The Lambertville record. [volume] (Lambertville, N.J.) 1872-1968, 1887-06-29

duties as these to others lose all the happi-
ness which comes from the proper fulfill
ment Of function-from the effort to crafty
the tastes, and add to the comfort of the
family. They do not know the detail of their
own lives they miss the past of their expert
ences, and the daily routine is complaint and
apology for shortcomings. have seen
tired and care-worn men sit down
to a table, no single article upon
which had been properly bought or rightly
cooked. "My dear, this fish ought to have
been broiledl' "Well, why did you not
tell the boy to tell the cook; you know how
ignorant they are. I'm sure it worries me
to death. / never go into the kitchen, for
if did l couldn't eat anything the way
they use things" The ball thus started
rolls up on the shortcomings of cooks until
the strawberries are put on the table. My
| dear where did you get these strawberries I;
they are very bad2" 81 sent Charlie for
them. Charlie, where did you get the straw
| berries?'' Charlie, who knows that he upset
part and scrambled for them during q
brief but precious game of marbles, says in
differently, "Why, got them at old Sim
mons of course. Where would get them ~
Simmons gets worse and worse" fretfully
remarks the wife, and the meal closes with
resume Of the sins and shortcomings Of
| Simmons,
Habits differ in different communities. In
some it is mark of solidity and respecta-
bility for the lady to go to market; in others
she might feel that her dignity was severely
compromised. Common sense, however, II
it is persisted in, viii generally carry the
day against stupidity, and the lady who
does her own marketing, who makes 9
business of il, who studies how to do Il
well and satisfactorily to herself, and
! those about her, will soon feel that
public opinion has nothing to dc
with regulating her duties, except tc
stimulate her to perform them and thai
when it undertakes to suppress her propel
performance of them she is bound to dis
regard it. Preparation for and religion;
performance of everyday duty are those
things that are most needed and are most
conducive to the general welfare. Marketing
is one of these duties, and it ought to be q
part of the regular routine of every married
woman whose income is not princely. Girls
ought to be trained to it; and debt in the
family should be unknown.
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are wholly or in part the bread-winners.
Women are afraid of debt-they are also
afraid of everything with which they are not
acquainted-and when the husband begins
by announcing the requirements of fastid-
ious appetite, and the necessity which he
feels for giving personal supervision to the
question of supplies, the young wife fire.
quently succumbs from timidity. This is
all wrong. In whatever it is right for her to
do she should assert herself, not violently,
but decisively. Usually it is not because Of
his appetite, but his unwillingness TO allow
her to control household funds, which is at
the bottom of his expressed desire to save
her trouble, and take 1t himself. Let her
spirit of sacrifice be equal to his-let her
refuse utterly to shirk responsibility, espe-
cially that of spending money wisely; for
if she does not learn how to spend 1t wisely,
it is pretty sure to be spent unwisely, and
the source of supply for daily necessities is
where money can be most wisely spent and
most unwisely wasted.