Northern tribune. [volume] (Cheboygan, Mich.) 1875-1885, 1878-11-09

The world is fall of s'advice to wives,
and even the cheap commodity by ovr
tesy addressed ito married peoples" !.
mostly one-sided, and intended foT The
ears of the weaker sex only. We Cal
scarcely pick up paper without read
ing the oft-reiterated injunction to tai
ways meet him with a sinile." (whatevei
may be his dclinquencie>); to be ''always
neatly dressed" (whatever work on hanG)
TO ''never complain 10 him. (whateyer
! the weight OF your cares. and all the
rest OF it (which everybody knows so well,
For the sake OF IA more evenly balanced
state of things, let us administer q little
OF the same dose 10 the other side of the
house, OIL the old principal "what is
sauce for the goose is sauce for the gan
DER"
Husbands should always appear he
fore their wives in neat and brcomino
attire. Remember that was one of your
chief attractions during coartsbip. A
man is not at all beautiful en- leshob;IIc
ana how can you expect 10 retain n wnm-
ans iove II you suddenly drop all tile
Diahdlshmeiits with which you won it?
,i'>naius DC neat. Never come TO
breakfast with hair looking like a flo
Tree shaken by mighty wind. or soiled
collar or nectie all awry. Never lounge
aoou. OF late hour III the evening, in
stocNihg feet, sans coat aud vest, and
with slouchy suspend,rs Had she
chahced to see you thus i'm courtlng
days, 1t would have tlkcn vast .amouut
OF romauce out of her, depend upon it.
suppose your circumstances i'm lite are
such that you must assist in doing the
morning chores, then steal TO your room
before She has seen you there and change
the working coat for the dressing gown.
polish your beels and make yourself Dre.
sentable, that no suggestion OF the barn
yard may accrmpauy you 10 the break
fast table. The look OF fond regard than
VIII surely greet you from behind the
fragrant coffee pot will be IA sufficient
reward.
never wear clouded or angry counte-
nance IN the presence OF your wife. No
matter what the cares and ANNOYANCE of
tue Gay may haye been, before her Won
shou q be all sunshine. Thus YOU will
make her happy and forget your own
troubles. In her own sphere she his
pretty veXltions TO bear that would
oreat The spirit OF any man alive. Don't
adu the burden of yours, too.
III The children are noisy and beeyish.
quiet and amuse them with rs much tact
"s possible, in order that Won disturb not
iheir mother, Who, in the evening should
niu the rest aud tranquility that will
prepare her for another uay. Above all.
allow no impatient word to arise to YOU
Ups should your wife object to your
spehuihS monty OIL such selfisheyra,ifi-
CATION as expensive and choice CIGARS.
wine she Is econOmizing i'm MANY little
ways. 1hough you may Think her in
me wrong, you had better be ruled by
hef WISHES, us thus you will avoid future
you Wish TO be the true companion
oi your wife, don't allow Yourself TO de-
Into mere dr,i,ge or money
catcher: Keep Your intellect refreshed
py reiding good books: read tina things
she reads, aud repeat to her the news.
oo-u political and general. that YOU have
IN The world outside her sphere.
Bear i'll mind that many ovcrtaxe,l
wives are merely bundles of nerves, so tn
peak, aud are subject 10 thousand and
'ilc lrritations that enter not into mans |
TO cOmprehend; therefore
"fi'e lt IN your heart and prove il in |
Four daily cOIlyers alton tn It soft an
'"eT turheth away wrath, bat grcvious |
oiuS SUR up anger. Burlington !
Tfatclieye.