls spes.k Of some
attentive man in Oils way
"Oh. he Is sure 10 make himself visible
before the day closes. You may ~ sire
he viii invent some pretext 81 cali 49,
fore night
Triumph and irony always fnincis
with pleasure IL Z woman's tones " hen
she speaks hike this
Let him absent himself for aday or
two Unexpectedly. and both triumph and
irony give way % soiiciiuae. But he
should be careful not 70 make has sh-
sence too prolonged. Once bet hfrn gseoin
TO neglect her. and wornan soon for
gets man with whom slle j. net wholly
In hove.
A woman never likes man vino is
sarcastic and harsh in his criticisms Of
other men. u seems always % Indicate
a lack Of confidence Ia has own worth:
Ia has ability % bold his own against
others unless he dvprecistes them. and
the moment . man doubts himself "
doubt hirn also
asked bevy % bright giTis IL
what they most disliked in 8 man
Said No. ]:
Il dislike 20 have hlm make apologies
for his dress. A man should never
speak Of his clothes 70 a iaay.'
sand No. 2
Il dislike 20 have = man agree with
me in everything ! say aud Bcver ofer
an amendment
Said No. 9.
a dislike rnan who rbskes me 90
all the entertaining
Sand No. =
u dishks man who talhF on one
subject until he exhsustE Il aud me I
want him q change the toIac before I
am tired ~ H.
SAID No .
Il losftse man who b afraid q
drs.fts and who 81 forever fusinE s1rut
DOOR and Window. irrespective n ctlier
peoples cnrnfort'
Said No O.
i dete-t = cynical mfn who has no
faith IN human nature ~ motive. and
who p always tan ing T,essisnisIn.
20 nov. my deaK boys, puf fllis ia
your pipe asld sEnoke II