New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1890-11-30
A REGULAR SUM-
WOMAN AND AN INCOME.

Prom The Ptsburg Bulletin. -. -.
In an Eastern city, few days ago, woman woman, vho mo
score Of years disappeared She leit T.er some
tanning reason for this course ~ ooI ,hat many
bmsisauds NAV well heed This woman of forty, vol
untarIly left a comfortable home ana secu.eu p
1e Wanted money that could be hers without asking
for IT, and without being expected TO ienoer Oh
count Of its Oe peq Se gecoded that when he read that
letter he was only geved beyond nes'1, Sa Ss
emazed, beyOnd expression. lie declared e'la' no
had provided literally for all her wants, even " 'n'
matter of horse and carriage Tor mel OWL use =.
true but it is also the outsrowt Oh hsn the man
affairs that begins AT the altar, Mis Goods ne
solemnly declares that with all MS IL The ner
endows the trusting woman at MS sue III u0 -,
veps"n Of this sentence is found the root OF a gest
evil, the foundation Of structIrs wlVI re Average
bmSband has paid his we's bills, eheerinly IL mai
be- when he has surrounded her "ieh niicinae her
~ishes he feels that lie has done his whole auey'
lie hasn't lie has not endowed. her Win saI RtI and
refinement will find that asking Tor what se s Ier
have without asking is the most epuean, iaIn needs
mar only cash can OBTAIN and that the most tactlut
and afectionate husband does NOT cream J f thes
sue wa things As daughter In her fathers honie'
.He could and would not ask for money as , Wn9
She will not do so either. To spare hef TINS ga,n '
sno Of her wishes should be the duty Us wen
- the pleasure of every man VINO possesses w,".
a. we'll Is OF every who is the father Of daases
@ man in hundred whose life IS blessed win theo
uao Sn a does his duty in this respect As a
pnseomenee there bovers one undispeled, ero~iio
cloud over many heartistohes, q oiouu oat "'' ~
band alone can disspate -, Aha s,n, set anart for
No in1 npnueslioned use. That Is not the vilsl
na s,ter Let it be regular stated sum- leea nd
a living there shall be need OF asklhg anu a.
Whose SPENDING there shall never be question lrD
SH hSsbapd No man possessed OF particle Oh SPIT,
viii ask for what is clearly hi, rghtiu dues t ne ss
M ~ Vet many men, good husbands ana Ia,nIIS,
nvP hc,I nroydcfs too impose this most disagfeesp;
task upon the women they love Isl. hicS may be-
ba"e roier,ed to- wife OF fifteen years "as mar,
inod hv an intimate friend regarding the oilue r.
Seemingly perpetual devotion TO enpro a t;erd hy
ifn In hurst OF confidence, surprised her lrieuu ~
ronfession IL was that she had found In enproucn ~
q relief from the necessity Of asking her nsoa dss
money She said lie houses me, 1ecis me-, uie ;~
me I'm comfort bat he starves my lndepei,uend cx.
neyer nermttinC me a dollar for nexplanen ,, S
penditure After most unhappy period . 0n Ss
until he should realize my wishes IN this nj, ,rpa,
discovered my aptitude in embroidery sen
make and II | could not thus gam nuePe'uo ~ "a
believe / should really despse my husband, s W,tle
he is in all other respects Here tleh aie wv ths
texts The sermons therein may be read De sd and
lines and will find application TO many S unnoS
| fathers who deem the women they love anu s"Pf~
| wholly enYiable.