The Sauk Centre herald. (Sauk Centre, Stearns County, Minn.) 1886-current, 1886-09-23
INDIAN MATCHMAKING.
CONSULATE TACT AND SKILL OF
THE HINDOO GHATUCK.

A Man Of Apparent Learning, Compliant
Manners and Great Persuasive Powers
How a Marriage Is Negotiated by the
Matrimonial Go-Between.
The ghatuck, or matchmaker, is gener-
ally Brahim of high order-a man of ap-
parent learning, compliant manners, and
invariably of great persuasive powers His
disposition is as amiable as his occupation
Is pleasant. His strength lies in the use of
the particular kind of tact and skill neces-
sary for alf Intermediates, and he is not
much affected by scruples of conscience.
Genealpgy and pedigree are his speciality.
He can repeat everybO US fathers, grand
fathers, great-grandfatherss names, and so
on to thirteenth generations; and he has
at his fingers ends all about their caste,
gotra or tribe. their quality and position,
and the hundred other details about which
the Hindoos are very particular. The
ghatuck has great pretensOns to a know
ledge of Sanskrit, though on the first test
he breaks down. But it does not in the
least matter to him. He has a stock of
Sanskrit phrases and commonplace stored
up in his memory; and these he delivers
In so mastery fashion that the ordinary
folk cape at him with wonder.
NEGOTIATING A MARRIAGE.
There comes of a morning a Brahmin
ghatuck to the house OF his patron, whose
sons marriage he is negotiating. He has
q tall, thin face, with the lilac or caste
mark on his high forehead, large, round
eyes of a calm, 1neditative cast, though
betraying in their corners an unusually
sly expression, finely turned eye brows,
obi
His placid cOuntenance has a certain
charm, and his look inspires respect for
his talents and confidence in his abilities.
After the usual exchange of salutations
the master of the house asks the ghatuck
whether everything is all right, and how
he finds the girl; upon which the latter
answers in this style: ayes, sir, every
thing is all right. The girl is beautiful as
the full moon; even the moon has spots,
but she is spotless and peerless Her
teeth are sparkling, like the seeds of
pomegrana1e; her arched bright, black
eyes beat those of Kama (Hindoo Cupid;
her voice is sweet, like that of cuckoo;
her gait is dignified and graceful, like
that of an elephant; and, as to her figure,
[ know nothing to compare it with. She
is intelligent, like the goddess Saraswati
tHindoo Minerva), and talks like Lakshmi
1.-THE goddess of fortune), and will GER
tainly bring bright fortune to any family
she may be connected with"
With a twinkle in his eye, his patron
interrupts him with the question whether
the girl really is handsome and intelligent;
then the ghatuck bursts forth: "Ram,
Durga, Hari, silva, Brahma, Vishnoo-do
you think am joking with you? A man
like me, descended from Brahma himself,
never jokes. Satyam eva jayate-truth is
aver victorious. Why, sir, you would not
find such perfect match for your noble
son in these three worlds. And then the
girls parents are willing to bestow such a
lot of things as her dowry-a whole house
hold of things. What can you have
better?"
The conversation goes on in this style
until the hesitations of the parent are
overcome. The matchmaker, well salts
fed with his performance, departs for the
house of the lady. There he represents the
young man to be beautiful like Kartic
the god of beauty; his manners are
those of a nobleman; he is fres from all
vices; he studies day and night. In short,
he is precious gem-an ornament of his
country.
To the questions whether the young
man has passed any university examina-
tons, whether he holds any scholarship,
and what degree he has taken, the CHA
tuck replies: ale has not passed any ex-
animation yet; but what does that mat
ter? Bless his dear soul, he will pass all
his examinations in three years; and then
his parents are so rich and have promised
to give such a mass of priceless ornaments
and jewelry" Then comes difficulty on
the settlement of the last point; or the
mother of the girl grumbles at the boy not
having passed any examination as yet. Or
perhaps somebody has whispered to the
young mans mother that the young girls
nose is rather chubby. The CHA
tuck, well prepared to meet these
difficulties, fits backward and for
ward; and after the fullest display
of his arts and powers, and a good
deal of higgling on both sides, he manages
to bring the negotiations to a successful
termination. He is amply paid for his
services, though often lifelong curses of
all the parties concerned form his chief re-
ward
The remuneration of the ghatuck is not
liked: it depends upon the sort of match
he makes and upon the quality and posi-
ton of the families he unites. At a mid
dle-class wedding he gets from e. to g.
besides presents; from rich families he
gets about IS, besides presents worth
about e10. Some matchmakers have been
known to make fortunes and buy estates.
If ghatuck can secure an educated and
wellto-do young man for poor, common
looking girl he is immensely paid for his
services by the parents of that girl On
the contrary, if the bride or bridegroom
turns out to be the reverse of what she
or he was represented, the ghatuck has
only the few rupees he got before the
marriage for all his reward, with shower
of blows from the male members of the
family thrown in.
OF late years female matchmakers are
taking the place of the male ones in some
of the1arge towns. Having free access to
the inner apartments of house-a privi-
lege their male rivals can never expect to
eDjoy-they can reach the ladies, who
necessarily have great influence in all
marriages. Naturally sharper in wit and
more glib of tongue, their finesse and sub
tlcty have been known to overcome all
difficulties where their mail competitors
have failed.-Hindoo Cor. st. James Ga
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