The Republican. [volume] (Oakland, Md.) 1877-current, 1885-08-01

the victim of a suspicious nature that
magnifies m0lehills into mountains, or
of mawkish sentimentality that dis
Germs in the dear departed-rendered
doubly dear and sacred by death-vir-
tues that would be impossible to any
inhabitant of this world, Poor moth
erless little creaturer' Sweet, for
saken darling" "LOvelv innocent"
these words-uttered in every note of
the gamut of svmpathy--form the con-
slant refrain of the tune the child hears
early and late, and it is no wonder that
she ere long comes to regard herself as
the most forlOrn and ill-treated of
human beings. Thus early schooled in
self-pity, in distrust and hatred, she is
indeed an object of cOmmiseration.
For the wiSeSt reasons the step-mOther
denies the child some wOnted yet harm
full indulgence, and thereby rouses a
revolt among the whole circle of spies
and meddlers. Their manner declares
to the object of their jealous care, even
though words be wanting, that this
woman, who has thrust herself into the
own mothers place, takes malicious
delight in crossing her, and grudges her
even the most harmless pleasure.
How is this young creature to believe
in one whom all around her diStrust!
How, in her ineXperience, can she be
expected to obey that golden rule OF
love even to one who desptefully uses
and persecutcs her?
Now comes the Christmas and fairy
story books, with their gaily-colored
,inttIras Z, rpptir,,, what al III, would
SAYS about step-mothcrs. These stories
and illustrations are of all grades, from
that of the Step-mOthcr who clothes her
self and her own daughters in purple
and fine linen and fares sumptuOuslv
every day, while the little step-child
occupies a sort of Cinderella's place in
the household, to that GROWING atrOci-
ty of Il Step-mothcr, who murdered
her little Step-son and set his heart,
nicely cooked and placed in a daintily
covered dish, before his own father!
Credulity is the leading trait of early
youth. To the child, printed books and
painted pictures never lie. This child
fairly groans under the weight of SC
much cumulative evidence against step.
mothers, and learns to doubt at an age
whose supreme happiness is unqucstiou.
ING faith; TO hate when the most beau.
tifui privilege of the human heart is to
love.
This poisoning of the very sources Of
the chIld's love and trust must needs
react upon the step mother The no.
blcSt woman is still human. The Do
najdes of the old Greek myth. doomed
through all eternity to attempt to fill
bottOmless caSk with water, were as
signed no more hopeless task than that
of the unloycd Step-mothcr.
The strongest sense of duty, the most
unseliish magnanimity, are likely. in
the long run, to succumb to ingratitude
To give ont love, the heart must receive
love. The stream not rcplcnishcd
from n living fountain soon runs dry.
The kindest and most atlectionate nature
grows unsympathetic if it meet only in
difference, and a sighted affection
often changes into dislike and even
hatred
The wicked step-mothcrs of the story
books and of the popular Imagination
have now and then found their counter
part in real life, but in only exceptional
cases. The care of children, even il
not ones own, tends to call out the
best, rather than the worst, traits OF
womanly character.
Many a woman, in taking upon her
self the Office of step-mother, seeks to
kindle on the altar of deserted temple
the holy flame of new affection and
reverence. She sets for herself the high
task of rc-crcating a domestic hearth in
the midst of loneliness and desolation;
OF being a true mother to children who
have suffered that supreme earth "
the loss of an own mother
She gives to this work the best years.
the best energies of her life. only to find
the result eStrangemcnt, perhaps
hatred. This state of things. dcplorable
as it is for her, is unutterably more so
for the step-children. who are now
forming characters for life, who muslin
after years look back upon childhood
which should have been to them "a
moment of God, " rs to period of I'M
rest, discomfort and bitterness. Silent,
influences have been at work
undermining the happiness of the home
which might have been an Eden, but
which has become desert.
Who is to blame for all this? The
common verdict of society. constituting
itself both Judge and jury. would con-
denim the step-mother, while the father
and the stcp-children would be pro-
nuunced innocent. In the step-mother
all family sins find convenient scape-
goat. We contend that while all these
three parties may be at fault, the
burden of guilt rests with outside peo-
pie, with those influences of which we
have spoken which come from without
the home.
Let the woman who Is not prepared
to steel her heart against the steady as
Sault OF outside enemies, who is not con-
iident of her power to conquer by love
and good works the foes that NAV arise
in that new household. remain far from
the home where bereaved husband be-
walls his loneliness, and where chill
drcn, every one, most likely, an angelic
being in his lovc-blinded eyes, await a
step-mOthcr.
If she feels within herself the spirit of
both hero and martyr, she may venture
to assume this cross, hoping for the
crown that in the end awaits faithful
endcayOr and pious sacrifice. 1t may
be given to her to perform that miracle
possible but to few stcp-mothcrs-t
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