New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1882-11-12

manners are bad, the monotony OF his conversation
Is ntoerabIe h. seems to be without single intel
lectual interest he dsmisses any subject that may
suggest Itself as dinner-table talk" Mrs. Julia
Ward Howe talks of cosmopolitan cads." How
ever. these severe structures do not apply to The
New-York young men. They however. rather prefer
being amused to being amusing. Some one must
find the talk and who shall it be : This is what
is being asked by the hosesses of our May Fair.
Society shocked to the heart by the news
from Glen Cove on Wednesday last. MIS- DIN, the
only daughter of Mr. and Mrs. ;. L. VI. Barlow, was
woman so siagle-hearted, so honest and so kindly
thar even envy, which might have been inspired by
her rare gifts and unusual good fortune, could find
no voice against her. Perhaps no woman had fewer
enemies, was more beloved or more necessary to her
famili and friends. She had always been con-
splcuous fayorie in society. and was unspoiled by
prosperity. She had jOyously seconded her parents
In their elegant hospitality in town and
country. and was just beginning to make her IN
diyldual place from her own house, and to carry
on the benevolent and charitable mission of her
mother From perfect worldly happiness she
steps to higher plane without the usual break
of life's disappolntments It's failures its
rows and its wrongs Happy are tho for whom
Heaven opens sOOn."
Francis George Shaw. the early AbOtionist, the
DIoOh rdIIn ADVOCATE, the man spoken OF thirty
years ago as one of the new lights has passed
away at the ripe age Of seventy-four. Hawthorne
is supposed to have spoken OF him III his Bithedale
Romance" Young. handsome. wel-bOrn, rich,
Frank shaw" was the much-quoted star Of the
early FourerItes to whom he lent his money and
his name. To early readers OF George Sand be was
known as the translator of COuSueO,' and later
on he was much prosecuted fervent Abolltionist.
Ready to sacrifice everything to principle, he was
called on for the most and dreadful proof OF
the reality OF conviction. His only son, Robert g.
Shaw fell at the head OF the 1st Colored Regiment
in 1865, at Fort Wagner 1t was said that this mod
EN- Brutus rejOiced the savage message to
him from the South I'VE have buried him with
his niggers." Few such men are granted to this
century his memory will 1--we HIS four daughters
Mrs. Josephine shaw Lo well. MTs. George William
Curtis, MIS-. Robert h. Mintum aud Mrs. Francis Z.
Barlow, have all proved tndl the mantle Of MS dis
Interested excellence tell upon no unworthy Shout
deIs
The steamers are carrying off many we'll
known people, and IL IS rumOred tUat Ms. Paran
stevens, MIR. and Mrs. Alfred Paget MIR and Mrs.
Wetmor- and Mr. and MIS-. j. o. Low ana family
viii winter at Nice. Mr. and MIS-. Charles q.
Francklyn, Mrs and Miss Jerome Mrs Frederic
Stevens, and Mrs. James Kent nave already gone.
Meantime many young Americans are 10 be intro
duced nto society IN Rome anu Paris and more Will
make their debut ar nome. Miss Florence Bayard
Lockwood Is one OF these, the name recalling
hereditary loneliness. Mis-, Langdou, Miss HOyt,
Miss Dickinson, Miss Daisy Rive, ana Miss Estee
Hamilton are among these newcomers. Miss Lucy
Lee VIII be brought out II Rome, whore Mrs. Lee
anu Mrs. Tracy have taken an apartment.
Mr.. and 5ir5. Bradley Martin, Mrs. Lansing and
daughter, MIS-. AleIe Itn head aud her daughters.
Nh. Harry Sands, Alr. and Mrs +. j. Bal win and
MIS-. = =. sands have returned from Europe. Nr.
ana Mrs. Robert Mclean and Miss Mclean. of Bal
timore, have also arrived as have Mls. Howard
CROSBY and her daughter, and Mr.. and u. 50 Floyd
Jones.
! he marriage OF Gustav Kobb6 and Miss Carolyn
Wheeler, daughter of the late George Minor
W h-eier. OF ocar,dale, y y. took place IN Ga -.
Marks Church in the BOWerIc,' Yesterday otter
church. performed the ceremony. William Gordon
The hes. han. Inc usners were John I.
Wheeler. cousin or the BRIDE, Theodore V BOyntou,
Hayward LeayItt Blakely Hal and Wilnam II.
Russell. The bride was preceded by two Il lie girls,
Miss ROSallnd nccer. sister OF the bride and Miss
Mary Butler of Scar.dale. ia wore costumes of
nuns yelling and large poke b5unets. trimmed with
ostrich plumes, and carried baskets OF roses. The
brnes uress Of " litc satin made IN the iashlOna
bic style. spray o. autumn lcaYeS was ikea IN the
folds of her yel which was OF tulle. The married
PAIR started on "a short wedding trip. Among those
present were Mrs. G.. VI. Wheeler, Mrs Butter Mrs.
alter kOubG, the Misses kObu e and 1lr Benjamin.
Among the weddings OF MS week which have not
been previously announced those OF Miss SIstaTe
on Iuesda, evening OF Miss Schumacher anu also
OF Miss Arnold, on ednesday, ana Oh Miss ohndIer
on Thursday. Wedding receptions will be given Dy
Mrs. Pierce, of East FOrJy-eighth-sr., and Mrs.
q BrIen, of East tltty-slxCn-st. on Wednesday and
Thursday respectively. }. Kennedy 4 cd Will be
given dinner at PlnarIs tO-InOrTOW evening by his
Uest ami uShers. thus reversing the usual order
Mrs Edwin 4. stevens gave a luncheon party yes
terday to IL small number OF young ladies AT her
meIIcyal-lOUkIug house at Castle Point UObOken,