Oxford Democrat. [volume] (Paris, Me.) 1833-1933, 1888-10-02
Neiuhhorly Conildenoea.

Neighborly condolences seem almost ss
lntultive "a woman a. does the belief In
future state 10 the race.
IL IL so natural, when overcome with
grief. or exalted with Joy. 10 breathe The
sad OF happy secret into the ear ofs
friendly nslghhor, and the trivial every.
isy occurrences, too, are quite ~ apt w
he freely eonnded.
Possibly no harm may ever follow this,
but let there come the slightest rup,afr In
your friendship. and all the secrets that
YOU believed 20 b. deeply barred Vn
friends hearty will spring up Ike grass
after an early rain. Soon everyone knows
that your handsome wardrobe IL but the
cast. OF garments OF . wealthy aunt-thu
your husband 1. so close a. ~ yoor pin
money that you DO fancy work Tor house
down town-ihst po,stoes cooked, save In
= certain wsy. Immediately produce s'Ju
etc etc.
with some one sueh mortibing en-.
perlsuce will prove q sufficient warning.
Others will learn Loihlng. They simply
sllsce thems lives by expatisting Ia n.lsh.
Dor n. on the peIniT OF nelgnbor A. Lat.
sft 10 n.lghDor q. on uelghoor n and -o
on through the slphsost In The n-an'
time their di-sd elton with nsighbor A
has healed and friendly relations are fs-
samed. Then follows another sma.lus
waltz and Q iii through the hpasosi of
ntlshbors.
saeh rldleulou. happenings naturally
induce pesslmi.,ie views regarding neigh
bOrly copHisneesg and they should be- In
dulssd In with caution.
Msuust has said, "ffisnd- are like mel
on. 10 fns one good you mus, hundred
try l. aud The Chinese maxim. There are
plenty OF sCqaaintances. bat Few zeal
frlsuds, seems 20 confirm his thought
bat these facts shoaid not produce .
wholesale cyuielsm and reserve regarding
nrlghbof., for In them ATE oftsn foand s
true aud ,riej friends |. one could Wish
ba, they should teach us 10 study and
saalyrs chArseisr-io know II back OF the
pleasing. friendly manner there exists In
tsgrity OF heart aud . fair measure OF com
mou sense.
Tai. latter elsmsn, OF itself should be
.slficlen, 10 keep us from rspss,iug the IT.
lie couf fences thsis nsighbot hss-per'
hap. 10 an uaw.ry momen,-e ornisd 10
u., even taoush she did not label each .
".ecrvt-
n nslhsbor shows her false heart BY
revealing 10 yos things eonnicd 10 her
NJ matter II she does say, u tno~ yoa
wonI tlI---iont trust her. Zoo may -
sure . "dog TIA, will bring bone sill car
~ bone"
Persons llvlag together. OF 10 close
pfoxlmlty. need 10 be especially careful
ls.i an undus Intimacy result dlsssifou.ly
n, ehary OF those whom you admit
thfoash yoar "baek door, "-,hink ho-
tal. OF th., voaid souni u repeated, be-
fore giving II Wings.
4 sgshl.a proverb says, Measure Joar
cloth twice. for yoa can cut IL bat once
- ~ ~Oali bc wise for al. and especially
TIE naturally iupalslve and communicative
10, rtHeci twice before bsstouing their con
q isucs.. for. oaee bresihrd they are 70
ypad recall.
BaI th,nk Cod. there ATE friend, 10
whom We mar trust Lie would be
bl,ns n all the innsr and deeper emotion.
% our hearts togs ihsr With The lighter ADD
more triniag srpe risnoes OF our svety day
ne, mast he dramatically sealed In ou'
osu BOSOM. bat none are doom'd VI
.ueh fate. Oaly ia, ne choose with cars
and tasn eonhie with caution.