The Stark County Democrat. [volume] (Canton, Ohio) 1833-1912, 1886-01-21

Gained In elegiea and ehhaya, B pounds and
hhillinga," Thon lao put what he had gained
by tho Lord Mayors death opposite 70 what no
il dead by is i8s, 6d1 Whom man Is as
hopelessly literary as that he ought 10 bo q
perpetual cebati his library, his laboratory
his books are all the companionahip NODDED,
In cod, some Of the mightleat men this world
ever saw have not patronized mAtrimony,
Oowper Pope Newton, bwift Loohe WAlpole,
0ibbon, Hume, Arbuihnot were aingle, Some
Of those marriage would have helped The
right kind of wifo would have cured C0wper'a
gloom, and given ~ Newton more practicable
iiy, and been u relief 10 Ioole'a oyertaaked
brain. A Christian wife might have converted
Hume and 0ibbon 10 belief In Christianity.
But Dean Swift did not deserve a wife, from
tho way In which no broke tho heart Of JAne
Waring first, an Esther johnson Afterward,
and last OF all AyanesaAS The great wit OF his
day, he was outwitted by his own orueltlea
am not right In urging you 10 sock tho unor-
ring wisdom OF God, and before you arc infAt-
uatedf Because most marriages arc NJ TO bo
mAde, oonvinoea uH that they arc diyinoly ar
ranged Almost every cradle has an affinity
toward some other oradla They may be on
the opposite aides OF tho earth, but ono child
gets out Of this cradle and another child goh
out Of that cradle and with their first steps
from tho straight path, going toward tho north
or south or east OF west 1hey may fall down,
but tho two Ariae facing each other, They arc
approaching all through infancy Tho one all
through tho years Of boyhood IL going 10 meet
tho ono who ID coming through all the years OF
grlhood 10 meet him. The decision OF parents
as 10 what ID best concerning them and tho
changes OF fortune may for time soom 10 ar
roat the two Jonrneyn but on they 70. 1hoy
ma laVa "A .tit nlhae nkay
mover have heard of o 4 other But tho two
pilgrims who started gl tho two cradles aro
nearing After eighteen, twenty or
thirty years the two come within sight Az tho
first glance they may fool dislike, and they
may alAokon their atopi yot s0mothinB that tho
world calls fate, and that religion calls proy-
dence, nrgoh them on and on. Thoy must
meet They come near enough TO JON hands
In social acquaintance, aftor q whil0 10 Join
han In friendship, after a whilo to Join
heArtA Tho delegate from tllo one cradle
comes up the east side OF tho church with hor
father, The delegate from tho other cradle
comes up tho west aisle OF tho church, Tho
two long journeys end NJ tho anowdrift OF tho
bridal ven. The two chAua made ont Of mary
years are forged together by the golden III (
which the groom puts upon tho third finger OF
tho left hand, One on Garth, may thoy
bo ono In hoaY0n
But there arc 80 many exceptions 10 tho gon-
orAl rule OF natural affinity that only those aro
safe who pray for heavenly hand TO lead
them, Because thoy depended on themselves
and not on God thoro arc Thousands OF women
every yoar going 10 tho slaughter In India
women leap on the funeral pyro Of dead hus-
band We have woreo spectacle than that In
Amorioa-womon innumOrablo oaping on tho
funoral. pyre OF living husband
Avoid oil proposed alliances through news
all .As.la Ma.. ...l -.
run, have answered such advertisements, and
have boon lod on from stop 10 stop 10 oatas-
tropho Infinite, All tho mon who writo such
advertisements aro villains and lopora--all,
without single exception, All ALI Do you
answer thom Just for funY will toll you
safer aud healthier fun. Thrust your hand
through tho oago at q monagorie and stroke tho
back Of q cobra from tho East Indies Put
y0ur head In tho mouth Of a Numldian lion 10
500 II ho will bite Take gassful OF paris
groen mixed with some delightful honhano,
Those arc safer and healthier fun than an
eworing howap0por advertisements for wife
NY advice ia' Marry man who Ia fortune
IN himself, IloueoH lands, an largo inherit
anco arc well enough hut tho wheel OF fortune
turns no rapidly that through some Investment
all these ~ few y0ara may DO gone, There
are some thingH, however, That aro perpetual
foluuo-good mann0re gonialty ofeoul, kind
hVHhi Woihkuhuo, hIhlpAWy, opuihKoi pufHo-
v0ranch, industry and whoO hoirlodncea
Marry anoh ono aud you have married for.
