The farmer and mechanic. [volume] (Raleigh, N.C.) 1877-1885, 1885-04-29
HOW TO BEHAVE IN SOCIETY.


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I~afro3ueh5a bg Note-The greatest
care should be used ia Introducing peo
rIe fn This way. tar 5f you are not thor
/ auahly acquainted with both parties. and
confident that such introduction Mi ~
( agreeable To the parties chiefly interest
ed. trouble may ensue. which Val mahe
/ Won blame Yourself, and refuse parties
/ Who are really worthy Of such q iay9E.
/ Ii must ALWAYS be remembered that the
uer-0n to whom saeA a note j. directed.
( very often placed id an awkward po-
sition BY said note. and all such eLrcum-
stances should be taken into canaldera-
/ ton before subscribing your name - i
well meaning act Of friends hip When
a note OF this description i gwen 10 q
gentleman introducing him to a lady. i
/ would be better to leave II, enclosed III
another giving the address Of the gentle
man. and then the lady, II suItng her,
ought to send him word what time II VIII
be most convenient for him to call. II
a call is made, an invitation to dinner
| dinner ought to be rendered before his
departure.
it is to lee regretted that letters Of m
~tLouUGItou ar W. -
authors. and Inconvenience or mortld-
| cation TO the introduced.
J.. letter Of introduction should be en-
closed in an envelope and left unsealed,
If YOU have q letter Of Of introduction
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kECoGNlTIJNS y SALUTATIoN~.
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- G'Pt a1fnta tLa ;nforiar grnot
an?u'o' ~ "asionau1 ,ra,ronf tbo
t1I'te "I"3 ,"a,IatiaJn
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ttn.+ ,,Io.s vn,, > yar,, intimate The
roo : arc. Isl 9 i The superior: %.
if 4ou bow to a lady first, b may not
choose to acknowledge you, and lherel IS
no remedy butt ste bows to you-you,
as a gentleman, cannot cut Ter.
In recognizing a lady IN the street,
you viii not tail TO RAISE your hat.
If you meet a lady IN the street, a
offer your hand, do not persist III With
drawing your glove, if there IS any dIftl-
Guilty in so doing.
On meeting a lady in the street do
not detain her, but walk by her side du-
ring the communication you Will OF
course raise your hat on bidding her
adieu, which should be at the corner Of
the street.
Ii you speak for ashort time to a lady
in the open air. intending to leave her
dirccttg, remain uncovered, unless she
desires YOU to put on our hat.
If a lady with whom you are walking
should be bowed to. you viii return
the salute; this, however, will not
warrant recognition Of the person when
the lady is not present. Use that hand
which is the most distant from the per-
son saluted if on the RIGHT hand, and
rice rersa.
nRree AMI FASHION roR LANES
.
II plalheSI dLeSs = always tae liloSt
stmteel, "lp d lauS Mio HlGoeeo pIahnIS
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arr,ifefo 'nf Jroc1s
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as vhon Sho l. . G,os. i = @ood 800
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