The evening world., 1892-02-15

husbands remain at home with them. My
husband says he doesn't. enjoy gong OUT
always tried to be ompaniona6ie we
FRANCES GRRY.
Companionship the Requisites.
There is no need NJ management" where
management In the world would effect moth
ing. Man expects happiness In his home life,
and the loving wife knows well how TO supply
that luxury not by artlhce 0ut py hohes''
She need not tell him OF her petty trials be;
cause he will discover them OF his own accord
and share them willingly. NO slave 10
would not allow it-but true wife
sharing his pleasures. taking pride in his ad-
vancement, soothing him In sorrow ana CIV
nT h tas WSeR he saSpb sa here TEL
When disputes arise she should, II con-
vinced Of right, maintain her point; fer when
the argument has passed the husband Will
Husband and wife are grown too old to play
at children in schemes and artifice to main
tain the marriage bond Shame to the wife
compelled 10 '',eed," wear bangs, frllls and
paint to hold him. There should be perfect
frankneSs and honesty, and the wife TO
"manage" her husband must flrst love hin.
DOT.
No. 1 Mrs Lozier liked very much but she
thought 1t was written by q member OF
sorosis who lived 10 East orange and whose
views expressed at the club were recalled on
reading the letter. OF course, 1t would not do
to favor friend, and so she would suggest
honorable mention for her.
"No. 2 l more than half indorse." said
Mrs Lozler. at is very bright and catchy,
but, oh, SO worldly Don't you think SO,
dear ?"
"Yes. to be sure it's worldly" replied her
husband, mischieviously, "that's what you
want on this planet. There is a lot OF human
nature In the letter. Frances Grey knows
Just what she is writing about. She proves
herself real philosopher In the first sem
tence what she says about subtle fat
terry is a fact she is the only woman ever
heard OF who didn't want to have the last
word, and her willingness to leave the
room,' to discourage quarrellng and to en-
courage the entertainment OF her husbands
friends in his home entities her to the prize.
think you can't do better than award 1t to
her."
President Lozier read the letter again. but
shook her head. "No. II is too worldly; there
is streak Of hypocrisy IN her plan that
never could countenance. In the one express
sion, let him feel that you attract other
men, Florence Grey shows worldliness, in
sincerity and tho most subtle hypocrisy.
That Is where the woman is unwomanly.
And yet there is so much truth and good
sense in her advice that think 1t deserves
mcntiohA'
Dots letter is waterproof Her methods
are noble, don't you think so, dear? Doesn't
the article breathe womanly dignityf"
Mr.. .Lozier admitted that 1t did, but protested
the human nature that pervaded No. 2.
Then he told the lovable little Judge good
by, made some JOcular remark about an
avenging army OF discontented managers Of
local husbands, and left the room.
"No. 3 is letter that should be pasted on
the mirror OF every woman's dressing table
The very head line is the key to the solution.
Companionship Is the requisite Of life
every human heart hungers for it-it is part
OF the plan Of creation. What man wants is
sympathy, the ideal companiOnship. Men
are sick. They don't complain as much as
women, but they suffer more. In early life
the wife is Ill, but in later life the husband is
| the invalid. He has nerves, and a liver; his
digestion is bad and his stomach is traitor
he gets bald, takes cold easily, and gets rheu.
matte because OF thousand exposures In the
cars. of1ices. elevators and stores. Take this
one block for instance, and all the women are
plump and well, and the men are tll-they
have throat trouble all tho time, ard many OF
them are sick in bed with the grip. This
phys ysical obIiQuity renders them cross, irrita-
Bile, and excusable for great many short.
comings. Then, too, they are worried: things
| go wrong business troubles vex them; they
eat hurliedly or irregularly, and they can't
! sleep from wondering where the money Is to
| come from necessary for continuation oi
the ease and comforts OF the petted daughters
and plump wives. There IS no trouble as hard
to bear as that arising from money matters
and some way women are inclined to make nj
allowance for its depressing influence on I
mans life.
"A true wife, as dot says, will sootht
him in sorrows OF this kind, give him the
warmth and loving comradeship for which ht
sought her, and she will refrain from telling
MIN OF her own petty trials.
In middle life, when the house is In self
running order ana the children are grown
women at once begin to get fat. they enjo,
good health they are sheltered from the tri
ais OF the business world as well as tn,
| ullgutlDS ihHuenCeS OI tue WtatneT, INT
money comes in regularly to meet their ex
penscs, and they lead sort OF holiday lift
| the year round.
"The happiness man expects In his hom,
life,' and which he is entitled to, will be les.
Of q luxury when women become as sympa
thetic in their companionship as 1 bcliev,
| Dot TO be.
al like so much what she says about tn,
wife quietly and firmly maintaining her poin
in argument ana her respect withal. 1t II
not necessary to force conviction; unanimit,
OF idea is the monotony OF life. Only friction
will make lucifer burn. Schemes OF chill
dren Will not bring about domestic harmony
and life Is far too serious for artincc:' onl,
the honest, open, womanly methods pay
nor does the feeding the painting or tn,
pinking adi to her Influence. Dot says moth
ing OF tact, but her methods are tactful be
cause they are womanly."
Mrs Lozier fancied "Dot" a true woman
deep hearted, tender, loving md lovable:
woman OF experience, too, who has seen ant
lived lie. She thought, too. that there wa
much 10 admire In the collection OF letter.
and that many were worth preserving
| Now, II Mrs Dot will send her address OF