, 1879-08-09

tries to kccp up the old caras'l.E wnys, and
sf eyes a3o IL as oncs 'Fs" Fsr I" - 'Is no can, n
grrat blessing. ilie wealth Of n husbands lore
Then follow The blltrr bttrr tenyf. waycrnE
between hope md dtssrusf anH STRIVING O.
spttc OF tha co|tlnrss tint has cnma between
tl,rir lives And lust here Ii where The tender.
ness 1ar.shch In ton,c other Home Is tNn most
mi to cnsl.u regret MID feeling OF Rtuhlnrn-
ness that make crIHfnatlons ai1'1 fecfatihtsnhs
go easy tu coma nbuilt.
Husbands nrc not nwnro OF tho value there Is
IN tc,ntcrncss+ OF they wn,ill not cnst u away
70 soon utter innrraEc, nn!l drop The little cour,
acceptable. Then when the s!iasp rntort or bit
jnv rcpruul coinca gradually into place the
foundation IA latl for either wrecked md un-
.lAnpy existence or the resort to TIM only nvA.
terrible 10 lire as eome people, tt' IN open o.sa
continued contention to tho disgust nt friends,
nsiGlboFs, nutl tocloty At fnrge. Separation be-
fore cternal brav1s, say. ontENA.
IGNORANCE THE cAuss or MATRIMONIAL IN.
FELICITY
Ta tae Edttsr nJ The Tribune.
CHICAGO, Aug. At accms to 10 conceded
by tho maturity nt Tho Homo contributor. tlat
the want Of preparation afl practical knowledge
on the part Of tho wife At the time OF rnarrtnge
is one Of the principal causes Of matrimonial
tnfclfcity. When man mnrTica ho Is supposed
10 know something or have something. II not.
The toho mother,in-1aw tas rnaflc mistake
somewhere. But tic young woman goes MS an
apprentice 10 her husbands housc. II sba Inns
a sound body, Tint Inns not been Injured hy
foolish fashion her own tns1iBctotion, thu hNs-
band Is fortunate. Granted that her body Ia oil
right, her husband has the task Of doing t1ou bic
duty, lie hns to pay for oil Of her n!stukcs al,l
ignorance, II tic cooking is pour, Ills stomach
ias to nit I'M with II, II stle Is extrayagant nnrl
sho gcts Discouraged ur iretful over house
kcenl1rr carca. hIs natIonce has To bear 1t. If
Sic kccns him i'm nights with squalling tnfants,
OF whose cnro sl,e knows nothing. Ills health hus
ignorance, ,rhcro there should bp sense and
wisdom.
Il would seem TINT, aftcr 30 many failures and
undesirable experiences mothers would try
md rrsr thrtr dn,,ifhtera with et,,c Knowledge
pf tho jluttca which are sure to he p1ncct upou
them. Yet It. aeen,a 10 bs The settled cn,lrso Of
,uohcrs to allow their daughters 10 grow 10 to
womaphooti mn! marry, fatally Ignorant OF the
couincIl,ng t1icm t., pull throuri, tho eania
S0urll Of Dcspouil TINT tllcy passed through, To
nuke tho snne mistakes they made, to lose
tletr chtldreus or husbands, lore through SUCH
ignorance, and wtltal to bc unhappy themselves.
WHY women pursue ills conr.c tnwar,ls tllelr
ea',s.. !. = -. ,r,ss.n ,,1 4 T. r"t t,n1 't
SSe, y 70 o n 'va" "t trt - ~ ,nn thni-
Sou ~. 1so ran, Ti t i,,,a II onscv"rN ty,m,
~ Is"n Iic,n from tnnwirscc of In lava NJ ma.
ternity. irving to kcop them from knowlct}cc Of
n H. 1s. ,sant a,a n III i, II" narnr nn, 1no
saeat :" Eern % ,si, hans Witt ",'I ,,e ennntrs
swees ~ he.n .rI6 .iS ,i m,.e ,, mi,i ' !,
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sty sny, ,rt t,o.r WE Eoni,snnsa sovo ,hn,n.
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a tu @ ~ '.r, Inaw1n,S vn " M, instrnc,n IN
,nlat mIo aq nav ,n wn1 for annneas in ta
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