Telegram-herald., 1890-07-18

FcoREzzssr isso sT s4cszLLEs CO..
Among tks earisas eastems that OBJ
t.ia "a ~ ash az ten socisty noas Is more
psrplexlnz - the ysang man passing
his 6Fst season there th2a thas ~hich
relates 10 tbs treatment Of girls sho
are aos yst qua he stts1ds rsesp-
tiohs aad is introdaesd ~ nsay ysans
ladies, bal hs notisss tAsFs are a few
to sAoa 40 10 nsssr presented. he is
perplsxsd .hsa "a sees thsss yoaag
ladiss-fTsg asnsly ths GssE beautiful
Oass Prsssat-txsased az IL sAsy did ace
exist, 4nd his PsrpIsxity smsaass 70
positive sInbarrassnsat uhsa as 10
presented 80 two yoaag ladies, one on
sithsr side OF tAis beautiful girl, snd
sAs as attsriy isnsrsd a. IL she we're
not thsrs. he ~oadsrs II the lady who
IL managing the introd actions 10 try
ing 20 pot soms sPitsfsl slight uPoa
the sharlaiAg a.idsa, AID II II be the
hostess asrsslf -A0 ts ssad uesiny the
rsssntatiSns, hs asks himself Why
this nsslsstsd youag lady vas invited
40 al, or IL 10 Is possible tAat she came
uainvissd- he speeulatss al around
ths trGth witbsas stri king it.
II hs stays II Warrington long
enough, however, aud inquiries deeply
saeGga. be xill learn that these are
ths m.idsns Who have not Jet been
'Sbroaght oat." ani that therefore they
really have 40 sx.tenss IN society. He
learns, Too, that q girl does not enter
society gradually, As . Polliwig becomes
trsg-thst ists cay, in simils more
bsntsing the subject, there Is no time
vhsn the Washington girl Is IN ehrys-
slis. Shs is always either grub or but
tsray. Shs does nos step into society.
she bursts into it and her debut is as
distiastivs an event as hsr confirmation
or her marriage weuld be.
But the young man in his novitiats
cannot make out why, il these girls are
not recognized By society, they are TO
bs foand az receptions and parties, un-
rscognizsbly mixed with society; and
IL takes sons acute observation and
careful inqairy for him TO solve this
problem
There are two reasons Why they are
shsrs. Ons Is that the hostess has use
for them, and the other is that they, or
thsir pArsnss for them, have use for
shs hostess. II the girl is especially
beautiful, or prospectivsly wealthy, or
AZ abe be the daughter of rank, or have
any notably attractive talent, she IL
sought by the hosssss. II she have none
of these sdvAnssess, her parents have
20 seed hosssssss for her. A beautiful
girl who has not yet ''soms out" Ia
useful 20 the hostess tust az . beautiful
painting or choice ceramic bit is useful
She is see up to please the eye of the
guest, and she understands that shs ia
TO the occasion what . borrowed water
color is to sn art loan exhibition /!
she be wealthy and have not beauty,
she Is useful In another way to the
hostess, In . speculative way, for the
pstronsss Of an heiress holds . consid-
srabls advantage Ia society, sinoe it is
supposable shat whsn the time come,
shs will have . potent influence in be
slowing the young lady's heart. II the
girl bs one OF rank, h is enough fol
the hosse~s that the girls presence In
dicatss tho superior relations main
tsinsd by her patronsss.
And, NE yeung man asks, do the
parents Of these girls understand .his
Certainly thay do--understand 1t and
accept il a. fair payment for the priv
ress nar daughters obtain Of ming
ling With and observing society, thus
SECURING tha. easy grace which csn be
sequirsd In no other way. Lat Us pat
Hypothetical esse-nos too hypoeheti
cal. bus tust hypothesioel enough. Sup
poss . mother has two daughters o
marrtae>bis sgs, she elder ono not ye
betrothsd. She must hold tn
younger ono back. ksep her out o
society upsti che sldsr one has mad
her msrket Bs< che younger one mus
meantime be p~-paring 10 shiae ii
soctesy when her dme shall have con,
20 .rssr a. rMs preparation can b
nsds ncvhsrs but Ga society. The CIR
must hscotss fsnili~r with society II
al ia socepted phases she must b
placed in thAt prscacal school. tn
moths, therefore. establishes tn
younger daughter in the good grace'
of some of shs ladies at whose rscep
sioas ssd tess and parties the mos
sscsptAbIs soosssy is 70 De found snC
these lsdies understand that they ar
nsvsr 70 issroisos young gsntlsasn tC
shs sRl.
Thsrs sps enough persons 10 dsrid'
WssAtn xton society without my aid
Asvs eniy ~ ssy shas - Gar as hsv
besa sbi. 90 sbs-rve. shsre is les
scandal and fewer .csnasl nongsrs II
w>.hinztsn than In any Othsr city o.
its .i<e sbat knov aagh. shous, soC
shsrs sr. thcsssnds of p-rsoas hers vh'
msk. sesissy tasir prefessien- Thu
nush 7 vt.h W ins~rjscs a. . sort o
vrslus. 20 What to 70 tellew.
h.A = sAss With seighbor's bssu
Nful s.ssghss~ tb- sstr-s dsy.
"Ne: 7 sm not out. she said, $50, o
course, sn nss rsgu5sriy introduced
bat I know good many Seatlsnsn
nevertheless, sud have pArfsctiy level
times a. he rsc.ption. You see, whe
know = gentlemen real veil 1 ca
ask him 70 tntroducs another gsntl'
men. and IN that wsY I can usual
usnar. TO know juss those ! wish :
and svoid the rest Oh. We girls hsv
good mary advantages ever thos
that hav. some cut.
fsNo. - never vser evening gown
or alsvss We wear simpas Wait
wools or light tints It is snly On yer
great occasions that we wear silks. v
regard girl that "a net yet in sOcie;
who wears silks sni piash-s a YER
staekv sort % person. But a. ths r
eepsio's. where ve pour tea and Al