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when Girls Are Engagod.

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When Girls Are Engaged.
You have a little band around the
third finger of your left handin which
is set a turquoise, and when it "a
put there you remembered that the
Hindu said:-s'He who hath a tur-
quoise hath a friend" Now, that's
what you have in the man you love
best, and whose wife you are going to
become-a friend. He is your sweet
heart, your lover it js true, but be-
cause to you his heart seems best
worth, having, his love the richest gift
you can possess, you will not vulgar
lie, as many girls do, the tie that
binds you. 1t is true you go with
him alone to hear some wonderful
music, or look at some fine pictures.
but l hope it is not true that when
you are at IL party, or in your own
home, you two pair off and make
yourselves the objects for silly chatter
and idiotic jesting.
He IA love you with his whole
heart, but he must not make you an
object Of ridicule. He can think you
the most unseifish girl in the world,
but hemust not show his SELFISH
ness by expecting you to devote your
evenings exclusively to him, ignoring
those who are at home. Let him
come in and be one of them-there's
a deal. five minutes when he can speak
to you, when he can kiss you on the
lips that he knows are only the gates
to sweet. pure speech, and when he
can whisper the lovely nothings that
mean so much to you both. Then,
too, don't let him feel that he must
give up all his friends for you; don't
accept valuable presents from him,
and don't assume an air of proprietor
ship with him. Tell him nothing
secrets of the household do not even
marry. Guard yourself in word and
in deed; hold his love in the best way
possible; tie it firmly to YOU with the
blue ribbon of hope, and never let it
be eaten away by that little fox who
destroys SO many loving ties and who
is called familiarity.-Ladfes' Home
Journal.
A Hefress' Boots.
For a wealthy heiress Mrs. Henry
Gladstone didn't go in alarmingly for
boots and shoes to complete her we'd
ding trosseau. She had about eight
pairs for outdoor wear and a dozen
for indoor. There were several
pairs of satin shoes to match her diff
fefent gowns, two or three of quilted
satin for bedroom wear, and a good
many plain shoes. But this is not
considered "going in" for boots and
shoes.
What Co1ors Will Photograph.
The time was whent hephotograph-
er required certain coIors in dress to
produce good effects. Now, with ex-
perience and the improvements in
chemicals, these restrictions are re-
moved. He can photograph white as
we'll as black. The capable artist
prfdes himself on his ability to show
the most delicate and elaborate lace
work on the bridal dress.
With these restrictions no longer
necessary, | would say-wear your
most becoming dress.
Blue and pink will photograph
white.
Purple will appear many shades
lighter than it is in reality.
Red and deep yellow appear black,
or nearly so.
Strong contrasts in dress or trim
mings will give a gaudy effect.
Subdued and quiet colors make the
neat picture. For example see the
pictures Of nuns, or the lovely pictures
of Quaker ladies The Ladies Home
Journal.
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