The morning news., 1892-03-10


failing that it can be guaranteed.
If it doesn't benefit or cure, in every
case, you have your money back.
On these terms, it's an insult to your
intelligence to have something else of
fered as being "just as good"
fees have come into style, don't you knowl
Yes, a young lawyer ought to go into
society. John E. Parsons was one of
the first to get big fees, wasn't hei
"Three hundred thousand dollars, wasn't
it9 Well, now, don't you know, there's Mr..
Everts. He never went into society in his
young days, but when his daughters grew
up. don't you know. he had to hustle
around. Men who couldn't hold candle to
Mr.. Evarts, don't you know, were a day
ahead of him. It's an injustice TO his
family, don't you know, for a man not to
go INTO society. The young man doesn't
need to spend much money, not any at all,
don't you knowl It's only after he's mar
ried that the serious part Of life begins.
Then he has to entertain.
MAKE UP TO MEN OF STANDING.
"Doctors, above all others, should get
into society right away. They can do it
here very easily. DO you catch the po,nts
In London they can't. There's a great
prejudice against the doctors there Only
the very big ones are in society They're
bright men and ornaments to society. Most
OF them say they have no time, don't you
knowl But they could find time. They
can go TO tall and get away by IL o'clock
They needn't stay for the supper. Society
helps them along. They get recognition. /
found that in my experience, DON'T you
knows l could always tell the difference at
the club, don't you know, nfter August Bel
mont had spo6eu to me. do you seel II
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talk little while do you catch the point p
would afterward be surrounded by men
You walk ep Fifth avenue with Cornelius
Nande bllt, don't you kGow-even Cor
nelius Vauderbilt--sud you'l n tice pe)-
pie taking their hats of to you, don't you
sect
''In my book, you know, describe my
fathers trip % London with nnni lex
Lynch, the greatest beau uf New York in
lis day. Theywere ihvited To reception
by the Duke odWelliagsoa The dhke was
not there whsn they arrived, dOaE you
know, and they were kicking themselves
They didE't know anybody. Nobody uutic d
them except to stare at them, do you catch
the point! After little while the lJuke Of
Wellington arrived. He hadn't long to stop,
don't you see, bu5 be took Domnick by Que
arm aud my father by one arm ANA salked
between them up and down the room twice
Then he left, cont you knowi Immediately
my fasaer aud Domiuick we're surrounded
by all the uIcost people and introduced-d1
you catch the uoint--to everybody worth
knowing Sir Lionel Playfair read that in
my book, and he said it would apply to this
very day, TO this very day. Would apply
to this very day, don't you knows
OLDER MEN SHOULD HELP ALONG. -
Every few men in this country, don't you
know, seem to have sufficient confidence in
their position to reach down aud help Others
up, don't you kuowi They staud aloft,
don't you see, and wait till you're stamped,
do you catch the pointl Therefore. tue
young man, when he's Young, should get
into society as soon as possible. No, The
young man should not entertain until he's
married, don't you know, and then If he
hasn't family or much money he can make
his way by knowing how to entertain. Il
isn't lavish expenditure, don't you know
that counts; It's Knowing how to give O
coed dinner ard how to be entertaining.
They talk about the rich men from the ives.
coming here and taking up society. That's
the old story Of the Goths aud Var da
overrunning Rome 1t Is tire OLD elemenr
that keeps sociesy here in New York. So
ciety only picks from the new-co rers those
who are entertaining and brilliant and in
every way desirable. These rich mems Sous
grow up in society if properly trained.
Some men disagree with me- don't you
know, about their CONS. They say they be-
lieve in chucking 'em in tor a rough-and-
tumble and to let them make their own
way. tell them that IL their sons won't
work they should ba educated abroad, don't
you sect They are educated to be gentle
men over there They learn how 10 live
deeorously and in moderation.
TITS q great mistake to bring a young
man Up and not let HIM have his sherry for
dinner, don't you know, while he sees his
father guzZling all be wants. Do you catch
the pointi That's why the minister's sons
go wrong. They have been brought up
under restraint and wnen they get loose,
dent you see, they rush into the barrooms
aud Indulge in all the stlmulants aud go in
for other excesses.n
HERE'S HOPE FOR THE HUMBLEsT.
bat how about the yonng man who
comes to New York without family backing
and without money, but who has abmition
aud principle aud is desirous OF getting into
society, Mr.. McAiiisterl Is there any hope
Tor hlmw
80. yes there's hopa for bin. There's
hope for him, don't you knowi The first
thing for him to do is to go to his employer.
Men, rich men. like that sort OF thing
They admire IL In young r!au. They Ike
to have a young man ask them to help him.
Then the young man makes acquantances.
He can ask them to get him into a club
After he has made few desirable and in
huentiala quaintances and they ses that he
has the right principles and good morals
and pleasing manner they Will help hin
along. OF course, don's you know, the
young man must not have committed any
crime, and his family must not have been
Grimm ais. It's different here, don't you
see. from what it is in London. Over there
don't you know. you must trot out Y III
pedigree, you must trot out your pedig zee
SocietY's out Of sight in London if you
haven't got pedigree"
Mr.. McAllister did not explain what was
the fate OF the young man who gradunt,d
from the Sixth avenue German restaurant
into the old club, presumably the union.
The servant rang big bell in the hall sum.
moning the family to dinner, and MIR. No
Allister had an engagement to dine out at 8
o'clock, so there was no opportunity for re-
vision Of errors. Mr.. Nc cAliister's house on
West Thirty-sixth street would be model
TO the young man just entering society, par.
ticularly II the young man has just married
II is very simply but elegantly furnished
The most conspicuous picture Ia his drawing
room is a steel engraving OF "Lady Wash
ington's Reception" All around the room