Deseret evening news. [volume] (Great Salt Lake City [Utah]) 1867-1920, 1891-09-18

A Good nuie .. Hating Once Arisen IL
90 Never to Sit DuWn Again,

a Good FtNlN " nHNNW~ Nffe Arisen tr
90 Never To SIT DuUn Again.
Do cultivate the ant Of lcavins
promptly Even u you can't do Il In
an artistic way. learn TO do 1t some
how.
Some people seem to be anchored In
tho parlcr when they pay call. 10
tho nigilt OF time and the near approach
of her hostess dinner hour this sort Of
caller pays no attention. Frequently
che says, "Oh. I must 60" gets up. tits
down again, and goes on talking
Presently she again says that she must
so. gets mp and continues to talk. She
gets into the hall at length mud talks
there. Finally the anxious visitcs. who
hears the baby crying up stairs, gets
the door open for her guest, who
makes n supplementary call upon tho
doorstep. exposing tho other 20 pneu.
monla. At last she descends the steps.
md tho hostess precipitately retreats
and shuts the door, for fear she will
think Of something else TO come back
aud say.
Tie writer onco heard Of n woman
who, considerably chngrined ut the an.
nouncemeni OF a visitor whom she
knew had these staying powers Just as
shu was preparing TO keep an inpor.
tant engagement, decided to 90 into the
parlor with her bonnet on aud explain
her hurry. She even arranged with
her husband 10 come into the room and
'rcmlnd" her at tho end OK quarter Of
an hour
Tho guest ala not take n hint from
the bonnet beyond snying that she
would only stay a few minutes. but
when tho reminder came sho exclaimed.
"Oh, thon must go, OF counc." stood
up and remained talking several min.
utcs moro, walked 10 the door aud
stopped again AZ last Mrs. H., In dc..
poratlon, suggested that they should
walk along together as far as they
could. Tho visitor agreed, but even
at tho corner whore they parted, size
stood talking long enough for Mrs. X
TO lose her train and her appointment
Shy and nervous young people have
tho hardest tlmo IN leaving and aro
more TO DO pitiud than blamed. Their
suffering u often great They are i'm.
pressed with the idon that tho how u
Of moro consequence than the what,
and they keep trying and trying 10 lend
the conversation Into What thcy think
will bc "a graceful departure. They arr
wishing themselves away great deal
moro desperately than any one else can.
They watch for pauscs In tho converse.
ton, and clear their threats 20 Intro.
ducc some variation upon I.omucls II
guess ia better be- going" but they arc
never quick enough. Somebody else
begins 10 speak. and they rosign them.
selves with sinking hearts TO waiting
another ten minutes
SIN II l. not always tho callers fault
that slc docs not 60. Sometimes II Is
tho hostess who Is tho fluent person,
who ends every sentence with rising
infection. indicating that Il Is only sus.
pended and that sho Is going right on.
in such case Il muy appear 20 tho caller
~ Il II would DO rudo TO interrupt her,
though sho may have heard tho muillcd
tlptooing Of tho rcst Of tho family past
tho parlor door and the subducd clnttcr
Of china from somewhere, and have n
painful ruspIclon thns dinner or tea Is
ready and they done want TO ring the
bell.
But there Il ono golden rulo at least
that tho caller may stick To- When you
once got upto 70 mover sit down again.
Now York World.