The Seattle post-intelligencer. [volume] (Seattle, Wash. Terr. [Wash.]) 1888-1914, 1890-11-08


Ion NH Anxious xnotheI6 g. This subject
would - xjch man, Net nomombofa =.
no6f xo1otfye of mine onoo WEitiuG NJ ffon1
Paris = fo1Iops:
z 4 ccnnfgn my WHO and daughter III
your esre They wilI spend ~ winter il
pelmonlco's and draw on No Tor TIE ont
~.
II replied
q ny dear Sollow. how many people do
you know 81 this citv whom you could In
yito u holt. The fund ron oend me viii
II u6ed, but not IN Owing ball The Gir1
ssins bsausy. re ret was easy snossh.
tsf party. followed by charmine little sup-
Per, tOok her repeatedly 70 the opera and
saW that she rs there always surrounded
by odmirero Inoenaaut1v taxed of her fas-
cinatl0ns, assured my young friends she
was endowed with fortune equal 10 the
mines 81 0phir thatshe danced like : dream
Scr or one;s pet - s., then g & she had :
prominent place ID evefy cotilion, and :.
hitting partner showed her whom e smile
snsrss 9 ii Us nice houses: ccr CRUZ Sc
vereIy her toilet, until Is became perfect;
daily met her On the avenue with tho most
charming man IN town, who. BY one pre-
text or another. / turned over 20 her, made
her ! constant subject 81 conversation, In
sisted upon Il thst she was 70 Be the belle
0f the coming winter: advised her parents
that she should hato her first season at
Bar Harbor, where she could learn to dirt
to her hearts content and vie with other
girls.
Her second summer, when she Was
older, ] suggested her passing ct Newport,
whore she should have . pair Of ponies. =
pretty trap, with well gotten up groom
and Worth to dress her.
!. Hers hintsd that much must depend
on her fathers purse q to her wardrobe, g
friend 81 mine ones said to me:
Ycur pace b charming, but can you
II also advised keeping the young girl
we'll In hand and not letting her give of
tense 30 the powers that be; to see to IL
that she was not 6rSt to arrive and last to
ieavo ball, and further, that nothing Was
more winning in : girl than = pleasant bow
and gracious snlile. given to either young
Or OLD. S.
The fashion now Is for women to hold
themselves erect. The modern manner OF
shaking hands dc not like. but yet it il
adopted.
Being inter ested Ia the kris success,
further impressed upon her theimp0rtance
OF making herself agreeable to older peo-
pie. remsmbertng thst mnchef her enjoy
ment would b derived from them.
III asked to dance : coalition, let It Be
conditional that no bouquet be sent her; to
. cautious how she refused the first offers
OF marriage made her, a. they were gener-
ally the best.
word, Just here, 70 the newly married.
u WORKS well to have tho man more in love
WHO you than yOu are with him. My adj
v1ce 70 al young married women is to keep
up flirting with their husbands Is much
AFTER marriage - before; to make them
selves - attractive to their husbands after
their marriage q they we're when they cap
tivatsd them; not to neglect their toilet,
but rather improve II. The coquettes, after
tney are bound together - before, when
n0 ucs neio tnem. me more they are APP
Precaated BY the world the moro will their
husbands value them. In fashionable life
conspicuous 1eai0usy 10 mistake. A
woman Is bound to take and hold high
social position. In this way Vie advances
and strengthens her husband. How many
women We SEQ who have benefited their
husbands ana secured Tor them these ad-
- young girl should be treated like .
Dflde when she makes her debut into so
ciety. Her relatives should rally around
her, ana give her entertainments to well
COINS hef into the world which she Is to
adorn:
1T il in excessive bad taste for such rel
attyes TO In any way refer to the cost of
these dinners, balls, etc. Every one in 90
Getty knows how 70 estimate such things.
Il taken BY the hand by q person who is
In society yOu are ct once led into the
charmed cirCle, and then your own correct
perceptions Of what should or should not
Be done must do the rest Az . philosoph-
ical friend once said to me:
A gentleman can always walk. but he
cannot afford to have shabby euuipaqe.'
Another philosopher soliloquized Is fol-
lows: