Fort Worth weekly gazette. [volume] (Fort Worth, Tex.) 1882-1891, 1888-10-19

delicste moss rose buds and m!gnonette
Housa jackets OF faecy hsnnels have
.he back lifted plainly and close, while
the frontis Gu. Of like al extremely
short Figaro iscket, making scarcely
more than syoks, falling on plsated or
Smoked snd belted front Of white wool
licked with color, or with waYing lines
or stripes, or dotted all ove-, or else With
tiny Pompsdour flowers, or small Persian
& cures. The flannel Is either dull blue
or old red, and belt Of the flannel
crosses the. white fronts.
Household.
How - be happy Is the problem that
every humsn being, each In his own way,
is eudssyoring to solve. The shortly
limit their aspirations to the present life
snd think that money Is the open sesame,
that by lis possession all else which Is
desirable will be attsined. Ill the more
efectiye aye forced TO Sadmit that even
among the possessions Of this golden key
there is bitter less and hesrtloneliness,
and thai In the houses Of those OF moder-
ste nesns content is more sp. to have 9
dwelling place.
TIE prayer OF Agur for neither poverty
7gisdom that is not always appreciated.
The contenteG spirit is true riches, By It
the rough places are msde smooth, aud
CLEANS Of light develop into rays Of sun.
shine, botn warming sDd illuminating.
There is theory that the home Is not .
training school, but simply developing
cot bed wasre nstursl tendencies snail
as7e the most favorable surroundings
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which might be teps5ie, if, IS DR..
Holmes puts II, esch child had hva gen
srs,ion5 OF gentlemen behind it, and It's
training had begun 100 yesrs before i!
vas born. The hereditY from Adam
seems to be most tenacious and 50 lorg
SO 1t predominetes, mothers will agree
51st curo5 ana chscks have to Ce put on
i;s Tendencies, that GOVERNMENTS mat
ter CT discipline and schooling which
must begin at the cradle, snd Lesson
lat only ends wcen lilo's tasks are over
Snd the school closes ~ the grave.
Oae CT tie gteas drawbacks to human
happiness is the iRSte seiHshness OF the
race, a1d It's most repulsiVe element Is
beaTiShness towards ones fellows, mo-
;iyes @! policy restrain IN degree al tx
hipi! Of this IN the outer WORLD, bu: too
privile ged domain where there should be
no restriction placed upon its free exer-
cise-here is where the mothers wofk
begins, work OF sublime patience aud
untiring Effort.
why nome under whose roof
tree are gathered intelligent reason
lag creatures, those VINO indeed
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rnsnds are Hiiiscg 10 make untold sscri-
fees (ior Il often occurs that he who
gfumoiinglg lsys down MS paper would
cneer!ul!y lay down mis- Life fer the wife
Who intensely Graves those few moments
OF mis- home life that Can De spared from
businese), should not hold within its
wslls life full OF graciousness, sweet
ness and happiness. Possessing as It
does warm hearts, clear heads and sll
the appliances that education coupled
with sufficient meEns 10 procure COM
fort, WHIT csr De lacking II there is
failure here?
Eliminate from sny home that sweet
cOurseey which is founded on consider
; alton for others, and fads its expression
| IA forms and habits OF pohtenesg, snd
there Is only lei. an aggregation of bru.-
| ishness that shocks sensi;iVe nature az
stultitiss sll noble aspirations. Custom
eIacts politeness Ia society, sad yet is
not the poli!eness st home, too often neg
lected, quite as important If not
SO OBVIOUSLY nesessaIy3 Is the son
snd brother any the lees g
gentleman bscauee he hands his
mother or sister casir, anticipates their
:liy 81 wants, Offering them thousand
little attentions that social etiquette and
| Inclination each exact in psrior or bali-
rooG2 SnCult he neglect their home
exercise is hG not in danger Of falling OF
easy grsce in their eocial rendition aud,
far worse, OF developing within himself q
selhshness that Will gradually undermine
MS affection for the mem 1ere OF his fam
| lily and beget in him, first Ind ference,
then ccllouSpess rs to tle honest demands
| loved ones nave upon his tenderness and
carer"
| That there is less Formally among
those who ere dsil? thrown together
C6srs no excuse fJr the emission Of true
clac:erY. A daily observance of these
little things readers their tx =Ecise easy in
the gu er world OF social lie, and averis
hist worse caBger 10 ones CHn heart Of
o. c0roiGg careless snd Indifferent regard
ing real duties.
| 4 mother who teaches her goLs aud
daughters TO rice ard offer their iather or
bers5 Chair 1eel either enters the
room, teaches no+ only Tespsct for those
older than themselves, bat teaches also
reverence Tor those il authority that Will
render the after lessons IS students OF as
citiZeng more easily lesrned; in fact, i.
viii be learned almost uncoIeciouslY.
a father Who does not enter the breaEf sat
room IN grim silence, but graciousiy
extends the morning greeting to
each, and beams with smiles
Tor the dear H.tle woman
scross the table who 90 self deoyingly
waits upon all, he who patiently listens
to the prottle ot the little ores, or msEi~
tests NO wont OF Interest In what may be
20 him pointless chat from taa little wo-
msl, is teaching his boys self-restTaint
and tender fcroetrsnce toward GbSGs VINO
OF youth or shy other reason htve i claim
OF true msEliness, for ":he brave ere aye
the tend'resl."
There has been much discus of late
on marriage, hut much Of the alleged fail
ure would lave been averted II the habit
OF courtesy had been lesrned In child
hood. To every one there comes dsys OF
deuori.col possession, when everything
is sary-isys CT nervous exhaustion and
isritebility, when TO be c:oss is a lpx1ry;
then the blessed result CT training is mar
i'estsd. Courtesy teaches to conceal the
demons presence sDd resist within our
selves these uusmiabIs EXHIBITS, that Tor
isck cf attention the uaweicome guest
shall HE sway 10 mere corgeLial s5;d
iEg place; sid Il thst place should be the
hrsSst e scme iumkta CT The hong