tune whothor ho have an incomo now Of sM-
900 q yoar or an income OF $500 A bank ID
secured according 10 w capital stock, and not
10 bo judged by the dopoaita for q day or
week, man Ia rich according 10 his giorling
qualities, and not according 10 tho yaoillaion
OF circumstances, which may leave with him
largo amount Of resources to-day aud withdraw
Nl.t.. L.. - l..
but money, ho In poor indeed II o man have
upright character, ho Ia rich. Property may
como and go ho In independent OF tho markois
Nothing oen buy him OUT nothing oan soil him
out H0 may havo moro money ono year
than another but his boitor fortunes mover
yaoillhlo
Yot do not expect 10 lnd perfect man II
you ilnd ono without any faults, incapable OF
mistakoa, mover having guessed wrongly, his
patience n6Sor having boon porturbod immao-
uato IN upoeoh, In tompor, In habits, do not
auwindlc What would You do with q perfect
man who ar0 not perfect youracltY And how
dare yon hitch your importation fast on such
supernatural oxcol0ncOY What a companion
you would mako for IN angoll In other
words, thofo are no p0rfoct mon, 1hOrO mover
was but ono porfool pair, and thoy alippod
down tho banlta OF Paradise together We oc-
cauionally fnd man who aaya no never SIMS
We know ho lea whom no says IL wo have
had financial doalingo with two or three pOr-
foot mon, and thoy cheated us wofully DO
not therefore, look for Nh immaculate huo-
band, for you will not And him.
was reading OF bridal reception, Tho
young man had brought homo the choice OF
his hoart In hor elaborate and oxauiaito ap-
parol Aa aho stood In The gay drawing room,
and am no gay group, tho young mans eyes
iillo0 with loarr OF JOY ~ ho thought that nho
was his, Years passed by and they stood In
the same parlor on another foUiAl OCCASION
She wore llo aamo droes, for business had not
oponod ~ brightly to tho young husband aa no
expected, aud ho had n0y0r boon ahlo 10 pur-
ohAao for her anothordrOaa llor face waanotaA
bright aud einooth ae II had boon years boforo,
and carow0rn look had maa0 ila algnaturO on
hor oountonanco Aa the husband looked NJ
hor ho aaw tho difference between this occasion
aud tho former, and ho wont over whore she
rat ani said "Nou rornombor the tmo whom
wo woro hero before You have tho aamo drosa
on. circumstances have somewhat changed,
but You look 10 mo far more beautiful than you
did thOn," There In such n thing M cOnIugnl
ildolity aud many Of you know II In your own
homoa
But aftor Ol the good adyloo wo may gIyo
you, we oomo back 10 tho golden pillar from
which we ulartod-iho tremendous truth that
w uno nN hOu NNN Kuluu you III hhloIY hnOut
this mattor, that may docdo your happiness
for two worlds, this and tlio noxt 40, my
elnlor, | pul your case whore Naomi put that
OF Ruth aud Orpah whom she said "lho Lord
grant yOu that 80 may fnd roet oaoh OF you In
tho h0ueo OF her husband
imagine the hour for which you plodgod
your trOth has arrived Thoro IL much morry-
making among your young friondaj but thoro
II an undortono OF sadness In MI tho house
Your choice may have boon tho gladdost and
tho boet aud the Joy of tho whole round Of rela.
tyoe, but whom young oaglot In about " leave
the old most and Ia preparing TO put out into
sunshine aud storm for taolf n foefB ita wings
tomblo somewhat No ehe hae good cry bo.
fore lowing homo, and NJ The marriage father
and mothor always cry, or fo, liko n II you
think Y Ia oaay 10 givo up daughter In mar
ringe though II bo with brightest prospects,
You viii think differently whom tho day comoa
no have oil along watched hor from infancy 10
girlhood, and from glrlhood 10 womanhooi,
etudoua OF hor welfare, hor elightoat illnoss
an anxiety, and hor presonce In your homo mn
ovor-inoreaHlng 10y, aud th0n have hor no