New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1880-01-05

marry and woman, you do not ask the woman 10
that she will obey the man" tnougn. ioI
what a woman will say get The man she wants OF
who declared she would never promise 10 Goey
would get round II by means. Aud the minister
who was TO marry them heard OF IT, The WORD came ~
his service, and the woman followed the service une
with a very bad 1T of coughing. &" Take your
time, my dear" the good man said no sort
% hurry IN The os same %S pace will try once more
he SAID for ,0nstss are very patient S" C@Ge S ea
you cannot through with the service ana csInot
yo g. that ,saf s@ost e took his
(Laughter] thought OF telling ihat story Du1 VIVA,
say that she will oDey the man. and let the man g. free
because OF the best women ever knew sara sne
wcud, and never did obey, beyond what was ior an"
But chance aud change make no difference on th ,
cannot by reason of the glory which excels In
the good old wife ut seventy.
The next thing consider Indispensable TO goou
home is house full of children The figures show mat
the American who has been longest on the soil is losing
ground, sDd the conner from all the world over IS
taking his place Men who willing TO die for their
country are not Wiling to live for 1t; ana good
women, who could work their fingers 10 the
bone TO defend land not wiling to give sons
and daughters to people it, lAppIausel IN my great
ola mOtherand the homes are full OF children speaK
for that which ought 10 give any man courage when
only halffu may hide itself it ~ the most fatal blow
thai any can strike either at his own soul or the
soul Of his county. For il IL not merely what he
may take from the measure OF life, but What
be may take from ITS hope and Joy: WHAT
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hidden away once III q secret chainOer III slIauolu-
upOn-Avon; in the old hut where Burns wGs norm
IN home down In Virginia where George Washg-
ION was born; or IN ma, poor eaom in s ahroha
where child was baptized by the name Oh AoIaam
SIGHT then now, but are now lighted ana
sci on the shining SUBMITS o. the world. lAppauseJ
NO TINE To BE WASTED.
Then another thing is that man should make sure
as soon as be can that all this true Gospel, and
conduct himself accordingly. 1t is great mistake in
young to THINK that he wait as long as be VIII
he begins gather these things about him that
have tried to describe-a true wife. good home
and such family as he can find in his heart;
and then, when he has made his fortune
and can keep a wife and family In certain
social station with all the uxuries OF life, nc has done
his whole duty. II you ask him why he does this, he
will tell y0u lac cannot do any better-that he cannot
ask a woman to marry him out OF a mansion, and 20
live IN cabin such woman is not fit for n poor
mans wife. But in time finds out ever so many
secrets this question FIRST, he finds that she Who is
not tit for poor mans wife. as rule,
is fit TO be any mans wife, espe-
nc may poor. But suppose lie waits until she Is
thirty aud he thirty live and then maries the woman
that she would have jumped al him ten years If he
had said the word; she wanted him to say so
he ddn't. Laughter 1 think the wisest
ns o, ever s6d n ana mVss before aT Was tweny
Very sad is the tate OF the man who hears the
woman fhaVe made for thee and replies, canno
take her vet for ten or twelve years come" Laugh
teri While man is saving money he Is wasting HE
DE- Stark the Register General of Scotland has shown
from statistics from the age OF twenty 10 twenty
five twice ms many bachelors die as married men, |
was appalled, when read this. at the risk had run
in staying single until was twenty,four lLaugheil
The average single women is little better and u
ought to ne, because they not the greatest sinners
for they cannot always do as they like Laughter
SO young man, If you have been waiting. show your
grit and right and pop the question. ana thus
lecture will prove the best sermon you ever heard in
your life. lLaughter:l
TWO KINDS OF Discomfort.
II is both the curse and blessing OF American life
that we are never quite content We Gil expect to go
somewhere before we die and have better time when
we get there than we can have at home The bane of
our life discomfort. We say will work so long, and
then we viii enjoy ourselves. But find II just
Thackeray has expressed IT, When / was boy" he |
SAID wanted some taffy-it shilling-i hadn't
one. When was man, had chilling, but didn't
want any tafy."
But say not one word against that splendid discon
tent that all the time makes strike for something
better like this idea that every boy born III America
dreams or being President NO man mas any right 10 Dc
be his best and not TO do better Tomorrow
than he Is doing to-day But all tns will by keep
ing close to manly and dutiful life. While going
the grandest thing do is TO feel sure
that what doing for days work, with ali that
we do and that very likely having the best
time that come to our life; that this work
and wife and home and chlaren, all they are
and all they mean, beats the world The sad
dest thing In life is our discomfort when
we ought to be most contented. 1t is
brthright to get the good of life 20 along, In
are like ram aud sunshine 70 an apple tree
But when will not believe this and dream that the
tune then sell our birthrght for mess OF pottage
Dnt worse than Esau the pottage gives us he
together. Laughter aud appsuse.J