, 1880-08-17

There aro solno lives, t!eIleIto anil reserved
rs they arr., that Ht!Ll hcpig to tin wor!d, rs
4 part Of It's helping history. Whether OF
kl e + EksS k"W e!r sory Il oG It tc 12c 81 Sy % tio
whell 1t cnn be tu!l, w,cl, they nru golii..
Alra: Sarals Grcbir, Ut ILLS city, whose tlvatl,
" Now Haven was nnllollnetd IN yesterdays
;ig eigci gcior;is WGs 50 50 iiSni,lel WITH n!IIsi, @
snr.nl nMl benevolent aetivi!y, tint it IS
proper to spcals Of the lnss to tEls city Of this
abundant Mnd Ilellty-ulftel life. T1leru arn
soIn' ty iurn, l'atarcs l,t ale BLASTED mid searea
nluro Fruitful nnti fuller by their priyate
loss!sss nlld grlefs. Wien the yultng widow
nf 1I : ltteHt.,col. @ Grehie, after l,is loatli nt
LII ncl!is nSo ySry eGr'y yI3o Il te var eas s 10
hut girl IN, years. Three yenrs, lla.l
lcltl for ltcr the romance, the lupriness.
n.!d tho tragetly, Of life, l,cr nctrtIt!lAl,
my 11I1fagf gg SSthSraod a hy I;,o wtts%'G
~ nll i!ur nSsoclntiens with military life.
Her fathur, tho ltrv. Mr.. Frc,lcI, wns CiIn1,-
!ll't 9t West Point during her girIhood; allI
her husband, then Llett. GrGblp. was Ill
to lhS War.. ~ tcnlpcra,lsllt brlIllaut, VIII!
9 slnllN stint brought sunshine wherever 1t
fell, 0t i nature sflgularly devoted, even thu
;teen grief and silock of l.er uyounE widow:
ll1ble cl'nncter into glooln and sclnstlness u
Erlcf. From tho tiiliu Ut her ndopt1Gn of
'Ih'ln.lrlpllin rs ler home. III tho household
OF ltr tAtiel-ln-lnw, AlY. Edwin Grehle, she
self Tor others. As Was lleturn', tlle Wnralnl
i,le soldiers ''i thu ilrSt eul1 oll !'GE, but thy
Episcopal, Church ,of she Iluiy Trinity fn1,Ml
llcr must energetic nlst sllcccssfll worker.
twn channcls, that afterwards broulclletl ont
III 50 jimmy htsennIs that tholv WIS sgArcc!y
my brond enterprise anuNE Philadelphia
%wol'lt'ii % TINT tiltt pot EAse, Or scek tn have,
a1is Gr 1FSsGS9 NH M iha iss sisS c II IL S@e 5 1. M1s
co1! Institute, nntl. with TIM Snntlay.scllooi
Of Trinity, especially with tho infant school
nt thu a[lilinfial Cl'al,et, Ut which, sl.a wiz
tue ,!!1yllE S!'r!l Tor sl or seven ygnrs. Until
resign Ills clargs. or lite years her Inter
lnellt alNi speriat llcip Of !lar nyll seS. ,Shs
Was w, ~! act!yo manager Of thr, W,olnnn's Hos
elcc, Will m tito Ns:e Tiains S;St scyoi H"'tatd iii
portion q lis term ln tho wo.nnn's wards
of Dtoekley Aln'sl!alsr, WIS another
wonld ieavo o. hcf "its h"'''s ittu'i iate III 1o liz
evening, to carry over old linen f0r
l,al!tlhges or otl,er comforts to natienta
tllerc,, or to sit by IL 'lratl'-l,cd in THO city
won ills brljit !avarit Sa of fsiye' sscieiy Itft i
her wn1nall's privilege 70 minister. Thu
Sung. charm OF manner, tho saint, rndEatit
lavc!lnGss TINT liNto ller sought and tisttll-
gulsletl h. tug saeinl world, WIS poured out
ward.
!.iea Of tle working; fnrce, tint Mrs. Grelio
slla was connected. Slla "iikca tlrndgiig,i'
sllo WIS accustomed to say, anil tll0nglt wGli
q,ln!liiusl fur, leattcrslip,, keldaM t0ok tho
ieadt except III tl1l!lts the hnrlest work. She
fit4u mil fftlt1k init
'nlgllt, cupylng, With lrr own llniNl. circsl-
!nrs, npncals, ,s0llceS Of lncetn md Othur
business rolItinc-work, ~ which ,i!er nal.v
never appeared, but which snyetl tho paid
Ei!rg cllarltes III ciaInel her nisi. ntut taesp
lAb0rs went IN simultaneously with tho con-
trnl 0f lnrge household. Of which Shn Wis
tue l!onsckeeper atld lIcntl. Ilsete wsss never
n'lollIt Of public work, sllo waa rs wiso ind
deyt'te. counsellor t, l.ur two children us
IiInny y WnIhull WHO never stlmls u tAonEl!t
peytllr 'InF 0'yIl tsnoralrllk Slll WINS actlst!y
work. 'Il.u Cooking Sshnol, tj,u Country
Week., had her counsel AMI her labors unfit
tn!ltllg leu III compelled l,cr .tU ruhnnncG,
work, Tllu horticultural soeiety icll Iur
beautiful prcscnee with II. III tts socInl
nYeI!'Igs, Is Il ccn!ra ut a.trnct'al; when
tltG Nlcl1o Memorial y colnptnse4 l!er. nano
VIII ~ lultIlH [llIuIlE lis llltAl !illltlIl NOt-
ers, With Ill lGr strnng suIiul nat1lre, sl,o
lseycr lalA nsitn her simple mourning dress,
nt1tl llcr wl.lDw's vtll nude hnr 6eeH,. us III
llltlst OF lrlIlunt entertainment mt Of tho
lh4st distinguished IN my company.
Ilur. death was sudden, hit not unex-
pcetetl. 1t occurred IN Now l!aynn, not here
year, har physician iiutl giyei. no llore Of ro-
lief fran her exhaualillg taEsensc. hut tho
elnl can,o to her III sleep, 6o ,tralqntlly tint
tn9so who watched lIer most tentieriy lltl
6uct! life Is lIss ,liisptaskablu III tl.U ntNny
ciArttles-thn lnrgU cirr|o Ut which sle WIS il
lnrt. nIt 1t y a'B.s q grcat. .gan IN Its full
tween to,ncstlo .!,tties ind tlio 1 w"ri.l's n6-
surbtuK work WIS 80 beautifully held by
t'leae llntirlng hands that no better typo
could bu f0una oi q wolllalllooa essentially