The Pacific commercial advertiser. [volume] (Honolulu, Hawaiian Islands) 1885-1921, 1887-01-20
AFTER DINNER IN ENGLAND.
An Agreeable Hour, and How 1t Is Spent
Various Customs.

An Agreeable Hour, and Row 1t Is Spent
Various Customs.
After the ladies leave the room the host
invariably changes his place, and port,
sherry, and clareJ are placed before him.
The servants now disappear, the guests
draw up their chairs and pass the
bottle themselves, always to the left, and
many take this opportunity to select a
companion for the after dinner talk. 1t
may be ungallant, but 1 confess that l
often found this hour the most agreeable
OF the day. The English men Of position
are generally very well bred when they
are by themselves more of them are
highly educated than is common with
Americans Of Importance; they have
passed their lives among works of art and
in the atmosphere of high politics. They
know pictures and china as well as game
and wine. They have not only seen the
famous places, but met the famous peo-
pie of other countries, and they make, ON
the whole, the most agreeable atter-d1n-
ner company in the world. To a stranger
they are especially amiable. If he is inter
ested in English life, they tell him all he
wishes to know; they invite his criticisms,
and if they sometimes say something dis
paraging of his own countrymen or Of the
institutions under which he was born, it
world they offer an opinion, which you
may accept or dispute as you choose, and
they are not affronted if you censure
mildly in return. They are genial over
their wine, but not quarrelsome nor In
decorous
After dinner conversation and cards
form the principal amusement. Some
times there is music, but not often, Tor
the English are not artists in tempera-
ment or taste; they do not make good
music, nor, as rule, do they keenly ap-
preciate it. They have higher relish Tor
painting and sculpture and architecture
something that they can see and handle.
Music is too imaginable for the burly
British nature to grasp. But whist or a
round game is invariably proposed. Inc
stakes usually small, but no one plays
without some wager. At times the play
ers become very intent, and 1 can recall
instances of gross il-breading over the
cards; testy old peer or stingy dowager
was commonly at fault.
In many houses the hostess rises at IL,
and this the ladies Know is their signal.
Good nights are exchanged, everybody
shakes hands, settler and brandy and
sherry are brought in for those who wish
them, and the gentlemen light the bed
room candles for the lacies. linen the
whole company moves out to the foot OF
the great staircase, and the procession OF
ladies ascends to the upper galleries, the
graceful girls in pink and white and the
sumptuous matrons in velvet and dia-
monds, each carrying her candle, while
the portraits of vanished ancestors look
| down on the scene where they, too, once
| played brilliant part.
The men linger for a while, but are soon
| invited to the smoking room. For this
they usually change their dress. When
! first went to England only few wore
| smoking jackets, but latterly in many
! houses the men came down toward mid
| night in gorgeous satin suits, with varle
gated trousers and caps, and the effect Is
very picturesque. Badeau's Let
ter