The Arkansaw traveler., 1884-08-30
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 Doat kssp haA cempany. q woman is kncwa v hw companions. A . vomans iassrcourse, e her characser. Every womant character b formed cn rthe modd of those uisA wAcm she ssso- ciaaeA A woman uin jus1 as suse tAke vice ard impezfaction from had company d dissase fFom impure air. Inc yocag lAdies vho entertain young men wAc cone eo tkeir pasics wffh smoking ciears, fall ef vAishy,- ouahs and dang npoa thsir kps, an8 vAs ase hnown to them fc frequent the lowesf hannsa of vice, cannot .xpect to Iive in estimation q the great and good Ycu cannot a3nrd b associane wiEA tAs snpsy-Aeadsa and immoral young man, eveA h he b. loags to what is called high scciesy "- high society run lov. Doat associate with your in6esicu l: associate wish men ct ladgmsnl ,assllieencs ae,a goodnsss.
 DoaS read impure 6esraaurA Thou sands q girls are growing into vorshlssi vomanhcod hecauss of bod reading. The most powerful ioe of true woman hood is corrupt literature thas arc crammed tull cf secend-Aana remarks, and old, diseAsed, pusrid lAoasAI wssA itself with nature, with truth as var. H you would 6e wise fos ycurse6 and wise Sor eternity. aoat read any cl the -e,oSd and ihuades r lisssssure. Many of these books protess to teach a moral They teach just the opposite We have no need to 70 to brothel or so perditicn tc learn morality. Virtue Is flower whi-A never grovs in such soil fos canao, expect any good from . source % vale. There she goes, lounging around the house, with novel on her arm, her hair dishevesed, her eheeks pale, hps quiver- ing. clipper run down at heel, hiiing her 6nger nails to the quick, heEailing the sad fate of her unfortunate lover. She is ali un6tssd for the dusies of . wife, mother, sisees, daughter. GatAsr up your bed literature and pitch is insc the kitchen grase, lest it blast you, your pros. pective husband and your children afteI you.
 Don't gossip. When God made man, speech, and woman ran away with nine. A gossiping woman is the devils bellows to blow up the fires of strife. It must be | blessing to the public when such a woman is hoarse, and it is pity that she has not as many blisseu on her tongue ss she has teeth in her laws.
 Don't tell everything you hear As a snowball grows by rolling is, so does a story by telling it. They who talk much lie much.
 Don't poke your nose into your neigh. bor's house to smell out his faults Busi- ness is business, bus the bes, kind of business IS to mind your own business.
 Don't put on magnifying glasses 10 discover your neighbor's flaws. You live in a glass house don't throw any stones. Think of your own faults ere other peo. ple's faults you tell. Faults are always thick where love is thin.
 Don, cultivate a bad temper. 4 man once said to his wife. double up your whip He meant, keep your tongue quiet. It must be a terrible thing to be living with a whip that is always lAshing you. A good temper filings showers of sunshine over the darkness of the world. Don't use hard words. They are as hail. stones, beating down and dsslroying what they would nourish h they were melted into drops Little drops of rain brighten the meadows, little acts oi kind ness brighten the world. A sweet dispo- sision is % excellent that it ought 10 be emblaroned upon every thoaghs and act of life. Dont fret. Dout grumble. Don't whine. Don't look at the world through blue goggles. Don't neglect 10 leam how to manage the affairs of home. Don't think of getting married before you know how to get up good square meal-the great secret of domestic happiness Strive to be helpmees for some good man, and not simply helpeat.
 Don't make . slave of your mother. Don't lie abed until 8 o'clock in the moru- ing and make her do all the work. Help her whenever you can. Don't call her the old woman; "old lady" is bad enough, but old woman is still vorse. Respect the white head. Love that form
 Don't talk slang. You have no idea how if sounds to ears unused or avesse to it. Don't be wild. Beware of little things. They may be nothing. They may be all. Be lady. Carry yourself so that men wfu LOOK up 10 yeu.
 Don't mary a man 10 mend him or to reform him. Such attempts are generally as vain and powerless as attempts to turn back the flowing tide with a whisp of straw, or outSoaY a hurricane with q tin whistle A young man asked tor the hand ol . beautiful girl As she hes.- tased about replying, the young man said await your answer with bated breaih." The young lady answered Well, my dsas sis, you will have to bait your breash with some4hing besides high ~ines and Limburger cheese to casch me" Her head was level. A young man vho will not cease drinking to piease his sweetheart, wiII nos do 70 so pisAse his vie. Don't mary . man thsa ehs-s tobacco. The use of tobacco is dirty and filthy habit, injurious to the health and expensive. Only the passage m the