Barton County democrat. [volume] (Great Bend, Kan.) 1885-1915, 1889-11-14
MARITAL INFELlCITY.
Bad Cooking One of the Most Prolific
Sources of Domestic Quarrels.

Bad Cooking One of the Most Prolific
Sources of Domestic Quarrels.
ssThe very light manner in which
American girls and women toss of the
of-quoted Meredithism that civilized
man can not live without cooks is only
another instance of the national lack of
reverence for really serious things"
quothed lady of broad culture and large
experience, who was one of group of
feminine summer boarders at we'll
known mountain resort. Some of the
younger members of the group are in
cined to treat the subject jokingly and
to shrug their pretty shoulders over the
idea of there being any thing serious in
so material question, but their elderly
friend would have none Of their flip
pancy.
81 assure you, girls, it IS my firm con-
viction that more divorces are to be
traced to the fact that American women
know nothing about cooking than to any
other one cause under the SUI. 1t is, in
nine cases out of ten, the ittle rift
within the lute,' the entering wedge,
the apple of discord thrown into the
newly formed and apparently harmoni-
Gus domestic circle, to create discomfort,
alienation and final dissolution Cock
ing is an art which no woman should
fail to acquire, the rudiments OF which
should be inculcated with the three RS,
and the finer touches added with the
finishing-of efforts of her music, draw
ing and French masters. The few cook
ing schools that have been established
and the very limited. accommodations
that have been made for teaching the sub
ject practically in few of our larger in
situations of learning are totally made
quate to effect the results required to
remedy the almost universal ignorance
Of American women upon this important
subject.
The matter should go deeper; the i'm
portance of the subject should be
preached from the housetops until every
woman shall feel as much ash AIMED of
not knowing how to cook as she would
of not knowing how to write her name.
The number of people who can afford to
hire French cooks is so limited as to ex-
clude that way out of the difficulty from
the general question. The art of living,
of dining, is an outgrowth of civilization
that can not be ignored, and coming, as
it does entirely within woman's prov
ince, should receive her most serious
attention, since results to be obtained
are well worthy Of her highest effort
and utterly redeem the apparent mean
ness of the occupation.
SIT is the wise woman who will study
her husbands material tastes and cater
to them; it is the sensible and rightly
balanced woman who will descend from
her aesthetic and sentimental heights
long enough to realize that ninety-nine
per cent. of this life is material, and
that by nourishing ner husbands body
we'll she is really improving his morals.
You will tell me that am talking plat
itudes, that you have heard all this be-
fore, but you can not hear it two often.
This subject of cooking is of far more
Importance to women than that of suf-
frage, or prohibition, or foreign mis-
sions, or faith cures. It is the key to
the social problem, the paddock to the
divorce courts.'' And our enthusiastic
elderly boarder, quite warmed up by
her own eloquencs, gathered up her
knitting and march ed off to her room.
while certain of the younger matrons
whose cOnsciences were whispering to
them the secret meaning of certain
little domestic clouds, went off to pom
der these things in their hearts-per-
hapS to profit bV them.-N. Y. World.