Idaho news. (Blackfoot, Idaho) 1887-1891, 1889-09-21
--s..cnrss IN MARRIAGE.
rha Sensible Views OF an sN-
tremely Sensible woman

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quote them for the benefit Of our Fe'''
ers: ,,,i
wo,ran makesa failure OF marrl-
80 ,,nloss She makes an effort 20 do
@ 80, deal more than is implied ~
her marriage contract. II : supposed
that the husband supplies the lna'sri-
:, for the home. aud they are very |
raw materials indeed unless the wlle
takes hold Of those means win inc
hand Of creator, building up OUT o.
them helps aud associations loved |
and needed By both. Aud woman
must put her soul into her house Or y
Is n hollow and sounding shell.
A. high Us we must rate the aecomp-
lishmeut OF good housekeeping y u
NOT all in the making Of a home !
know lady who wis marked iaIl'
ure AZ a housekeeper who was the IDOL
Of her husband, and who graduated 70
the world u family Of accomplished
and honored children, And there are
womeu who in pain and weakness are
confined to their owa rooms, yet %h0
manage TO hold tho power 10 an order
~ house and oil Il full o. loyc-!ight
and happiness sutiieieGt Tor the COM
fort Of all who cross is threshold.
II Il the quality Of recognizing and
filling need that is the essential quality
OF success III marriage. Practically, II
man comes home iron business with
headache, hungry tor ia Bit Of symPa-
| NV and love, and u good deal o! quiet
and finds his wife 10 raging excite
nent over an elaborate dinner, and u
ordered 70 keep out 81 tta way and
amuse the children till the great pro-
ceedlng i illuminated. b. j. about a.
unfortunate as the man who brings Il
college friend home 10 Giancr aGa huds
his wife 10 wrapper and slippers deep
In a French novel. But the woman
who spies the coming friend from tbs
window ,lidcs out 81 her wrapper 10
twinkle and appears upoa the sceas Ia
due time with a soul cheering sup ot
French coffee. y the woman Who
makes her husband envied among men.
Unfortunately women have hobbies,
and ride and ride and never perceive
that they are boring their companions
% death. There are mca who would
60 70 war 10 b. rid oi paper flowers
. hair flowers, rugs ;ld!es and what not;
and there are men who think art and
. music are inventions Of tbs egtl our 10
make people miserable Any our.
anywhere, who cultIyntcs a hobby at
the expense Of other peoples comfort
is making q failure o. life; bot ,rug
politeugss Of the heart between trlcnd
and friend. man and wife, will ubyyatc
the danger Of oycrdone anuscmsnt4
II Il easier to forgive virtaous excess
Of zeal, and II il mostly excess 81 zcaI
for excellence o. some kind that caasgs
some women 70 be moro exclusive
housewives than wives Of mcu. m,
greatest charity should BE- extended 4
n woman who makes her house 40 prr,
feet in detail and polished IL appear.
ancc that her friends 20 into Il With
fear and trembling. for She il aIltr,et
2 with virtaous zeal. and has only oyos.
drawn very good thing llousrzeep.
= ing has its fanatics and martyrs o. well
: as any other good Ceuss
G But housekeeping conducted ia .
means Of happiness and comfort, eftRs
= IN a cabin or palace. Is Is science tna
K no wife can neglect II She wishes I,
sustain the Inv Of mutual helpiulues,
: In marriage.
a wife expects her husband upol
e marriage 70 begin a course Of taiI|p,
o Tor her support withou; remission o
e any suspension Of respousibllity. am
why should he not expect her 70 aaplr
+" TO the greatest excellence m hum.
e making' just here Il where n
wedge Of dissolution frequently eater,
10 a woman fails 70 give ~ much AZ n
b. receiYes-that Is, she works from con
pulston more than from desire ,
n Keep up her side Of the partqer.bi
with dignity and grace.
y But ono says: II work nil The lin,
a work like q slave Yes, nv don,
r. you DO work like a slave Just ike
IN slave and net like a responsible boin
Is seeking an end and not the mean,
o i GU have braided little Eya's dress !,
n ana down ana all over. which does n,
&c help little Eva, and your husban
in would have appreciated you more hi
- you spent your evenings with tolJo
" hands and happy face in your rocsin,
" chair by his side. You spent hours ,
u time on unnecessary things and fory,
- y me essentials Of your partuorshi,
n winch Is 70 evolve as much peaee az
On ials. ''n' "AaVe'
e e me science Of good houseksoni,
y IN these days, when We can MI .
Cd many conyeniences, is not 60 NM =
an superiority in any one thing a. = ~,
he eral excellence in every thine ~
~ :, 40 not need cooking.schools for o,r
sh so much as schools where ali branch,