The Bossier banner. [volume] (Bellevue, Bossier Parish, La.) 1859-1952, 1883-01-25
The Parents, Influence.

and town and the natural supposition
would be that every parent is earnestly
interested in the success of at least the
one particular school of which his chill
dren form part But how many par
ents actually possess sufficient interest
in their own school to impel them to
visit it, we will say once every school
term. to see for themselves how their
children are advancing in knowledge,
what moral influence is surrounding
them, or to make sure that they have the
simplest requisite health conditions -
warm feet, cool heads and suliciency
of wholesome air? How many of those
parents who fail to visit the schoolroo1n
-excusing themselves by saying. 80, L
can tell well enough how school is pros
pering without going therem how
many of these take the trouble even to
uphold the teachers influence at their
own firesides instead of aiding in its
overthrow? ''You cannot mean me,''
says one; II never meddle with school
matters one way or another. ID 'sIf you
never ''meddle,' as you phrase it, the
inference is that there is corresponding
lack of interest. Ii your olive plants
are of the thrifty, growing, wide-awake
kind, and are accustomed to have mamma
interest herself in their affairs, then
school affairs will not form an exception
to the rule. Nor should they! That
parent who asserts complaeently, - [
never listen to tales about school, and
therefore thinks she has done all that is
required of her, comes very far short of
possessing the right kind of interest in
school affairs. If children are interested
in school work, they will prattle
of this work at home as natur-
ally as sparrows chirp or robins sing.
i Nor should it be repsessed. The moth
err s expressed delight at work well done,
4 her sorrow and regret at failure, viii
often help the good work along far more
than the parent is aware. Nersis- this
less the case in matters of discipline. A
gentle, = am SO sorry you should have
deserved it, /" if your child has been pufla
ished, is far better for all concerned than
q TRADE against the. teacher, too often
prompted by that spirit of eg0tisnl that
can never see ones own blackbirds to be
anything but white. Or il it is another
that has been punished, the mother s ssI'
hope, my dear, it may. never be lyon,n
or, g can but think il a disgrace to be
punished at school-it seems tome good
boys and girls are not likely to be, or
words of similar import, cannot fail to
have their influence upon the child s de-
pertinent in school,. 2ss
On the other hand, that parent who
responds to her child enthusiastic pratt
tie by pettish, Il wish you would drop
the school room when you leave it, or
who speaks in critical or sarcastic
manner of the teacher or workings of
the school-who gives vent before her
children to expressions of disapprovat or
dislike-that parent, whether aware Of
it or not, is demolishing as fast as. possi-
BILE the teacher influence and authority,
so far as her own special brood is con-
cerned. Often far more. trifiing express
sions on the part of the parent are suffi-
cient to set pupil against teacher all
througha term of school. A knowing
glance from the father or mother to
some other member of the family, curl
of the lip as the ehiId's tale is told; these
are quite sufficient to give these .'little
pitchers their ''cue' and set them on
the ''rebef' side. M
Go into any school-room and point out
those pupils that seek continually to
evade the teacher srules-look upon her
as q tyrant rather than helper and
friend-and instead of according her that
respectful courtesy which is her due,
treat her with contempt; and / Twill point
out to you, without great danger OF mis-
take, those firesides where the teacher s
authority, if not traduced. at least is not
.,,AlaIj liz xvyoY, asft,I Il SN,xY
parents sometimes ate on this point
blind not only to sense of justice, but
to their own and their childrcn's best
interests as well. How often the really
capable, scrupulous teacher thinks, in
her inmost soul: ''If had the children
only to manage, how easy it would beip
If complaints come of cruelty and in
| justice and neglect Gas they often win,
along with the rest Of the school talk),
too much weight must not be given
them, remembering that child 5 reason
ing faculties are imperfectly developed,
and that impulse, even in older people,
is not greatly to be relied upon. But if
the parent feels that there is reasonable
ground for complaint. censure must not,
even then, be spoken before the child.
It can do no good; must inevitably do
harm. If complaint must be made, let
it be privately to the teacher herself, and
to none other. But in making up, the
! judgments, let the parent bear in mind
how many days there are when nothing
goes quite as it ought with her and her
little ones at home, when she is nervous
and out of sorts, and they are irritable
and cross, and ask herself if she never
gives sharp word or angry blow. She
has three or four, maybe. while doubt
less the. teacher of the school has twice
| or thrice score; whose various dispo-
sitions she has yet bnt inlperfectly
| learned, however faithful and earnest
! hersofforts may have been. That teassher
must indeed be marvel of wisdom and
patience that never -errs!AA Schoe,
Teacher, tn Country Gentleman. i rs
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has gone to work to propagate a native
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