The San Antonio light. (San Antonio, Tex.) 1883-1886, 1884-09-23
An Incident in Real Life.

TO the noble husband or to the kind
and loving wife it indeed seems strange
that any man and wife can possibly have
such domestic differences us to volun-
tarily invoke the aid of council to OBJ
tain papers OF perpetual separation, and
yet we find these much to be deplored
occurrences are continually taking
place in all parts and sections of our
land. The sad fact Is well authenti-
Gated that each advancing year records
an increase In the number Of applica-
tons for papers granting divorce. Some
times the appeal comes from the hus-
band and sometimes from the wife. All
sorts of allegations are made from the
most trivial neglect to the most outrage
GUS and cruel treatment. Very often
both are ut fault and generally In such
cases 1t Is a mercy to both to grant pa
pers Of separation, especially where
they both refuse to remain together and
treat each other with proper considera-
ton, and would further say that very
often II Is a great blessing to the sur
rounding neighbors. In very many
cases where divorces are applied
for II Is entirely the fault of
one party. To discuss the many reasons
(real or imaginary that cause people to
entirely set aside and forget the sacred
marriage VOWS would of themselves fill
volume. From the experience and
after-life Of many friends and acquain-
tances / venture to say that as rule d.
vorced people are afterward unfortunate,
and II the reader will remember all such
cases that have come under his OF her
notice, think they will concur with me
in this conclusion. We often hear the
remark made IN speaking of a recent
marriage, that II was love match, and
we instinctively honor the young couple
who join hands and hearts with no other
motive save love and mutual attraction.
How different where one or both swear
to be true to each other amid all earthly
trials, well knowing, rs they answer the
man of God those solemn questions,
that they have spoken falsely. Yes, In
their own hearts (perhaps cleverly
ooncealed), they know that they
do not love each other as should
husband and wife, and In many
cases each loves another, and yet
from mercenary motives they sell
themselves for position or pecuniary ad-
vantage, or both. A good and dutiful
wife frequently becomes dissatisfied and
unhappy because she feels that her hus-
band neglects the home. II man were
TO occupy woman's position for n short
PcIlOu ne Wouiu ItuiiLt HOW nuppy anu
contented true woman Is when her
husband brings home some little present
and says, my dear, | have little gift
for your We know OF nothing that
pleases the ladies better than some tasty
little item in the jewelry line, and as
the times at present are very hard we
would advise our friends and the public
generally who are in need of anything
In his line TO call on our old friend j. NJ.
Emerson, Of No. IL Soledad street. Mr..
Emerson is selling forfeited pledges at a
slight advance on the amount loaned,
and buyer seldom leaves his house
without purchasing. You should re-
member that people for the past year
have been compelled to pledge personal
articles that were bought during more
prosperous times from flrst-olass houses
In the city and elsewhere. Mr.. Emerson
says he will not refuse reasonable Of
fer for any article In stock. Call and see
Emerson as he will be glad to see you,
whether you purchase or not.
Large pawn sale, Thursday, Septem-
Der 20, ut 10 a. m. 9-23-tf