The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1879-05-18

sion in spoken words. though his sweetheart
would GLADLY and rightly interpret them. no
matter how confused their utterancc. plucks up
courage to expose the state Of his heart in a let
ter. Here is such a case;
sia am young girl 10 years Of age Two years neo
lheeamc acquainted with very handsome and intcili.
him AZ hrs sight aud after We had been acquainted some
W"p %, oae TO ,c "ush c is ss ~, never speaks :
over again. When he whites he writes In the most
erceih,s word Of love to me love him win ali INV
c s1 sH wg" h nm e Tg9 Re- m,era6s Isoss6
Whenever go win youus man he gets msd and says
you TO give me all the advice sou in this case. DO
nominations can live happily togetherf LIZZIE A.
1t is trying that Nv should not speak out
what he is so ready to write. but so long rs you
know tho sweet truth. why dcspond2 lie will
get his tongue by and by. and be surprised to
find how naturally 1t comes to make love- But.
Of course. half tho fun OF being engaged Is
gone II a lover is too bashful TO speak up.
pair belonging TO different religious denomina-
lions may marry without getting into trouble
IL they are sensible. But arrange the whole
church business before tho knot Is tied. and
dismiss tho subject thereafter.
II Is wrong and foolish to try 10 force a girl
into a marriage which is repuslvo to her.
simply because she has promised her hand.
That is sure to lead to trouble
SIR Ny trouble is this Ihave been going with young
loved him nr.t b1. now almost hate him. and he
wont let ne break the engagement ] told bun that
married next winter, but know II marry him that
ter and other uitors lots better than him. Ga
don't kn9w how 70 get I'd o hun and my parents object
To him Now. please give me your advice. and YOU will
confer a lasting favor ON BERrHA NJ.
Tell him how it Is. and separate from him.
Perhaps before winter comes you will 20 back
to him willingly.
How shall a young man act who has love
offered him he can't returnf This question
comes from Louisiana:
sra In 1877 met and loved young lady and thought
Wat mS nalpi,ness was complete In due time adj
uon was ~ common parance. Tilted OF course left
spes SIX no"Ss rsse9ed T e prom ro hs fT rom an
which could plainly Infer that she loved me AZ her
her that was too late sud that could never love her
But She disreearded all my words and still says must
deeS aud Would DO snyt6ms endnaP 10 h.9 s s
Under al the circumstances OF the case and taking
into consideration the tact that the visits
got That's the question DiLEHnA.
Why have you changed so completely in tho
short space OF six months1 II you wanted her
then. why not now1 Does the Jewel lose its
value In your eyes because 1t 10 thrown at you
after having once been refused1 But she can't
Justly complain. Either go to her as lover or
not at oil.
sra. am young girl n 10. Last summer became
seauainied with Young man. and thought loved him
her v ~sfe enisSsa 70 1s msrrsd I'M, win'sr
school in our distinct have learned to love him aud
one back The rng. and am now keeping company With
,he schoolmassr Ny parents want me to suck TO The
hrst one ALicE.
Oh. you are tickle. You will probably stick to
neither.