The Lebanon express. (Lebanon, Linn County, Or.) 1887-1898, 1889-06-28
wrsDou AMOUR NORM SEXES.
Their wants. ways and Weaknesses
Plainly sct Forth.


1t isn't much wonder that young
women paint, powder and bleach,
when II Ii known that the average
youmg man Ii moro readily attracted
by these tricks than by true .woinullly
graces. This il probably not true ol
the wife hunter, but II certainly ls Of
the young man whu ~ merely deslrous
of being entertained.
The average young woman Is fondof
being told that SHE isgoDd lnuking,that
she Il OF good form and cnrringe. she
takes il ASH higher compliment to bc
considered attractive than to he regard
cd us sensible, intelligent and prac-
teal.
Alen like 70 preach down cxtnva-
gunce, aud style aud dress; but The
wonluli who bangs her hair, hides y
blotuh or scar under piece nf court
plaster, who Uses pretty gloves or stock
ings, trim slippers, perfumes, balins,
culd creams. finger curls, and fancy
notions tuincreslse her charms, IL the
woman WHO Is admired by them all.
Common sense and ugliness may be
morally Wholesome, but they're not
alluring, and art Is aptto triumph over
nature umd0rned.
Young women may deny IL vet the
fact remains that their chief object In
life il TO win husbands. IL is their ma
ture, and il ii right. you ask ainar-
RED lady how she captured her nus
band she will tell ynu she does not
know, and probably all that hecan tell
Is that II was her winning ways
III Is but little consequence how they
were brought together so that the nt-
traction was mutual III it were the
real man and the real woman were the
attractive features Il were well; bGt II
beauty, dress or fortune attracted
them, their happiness Is far ffom being
assured
Amanis heart is ensnared hya pret-
ty hand, nice teeth, o round los voice,
frank eyes, beautiful hair; by the wuy
a girl walks, talks, rides by her gifts,
her smiles, her ammbiiity, good taste,
generosity, or the manner which she
rYects, Iacinales or abuses him. She
may not knew how Size won Him, but
II she doesn't know how 10 keep him
the best thing for her 70 do Is 70 ind
out. There are many thinga we know
bg Intuition: the rest have tObelearned
bv experience. Conscious OF her abi,i-
ties and liabilities as wife, wise
woman will learn 10 Keep her husband
Just us she learns 70 keep house
Men are susceptible; even more so
than women.
fT,i,..a 4, al.;, gl;4tara,.no. fT'ita at,eva,,,s
man inquiries whether lie y IN condi-
tiun 10 marry. The average woman
deos'n Ifihe man pieases her fancy
she Is satisfied. She may not be aDie
to play anything in the new drama ex-
cept 70 hang upon his neck andeoax TO
be petted.
such wife Is n bu.icn TO any man.
She doesn't understand him, neither
does She know tile chies constituents OF
Il home.
The wife who takes an interesiin her
home, in her husbands affairs, and
finds Measure in contributing 20 his
comfort and happiness Is q treasure Of
greater value tlaan q gold mine.
The wife who has no greater ambi-
zion than to be kept alive is Q poor m
vesttnent
The average man has very little use
for i sInnrs w0mun. She Is full OF
schemes, and Is ambitious % shine.
Her disposition il anything but doines-
tic, and She II not The niCst genial COM
naninn fnr 4 man whose mind is taken
up with business affairs. lie doesn't
care how inttiiigent she II, but he
HASN'T nincll Use for her if size il smart.
!lem Ike 10 be looked up a, depend
ed on. ou5ted and referred TO- An ugly
temper is a trial tilas few women are
able to eutnre. The only cure Is 81
lence. You can't Kiss q furious man,
it only maIsee him wo.se. Ike thing
to doia To keep still, let him cool, and
let the matter drap lie will respect
your sense and come 10 terms on his
own accord.
AIcn must be taken as they are, not
as they should be; they improve under
the refining influence Of mutual love,
and he is q wreiched specimen Of hui
nlanity who cannot be counted ON to
shield his wife from the bullets Of the
world and be an anchor when beauty
and youth have proved unfaithiul.
10 be born q woman IL 10 be born o
martyr, but the husband that is worth
wedding is worth keepingi and ifa lit
tie artiiice, pleasant smile, q content-
ed heart, fofbearanee, devotion and
tact will hold him, by all means let
Him be held. -pitisburg Commercial
Gazette.
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