The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1891-12-06

nothing. The latter Is never disappointed.
| She expects nothing and gets lt--not even
thanks for giving all; while the sweet little
| cresture who wants to tie loved, and makes
herself loVaole as well as loving, they are
ready to praise and ADORE though she be
far enough from patient Griselde.
Art is masculine in its attitude toward
It's worsolppers. She who gives all and
asks nothing usually gets a slap in the
face.
VERY FINR TALK.
| The most unkind and cruel woman IL has
been my misfortune to encounter told mo
she was absolutely indifferent to the opinion
OF her fellow creatures. She bad certain
Ideals she worshlped-she loved art for
| arts sake, and humanity was no more to
her than the dirt of the streets. She cared
neither for praise nor blame; she cared only
Tor her ideals. which were far above the
heads OF the common herd. / suppose this
was very fine talk but IL did not appeal to
me somehow. l would have respected this
Misunderstanding woman more had she
been possessed OF enough personal vanity
even II she had no heart-to wish to please
ner rellow-beings and to avoid wouuding
them neediesslY
VI course vanity running riot in a CHAR
acter ruins all It's other qualities, Just as too
much yeast spoils the bread. / am not ad-
vccating ridiculous display OF self on all
occasions; the vanity Of which | speak is
not selhshness at all. Indeed, it would curb
selnshness, since the latter quality is one
which brings censure instead OF praise. But
am quite confident that a certain modicum
OF the vanity which springs from love OF
appreciation is worthy of cultivation in q
womans nature, and properly weeded about
and watched will tend toward making her
tnoughful Of others and ambitious to make
the most OF herself and her brief life on this
sphere, and that its entire absence is an alb
soiute hlndrance to Developments and sue.
cess
WE NEED MORE VANITY.
heard woman severely criticised once
as vain and egotistical because she said: 81
always thong 1t my hat and dress was the
prettiest in school when was child my
home aud parents seemed nicer than those
belonging to any other girl, and have gone
through life thinking anything which was
mine possessed peculiar value lam ALWAYS
astonlshed when discover that other PEG.
pie do not feel the same about it."
How much less grumbliug we should hear
IN the world If more people we're vain in
the same way ALLY is so modest, she
never thinks her possessions are of any
value" said the mother of fault-fnding
and ungrateful girl TO me once. mo mat.
Ter now much she covets thing, if we get
IL for her ii loses ite value as soon as it is
hers, she is so modest and humble
| Heaven defend US from humility of that
KIND, and give US more vanity Of the other
| sortl
THE KIND MAN APPRECIATES.
As wife. think the woman devoid of
vanity Is not a success She is far more
liable to be Jealous than is her sister who Is
tlnctured with that much abused quality.
Inc wife who possesses pretty good opinion
OF ner personal charms and her worth is a
much more comfortable being for a man to
dwell with. She is more apt to be liberal
and generous minded, believing il inpossi-
Die that her husband could forget her for
any otner woman; and man will keep true
TO that sort of woman, where he
will be driven to Inconsistency by the one
who 10 forever jealous of his slightest at
tentions TO another. The woman without
any vanity is the one who as a rule suffers
the keenest pangs of jealousy, believing Mi
other women to be more attractive than
herself. Then, too, the woman who has no
| vanity seldom makes the most of her ner
sonal appearance. She is Indifferent in
regard to dress, and does not studv
how to arrange her hair becomingly
and selects her hats aud bonnets with an
idea OF utility only. She forgets that one
| OF the first duties in life for a woman Is to
be pleasing to the idea. The woman who
negiects herself cannot be surprised
II others neglect her. II she does not
appreciate her womanhood enough to make
the utmost Of herself in every way, others