The Hot Springs star. (Hot Spings [Hot Springs], Dakota [Dakota Territory, i.e. S.D.]) 1886-189?, 1890-05-02
SUCCESS M MARRIAGE.
The Sensible Views OF an Ex.
tremeiy Sensible Woman.
Something About the Secrets OF q Perfect
Homo Lilo = Tho Science of Cnaa
Ifouse-EA~ph,g-fiov tn lscar tho
Unpleasant Things OF Life.

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On the much mootsd question, s'Is Mar
risvc a F;.iinre?'' u lady writes Is, tho Chicl.
90 Inter Ocean som, remarks SO sensible
that we can not but quote them for the
benefit of our readers:
A woman makes q failure of marriage
unless She mlses an effort to Go u great
deal more than is implied i'll her marriage
contract. II is supposed that the husband
supplies this material for tho home, and
they are very raw materials indeed unless
the wife takes hold of those means with
the'hand Of o creator, building UP out of
them helps and associations loved and
needed by both. And o woman must put
her soul into her house, or it is q hollow
and sounding shell.
As high rs we must rate the accomplish
ment OF good housekeeping, it is not all in
the making Of q honne.~ ! know q lady :who
was q marked failure as a houseseeper who
was tho idol Of her husband, and VINO
graduated to the world a family Of accom-
plishcd and honored children. Aud there are
women who in pain aud weakness arc con-
lined to their WI rooms, yet VINO manage
to hold tho power in al orderly house and
I'LL 1T full of love-iight and happiness suni-
Gent for the comfort Of all who cross its
threshold.
Its the quality OF recognizing and filing
ASSS eaN 10 ClA0 OSSClliul GUILTY. OK SUCCESS
in marriage. Practically, If 81 man comes
home from business with Il hcaaachs. hun
cry for abit Of sympathy and love, and n
good deal of quiet, and finds h!s Wife in u
raging excitcmento over an elaborate dinner,
and IS ordered to keep OUT of the way and
amuse the children till the great proceeding
Is eliminated, he is about US unfortunate as
the man who brings q college friend t:osne
to dinner and finds his wife in wrappcr ;nd
slippers deep in o French novel. But tue
woman who spies tho coming friend from
the window slides out of her wrapper in q
twinkle and appears upon the scene in due
time with a soul-cheering cup of French
coffee, is the woman who makes her hus-
band cnvied among men.
Unfortunately women have hobbies, and
ride and ride and never perceive that they
arc boring their companions to death.
There are men who wouid 80 to@ar to b. rid
OF paper flowers, hair flowers, ru.s. titles
and what not; and there are u,aE WHO think
art and music are Inventions os Tic evil QUO
to make people miserable. Any one, any
where, who cultiyatcs Il hobby at the en-
pcnsc OF other peorle's comfos; is making u
failure of life; but true po!itensss OF the
heart between friend and friend, man and
wife, will o1riate the danger CT oye!lune
ainusclncnts.
lCls easier 10 forgive Tlrt'ious excess of
zeal, and it is mostly excess ct acal for cy-
c~ellence of some kind tha. e.,,.,e.: SOHO
women to be more exclusively l..usa,.ircs
than wives OF mon. The greatesl CHARITY
should be extended tc n wcpian wl.o ,auscs
her house so perfect in d ':i' AKA pol
ished in appearance That her friends gn into
it with fear and trembling, Tea s.ai Is l:;iict-
cd with a virtuous zeal, ana has n:is ovcr-
drawn q very good thing. Eoaso;,". oins-
has ITS fanalics and MARTYRS rs @ei: Us any
other good cause.
But housekeeping conducted as = means
of happiness and comfort. ei,hnr III II cabin
cra palace, is u science that TO wife can
nts.lect II sne WISHES 10 sus,i.:u tnc law OF
mutual ~heipfulness in marijuse.
wife expects her l,isbaHi upon mar
HSNAHAMkcsin a course OF telling for ie,.
lt>gcmjssicn or Ma.y s"spcn-
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