, 1881-12-18
The World Still Engaged in Harry
ing and Giving in Marriage
Future Bliss.
Social Happenings Of All Sorts-Per-
souui Notes Here, There. aud
Everywhere.
Fashions Latest Freaks Promul gated for
the Guidance Of Her Vo-
taries

es To 1nn
NO oouot ~ 1nA, ~ soou '..'1.... n'0 ~ es.a 49,.
mend people to their faces, Whatever ON
NAV say behind their bucks. Indeed, har'
remarked that many wc1l-bred people leet i
=, I,,v ~ sav ~som.,hinr polite and com
u",, ~ '' ae.>'.;..e,. .,.,,st,,or u,.r;,n,
'nenaa'olv OIL a1l ocestsn''s, "i.s4 ~. 80 :"
Or not. They transgress ule pou'las VI ue
corum, propriety, and social obligation, ant
,u,Lr rn.nness mass for wit, concet fol
.'''''.n,,,ass .,.1 1j,rou q, ,n,n11c of Chart,
ele'e4Aeao .A'o ."1o" ...
AROUND cOaIscless ana iaaeeencs, ~ S1oss
ing them over with i haif-approvtng polite
,,,.ss. willie the whole !eillg reyoits with dis
..,,, ,rt,ra ara far kinds of i1unositiu1
gust lnele 's ~" n'e ~, +t,a ,..,r,d nv.
which, are more pf:lc1lced on a,le "oi4'1' 'u'.
few more offensive or more to be regretted
The Eay ard tAougtless aro heartily glad to
;,a,foa thair Ioyr for lie ridiculous. and
,nlrr f,lsc nrete,,se, make a merit Of tho d.
uis.'eA 4".7e s"e.a,s.o', ,,r r,,,ars
fects and aosu,tes pseseHu - oy tbe ..r;
Every one ls Hli2 10 ,t ~, a. t,ars = e ,', ~"
lossiolc tas'e ~ CIV ~ ~ ~ .,.i.., .... :.
universally achnoMleoSed l'M -. so1iiy
u I've peaceAoay alu .;,'tx ~, '''.,;
Nitn u!e a,ld hftt,p Wy tai;rr. y pnItcns:s
c;llloe a!sas i.u o.t.s ..s,,;,' fsr,,.o ra,,..o
a!So uetlailuS et!ta4 .''1.'.i; ~
well,pEra' Mci!'a'clea 'e'sm m ,,utat M"u ib 4hs
need!ssIv ifll:Ae pt9sohe, VI s!o.S nc
law MAich clti!1alo1 nsls se:u1 ~, ~
when sHall see YOU as.ln: natu.s ;t TX.
uisposeu 10 palL VIII sou ~ Suom eoa' '4a''
lllS been great pleasute 10 1ie: .,,,;, T.,
There was all cxubetaHce OIL pleasure III
the iadys voice, anu ~ tipP's - ueet ~ I4.s
merry little laa'eil one tieil nle ,isuu " aet =
Itsltof. VINO aIeM ae1seli w w. ute EtS s.,s,
AlEht It was possible 70 rsuse lcl SHUT ooc}.
a1sd, WITH Smile 0I seil "eu Is
t.'o elllblsntatlc OF that con!cltiptloc alsecta-
l1n DOTH 2. ah'to"!' .ai1ts' M aaoi'S ;,,t ,.o,,
cry KIM III you ~ Ash sae, uut ~. ;ou
mnss cn1e u seG e , ..se ~ .;s o'',o ,.s
on nl3 .nle, eau .',, ei WYNN - "4'A w po7
slns W. .ot M aiIc - @ cS.t ~ .,;.;t,r mt with
tne l'hs uo"s nc! sie4to! Vue 49,, " ~" ,i
polN lo.i u @ u'c t''ost u1u a..
door Is Mea 70 fos. s,'v ne;'i ~,
claims, lhe 1901; Ehpc'iineli1; \, un,u, .all'
cha1tetlhg GnpilI!ea. Iug' il,1n,tieien .,ii i's
woman. he1 haEn p'uasSu-,u.eG p!is .atu net
uanseai,ng remarks shoaiu osltaclse ner IL
hnce- NAat clalsn lias sue on lell!eu ~;
ciety with tler backwoods manners a11d lh~'
so!ence? ,:..
Lao 1ll's laof oGen u lrllie tilole nontHt, ~
had she shown i'y her own naMfalness ule
sympathy sue 1e!t Ios Hef V1Sl1ols supelcti-
luns nonsense 1'ad a'le7 oy AcF own Ee'is,e
luanner. juaicsousty and wisely nave llaoe
l.er s!.cl that her artllcial 1oollshleSs' HOW,
ever innocent, 'n1lSt tehtl ~ uestfnya! soclal
intercourse: L1at all uapseteal11ols latnf:u-
l1ess "nly Will VIII tne hcar:' tisat iier own
I.:tltseh peoplc aS:slaSt rs Mef- LOW linen VISIT
II "uG!u nave hF11. !ae hIst EH'S Iof nsssil-
''+:s Is stii-1eslact, anu seli.Itsrect otsn1
not 10 atso" cunning, nsl'ocr'sv, anu eneoul
a:eheAt 1cF ta1n plt,eHse, NV tinln altu
generosity. CIe ea1l ne gi'a'Naoie ~ Ml
'asrs ~ weakness, poi11elirss requires
tiis; ous Wnefc d"Wnf15s1l ruo51ess :Itu M
suleiice m1st t'e Closed oveT oy Tue Term
""S1Et::'$ the WoIlA VIII hol :accepl u,
and the s'llcnler Is denounced. WEft t'nt
III coiainit thss error one woaid heS!ecl
0ae7s moral fr1intn2, and 10 10 tsiat
would De TIE most elfect,iai eAt:n1Eisher
tn the principle u Eood breeding anu
tk' foundation Hpnn which society rests
Win a secure foundation OF moral prin:tp!2,
deep and broad, one eau view Tue supel-
s:rActur: towering high above, with a secrr-
lty i'll its s0lldlty. Nelt-1taiitcrctt people
never fal! 10 please, provided they have cnl-
.i.ltetl minds and morals. Everybody KNOWS
II would DC decidedly ill-bret'. w!1en III Il loi-
eigl country, to take otlense ut Il custom
which might be considered vulgar III your
own; it would cast I'LL imoutation on their
society laws, ana very justly give olTcns...
An English writer OH this subject, whose
work has bcconle quite popular even in this
remarks:
"'To do III Rome as the Romans d. ap-
plies tn every Kind Of society. At the same
lilut, you can never he expected IT, commit Il
serious breach OF manners because your
uu:xhbnss do 50. YUu c:.u neyer be called
on il, America to spit about the room simply
because it is National iabit''
This is so,ncthin. new. Where and i'll
what society in America did tie writer min
eIe: Surely. it mn It have been a grade Of
witicI, we fnou 1,otuirr. where s,lf}, dis
r,,,,.f;, ..,,fr. .r;~,,, Is cu,,.,,n,, .,,e+,,H,