The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1888-03-25

CLOAK or shawl. with : ha, IN ina. back Of her
thupdersiorrn but parasoi Of lace. sue must
not BE- sufs,is ,o !. shs e. h snn unpleasant IN, camni.; spi II
plainly dressed tss would Be the Princess OF
Walesl In q ioplard. or cloth dress. hcr hat sim;
be quite as pretty. and very much less exposed
TO ip,idioqs ommsnt No hne lady should bs 3,
the coaches are ali Imsmbsrs Of an neciimsiizs.
ton society. Do they not suffer from cold9 Do
no, the bIeezee 20 through them2 -
deprive themselves OF tho advantages OF con-
trast.. This In dress as In the art Of landscape
R snorsas II II q = v Woman W .h.nf fac. sea ana sao satin n Whe se
she should wenr cloth and foulard she ruins the
effect Of snbse1nent, %sriendor., Young women
evening dresses should be light and not too
much trimmed. the less iewelry the better, nor.
In a country whore the press is so unlicensed
as It Is In ours. young girls should even be
shy Of their accomplishments. II, seems a
Of Americnn men. that when they take TO news
paper writing ali their aspect ior women seems
II she i"' ms . t talent fSap pfi ' ' ' 'hea,pi tsHe'' ior
Iss SioIin. ;ih tsE ba mns os IN Il sssj SsP hsnd lrS S. Tsll On 5s
beyond iher. family circle. Il Il seems IN ihS pres.
eng age to DO opening a door for all eorts Of at
Il Is not wise for a giri. on her nrst entrance
into society 10 joln IN every dance IT hsr nrst
ioTr the laughter i she have a young and agree;
invited; there s. no room. Tor us" Then the
daughters should not go. It is a very poor Amer.
lean yulgari!y not TO invite the mothers; y It
tions. tho father should 70 with his daughters.
for who elss Is to escort hem totheir carriage.
6nectnl or accidental WQntB?
A young lady should enter society with q dc.
s tfs%in"t small t. s be ESli.s' i Hl,a;TI,ics eoalyes sH h' 3
faiilnrs 81 others, these should. ali accompany
seems like an act, Of sppererosaiion 10 suggest
to an American girl. who has 10 make hcr own
NY nay ip Xnd s9 9e. iSs req ba sae h ssou ydu no. a 5s p witb
pleasure that she Ignores delicacy and toadies
takes advantage Of a generous hostess to grin
more favor; who has that andacity which cal,s
Tor ftse The sG mom.nt. but s Ssr 8 su ws@sn Is m nat s sUifd.
foreivable as a long:headed idea Of s~elf-nagran-
dete Tmined to succeed, and that she does not
much. care how. will have a foolish hour OF
n n1,' i%ns'Ipe sn' IN no III, fss''ss n@6icst% rG Shders,a nSn1s
draw tho line, NJ guest hint; to her hostess
must take tho first step toward a person
socially mole prominent than herself. II she
is ~rleasing and we!l-mannered somebody vii!
hidden from the eye.n be,rays },ssI III By It's
and is apt to be looked for. There Is
TO be sure u tyranny in all large cities cal!cd
the fashionable set whose object Is to keep
else out. These leaders are TOO
much feared and dreaded. but II a Young girl
this set. she will surely be snubbed. Tor this set
lives by snubhing. Let the e%spirnnt walt
patiently and cultivate a perfect self-resrect.
whole autocratic set will dissolve b.fore
her eyes,, for such sets disentnnGlr easily.
There will ONE up n new shuttle OF the social
cards. hut u modest and serene courtesy. a
,iyiiity which IL not servile. and a philosophi-
'Rl spirit, tinciured with n sense OF humor. will
AIRY a young lady into the best society.
NJ. e. W. SHERWOOD.