New-York tribune., 1882-02-19
COERTEST IT HOME.

Mrs Louise Cbqrdler AIOttitOl in our Continent
Good breeding like charity, should begin at
nome. The days are past when children used 10
rise the moment fhelr pareIis entered the room
VIII re they were and stand until they had re-
ceiveu permission o sit But the mistake II now
made usual lu the OUIer direction OF allowing to
small boy and glrs 90 much license To DISTURB the
peace OF thr household. l THINK The b-st way 10
I'm children II cOur cSY would be 10 O'serve
toward them d -cTUpuiOus pOltent~S. would 20
80 tar 10 70 say that wo shO4ld make IL as much
De,ut 10 listen to children wIthOu Tupllug
them ard 70 answer them sincere and respectfully
a. If ther were Z own up. And indeed many ot
th.iT wise, quaint saying, aIr far better worth
up-r morn .ng cil - o. course to low uuInter-
rupted chatter would be 10 surrender the repO,e of
he household. la II Is very easy, II children
themselves -crupUiOusy respected, 10 tedCG them
IN turn scrUpu Ou>ly 10 respect the convenience o.
o hers, and 10 KNOW when to talk and when To be
,llcn.
OF cour e-y toward brothers and sisters and play
mates as well toward parcn ana uucIcs nd
aunt,, II vii have 1T le .ei 10 learn as u grows
0l-er Know oHgul ana 1e"4iculnS Hil4e glll
VINO was well instructed II table etiquette, out
who forgot lcr lessons some i'm S, even older
people - now and then. he arrangement Nos
III de with her tLat Tor every solecI,m OF tins sort
sac wa, 70 pay ane of uve cents, WllIr for every
sim lar lrssucss which she could discover IL her
elders she 10 exact nue Ot 10 cents, tAclI *
pclIeuCc yt lie Ocl long / Than hers. lOumay Oe
sure that Mistress Bright EyrS watched tlr pro-
ceeOiug- ~ IN tdb.e very carefully. NOsL-hlest
disregard II the most conventional etiquette es-
ca.ed urI quick vision. and size lnhc1iJle
crell or and a taitIfu. debtor Ii was thc prctti-
49, .ipnt d see h-r when conscious of some failure
Oh hcr own parl O. uuLeStatiugE 20 her money
box and nay cheertuuy her ItJ4c tribute 10 the out
ragged prophecies. ..,
The Ues. brought up family o. children ever
knew were educated ou the pHnc.plt Of always COM
luoUdlAg hem when u was possible 10 DO 50. and
lrt IN - tnCe be the IcpioUt Ol any WrOng-dOlng
when Was not reauy serious. nave heard -Ae
culiIrcu II Tins household, when their mother had
failed 10 say any woru Of commendauon after some
social OccaslOu ask a. anNlously as po-siD e. " hat
was 1t, mammal | know something was wrong.
Di4n't we redt he other children well. or
100 .oi W" thar house rrprOof vas never be-
slowed UnsOUglt-oulY communication. OF Whatever
10 Wa. posi- Jle 10 commend, was -ratLI GUS.
] think Ihis syst IL would he as goO4 T those
g.0wi-up Children. the husbands ana wives. a. for
those >t.l IN the uurscry. / once asked the Late
urpWOrth Dixon. with whom happened % be- talk
iug this subject, what ne thought was he
asOI why some women ncld thc.r husband hearts
securely and forever while others were but the
urlel tenants Of lew months or years. % W nat |
asked, is the qu@nty IL woman which heT nus
band loves lOuge-tf'
nat III should De a pillow answered Mr.
Dixon, and then meeting tie the inquiry IL my
eyes, ne lent on, les that is what man needs in
As vi e--One .Ans 20 rest LIS heart on Tic has ex-
element ana opposition enough II t. world. lie
wants 70 feel that there is pace where he is
sUIe Of sympathy, place that VIII give HIM ease
q pillow gives II 20 a tired head. 10 you think a
man WI. be tcMpted 10 turn from the woman whose
eyes are MS liatterng Arrof-wAO heals where 9TH
er5 wOUudT
even a too ltcrlug ial ~ us, and If there Is any
GOOD ~ rs at all, tTy deserve this faith Bus
tenderness Ia the cOuJugal heart Is much more COM
il0u than grace ~ the cOuIugal manner. Since
however, next 20 that supreme good Oi beng salts
he'd II ones own conscience Is that see
oud great good Of being satisfied IN ones
own home, surely no details OF manner that
tend 10 sucn result are too slight 70
ue observed believe IL making as pretty a toilet
70 greet The returning husband a. one pur Oh 70
await the expected sweetheart; and, when the hus
band comes. ne makes a mistake very fatal 70 nls
own interests II he fail, 10 notice what be would
have praised in other days 1t Is trte saying that
hfe Is made up Of tries but surely the sum Of al
these domestic trIics amounts 10 the difference be-
tween happiness and Gahappmess.