The Hot Springs star. (Hot Spings [Hot Springs], Dakota [Dakota Territory, i.e. S.D.]) 1886-189?, 1888-07-20
now I'D wrN 4 xnek.
Personal Neataee.. : stout Heart, ~
senc lIfsl, Will CAptVAte tkS
Female Heart.

cmA Heart.
II men only know how easy u tAih1
Il is to win a wntaan ttieis would ba
NO hearts locked up against them. Ii
other words, any maj who loves 4 girl
can get her II he oply goes about It n
2 scientific way: WodinE n aa IN.
I~hnptresibts. no matter how favorable,
must be strengthened by aftful cuiH.
vatton. Tor there is no such thing q
love at first sight. Admiration may
possess two persons, but immediate q.
tection p out Of tho question. Let the
man find out, II he can, .&hefSin liza
his charm, and The game Is his; or, las
cifated by a pair Of pretty feet or
%twinkling eyes. dilate on these organs.
and as sure as hc has a tongue in his
mouth and brains enough to operate, It
she is his. More woiaen afe Won ~
5%udicious fla.tety than BY any other
means, Tor every woman is more or
less vain and she is irresistibly drawn
to the nan who finds her weaknesses
and handles them with skill. Let q
woman once know that hEe laAd ID
matchluss, her eyebrows exquisitely
Penciled. or her voice mclodioius, and
u y mar will constantly remind her.
n communicate tho fact to . third
party who will in tMfn carry tho com
P!'Mcnt to her ears, she is certain to
nave a fondncss for him which tilNy
DC tanned with now Anil then d bunch
OF flowers or y sachct Of bonbons into
ardent love. Mako a girls hair the
talk OF the club; get the set ID adNiiSc
the way sho catties her head, have
them try to count her to. III when she
laughs because they arc SO pretty, and
you a win her as easily as you a
pull a boat down stream. II she hasn't
a charm in the world, work on the alb
stract. 1t won't do to make fun of her.
Tor no one knows better than she. that
q crooked nose like licts can't be beau
tiful; that her big cars are not, she'll
sta- nor het uarchmont akin daaa.vins
OF the adjective lovely. Women are
not foolish, and girls are even less SO,
therefore have i tare how you trifo
With tender points. But the occult.
She has the air Of refinement; tho at
mosphere is rareticd by her presence;
she has an honest face; though she
ssquints there may be heavcn'strue blue
in her eyes, o so well of deep, un-
fathomable truths in the snaky gray
orbs. Nothing makes 81 woman wilt
quicker than talk of t..i, soi.. for there
is the satisfaction that comes from
Knowing ''howevcr latent beauty to
the searcher is it is still self-evident."
In protesting to despisc rresuming,
jealous men and women belle THEM.
selves most extravagantly. All W.T..
men are more or less sentimental, and
sentiment has nothing tn do with com.
placcncy. A mar may do v%iolence Is
his cause by cvincing security, but let
him hcdg sc in a girl, intercept another
fellow. waylay his favors, and he goes
up several degrees in her estimation.
She wants to be striven for, fought for
If YOU like, and blcd for if there is no
other alternative. Talk about jealousy
being r%epugnant, no woman everloved
a man violently whom she was not able
to fire with n sting 1T the green-eyed
monster. 1t is true that there is a de.
mand for complaccnt, quiet, impas.
s;onatc, easy-going; polite men. They
arc nice to hAve about d iry.g6ods
counter or q Sabbath-schoul room; they
make good conductors and usl,ers, but
very poor lovers. 1t is the hot-hcaded,
audacious, impulsive fellows who drive
women to distraction and make havoc
of hearts. The man who wouldn't kiss
a woman when her eyes tell him to,
who wouldn't squeeze her hand when
She gives him q chance, is IN idiot who
is not likely to be bothered with a Sec
ond opportunity.
While tho niodern girl is not on the
hunt for heroes she will not put up
with the milk-and-water men who 90
about with girl ways aud girl wisdom.
Love must be bold and-rlean. Let 4
IMAM keep himself in clean linen, keep
nice hands. his breath sweet, wear good
shoes and neat neckties, and, with an
average amount of intelligence, and q
judicfous combination Of fattery and
devotion, he can win any woman in
tho world, who doesn't hate him for
cause in the start. Men make q great
mistake in their love-making when
they attempt to meet a girl on herown
ground. Such q plan rarely wins, for
the reason that the sexes are drawn to
and by the opposite. Proportionate to
the aversion Of a man for the hoyden
and the strong-minded woman in wo-
mans antipathy to the womanish lover
or the Miss Nancy who never does any
thing rude. The real woman has too
much mercury in her nature to wed .
man who won't squeeze her hand in .
lovable way when she gives him the
chance, or who can't reel off . string
Of oatlls or deal a knock-down blow to
the loafer on the a or the sidewalk,