Wheeling register. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1878-1935, 1886-02-22

tion2 Wonld my wife have to 60 out in
to the world to earn bread for herself and
our little lones2 Ny eyesight troubles me
how if my eyes should fsil2 My head gets
dizzy, hoN if l should drop under apo
plexy2 The high pressure Of business
life and mechanical life and agricultural
life is
HOME PRESSURE.
Some time ago a large London firm
decided that if any of their clerks
married ION a salary less than l50
pounds, that is $50 dollars year. be
should be discharged, the supposition being
that the temptation might be too great for
misrepresentation. The large majority Of
families in America live by utmost dint
Of economy, and to be honest and yet meet
ones family expenses is the appalling
question that turns the life of tens Of
thousands Of men into martyrdom. Let
the wife of.the overborne and exhausted
husband remember this, and do not Tag
him about that and say you might as well
have no husband, when the fact is he is
dying BY inches that the home may be
kept up.
charge also the wife to
KEEP HERSELF AS ATTRACTIVE AFTER MAR
RIAGE
as shs was before marriage. The reason
that 90 often man ceases to love his wife
is because the wife ceases to be lovsble In
many cases what elaboration OF toilet be-
fore marriage and what recklessness
of appearance after. The most
disgusting thing on earth ID
slatternly woman. | mean a woman
who never combs her hair until she goes
out, or looks like fright until somebody
Gala. That man married TO one OF these
creatures stays at home as little as possible
is no wonder. 1t is wonder that such a
man does not 60 on a whaling voyage Of
three years and in a leaky ship. Costly
wardrobe is not required; but, O woman
if you are not willing, by all that ingenuity
Of refinement can effect, to make yourself
attractive to your husband, you ought not
TO complain if he seek IN other society
those pleasant surroundings which you
deny him.
Again, charge you, never talk to others
about the frailties Of your husband. Some
people have a way, in banter, Of elaborate,
IL describing to others the SHORTCOMINGS or
unhappy eCCentricities Of a husband OF
wife. Ah, the world will find out soon
enough all the defects Of your companion.
No naad Of your advertising them Bet
tor initiate those women who, having
made n mistake in Alliance, always
have veil 10 hide impertectiols and ale
viations OF conduct to mention, We must
admit that there are rare cases where a
vile cannot live longer with her husband,
and his cruelties and outrages are the pre-
cursor of enforcement or separation. RGt
unit that day colhea, keep t2e awful secret
to ;ourselt. Keep it from every being IN
the universe, except the God TO whom you
do we'll to tell your trouble Trouble only
q few years at most and then you cen 20
up on the other side Of the grave and say
90 Lord, kept the marital secreE. Thou
knowest how we'll | kept ii, and thank
Thee that toe release he's coma. Give rae
some place where ! can sit down and rest
awhile !rom the horrors oi Ru embruted
earthly alliance. before | begin the tnlj
raptures OF heaven. And orders will be
sent out to the usher angels saying Take
this Abigail right up TO the sottest seat in
the best room OF the palace, and let twenty
J O. the brightest sugels wait on her tor the
next thousand years.
Further charge you
LET THERE De NO OUTSIDE iNTERFERENCt
with the conlugal relation. Neither neigh
bor or confidential friend, nor brother mol
sister, nor father nor mother have o right
10 come in here The married gossip will
come around and by the hour tell you
how she manages her husband. You tel
her plainly that if she would attend to the
affairs of her household you will attend to
yours What damage some people dc
With their tongues Nature indicates that
the tongue u dangerous thing pV TIE
fac, that it is shut in, frst by barricade
of teeth and then by the door Of the lips
One insiduous talker can keep a whole
ueichborhood badly stirred up. Tue Apos
tie Peter excoriated these busybodies in
another people matters, and st. Paul, IN
his letter to the Thesslonians and to limo
thy, gives them q sharp dig, ana the good
housewife will be on the lookout
for them and never return their calls and
treat them With coldest frigjdity. For this
reason better keep houSs IS soon ns posSl
bls Some people are opposed - them, but
thank God for what are called fate II
these cities. They put up separate hont
within the means ot nearly all the popuIa'
ton. In your married relations you do no
need anv advice. y you and Sonr husband
have not skill enough TO ge' along well
alone with all the advice you can import
You will get along worse. What YOU var
.or yoGr craft on thls voyage Is plenty o.
sea room
charge you 40,
MAKE YOURSELF THE INTELLIGENT CoNPA&
lyy OF lvJR HU,BAAR.
Wba, with these foods OF newspapers and
books there is no excuse for the wifes ig
norance either about the present or tn
past. II yod have no more thar
half hour eve-y day TO ,goHrse,
YOU meY cu Jour mind will
entertaining aud useful knowledge. lie
the merchants wife read up on ali mercan
tile questions and the mechanic 8 wife OF
all that pertains 10 bis style OF work, an'
the professional man wife on all tae lega
or medical or theological or political die
cussiors Of tho aay it is yeEY stupid 70
q man. alter E4rlng been ami ac;ig,
minds sll da,, 10 fad lis wife without IN
formation O. opiL;ona or anything
the vile knows nothing sboUt what is &C
o ing On in the world, after the tea honr
: passed, and the husAard has read tn
newspaper, be will have an engagemen
and must 20 and see man. Ia nih
csseS out o, tea whsn mar does 20. ats
a, hous in thC evening, Unless posltiv
Q 6utv calls him away, i, is because there
. nothing to stay for lie wonli rather tai
with his wife than any one else # she coui
tax as well.
i charge you, Ey sister. Il every say
J. make your home attractive. hav
not enough OF practical know
: edge ahou; house a1ornment TO kno
ius, what makes the differences, but here
I a. oErlsrt housa. containing all wealth
y bric.a. brac. and OF musical instrumen