Telegram-herald., 1891-03-29


Der by the masculine poTtous OF the
audience. After few weeks a stranger
accompanied her home. Then another
gentleman attended her, sending her
/ flowers and muse, and invited nef TO
ride. few drives taken II closed
hack became known 10 the police, the
Newspaper men and the men about
town. Ia the usual inseTutable way
rumors reached the husband : ears, but
he dld not belieYe until by chance nc
saw strange man by the side OF The
mother OF his aCghter, n carriage
which paused before notorious road
/ house. HIS Honor has not yet settled
TINS ease, but he has L under adVise-
ment.
Discovery OF UnsueRts and Quilts
>hiftlessness, uncleaniiness and
slOyeulIness are the backgrounds OF
many divorces, though they do not ap-
| pear as such on the records. A neat,
orderly man, marrles beautiful glri
who has always appeared before him
charmlng.y arrayed and exqulsltely
colfuFed. Long before the wedding
| Journey ls ended he weakens nightly
20 see on the pillow beside hun face
besmeared with unguents tor the beau
| tllylng or the complexion, anG halr
bristling with points like quills upon
| the petful porcupne. The home COM
ing Il full of unwelcome surprises. lie
| nnds himself doomed 10 breakfast OPP
poslte most fallen apart idol. HIS
wife and pretty dresses have parted
company, and for economy's sake she
Is wearing cut the fag ends OF her ward
| robe. Sometimes the woman Is actu-
ated by genuine economy, but more
often 1t Is simply shittlessness, sloyenlI-
ness or laZiness She does not appear
either charming or lady like IN her job
! lot costumes, and often she wonders
why ner hu sband treats her with less
| Difference than before. Ii would he
! hard To convince her tha. her dress, or
rather the lack of It. IS the foundation
| of all the GOODNESS. She feels her hus-
bands regard Shipping away from her
by slow degrees, but none the less
surely. BY and by she sees that he
seems quite attracted 10 some new
| found feminine friend, and the green
| eyed monster enters her soul TO create
sad havoc there. Finally his honor is
called upon to decide case which or
| lginated IN an untidy house gown. Hun
| dreds OF dollars, sometimes thousands,
are necessary TO pay the costs of the
suit which fifty cents worth of gInghani
would have prevented. Laziness Is an
incentive for divorce, and ignorance
NAV be mentioned as another primary
incentive. Bad temper, inipatience, in
| tolerance of the opinions and rights of
others may also be listed as common
causes. 1t is not the last word which
cements the separation, it ls the first
word upon which all the others hinge.
| Proper Incentive to Marriage.
There should be but one incentive to
marriage. The word love should en-.
compass it. Marriages made arght from
the first are like the house winch was
built upon the rocks. Unfortunately
there are other motives for marrying.
The girl used to a life ofluxury marries
where the golden ducats shine and
happiness IS stranger. Others marrt
for q position, being ambitious. Tht
| relative values of love matches and
money marriages have been discussed
too often To bear repetition. Not Ions
ago a worldly wise miss declared IN
favor of marrying for money. "Why'
declared she with the wisdom of n sage
"The girl who marries for money get!
what she marrIes for. but the girl VIII,
marrIes for love gets little or nothing o.
IT," She clncbed her bold statement
with two local illustrations. In one
case a stately young lady had married
man OF twice her age simply anC
solely for his wealth. There wa
nothing attractive about him. He wai
a widower, was lame and wore bushy
whiskers. They 1--we IN elegant style
and the young wife Is surrounded by
every comfort and luxury that hear
can desire. Her husband guards hei
happiness carefully and is true 10 her
She is contented and should be happy
In the other case bright young woman
refused several offers advantageou
from worldly point of view, and &C
cepted young man of excellent char
acter, his many virtues having com
manded her respect and won her love
Before five years had passed the young
wife returned to her fathers home
broken IN health and spirits becaus.
her husband, who had been a mode
young man. persisted in showering hi
attentions and money upon a degraded
class of women.
Trio Delights NJ True Love.
But those who have known the de
lights of true love and the bliss of /:
happy home Will agree that th'
cases used by the young lad,
to establish her position on th'
subject are not typical. They are rar,
exceptions. Marriage without love i
not marriage IN the true sense of tn,
word. Love Is the great essential ano
every thing else is subservIent to It
Love carries with i respect. devotion
seIf-abnegation, sympathy and tender
ness. Without love the ideal, th'
happv home can not exist. 1t Is lk,
the play of Hamlet. with Hamlet lef
out. Love can suffer much, forgive
much and endure forever; but mere
liberation on the wedding day develope
into something quite ike hatred late
on. Bitterness and unkindness vi,
with each other while the relation con
tnues and the swapping of the cord i