The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1879-01-19
THE QUESTIONS OF THE LOVERS.
A skepticai Lover-An infatuated Husband
"A Very nalf.OonsCaosa Man.

A skepticai Lover-An Infatuated Husband
"A Very self-Oonscscas Man.
B1R I am man OF mature years ana am In
love with woman not much my junior I have seen
much Of her aud am sure size Is woman ofclevateu
character aud Is certainly very intellectual | have
FIRST in kind terms refused The day aer the deciara.
ton received Hotc from the object of my affection
telling 10 back and take her aud appointing an
hour 10 meet me Joyiully responded to the appoint
rncnt ani on meeting her was told that her feeling to
me had undergone changcshc did not love me. hut
cared enough for me to marry me and devote herse
my wehn and happiness and won cngage herself 10
me Tor one year continuously and tall went well would
9s has S gs n SSe bdS e. sn Tier me
sS es spfn 20 I'm, oui come n ner ~ Did do right
have not seen her since want her badly thet, with
chance Of gaining her affection by continued devotion
She is rich aud am well o. j. 5.
Jan. IA, 1870.
You acted rightly II sho was willing to be
engaged to you she ought to have been will
ing to acknowledge the engagement Your
chances arc FIRST rate.
SIN May stranger in the city beg to ask Of you the
reside II lar distant state and an engaged to be
For two years all went well with u.s. and not an unknd
mS% sG tSs s men I'll ,' bo
IN the SANE SUNDAY school but by course Of rcals
the Bible was not Inspired. aud not being Inspired was
sacred than any other book I made n careful
and he NOR FAD Inc /" !, iiih XII in II as 4,rc
inspiration then blinking 1t inconsisient with ny
church work and now do not to church at all and
raw eSprcsscd NY SieIs to NY bride elect and she
agsyeIS saying that she oanGo aud Will not marry NE
not believe In Der church helcis aud cannot play the
and diem again cannot give up tie iidv IN question:
all ' E literal "a Wy view a an es9 to eSn;iei,op
YOU eau suggest some way out OF this dilemma; would
next week and II you wiz In next sunday
s,S ASrono. TWAS
why discuss theology with your sweetheart
When you think more about II you may change
your views regarding the Bible.
sm. win Won please answer tho following, 7 am ~
years Of as,, aud have been married Two years love
my husband dearly and he seemed to think great deal
girl with whom he seems to De perfectly infatuated be
acts as though be- could not Keep away from her u be
Is sure to 20 too have bcsged and cn;reated him 10
fry I" make lone attractive. hut nm getting ii.cour
aecd Can you tell me what ~ Ito, and obhgc the sniler
INK ALICIA.
II what you say Is 30. he Is a very foolish fell
low and any girl who accepts his attentions
knowing him TO be married man. IL even moro
foolish. But II you arc faithful to your duties
he will perhaps learn 10 SEQ his folly You arc
taking the right course.
n J.
ynuiE gentleman ii about the aec and staining
about ~ or Ign year. NJ times he ar,ars t. love
c s f eT month" ha, ave-, Ss s n ,, T., RS1 Ss Ill., o
Rim. gould have had quite a number OF chances to
cent Tor vas always ictruincd would not marry
without love. aud Know there Is ne one Irving that
my hear, Ia. long been .-cridccd iohim
now pleas give Inc le" words Of advice LorfiE
You are right enough in your determination
but we have n pretty poor opinion Of this fellow
Ho ought to speak out or leave you.
SIN. About eighteen month. since fell IN love with
inv saii TTos, rcd and il Looked as Il eoui san be-
against me- tronlh te maci"ns es f so,o ~ tn'ir
ses' ifrmis and now In Sc nothing OF her exec p
seem Fenera y siai To : me iov, her. aud believe
- She i. not m axe yet-i. not more than 10 years
Now the gnc.h1n is .hall marty her. provided -e con
am 'orsci nrti am - aud poor Tut able ant Wiling q
viii hep me sud believe m lady t. be such-I ,oud
~, ,.ens ard geary and esrce upon most N ny; al
well a. nearly all oIlis people H.
You should wait until the time comes whcr
her parents are willing TO accept you rs hei
suitor. II she is fond Of you the delay will no
work against you. Perhaps. however yot
would be wise 10 ask her opinion rather thar
ours.
sin Sir months ago hal t.cn told by sny one INST
woad at one day eNecrencg The love ras9on m all ~
hi. SmI c f,iih amt childish Vaccination AMI Why
dr'g,nis'-,o srrak with Ir'ciion-ev,r -ince hav,
been ai 20 ih -glhIcat observe amt reason upon per
have tunes attributed 60 the profound and ponder
men AGAIN have so@cae. tho,uh, the iaosyncras,
~ De- cunsrnlih A. ANY rate. Whatever the caa-,
Things with a critical Eye. and nov can say win cefu
iudc that am more oi msandiogyu.,i than phiau
drosynisi. ami Maniehran than CHRISTIAN. I'm hc
lsnins 70 Jnns, "r t"n,I m hyi.mns To- beheNr lla
'hAii hu ahuis tth exist Comparative cuuic NJ
with ms iiti.e eAoriium. which hope YOU win *
cnso. Will omen my story. Wen. au m love.
sri Of r.c,rn summers fancy. Nr Ii,ior tiat yoa
cril' Sow love ms itil@ cNid WITH ~ rtr ana no
tense love a. ever animated the breast Of any senur
that have ever lad my cycs on, AMI I've great
i, an ri i, = ~ ,n ~ the 's .l Xxx i'
cam 10 any sulruuuN over NE tor intrinsic hnpluos-
ms winch di,rcusc- WIN M oh.ta les On Ina, score.
our a-r, q" 80 m A-iul' anee Us 20 make our union u
adNisnH ~ tnc l'a pihgr"i lIulucp % pN ,oi ,-,'
Would you aiNst me &C. make huown IA hcr aren't. 81
.uge ih- s,iy H ny itcnnss aul an them iur ihoir
lto''l,l tho lau'I eons,is OF want iNo",
then how -he stand. wnid me. and regulate Ac
IgH ".'yi1 M 5,n lsT ", 1 To- se1,
gam the iupici r's IL visit the house occa.ional> 50
tween Tie eirl md l. which otherwise would NOT ic,l
mnt hM ID. lrNltsr OF u.Nt to 20 % . uem. innn'
siNe mc same OF that homcN practical advice chalac
S Ses who '' "Ao''' awaits ''r' and can Sao a1'
We adylsc the parents Of the girl 20 beware OF
you as a silly follow. AMI recommend YOU t. try
to learn the meaning Of English words and the
rules Of grammar