Wichita eagle., 1889-09-21
A CHAPTER OF IMAGINARY WOES
THAT eESET A WOMAN'S LIFE.
It Is Better to Laugh Than Cry-No Toll
let, However Exquisite, Can Hide the
ECloRds on q Pretty Face-There Is q
Remedy for Much of This Fretfulness.

4NOl 20 worry. W CITy never LeipSa Any
/ one along, and never made any one happier.
/ 1t does not drive away clouds, nor remove
mountains nor make the insight clearer, nor
rhe heart lighter, nor the mind calIner. 1t
! destroys the temper, The appetite, the diges-
ton and the general health. 1t gives the facs
an unhappy expression, affects the complex
ion and makes wrinkles II worrying wo-
men could be thoroughly convinced of all
this they would worry less. A worrying wo-
man IS a burden TO herself, and an intiiction
! to all those with whom she comes in contact.
1t may not be an easy thing to cultivate
calm and cheerful way of looking at things,
/ but it can be done A habit once formed is
one Of the most difficult things 70 get rid of.
\ pernicious habit is a tyrant, but a habit
that benefits ones self and helps ones neigh
bor is a delightful commander to serve. The
probation is sometimes long and tedious aud
the discipline severe, but when one is fairly
enlisted in the noble army of the knights of
the cheerful habit the hardest part is over,
md henceforth the line of march is compare
lively easy. 1t is always the first steps that
are difficult to take, IN virtue well es IN
I vice
LIVE is TOO SHORT FOR WORRY.
4 writer attributas the angularity of
American women to worry, and says that 1t
increases with indulgence, like anger or appe-
tite or love, or any other human impulse 1t
upsetS the ml.d and units it for any kind of
work, and surely the woman who worries,
who frets continually about trifeS, is to be
avoided. The woman VINO jumps up In the
midstOf conversation 10 remove a speck or
dust from the piano; who relates tho worries
. of her servants TO her guests; the woman
who frets because her child has a rumpled
: dress, or because some one brings a little Eiud
/ in on tho carpet and about many other sim
/ liar things that are of the least possible con-
I sequence, are vearisone 20 the last degree.
( Life is too short TO be spent in this way, and,
| generally speaking, we have serious troubles
i enough. To fly into passion at some trIiilng
occurrence that is net altogether pleasant,
/ is senSeless Look at the othsT side of 1t, and
perhaps it may be a mdicrou1 side.
Most things have funny SIDE If one VIII
only take the trouble 20 look for II and II
one looks, one will be sure TO find Cultivate
the habit of looking ct IA thing on every side
until you come TO the funny side, and then
enjoy "a good laugh IL Is 90 much better 10
laugh than to cry; one feels far happier after.
ward, and the lauCh has cheering effect or.
those who hear II. And, IL wrinkles must
come, as they surely will rs the years fly by
let them como from laughter and not from
worry. Be net afraid OF laughing wrinkles;
fear only the wrinkles OF worry; they are, in
deed TO be deplored ana fought against. No
rubbing viii cause them 70 disappear; time
viii only deepen them. They eau be avoided,
but they viii not be driven away. And who
enjoys looking AZ a frctful, worried, wrinkled
facet What charm has Partisan toilst, belt
ever 50 exquisite, If the face above II Is COW
cred with network OF fretfu wrinklesi
Since human beings look more at faces than
at anything elss in the whole course OF their
lives, they should do all they can to make
their own faces cheerful, and Is the reflection
of cheerfui face--the eight Of the counte
] nance" what moro expressive way than that
CON be devised for speaking Of q cheerful
facee-wll shine upon all who SEQ IT.
DIsE WELL AID LIVE WELL
OF course, life Is full of carcs, every one
knows that, and every one hes cause TO worry
about something. If the children are III, or
the husband has failed in business these are
things that one naturally worries about
These ara the big things Of lie that must be
borne and about which one cannot help wor-
( ryirg.
BUTT Is the little things Of life over which
/ people worry most and which ara not worth
fret about the WITTY bcr servant enters the
room before company, or passes dish a.
table, and frowns viii settle down upon her
( face that are seen by the guests who have not
,Sea the causes. TIE woman VIII very in
cessantiy about her health. II she has ths
smallest ache in any part OF her body. OF tas
/ slightest feeling Of laugu0r, TIE whole house-
hold is upset, and for few hours everything
s in tho widest state Of confusion, While the
victim-for she certainly Is victim 10 her
+ worrying diSposition-srnaCine-h htrzslf a hun-
dred times more Ia than she 10, ard dies I1auy
! times before Ehe really Gtes once.
Another woman worries because $40 IL
/ growing old Oh, dear! Is not every osss
+ growing old' Is 80 tas ouly pery7n, TIA:
sho scould MAKE such a fuss about itf Sac
VII not Do tais not that, noT 60 here nor
there, ror 81 II c strouE II ght, fer fear tAG:
sorus ono VII discover q gray Esir. or tas
tiaiest s1s-licion If 3 wT11kls. And while
/ she worries In this vay sl4s helps 20 rusi.s
herself look old She denies ksTsslf tas p3azs-
{ ures of lie tr>cause so-re ore Eaay discover
F her age, and 50 the years Ey By and shs Is
! oh-c.1 WITH yezrs ena oder si,h worTT.
+ Unhappy heTsef ard making thoas ah0gf
her unhappy; EclOvs1 and unloTsILc
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