, 1879-03-08
AIATRIAIONY,
ADVICE 70 "DACIiELOtsn

CHICAGO March 5.-l aM not ono OF tile " sis-
ters, but would liko to say q few tli!ngs to
you, Bachelor, like Il brother. Arc you s'fool-
Ing" giving fictitious, exaggerated case, In Of
der to draw out comment, etc, or nro you
really in earnest, In trouble. nnd stating bona
Ade personal casol II the Inter, then the alice
tton, like the measles. attacks you more severely
than II you were YOUNGER. You should havo
la,4 an earlier experience, prophy1actlc Or SORT
of modif1cr, as 1t we're, md thus been better
ahlo to resist, react under, or understand tho
| present attack. The general symptoms oF love,
30 far ~ can sec, aro alike in nearly every case
but wherein their manifestations. tenderness,
md sympathy may be called OUT In ona case,
rtdue,.le md disgust may tc melted In another,
cycu as It appears much worse 10 aeu man
crying with the toothachc than 1t docs to see
| woman or child weeping over the satno 1O-
| Guilty. FIN q bachelor myself, but not
quite SO old ns you are, anu have tiuc cyn-
selIt: haye "bccn III love" severut times CANT
tell exactly how many tines utll am cut vi the
business entirely Just now) 80 l'know pretty
we'll sl.at the sra,plons, effects, n,ltl tenacnccs
nrc, Al,tl Gull liRgnosu tile casu quito correctly.
have gained quito spirit ut philosophy un.i rcs
it viii not be suc, rec!'oss, sudden tumt'lc, ur
series Of tunbes, ns before, think, but one Of
moro scnsblc, pro'nps, busiocss.is;o character,
| trust; sill, donft know, anl wllv can tell
'WllAL uH HQAT Ill kIl1S a&l}EE.
tfou,-who can iorcscc hts owu caso tu!Iy md
| correctly, much !csH nnutller'sf In rcgarf to
"scntnlcnt," why should not I'll bachelor Ut
| II" iayu sentiment as well as ottlersf for heart
bady. ~ fact IL Is quits natural ai1 right tlnt
Ie should l1avu or abundance, Ut least, Ut tho ar
ticie, especially II hc has let none VI It cscupe
previously; nnd It Is apt to be ali the InoEo
etlergescGnt and uncontrolable cyen when It
| does hnd vent III such i ease. ,....
| Ii l wcro yuu would not consult the whole
nciglborhood ID regard to the bnstness,-for
Of h{ {G9f 1 ' ad thSss nnsan,e
mother ''snnctlooz," s.takc tho c1lanrcs." ua
llc Conductor pays III tbs hcaalns Of your ar.I..
Gle, a,lt' don't be III suspense and NUKE yourself
| unhappy OF, account OF ~ .sdlspartr 0f uss :" uu,l
your soinewhat d!!apidatcd condition. "Drace
upl' You arc good Tor MI IFcrage lfctime 0f
s,apptness got II you improve the opportunities
well. Put kerosene OH YOUR head Tim trying
| ~. which will euro batdMcss, go sonic say who
ought to know, but II 1t docs uot, butslhend Is
not d!sgraceful sight, but often makes t'ue ap-
near wise md ycslurabc and thereby entitled to
greater respect ut least: besides It affords lcss
opportunity inr hnir.pnlllnE after n,arrfagc.
As to faiso teeth, they are better than ula
natural ones tn sotno respects, mcct all the
| adjusted 10 any mouth, and have no acIloa and
but few brcnkF Tls "glitnlncr - Of oye-sIght
is tho mos. scrious difficulty, but that can be-
rcmrtlied by spcctac!cs, mud sheY give aort Ut
| lntt ulHEsl1CA " u 1uEHlGE EfGu
in the wholc, therefore, 50 fnr as external facts
show, you have nu REASON to complain, to feel
sat or to leave your - i!rst love-" but, OH tho
cuntrary, to conRrnsulate yourself und your girl
concerned. II the " sisters express their
opiniona md Give aaylcs, tlley doubtless will,
don't listen 10 auy Of thu 0apoponux style, who
wna saa y1n to psIisys =, ts y I Wo ny
to marry BucA mn old ctantl tlclecr nB you, ana
would keep yoi Oh the '' rugged e1gu ~
Of barhelorhood all your lie. ilow-
sSi stFs and sassis y III s Esy y.s sS
md II would certainly be very important to
know. Il possso!o, whuther thc ,'4mushsr's
strategy" un:l your ''own weAk heart" hasl
not n1nrc to do towards culmiuattns The affair
than thu girls own true heart and rea! tnelllla~
tio,,s, ior ypu could noYer bs really happy with
one who lid not l0yo you fully IN aaynncr, anI
who wnnu soou loss her Iaspeet Tor YOU, per-
help seeing linen. llcr "a!nty In some une
cse nearcr her aro aln tnorc In conformity
viii, her tastes, disposition, an! inclinallun.
ami policy, md how many, unkappy llonIrs often
result; l0w 'nauy lycs lnAyc been olastca BY
not considering u tho circumstances a,'i know
Ing eash other fully iu auyauce, nnd yet nj, this
will nnt t1cter others fr0ll following IN iEa same
patti, Mn 10 learn thu folly Of It Tor themselves.
but "lhere IL no accounting tor tas.ss," ,.ld
tl.c attractive olnlnF iofss o. loys syen ande.
sivcrsu adv cut e!fci.sta',ces suutIios Il ssums l 10
be like law vi che1ntatry Or elect richly tue
lHuru dtssiAiIar thu stronger tho uplnn.h
l}ut hAyo Written enough Oh this subject
l,uw, f1r wu1lu not lenh you af airy NIo rtsa
to tl'fcr tat t'lts Is my hobby,-thut Consider
Mysult nH expert III the matter, ETC.; unl,
reilly, besides, the subject OF !uyv, matrimony,
autt dulntatlc affArs aa 1ren tlt5cusScd ~ fully
aud constantly In The Iiolnc-lecuf;,u molu,
lla,lia. IN fuct, with sotne--tfat De!in tu frcl
, III TctesrEcu tu IL somcwliut III tbs fellow .l
, nbout liver. ~ lss could 1.-Two Oh IL for forty
Or tltty meals ii suer%sslan aud en-
Joy II, but didn't l.ke Il a. constant
A!ct.h III CONCLUSION, tAru, perhaps t!u wur.ls
of some distinguished NaaM tn Its lcphew, VIII
, ca,,u tn him tur auycu on marriage; III you
marry, YOU Will reprnt II; lFyal 10 not, you wit
, regret IL" may upply eH1aly vol TO yon
though tt leayca you soncWfat IN the Qllatslars
Ut tits slck lrls!tnnn VIM prayed "u0oh l.ort
aud good Dcyi!a" not knowing which ha.lls h.
, would fall insU Hut thu la.!ns Will ll,loubted
} ~ iurnlsi, ynt I'LL iurtllrr information us,d I'd
y!cu necessary, n,l.l ono IN particular ean 1cut
you to s.wsal or wo," II you tulluw her u!tce
t1oNs alMa wishes, Us you upparcMtIy will laY9 II
Ito. Fluasu rGpust nRan. oil, Interested T.
, your cySr, u,ll Irsirous to know how ynu sue
iced, u nu doubt ntllets art. DAsll.
laaoltu THn MONEY .QuEsr,oN.
To tas Editor u The Tribune.
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