Seattle daily post-intelligencer. [volume] (Seattle, W.T. [Wash.]) 1881-1888, 1883-08-15

II the fine accomplishment Of speak
ING veil Of Others we're Taught II every
h1r1aebogd. il would become almost .
usradisscal land But, alas. the oppo-
site accomplishment prsysils- How ma
nv tesrfbzruin2s, ssfraD2eTrsrts and
ouarrels in families have arisen from
this disposition 20 speak evil Of Zach
other, All have their fsulsA There
10 mona that doeth good; no. not one;
and IN the actions Of the best Of people
thsrs viii b oooaasonI errors vhieh
others viii psrcsivs, and, II they are svl
minded, viii pcbiish; and before they
have pAassd through half dozen mouths
they are % changed that thsy are hardly
rscoGnizabss-
he an Of speaking vsll Of othsrs can
b sadIy COO aifed, and Il 10 good raie
70 MAKE IN househoad, that the one who
erifiaisss o4hers nnktndly 10 the family
circle OF among friends stall pay anal
fine TO b Used for some good object.
The COMMON and snehriGiA1 practise
Of taking about tie faults Of our fels-
sivss and ne1ahbon Is really taught u
thS hoossoold b. paUofs and friends,
and ths children contract the habit only
too qaiekly.
Lfsrn 20 b sociabis vhesevsr yoo 20,
snd tosvsak your Eehts& words n tones
thas sss svsex and with spirit that 10
genial Think boz much pleasure yoa
can give TO o&hsn By . kindly vord OF
chasTful oonvGDation. and rede0 bow
mach sunshine snch sDclAbllity throws
back into your own so0l =,
Who does not feel more cheerful and
onnfeuted for receiving polite bov and
Q pleasant good morning. with hearty
shake of the hand! Who does not make
himaelf happier by thsse digit expres-
sions of good viii. silence, or stir,
unloading reserve, u selfish and ehuri-
iah- The Renerocs md polite man nAs
a pIeaAans recognition and cheerful
words for every one be Deets- and he
scatters sunbeams on his pathway
through life, lights the path OF others
With smiles, and makes the vorid bright
70 those Who are Apt 70 find Il cold and
foriorn; while what be gives 10 bat q
1.-THE Of what be receives, a. bis ovn
heart il kept fresh and warm BY the
cheerfulneaa he expends upon Others.
Life would not be half - eheeriess
and lonely IL sociabuity we're cultivated
40 dne art.
The art Of living at psacs in the family
Ia greatly promoted by tbs constant ex-
change of the little oourtesies OF life,
which are never unacceptable and never
unimportant. Shall husbands an wives
be lses mindful Of injurina the feelings
of each other than those Of strangers!
should there be les effort TO maintain
suavity of manner. Rentleness Of de-
portment and courtesy Of oppression In
the family circle than IL extended 70
viGitOui
II v the naalses Of these little courte-
de- In hons life which Ills the saloons
and billiard rooms with young men.
There al In bright, gay and pleasing TO
the senses; and soon they are drawn
into dissipation, and only look upon
their homes ~ boarding pisoss, where
the physical necessities OF eating and
sleeping are procured. =,
In early life brothers and sisters should
be taught TO Be kind, obligin9 and at
tentive 70 each other: ~ perform little
Offices for each other, and learn the suav.
tiles Of department which are 20 essential
to the happiness of their own lives and
Of those with whom they are connected.
Brothers and sisters thus taught can
rarely fail TO make pleasant homes OF
their own, where words Of pickering and
strife are never beard. Sweet smiles
and kindly actions are the small coins
Of life. and In their aggregate consist
the happiness aod we'll being of the
whole family. Where such households
become the rule, peace and prosperity
reign. ''B1ttsr - dinner OF herbs
where love -. than stalled or and ha-
fred LLeIewlth.