The Daily times. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1886-1889, 1888-08-10
THE NUPTLL KNOT.
MARRIAGE CUSTOMS AND CEREM0-
MES OF MANY LANDS.

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Weddings Among the Primitive Jews
Among the Ancient Babylonians = In
Old Norwsy-The Laws Of scotland.
Ireland. England aud Wales.
In the earliest records that have come
down to us, very little Is said about the
ceremony by which a couple were ordi-
narily united. Among the primitive Jews
there was betrothal and espousal. but
no further formal ceremony except the
mere removal of the bride from her
fathers house to that of the bridegroom
or his father At later time the cere-
monies began to be more elaborate. On
the wedding day the bride would be as
elegantly attired rs her circumstances
would permit, and yelled like Rebecca A
maid was always married on the fourth
day of the week, and widow on the fifth.
During the ceremony the father, If he
were the celebrator, would take the hand
of his daughter and give her to the bride
groom, saying: Behold, take her after
the law of Moses and lead her away" If
the father did not act as celebrator the
rabbi or head Of the synagogue would
take the extremity of the scarf or gar.
ment which was around the bridegroom
neck and cover the head Of the bride with
il, after which he consecrated cup of
wine and gave it to the two contracting
parties.
THE MODERN CUSTOM.
In modern times a canopy of silk is
usually put up under which the bride
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the parents or guardians. and i'll front is
the chief rabbi, standing between the two
ministers of the synagogue. Then the
bridegroom presents the ring (Which was
only modern custom in lieu of DOVER.
The ring is examined by the chief rabbi.
who asks the happy man if the ring is his
own, and being answered in the afiirma-
tive the bridegroom places the ring upon
the forefnger of the bride, saying: BE
hold, thou art sanctifed to me, according
to the law of Moses and Israel" Then
follow blessings and prayers by the
rabbi, after which one of the synagogue
officials deposits on the ground at the
foot of the bridegroom a small board,
upon which an ordinary wine glass is
placed The bridegroom then stamps
upon it and dashes it to pieces, when all
assembled cry out: "Mazzletouri Mazzle-
touri" Good luck. Good luckJ Then
follow the usual handshakings and con-
CALCULATIONS and the ceremony is over.
Among the ancient Babylonians the
ceremonies were originally the same
There were festivals lasting three days,
and in their course occurs the following
curious custom: The bridegroom was
placed within a circle of dancers, and the
guests and bystanders then proceeded to
stick small coins upon his forehead As
the money felkit was caught in an open
handkerchief held under his chin. After
this party of young men would rush
into the crowd and carry off the most |
wealthy guests and lock them up in a |
dark room until they paid proper ransom.
which would go to swell the dowry.
The custom that guests at wedding |
should make presents TO the bride and |
bridegroom is very DID, in fact. it has |
been observed in all parts of the world by
many people and at all periods of the
worlds history. The old Greek, the |
Roman and the Jew all did it, and it is 4
common custom among even savage tribes
to this day, but the presents made vary
with the people making them. and with
the rank which is given TO woman in the
national customs. In old Norway the
brides wedding outfit included shield. q
sword and an ak, it being supposed that
she would need these to protect herself
against her husbands blows.
THE LAWS or SCOTLAND.
The easiest wedding to make in any
civilized country in the world at the
present time is what is known as com
non law marriage under the laws of Scot
and. Such weddings have been held
valid for at least 700 years, but labor I'M
Ter the disadvantage of being considered
lisreputable The leading principle"
said Lord Deas, in judgment delivered
by him a few years ago, lis that consent
makes marriage. No ceremony, civil or
.eligious; no notice before or publication
after, no consummation no cohabitation, |
10 writing, no witnesses, even, are essen
ial" A peculiar feature of this kind Of
marriage is that the law Of the place"
governs the marriage; hence all persons,
hough not of Scottish domicile, may, by
very little fooIishness, find themselves
securely married by the operation OF the
Scottish law.
In ireland an important part OF the |
ceremony is a collection for the priest.
which sometimes amounts to E2O or t30.
The Irish peasantry are ingenious in do
ng this so as to secure the largest re-
ults, and here is one of the methods. A
Wedding feast is provided and eaten I'm
nediately upon the removal of the cloth
he priest marries the young couple, and
he bride cake is brought in and placed
,efore the priest, who, putting on his
tole, blesses it and cuts it up into small /
Ices, which are handed around OH
arge dish among the guests Each one ,
axes slice Of the cake, and lays down |
q the place of it donation for the priest, {
onsisting of pounds, crowns or shillings, !
ccording to the ability Of the donor. II
he amount given by any guest be not ,
onsidered sufficient, those present are by /
10 means slow in making it uncomforta- ,
lie for the guest until he shall pay 5
roper amount.
In many places in England and Ireland !
/ is considered prudent on the part OF the
ride to take care at the altar to put her |
light foot before that of the bridegroom, |
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