Telegram-herald., 1890-05-28

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a.alsfy ts-&2 belsSel people Who are o1ly
thrs~B tog=gher b ehzEce fer &" ho0rs
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s@sy fa4<zHss 4 Isolltsasss are soEsss ne
s.acrliced ~ relatives AID very close frzeeds
TIE youtA ~kO l. carefszl - salute hls lady
fri1nds and scQos1ntznees according 20 tee
usages of god soeissy s0znosiraes hrgets
u pay tlse s2L0s respect q hls sister. Lot
bsoaass he Is wanting IN zffertlOnste ~
.zrd. but because he has grown 30 faulihsr
With her tA.G il ssslas zwk ward % htm %
trsat her Ia any formal way Yeg wben
be meets her IA company lie shoald. 0ut of
his consideration Ter her, DC markedly Po-
lite ena attentive.
Although Politeness necessarily follows
70 d great extent SCI forms, i should have
have is origin n sffectloa for the indlSid-
IA, or, u : geUsrSl way, cOnsider,rI0n fer
others. " hen the young man begins %
behave AZ home with less politeness than
he exhibits abroad. there IL much danger
that gradually he viii lose bat oonsidera-
ton FOR hts imm@olAte relatives which he
should have and exhibit he may begin
by entering he family nom without for
NAL greeting; absorbed IN bis o1n thoughts
or pursuits. he viii sOon begin % leave his
sister and his mother 20 look for them
selves Ia the smaller affaiIs OF life, ard
gradually bat surely he willicultivate sell
nsh disposition in home Affairs that viii
make him bad or indifferent son or
brother
Il Is q small matter ia Itself whether q
! young man finds a chair FOR his sister or
mother when they would DC seated, antici-
pates their Goslre for a glass of water,
cheerfully helps them 70 their wraps. aud
offers them the thousand little attentions
| without which, and in his shsence, they
could &c. alohg very well BY their own az
! ertions, but it IA not a small matter when
neglect Of sich attentions lessons his con
siderGtion for them, develops his selfish
ness, and gradually undermines the affec-
ton that should unite the family. Polite
ness IN society between Gcquaintanoes or
friends IS demanded by custom. There is
no need 20 remind readers that il should be
| exhibited.
Poltenoss et home and between near
relatives, even between husband and wife,
! though Of much more importance in every
way, is not SO obviously necessary, aud is
too often neglected Gentlemen OF what
! ere known Is the ''old school" were and are
scrupuous in the observance Of the forms
| Of polite society toward their wives and
| other female relatives, and in the homo cir
| Gle, but the later generation seems disposed
TO treat relatives with less forTnality and
respect than is habitually shown strang-
ers and acquaintances. The tendency
/ should be resisted, however, and every en-
/ courasement given in the home circle 20 On
| observance OF tho rules Of polite society,
| modified only by a spontaneous exhibition
/ OF that greater affection which exists be
tween the members Of a family group
! Baltimore Sun.