The morning news. [volume] (Savannah, Ga.) 1887-1900, 1890-10-05
, TALK ON MARRIAGE.
WV YORK BACHELOR GETS A
IITTLB LECTURE,

.r. Repeated for the BENEFIT OF
C.,er Fachelors-A Mans IDEA OF
~--..oond a Woman's Answer-Mar-
- &c Not on the Cocline-Moulded
20 the Form Divine-1he American
c,-ps Pirure-1he Easle screeches
g. colurnbia's Fair Daughters-The
Ct,c of the soubretue-What She
U.s,eo TOR and Got-sone Returns
Not Yet In.
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Nvw YORK, Oct. 4.-On the stage, In the
-.s,,orsrs. bv the novelists, and among
-sa..orfa who discuss things, to-day the
.orriae-e question is again to the fore. Why
-, Ant marry and why women don't
-,ar,, Is talked over and talked over until
:. -..o,ld seern as if the subject were worn
....oo1,bara hut it is always taken mp again
at the next meeting.
RACHFLoR'S MARRIAGE DREAM
1b.or1 a man say the other night. a man
- 6ed been educated in the most con-
.r,,.+i,-a manner, and who had seen much
- no ,sIVhat | want is a companion who
Vii ba oFecttonate. I do not look for an
deal love. do not expect to ind an angel,
~ world like to meet companion and
somrade: one who. when L wanted to be
sIent. didn't care to talk; ore who, when
rarfed to discuss Il book, a picture or q bit
of news, would be Interested ~ IL one VINO
- Ia m, one side of the fireside when
,ros on the other and would mako for me a
bona And yes am not willing to bind
s'T-self TO auY woman. 1 will not, even with
;redding ring. be tied.n Sweet selHShness,
this wasl
LITTLE MARRIAGE SERMON.
told him this, and felt myself de-
,sndsr IN the cause of matrlmony:
Won will never get what you wish ex-
.nt in wife The wife makes the home,
makes the home feeling, ana IS sufficiently
wing and unselfsh TO give in TO the whims
I'd vagaries Of a man. The other woman
nav interest you. may be amusing, you
nav admire her beauty, you may be proud
4 her wit. but she never Can make the
,are for yOur soul to rest in-that must be
reirced bv a golden band. AS for ties
M ties are so strong as those that bind a
man 70 his sins and none so difficult to
keak.
HOW WOMEN REGARD MARRIAGE.
"As marriage, wcmen are getting to look
Att in q much more sensible way than do
yoeo. And woman just as carefully thinks
out what sort Of companion She is going
intends to make for him. 1t goes without
saylnr. that she loves him. For women are
more essentially sensitive of flesh than men,
and seldom marry where they dislike. jan
uary and June do occasionally wed, but
usually June has gone a-maylng with
Young love, had her heart hurt and
is willing to accept more or less
chilling affection from January and
20 he satisfied. Every woman can
- loo arrs
she can't marry a man who will be COM
panion to her, she can marry a man she can
take care of; and on my honor, there are
women in this world in whom the maternal
IS so strongly developed that the greatest
happiness OF their married life is taking
care of the man who ought to be looking
after them. But it is just question Of
taste and if you prefer TO care for Charlie
and to study out how his life shall be easy,
and prefer to care for Jack, and believe it
IS his duty to study out how mine shall be
made most comfortable, that is entirely
your business and mine.
MARRIAGE is NOT DECLINING.
Just as many people get married now as
ever did, and it is something that will
never, never go out Of fashion. Fast men
may rave against it, crack brain noveliss
may write against it, and morbid souls may
moan over it, but ever since the first mar
mage in the garden of Eden we have all
had more or less OF an inclination to go and
DO likewise. Some marry and repent and
some repent because they don't marry; but
as for anybody excepting wife making .
bono for man-why, it IS utter nom
sensem it is needless TO say that after tAis
trade even the selfish brute in the shape of
aman who had given his opinion in the
lightning, wilted-w1lted perceptlbly, and
my heart throbs with proud beat as
mink 1t possible that | have made con-
vert. Between you and me, | am hoping
that some nice rosy-faced girl who has just
gotten back from the seaside will assist in
the conversion, make him a more sensible
MN and z husband.
NODDED TO THE FORM DIVINE.
We are all fitting around in summer
frocks with warm jackets over them. and
admiring the latest evolution of the Ameri-
can girl She is g.ove-like in her set-u-.
her gown Is most mysterious to behold. and
the wonderment among the club men is how
sde gets in it. Icould tell but won't But
may mention that neither shoe-horn nor
glove-buttoner are used in the process. The
skirt Cloth Of ceursej fits her figure exactly.
a tlny gore Just in front making it quite
smooth there, while the curves about her
h!ps are fitted over as exactly as are the
gloves on her hand. In the back are a
couple OF double box-piaats that give the
necessary fuilness, but they never Interfere
With the smoothness Of the froat, and are
Only there to permit nlademoisslle TO take
me long swinging step that just now she
lsatecting.
THE AMERICAN GIRLS FIGURE.
Her bodice is rather a long BASQUE. m
Elihmed, and not showing crease or q
sFlakle, yet she can bend easily, and indeed
" all her movements suggests an undula-
on sucn as the waves make. Only m
america sirl could dress this way. for she
'ne only woman in the world who has the
leurs TO it. Seldom over medium size.
sae is usually extremely well.shaped abort
ue hlls, achieves the line Of beauty in her
oaSk, and If her bust is small she goes TO A
'altor VINO knows the value Of curled hair and
;ot'on' ana she does not present the disgust
"iH appearance of French women. wlo
s s0on when they are quito young, grow
S sloli hously large about the bust. AS her
tTet are small they show from beneath the
oa'h SKIRT shod to perfection, and when |
Tl ler' TINS exponent of good form, feel
~ cushing up, shaking hands with her
. ShiAg her how much | admire Der, how
aoOHlinahly vain | am at heart of the Amer
s {a'. girl, and then rushing away waving
W. stars and the bars" and the ''stars and
CoLUNBIA's FAIR DAUGHTERS.
r Inc American girl is going to be the wo-
tsI.s OIL I the century about whom everybody