St. Paul daily globe. [volume] (Saint Paul, Minn.) 1884-1896, 1892-10-30
LOVE HIM.
Genuine Affection the Indispensa-
bic Consideration.


In idle wishes fools supinelv stav.
Be there a will then wisdom finds Il Way
Burns.
0 let us walk the world. SO that our love
Burn like blessed beacon. beautiful.
Upon the walls OF life surrounding dark.
-GeraId Massey.
s Make genuine affection the first thing.
This IS absolutely Indispensable. Never
let him escape from the realms OF YOUR
affection for a single moment: ALWAYS
keep him there. in the first and highest
place. Love him with pure. unselfsh.
loyal love. and strive to increase that
love by acts. deeds and words of kind
ness, so that you love him better today
than yesterday, and will love him more
tomorrow than today. 1t is your priyi-
lege, your duty to make your love of its
purest and best nature. Let YOUR affec-
tons have natural expression Let him
know and feel how much you really
love hlm-that your love for him is
ever Increasing. Love, then. is the es-
SentiaI thing, and yet love is only one
thing.
Have perfect understanding with
him, make him your confident. trust
him and interest yourself in all his IN
dertdkings. his successes and his ad-
versities. Constantly strive to secure
entire harmony and good will. Ident-
ify yourself with him in objects. de-
slres, Sympathles. fortune. position
everything. You are TO know no closer
friend than he.
Be his helpmate. use his money
economically, and aid. so far as YOU
can. in saving ana accommodating it.
DO not part with it for anything bud
such values as are consistent with his
means, fairly considering the cost of
every cent to him: then he wiz feel
that he Is honored and loved. VERY
likely he will understand this better
than tasteful comforts and tender denfe
constructions of lighter nature-demorf-
strations that involve no self-deniaI.
Have pleasant look and word ready
for him when he returns from the tolls Of
the day. Be dressed 70 receive him: al-
ways dress neatly and becomingly.
Have good and wholesome food. web
prepared, for him: have his meals on
time. Have system and regularity Id
doing everything, and everything in
order. Be good manager Your anilitv
to manage your house we'll will do much
towards keeping him in line. :
DO not try to monopoliZe all his leisz
ure time; he needs some of it away from
you.
Never indulge in fault finding. Dc
not tell OF MS faults 10 others. If he
has grave ones help him overcome them
by being pure, gentle and firm. Stimu-
late him to progress and goodness. In
spiration to higher and purer life
always comes from above a man: YOUR
society will elevate him. when it is
higher and purer than he is. Soften
his Tesentments, assuage his disap-
pointments, pour balm upon his wounded
spirit and harmonic him.
Make his home attractive, pleasant
and comfortable: have it tidy and neat.
Its arrangement should. so far as your
means will permit. be the outgrewth of
finest ideas and expression of your
your best tastes and practical ingen INV.
Make 1t the abode of ilealthfuIll IS.
dignity, propriety. beauty, grace. love.
hopor and happy associations, and Gil
1t with all good influences. Glorify and
Sanctify that home by leading heakhr.