Fairhaven herald. [volume] (Fairhaven, Wash.) 1890-????, 1890-07-29
PoRTIeREs AND POPPING.
Contained Doorwsys Ar. Serious Obstacles
In the Way Of Matrimony

A few evenings ago said to my friend
Dareal; Joseph, why haven't you mar
riedy' The question seemed abrupt
admit, but the moment was most propi-
iious. As We sat in the contest corner OF
the club room testing a new and recon-
pensing brand of cigars We talked awhile
at random, and finally We, too. drifted TO
the subject Of marriage in Buffalo. We
spoke of the apparent reluctance Of GER
tain young men to do anything but
dawdle about the objects of their adora-
ton, and when Joseph SAID, do not
blame them, perhaps it is not their fault,
| put to him the startling question,
Joseph. why don't you marry" Joseph
took several long pulls at his cigar before
replying. but finally said, his eyes fixed
on the ascending smoke; IF you wish to
know what has kept me from matrimony
Twill tell YOU. Ii is the portiere. ] stared.
Joseph went on: In other words, it is
because parlors have no doors-because
our modern houses are one vast whisper
ing gallery in which the slightest sound
Is heard from one end to another. 1t is
wears since | have felt sure that ! was
absolutely alone with girl-an environ
ment necessary for sentimental demon
STATIONS. But to particularize. Ii is not
long since became unusually interested
in young woman Of my acquaintance.
Perhaps | was in love with her. If not,
know that might have become SO. |
paid her rather marked attention for
nearly "A year. but in my numerous visits
To her house there was never an oppor.
tunity for anything but the most formal
conversation Usually her father sat in
the library across the hall in full hearing
If not in view-ofus. No chance To shut
door At the parlor door-portieres:
at the library door--portieres; at the
dining room door-portieres; and never
am opportunity for that sense Of private
tete-a-tete which gives man inspiration
for sentimental deeds.
Now. il is my idea that the time when
mutual love is first acknowledged should
he supreme moment in life-one to he
made the most Of, and not to be thrown
away by any such insensate proceeding
a. a proposal by letter, or even to be
risked at unpropiiious seasons, when in
terruption is probable or possible. There
fore, did not tell my love with papa
reading his paper in the adjoining room,
OF with the servant fumbling at the side.
bnard in the dining room, with only q
thickness of curtain between her and US.
did not tell my love while all the doors
were wide open and the sisters were act
i've in the upper halls. and could heal
the brother in his room overhead dress
ing to go out. No; ! waited for SOME
moment of assured privacy. 1t never
came"
There was n long silence. "WellF'
said at last. That is all. Last summer
the young woman in question made 9
visit 10 provincial town. where sh,
could shut the parlor door While Their,
she became engaged and was married
last autumn.
And that is courtship as she is con
Quoted in Buffalo, sighed. THAT il
the state OF things in nine houses out %
ten where pay social visits, said JOSEPH
Ia. cal. And as recalled the homes %
our wedable but unwedded maids con
cluded that Joseph was not wrong, an,
that what is most needed by our younl
men is not courage. but "a chance. -
Buffalo Courier