, 1879-05-03

OF man which does not embody this contradic-
tion in his social character does not perpetuate
siun to attach himself to one female exclusively
is ascendant, the man forms his permanent at
tachment too early and with too little dscrimi-
nation, and hence gives rise to 4 weak progeny,
which does not endure.
Hence there is an absolute certainty that the
Universal Babe will marry, aud will be untrue
to his wife, and will endeavor to conceal his inf
dclties; aud, since peace is conducive to the
welfare Of the family, the more skiljful the hus-
band is In concealing his infdelities, the more
likely he is to found line of direct descendants
having his distinguishing traits.
Three inferentiaI conclusions may be drawn
here: that the male is more likely to be UNI
faithful to his earlier attachments; that, con-
versely, he is more likely to be true to his later
attachments; and hence, in the third place,
second marriages arc more likely to De happy
than first marriages.
In point OF fact, in American society, 1t IS per
fectiy safe to assume that there nre noaosolute-
II faithful husbands OF first wives. This as
sumption is unjust to some but the percentage
OF error is too snaIl to be regarded IN general
statement. AS an inevitable result OF this con-
tradiction in the social nature Of the husband.
we have domestic infclicities, which are, how
ever, Of minor importance to the baoe. siileo
husbands usually provide to the best OF tiaelr
ability for their legitimate 1a,nlt'es. +Ia;r
troubles are clearly unavoidable, and tlelr
gradual disappearance. through increased pow
ers OF conccalmcnt On the part Of the husband'
It follows, aeain, from the above, that the
/ woman who has ceased to ATTRACT her huSoa1iu
must lear bis neglect as best she NAV. This IS
one very sad and pitiful condition, tnsepafaoie
from monoaamy. The only avatiaoie fetheu! Is
to transfer the affections sot tile non.attrac@d.se @
mother from the husband to hcf cnhofci1. !ue
| true remedy would seem to lie in polygamy,
u,Ider which system displaced wires are ut ieast
rot disaprointed or Inundated, but this remedy
is not available, since it Is detrimental 10 tne
| Universal Babe, aud hence cannot Dc perpet~
| uated. ,+ .f r.
| constaucy comes persistent aversion on lne
mart OF the husband to the male 1r1ends OF the
wife It is only in the higher and more pe1lect ,
forms Of marriage that the husband trusts tne
wife implicitly; the trust OF the husoano ls
usually in direct proportion to his own trust
worthiness; hence very few husbands view Win
out apprehension any intimacy on the part OF
the wife with another man. Some nnspanus
have sufficient knowledge Of women, gained OF
exhaustive social experience, TO trust t1ieif
wires implicitly in spite OF their own 1aath-
iessness. and such trusted wires make the
trursr and most charming friends lmas1naple,
and exert very deep influence for good over
the whom they honor With their Iavor. ,. N
have close friendship with themselves because
Of their own needlul concealments, or Win
other men because Of Jealousy.
If Eyadne will reflect moment, she Will see
| at once that the woman who feels that some
| norton of her nature is starving from nus"
hands neglect will not be likely to regard the
man Who supplies her needs merely as friend
| for any length 6f time Unless q neglected
wife means divorce, She had rather not seek
| from other men what she cannot obtain from
her husband
| Except hcredity and support. the influence OF
| man oyer the Universal Babe Is incidental.
Upon woman, and the sentiment Of the woman,
arnends the existence Of the race. In the
mother. the useful and practical must wholly
| e,hiupate the sentimental ulltl the instinct OF
nreserVation Of the family must dominate her
natnre.
/ ~ ~, ..,.t.a ha;nge woman has the most cx,
- ~ III etLou 4a, ,oh,as+ a+tr;hntes anr The most
alsen s.'e, n,-onni1ot;on. 40. and since to her has
conlpeA e. ,lisa, - ha, ehc1i'most he rcn1ired,
most mos oeen ssu} " ~ ~ .oci.Iv nnrncrat If the
1ne ussPot ar arlsa raco " +Sroneu m he highest
oesllnies " nae;hi;t;o ns, and donme1t from the
pnuae'TE 80 ~ - h,,., +ha ;nrs If existence at the
uay ol Eye ~ un3 'n ncnd shnd ~ feors over the
pflee u uei n1. I,s;.;n" x1h;ch ,nnet he hers
wfonss anu nn;,,rns woman orcnnies ut once
~hne ue aasE n.,S ,hs ,nost nafhetjc nosi
tne moss 81, eAn':su n:s:usa .t.'o eoe AAe'' '
tom ID tne uu1sG'ss- r. ,,rs+ ha rr,1ed
Inc inotneI o. tne uua.an nn.e, - tha famil,
p4 an nsencI ~ a..G ss.,a.., +,a hrIaf ncr
Us stfohE Us enat mns4 sosas.uta sto~e-,onr ~ arist
1ecuon OF some VI ue LepHaop'ela nr;of Sa,,
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