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The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

EtCY LARCON ON MARRIAGE.

Questions relating to marriage, as dis
cussed by al unmarried person, while they
receive only the light which comes from an
outside point of view, may from thai very
position be considered with greater cool
ness and clearness. But the sufferer is
doubtless the best critic of her own situa-
ton.
"What does a girl Of eighteen know Of
herself. or the man she marries ." is often
bitterly asked by the young wife before ten
years. or five years, or fewer even, have
passed over her prematur ely-sobered brow.
her u~nnaturally burelened heart or brain.
IN the old misleading myth, love Is blind;
and undoubtedly the foolish little Cupid
that figures on fans and valentines derives
his chief charm from his bandaged eyes, in
the estimation Of damsels whe flutter the
one. and SWANS who tinkle their light Gym
balls Of sentimentaIism upon the other. II
the irrepressible nedgling would only keep
his eyes open before marriage. and reso-
lutely bandage them atterward, much harm
might be avoided. Alas like mortals.
love. can only grow wise with experience.
Probably the prose- of married life always
steals i'll quite o enough, deadening
with its cold water trickle the glow of the
honeymoon poetry. Not that Opponents
and runaway matches are defensible by the
social moralists-although even they are a
less evil than mercenary and conventional
alliances matnrely made. Youth and love
belong together, like June and roses.
Youth has often indeed a winsome sagac-
ity Of it's own, but one must rave lived and
thought and felt to have acquired the
virtues of patience and forbearance by
which human beings manage to live peace
fully together, ''for better or for worse.
FRIENDSHIP OF WOMEN.
1t is r in this matter, as in friendship,
that woman must be herself before she can
be another's. She is, first of all, a human
being, with the right and the duty of de
veloping herself as such-it may be by
marriage, it may be without it, or it may
be by the prolonged education Of her wo-
manhood for a nobler matronhood. What
ever she does, she has 10 right TO give up
her own distinctive personality, her human
responsibility. The marriage that requires
this of any woman, at any age, is for her
a mistake.
The loss off girls girlhood is the strong
est argument against an early marriage.
Every beautiful and delightful develop
ment is gradual; and to have no interval
between the experience of a child and that
of a wife is as if a green bud should burst
at once into a wide open rose, and SO miss
its exquisite, maidenly, halt-blown outlook
upon the earth and into the heavens. Let
girls marry young if they will, but not So
young as to lose the sweetness of gazing
quietly ont into life, through the fresh
dews of maiden meditation, fancy free
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16
BEE-IsEEpINC FOR WOMEN.

What more healthful and cnuobling De-
creation could a lady have than Bookkeeping
The ladies will bear me cut when | say ",
often feel "Oh, for the rest Of mind +. Oh
for recreation - We love orr home duties
but We are tired, oh, so tired.
Let us don oar bee hats, loose-howing
sleeve mittens, and with smoker in hanc
sally forth to the companionship of on
little pets-the busy bee. After an nom
or 50 Of outdoor exercise. we really fee
refreshed. invieorated both in mind and
body.
One may even feel tired before going out
the change from indoor to outdoor. the
eye resting on a change Of scenery, ali
bright and beautiful, the songs of The
birds, hum Of the bee, the gentle zephyr
tanning our oft feycrish brain, all tend e
give new life and vigor, when, if We lad
nothing especial to call us out Of doors. We
would not 90, bnt seek mere indoor work,
OF perehanee a rest in the great arm chair.
and the mind, with nothing new to rest
upon, will wander upon some real or fan
eied evil, past o. to come
But who ever nursed trouble out in the
balmy air, watching her bees. or diving
into their cheerful hive, helping herself to
their golden stores? How her eyes will
gladden. as she thinks Of tic beautiful
cakes Of honey TO grace her tea-table for
husband and children, af perchance To
serve for company; it needs no cooking,
always ready. always tootlsome, no trouble
in keeping if put u Of sight OF the chill
dren, aye. and the grown people too. Let
the children have it, mothers Keep bees.
if for no other reason than that your chill
dren may feast uror pQre sweets. the nee
tar Of flowers. When the children want
candy give them chunks II luscious honey.
Teach the girls 10 take care Of bees: give
them some for their own, to care for. in
stead Of allow ing them to g from home to
earn Il living. II il poor circumstances. It
will be 20 them both food and clothing
and at the same time they can remain at
home under the guardianship of parents.
Teach them to low The pets, % cherish
them, both Tor profit and eompanionship:
If they get stung, teach them IL bear it
bravely, as the pain viii not last long.
Many mothers make So much Of a bee
sting, their children dread a bee a. an
enemy, and run if one comes near Bees
seem to know all this from instinct: learn
their habits and cherish them as friends.
And how much more ennobling for the
daughter Of wealth to care for bees, watch
ing tile mysteries Of the beehive, learning
lesson of thrift and industry. than spending
50 much Of her time in gossip and novel
reading. tucks, ruflesan fashion.
Sisters, read UP the busy bee, and my
word for it, many Of you viii be so flsein-
atcd you will want bees. if you do not
have ''bee upon the brain IL. q -1rteH.
IL Tia 1nerjcaa Rargl Honse
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16
THE DROP.

