Savannah morning news. [volume] (Savannah) 1868-1887, 1885-07-11

after haYuS made him miserable iar tAlf-
y years. Wesley survived her, living 70
the ripe age Of IS. Kis domestic intellect
ties are set forth in detail IN the following
| curious letter hitherto unpublished;
"COLFFoRD. Oct. - 1889. IlrgT Molly:
viii tell you simply aud plainly the
{ things web. | dislike. II You remove
/ them. we'll. II not, am but where was
/ dialike your showing any Que INV letters
and private papers without my l'hNe.
/ This never did any Good yet. either - YOU
/ or me, or any one. II uu!y sharpeus and
/ embitters your own spirit Ana the same
/ Eject II naturally has upon Others. the
same it would have upon me, uut that
1 by the Grace Of Cod do not thiuh oi x.
/ Ii can DO no good II can never bring me
/ nearer. tho 20 may drive me further oil. Ana
should sou 90 as Won often threaten me.
then the matter is over. I know what
have tn 90. In all this you are lighting
against yourself. You arc frustrating
your own purpose, II you want me to love
YOU. You take just toe wrong way. No
one ever was f.r-ci 90 love another. II
cannot be. Love can only Doe non 10y
s3rHesN: Foul Means avail nothing. But
you say, 4 have tried Fair Means and
they d'd not succeed II tHcy do not
none Will. Then you have only 10 say,
This Evil is OF the Lord: l am Clay III
his Hand
~ dislike, >, Not having the Command
of nv own House; not h"iug at liberty 10
invite even my nearest Relations, so much
As 20 drink Dish Of Tea without dis
| obligiDg Y9u. l dislike, 3, The being my
self Prisoner in my own House; thc
having my Chamber door watched con
tlnuallv so that no Person can 20 in or
/ out but such as have your Good Leave.
dislike, (, The being but a prisoner at
large, even when 20 abroad, inasmuch
as you are highly dlsgusted, If do not give
you 40 a cCount UfeYerY Place 20 To and
every Person with whom converse.
dislike ., The not being safe in my own
House. NV House il not my Castle.
cannot call even my Study, even my
Bureau, my own. They are liable TO be
pluudered every day. You say, Il plum
der YOU of nothing but papers, am not
sure Of that. How is il possible should?
! miss money, too, and he that " III steal
Pin will steal Pound. Bat were II so. n
Scholars Papers are his treasure; My
journal in particular. But I took only
such Papers as relate 10 Sarah Ryan
ana Sarah Crosby That is not
tue:-What are Mr.. Landey's Letters
10 them? Besides, YOU have taken
Parts Of my journal which relate 70
neither one nor the Other. | dislike, g.
Your Treatment Of my Servants Though
indeed they are not properly Mime. You
do all that in you lies, 10 make their Lives
a Burden to them. You brow-heat,
harrass, rate them like Dogs, make Thorn
afraid TO speak to me. You treat them
with such Hautiness, Storness. SOurness,
Surliness, Immature as never were known
in any house Of mine for near a dozen
years. You forget even GO0d-breeding,
and use such coarse language as belts
none but IA Fishwife.
81 dislike, 7, Your talking against me
behind my back, and that every day and
almost every hour Of the day; making my
faults (real or supposed the standing
Topic OF your conversation. / dislike, S,
your slaudering me, laying to my charge
things which you know are false. Such
are { to 20 but few days back J, THAT ]
beat y0u,' Which you told james Burgess.
That | rode to kingswOod with Sarah
Ryan which YOU told Sara Rigby; and
that | required you, whom we were first
married, never 10 sit In my presence
without my leave, which you told Mrs.
Lee, Mrs. Fry and several others, and
stood 10 it before my face. ! dislike, 9,
your common custom of saying things
not true. To instance only the two or
three particulars. You told Mr.. Ireland
MIR Vanilla learned Spanish in a fort
night You told Mr.. Fry Mrs. Ellison
was the author OF as to my intrigue IN
Georgia. You told Mrs. Ellison You
never said any such thing; you never
charged her with it, You also told her,
That had laid plot to serve you as
Susannah was served by the two elders.'
/ dislike, 10, your extreme Unreasonable
bitterness to all who endeavor TO defend
my character as my brother. Joseph
Jones, Clayton Carlhy), breaking out
even into foul, unmannerly language, such
as ought not to detile a gentlewOman's
lips II she did not believe one word of the
Bible.
"And now Molly, what would anyone
advise you TO, that has a real Concern for
your Happinessf Certainly, l. To
show, read, touch those Letters no more;
IL you did not restore them TO their proper
owner: ,. 70 allow me the command Of
my own House, with free leave to invite
thither whom L please; 3, To allow me
my Liberty there that any one who will
may come TO me without Let or Hin
drance: 4. Toilet me go where | please,
and 10 whom please, without giving an
Account to any: ., To assure me, you
will take no more of my Papers, nor any
thing Of mine, without my Consent: 6,
To treat all the servants where
you are whether you like them or no
with Courtesy and Humanity. and TO
speak Of you speak at alb 10 them, as
well as Others, with Good nature, and
good manners. Z, To speak no evil Of me
behind my back; 5, Never to accuse me
falsely: 8, To be extremely cautious Of
saying anything that is not strictly true,
both rs TO the Matter and Manner, and,
10, To avoid all Bitterness Of Expression,
till you can avoid all Bitterness of Spirit.
These are the Adyices, which | now
give you IN tue Fear OF God, and "a tender
Love 60 Your soul. Nor can | give you "a
Stronger Proof that l am. your affection
ate husband, JouN WESLEY"