The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-03-10
THE QUESTIONS or THE LOVERS.


srn: Thorc is a young lady OF my .rcaueint;
Of whOm very fond, nav more than that I
love her and my love isrestncd with such ardor that
much thst separation causes sfes, sorrow part
SS" wear m d Ia o an BE- S"s nR s love
great, there would be amy harm In marrying am
s" Myn 'g "su dr. s dc az" Ne, pa. 6.
take great burden of my mtI you an.wcr It ""
Marry her as soon ma you arc able to support
awifc. It is better TINT wives should be younger
than their husbands. but when one is only
ycnr older TINT is no harm. If she continues to
love YOU 40 warmly and you TO adore her. the
question OF your ages won't enter your heads.
STU; fheve fallen In love with Young lady in NV
& f1n,fn"i Who N.Iy hhni-o. nnd Is gm', r,w
lr"-' WITH whom have been brought w aud Win whom
'nv "o,s an x,L i"me OF th,n Ar n2 i,,ncH
com, ny love Tot ti- young Indy, or should disregard
a READER
II Is not pleasant to marry girl for whose
relatives you have no respect for they may
bother YOU. still. II you ARE very much in love-
you might risk IL. especially az IL IL not her
fault thnt her family stands so badly in your
ncghborhood. You may be able to separate
her from her relatives. But how DO YOU know
That she will hive you?
Sin lam - wears Old have got prc'i, COOL position
sni salary cnou H. NJ least t. support my li AMI vie
GOOD wife sis' Know That .hc wouii MARY mo. she
10 , w. Win mother e,tlcn,tn So .as nc never
really cared for him that size went 4" place, 9, nnn-
ihat She 80" XIX and urcd Of him, anl told Inn so n
win All ne love that il in her nature Now r mkn,
into ndcraton her Treatment Z" nc oih'r man 'an
trust her. am very fond Oi her AMI she mas assure
Inc VI her love for Her people meat ne IN i9e D.
io Know her own mind have no one whom could
make conninnt o. and hence ash you tor adyi'e DO
YOU think ought to marry hetf ""N''
why not? Didn't she have right to change
her mind2 II she dismissed the other iellow
because he had become disagrceable 20 hcr
and told him the reason squarely. she ala nm
service and showed herself an honest girl n"
sensible man wishes TO marry "A woman who Is
sick and tired of him. and woman ought not
TO become the bride OF u fellow for whom she
has such feelings.
sin. am a Young man Of %, have been pa ing my
respects Young lads Tor nearly year nit -
every rsPcct my equal except IN point Of wcali. NY
me- 1T O the family on the best Of terms wan
e ygnnS lsny s1 fn' ana NJ S inv aTre3ons ar re-
turned father iords my going to see NE youns
lndN and nakesit very unpleasant tQr me III. only ~
icctons that she Is not my equal IN point OF wealth
Sow what i my duty To obey my ihthcI % o.N l">
own nclinauOns' ONh ~ iH"uh+''
II tho rest Of the family are on your side, your
fnthcr will probably come around in due time
Therefore bear your troubles for a while. Her
not beng so well Of rs you, provided In other
respects she is all right. really constitutes no
sound objection TO the match and II YOU behave
yourself properly your father VIII probably
grow to see the matter in that light.
sa married on the iith day Of January ~, ! hah
Lived obc g - "a, ",a s avn, ,,.s ts sane
hu., h,-y came along and told her mass dInNNHd az.
SALLY toa me could ~, Mt ee"I up 's'H '2rSs W AZ
nc matter IN ni- way ~. halt drum the nr.' umo
cNDr saw hrr nli thr .nhl Nn. hl' . ~, al ,
and Of ronr, ,y h.M w'i i"'N Sv h +. -oni,ns
Word tome u, friend to COME bach A.au, Mu., so"r
r ie o 9iroulc secoidi,. She ha- ,cr, hainoy.
ant eal Or won't n e., ,f r,e ~, j.. ,"g
rcp,, t.liy ON important business Fourth h,N' .r
married me tor convenience anil mot lowe she kncW
h1i , H'o NJ 9.u a. | I, .ri" $50 not hon.
'' w 49, d. e..
Give up drinking and probably YOU will sec
things differently. and get a clearer hight as u
your duty. II your family has So high char
a,ter. you bring them into di.repute by your
pAl habits This il all tho advice We have "a
give YOU.
SIN ann maiden of IL .,nmer. lnl have boon &c.
! onai. ted With q yoOn. gentleman whom love nn.
Seo9sge Me rsr,sa IN lliend.ae ha have moi
hr, -.nce though heard ihreus inegi mat n'
other bcau whois paying nj regards 10 me hut d. Do,
III. ,si .h,ct Snnl wan patiently for htn. or shal
] 10. aud 'o.-ct h.u. which w4il e sal uAl O, 81, ,
All YOU ran 40 r. 90 wait H. viii probably
make the rnll some day. and thcn you may be
/ nhlc to discover whether he return, your AZ
lection.
str W. erc in iccp DISTRESS and 40 nov know how :,
Tree our-r,c, from .. So We .vt % t.n r W.
Vcsf. ~ were -en climate. AMI h".a s.""i"i,l To-
/ srul'r since we II -el. asf' a.. a." M
heard -Nnc al'. -t9ri'. ihAi are in- "r.nnI a," a
out tho person THAT'S ren"ru4i tho-. ung- ius nave
J r,n.h. lgir l"lrht, -, an, ',.' W.. - l -
\ = and N =
You must. II course. DO as your parents bit
YOU bui YOU can nsk them what they hav'
heard about YOU and If It l. anything, TO YOU
disadvantage. show TINT It Is false. Srhoo
girls friendships arc often very ardent. but tho'
! do not compare in arior with the love the'
I aiterward experience for young fellows. w
hope tho two who shall win your Affection
will be worthy Of you. and that your friendship
viii be lie long. II there il nothing out of th
way about your friend or yourself have u
fear. You will got together agrln
sfr About ninc years ago I became ncfnnintol witt.
youu- lad, ani presently epi &" -3n- D.. Doc ii ~
.hc .-.canle the itol OF m, heart Then onc o. %, 20
t i,,i r.ait'fs a., wa. voun tui li No. iuur
tnseun. Iv,ut VAL. her whcn,N'rl '.ul. without d
ycr, nara to .'curc n,ra hoae ond 10 n,nkc her Don
ia mon t,id h,r t,at / i,,rd lcr. .ni ult =,
,n1d :, I.n. ,i hg, '"s ,, r,t Oh ~, f. mT. NV an
promised ion, u, hnir aud crown n' nh"tN IhAl d
N"pi r.s ZEN ln'nt a.. S''f ."' .,1 i, ~,
u-r. .wen, he, -'r, 70! III tt"l' D, c,u ittWt ~, ln
e.untoi .omu.n .nnorw e ild n"t often meet nui Oh
~ io- ,,u, 6c'oysr wei' 70 20 h,r a9' VA
~ write inst nud nd 49, .ri ia, Nc nud uHt tilai