Oxford Democrat. [volume] (Paris, Me.) 1833-1933, 1885-03-03

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murh occupied With tfying - solve TIE
nrobIsm How o. kcsp warm can
never seem to state = ncs 80 &c in oaf
hon makrfs Coiamn, bat ny con miuila-
tons are usually suggrstci ~ some AZ
CO have Previously rrai thsfs Lhe
.ksl.ton in nv closet L.. mat ! am not
ofirlual. at deeply mpnfn ny misi','
tsor. nevertheless suc,umn q Ia lneFl'
tahic aui ssy q isw words Apoui maA'ns
calls 49,
Now I spsak from eHpcficnoe on MS
subject. sui Nho oughi % knoN more
about lt than minister's Wives llt vac
Ny another grievance have i that ~
sliss lacking orig ualiy, | lark he1iiN /,
An nsvsr iniroisced a. NJ H1Hor, bat
,iss,.a A. "ouf mia sisi's wife ! some
time. think might a. vel 1o uhmslrssl ID
srf know the right kini ~ calls social
cheer, ones. 81 a. much gnui Al hme- |.
. Snrtnr's prescription. A. an Illustration
ofthls vii glfea littIo sNprficnce OF
min. st week was tf'.ctsd Win
..v,fs bronchial cold. Ari iil not fcel
Al. q leave thc house boz never lct
f,lt slck Eut that there was some ififni
sirkef. whom duty required me o. Nisit
SOL startrd f1fta. iosni her IN h,h.
uIth a cola slmlltr - mlnr, accompanied
Nth f.vrf. Ilff voice vas very faint a.
~. t,ii mi. her tfoabic. kycD tine she
e,sshet 1 co1ghed sni The fainter hff
,oi-s was The weaker mine sounded 80
TOLL me / must BE- very careful, ani ihh
oosht q see she doctor that hcf sickness
brgan ths same a. mine that there Wa
,S,,. danger ofA cold leading % cot.
sumption that there WAS a deal % pnea'
monia In The place. AMI several other
equally cheerful pieces of iniofmaaou.
f,lt sicksf Al each suggestion. AZ ltsi
rose % q, saying ! tfoughi 70 Noali p,
better f1r me 81 10 home, 20 % Del AMI
Doctor myself A. I len her house nay
.pIrits wrrc a. far belor zero A. the mef'
eafv wAs on Condemns day. AMI alfcaiy
lmaeinsi mysclfA PREY % consumption. !
h,d pot gone far when beard that lady
lately moved here. was IN. Win the
sane ep.iemic. ani concluded 70 dfop lu
fgs,a minute % iuqlirc for her she va
roushinr 40 violently inside The door that
-. could not AZ frst open 10, and ~.
similarly occupied GA nc olt-lis Anl
could u0i have spoken N she had. flnAll
.he opened The door, male IN oilslnai re-
mafk, "llow % yoa a., y ben h,f emo
ton agaln Oyercame her, ! replied u an
.lck. thank you. ihsfc my emotous 20,
the better ~ me wheu peace ~, fesior'h
80 apologifsd Tor the condition OF her
sittlns noon. All again co1ghci l'ng Ani
h.ri. 1 Informed her that ny siuing.roon
had cot % such pass that bal either
got ID sweep n. or stay out doors 10 pre-
vent callers then I was sictei with Sio-
lent coaghing spell How long this 10.
tsrss,lng iucit would have couilnrci, |
cannot -ay, for AZ this inuciure mutual
friend came In ant We al became deeply
Interested p.Auuing an entertainment Tor
the following week We discussed one
pl.u AMI then another, soon passing 10
other mutual Interests, aud bcgsn - ieci
a. "chlppef" a. pOsslnlei ] hated 10 20
away. ana When / nnaily dii get cot OF
aoof. 4. dashed over me thst bal DOT
once coughsd since that friend entered the
room. and I ielt ny best youth return; so
1 postponed bclng "slckin.0ei I'll more
convenient season.
have also word 10 say on The length
Of calls. IfI an not taking TOO much space
And will again illustrate Ono lady calls
here. dressed In her beet, Its on The edge
OF chair few minutes, add rises 10 20,
saving she has several other calls - make
during the Afternoon. | always fee A. II
I were one Of many doses Of medicine,
which mus; be swallowed 10 certain nun
Der OF hourr, and can Imagine her saying
glssfully u herself zone more OF my
mind" About the other extreme, j. lady
who l. LENGTHY la her calls when see her
I prepare for a Siege aud take comfort
able chair. Two hours Il nild for her, and
although she II entertaining aud agree
able. often think there Is almost too much
soclabillty a. regards time. ] cannot say
feel very cordial toward the Young lady
who comes smiling 10, always making The
same remark. 1T Is 80 pleasant dli not
know A. should nnd you 10, and her
tone Implies she rather hoped she should
not. was ~ a friends lately when she
called there and made the same remark,
80 am not alone In my misery on her be-
half Notwithstanding few such shady
experiences, can sincerely say that a.
rule. the calls I receive aud those make,
are sunny ant heartily enjoy them aud
think they are conducive OF much good
ani advise soms OF you when yoa are
tired bodily or feel low spirited, 10 drop IN
Al some cheerful neighbors don't tell her
All your troubles or seek 10 learn hers, out
rather take the bright side % receive and
give encouragemcnt; and think you VIII
not regret the time thus spent. liosoR.
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