The Arizona sentinel. [volume] (Arizona City [Yuma], Yuma County, A.T. [Ariz.]) 1872-1911, 1880-04-17

the only snlfassertion possible.
We know this by our selves.
When we are rudely tre.ted We
involuntariiy feel ourselves ready
for retaliation, as protest against
the Indignantly offered. To ac-
cept it meekly would seem to US
discourageing and mean-spirited,
and We resent it, showing our
resentment in u refined and be-
fitting manner. Influence goes
from the higher down to the low
er-it does not ascend" In home
life. servants who thoroughly un-
derstnnd their work should be
left to do it without too much In
reference. A petulant, fault
finding mistress will make a bad
.ervant Of a good one. Nothing
so entirely vulgarizes a house
hold asa tone of hostility between
servants and EMPLOYERS. A mis-
tress should remember that the
be At servants she can get are not
faultless, but are liable to the
same errors. temptations and pas.
sions rs their employers. She
will sndeavOr to correct their
faults and not to provoke them.
Above all, she will treat them
and encourage her children 10
{, eat them with uniform kind
ness and civility, remembering
that service is a relationship OF
employer and employed, and not
Of master and slave. One can
nevor overestimate the effect Of
sympathy in dealing with class
OF inferior station 70 our own
II is not enough 81 bc just and
| liberal to One's servants. One
tShsaill al iHxys sIlnatily bY SAX
ing kindly interest iFa gseir cir
cufnsta1cea and general we'll
being, by cooking after their com-
soEt, especially WI sn iii, respect
ing their religious prejudices
and by not too closely curtailing
their amusements. The wheels
of domestic life need the oil Ol
civtity to make them run smooth
ly, quite As muck rs the wheels
Of society, and where it is freely
used they neither rust nor wear
Quit in the service Of love. The
habit o. fault finding that some
persons INDUCED in il terrible
trying one in the home circle
1t will in time make sour the
sweetest temper. and wear ever
love threadbare. 1t is the little
foxes that eat up the corn, the
little misfortunes, annOyance'
and perpiexities which often rem
der life = burden. There Is ~
old prOverb: ITO make \ devi
you must take an angel" Con
stant grumbling, persistent mis-
representation of motives, sus
piciOns of evil where no evel Wa;
ment, will complete the wOrI
lin all but the finest and most he.
roic natures. They alone cal
stand the fiery test, coming ou
purer and stronger for the ordeal
George Eliot says " We Cal
only get better by h wing people
about us who raise good tel
ings." This is one Of the secrets
of happiness of some households
Where the iarring and clashins
OF rude manners has broken bi
after bit from the household
shrine, until the cold breath o
>elfishness has extinguished tn,
) flame OF love, long exposed to it
influence before it went out EN-
; tirely. there will be found n
, bonds OF affection to draw to
gether those who are thus separ
ated. Parents who d. not wisl
the hea.t Is o. their children t
, become callous should neve
[ humiliate them before others
, They may often be obliged t
cheek and restrain them, but re
proof should te administered t
each singiy and entirely alous
Z Us. F. Chronicle.