The home journal. (Winchester, Tenn.) 1858-188?, 1882-06-21
18th two little gold disks clasping in the


order. Your visit is opportune, as
have lust finished the most expensive
pair that ever left my factory. The
price is 81. 200" In this the lace and
pearl-colored silk band was Joined by
nm elaborate clasp. On one side was the
lady's monogram in pearls; on the other
the coat-oi.arms, with frosted storks'
heads, crest of delicately carved gold,
aud motto set IN chip diamonds. IL
was n present from 4 mother TO her
daughter who is TO DO married soon.
"llas the demand for such Gartcrs
increasedY
at is hundred per cent. greater
than last year, and grows constantly. -
Nc,O Y0rk Sun.
old lnids Make the Hest Boarding.
House Keepers.
Prof. A. u. Willis delivered lecture
in ST. Louis on the subject Of Glove
ana Marriage" According TO the Re-
| pubiicaa, before commencing his re-
marks ho exhibited skull and pointed
out phrcnologically all the peculiar
characteristics OF the person who carried
it around. Ilo Cndeavorcd to showwhore
| the love part Of the brain WAS, and then,
| commencing ms lecture proper, he sad
ho wanted to speak Of the power Of love.
No such man as Brigham Young, in his
opinion, had any love in him. He had
| too many wives.
To rdl inloyopoople must feel ifthcy
| could carcss and embrace Gacn other.
Some girls like h. hug and kiss, and 9th.
cr5 didn't caro- II cent about it. II all
depends upon the organ Of coniugality.
Some married people never kissed each
other, while others were very fond OF
kissing. Couples often got along well
enough, but there was not that congen-
iallty between them that should exist
between man aud wife. Love, he con.
taudci, was in its very nature attraction
or magnetism.
Love, Whist ls love?
TIL tho frl'iug OF twp spirits to be- one.
Many people, he added, were apt to DO
mistaken in their affections. There
were lots Of it in the United States,
which no attributed TO woodworking,
the hitter producing too much scnti-
meuial5m. flo then described tho
average young couple going through
si."e of courLpg, and said there was
just ~ much difference as between
black aud white. Loyo blinded most
folks. II nBirl was in love to man she
became blind TO his faults. A second
| test 81 love was that lovers were always
unhappy il not in each others presence.
The third test was, ii you were in love
| with person you would die for him.
! Such facts wore good evidences. Love
he regarded as n boon of happiness. Let
nm old maid fall in love and her eyes
would sparkle and she would look ten
| years younger. She would become n
changed beng. Ho was just a little Sc
we're on old maids, for he said tho most
Of them wore sour. They made tho
best boarding house keepers, though, in
tAe world.
Tine Great object Of modern court.
ship, hg continued, was to get acquaint-
/ ci. marry and fool each other. He
/ pointed ont the deception practiccd
nowadays in order to win Il wife or Il
husband, and spoke Of commercial mar
ria8e
tie claimed that in MI questions of
mri 20 the facial expressions should
be studied Mon and women ought to
know about human nature.
10 Love, Honor, and Obey.
( The oll-timc formula in the marriage
service, by the uttcrauco Of which the
bride uroscryedly commits herself TO
obedience to the dictates Of the man she
J marrics, is greatly dislikod by most
! women. There arc many who arc willing
10 say they viii love the man. Some go
80 far as to promise Inn honor. But IN
implicit obedience there seems to he
something 80 lavish that the feminine
suul instinctlyely roCuils from ii. Some
women require that The officiating clcr-
gyman shall omit tho Objectionable
word Others want it to bo slunod over
80 aS to be hardly audible, and there are
some who are willing to have it pro-
uuuuccd aloud and to respond to it with
the understanding that it means no more
than the "wiih al my goods thee on
dow" which is uttered by the bridegroom,
whose sole possessions aro tho goods
upon his back,
When, therefore, the married man in
Bists on the full carrying out Of that part
Of the contract in which obedience il
, promised 10y the wife, he either becomes
r an object Of ridiculo or else otherwise
gets himself into trouble. THUS it was
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