The Delaware farmer., 1883-08-24


THERE are troub es iha: seem E,htepel
the sharing Of them with some dear friends. a
mary others that are doubled, by even, their
citaL As this is SO, it would seem very simr
economy OF nerve, torce and happiness, TO take
sort OF Inventory OF the kind that multiply [,
readily, and remand them to their exclusive ca
neI where they will be KEEP; within bounds. 1t
50 sweet to be pettel aud sym 5athizeI with. IN;
many people, women particularly, are temple
to trespiss sorely upon the good-nature and D,
tlence OF their friends, and particularly Of the on
Trend that should be spared all avOidable an
noyance-the husband. Perhaps the ktebe,
has been hot, the baby cross, and the servau
saucy. Almost every mother has met with sncl
combination Of circumstances. and has fol, a,
tls time like calling upon the mountains to cove,
her' Weary OF soul, with nerves all alame. She
mas felt that the best thing about the world was
taaE Il was such good place to leave. At this
critical time, blessed is the woman that meets
just tue tender, patient word that she needs. if
on the contrary, the "word" is rough or unkind
volcanic eruption is very likely to occur that
snakes the foundation Of that family hearthsione
which does not become quiet again until after
Oatn, nap and few tears, when the air clears
and IN oOolness and quiet, the repentant woman
wonders how she could have SO entirely over.
stepped the bounds Of proprety. Such days
come to most women who have much work and
little strength; bad as they are their evil is light.
compared with that which attends a constant
drizze OF iretting and complaining.
II servant is saucy, TeprOve her. DISCHARGE
her' endure it, or dispose Of it N any wav that
seems best; but in the name of peace and com.
'ort' dispose OF it in some way and do net inaic,
npudence ap five or six members of the family
lntll you forget that you have, not five or six
Troublesome servants, but only one. There are
are women that resOlutely give all such troub. /
es final burial without resurrecting them for (
ne delectation OF each unfortunate individual ]
nm which she comes in contact. This undoub,. :
iy costs great effort when the Tariff question
wi Service Reform, and even the TEMPERANCE
lesilon are OF OF no importance compared with
e governing Of that one family and cooking of
at one dinner. Bat il is u wholesome discip.
le that can be acquired by pracIce. Although
cause oi the peculiar OrganzatiOn and The
ny pettineSs Of their trials woman arr nrooe
iail into this error they are not the only trans
esSors' Who hasnot seen man after. for in.
nce'ah unrulypig orcow had gotten up an i'm 4
'nip'u least on the melons or sweet corn from 81
garden! II the unruly animals themselyes
'uid run through the house, they could not
Ke more commotiOn than that man is liable II
make. II
Unreal troubles should be equally shared by
Oand and wife together; but the little an.
anees which belong more or less to the lot of
should be resOIutely put aside, or, as nearly
'osSlole' buried in ones own heart. To del.
some oae else with them when they can not
helped or avoided, is to deliberately make
iher teilow-being miserable and exbaust AN
u"' OF nerve torce,and even physical strenth, -
ought to be spared for some better purpose.
Moody says; at you feel discouraged. dom,
my one else, as you will make him discour-
a'So'" de might as truly have said. "u -
are worried, don't tell any one else as il will
e him worried also.n
IS astonishing how the small troublos or {
FNAoNut II Wei drought 10 tNp
can envelope whole family in a dense
despondency. If the heal Of the family
real tit OF the "bues" winch he has the =
y ana the disposition to impIrt TO others if
very Ike the story of THE House that -
Built" and might be expressed in some.
like this style q
is the man to fretting born.
worried the woman all weary and worn
scolded the children all forl0rn.
AicAeu inc dog, who worried the cat etc. etc -
y one has witnessed such pictures, and -
not tempted. regrets bitterly that he or ~
ouid ever be guilty Of giving one moments
lineSs to the loved ones OF the family
Iy way to avoid it, Is to conscientiopsIv
good resolution to put all ANNOYANCE, -
,i'h a Get thee behind me Satan" and
lredly try to consider ones blessings.
L. sc.