Wichita eagle., 1889-05-07

without repoSe, without cheerfuiness, With
out that atmosphere of confidence, sweet
ness and sacrifice which is TO all the best
and noblest interests OF the family what
the air is to plants and men. Incidental
friction and occasional friction are inevita-
bic; continuous friction means bad organ
ization, unsympathetic workers, or tho
presence of obstinacy, stupidity or willful-
ness. Wherever il exists it ought TO be
taken as an indication that there is some
thing wrong, and as suggestion that 1t is
time to examine the situation and remove
the obstacles. In most cases the observ-
ance of a few simple principles viii eliminate
this exasperating source Of WEAKNESS and
failure.
Itisuseless for people 10 try 10 accomplish
common result without mutual confidence
in each other If man lacks confidence In his
partners, he would better dissolve the part
nership and form new business couneC-
tons; if man lacks confidence In his
friends, be would better examine himselfto
see whether he is worthy OF association
with them, and If be can satisfy his mind on
that point he would better cease intercourse
with them rather than carry it on at the ex-
pense of that good understanding which -
the basis Of all true friendship A friend
ship accompanied by incessant irritation
Will sooner or later come 70 an end, and the
sooner hat end is reached the better. Mu-
tual confidence is the only sound and
healthy basis for cooperation In any enter
prise When we cease 70 have confidence
in each other, il is time that the connection
should be broken. The other method Of
kee ping up a relation snip out Of which the
heart Is gone, ard 50 producing continual
friction. is a slow torture 70 which death Il
far preferable.
Thoroughgoing sympathy makes friction
impossible, and IS a. the same tine the
foundation rock on which all great success
is bUIlGed. No man can cooperate, heart
AID soul, with another unless be has syn
PATTY with hls aims and spirit. He can not
even understand what those aims and
spirit are withou, the power 20 pat himself
IL the others place aud see things frora rs
point Of view. Great enterprises 20
through 70 success when mep core ito faI
sympathy with each ether 10 their devotion
70 a great purpose. SEch sympathy is .
s.lent tu: izfalli5.e Interpreter bstweea
nen who may differ In r@oT po.ats, urge
diverse methods, even possesses s1t2go-
nistic tenpe1znsris, and re; Dc perfectly
harmonious through their harmony Ia soac
central purpose.
Every great work 10, lie certain sense.
1pro-rise- Nc -aaa q sc.o 70 achieve
great thing with as own EEa-1So hAod- ~
sole point or another lie needs tie assp 9.
others, AID vhen be needs tsas help lie
INST ccnoets something % t. i: Is caly
Gzcer cespot.sH or under so-ns fern Of
slavery tia. ore E@n Arbitrarily imposes
his Will or another. Il tazi case there Is
90 frfc.soa because there L. 20 Individuality,
10 ccnscscasness Of manhood. none II ia
barriers Of selt-respec. Aztzai co5css-
slons are the price which zen rsEss pzy Tor
cooperation, ard IN The cEd tsey gasa r-crs
tsaa they Use, for E.any rsaz @eo has
genius fer i6ezs Is kelp5sss w!iscs, tie
practical sksil watch GEE gre then skzpe
ard fcrr- II IRE SHAPING AID fcrrs4ng lie
LEA Is generzIly Eo&iAe1 30 advantage.
Nea war work together ard ~i;aozs sr1c-
.zos zs.s, respscs each ether Ttere "a
fscshszg whscn creates 20 elective a. egpyG
e eor-&. wAssa cevsscSs 80 iee-ezg1