The Stark County Democrat. [volume] (Canton, Ohio) 1833-1912, 1886-02-25
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no wonder II lisa wonder thai man does moi
so on whaling voyage Of three years, and In
ioAly ship Costly wardrobe ia not requiredi
but o woman, II you are not willing, by all
that ingenuity OF refinement can effect 10
make yourself attractive 10 your husband, you
ought not to complain II no seek in othor so
clety those pleasant surroundings which you
deny him.
Again, charge you, never talk TO others
about tho fraitlea OF your husband. Some poo
plo have way, In bantor, OF elaborately do
aorlbing 10 others the shortcomings or unhappy
eoc0ntrlcltios OF husband on wife An tho
worl will find out soon enough all the defects
OF your companion. No need OF your adyer-
tialng them Better initiate thoae women who,
having made mistakes In alliance, always have
veil 10 hide imperfectona and alleyiahona OF
conduct to mention, We must admit there arc
rare cases whoro n wifo cannot live longer
with her husband, and his oruotloa and out
RACES are the preour or OF diyorcement or
separation. But until that day comes keep tho
awful secret TO yourself Keep II from every
being In the universe, except God, 10 whom you
do well to toll your trouble Trouble only
few years almost and thenyou can 90 upon tho
other side OF the grave and say 70 Lord, ]
kept tho marital secret Thou knowent how
well kept II, and thank Thee that the re-
lease has como At last Give mo some place
whore can alt down and rest awhile from tho
horron OF an embrutod earthly alliance be-
fore begin tho full raptures OF heaven And
orders will be sent out 10 tho usher angels,
saying "Take this Abigail right up 10 the
lot twenty OF the brightest angels walt on hor
for tho noIt thousand years"
Further, charge You, lot there bo no outside
interference with tho oonjugal relation.
Neither nolghbor nor confidential friend, nor
brother nOrslhtor nor fathornor mother, hayoA
right TO comoin here, Tho married gossip will
como around and by the hour toll you how she
manages her husband You toll her plainly
that II aho will attend TO the Affairs OF her
household you will attcnd 10 yours What
damage some people do with their tonguoal
Nature indicates that the tongue Ia dangerous
thing by the fact that II Ia shut In, first by
barricade Of teeth and then by the door OF tho
lips, One inidioua talkor can keep whole
neighborhood badly stirred up Tho apostle
Petor exooratod thoae busybodiea In other
peoples matters, and H. Paul, In his lottora 10
tho ThossaonAns and to Timothy gIyoa them
n sharp dig, and the good housewife will DO on
the lookout for them, and novor return their
calls, and treat them with ooldoet frlgidtY
For this reason better keep house. AZ soon AZ
possible, Bomo people are opposed 10 them,
but ! thank God for what arc called fats In
these cities They put separate home within
the moans Of nearly all ,ho population In
your married relations you do no. mood anS
Advios, II you and your husband have noa
skill enough 70 90. along wou alone, with ali
The Adyioe you can import you will got along
worse. What you want for your craft on hia
voyage Ia plenty Of sea room.
charge You, also, mako yourself the intolli-
gont companion OF your husband What with
lhoso floods OF newspapers aud books there 10
40 excuse for the wifo'a ignorance olthor about
the present or tho past H. You have no more
than half hour every day to yourself youmoy
fll your mind with entertaining and useful
knowledge Lot tho merchants wife read up
on all mercantile questions, and tho mechanics
wifo ON all that portaina to his style OF work,
and the professional mans wife on all tho legal
or medical or theological or political dlecus-
slona Of tho day II a very stupid for man,
after having boon amid active minds all day,
10 find his wife without information oropnions
on anything If tho wife knows nothing about
what In going on In the world, aflor tho toa
hour has passed, aud the husband has road tho
newspaper, ho will have an engagement and
must 10 and hoo q man, In nine oaaoa out ~
ton whom u man docs not stay at homo In tho
eyoning, unloes positive duty calls him away,
II Ia because thoro Ia nothing 10 stay for llo
would rather talk with hia wife than anyone
else, n aho could talk M we'll
] charge you, my giatcr, In oyery way 10 mako
your homo attractive, have not enough OF
practical knowledge about house Adonmont 10
know Just what mahos tho difference, but horo
Ia an opulont house, containing all wealth OF
brio-a-brac, and OF musical instrument and OF
painting, and Of upholstery, and yot thoro Ia In
II chill like Nova 2ombla Another homo,
with ono-twcntioth part OF tho outlay, and
small supply OF art aud choapout piano pur-
oha0ablo, and yet, RA you onorit there comoa
upon body. mind, and soul glow Of welcome
aud eatuned and happy domoOtcity Tho holy
art Of making tho most comfort aud brightness
out Of the moano afforded every wife should
study
Az the aicgo Of Argos, Pyrrhu0 wa0 killed by
tho tilo OF q roof thrown by woman, and Abb
moloch was slain by atono that woman
threw from tho tower OF Thoboa, and Earl
Montfort was destroyed by rock discharged
h him by a woman from tho walls OF Toulouse
But without any weapon eayo that OF hor cold,
ohoorlcee household arrangement any wifomay
nlay all tho attractions Of homo circle A
wife and mother In proeporod circumstance
and greatly admired was giving her chief timo
to The social lIfo Tho husband spent hia oven.
inga away Tho son, 10 years OF ago, got the
uamo habit, and thcro was prospect that tho
other children M they got old enough would
tako tho namo turn. Ono day tho wifo aroused
70 the consideration that uho had botlor nayo
her husband and her boy Interesting and
stirring gamoa wcrc introduced Into The house
Tho mother aludiod up interesting things 70
toll hor children. ono morning tho aon naid
sFathor, you ought 10 hayo boon home last
night We had grand umo Such Jolly
gamcs, and uuoh interesting utoiiou" This
wont on from night 10 night, and Aficr while
Tho husband aiaid In 10 100 what wan going on,
and ho finally goi attracted and added aome.
thing Of hia ewn 10 Tho evening ontortainmoniaj
and tho result was that Tho wifo and mother
navod her husband and aavod her boy and
saved horsolf Was not that an enterprise
worth tho attention OF the greatest woman that
over lIyod slnoo Abigail AZ tho foot OF tho rock
arrested tho four hundred Armod warioreY
DO not my siptor, DO dlEziod and disturbed
hy Tho LalL OF lhnnn who think lha hmm nlrnln