The Dallas weekly herald. [volume] (Dallas, Tex.) 1873-1885, 1882-03-30
The DALLAS WEEKLY HERALD
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A Cincinnati special to the New YORK
Times relates the tragic fate that De'e"
once lovely and a highly respectfully con-
nected young lady who had within the past
wear married young man whose seVeIal
adroit attentions had tlattered her prlue'
faseioated her thoughts aud won her allec-
tions. and as a. resultwhereof she had I'M
patiently broken Off a previous engagement
with n well-to.do though more consideratc
and practical lover, whom she haa
known from childhood to marry
him. Like with too many other
Young girls, the romance OF me-
loves young dream sailing the stream with
s;,l,en sails and ropes of sandal, domi-
mated for time and everything with the
doshinc cavalier was couleur-de rose, never
stonping to think that there could be such
circumstance as a fraud of the heart, never
susnecting that within the scented garland
liz the point of spear, within the ruddy rose
the awaiting sting of an imprisoned pee
And so impetuous impulse got the better oil
cooler Judgment and prevailed against the
admonitions of her friends. Their married
trouble seems to have been that TOO ire
ouent one of general disappointment, the
one in the other. They had been ac-
ouainted but q short While,
and each to attract each had disclosed
only the SUMMER sides of their characters.
He was disappointed that |she neither had
the dover nor the social Accomplishments
nor the educated intellig ence he had been
led to assume. She Yas disappointed IN
turn to discover his pecuniary inability 10
afford to her the enjoyments, the CON,
pany, the travel ,/etc., to which she hau
been accustomed under the parental
guardianship, and that being OF a gloomy
and Jealous disposition, he refused lo
coalesce with her family and earlier lriehus'
II is the old, old story OF marrying III
haste and repentiug at leisure" the peep
ing throu n the golden wires ohiy
to be ENGAGED behind the IRON pars'
the turning from the waters OF Enis
to those of Marah. Regarding her me-
tberefore. as a worse than failure, and' md
ing her true lover of the olden tilne mar
,;ed with all the dear recollections OF her
once pressed in his heart like MOWERS III d
book now torn out and scattered W 'ne
winds. the conduct of this once sweet anu
refined young girl grew from careless u
desperate, until finally the tempter CANT
.s.come he will in all such cases, as Vultures
IN the carcass. and under the honied phrases
of the gay LoTHARIo, the bell oil discre'ioii
pealed its last note, and she, the ueiica'e
fov of too plant will, went OIL Win
bandsomer man." To-day she lies IN the
rotter,s field. with no emblematic NY lor
bor tombstone, no friendly tear-drop loE
ber enitapb. And the life and late history
of this fair daughter OF misfortune -
but representative or too mucn u
the unwritten drama OF the uay
We are not natural enough, we hlae our
faults and failings and iololes from
those we would win to our confidence
We hold the chalice of promise TO
the faith and break it to the hps'
In an over selfconfdence and price, tne
young refuse to/ listen to the teaching o.
experieuce.ar5 so nJzl on Us the foolish hsn
to ~ bait the gy b. he web, each POSITIVE
cha her hero is an es ception, ana that sue
thor ,3rbIy knows the grammar OF lie
svhe, indeed g1e Is only living in the dead
,c,,,,c of the hours that surround her
inallv thctru.hbur-ts upon the--sce.SS ee-aa'rs
Isclo ,sgza.S illusion Vt life with its fables OF
nj its castles n Spain and its
iossoins. OF hittarac. + md in this blank
SahaI1 OF .,esoIeg'T~ uae comes an ex.
istence naralv2e7 Do, slr..l ill-health with
only The moss and the leaves ana inc
mould: and to the ,oor woman's storm
tossed bosom over th' wrecks Oh Ihe pas
there is no returningdove, not slsn ol a.,
Ararat through the windows oil tne sooia'
xucture. not -l'rsow Of promise to in
dicate>al peac' herr o. hereafer' not a voice
TO whispef>lost. Ano so ine . 'uhg cIeeA'
that were y q llsad11r buds Nv seasons
since becouls like 5uoVdrgps . Cashmere
The voice once merry .ngsio to the house
hold heath. is isdcn wi'h ne signs oil sol
raw WHO would haze drought II
a yea- AGO OF that s<i
Who VII Ilf it of you to-day
= lituo NOR, .-7ri.osl view of the actual
requirements OF .le marital state, little
longer and more thorough acquaintance
the one with the other in advance of the
things to be encountered, little less oil
deception and much more naturalness, a
little deeper listening to the friendly advice
from the wisdom and knowledge which
come only from experience, and fewer oil
these terrible tales Of domestic misery viii
blaekeu the columns Of the daily press.