Phillipsburg herald. [volume] (Phillipsburg, Kan.) 1882-1905, 1888-03-16

Are W0meE Jealous
There are two rare types Of women
who are never susceptible to jealousy.
One is the perfectly human being, ut-
tsrly devoid Of individuality, who lives
IN 8 state Of wondering amaZement
that she should be the recipient OF her
lovers least regard. She is grateful
for q smile, and overwhelmed st word
Of praise. She finds greater Joy IN
LOVING than in being loved, and IS
faiut echo of the masculine mind in All
her opinions and ideas. She is willing
TO be the mat beneath his feet to eat
the crumbs which fall from his table,
to do his most mental labor. She has
the nature of 8 serf. the devotion of
dog, and if he neglects her for other
women (as he usually does) she never
complains, as In his VIII she hnds heE
/ only pleasure. Her nature Is mild
patient ana constant, and devoid OF
passion and intensity.
The other type Of women who know
no jealousy is quite her opposite. She
/ is q radiantly happy creature, full OF
/ self-confidence, egOtisnn, and satisfac-
ton She is pleased with life and with
herself. She loves deeply, and de-
mands as much as she gives. She ex-
poets to be told every day that she Is
the most adorable woman on EARTH
and she is sure to convince man OF
the fact. 1t never enters her head that
another woman could be as charming
as herself, or that she could be dis
placed In the affections of any man she
loves. She is a woman who has been
/ accustomed to love and admiration all
her life, and she knows how to keep
/ her lover interested and amused. She
Is sure that he finds other women dull
In comparison with herself, and she
3 lends him freely to her friends, certain
. that he will return gladly to her.
= The majority of women who lead
g monotonOus existence live IN their I'M
aginations, and grow mOrbidly sensl-
l tive.
r Many a man ruins the peace of his
1 household forever by neglecting to
; speak the word Of praise which his
It hungry-hearted wife has yearned all
L day to hear, and bestOwing 1t upon
l. some chance caller or stranger.
a The Daam who fails to notice the care
e fuI toilet his wife has made Tor his
d sake. and compliments the good taste
p exhibited by some neighbOr, soWs tn,
Is seed Of jealousy IN DISAPPOINTED
II heart.
r Woman was made to be loved, petteC
W and appreciated by man. Whateyel
else she may dCllOF0 III liz E--S
le herself cheated out of her birthrigh
r unless this happiness has come to hen
TX She is jealous of whatever ma
r. stand between her and that desires
al iov. Thavs known two mothers who wer
TO Jealous of their own children. Unnat
RI TraI and terrible as this may seems
he felt the greatest sympathy for bot
on women. In each case the husband u
re terly ignored the wife for her offspring
'as She was a secondary consideration
10 neglected and rebuked where the Chr
10. dren were caressed and appreciated.
heard a woman who was a gran,
mother remark one day that she Woul
M never have lived with her husband g
a9 hour if he had once told her that
thought another woman beautiful
IA interesting. Poor man! Of course sue
h. thoughts had entered his mind, an
foI. with what secrecy 12e must have guar
Zoe ed them all those Years.
nm Jealousy of such petty type as he
= is surely the dWarfed and imbeclle CHI
~ of its parent. The woman whose i
80 is full of sensible and noble duties
80 less given to unreasonable Jealou
CO than the idler who dwells In world
~ her own imagining.
- And the Weman who receives Z
love and devotion which is her birt
~ right seldom feels the pangs OF Je
~ ousy.-EIIa Wheeler W5Lc0G.