, 1879-08-09

tlnn seliish In reality marriage. ilues not bring
with it nc greatest hnpnne1s unless 1t docs IN.
tall chanco IN life. 'i'hr relation which w!lo
widely from tint nf lovsrs: !u the lornler
inifvhsunl interest /. entirely 1Hrrrcd III tts
taMilr; n The hitter cast, there arI tws, Rcparatu
TMas na te.sy .co eHe o'hcr i. Mn"cs tTnr M
roscRtc-lnc,l md to t1en, ncveF-failfnE loTa OF
llope. 1hey hnyo rothInE to ,lo with 'ho snata-
ttai world, fts wants ninl carcs; they ltvo only
~ bliss TINT to them mn, .cem heavenly. h',t
Witch tic future generally fa!ls TO bring fnrtt
Ailgr marriage. tito Nnol wlfc take$ upon llers
self some ellsrn OF llnr n.l,,,nl*s hns!npss bur
tlcns. Little by little they rccpcn!zs tho fact
.hst t!Sv are TO liye togel'er tor nlI [ t!m,n"'
tho realization OF ts comes Foa'lor 10 tlh 'i1ls
bind thnn 10 The wife, bcralsc iIc Is moro f..
mlllar with an.l mora interested tn tia struggle
Tor bread. Moro md n,nre he bccencs Gu
crossed Into business. unit little W iits's tl'd
attentions lint he Wis wont to nay It's Wtsa 70
]hvisIlE formerly. pass asAy, until tl1ailY the
wills ccascs to expect them; es,c, too, either
identifies herself wtth hin. IN his race for mn
tcrtnl wealth, or lives for fashion as lta Tor
noFor." 1t ought nut to t,c so, md yet It ts
But business, hYdra-hcndcd. steps in.first on one
side atid tllen on the other. Then nRaat,, 80
tHR,ly young peoplc become careless about sllclr
ncrsonal appearances nftcr they nre married..
1rlic, Young wife cannot always be dressed as
II ahe were guIlle 10 tlIe>prsra, especially II she
Is her own housekeepcr and hns her children
t" Look ts ss,'r , 1t '1e 9,xosn l. no onon sx
ladies'. viz: that Of tranp!ng about IN dirty
wrapper" know wife IL not 10 ba blamed
for syersfh'ng. 80 far nm fron. believing hut
thai frcelr admit that hush nls nso moro to oa
ct1sured for MARTA, disputes nild dticnltIcs
thnn their wives. Another fruitful causc OF
trouble nftcr marriage Ia lc Hnnselcss o1pect-
aucy Of extraordinary happiness. What r'ght
hare we to expect more happiness III oilr !nnr-
ttI,tGt has that ,fr@n,
It nut ,,robablo that tin,y started out with the
same bright hopes, with the same enthusiasm.
3sMl with the satno expectations OF happincfat
II they hare bcp1 disappointed, lpol what
viii be exemot from their tr!al.. their soHaws
md their mfsfnrtuncs1 Man!fcsslv ali alyhn-
tagu that We llaYe os Them Is that wo mar, II VIC
wll. profit b. tc!s experience: "rrov!icnee
recognize md understand the new relations wc
hear to each o'her nnd discern clearly in the
future not only the iose, but the sorrows and
tllsapuolnsmonta, OF our new existence, then, by
we will he able to ho happier than our friends
around Hs Dy being honest to cnch other, hT
l,earng nnss forbcatlt,g, by recognition OF each
othcr's rights and duties, a'ld narGi'n. o( all
t1ese Into consolidated interest, It Seems to inc
wo ran enter life live ycars IN aslvancc OF most
OF our friends. DY granting to ca31 otIcr
the ,Fame privileges VIC ak Tor ourselves, ny
hantshlng suspicion md jealousy, Trusting In
pllcliy "nu aos'ttGly " t%otlaSg!leo, % snSi!' u
may BE- aroldctl Love must bo the foundation
Of the un,u: without II all III a wrork, for "I.et
thu keen sickle Of Death reach rs fnr rs over hu
san; w ulny laAcn t1tlaJ cncsnA, rpo nIs, anu M
faslli1g eyes, hut he cannnt quite reach love-"
MEfas.
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nl'okcE DEMANDED UNTIL nE1hrsloS DIES
TO Tho Editor o. Tit TrtbsrssI
RILEY, ILL.,, Aug. 5.-Shouid l again bo sue
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.,v fsn, wor,,s ,,non I'm ot orcsant- non,,,or
"',,,,.,t ~ ,ns-s,.no ~ au.1 ,irar,o ' 0'
sunlcet VI ".ar'1a0e anu ulsosec'
Marriage Is IN old institution, aud nm cfad
.lay. 4 happy marriage, whcro love il ths foun-
;1n;on !. trnlv t,o ,1oor tn tl,c bI,hsst a,nlo NJ
..,,... ill.,. ;,,,t,. ~ - ,, ',.,,as
calt'J u''as. "'''o un uo''aPps o"e y 'no "suoF-
tic tuture's dark uncertainties. A divorce In
Inn frat caso Ia neycr soupht: v],,ts from Tho
it,rdoyo ~ t,,4 1o,,.r lash ~ ,ity,rco n1nr,,
ou"uuSo VI '"o "ss'' uo.a u.'o'e. "'','o
the ono WHO condemns divorce. And how
selfish t1,c individual who. having made a happy
union. cu1, eay to Ills less fu,tjtnato uclcbbor,
Death n1onr should brcnk fhr hntlls by which
tim, what ruycrerce s,1ch one must hayc for
Gods holy orltunuct,sl As we'll might tim Chris
tIa1l eay to tho uuinithful, "ContlWle on in tic
osc;yt,ce Of INC forms Of Chrlstfanlty,n as for
sue', aa tndlyldual to Bay to his unfortunate
uuon IL YOU mist liz, eyc,, thollrh the DREAMS
tint NAV hnYe come mar Icatl YOU down through
! the styrlan pous Of earthly per,litIun" Tile
A"fo woS% Ill., sit",s 81 70 sqe Fl. ty;an9es'
CONCERNING divorce before his pcop!vl But, per
| huns. tic ETp,upitcs will aaT this was o;la OF
| Woscs' mI5takc, Some viii say lot there bc a
| separation or "dlyorce, but no rolnnrragc.' y
Ask nIr l;ourta Wi,nt would BIS tho RESULT Of
emni, la,,s nrt kn,r a;r or,e,v,r. Vcn {rf,,+,,