The Seattle post-intelligencer. [volume] (Seattle, Wash. Terr. [Wash.]) 1888-1914, 1889-12-15
n, Qualities in Men Most
Priced by Women.
rse CHOICE FOR 4 YOUNG GIRL.
. x.s IgEes 70 bs Her Hasband's
eussn and - be 80 Regarded
By Hls.


81 4 snkn. ard cotau tsai = u lev Nsfons
~ nasne Of woman q legion and
- xolaan has her own ideas. and these
= - fkance a. years 10 By. anti seen in
4. All aslsfe of oar summer life. or through
- .esrtacses which mere eooer autumn
-. "A. the man who in otr spriugtifne
- or deal Of eli a man should be, falls
- - hsxa pedestal and the pieces OF
- sksttered idol are moi worth the picks
fkrup
Ebsn Mrs. Jones In her early gsriho0d
1900 Nr. Jones eae thought him the
l. a. man ia al the world who eoEld make
- hsppy, and his roughness and swas-
- ard eoaFss good bumor pleased and
san.ea her. for there was In her nature
.sssshsns which responded 70 bis. But,
essn he same advantages. women pSiish
s.nss than men and are quicker TO adopt
IS l.sele customs al poliienesa and refine
rent. aud although Mrs. Jones is not yet
q ss6nea that she cannot enjoy herself.
~ L. learned te blush ut her husbands
marknesa and shivers at his coarse, loud
III
M Brown likes 20 have her husband
ssnse. and enjoys TIE smeli Of his cigar.
rails Mrs. slniia detests tobacco. and the
snea Of cigar makes hsr sick, Mrs.
/ Nakss likes her husband 70 dine at his
1 Dis, becAuse Il gives her more liberty 10
xsssip snd visit. while Mrs. Tubbs cries II
H. i left 20 dine alone. And 80 one might
xastlply the listof women whom the minor
ses.sis and habiss Of their husbands make
ispyy or miserable.
Bns IL il not altogether with the Mrs.
em.shs, ard Browns and Jeueses that this
nslcle has TO do; nor yet with that class OF
sumen who marry the man they know TO
4 drunkard. saying. MS did q young girl
d nv aaanalntauee. that they would marry
bIm II they knew he would be brought
koma every week 10 a state Of intoxicatton-
hat. suppose il love: bat Of the kind OF
xAseh know nothing from personal ex-
rssnee. could not marry man who
drank. or gamhled, or swore, or made vile
nmafks about women. holding them all rs
bs a. himself Still. there are plenty Of
ffis who can and DO marry just such men
anG seem reasonably content.
And thus the paxxle grows as to the
eaality in men most priced BY tie better
esss of women. for 80 not call Der OF
ihs better class who willingly aud know
hsay promises 20 love and honor q fool, or
fous. OF a swearer. or a gambler, or q
artakArd. She may be and eiteu Is in the
seealled higher ranks. where money reigns
supreme. Cor saoney nill buy nearly every
thEnK md everybody, ard should some
times b tempted 20 think II the golden
virtue which my zex prizes the most In
men, did ! not know many undetermined
woman who has chosen 10 be poor with
tae man she loves rather than rich with
The oae she does not
TO Judge others by ones SELF i said 30
kefsghteaus judgment, but Is not always
safe rule 20 follow IN drawing conclm.
siUns, and since thinking Of this article I
hass sounded several women with regard
10 thar likes and dislikes In husbands,
) ssal or prospective. asked a Young girl
sssb positive opinions what trait she would
hAs best IN her husband. IL she had one,
snd her answer was prompt and 90 the
pint Il d want him 10 have mind OF
As own, and not be bossed round by his
sste,a
The reply was startling, but had in il a
nag Of eommoa senss and truth, for much
"a woman mas Ike 10 boss her husband.
shd pleasing rs the recreation may be. she
seald N her heart respect him more If he
sometimes took the Feins in his own hands,
szea 1 he upset The matrimonial car, or
ctuFt 4 into domestic cyclone.
! asked another girl, with no positive
eFsnioas. and her answer was character
allc: A man Is man anyway. full Of
eesaers and qulrks and erankS. But We
= haFs 90 have one. | suppose, aud SO IL
49, not matter mueh, It he Is only nice
~ isls rs have our own way"
AnetaeF. = frivolous butterfly, would
ass handsome man. who stands six feet
be e0ots aud can dance without step
Fhs oa Der tain and naking gay II
knSsss.
tass girl has yet 20 learn that dancing
80 anal q handsome man Is NOT man 10
essifsd. sud thsi the plalnest features
- most awkward manner. IL they SO
aAaa n hand With kindness OF heart and
sseal q homer and integrity, are worth
= @ofe thar Turveyarop and hard.
&sss 'ses, which. in man, seldom fails
= As ;AApia
AaetasF would be satisfied with a man
aga sSssition, whom the world delighted
: sehes, The reporters Go iEteYvsew, and
- feegae 70 STARE al and posnt out. while
- - his wlse, showa ia his reflected lisat
49, nes She gsrl know that such men
sFsss have time - give a. their wives, and
= Sol tank 81 those little everyday = s.
eiss wA1eh are - true. iayal woman
So he dsw = 81 tie flowers. and Without
$50 soss vii wear itself cat in bot ~.
N'sa ssslnst the ambition and Sss trui.
~ea NhlsA hare come between itself and
kfPsaesxs
Aae1ass wants learned man. who has
- maeh aud knows 50 much that
ssa ae sVrsss, words Of wisdom drop
- as BPS ase FaiRdrcps Ia summer
Neet NJ this sounds very taae. or
se%sa, tie nan Of eynSlitlan ever salkess
80 % ans aae else hat hookwogfns. as
~ arr fefisens and selt.ztsorhxss. Aaa
A'saf ABSTRACTION and retieeeee are apt 10
se selfish and exaetlne. as wAx CAF-
ErpNisng oFrr his toast and tea ia that
FSsy happy home at CFaieeapessoek.
sss man 81 learning and tAms.
a. we.c Mas rFoaa and ien4 a
- essa s8Se IAsraEhy in Msadsemarch. y
nEsse haHaFinr Cassaahud. stu had
a..AasksFsns alter Als ssEpekTaoe asphSw
- as mssastssm ard frank Eeaial
-. sss soi!s have liked Algn s4ese and
- aApEseF With him bad be found ssnss
s.ese ss'Se attentions &ad e08Fsestes
@asa ~Us1Sa pF!se. and which sesp levs
- - assd yeAas dewa 60 = rfpe es8 aEe.
s&dSysd uamAn whose hashAal
MA ssssa Tor ytaFs,- $ lie Was : gem
- % every respeet. hs,t | loved hin
1ast s0s Ass kses8aess asa gAouratfaln~ss
@sa asrss aileWesi h8ss. % gorsss sAat /
- ssis &n9 A.aays made nee sssl sh4l
- = dear q ham ~ th1 first Gay hs
ss.sea sss b. tai nAsae.
A4a abe, tksas, sounded The keynote q