New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1886-09-26
HUSBANDS Must NOT STAY At HOME
AN ESSAY BY THE AUTHOR OF now TO BE- HAPPY
THOUGH MARRIED."

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Men about home all day are hdgettv, grumpy,
and observation-disclosures Objectionable IN short This
is the often WITH authors or parsons or paint
ers; but II particularly apt 10 be With
the unemployet. sucb, for instance. officers and
business men. who have retired or who are ont OF
harness for a shoIt TINE. mo spirit OF miseb!"i i
never at loss for a job Tor Pa'er'aIailiSs
1t catches him idllns and lonneing aooqt-
and lrritanity and Dces him 10 the reform OF domestic
abuses 1t kindles his sanitary arfor sn1 srDis lia
pok'ng AID snidng ahout lnconVenen,Y in'o al .ns
odd OF me establishment; or SETS hin aDont me
eurtsilnent of Housekeeping expenses or the amsnd-
OF various unneIhodical household p,ooe iure All
OF which, however right ani proper. teni 10 dsture
peace and quie do, and 60 make the women ot
devOnty pray FOR tine time when business shall
call the disturbed I'm eisrly after breakfast aud
clever men VINO we're always thinking OF new theori~s
aud fss sbon the management; OF children aud otnef
wives aud niure health OF their children hen they
allow these theories to interfere win commn sense aud
uracttca The following viii illustrate
what Il meant certain family nal tue y0unse.s
amamst ms Other prescriptions FOR thrr Srncst the
doctor ordered that tho IN which the rssns were
should oe kept Tree iroM ai' sn's VI oa
bt the two y0ungcs abOIt three years 81 age and
the other niteen mou,bs To them their father came
ore aay IN Jsnuary the sas hieher tnsn
usual lie great coat and IA walked ias, ABOUT
a mils up hi AT under winter sun lie was
warm and when he en- sick chamber he found
II suring Beng q busting sort OF uan ami very
oDnonatsd no ordered the ehren and tleir nurses to
leave tue siipg chamber where none bat sniers
could Eve and go into another room where the ar was
uure and 8 eet aud cool" "Reminiscences were vain,
Ana the poor patients were packed Oh TO an ulsiFeI
befrnom Witnin ono nour the youngest child was Affected
with Group and In a few more the second became
equally III Both died within Ihfee days; ycslns %
psiaatry AMI obstinacy. But inc ped.mtry an, ana
obstnacy would PROBABLY never have had suca istai
results II the father mad not been idl.Dg at nome
man can never pull with his wife uau Il. LEANS nos
to interfere with what does Not concern hn lie Hho
can rlst his should more eGle VITA her ono
than she SHOULD poster MIN wlsh gas',os
about mis- Business There VIII be no peace II ne POKE
over the weekly bills. insist upon knowing now Luca
tnins per poun AID what he Is gong 20 nass ave
non OF domestic felicity tnat Iaeiiam.Las shoHtd -
absent from home a. least s.I holr' 10 .he Gay ?oes
asked his wife why is a husband IKE donsh he
oIpec ed would give II up and ne was gong 10 teiL
her lat was becAlse won. "a nee.s niIi; ~ 'n'
said ii hecausr ne WAS ha'd 10 Rei on nsi uaus
or course like every otne' eood .ue, tais one Oh nom
in.erysu0u may carried too far. as Was by the
stGoious vao said, when SCI. AM toa ~ .. ~
house was Are. " Go 10 your mistress; you tuow
ncs.,on. will arise when q husband VIII be only 100
e al to take counsel with hs wi'e In business cafo,s
gr,tItuie ani love season Of sickness Or ancton
when he place and h-.s too s'aap'i o, no
wuuantsh task aud neither lrrtaec nor hdLidAted oy
ever such trivial DoISehOh cares, ,,..,
tabe9 nj a. home ono day her husband ~ great
h..te Tor tue oc,o The ohc ent msu ran part %! no
lear. where snail lind yos when get back =" We
nave no sympathy with wOnen Ike TINS VINO are never
Al nome" except ther invitation cards: negr;.ae-
s.. we cannot bat see that nGsbanos need vgcirohs
80 10 wives We do not agree win tue oid writer ~ho
saii thst a woman should only ieAVe home ;hree tnss
IN her u'e--to be cdr slehei married and buried.
Doctors tell US saat moro women break dowo mentally
and they also tel US snAt nus - Dseatso ey
have uOre carry anI have 70 carry tHea con.
tnuorsy. when nal. "S.s IS d1os, 10 ca" 9os =
wife never locks work III sleep ooles ana trns
doc, aot want occs-;onal holiday. Woo doe. ana
sne osnnOt ket IL At home The more quiet aud res.ul
care. II rot bar Ell TO hcf; honseSeeI 81 can no
more take vacation In ner home ibiaa ner1S'nt "a
c0amber HusosGds tGen, should occs. onaiy try aod
indnce tne wives az they are good oIes WI not %
%uer. snsy esn me- aad 90 TO slssp witaoa,
for .la Emo u a.