Democratic Northwest. [volume] (Napoleon, Ohio) 1869-1894, 1886-03-04
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trzctive after marriage n shs was befors mar
rage The reason that 90 often man ceases
70 love his wife is because the wife ceases 10
be lovAbie In many cases what elaboration Of
toilet before marriage and what recklessness Of
appearance after. Tho most disgusting thing
ON earth is . slAtiernly women. I mean .
woman who never combs her hair until she
goes out or looks Lille fright until somebody
Gala That . man married 70 one Of these
creatures stays at home as little % possible II
no wonder II isa wonder that man does not
60 on . whaling voyage Of three years, and Tn
leAky ship. Costly wardrobe is not required;
but, o woman, IL you are not willing, by all
that ingenuity Of refinement can effect to
make yourself attractive TO your husband, you
ought not TO complain IL he seek in other 30
ciety those pleasant surroundings which You
deny him
Again, charge you, never talk to others
about the frailties of your husband Somepeo-
pie have . way, in banter, Of elaborately de-
scribing to others the shortcomings or unhappy
eccentricities Of husband or wife Ali the
world will find out soon enough all the defects
OF your companion No need Of your adver-
Using them. Better initiate those women who,
having made mistakes in Alliance, always have
veil to hide imperfections and alleviatons of
conduct to mention. We must admit there are
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e.. trost .nd thon vo,, c., ,,o mon ,ho
,t,',. s;aa 80 tho arovo and SOW. 20 Iord 7
Ss.s, ' t' tho marital I secre. Thor lnowsst how
% ,Sa,, T Lon, II and thanl Thee that ths ~
,.ssa hss Come a. last Give mo some n,.co
-haro o.n s;t down and reat a,vb;le from tbe
horro,s 90 an en,hrntsd oortbIv alliance h.S
-. SooGn tha fuII y, ,,,,,ros ~ ho.vonn .na
a,.,.rs ell ho sont ont 10 Tho nsher ANGELS
s.,,;n~ aTaLo ,,;s Ab;oo;, r;ob+ IN II ~
.of.ost so., in the hos, room of tbe na,oce and
Iot twenty ~ tbe br;cbtest ANGELS wait an bar
for ths neyt tbousand yearsn
Further charge Won lot there be no outs;aa
;nterference with the coningal relation
Na;,her neigbbor nor confidential friend nor
hrother nor sister nor father nor mother have
,r;obt 10 come in here The marr;ed gossin will
come around and by the hour tell you how she
manages her husband You tell her plainly
that If she will attend to the affairs OF her
household you will attend to yours. What
damage some people do with their tongues!
Nature indicates that the tongue is dangerous
thing by the fact that it is shut in, first by
barricade of teeth and then by the door of the
lips. One nsidious talker can keep whole
neighborhood badly stirred up. The apostle
Peter excoriated these busybodies in other
peoples matters, and st Paul, In his letters to
the Thessalonians and to Timothy, gives them
. sharp dig and the good housewife will be ON
the lookout for them, and never return their
calls, and treat them with coldest frlgidlty.
For this reason better keep house as soon as
possible. Some people are oppose to them,
but thank God Tor what are called mats In
these cities. Ihey put separate nome WITHIN
the means OF nearly oil the population. In
your married relations you 90 not need any
advice Ii you and your husband have mot
skill enough to get along weu alone, with all
the advice you can import you Will get along
worse "nat you want tof your craft on tnis
voyage ls plenty OF sea room -
fcharoa vou also make vouraeH tha ;nt,,,i-
cant comnanion ~ vonr hnsband what with
Sbese floods of newsnanars and hooks there is
no excuse for the wife's Ignorance either about
the present or the past If Won have no mora
than half hour eyery day to yourself Won NAV
fill YOUR mind with entertaining and useful
knowledge Let the MERCHANTS wife read mn