The Seattle post-intelligencer. [volume] (Seattle, Wash. Terr. [Wash.]) 1888-1914, 1888-05-13
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-. sxsmipes the cards on her
= 4 meSchsnt reads his day
- ssl~er- IL 10 her debit and
cct II Il her record Of sd-
.s.rr,ev or soundness. some
- "a large m seqaaintsuce
=. ~ = 70 protest .. once, and
e slytug some large fec<p-
- xinte- they may pay thesf
n ri csses The little white mes
- ca;led cards are tne fesoy mo
n rocisl intercourse
x..scve calls are returned W -
TSere ar no exceptions 10 tnis
- q this country . titled r.
=. oxford scholar or dipso-
= sasrtjed, shocked and Offend
n ~ ard Il not returned In -
s-sr;cans shonid Be more
-, shcut this, for u II the OBJ
.ss q thess formsIities which
issrs society polished spd 49,
-. ~ there no such laws. so
.sid b, overrun by cafeIe .
~ "a boors: !. would 'e'sPss ln''
n ~ vsiering-pIacs etiquette. i
- been settled and never vi.
PSosle who know esch other VII
~ ezchange visits 1t neignnonng
y ~ boarding houses and hotets.
n - -. They will neglect 70 DO
~ choose. II . stranger AZ
I'm one hiss knovn, Is q very
.s- "a send Z card. II Mrs. Saith
srd seceives . card frou r. kiee-
..i.ca vho il 1t q nesghboring hotel.
,hcuid iminediaisiy ssnd one 10
-. She 10 under no oo!'g,sson
~ ON intimate terme WITH MIS-.
eSardeou. out she should return the
Cssds should he left In person on
k~sSn~ Of the illness or death o. .
2-I' II there Is trouble With which
- rau sympaihize, IL -honld Be sent
ss.edistely. Good-naturc and kind.
- 4 heart being the foundation Of
~ manners one must endeavor Ia
Sys.se Is .se friendly sentiments BY
~ sseowuised formula Of society.
9Srn 4 gentleman becomes engages
-sryied, Ill u his friends should
~. s card on the lady. VI course,
I'd IN family will pay her personal
-. The sooner THIS - dons sne
n es,d, are left once In the season,
: - nsed not be left again excepting
-. A Invitation to . dinner or 70 .
IN Il q mot necssssry 10 leave cards
No. once considered an intentional
.isnsss. II . lady gave out that she
-orivod on Thursdays. Tor peoiie 70
~ 4 card on any other day, OF Il
X~~unt : ard or mailed one. But
sssis1v has become more ]. nient. as no
1cie6y leader can possibly iuinl ~
- duiiss In person. The only Insult
80 3 person u bound TO resent j.
~ eoosssnt ignoring Of these rules:
- peut BY mali 10 nov recognized
= - attsutlon; ladies having found
~ the distances, the engagements
~ ~ carriage hire will not per-
- their making all their calls In
N sentleman IL asked by lady to
- rpon her, he should call within .
-. Men In society are sometimes
= rude that they 60 on for years re-
s1avins atlention. aud never leave th, II
lGn{UI q t0Clg uu1tc3ss Anss - - S~'
nlnshnsss.
Wen young ladies are bctrothed in
fnsops, the tiances 10 regularly INTRO
i1csd 10 oil Of his brides family BY
ord. This IL not done here, but u
Aculd be doue.
ne calling hours in New York are
ln1geen two and six: but II y lady ex'
mous.y puts " From four TO six" on hei
"a, 4 would DO the hight OF rud nes'
= eail earlier.
kcsrd should never be left by a youni
mntls man for y young lady Without
- leaving one for her mother or cha
posoo. In Italy and France . youni
- d not permitted to leave his csft
= young lady.
Gals mad on . reception day shoui'
= emphasized by leaving = card OF
= hall table; none need be LEFT alte
~, A gentleman need leave but ~,
md. bs the family never % large. !
- unkind thing for family TO Civ
4 ~. 70 invite half their friends, an
= merely send cards 10 the rest: u
snutiIatsd civility. and the cards IA
hitter b. lett out.