The Anderson intelligencer. [volume] (Anderson Court House, S.C.) 1860-1914, 1884-08-28
HOW TO RULE MEN.
\ lecture to Women Ivy Woman who
has Studied Mankind.

II women only knew how sweet and
lovely ,lcy are, anl how much they can
do with men, they woald pay more a;ten.
ton TO their personal cultivation than
they do. Why, if - woman only goes
about it right she can do any thing with
q .nan, and make him conform to her
ideas in e""ry particular. She has tact,
skill. talent, beauty, refinement, and,
combine Ecr in.u;tiun with her !acinat.
Ing powers, she can change lis politics.
reform his religious IDEAS, alter the whole
course Of his life, and shape his career TO
suit herself. But She must not be a fool,
can tell you, nor must she forget for AL
instant the art ana fines*e hy which she
rules.
Man is at best hru>qus, selfish. i'm.
ru!>iye creature, i'll! Of crnce;t and
yas:ries, and anxious IT, rule and con-
troll. He has strength and tic wants To
Use it; lie has creative faculties and
lives to execute. But whatever he is he
looks to a woman for pleasures, and the
one who can please hiin can rule him
and do with him what she will. \ woman
is young until she is -, and man retains
his youth ten years longer, but a:ter that
there is nothing to live for but home.
Life has lost its zast, and there is no
charm in the toys aud amu,cmen!s of
Yesterday. You must admit that "a
woman narries for convenience. Sine
wants home, protection, immunity
from labor anl tie delights Of compAn-
iGn<hip. Now, Il man makes this home,
if he Stands between her and danger, If
he contributes the best interests Of his
life for her maintenance, hc certainly is
entitled 10 his reward. He wants his
home beauiiiirt, iiic, with friends and
good cheer; ne wants to be relied,
admired, respected, encouraged and loved.
He wants to be king, in short.
Oh, yes, you may say pctting Is Ill
nonsense, but just lie, me- tell you that
you are mistaken and il the husband
cannot get loving affection at home ne
will get i; some place else. Caresscs CAR
he bought like every other luxury.
4 vile must be a sweetheart all her
life. She mus. never get 700 old to be
charming. She mast cultivate i swec:
:cmprr and an ail:Ibi" manner, and Eer
only anxiety must be a dread of offend
ing her husband. Another thing, sar.
casnl won't work il is an unpardonab!e
offence in the home circle, and, no mat
ter hos pertinent it may be,a woman
cannot afford ever to say y harsh word to
the man size loves.
beautiful No woman need be any.
thing elte. If she has poor complexion,
there are powders and cosmetics that
dciv detection; she can have beautiful
eyelashes and eyebrows no matter now
poor and coarse her hair is, i! can he
remarkably well kept and So hecomingly
arranged as t. be admired; the most
Irregular teeth can he polished like so
many pearls, and clean teeth and sweet
breath are not SO common rs to he
dcspsed white hands and laperng, pol.
ished nails will atone fora very i'll shaped
hand. What if the feet are large, II they
are well shni? II the figure is poor, It
can he so clean, 50 heallhy.louki"g and
50 dc'ica,eiy prriumcl that your presence
will he wholesome and refreshing, and,
tell you, clothes makes the refinement
that belong, To lady or gentleman.
Indeed, the raimrnt is typical of much
that is within. II nature has mcageriy
bestowed her charms, that is the very
reason why Il woinan should have
recourse to art. she cannot shine IN
music. painting or he sric!irrs, she can
become a pleasant ii 80. Il brilliant laiier.
She can rcad and observe and BE- AZ
authority on current literature, and II
she will but study the why and wherefore
Of thing. and the very best points in hes
friends she will make for herself a circle
that will be TIE very cnvy Of hef rrcttl-
cs, competitor (hrmgo .Nc~s.