Fort Worth daily gazette. (Fort Worth, Tex.) 1882-1891, 1888-04-15

inAs' .H"S ahoes 4hseieo
ing OF themes-man
More or less sell
fish in his friendship, for the fairer
sex, man has smaller amount OF envy
snd malice to encounter and overcome In
his overtures toward his own sex.
A woman instinctively looks upon an-
other woman as possible rival. A
woman who has not loved finds pleasure,
If not satisfaction, in the adUlstiou OF the
world at large, and 1t is her nature TO eI-
pect and demand 1t, and SIZE resents even
the suggestion of interference in her
domain.
man seldom cares for this sort OF
thing. He prefers the individual deVo-
ton Of several feminine hearts, and re.
CARDS no man, however popular, es his
rival who does not modest him IN his
affaires d. amour.
When the average woman loves, how
ever, all is changed. Absorbed in hel
passion, she ceases to desire miscellsn-
eous admiration, and lives only for the
one.
When the average man loves, nothing
is changed. He simply adds one more
pleasure and interest to his life.
1t is the exceptionally noble man,
stirred by an exceptionally strong passion,
who throws his past behind him like s
WORKOUT garment, and dedicates his
future to the woman OF his choice. Men
are by nature no more vicious than
women, but they are much vsiner, and
require more constant stlmulants to their
self-love.
A woman commits folly for love Of
her tempter. a man commits 1t because
it fatters his vanity TO be tempted, while
he despises the temptress.s
A mans business training teaches him
to be cautious in his intercourse with the
world, yet he is rarely suspicious by ma
ture. a woman, on the contrary, seems
to be born with suspicion in her heart
have seen q big, braWny fellow who
had done bsttle in the worlds great
marts ali his life as ingenious and sweet
nstured toward his kind as child; and
| have seen his dainty wife, who had beer
carefully reared in the shelter OF q pure
home, regarding every sister woman end
brother-man with suspicion, and demand
ing credentials OF respectability before
admitting them TO her favor.
Men are delightfully."- franz. and cordisl
with one another.
There is nothing which causes lone
some woman who is compelled to take
long Journey unattended regret her sex SC
mucn IS the enviable freedom from form
atty among her male travelling compsn-
IONS. Yet woman who undertook to
treat her sisters with the same off-hand
good nature would be directly frozen to
desth.
Everywhere men seem to be on better
terms with one another than we sre. You
have only to glance into the respective
ladies' and gentlemen's parlors at hotels
to see this. The men greet each other
cordially, cluster together and converse
for hours and evidently enjoy themselves
The ladies dissolve into cliques and
their association is restricted and marked
by reserve, Formally ana ennui. A wo-
man endures the society Of another wo-
man only IS means OF killing time until
she can be in the society Of msu.
There ia such fascination about the
masculine sex, that 6 woman will s8Cri-
fee the companiOnship OF her most cher
ished ladY-friend TO share the society OF s
man to whom she is utterly Indifferent In
her heart. Indeed, she may consider him
a terrible bore, but the fact that he is a
man renders him more interesting than
her most brilliant lady friend.
A man, on the contrary, prefers the So
ciety of his own sex, unless the lsdy il
question possesses some especial charm
for him, or he fsncies that he sees in hel
8 possible conquest.
A man will lie to protect another far
sooner than s woman will. Not that he
loves his fellowmsn more, perhaps, Du'
| breads lie less, maybe.
has hsf
nate nobility in man which causes him &c
( love virtue in 8 woman. l believe this IL
true. Every human being, msn or wo
man, in his Utmost soul loves truth and
purity.
Man illustrates his great love Tor viz
tue In the same spontaneous way that S
natural woman illustrates her Unborn love
for an infant. She never sees it without
wanting to take it,
There is far more pleasure in convers-
ing with a man than woman. He is
more liberal il his ideas, more generous
in his appreciation, less lisble to criti.
else unkindlY. But you must not tell
him SO, even by act, else he will spoil oil
pleasure you have derived from his CON-
panlonship. II you do not tell him SO,
YOU pique his vanity into certain destruc-
ton OF the friendship
Msn is as dangerous as he Is agreeable
A man will keep 8 womsn's secret, If be
believes be Slone shares 1t, unless his
vanity tempts him to boast of his con-
Quest, when It too frequently does. YET
he is more pitiful and charitable toward
her than the ge Woman is, and ne
ought to be, since he Is the cause of al
her SORROW.
Men relate their adventures and follies
to one another, while women conceal
them. Yet men seldom reveal their
Utmost hesrts, or speak OF their
most sacred feelings among men-indeed.
there seems to be sort of shsmefaced
reluctance with them to confess they
have any sacred feelings. There is moth
ing q woman fes.s greater pride In con-
Tossing to friend than her love for her
husband. II she 80 fascinated with snoth-
er mau, she will dc all In her power to
hide the secret from the world. Many q
man, on the other hazd, will hide his love
for his wife, as If he were ashamed of it,
and even invent tales of adventure to