St. Tammany farmer. [volume] (Covington, La.) 1874-current, 1884-04-26
STRANGE FASHIONS.

1HcEc are very NldUN eAcclleul Ted-
sons why the Chinese parent regards his
son with greater affection than he be-
slows upon his daughter, some Of which
Twill here state.
In the first place the sons invariably
inherit the surname of the father. per-
petuating the existence of his family,
for one generation at least.
Secondly, they assume the RESPONSE
bilities of tine father, including his debts
and State crimes; and
Thirdly. whatever honors the son
may achieve by reason of his acquire
ments. or otherwise, are accredited to
his sire.
For instance. if 4 SON obtains promo
ton to State honOrs. n suitable honor or
State title is accordingly conferred by
the Emperor upon the father, as re-
ward for his labor in bringing his son
to the attainment of such a station of
honor and usefulness.
Finally, under no consideration are
sons permitted to seek their own pleas
ure without first making glad the hearts
of their parents, with tender solicitude
no less marked than was that of Their
parents toward them, while yet they
We're young and helpless.
These are the cardinal principles rel
ative to lilial duty embodied in the text
books of all Chinese schools from those
of the primary grade to those from
which the advanced scholar graduates,
and is promoted to such position as
his attainments in Confucian doctrines
entitle him. This position is decided
upon in the .Halls of Competitive Ex-
aminationf' held every three years in
each county. and every ten years in the
capitol, where the highest honors are
conferred upon him who can most fully
expound the doctrines of that great
teacher. Therefore, when son
is born the Chinese parents make
great demonstrations of joys wheth-
er it be the seventh or the
SEVENTEEN son it matters not, for on the
| principle that one can not possibly have
too much of good thing. there can
never be too many sons in a Chinaman' s
| family.
1t is, however, possible to have too
many daughters; why such state OF
things exists l will endeavor to explain.
First. then. at q proper age girls in
variably change their names and be-
come members OF strange family,
owning no allegiance to those who
reared them, hOr are they obliged or
required to reluite their parents in any
manner whatever for the care and ex-
Pense incident to their support from in
fancy to maturity. Consequently all
this cost and trouble, and it is no incon-
siderable item, is dead loss to their
tn lor
family of girls is to be doomed TO a life
of labor from which not even the least
return may reasonably be expected. 1t
is frequently the ease that parents ut
terly lose 81 ght and knowledge of the
whereabouts of their daughters, and
likewise daughters of their parents; for
by the common laws of China the daugh-
ter is obliged to serve and render obcdi-
ence to the parents of her husband solely.
:She must not have her affections divid-
ed" After she is married all RESPONSE
bility relative to her own father and
mother forever ceases. Several instances
have come under my personal observa-
ton where daughters who were living in
afiiuence with their husbands have
allowed their aged parents to
beg and finally to perish for want
of proper food. They did not
trouble themselves to render such as
sistance as would have prolonged the
lives of their parents, although to have
done SO would have made them none
the poorer. Should son allow such a
thing to occur, the public as well as the
authorities would take cognizance of
the matter at once, and there would be
visited upon such an ungrateful son n
punishment second only in severity to
that Of decapitation, as his just due for
such gross ingratitude. The daughters
are exempt from such punishment BY
reason of their being legally a member
of an entirely different family, both by
name and marriage.
These are some of the reasons why
daughters are not so much thought of
as sons; and why is it possible to have
too many of the one and not possible to
have too many of the other
Upon the birth of daughter name
is Immediately conferred upon her with
but little, if any. feast;ng or other joyful
demonstrations over the event. Quite
differently is the birth of son received.
In the latter instance the happy
pdiCHtS Will IL WllOic IlOnIU ECIOTC De-
slowing name upon their new conner,
during which time great preparations
are made in anticipation Of the joyful
occasion. If. after the expiration of
thirty days, the treasure (son) lives.
having safely passed through all the lit
tie ailments incident to babyhood, the
parents and their friends prepare at
once for the "te tow or first shave.
This ceremony, ina religious sense, cor
responds to infant baptism as practiced
by most Christian denominations OF
this country; but it is attended with
more expense. The ceremonies are also
Of more animated and joyful nature.
The eventful day having arrived, all
of the aged men and women relatives
of the family being present by invita-
ton. a great feast is spread, Of which
all partake. During it progress three
venerable old ladies. with three gentle
men also of venerable appearance, arc
selected to perform the ceremonies.
The first part consists in Offering Q sac.