New Ulm weekly review. [volume] (New Ulm, Minn.) 1878-1892, 1883-01-24
Adyice rs I Bird

70 become Ashusband Is sas serious q
matters ri q man Is IL u sfforsa woman "a
become ) wife. Marriage Isl no child'S
splay; it brings added ca rss trinl. per-
plexits. vexation, and Il requires a
great deaf of the sppiness which
legitimately springs ont III it 70 make
the ;bnlanc6 heavy III lis favor. Perry,
few people i've happily q marriage,
and yststhis IS not because unbappjb ess
Is gernane to the relation. bnt because
those who enter it do not know, first
how to get married, and, second, how
to live married happily. You have al!
ready made your choice wisely. ] sm
bound to believe. Those qualities Of
character which have attracted you to-
choose as you have should make your
lore grow daily while you liz togeth her.
As to the second point: II you wish
TO live: IN hnrmoni0 us union with sour
wife start out with the 3vDWed recog-
milton Of the. fact that she il your COM
panion and copartner. Alarriage usually
makes the wife neither Of these. In
many instances she sees less OF her hus-
band than before she married him. He
comes, he goes, he reads, Tricks, sv0rks,I
and under the stimulus Of business
brings all his powers aud faculties To-
the surfaces, and is developed thereby
not always symmetricall, but vigor-l
'ously not alwayss tremendously, hut
with increasing power. Married men
do not usually shriyel up nor put on 8
look Of premature age, but women lrc-s
qnently do, and it is plains TO me why
they do.
Married women are shut up IN houses
and their chief care IS for things that
have no inspiring influence. Their time
is taken up ID meeting the physical
wants Of their families cooking, wash
ing dishes. Keeping the, ho,s In order,
sewing. receiving company not one OfE
which has ii it q tendency even t0Scul-
ture and elevation. Married women
are devoted to the house, and this
means g life o. vexation and pettiness.a
II gives no sort Of stimulus to the spirit
So the husband, who Is out Of doors
active. interested IN measures which
affect the public good. coming into con-s
tact with men greater than himself. who
inspire him TO better purposes and
nobler ends Of labor. develops into.
D8UlY D06uIys AuAA tSL0WBS HI H10EQ CINT,
while his wife &c home. who hts asI
faithfully pelformed { her share ofs The
a6rk. withers and al6cap 80 pr ina ar6,y.
I Treat your wits sexactly as syoussclts
would like to be treated IL you had stOs
i've under her circumstances, and you
will not 90 far aroIlg 4.
Do not entertain the silly notion that
because she ID OF a different gender from
your own that she is theref fore different
IN her wants, feelings, qualities and
powers Do not be the victim Of any
social policy Stand up bravely for the
right, give your wife a chance TO live
grow and be somebody and become
Try 70 Sc Thoughtful. consiierate and
iorbearigg. 4 on will have new duties.
and they will bring now trials. Take
good care Of your health and hers Bel
simple, both 81 your habits; be careful
in Your expenditures; BE indust GUS.
you keep good health and arc frugal,
blessings will comc from your united
love. and yo,,s will grow happier and
better day BY day rs the years pass
DR.. James G. Jackson.