Wheeling Sunday register. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1882-1934, 1885-03-29
A RAINY JUNE.
BY OCIDA.
Original

My poor little dear, are you already De.
ginning to be miserable about what people
: will think? Then, indeed, your days of joy
are numbered. If were TO write to you
=, City times | could only repeat what | have
already written You are not wise, and
vol are doing everything you ought
not TO do. Of two people who are
0, married, there is always one who has the
', delusion that he or she is necessary and
n, delightful to the life of the other. The
: other generally thinks Just the contrary
b, The result is not peace. This gay, charm.
le ing handsome son Of Rome has become
&c your entire world, but don't suppose for a
moment, my child, that you will ever be his
1t is not in reason, not in nature that you
l. should be- II you have the intelligence
a the tac., and the torbearancs required, YOU
"a may become his friend aud counsellor,
out fear you will never have
:. these. You fret, you weep. and under
NJ stand nothing OF the masculine tempera-
hi ment i see snakes, as the Americans 90
NJ serve, and you will not have either the cool
ness or the wisdom required TO scotch 8
- snake, much less to kill it, once for all, my
, poor pet, go cheerfully to Paris. Trouville,
and ell the pleasure places in the world.
Perfect enjoyment if you feel it not; and
IN try to rember. beyond everything, that at
IL lection is not to be retsiued or revived BY
either correction or lameutatIon. 0uce
dead, it is not TO be awakened by all the
- Grooming OF its mouruer Il is 8 corpse,
4. M,-.1e I F,s1 30, hryr
i'm you could expect young Italian
:, who has all the habits of the
- great world and the memories OF his vie de
b Sarcou, to be cheerful or coutented in wet
70 June in an isolated English country house
"a with nobody to look at but yourself. Be
lieve me. nv dear child, it is the inOrdinate
vanity OF q woman, which makes her imsg-
-, inc that she can be sufficient for her hus-
band. Nothing but vanity. The Cleverer
III a woman is the more fully she recognizes
I'd her own iusuiiciency for the amusement Of
~ = man, and the more carefully (if she be
=, wise) does she take care that this deficiency
). in her shall never be forced upon his oOSer.
7" valion. Now, if you shnt man up with
81 sou in country house with the
en- rain raining every day, as in Long,
lie fellows poem, you DO torce it upon
him most conspicuously. l' you were
pe not his wife daressy he would not
it tire Of you, and be might even prefer gray
vi sky to blue one. But a. his wits-oh,
i,s my dear, why, Why don't you try aud under
stand what a terrible penslty-weight you
carry in the race? Write and tell me all
about it. | shall be anxious. | am so
&c afraid, my sweet little sister, that you think
CO love is all moonlight and kisses, and forget
ss that there are clouds in the sky and quar-.
m, rels on earth. May Heaven save you from
= both p. S.-Do remember that this same
love requires Just as delicate handling as a
81 cobweb does. IL rough touch
re breaks the cobweb, all the artists in the
wlworld can't mend it. There is truth
for you. If you prevent his going to Paris
now. he will go in six months time and
perhaps he will go without you. Perhaps
y ne would be happier at Lsaciano than a.
AZ Coombe, and be would have all his own
!, people, but he would want the petits thea
tres all the same. You are not wise; N
poor pet; you should make him feel tina,
81 you are one with his pleasures, not thai yor
stand bis pleasures are enemies. But 1t is no
:, use to instill wisdom into you. you are very
young. and very much in love. You look
on all the natural distractions which he in
Cines to, as so many rivals. So they may
De, but we don't beat our rivals by abusing
in,hem. The really wise way is to tacitly
WshOw that We can be more attractive than
tt,hey; II we cannot be SO, We may sulk or
sigh rs We will. we shall be vsnquished By
them. You will think me very preachy.
preachy, and, perhaps, You will throw me
IN the ire unread; bot | must say Just this
Smuch more. dear, you are in love with
Move but underneath Love there is real
guan, and real men are far from ideal crea-
gtures Now, IL is the real man that Won
slwsnt to consider, to humor, TO study. II
o'the real man be pleased, Love will take care
Of himself; whereas, If you bore the real
man, Love will fly away. If you had been
GWise. my poor pet, repeat, you would have
gfOund nothing so delightful as Jude aud
cChaumont, and you would have declared
What the asphalte excelied all the Alps in
othe world. He does no. love YOU less because
be wants to be dams lie movement, to hear
what other men are saying aud to smoke
ahis cigar amongst his fellow creatures.
il
from the DuchesSs deli Auuila Fulra,
Hotel des Roches Noires, Trouville,
France, to the Principe De San Zenoue,
= Coombe BysSet Luton, Beds, England,
4 Poor flower, in your box of wet moss,
Cwbat has become Of you? Are you dead,
and dried in your wife hortus siccus? She
would be quite sure Of YOU then, aud dare
say, much happier than if you were set
PfOrth in ANYBODY elSe's bouquet. try in
vain to imagine you in that perfectly
I!Proper miheu; IS that not correct English,
hpeTfectly proper Will you be dreadtully
cchanged when one sees you sgain2 There
is a French proverb which says that the years
of Joy count double The DAYS
of ennui certainly count for years.
aand give Us grey hairs before We are Eve
Rnd-twenty. But you know ! cannot pity
l.you. You would marry an English girl be
srsuse she looked pretty slipping her tea I
gold you beforehand that you would be
miserable with her. once shut mp ia the
country. The episode of .Toniello is e.
chanting What people!-to put him in
sprison for little bit of ehissSo like that!
Nou should never have taken his
bright eyes and his mandolne to
chat doleiul and damp land of pre-
aisisus. What will they do with him?
and what can you do without him2 The
Weather here is admirable. There are num-
otrs of people one knows II is really Vecy
amusing. j go and dance every night. and
chen we play-uSually 'bse' or roulette
Every body is very merry Veal talk often
bfyou, and say the De Protundis over you,