"Getting the drop IN him is 10 phrase
which, among the lawless pioneer miners,
and among the lawless generally, means
that the one party has his gun cooked,
aimed, and ready to fire before the other
has time to draw his weapon. The man
who has the drop against him has a sud
den choice to surrender and be disarmed,
or die. He is at the mercy Of his enemy.
It appears from the following eonvcrsa-
ton, reported 10 us by a friend, as oe-
curing between two Chicago Irishmen,
that there IS more than one way Of getting
the drop Oh a man.
Come in Patrick. and take a drop II
something.
No, Mike; am afraid Of drops ever
since Tim Flaherty died.
''Well what about Tim
''Hc was one Of the hkelicst fellows in
these parts. But he began the drop bust
ness in Barney shannon 5 saloon. Il was
just a drop Of something ont Of bottle at
first. Bnt in a little Willie Tim took a few
drops too much, and then he dropped into
the gutter. lie lost his place, lie lost his
money, he lost his coat and hat, he lost
everything but his thirst for strong drink
Poor Tim But tile worst is yet to come.
He got crazy with drink oue day aud killed
a man. And the last time I saw him he
was Just taking his last drop with a slip
ping-noosc around his neck. have quit
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

] hold that Christian faith abounds
Where charity is seen: that when
We climb to heaven, It's on the rounds
OF owe to men.
! hold ali else named pictX
y selfish scheme, ns vain prctcnse.
here entire is mclean there be
circumference
Thai | moreover hold ana dare
Affirm wherc'er my rhyme may go
Whatcvcr things be sweet or fair
Low makes them so.
Ills not the wise pllyluctcry,
Nor stubborn taste, nor stated prayers.
That makes rs saints: We Judge the tree
BY what il bears.
And whcu Il man may live apart
From worlds, ON thcologic trust,
! know the blood about his heart
Is dry rs dust.
BB{0Bs
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

.'Shc hath done what she could,
Try her cunning she would,
shcw her weakness, TO iniure hcr ciill-e,
Like IL heart that doth break
ON IL rock, for loves sake,
She falls crushed at the foot of the Laws
"Wr it for one sex alone
on n table of stone,
The hard statute rules ovcrmankind.
Does she deem her small THRIFT
Shall he mighty to SHIFT
Its burthcn, when She has Il mind
"IIcr voice ye have heard
Men have Published her word,
saints have greeted her banner nniurlcd
Now say. under the sun
hat this woman has done2
She has altered The course of the world.
Mrs. Howe, "Oae Uomda'2 D0in0,'
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III.


'Pothecary, 'pothecary, living in The rose,
Tell as how to make the scent that everybody
knows.
~ penny's worth Of nectar; a dozen drops OF
dew
y little compound sunshine that's slowly
filtered through:
\ sun-glass made of diamond, and hcn-the
mixing done
Set ont a%little flask of it tosimmer in the sun
sPothccalg, 'poihecaly, is there nothing more!
''Yes, il takcth industry to make the summers
store.
SO my htd ana lady, run of now and play
This, like every day in June, is my busy day
-MdrB Il. LdthbUrY, IN 81. NichoiaS.
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

Three weeks ago an Indiana man taught
his dog. a finely bred, well behaved setter,
to chew tobacco. Now the dog comes into
his feet ON the mat, nevc: goes to church,
is careless At his meals, gets bufrs in his
tail. goes with a lower grade Of dogs, and
it is feared hat he is beginning TO take an
interest in politics Bob Burdeue.
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16
LEARN To KEEP HoVSE.

