Telegram-herald., 1888-12-21

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slQls izcs Vi I1s z@rEh sIok1er ~o1an
sho . a. al axe 4s-. TIE els-ls1ts lnat
nl4ke up fsas ains niad doubtless sziss
10 a. ss-.sn oss lsl - skl4lf1l oyer
sil lss 1oll DoalSs. enly ~ 1l1srcat pro
yofllsLs ~ 1sks co-ors u sGlIsly difef-
szt bl-s. - seulen pfessHl AZ snCrsly dif-
l-renl uisn "a oFxs4lsn. osiaE 70 the prom
ileucs o. ons or another eszra.s-r-
h1c - 8ss p1ina u correspond
sncs there as ia no bodies. ssometficaily
speaking tls more s.Mll4r thew are. Ana
a. llsl .ecsi 10 - I'd lcl loFc alike tu4n
SylDeu. f1sg correspond or harA0ul5-
uleE lefsf 4 soIal can seldom nld
another uous1 50 n4lcl lie her tLAg tie
polals ol dlisr<lle d. n-t cal for res1-
Ilsilng All 1lllg process. N9H, II L JusL
possl4-- l-A- u4<A AzFs 40 nl.re character
lsii-s ln ceu4l-ol tn4A women. out 4ie
siliply .aote indifferent 10 the f4cI VI shy
u di-tsre1les. Instead o. h2gily bard Zee
ilgs over points oi differences. men are apt
o. have 4 Few nard words and shake hands.
oat @onlen VII savs tls pleasant words
BAT lle aafl aa4 bitter feelings. How oitea
- h4Es Leard % said that Iv0 women sci
dom have ana strong attachment Tor each
other. Blt look a. the lifelong
ald generous frientshiEs belseeu men.
To be sure, most women claim
70 b. very fond Cf gfssl
many other women. bar their fEienlsh p Tor
escl other NIL nOt always Oesr a very
severe test "A woman possessing a nue
faculty OK disguise does not often let her
real thoughts Of another woman be knONu
70 her, buI 20 some third party sls Is sone-
= aa, SURE 10 DO o.. llat women gre capa-
ols of sincere friendship Is true. aul tnat
they are also capable OF overlooking the
faults 81 others. hen these faults h4ppel
u DC t0uad s0meS mere els D. IA women.
IS also Iu-. Now, JUST NY ~ FL csl have
grea. many lagts and be forgiven. auo
woman can have = lew faults anu not &c
forgiven. ls lot apparent. Nomen. 10
casual observer. appear 10 be
great deal m0.e friendly an4
social thal men. Behold the many hours
they spend with their oack GoJf neighDor
taking Of yerytnlng-religiOn crceds,
politics .ans the rest OF the neigh
DJTu0oi Then, TOO, how much trouole
and expense they ckeer.zlly incur 70 give
! formal receptions 10 al the rest-Of their
zcquAlntapces except their back door nri "a
DOR. To De sure these receptions are not
eminenuy social. but doubtless that wa The
original intention OF them. aud they tJrt
TIC giyer or them great comfOrl Ia Tie
thought that she mas included the whole
ci-c-e OF her acquaintances IN one alter
Moons Hospitality. But a man would
rather sit dOwn n the corner alone and
smoke than be bothered with any shallow
pretsnss OF sCciallty. But II women are
wiling 10 live lie full of formalities and
snams. can We not spare The chill
dren OF tue present day from living the
same l,ie, Is it not pity that even at a
clildren's party. where ons would expect
tO see sweet Innocence ana charming SIM
plicity. one sees too often jealousy, zffecta-
tl0n ard self-cOnsciOUsness, nay more
hears back-bitng aud cruel speech. Now
before c.amoung for office, m
the right to vote. and the right TO do a thou
sand things that alter all we do bOl wauC 10
do can We not be n little more real and true
enc not have IL said Of rs that one does DOt
know a woman by anything she SAYS or
coes? We can be sincere and not be ua-
civil or unkind. We can wish a HOmau
had nos this or that fault aud vet not
speak OF il ~ every other woman that We
KNOW. in short, We can be more mag
naaimOus and generous IN our speech aud
lives, If We Will. ii. A. X.