Arizona republican., 1891-12-19
rNCLESAMSDAUGHTERS
roI WILL DO WELL TO READ
 AND HEED THIS WARNING.

,,ryrisnt. lsgl, by American Press Associa- WI tiOn,
 Tn, decision of Lady Randolph rbrrrhil to refrain from taking any r,,ire of the scurrilous reports that have appeared in various English and
 American newspapers regarding her al hood differences with her somewhat CT ,arir but brilliant husband, is just what my gcouaiutauce with her sound, good .ln,e and her thorough knowledge of rprIi,h life would have led me to antici- rq,a. She is aware that, notwithstand- in, her transatlantic birth, her social nrstion and prestige in the Old World ;.,,tahli,ned on far too sound basis to bs affected by such scandalous gossip.
 Whatever ,lse may be said of Lord Randolph he is certainly no fool, and he i,o1ite shrewd enough to appreciate the srormou, assistance which he has de- rived from his clever and popular help mate. Any one who witnessed the affec- aonqte character of the parting between bls5aul and wife at the Great Western ri.roal terminus on the morning when Lorl Randolph left London for south Africa could see at one glance the falsity Of the rumors to the effect that the
 couple hgl found marriage a failure.
 lam all the more glad to be able to paca this on record, since as a general rule the marriages of American girls to titled foreigners have resulted in disap- w.ntmaur and misery, more or less JUyrIy and silently borne by the wives. During the course of my diplomatic ca .rr have had abundant opportunities Gob,ervug both in Great Britain and m tHe Continent the condition of the American wives of Englishmen and for. signer,, aul what l have seen leads me uezprr,s myself in the strongest man. Der against these so called international alliances.
 There are many reasons why it is al- nos. inevitable that they should result in 1ualgppluess tD the bride. In the first Dara American girls are objects of dis. hGe and aversion to English and Conti- leu.al women. There is no use miucing vgrls about the matter. These un- friendly sentiments on the part of the fair sex of tNa old World to their trans atlantic ,i.sers-which always exist. though sometimes COucealed-are only natural under the circumstances, and re feet no as-'reiit upon the American grL No woman, be her character ever s0pertert ], entirely exempt from jeal- OGsy, and ir is jealousy which is at the U9, of the whole trouble.
 Aside from the question of mere physi- cal beauty, the American girl possesses Gs part of her birthright a breadth of view, freedom of intellectual trammel mi an Uur strained originality of mind. winch invariably attract the European E-a anI generally inonOpolize their at- 's1uon. The European, and particular y ythe English, woman has been brought upon lines that are far narrower, and with much more regard for the strict observance of those social conventionali- us which, although possessed of certain advantages, necessarily impair the de- ye.opmeur of the feminine mind in the Oi Wu'N It therefore stands to req
 Son that the men of Europe find much u'rs amusement in the society of an American girl than in that of her Euro .V1a sister, who cannot be expected to "yaru this preference accorded to the .".mer with much equanimity.
 Coaveut.unllity is the "summa lex" oi ths feminine world in Europe, and eTea those great ladies who presume upon thn loftiuess of their birth to dis Fs'Td its provisions so far as their own conduct Is concerned, demand it's strict Observance on the part of all those who Dono' possess similar advantages of an cs,ry au0 blood Under the circum- stances lt i, not surprising that tine ALencau girl who weds a foreigner and ases up her residence abroad should aal all Of her feminine surroundings alcons"mal in the extreme.
 Even with the best intentions on the Frt Of her husbands female relatives, ,le latter cannot entirely overcome their 'sep rooted prejudice to everything that "lnss From across the ocean, no matter whether lt be from the United States, rom Canada or from Australia, for the N1Ja1re5 Oi wOmankind in Europe are '! DO means confined to Uncle Sam's
 4l5nier,, but are quite as strong, and E,AalS even more so, against the equal ! .tesh and uutrammeled minded Aus T@!aA and Canadian belles. This will, u'nk, suffice to show that the senti- ~eht Is not so much on the score Ss race "A1aonaIity as on that of manners and "Aventionahty.
 "' rule the European husband, g'eF the first few months of welded "s With his American bride, begins " become again influenced by the senti- ~sal' which he finds more or less S'sf'iy expressed among all his sis -',' Lls cDu,us, his aunts, and in fact l-'AS al, the feminine world in which lI, mas been brought up from his earliest s-.,Aood and in which he has moved s1"t hIs marriage By degrees the ss,'g'ly Of his wile's freshness and orig
 g1" g@ yot mind wears off; and especially,
 sl.. sgs 0' amm of average intellect him II.'' Le begins to wish that his wife were ce'cr, less brilliant and more like
 ., -- women tO whom he has been accus-
 -D'| The latter show that they look
 ". man as superior being, whereas
 S ~. american girl makes no pretense of
 , .-. N.lHS the fact that she regards him
 .-..s'.E a5 an inferior, or at the very
 'T. as an equal.
 '"su' loo, he finds himself wishing
 M " vii" wh0 would not antagonize
 ,r. "',n 'ae women of his own nation
 e." especially when, as is often the
 rI5 some of them have it in their
 h gt To advance or mar his prospects,
 r,r que, The result is that the Ameri.
 wife finds herself gradually losing