No young lady can be taught too well in
anything that viii affect the comfort Of a
family. Whatever position in society She
occupies she needs a practical knowledge
q household duties. She may be placed
~ siich circumstances chat it viii not be
necessary to perform such domestic labor.
but on this account she needs no less
knowledge than if she was obliged to pre-
side personally over the cooking stove and
pantry Indeed, have thought it was more
experience than 70 do the same work with
our own hands.
Mothers are frequently So nice and par
tieular that they d. NOT like to give M INV
part Of The care to their children. This Is
a great mistake in their management, for
they are often burdeneti and netd relief
Children should be early Taught to make
themselves useful; to assist their parents
every way in their power, and consider it
a privilege to do 50.
Young persons cannot realize the i,n,.ort-
ance Of a through know edge Of house
wifery; but those who have suffered the in
convenience and modification Of Ignorance
can well appreciate ii. Children shoald be
carly INDUCED in their disposition to bake
and experiment in various WAYS. It is
often a troublesome help they afford. still
it isa great advantage to them. / know a
little girl who. when nine years old. made
a loaf If bread every week during the
winter Her ~lmother taught her how
much yeast, salt and flour to use and she
became quite an expert baker. Whenever
She is disposed to try her skin in making
simple cakes and pies She is permitted to
do 50 Shells thus, while amusing herself.
learning al important lesson. Her mother
calls her her little house keeper. and often
permits her to get what is necessary for the
table She hangs the kegs by herside and
very musical is the jingle 10 her ears. /
think that before She is out of Aer teens she
will have some idea bow to cook.
some mothers give their daughters the
care Of housekeeping each a week BY turns.
1t seems to be a good -rrangement and a
most useful part Of their education. Do
nestle labor is by no means incompatible
with the highest degree Of refinement and
mental culture. Many Of the most elegant
and accomplished women l have known
looked well To their household duties. and
hanored themselves and their husbands by
50 doing
Economy, taste, skill il cooking. and
neatness Of the kitchen, have a great deal
70 do in making life happy and prosperous.
The charm Of good housekeeping is ia the
order, economy. and taste, displayed ia at
%tention @ little things; and these things
have a wonderful inflnenee. A dirty
kitchen and a bad eook have driven many
a one from home to seek comfort and hap
piness somewhere else None Of oar ex-
cellent girls are fl to be married until they
are thoroughly educated IN the deep and
profound mysteries Of the kitchen.
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

some men and some women are always
acting. They are a. much actors as If they
were on the stage. They eaunet get mp 81
sit down. they cannot move, they annot
speak, without thinking how they appear
to others. It is painful t. live with such
persons They are never natural, they
cannot be natural They are constantly
studying for effect in everything We mus
say that We like natural people. We like
a good warm grip of the hand. We like a
ringing, hearty laugh, no matter now loud
it is. We like words that are honest and
true, and actions that are genuine, sponta-
Moons and instructive Give as warm
nature rather than cold calculation
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

u is, writes Edward Everett Hale, 4 good
thing for a weaver IA a mill, who is in mo-
n%otanoiIs duty, rather discouraging in
some Of its details, to think Of himself not
as Al Operative" At a dollar and a quar-
ter a day, but as an essential factor in
Gods work for the world It il 1 good
thing for a boy on prairie III Dakota 20
remember. as be oils the running gear Of
the reaper, that he Is the person whom the
God IF Heaven has chosen 50 chat the
prayer Con daily bread &c some sailor Ia
Alaska or some old woman il the Scottish
Highlands may be answered. II is q good
thing for many OF as, who want to know
God 70 accept this great offer Of partner
ship which he has made Il as, and to work
not A. separate Spectators, on oar own
capital ia oar own way, but as fellow
workmen together with him.
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

Tho season has come when a man who
finds a twelve-room house and a half acre
of ground too small for him at home will
live with Ills family in a three-room shanty
surrounded by 1000 feet OF glaring a
and call il happiness. -sa0aereiHc Journal.
The Monitor. [volume] (Woodstown, N.J.) 1884-1892, 1886-07-16

She was in the dining-room, laying On
the lounge aud reading the last new navel
Her mother was IN the kitchen securing
the tins. Tho iall q tlae disA-pan broke
in On Inc story. and logged the readers
conscience. aDo you want any help from
me, mamma - she reluctantly called.
The Daily Tombstone., 1886-09-11
-aS
 Summons.

