The Wichita daily eagle. [volume] (Wichita, Kan.) 1890-1906, 1891-01-14
ghe aaia aa aednesdas gorne JANUARY IA
TIE TO THE HOME GIRL
SHE IS THE LOvEuIEST or ALL
AND MAKES THE BEST WIFE.

A Choice Gem In the Matrimonial Mar
ket. She Is Regarded "a the Salvation
of True womanhood-she Is Eagerly
Sought After by the Men,
The home is the paradise of life on this
mundane sphere, It's influence being SUI
preme in molding character and DISPOSE
tion. The head and front of home Is WON
an. Ii is her bower, of which she can make
paradise or a hell for its inmates. To be
an exemplary homekeeper (not house
keeper, for that is of secondary import
ance), young woman must be trained and
educated into it. She must know the rou-
tine work, the management of household
affairs and how to minister by hears and
hand to the comfort of its inmates In
order TO do this she must possess love Tor
home, and not be ever restless and ready
TO leave IL and go out into the uncertain
ties of life outside its sacred precincts.
When a young woman shows an inclins-
ton 20 remain at home rather than go out
into the world which she Is untitled for.
she should receive the praises rather than
the condemnation Of friends and relatives.
Where stern necessity compels her to>sup-
port herself, she would be less than a true
woman If she failed TO do so. The best
philosophy of human happiness is TO make
the best ofwhatever position we are placed
in. Many young women so out into the
world 70 work simply because they are re
preached by friends for not doing so, hence
the derisive appellRtion Of "home girl so
commonly used Considered in its right
light, it is glorious one for young women
to aspire to. The true home girl is aqueen
in the kingdom of womanhood. and a
jewel that young men strive for when
ready TO settle down in life.
THE HONE GIRL
Every well regulated household, with
half adozen or so in the family, needs other
help than that which an overworked moth
er can give. and IA is just as well to keen
one or the 0augnJers at nome 10 renoer
such assistance as is necessary as To hire
outside help. Itwould be far better for the
young woman and the home as well IL
must be confessed that many are ayerse 70
helping mother keep the house in order,
and not a few daughters are so shiftless as
60 fail to care for their own rooms.
The home girl, though she may not know
it, Is fulfilling a grander and nobler mis-
sion by her devotion TO home than dozen
has planted herself in woman's natural
sphere, doing woman's truest labor. and
endearing herself 10 those around the
hearthstone which she graces. Her bud
ding charms are blooming into the ehoic-
est flowers that should grace womanhood,
and will make her life a halo. sunshine
for those whom fate destines 10 be near
her.
The home girl has confidence in and
knows the value of a mother, who is the
ideality that keeps pure her mind, aspira-
lions and desires. To her she goes for
sympathy and counsel, and IL she is Of
Tended by relative, friend or lover mother
knows all She values her lady friends
highly, but she does not put the confidence
in them she does in her mother. Her
mother was a girl once and experienced
all the phases of girlhood, and has had
the experience and possesses the right kind
Of love to advise the daughter rightly.
A young man of brilliant turn Of mind
was paying attention 20 young lady sew
eral years ago, when the fates, as he
termed it, parted them. He went west
and remained two years. Correspondence
was about bis only diversion. and IL Is
needless 10 say his sweetheart was his
worst victim Upon his return he touched
upon their correspondence, and remarked:
IL suppose you and your lady friends had
some laughable times over my tiresome
and foolish letters" 20 which she replied.
mo, VIII; read them to no ono but
mother"