Wheeling register. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1878-1935, 1886-02-01

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be in your household; let the
Divine blessing drop upon youE:every nope
and plan and expectation. Those young
people who begin with God end with heaV'
en- Have on your right hand the engage,
meut ring of Divine affection. If one OF
yon be a christian, let that one take a
Bible and read few verses IN the evening
time, and then kneel down and CON
mend yourself to him who setteth the Sol,
itary in families. Iwant to tell you that
the destroying angel passes BY without
touching or entering the door post sprlnk-
led with the blood of the everlasting Gov
enant. Why is it that in some families
they never get along, and in others they
always get along we'll? have watched
such cases and have come to CONCLUSION
ia the first instance nothing seemed to 20
pleasantly, and after while came deVsS'
ta,ion domestic disaster or estrangenent
Why?. They started wrong. In the other
case. although there were hardships and
trials, and some things that had to be ex.
plsined, still things went on pleasant until
tbe yery last. Why? They started right.
NV adYice to you ia your hoAte Is, 20
exercise to the very last possibility OF your
nature the law of
FoRBEARAECE.
PRAYERS in the household will not make up
for anything. Some of the best people IN
the world are the hardest to get along
with. There are people who stand up In
prayer.meetings aud pray like angels VINO
at home are uncompromising and cranky.
You NAV not have everything just as you
want il. Sometimes it will be the duty OF
the husband and sometimes OF the wife 10
Weld; but both stand punctiliously on your
rights, and you have Waterloo with no
Blucher coming up at nghtiall 10 decide
the conflict.
Never be ashamed to apologize when
you have done wrong in domestic affairs.
Let that be a Law of your household. The
best thing l ever heard Of my grandfather,
whom | never saw, was this: that
once having unrighteously rebuked one OF
his children, he himself having lost his
patience, aud, perhaps, having been mis-
informed of the child's doings, found out
mia mistake, and in the evening of the
same day gathered all his family together,
and said: Now, | have one explanation
to make, and one thing to say. Thomas,
this morning rebuked you very unfairly.
am very cory for it l rebuked you In
the presence of the whole family, and now
| ask your forgiveness 10 their presence:
II must have taken some courage to do
that. 1t was right, was 1t mott Never be
ashamed to apologize for domestic IN
accuracy. Find out the points; what
are the weak points, if may call them so.
of your companion, and then stand aloot
from them. Do not carry the fire OF your
temper too near the gunpowder. II the
wife he easily fieited by disorder in the
household, let the husband be Careful
where he throws his slippers. If the hus'
baud cone home trom the store with his
patience all exhausted, do not lie: the wi e
unnecessarily cross his temper; but both
staud up for your rights, aud will promise
the everlasting sound Of the warwhoop
Your life will be spent in making up,
and marriage will be to you an
unmitigsted curse. CowPer s"io'
,'The kiudcst aud the happiest pair
Will find occasion 10 !crheSr'
And something, eyory day they live.
To pity, and perhaps forgive
| advise, also, that you make
YOUR CHEF PLEASURE CIRCLE
around about that home. II 10 uOtortn-
nate when il is otherwise. If the husband
sDend the most of his nights away from
home, Of choice, and no; Of necessity,
he is not the head OF the houoe'
hold, he is only the cashier. II the wife
throw the cares Of the household in the
servants lap, aud then spends FIVE nigaY
of the week o. the opera, or theatre, she
NAV clothe her children with satins and
laces and ribbons that would contound
French rnilliner, but they are orphsns.
Oh, it is sad when child has nc che TO
saw the prayers to because mother has
gone of to the evening entertainment! In
India they bring children and throw them
TO the crocodiles, aud it seems very cruel;
but the jaws of New York and Brooklyn
dissipation are swallowing down more lit
tie children to-day than all the monsters
that ever crawled upon the banks Of ths
Gaugesl
] haye seen
THE SORROW or GODDESS MOTHER
on the death OF q child sbe had neglected
II was not so much griet that she felt from
the fact that the child Was dead as the fac
that she had neglected it. She said; 81
| had only watched over and cared for th'
child. l know God would not have tskeI
| it" The tears came not: it was o dry
blittering tempest-a seorchiug simeon o
the desert. When sha wrgng her hends, ]
se emed as if she would twist her hoger
! from their sockets; when she seized bel
hair, it seemed as if che bad, in wild terror
grssped coiling serpent with her llgh
hand. No tears Comrades OF the littl
one came in and wept over the coffin
neighbors cane in, and the momen
they saw the still face of To-
child, the shower broke. No tears for heE
God gives tears az the summer rain to n
psrc6ed soul; but in al TIE universe th
driest aud hottest, the most scorehipg an
consuming thing IS mothers heart fish
has neglected her child, when once it i
dead. God may forgive her, bat she wi
never forgive herself. The memory WI
sink tha syss deeper into the sockets. an
pinch the face, and whiten the hair, en-
eat I'D the heart With vultures that will nc
BE- satisfied, forever plunging deeper the
iron sesks. On, you wanderers lcom yor
home, 90 back to your duty The brighteI
flowers in all the earth are those Whic
grow In the garden Of q Christian hous
hold, clamberipg o7er the porch OF
Christian home.
advise you also 10
CULTIVATE SYMPATHY OF OCCUPArIOS.
Sir James Macintosh, one Of the mo
eminent and e!egsEt men tEet eyer live
I while standing at the very height OF b
eminence, said 10 o great company
scholars, my wife made ne" The wi
ought to be the advising partner in eve1
, frn. She ought TO be interested "
> the losses and gains Of s6ep and stor
She ought to have right-she has
: riaht-to know everything. If u man 90
r into business transaction that he dA
, not tell his vile of, You may depend tn
+; hs is on the way either 10 bankruptcy
/ moral ruin. There may be some thin