IN THE JUSTICES COURT, TOWNSHIP No One. Tn the County of Cochise, Terri tory Of Arizona, Charles Nardnl, plaintiff, vs. Giuseppe Fontana, defendant.
 Before c. E. Alvord, Justice Of the Peace, demand $500.
 The Territory of Arizona sends greeting to Giuseppe Fontana, defendant.
 You are hereby summoned and required 10 appear before me ut my office in Tomb stone, County of Cochise, on the Sth day of July, : D. 1886, at 10 o'clock 8. h., 10 an- swer the complaint Of the above named plaintiff, who demands of you that you are indebted ts him in the sum of three hundred ($3OO) dollars, on pIomIsory note giving by you to plaintiff, MS more fully appears by complaint now on file in my office.
 And fl you fail 70 appear and answer said complaint as herein required, the plaintifl will take judgment against you as deman dd and for the costs of this suit.
 Given under my hsnd this 9th day of May D 1886 '. 2 ALNORD,
 Justice of the Peace
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Cadwsll $ Stanford, Plaintiff,

IN THE JUSTICES COURT, TOWNSHIP No. 1, in the County of Cochise, Territo of Arizona, before c, E. Alvord, J, F.; demand,
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AnheuseI beer on draught at the Oriental, fine lunch thrown in
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Mrs. Head has been appointsd agent for Connor's ranch butter which she receives fresh every 6Stps day. Also fresh buttermilk on hand
 S-lT ii
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the County of CoChlse, Ill the IeTrItoFJ o' Arizona.
 HENRY DUBACHER, Plaintiff FREDERICK GERBARpT, Dit.
 Action brought in the County Court oi Cochise County. erritory Of Arizona, and the complaint flied in the said county of Co- chige. in the office Of the Clerk Of the hald County Court.
 The Territory Of Arizona sends greeting to Frederick Gerbardt, defendant;
 You are hereby required 10 appear in an action brought against you by r1e aboI C banned plainIff, in the County Court of Co chlbc county, Territory of Arizona, and to answer the complaint flied therein, within twenty days (cxclusiYe Of the day of serVlce) after the service on you of this sum'AOns, if served within this couty; or Il served out of this county, but in this distri t, with in thirty days; otherwise within forty days, or Judgment by default will be taken against y~u according to the prayer of said complaint
 Said action is brought to recover an ac- counting and dissolution of co-parthershlp and judgment for amount due from de'end ant to plaintiff, as fully appears by the com 15IaInt hlyd herein, d duly certified copy O which is hereto attached. And you ari hereby potlGed that if you fail to appeal and answer the sad complaint, as above re ouired, the said plaintiff will take Judgment against you by default and apply to th' Court or the relief demanded m the com plaint. :. Courty Court of Cochise County, TerIitur. of A Alzona tlis Srd day of Septembe:, A. ISSo, ,,Cr C,o.,.
 g3u
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Notice of Forfeiture,

TO DAVID CALLISHER YOUR HEIRS or Assigns. You are hereby notified that have expended (S100) one hundred dollars in labor and i'm improvements on the Ohio lode and mining claim, situated In the Bisbet mining district, county of Cochlsc, Territroy Of Arizona, in order to hold the claim Of the year ending December, 1886, under the pro- visions Of Section 2324, Revised Statutes of the United States. Therefore, if within ninety days from publication Of thIs notice, you fail or refuse to contribute your propor- tion of said expenditure and cost Of this publication as cO-owner, your interest in said mine or claim will become the prop erty of the undersigned, under Section 1924
 SOLOMON SHULTZ.
 Tombstone, April ', 1886.
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IN THE JUSTICES COURT, TOWNSHIP No, 1, in the unty of COchise, Territory ot Arizona, be'ore c K. Alyord, J. F.; demand $64. CadH ell & Stanford, Plaintiff,
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NathanIol AIernnd ner

Nathaniel Alexand T, Deft.
 The Territory of Arizo a sends greeting to Nathaniel Alexander, defendant: You ere by summoned and required to appear before me al my tfice in T0mbstoEe, county of COchlse, on the S0th day of April, A D 1886, st ten o'clock a: m., 10 answer the complaint of the abOve-named plsintlfs, who demand oi you that you are Ill de1ted 10 them in the sum of S2425 for goods and merchan, ise purchased and delivered 10 yUL
 St your own instance and request. as more fully appe rs by complaint now on file in my office And if you fail to appear and answer sid com
 D. aint as herein required, the plaintiffs will take judgment against you as demanded and fer the costs :oi this suit. Given uIder my hand this | first day of March, A. D. 1ss6.
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Is acknowledged by eminent surgeons the purest and finest known, and inyalutall to invaliis.
 SIMMONDS' KENTUCKY MA BOB BOC < BON WHISKY has been well known tor many years, being unsurpa ssed for its ezceN- lent quality and delicious fl avor, EyeryboGy who has tried it says it is the best iu the world.
 Families supplied ty the gGllon, cas or usttle.
 fss- None genuine unless my 4ignatu.e is across the cork, "G. Simm Onds "
 My agent is authorized to sell to Av trade half barrel, barrel direct shipment from Ken lucky or from his warehouse a. San Bernar dino. Sold by the bottle and gallon
 BOTHIN, TWEED IS COMPANY.
 Soie Agentsssor Tom bstone and vicinity
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FOR SALE.

