The Washburn leader. [volume] (Washburn, McLean County, N.D.) 1890-1986, 1892-11-19

at neck and waist which were passed
through Jet buckles to fasten. There
was a Tray velvet vest and eirdle, q
very short back and a gray felt hat
with profuse trimming of crimson
chrysanthemums.
Husbands Should Tryto Be Lovers.
You may consider yourself q very
independent young person with the
ability to take care Of yourself, q
strong go.ahead business sense and a
self-reliance that makes you lose all
fear of everything. Yet you are a wo-
man Notwithstanding all that, and,
according to the Philadelphia Times,
your nature is just the same, ever
though you r perhaps q little
stronger than your sisters. There
will be a time when the day has been
hard, the burden heavy and things all
at SKIES and sevens generally, when
you will lay down your air Of indie.
pendence and be glad to bepetted and
fused over as much as the weakest
member of your sex. 1t is born in ne
desire to be loved and cared
for. The folding of q wrap around
shoulders that begin to be chilly when
limbs are too tired to 60 after ashawl
conveys more meaning than the mere
action shows to the onlooker.- It
gives the weary mortal q sense Of pro-
lection, watchful care that is more
soothing than words when heart and
brain are too exhausted for
active demonstrations. A gentle
touch, a aress at an un-
lookrd.for moment, the thousand and
one little attentions that q woman
revels in, are so much more valuable
to her than to the giyer that. il her
heart could he read, surely there
would be more of this kind OF gentle
care shown after the time for such de-
monstrations is supposed to have,
gone by. Married men forget that the !
wife's heart yearns for those little at
tentions that he lavished upon her a.
@ lover, but thought unnecessary
when settled down to the matter-of-
fact business ~ofeveryday married life.
Such little touches are the glimpses of
sunshine amid the trials and storm.
They keep the heart young and the
spirit buoyant, and the older q woman
gets the more she longs for the pro-
tecting love shown in the little quiet
attentions that prove to her she is an
object Of care and unremisting
thought.
Pointers for Girls,
1t is all very nice to paint a picture
and get a medal for it and some
money, and to work and work to
make more successes, but is q greatl
deal nicer to make beautiful the home
nest and to be the one who gives the
loving applause for the work done.
1t is all very nice to write on article
and have people praise you for it.
and have somebody tell you wtatyou
may in thefuture, but it is a gooddeal
nicer to make dainty little frocks for
small people who. in the near future,
are goingto give you love as areward.
1t is all very nice to touch tho key3
Of the typewriter all day long. when
each click means more money, but it
is a great deal nicer to have somebody
else touch your heart and to realize
that the money which you hold was
earned for you by somebody who is
devoted to you.
It is all very nice to be on the stage
and receive the applause Of the pub
lic1 aud to have your name in ali the
papers and your pictures everywhere,
but it is a great deal nicer to have one
man treasure your picture, to have
those you love to approve Of you,
and to be cared for and made much
of by tn, m.
It is all very nice to I've independent
1T you a be; but you, cans, Motif
you have a bit ofwOman in you. You
want TO love something's and you want
something to love you, and you want
a home, and you want people Who are
essentially yours and who take care
Of you. That's what we women want.
How an Arab Pays Court.
An Arab loves as none but an Arab
can love, but he is also nightly ex-
citable and easily won. An Arab sees