Sacramento daily record-union. [volume] (Sacramento [Calif.]) 1875-1891, 1888-09-15
HASTY MARRIAGES.
Some of the Evil Results of Making Haste
in Love Affairs.

In Love Affairs.
The newspapers state that the coryphees
and supernumerarieS of Kiralfy's " Nero f"
are getting married by the wholesale. The
pastime of getting married is one very
freely INDUCED in, and if the record tells
us true there is occasionally some disap-
pointment attached to the performance.
The taking for better or worse of cory
phee by an alfresco male dancer cannot be
fairly described as an suspicious feature of
human existence. The coryphee may pos
sibly be noble creature, with an intellect
as well developed as her legs, and the
"supe' may be fine example of man,
with the ambitions of Caesar, but the
chances are they fell foolish over one an
others pretty hexibility in tights while
bathed in Fictitious lights Extraneous
that-are what too often influence weak
human nature into beginning upon an
eternal embrace. The hard, inAexible
actually of the connubial state is only
sometimes considered. The life is, as
a rule, entered upon blindly, and in the
fewest cases is the passion so stupen-
dous and indestroyable that the bells
that they are pretty sure to he passed
through will not drown the flame in
hotter, crueler fires. There is not the OPP
portunity in the ordinary courtship to
teach the enjoyers of it Just how much
they may depend upon themselves The
marriage ceremony is performed, and then
the contracting parties begin their ac-
quaintance There are instances when the
girl wants to fly back to her mother and
weep before the Joy bells have finished
ringing There are wives who hate the
beauty of Memberships wedding march
because it played them out of free happi-
ness into slavish misery. With marriage
begins an enforced familiarity that may
make sensitive spirit writhe and rebel.
The bouquets, suppers and discreet kisses
in the old summer days were insidious and
alluring, but this, this wedlock, well, she
says, had not anticipated or been taught
it meant all this, and fear, tremble, lest
/ have made a mistake. The unconven-
tionality of practicing wedlock before its
formal establishment, renders this danger
of regretting entirely fortuitous. Many
men 60 into the legal and lasting relation
ship with the utmost conceit, believing
that their mere artificial department dur
ing few propitious months, attentions
1 tiithb iSiuiAS tiii0 ITO dictOAi-
fort, 4 careful handling of few personal
advantages, have realized the ideal in the
heart of an unsophisticated, inexperienced
girl, and that in him she Will bury her
life and always worship what the maturity
of her mind will surely make her ignore
And the girl sometimes imagines that the
clean freshness of the little frocks she has
been wearing, the shining joy of her sum
mer night face, the happy subservience tc
the tender tyranny of moonstruck lover
are to retain their dainty charm forever
and day, and she need never weld {
stronger chain to bind the devotion of 6
giddy, inpressionable man. These people
will no. learn except till too late tina
there rNust exist an utter recognition 0
each others most secret meaning befors
they can know what their union is to be
And because this secret meaning is, 81
often Disappointing we are being bsre'
ard discouraged by continuous recitals o
marital unhappiness. Therefore, VIXEN w
bear of eoryphees and supernun,srarie
being married in groups we doubt she ex
pediency of sending fireworks in honor {
civilizations wholesale ag grandscement.-
! N. Y. Press.