St. Paul daily globe. [volume] (Saint Paul, Minn.) 1884-1896, 1891-08-16

rH ll\< W.T. to allow yourself
hE Ell n I'M to be kissed, your
1MM * IN kAM, manner will not
,ESt&l IAlPzN ,,TS& suggest the notion
MMN&II!n w \E&ot kissing you to
,lM4 ll'tSA K6EAthe man. Few men
| W fTEM will try to kiss a
If Oil | ZNw girl unless they
II E%TAs,rs w think there is a
cess. Besides. struggling muses. your
hair and crumples your laces ana breaks
the flowers you wear, and leaves any
number of traces by which the girls
can tell Just what has happened. It's
much pretter to just pretend to
the last minute that you don't
know what is going to happen. In
this case you never lose the kiss, as you
may if you do the struggle act, and it
is much more satisfactory than kiss
after struggle or during a struggle.
You can be awfully surprised" and
gasp "Oh -how-how dare you" and
clasp your hands over your face and
say: $50 away" when he tries to soothe
you, and, 81 will never speak TO you
again." and, Il hate you," and all that.
1t is Just as effective as before the kiss
and just as pretty and all that, and 1t
does not muss your hair SO much.
The proud and baughty method is
very satisfactory if you choose the right
man. You should let the "cold moon
shine full upon your face, and with your
lips curling scorntully" you say: you
would not dare" and look him steadily
and scornfully in the eye. You must
be sure to choose a man who will not be
scared to death at this and wish himself
home. The right sort of man Will grab
you instantly. Then you can do the
contrast" act, which Is very effective:
Turn meek and quiet and "half tlmld"
or do The tragedy queen business and
leave the gentle act for later. Now all
men don't 90 in for tanning" girls, ana
all men don't 60 in for catching the co
quette, and all don't fancy teaching and
encouraging shy girls. The trouble
with most girls is. they adopt their
method and they stick to it right
through. You should always change
your method with your man.
A leading modiste OF this city has a
hobby that is unique and hygiene. she
was fitting dress for customer who
wanted the neck cut rather lower than
the regular severely high standard. ut
is impossible, madam. There is high
water mark around your neck that
must be covered. If you wore an abso-
lutely low neck you would be compelled
to cover it with band OF velvet"
''What is the cause of that dlscolora-
tion?" asked her customer, who had
often noticed that her skin below the
neck was yellower than the neck itself.
"Your neck needs air, that is all,' said
the modiste. To keep the throat beau
tiful it must have air. 1t was never IN
tended to be covered up. The hand.
some women of history all had beauti-
full necks, bn: they kept them uncov-
ered 1t is quite important that you
should give your neck air." so madam
had her dress cut away from the neck
and is using cold cream and other 10
tons to take off the mark of her long
serfdOm to the high bodice. and is CIV
ing her neck air.
The wise and far-seeing woman is
buying her next winter fannels now,
and she is going to have dainty em-
broiderieS and hemStitchiDg to replace
the laboriouSly made buttonhOle stitched
scallOps of five years back. She is pay
ing less for these delights than plain
material will cost her ii she waits till
the winter, for every dry goods store In
town has a little table somewhere COW
cred with tempting remnants OF en-
broidered f1annelS marked at about one
third the usual price. The graSshop-
per's human prototype passes by chlrp-
ing, 1T is too warm to think of t1an-
pels." while the saving honey bee of a
woman orders home her own and baby'S
pretty skirts and packs them away with
pinch of violet powder till the cool
DAYS come. She had better get half
dozen dainty silk shirts while she is
about it, they are only so cents now and
will cost S1.50 in November; and If she
wants to wear silk stockings for year
she will pay next to nothing for all the
faded, light cOlored ones she can lay
her hands on and have them dyed rich
dark hues.
why is the English woman stronger
and more healthful than her American
sister? A writer in the Ladies' Home
Journal for August declares that it is
largely because she doesn't worry and
takes plenty of time for rest. He says:
Il greatly admire the English woman
for her utter refusal to worry or be
worried, and the consequence is
that she looks young at fifty. She
undertakes no more than she can
comfortably carry out and thoroughly
believes in the coming of another day.
By this do not mean that she pro-
crastinates; she SIMPLY will not let the
domestic machinery grind her down to
| ill health and early old age. She is a
| FREQUENT bather, aud regards health as
the prime factor of life, to be looked
! after before anything else, though the
| breakfast might be an hour later. She
| sleeps nine hours, and takes nap during
the day at that. She arrangeS her days
work in the most systematic manner,
| and her little memorandum slip always
| shows two vacant hours; they are for
rest. She eats heartily, but the most di-
gestible food. In the most modest
home, no matter how little there
NAV be on the table, there is
nothing but the best. She would
rather have a mouthful of good food
and go partly hungry rather than eat a
whole meal of cheaper things. She is a
true economist, regulates her expenses
carefully and is true believer in the
! allowance system. There are some
things about the English woman which
her American sister dislfkes, Just as it
Is vice versa; at the same time there
are others which would make our
American women happier and healthier
if they initiated.
| Gr6ScrlDln0 -IuHS DdlH IOr lule
women is one of the fancies of some
modern physicians. It's too warm now
to go for brisk walk, but it is delight
flu! to sit out in the sun with an uInbrel-
1 la over ones head and all interesting
magazine on ones lap. To thoroughly
enjoy these lung baths woman must
be dressed all in flannel-hanneI under
garments and flannel dress. She
| feels that she can perspire without doing
| damage to anything she is wearing. and
that a little rinse in the tub and a Sh K =
out will make her costume rs goo az
new for another lung bath the next day.
After she has siZzletl and fried tor M
| hour in the hot sun she gels rp, shakes
| herself ont and walks home. not iO1 in .
! great deal the worse Tor arr fur ii>H
bath. After the walk ll",n' Il -"rou
| rub -down ami Il sci u fresh rio, H., tie
summer girl mav 20 down ~ dinner.