Deseret evening news. [volume] (Great Salt Lake City [Utah]) 1867-1920, 1892-07-16
WOMAN AND HOME.
N4En a WOMAN MOST NEEDS THE
cARessEs OF HER HUSBAND.

women and Their Bank Accountable
Daughter OF oiadstonc-niakinE iioof
-.s--shappins By gystea4-ceriod Of
psyoiopmont-nint,f for Houaokccpcrs.
There appears to be curious tendency
an tho part Of many men TO lavish upon tue
little oucs the affection once exclusively
ths wlfc'a a division of demonstration
yorii BE- both natural anil gratifying to q
woman, but too often she ls ignored IN this
rtsnect entirely. The boys and girls nrc
j1yfully greeted by The homecoming "a
her while the wife l. carclossly nodded NJ
over their sunny heads. a wise observer
once said Trouble comes with the hgst
baby " Il u coming at NIL" Different
ideas u government are often the entering
wedge OF dlsaension. Tho little ono some.
tlmcsNopam'cs the father and mother, aud
AZ It's cradle the husband goes away from
the wife IN thought aud decd just when
abe clds him most While she rocks thnt
cradl, she thinks deeply. and In the read
instmcnt Of her ideas wifrhood X merged
Into the stronger force Of motherhood. She
demands more Of her husband mentally
and morally than ever before, because ho
il bibys father. and " sometimes disap.
pointed.
IN tho matter Of expenses patorfamilis
Is apt TO he more generous In his allow
anccs Tor the needs of the children than
Tor the less tangible wants Of their moth
er. lie admits that clothes eau be out
grown, but j. skcpiicnl about their going
out 81 fashion. No are told that u mother
becomes unsplhsh. For herself, yes; but
u she not tempted 60 overlook the claims
% other 10 seeking all good things for her
rhildrrni
doubt II tho mother. burdcued with
tho care % hcr c,ild's living and the fear
Of lts diving, can hnli enjoy tho beauty
per 20 OF childhood. The outsider eau rc.
ioicc In all tho loycllurss. 0iicncr with
more upprrciatiyc eyes, because they nre
not blinded b. drci.I. iiornlity, 10 % con.
sc.cntious woman, Is simply appalling.
How can she punish chEd Tor faults In
h.rltcl ff0m hcreiif Can she br happy
as shc notes the growth OF u disposition
which should. far %, good OF the rtrc, end
with her luHhiud'n lifog L. % possible.
TOO, Cor her % discover that rcr children,
though riaing nt hcr with her mother,
cy,l md Iraiiny to her IN the tones Of a
voice that be mad, tho music Of her life.
ufc aliens IN thought and deed.
But, SONIC ono savn, / know all shct.
there are year OF patient care aud toll
years, perhaps. when tho husband aud
wife go their T0rpmtu ways. one rearing
The children. tao oJher going ca alone, ah
t1rb.d in bu ines7 Interests. forgctful Of
tho woman left behind. but when tho sons
and daughter urv grown, matters adjust
themselves. Not always The fair rirl
graduate becomes tho faded littlomo,hur'a
rival. end in tLr devotion of father and
daughter the wife b. ftill loft out. 10 IL
GENERALLY the rough boy, with the warm,
loving heart, which makes boys so deaf
the world over who dimly diyincs "a,
situation. and with bruri.l hugs aud
mammoth puts cbugrs and uatnius th,
lonely heart. While it lists 60 W tho sweet
est ihing, tha romance between the moth
tr and hor ON, hut al1s' Il 6, brief Some
, dainty little maiden takes the lad cautiyc
pud thon The Jealousy, tho nrrtu suffering
" TINT mothers heart. who can fathom o.
Helen Jay Ia liaspcr's Bazaar