The clarion. [volume] (Jackson, Miss.) 1883-1888, 1883-05-09
SOUND ADVICE.
ming a Husband or Wife a Sc.
rious Matter.

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become a husband is as serious a
/ to man as it is for woman to
h a wife. Marriage is no child's
i brings added care, trial, perplex-
xation, and it requires a great
the happiness which Iegitimatelv
out of it to make the balance
in its favor. Very few people
ppily in marriage, and yet this is
! ause unhappiness is gefmane to
lation, but because those who
do not know, first, how to get
4 and, second, how to live hap
\ You have already made your
4 wise, L am bound to believe.
ualities of character which have
+ d you to choose as you have.
make your love grow daily while
1 together.
4 the second point: If you wish
p harmonious union with your
TT out with the avowed recogni-
Pie fact that she is your com
hnd co-partner. Marriage usually
he wife neither of these. In
Stances she sees less of her hus-
IN before she married him. Tie
q goes, he reads, thinks. works,
NJ Ter the stimulus of business
I u his powers and faculties to
nee and is developed thereby
ii Us symmetrically, but vigorous
= always tremendously, but with
ig power. Married men do not
q shriyel up, nor put on look Of |
I Re age, but women do, and it is
1 lee why they do.
VI ~ women are shut up in houses,
" chief care is for things that
:" aspiring influence. Their time
sp in meeting the physical wants
pL Mmllies- cooking, washing
n eping the house in order, sew
L. L. lvlng company-not one of
!. in it a tendency even to cul.
n, Elevation. Married women are
70 the house, and this means
PATTON and pettiness. 1t gives
d stimulus to the spirit. So the
y who is ont Of doors, active, in
AZ p measures which affect the
i, ~ III, coming into contact with
\ FER than himself, who inspire
II better purposes and nobler
leg, labor, develops into manly
pd grows in character, while
- home, who has as faithfully
her share Of the work, withers
prematurely. @ o" E r
FUR wife exactly as yourself
= to be treated il you had to
ner circumstances, and you
Tar wrong.
Entertain silly notions that be-
\. OF a different gender from I
n. that she is, therefore, different S
ilO ents, feelings, qualities, and {
% not be victim of any So
81 Stand up bravely for the t
, An your wife a chance to live, Y
rIl be somebody and become c
~ ~ thoughtful, considerate and {
M You will-haVe newsduties, Il
y I'll bring new trials. Take t
w. your health and hers. Be d
M \, IN your habits; be careful .
~ penditures; be industrious. 2
your health and are frugal, 4
81 Y come, from your united 7
MI " will grow happier day by q
SEE Fears pass. M Z .l. {;
s is tAe strength Of cheerful T
ler past calculation its powers II
.Gey Efforts, to be permanently o
u. Oe uniformly joyous--a spirit y :.
!, ! graceful from very gladpess, 4
u aase bright Carlyle. 4
glyer shall be given, g
~ wouldst walk in light,
Il, .aer spirits bright; e
= ior himself alone, ever enter, ii
DIG edheaven? "
III ing we are blcst, =:
!. lind our rest. aJi u
DIE Eis' 70 the worlds work, heart q
AZ hlnd and brain, 70
'Ayp llyed our life in vain. q
is'A- Caroline Seymour. ly
MBER ----se s--- w
lsur' Y Is less a lover of woman NJ
"; ne is more in love with m
--I- with the individual, how m
gshe may be- Retif de la q
OR,
ing savages is a beast of co
Mss sla she is a piece of furni- ~
pe she is a spoiled child. 4