Seattle daily post-intelligencer. [volume] (Seattle, W.T. [Wash.]) 1881-1888, 1887-06-19
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Woman is often advised 10 be patient
"a seutle. aud under all trials 10 pre-
sgys The silence which is golden. Even
,lase wh0 advocate the privileges Of
- ballot for her, and discourse elo-
: e1eptIy on the observation-disclosures Of
seT ser because denied some pubic
Tehis still affirm thGt wives aud mo-
I lkers should strive Increasingly for the
/ lateral comfort Of husbands and sons.
rsrding themselves az the same time,
/ - any but dulcet tones pass the Yubi-
1 80 II utteFance. Bat our brother
J nan. bless him, answers for a domes-
II barometer. IL business aud home
prospects are bright aud pleasant, his
I'VE i SPARKLING and his laugh rings out
lie mnSic set 20 the poetry a his
u4seh; but when his Individual skies
afe cloudy, or depressing events down
4 .1un seem 10 betOken a coming bliz-
ard, then We expect him 10 vent his
lselings in vigorous language, and no
bady thinks Of getting miffed 81 his
remarks, well knowing their cause, and
sisO that rest aud q refreshing meal
9sll W0fk wonders. 80 We acknowl-
edge oar brothers right 10 talk all be
wants to, merry or otherwise, and the
ssaFser be il % talk the better We like
hlm, bot woman, delicate creature,
can she afford 10 risk her reputation in
Falghiiiiy.
Il the domestic apparatus he ever 10
mHeh deranged and her sirengsk aud
nerves thereby taxed 20 the utternoss.
d0es she dare SEEK relief BY exercising
her powers Of speech at the risk 0f be-
iag called a scOldg Let her begin 70
sboE little dependency and murmur
ever 20 little. and she Is most likely
ifzhkly accused 81 being cross, while
ibe knowledge that perhaps il Is true
does not help her any, and she feels as
thongh she had forfeited her character
toF patience Ia losing htr temper. Why
has not woman n much right 20 free
Der mind A. q mani Since nature has
provided a safety valve for the relief 81
uar pent-up feelings, Why shall We not
use Il and freely utter our grievances
10 those whose sympathy We have a
right tO expect. and 80 share our bur.
dens one with another
sympathy Is the most healing balm
that can be applied 10 most ii our
trials, and even S0rr0W j. sweetenesl by
rs magic power. But II We put tbs
seal of silence on our inner life, surely
Ne cannot complain Il by aud by Oul
dear ones do not understand our call,
loT sympathy.
A woman has as much right % hei
al 4 A.
hat BY this | do not mean that Il i
ever RecessaTy or advisable for man o.
somah 10 use any but language IN
Yired by the iriendliness OF true love
The freedom OF speech which ] wouis
sdvocaie should have in IL 40 bite
strains u sarcasm, no tery filings o
iemper and no chronic discor,ls VI self
lshmess and discontsHt; bat the idea
he Shtch We all strive 10 attain Il
should have for its foundation stoni
aarescTvsd confidence and periec
trust That there are many sad ex
eepsions TO the ideal Is a. true as hu
man nature IL varied, bat ne are eon
saering the homes where marriage Is
ahioR Of love aud life together i takel
ieF better or worse
II this Is loves young dream
ihsn-if mistakes are allowed silentll
10 gt0S into wrongs tiil finally life b.
eemes dreary aud the wife, like Mrs
fsTcy. feels driven 10 seek some minl
cure Sho = responsible
Il seems "a me | should have al
aired Mrs Percy more If she had ha
ihe grit 10 protest in the first plac
against besominR q mere machine &
satty on her mother in-law's foFme
. MSthnds.
Right would have won her case q
surely then a. now, aud her victor
ever nArrow mindeglncss would haN
tsaPed a double benefit for Der hul
hand, who might really have been haE
per and for herself Her case j. rs
az ISOLATED one There are many othe
soinen who stand la their own hgi
Aad that Ut others in the same wsy
They rcliglously lhink Il their duty I
lake life and bear Il meekly a. Il come
% Them aud who thinks love wonl
he betrayed # they should seize "a
aailet and ehisei 20 help shape the
9sn destiny and Who lack the true r.
az courage IA brave oPinions eoairar
10 Their own convictions.
have seen women bear all Kinds {
needless troubles while they pAtienti
tlosed their lips. and ths inward cha
iat Nith no Outward vent. brauds
iadeiii1y on brain and heart. sue
persons VII! always say. timidiy
Well. ! doaf coInfasin AMI,
thcre Is any in0uble. Is vent be IA
tault. shan net hear the tlaHse
That Is just u Women are afrA;
q little stit fot fear 81 blame ] h
issNe = woman can DO any good {
AAlag her stand hrAVely sud detensiiu
ssnsihiy. Hhctheg 10 oppose cvai 1
ialastice b. herself or those dear 10 be
zoe would gain glory IN the end
moving courage ~ lear al the eeusul
VI her interference Hos quickly
sas1rms youF seeming enemy when "
seesFfally assume al blame q. 4
b'Afef uamvni
Nos ID not pray you. take this {
Aurade against the other seI. Tbs
sss not 10 haHs Cor car Weakness
vale Ne sFr ahsorheSl in the duties
eer home csrslr, husband and fafbl
Nofks cut alone the problem for 4
support q hl, dear little family be-
hsaiy laden MArthAs often say
NbaieYer John thinks - right, ]
'&ilshea Sith L he oaiy gets along
10 Martha thlaks there Is S-1saethii
a.s,a ia pttsring the soiemn wuFi
y ailhsr thoa guest ! vill 50. a.
'isss wherever John, IN bss strugKi
tef ianaey, NAV biindiy lezd. q
f~fstioaing ihe wisdom u this % ia
asae HaSAling Ia shoulder any :
'esli,tlity consequent upoa gtttl
sfss, 10 soeuls s9ch Figai Hecc.Si
tsai John skAh make IS nlRch mon
possible that feN NsFfhss fxsncef
1ee1aseiyes a. - lohBs ulaihOd. i
S.ils HakeS a. The results . FstBa
as sSssnoniy % % regulated sIIsSn,
e-fss, Nhkh exhaust Johns resoarr
- - ftHsiss him 10 - mach need
~ mind cure as his Sae. One B
" giaiioe ~ the daily rnOrd
- "rSs lu scf h0N true and romnai
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