Southern standard. (McMinnville, Tenn.) 1879-current, 1888-07-14
HOUSE OR HOMER
How y Woman Can Make Family Life .
Real blessing.

HOW Woman Can Make Family Lie
Real blessing.
"Why did you bring them in here
Johnp-Mrs. Markham of all people in
the world! You know what perfect
housekeeper she is. What must she
have thought of this roomP" said Mrs.
Wood to her husband, as the front
door closed on the neighbors who had
been making an evening call.
Mr.. Wood smiled in his happiest
manner as he answered: 1T was just
because it was the Markhams that l
brought them into this cosy sitting
room. l wanted them to see what a
home was like. ! don't care fig
whether their house is always in order
or not; know there isn't q corner in
it that compares with this room" And;
with loving eyes he looked around the
CHEEKY living room in which books,
magazines, papers, games. toys and
work-basket gave evidence Of the
occupation of the inmates. Il want
cd" he continued, Tom Markham to,
have good time once in his life; for
don't believe he's ever happy in that
great house where he never dares to
move for fear of putting something
out of order Didn't you see how he
enjoyed itp knew he wanted to help
Jack with his kite; he could hardly
keep his eyes off the 10y. Poor Tom!
to think their only 10y should have
run away! l don't wonder they both
look old and worm"
Mr. Wood sighed. and his wife has
tened to say: "Oh, Ihdn't really care,
onS thought it would seem like
dreadful confusion to them. the chill
dren get so many things around"
But they don't run away" rejoined
the husband. You know they seldom
wish to SO out evenings, and I know
that you are perfect home-maker,
and that's worth far more than mere
housekeeping"
Oh, that all mothers realized this! l
thought, as my mind followed the
Markhams to their perfectly ordered
but dreary house, unworthy the name
of home. Nowadays almost every
newspaper has household depart
ment, filled with rules and directions
concerning all kinds of work, from
dish washing to the furnishing and
care of the guest-chamber. But is
there enough said about home-mak-
ing?
There is no doubt of the Importance
of good housekeeping; no doubt, too,
that many American women have
sadly neglected their duties in this
line, and that some have been moved
to reform by the popular agitation of
the subject. But do we not know
perfect housekeepcrs" who make
their husbands lives q burden. and
sour the dispositions of children not
yet in their teens?
The majority of American women
are not rich; many add to their
myriad housekeeping duties the care
and training Of children, with only a
general house-work" girl to help
along. Let such women attempt to
keep house in accordance with the
strict rules laid down. by the writers
on housekeeping, and who will blame
them if they never get beyond the
daily routine?
I have read of woman, with hus-
band and five children. who did all
her own work, kept her house always
in perfect order from garnet to cellar,
never neglected her children's man
ners, morals or clothes. exceled as q
cook, was always informed as to the
contents of newspapers, magazines
and the latest book, and was never
known to appear cross or discouraged.
There may be such women, never
saw one. Certainly they are not and
never can be numerous. For the vas
majority there is limit to time and
strength. Some things must be neg
lected.
The question then is, which shall
suffer. the house or the home?
Surely no true woman would decide
in favor of the former And what ma
does not enjoy bright cheerful
happy home, with wife not too tiret
to show her interest in all that con
Germs him and the children, even i
some sweeping and busting have beer
neglected, and the table lacks elabor
ately- prepared dishesP
"Is not the life more than meat, ant
the body than raimentP" -Mrs. N. c
Rankin, n, Christian at Work.
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A Curious Finnish Myth.