Telegram-herald., 1891-04-26
WOMEN
SHAMELESS lsD LlELESs fLIR1S
va. Losk Tor Parse And social srasd-
i.x 4. order - PIP Their Arss-Ssr-
traas asisxy Tells OF Ihsir
Hlss. Coarse asa Collapse

r,,uan- the wao does what she pleases.
when sne pleAses aud - she pleasee
Undoubssdiy you have, tor she - ~
numerous "a the poor mxn's children
eas Is totally unlike anything else On
earth. and il may % doubted that SIM
lar beings exist either above or below
tais terrestrial globe
The lmpudsas woman may be reeog-
nized almost at birth. At . very ten
der age she EXHIBITS traits OF character
WHICH suggest 10 tho close observer |
much that is develops later. She
has. ss . baby. an unusual way OF cry
ING. She does rot whimper and SOB.
So hovls IN an assertlye way that |
brooks no reproof. Ii requires the |
melted efforts OF father, motners
brother. sister and nurse To pactfy her,
and even their best eudeavoss f2is more
often than they succeed, Tor she does
not stop until she wants to, or has 70
from Lack OF breath. When the little
feet first learn 10 patter through the
nursery she adds materially To the
duties Of the whlte-eapped nurse wnom
ana encounters bat ~ sobdue. Her
narent, are conquered from the first.
and they soon learn To acquiesce IN
every demand made by petite madam
os.elia and so the first educational in-
stinets which are deyesopedi areS dc
tatorlal. She recognizes her own ihi-'
portancs and assumes II with an ease
which delights every beholder. hef
gentle breeding Is poten. factor IN hef
DEVELOPMENT. She is attended by ser
vaots and tutors, and is encouraged 10
believe IN their utter inferiority. Her
education a. home and ut school fosters
her assertiyeness. At home she - PAIN
nered and petted by too indulgent par
eu,s. and ner scnool life is but repoti-
ION of her home life. Those who love
her best ignorsntly consDire 10 tnrotue
oil her best instincts and purposes.
social Leader by Assumption.
An excess OF kindness aud love con-
epire with indulgence 10 convert hei
INTO a mountain OF seltishness. her
pretty air and graces are praised until
sae believes herself the acme oil pertec'
ton. In her gsrlnood and early NO
manhood all these traits are present IN
4 more advanced state. The selt-wiiiec
child becomes the self-contained anc
self-esteemed woman. Her posstion IN
society affords ample opportunity foi
the cultivation of All arrogant style. A
supercIlious expression supercedes ths
.e!tish look, and IL she Is wealthy bel
purse-proud bearing Is anything bu'
agreeable to those who are her superi
ors IN everything but wealth. She 10
social leader because she wills IL 30 ant
not because her friends and admircr
make her such. She has alwaysgratifle<
her desires and she continues to do 90
Were she really worthy leadership II
ANYTHING she could not adorn the pos
ton for the impudent woman 10 no
ornamental. She Is . constant reproacl
on her training and education, and
an effective example of the SIN OF pa
rents who allow their children TO over
ride and overstep all the rules OF nom
government. She should DO noted :
avoid rather than To emulate, ana 10
woman of fine instincts Will shun he'
When society's gates first open 10 ~
nit her a. bud, oil the mascuia1
world is st her feet, but the season
come and the seasons go, many OF thsi
before any man has the temelity
yather her to bloom in his household
she regards marriage as her inevitan
festiny. but 10 must bring her weal'
be il matters not, but no must have
eomfortable bank account and must :
reunited in the select four hundre.
otherwise marriage 10 failure. I
course with the considerations OF weai'
and position, marriage IA always su
cess. Marriage is her golden opport
nifty. for IL gives her broader ncen'
than she hast heretofore enjoyed.
She Becomes Married Fiirt.
She becomes that lawless and sham
isss creature. the married iilrt. >!
finds opportunity for delicious
dangerous love-making and 10 n
averse 10 quiet wine supper now 81
then. III her husband Is suspicious Ill
isaIous she IL clever and unscrupulot
khe lulls hrs fears with dainty caress'
and when he is out OF SIGHT, she max
merry with her devoted cavalier son
isy fate overtakes her and she - io
For years she has been successini
attaining her owl aims without rexa
10 the rights OF others she meets nj
hat to rule them, and when TINT
society becomes asstasteful to her. 8
throws them aside like worn she
But an accident throws across her pa
one who can rule her aud she sways
fore his viii as the waving grain befo
the west wind. Her rule 10
an end. and she becomes but the reii'
ion of anotner's power. Ii ends
,er ruin. Such j. the history OF
roman who begins life wrong. Won
general suffer for her mistakes .
ins. Man IS too apt 10 estimate
women by the srlght particular 81
whlch .hone for him alone for TN
The world "a full OF generous, lars
hearted and sincere women whose
tues are clouded By the errors OF m
guided femininity. The psnpers
petted. idle. spoiled female should {
exist and. hsppily, her class seems
he disappearing. In her place apes
the self-rsllsus woman. who respe
herself and whom everybody respee
The woman with the impertinent ST
i, making war for the woman v
looks without snnihiiAsing. The n
lsuium may not Re near as hand,
when IL does come the impudens
man oil have disappeared utterly. :
IN ner place will b seen the fhorous
tovahIe womsnly woman
GKkrsUrE GArFry