Furnished house of three rooms and kitchen, complete for house keep ing, on Allen street, between Seventh and Eighth. Will be sold cheap if applied for at once. For particulars .nnlv at this office. S-l4.im
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The Fountain.

The Fountain Chop House is the coeli place in the city to take meal. No smo heat or smell from the kitchen, it beinP tirely separate from the dining room. fore-quarter beef used. Nothing but choicest cuts, fish. game, oysters,ete vste entrance from Toughnut street to boxes: oetF
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Summons.

IN THE COUNTY COURr, IN AND FOR the County of CoChise, in the Territory oI Arizona. .. ;,.tim
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\ Amea De. .endant

\. Ames, De.endant.
 The Territory of Arizona sends greeting to 4; Ames, defendant: You are hereby summoned nd r qHired to appear before me Ut my ofiice In tombstone, county oi C3chi1e, on the 3Otn day April, A 1852, at 10 o'clock a m., to answer complaint of the above-named pllintitfs, who mAnd of you that you are indebted to tho T In sum of S64, fer goods Lnd merchandise pu- sed and delivered to you of your own instance d request, az more fdlly appears by complaint Oi file in my office. Ana if you fall to ap- ar and answer said complaint as hereIn re- noieed, the plaintiff will tIke judgment against uas demanded and for the costs oi this suit
 ven under my hand this 2nd day of March D SC. C. F.. Al - |, J.f
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Any parties wishing to go overland to Kingston, at reasonable rates, should call upon Geo. W. Buford, who is going very shortly and has accommodation for five passen- gers. Zc-5
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gers.
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Fifteen dollar pants for eleven dol CTS at Harris the tailors. S-13tf
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Many a Lady

is beautiful, all but her skin; and nobody has ever told her how easy it is to put beauty on the skin. Beauty on the skin is Magnolis Balm.
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NOTICE.

Having this day sold my under taking business to Jos. Pascholy & Co. I respectfully request all need ing his services to call upon him. All bills to date will be peid and collected by myself.
 A. J. RITTER. April 29. 1886. 4-29-lm Referring to the above we would say that we will endcavor to give the public the same courteous treatment and fair dealing they have received in the past from Mir. A. J. Ritter.
 Jos. PAsCHoLY & Co.
 Successors to A. RITTER.
 4 29-lw
Richmond dispatch. [volume] (Richmond, Va.) 1884-1903, 1886-10-24
MIR. Powdesiy AND the Negro.
WASHINGTON COUNTY, VA, !
October 10, 1886. !
10 the Editor Of the Dlspotch:

10 me EdfOr o. nc OlsFotc:
At $50 mile,' distance from Mr.. Powderly
and his Convention, and with no Knights
OF Labor in our midst, we are dependent
on the press--manly the DiSpatCh-for
such information rs may cnllghten us in
respect Of the aims aud objects Of the
order; and Il so happens that about all we
Get q, that Is valuable are the utteranees Of
Mr.. Powderly. the grand master workman,
who seems TO be the brainy man OF the or
ganization.
AS propose TO comment, briefly aud
pon,edIy, on some OF his Outgiyings in the
last week or two, it is proper 10 state that
until recently had regarded the order Of
Knights Of Labor as capable Of accomplish
ing u vast amount OF good in checking the
growing and dangerous power OF COZ pOrlte
monopoly, whose tendency is to overthrow
the liberties OF the people. Though not a
member, my sympqtbiGs we're with them.
when some months ago they "locked
horns" with Jay Gould and his con rcreS.
and gave warning that mere money could
not run roueh-sbod over American MN.
hood. Within the scope OF what was then
and until recently understood TO be The
great aims and purposes OF the order. 10
"secure fair wages for an honest days
work." and TO ameliorate the condition aud
elevate the position Of the workingmau and
his family, there Il no doubt a vast mai ority
Of the American people were prepared TO
sustain them In all lawful, peiceable, aud
legitimate Efforts TO accomplish those ends.
They profess 10 eschew ali political par
tissn associations, and yet we now find Mr..
Powderly and apparently a large proper
ton OF his associates In the northern Stites
going back thirty or forty years aud resur-
Iecilpg the carcass OF sectionalism IN form