Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1883-01-04

needs to think hard every once in while
How long do you think aoa would have beer
thus patient if she had deprived you of your
chance at smoking P And there is always
something in woman'slife to take the place
of tobacco in a mans. Remember that, and
you will both be happierp'
Poor old Harry if helhad only knoor, she
might have had dozen pianos, he groaned:
Eyes, but you must remember" said his
sister, that a wife has wonderful delicacy Of
feeling that perhaps no man can understand
about asking her husband for this or that. In
the first place. he has, asa lover, trained hel
to see m and think he can anticipate each desire
she has, and then-he has vowed to be ever
as attentive and careful as in those days OF
wooing And then there is something that
no words can convey, that withholds sensl'
tive woman from asking for means or wants
that al attentive, right minded man would OF
himself see she needed, and that they were
supplied" :,
Ah, Harry Hale learned a good many need.
! full lessons during that winter season, but he
was willing and loving, and meant right, so he
thankfully received the ideas Carrie gave, and
the strong facts Hettietsagght.
When the next May TSseTson came, he TOOK
his dear wife and wee little daughter to the
new home A pretty little home in roses and
honeysuckles, carefully arranged by the loving
hands of Harry and the good sister. At sight
of her piano she cried like baby, and flung
herself in her husbands arms.
sYou darling. Forgive Inc for every un-
kind word and thought, Harry this repays
me for every sorrow."
Tears stood in his honest eyes as he looked
at carrie.
"Girls, am so stupid and ignorant of wo-
mems ways and minds If you will only give
me hint once in while what ought TO 40,
I will really. on my honor. be the best husband
and brother in Valeville." And he meant 1t,
and once in while, good Carrie would give
him the reminder, and after all, peace and mar
mony settled upon them. In the soft, sweet
evenings, Hettie would so charm and rest her
spouse with melody from the simple little up
right, that he said he wondered that he had
ever lived without one.
A couple of COWS came over from the old
farm, some pretty broods of chickens possessed
the back green lot to delight the wee caro-
line," strawberries, and roses, and fruits, and
flowers went to make the new home delight
full, and Hettie Hale caressed her husband and
baby, and said no happier woman was IN the
world; and sweet love-lights cleaned in the
ewes of the farmer and his wife. The neigh
bors loved her, and none regretted Harry
had married a city girl-but one. The moth
er! Only once she gave way to the old demon,
interference.
81 think it's wicked and wasteful for Har-
ry's wife to keep nurse girl and kltchen
girl. She'll ruin the man yet"
''No, mother, l won't. | have now two
little children and doubtless Heaven will send
more. must be neat and tidy and rested to
keep my own respect and my husbands, and
l cannot do the Kitchens busy, heavy, perpet-
ual labor, if l am to be decent companion
for Harry,-am to educate and raise our chill
dren as we see they should be, am not to be
his drudge, nor housekeeper, nor COOK. lie
can hire a different style of woman to be all
that for home. He cannot hire a rJe, a CONF
panion, and loving, faithful friend. lie
married me for his wife, the mother OF his
children, not for servant, and it IS not just
nor reasonable to expect me to be all and
everything at once. We can afford help-con-
sequently we will have %
And the quiet determined little woman
became power in the village. She dispersed
ideas of refinement. improvement and chair
ity, as the sun does light and warmth. She
was never too busy to be gentle and kind !;
never too warm or wearied to give heed to the
poor, the sick or the suffering. If Vale
vile girl wanted advice or assistance about
new recipe, the cut of her gown, or sympa-
thy ABOUT lOSC lrleNQ OT luOulIlllS Ullu, VI
tickle lover, she knew kind heart to help
her lay in Harry's wife's bosom, and Mrs.
Hetty was in great demand. Harry's wife
was the resort and rest and hope of every one
in every trouble or JOY. She took such a
stand in the church, and various ''circles,"
that even the old lady was forced to feel
proud at last of Harry's wife, and the older
and more disagreeable she grew, strange as
it seems, the fonder, and prouder, and louder
in praise she became Of her son Harry's wife,
Po1J1und TrnnScriD