The Stark County Democrat. [volume] (Canton, Ohio) 1833-1912, 1886-02-04

hardest 10 got along WIN Inero hre pooplo
who stand up In prayer-meetngs and pray liko
angels who at homo arc unoompromisng and
cranky You may not have everything just
az You want n Sometimes II will be tho duty
Of the husband and sometimes OF tho wife 10
yiell; but both stand punotIliously on your
rights and You will have n Waterloo with no
Buchor coming up at nlghtfall TO decide tho
conflict
Never bO ashamed TO apologize whom you
have done wrong In domestic aiialra' Lot that
bo law Of your household The best thing l
ever heard Of my grandfather, whom never
saw, waa this; that once having unrighteouhly
robuked one OF his chill ron, no himself having
lost his patience, and perhaps having been mis-
informed OF the child'a dolnga, found outhismis-
take, and in the evening OF tho same day gath
cred oil his family together and said, "Now
have ono explanation TO make, and one thing To
Aay. Thomas, this morning rebuked you
very unfairly / am very sorry for IL / re-
buked you in the presence OF tho whole family,
ami now ask your forgiveness In their pres-
once" II must have takon some courage 10 do
Mat II was right waa II notS Noyor DO
ashamed TO apologize for domestic inaccuracy,
Finl out the points, what arc the weak points,
II may call them 80, OF your companion, and
then stand Aloof from thcm, Do not carry tho
FIRE OF your temper too near the gunpowder.
II tho wife DO easily frottod by disorder in tho
household lot the husband bO careful whore
ho throws his allppors, II tho husband como
home from the store with his patience all or
haustod do not lot tho wife unnecessarily cross
bis temper; but both stand up for your rights,
and ] will promise the everlasting sound Of tho
warwhpop, Your life viii be spent in making
up, and marriage will bo 10 you m unmiHgatod
Sureo, Cowpor SAYS
The klldost and tho hAppleat pair
WIN md occasion to forbear
And something, oyory day they live,
Topity, and perhapa forgive
Iadylsc, also, that you make your chief
pleasure circle around about that home II IL
unfortunate when II IN otherwise II tho hus-
band spend tho most Of his nights away from
home. OF choice and not OF nocopsIty, he is
not tho head Of tho housohodi ho Is only tho
cAahiOr II the wifo throw the cares Of tho
household In tho servants lap, and then spond
Ave nights Of the woek at tho opera or thoator
Aho may clotho her children with hatlna and
lacea and ribbons that would confounl q
French millmor, but they arc orphans Oh, II
Ia sad whom a child hasno ono 10 say iis prayers
10 because mother has gone OF TO the evening
entertainment In India they bring cmllron
and throw thom to the crocodloH, aud II seoma
very cruol but tho jaws Of New York and
Droollyn dissipation oswallowlng down more
little children to-day than all tho monsters that
ever orawlod upon tho banks OF the GangoA
! hayo seen tho sorrow OF o godless mother
on tho death OF q child ahO had neglected II
was not no much grief that Bho felt from tho
fact that tho child was dead on tho fact that Hho
had neglected IL shO saidi III had only
watched over and cared for the child, know
God would not have takon N" Tho toars camo
not II was dry bllStoring tompoaI-a
eoorchIng aimoom Of tho dosorL Whom aho
wrung hor hands II aoomod M II she would
twist her fingers from thor sookota; when sho
aoIaod hor hair II seemed As II she had In wild
terror graapod collug serpent with hor right
hand, No fearful comrades Of tho little ono
cano In and wopt over the ooiIlni nolghbore
camO and the moment they saw tho still faco
| Of tho child tho shower broke, No toars for
her God gives toan aa the summer rain 10 tho
parohod soul but In all tho universe tho drosl
and hottest tho most acorching and oonsum-
Ing thing IN mothors heart, II she has neg
leotcd hor child, whom once II Ia dead, God
may forgive her, but she will never forgive
horaolf Tho mcmory will sink tho oyoa doopor
into the sockets ndpinoh Mo face and Wilton
| tho hair, and cat up tho heart with yulluroa
that will not DO mtstod forever plungIng
dcopor their iron beaka Oh, you wanderers
from your homo, 60 back 10 your duty The
brightest flowers In all tho oarh arc those
which grow In the garden Of = Christian house.
hold clamboring oyor tho porch OF Christian
homo
ndylao You also 10 cultivate sympathy OF
occupation, Sir James hackintoah, ono Of The
most OmInont and elegant men that over liyod
whilo standing at tho very height Of hla emil
nonco, said 10 great company Of scholars
-My wlio mado mo-" The wifo ought TO bo The
advising partner In evory Arm, She ought u
bo Interested IN all the oaaoa and gains Of ahoT
and store bhe ought 10 have rIght-uho hai
q rght-to know everything II man gooi
into n business transaction that ho dare not tol
his wife Of, you may dopond that no IL on The
way oithor to bankruptcy or moral ruin. Thort
may bo somo things which ho docs not wish tC
trouble hu vito with but II ho dare not toll hol
ho 10 ON the way 10 discontinue On tho othoi
hand the husband ought 10 DO sympathetic
with the wife'a occupation, II Ia no oRay mat
tcr 10 keep house Many woman that ooul(
have endured mNrlyrdom "a we'll AZ Margaret
tho Scotch girl, has actually boon worn ont b,
houOo management There arc q Thousand
martyrs Of tho Mehon, II In very annoying
aftcr the yoxatona Of tho day around tho uloy,
or the table, or In tho nursery or parlor, Il
have your husband eayi "You know nothing
about trouhloj you ought 10 bo In tho utor,
half an hour" sympathy OF oOoupatlon i
tho huabend'a work cover him with tho SCOT o
the fufnOnoo or the odom Of leather or boaI
factories, lot not tho wfo DO oaaily dleguulo,
NJ the bogrlmod hands or unaayory aroma
Your gaina are ono, your inioroals arc ono
your loHnob are one, lay hold Of the work o
lifo with both banda Four handa 10 fight IN
bailloai four eyes 10 watch for tho danger, fou
shoulders on which 10 carry the trIAla II Ia
very sad thing whom Tho painter hOs wifo VIII
does not like picluroa II 10 very sad thin
for 4 pianist whom aho has n husband VIII
docs not liko music, II In a very m,
thing whom o wife In not suited unoaa hor hun
band has what In cAllod "gcntOol buanoaA
No far aa undcrpland "Routool buslnoep,"
10 something 10 which \ man goes NJ 10 o'clool
IN the morning. aud from which ho como
homo Al or . o'clock In tho aftor
noon, and gotta largo amount o
money for doing nothing That II
believe, a"gonloo buaInope," and thoro ha
boon many wife who haa made tho mistake O