New-York tribune., 1890-04-20
NOTHFRS-TN-LiV TikE UARNING.
IF yor WISH TO sir YOrR D,UGHTERs HAPPY
AFTER TuflR M>RRi>Gr LIT THEM NoNE

II yor- WISH TO SIr YOTR D>rGHTFRS HAPPY
AFTER TufrR MARRi\GT LIT THEM NLONE
Here is .omc good advice for mother, law who
are honestly anxious to ~ce their daughters happy
after nurra.. and n come, from an expert in such
matter. II any one tnn be- ,oi,i' rel an expert III
cases Of that Kind lti- the advice oi the clerk OF
one of the oouri, In the County Court House. Hr
J., now over seventy year old and has been clerk
for almost nftv year. Neariy all Of that tine he
ha~ been IN the par of the 'onrt where large
majority of the divorce case. tried Ec,ide> tins
be- ha, .evcfal daughter, Who happily married ana
he i, keen observer Of human ratnr'. \ .uli for
limited divorce va. tried IN the part In which h. is
clerk ~. other day, In which too much mother 10
law Wa. The principal cause Of complaint. NUcr u
was nn,h-d he aid To- the wrii"r
.rn 'cll you What IT is. after all that Ia, been
.sid aboui mot'.r. n-law as d.sturber, Of d'nc'''
happiness among Noung married couples, NOT "''
qrartcr hn@ been told lhi might U"
aid alcut the subject. have watcher
IA. pr,cccdinr, in not onl, hundreds. bur
presume thousand- of divorce ca,cs and tell 80"
.,nr,. al those cn-c. are brought Ia court ~ 'on''
qucncr ~ mothers In Law. The rpnh" j.. "'' ''''
TN, mother in-iaw often cause, the disturbance !"
action, which she honc-tlv believe, a.c for the b'-'
interest Of her daughter ana because She imhA' 'n''
she b. MAILING her child happy h' h"r 'o"u"''' 'o'
onlv that, but III. would consider herself dc'r't ]"
her duty to her of prmg II she did not q" ~ S'' ~
doe, when she causes th' disturbance.
TIN. ml.apprcllcnsion Of her duty very "'''"
cause. -cfluu, troiblc Il not divorce suit. N"''
nay first daughter mI'ricd shc and her hD'"'""
came 10 my house To live and they had not p''"
married a month before they were qnarr'llinS. S'N
how hing, were going and bought them 9"'"''
house tn Irooh.;: and sent them over there 10 NV
since that time they have hN'u nap
pily together and they have never have ""u i
serious quarrel snro that time. when my ''''
daughter were married I Insisted up"n th'r s"in-
away from home Immediately. ana they "fr "'N
all II, ing happily with their husbands - ,. =,
tell Nuu hat. tine lc,, muihcr-h II" ",' ~
do with her daughter durnr the hr, fr" N'N W ~,
daughfcr's married life the better thai dinRnu WIN
get along with her husband. lt'- an n-ht '"'
mother to visit her daughter for snort Ptly''' u
she must rt Npung people i''h '"'' Wv"
affair to suit Themselves. From IN" many 'a>' 49,,
which have come under my Ob'rfNA"l' n."" 'n'' '
there t. nuthing Young man WIN Hi'' >P''t i''''
quickly the ntr ference hN M h''"'i i"" ~, AZ
hi, domestic arrangements. N'nnS 'vnP' w"
make a great many mistake. of course uurlhE tn, tn'
nr.i few year, OF their married HE, bu' in'N VII
learn. bv experience du' XIV enough To- 90 p,' I'LL
and they will be- all the more clo-elN b.n 'oi, '.l %
in consequence sf the experience Nh'i'a>, !, & ,a'
mother In law thnks II H. her duty to 'e,n l"1h.
ihcrc will be- no cnd Of trOnhc aud trr mnirlru hir
i. likely 10 end win divorce -nit before thcS hNc
really become acquainted with each olhcr'