The Yakima herald. [volume] (North Yakima, W.T. [Wash.]) 1889-1914, 1891-05-07

the home they want truth Is shining a
the sun. However big liar he ID him
self. Il 10 one Of the things he cannot
tolerate In his wife.
Manage your husband with an economi-
cal household with clean and wslLbe-
haved children. M 'sa77
Manage him with Well-mended linen
and tidy appearandso o. your own per
son. Manage him into an easy chair,
comfortable slippers and dressing gown,
and not to q ball that bores him or .
theater he sees no pleasure in. Let him
enjoy his paper and smoke without plying
him with q thousand questions, anxious
for your little say. When the paper and
smoke is finished You will be rewarded
by an appreciative smile and caress.
Manage to have him meet congenial
friends, and not bOres and 'lions." A
husband that is worth getting is worth
keeping. Any fool can get q husband,
but 1t takes woman Of tact and heart
and sense to keep the honeymoon from
total eclipse.
Men like to be looked up to, depended
on, referred TO and quoted. It is q very
harmless way Of pleasing them, and GER
tainly many Of them deserve quoting and
referring to. Your very dependence ap-
peals IN them, and Eoman's strongest
weapon Is her weakness.
You needn'tbe sozzlinR idiot in weak
ness, nor . nincompoop 10 brains; men
don't like fool any more than they like
an Amazon. Strike the happy medium,
and You'll strike him.
Men like women to care for children
and religion. He may be heather him
self and declare children are bore, but
he wants his wife to be more or less 70
ligious. He thinks she is safer 90, and
It sends . cold chill down his spinal COL
umn to hear q woman say Shedoesnt like
children. He expects the maternal in
stinct in her and thinks she isn't half q
woman without It. Men hate . gay
woman, "iast" woman. lie may spend
his time. money and attentions upon her
lavishly, but at the bottom Of his heart
he has contempt for her. He claims the
privilege Of monopolizing all the EAST"
business to himself. He'll have none Of
II with the women in bis own family.
Men love refinement in women; refine
ment In speech, manner and dress.
Coarseness Of any description shocks
them.
A man likes 4 woman who mothers
him; who is patient with him in illness
1t Is 50 hard end out Of the order Of things
for men to he III; who endures his irrita-
bility as she would fretful child's. Men
like woman to whom they can confess
all their sins and fOibles; he loves her
sympathy and forgiveness. and he loves
that quality in her that never twits back
or says, II told you SOP Men like q
companionable woman one Who knows
enough Of the world and It's ways to
talk intelligently; one who is interested
in his business, his horse, his dog, his
yacht, and, necessarily, his baseball
and priEe-Hght tendencies. Men like
women to dress well; not extravagantly
or conspicuously, but with neatness and
taste. It goes against their sensibilities
that anything so dainty as q woman
should lie Outre in dress.
They like a woman who knows how to
grow old gracefully. They ridicule the
combination Of wrinkles and furbelows /;
gray hair and decOllete dress. Men
venerate q woman advancing 10 years,
but they scott at her pretentions to q
youth she does not possess. Above all
things, men love virtue in woman, and
the tighter she holds on to il, the tighter
does she bind herself around his heart.
As unto the bow, tic cord Is,
So unto man, Is woman,
And ii should he the most sacred priv
ilege Of woman to be queen Of some loyal
heart, as it should be the tenderest priv
ilege Of man 10 be kind Of hers.