Lancaster daily intelligencer. [volume] (Lancaster, Pa.) 1864-1928, 1886-11-27
bOns TRUTHS or LUFsRs.
The Care the Young Man sud His Girl Take TO
Look Well to Each Other.


Prom the PittsDUrg Di-patCl.
The young man, when he goes to call on
his lady love, puts on his best duds, makes
his mother or his sisters iy around and help
him 10 get himself up in the best form pOssi-
ble. He Jaws them, gets mad, slams things
around regardless of cOnsc quenCes, kicks The
wall because his shoe piEches, and finally
rushes out looking as cross as a teased ter
rier. He iOregOes drink or cigar for lear
OF their spUiling his breath, and loads his
handkerchief with the perfume best calcu-
lated to disguise or smother the faint of ci.
garette smoke. The young lady is expect
ing him, of course has had her hair up in
papers all day the afternoon has been spent
in getting ready tO receive him, and when
the parlor lights are burning she look very
angel. Had he seen her in the morning
with haudk erchiet tied around her head,
heard her complaints OF Indigestion and ner.
vous headaches, seen her s!Oysnly morning
wrappings and caught a few OF her TART y-eX.
pressed views on the conduct OF her mother
and the family in general, he would have
been in quandary as to which region the
angel belonged.
In the parlor all is smiles, tenderly lisped
phrases, melting glanCes and PrOtestatIOns
against all that il rude or dislgreeable and in
favor of that which Is gentle aud long suffer
ing. They deceive themselves rs well AZ
each other. Probably they DO not mean IT,,
but they do it. OF course, the ardent youth
who reads this will say it is not for him.
Those who have had their wings singed in
the delusive DlaZ3 are the ones who Will read
il with deepest interest and appreciate il
most They can only sigh and wonder why
some one did not say as much TO them vet
there is much satisfaction even in that sigh
il they are sufficiently philosophical 10 make
the best OF it, to keep the bright side out and
To peTsistently refuse to 20 behind the scene.
they may get along but If they give way TO
regrets take to drink or finding fault with
their mOLher-in law, their days Of happiness
are done.
Persons OF ardent dispositions, especially
young persons should be very careful not 10
allow themselves to be carried too fast or too
far by what they consider true love. II NAV
pan out nothing more enduring than infatua-
ton. The sensations are so similar at first
that an eN pert might be bothered Tor a while
10 determine which Is which, but time will
tell tho tale. Love remains bright alike
through sunshine and storm, and even times
cOrroding breath does not dim its lustre. On
the other hand infatuaton flashes and burns
with an intense, brilliant glare dimming
every other light, and paling the glories thai
have always been regarded az Respondent
AS months pass, however, the glare becomes
less and less intense, and finally tho place
where the fire was IL marked only by smol.
dering embers or unhappy lives.
There are times in the life OF every Young
man when he thinks his whole happiness,
us6luIHbSs anu bAlsltLCo llsell depends upon
marrying particular lady. lie IL in earnest
about it, although he may be ashamed OF
himself few years later. How fortunate II
happens TO prevent him giving
way to his matrimonial impulses, because he
is just as sure to be ashamed OF his Stiffness
married as single Ifyou can induce mar
ried folks to tell you the truth, the whole |
ruth and nothing but tho truth about their |
young days and their early love affairs, they |
Will all, with rare exceptions, tell OF sweet |
learts whom they regarded AS heaven. sent |
md that no amount OF reasoning would have |
convinced them that they could live without
heir constant company.
FIRST love Is all right II the lovers arc prop.
srly mated. The mere fondneas for each