The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-08-04
THE LOVERS IN SUMMER TIME
The senson of Leve MsE,ns-Ctty ana Country
s.aIns-The Perpie kites Of the Enamored

opportunities offered them for kndling tho
gentle flames OF the fender passion as in those
months when romantic parks oycrhung with
luxuriant foliage invite them forth to contem-
plato the beauties of nature and auune their
thoughts and sentiments to harmony with the
rest md peace which surround them Such
walks. Of course. may not DO found in the
crowded streets. but there are lanes In the great
parks where paths have boon beaten for u gene
ration by the lettering footsteps of engrossed
lovers. and the frequent excursions from tho
town ~ sea and by land furnish the cnamored
with those privileges II scciusion SO essential
to graceful and successful courtship. One long
happy summer day spent with the object Of mis-
alteration. under iavorng skies. aud amid
scenes which provoke confidential conversation.
or still the pair 20 rcvore. will oncntimcs do
more for lover than whole year Of tho ordi-
nary intercourse Of the town. 1t puts him in
Just the mood for his sweet task. and his talk
easily drifts into tn, ono subject which dOmi-
mates all others in the hearts " both.
The city girls who are fortunate enough %
spend the summer in the country are very apt
20 return a. town with love experiences enjoyed
during their vacations which afford occupation
for their thoughts tho winter through. Very
many Of thcm even wear back an engagement
ring. which first spurklcd on their finger amid
the green of the hills :and before another spring
comes. the parson has mt above IL tho gnldon
band which symbolizos the fruition Of the hopes
Of the happy bride. There is always n harvest
Of marriages gathered after the Watering place
summer. The times have been hard Of late
years. and the fashionable young men are
pretty generally a little short Of money just now
and therefore the number Of matrimonial ven
tures may bc f,ver tban thev ou,,h, 10 he ,his
autumn. h,t from every ono of tho Summer
resorts We cat rcnnrts of engagomnn,s ALREADY
oomnle,nd or in nrn,,.ss of rormo,ion Tbcrs
vould ba fnr morn NJ ,base ~ tho conn, foll,,a
were willing Ia f,rcgo fl fo,v nf tbair cxtravo.
pannos and vices and IN MAKO nm ,heir minds
to lend s.t,Ind soher and sonsiblo uvas bcre
nfter But thousnnda of Thorn win do no,hing
of the sort. and so they are hunting around for
rich mems daughters. with the hone Of replon-
lshing their purses They are mon Of inst tho
sort however that right minded girls oupht
NOT TO marry. and il 10 a wise Providence which
kcens Thorn bachelors. W. wish tbom no Good
uck in thoir meraanarv 1.-Two tnnkiny. lnt We
hone all the honcstrr and truer mon who are
now trvinl,t win th,ir ,vives viii hawaii tho
success ,hov dcsorve
For rustic vounp mon and rnoiacns Tho win.
ter is the most annronria,e time for courtsbip
Then the heaviest and most engrossine work Of
a. OK IL IA fll 10 in.
1ulee in that iJlencss which is so conducive ~
tho growth of the tender passion. II is far bet.
"D s $500 VI W 'S"N'' '''0'V"' - 70 ''i 'e'
Ter LOT young ieiow IN inc country 10 spend
no ~ "f'N .''"''H' WIN o''"o '""i''"H
maiden than to throw them away at tho store or
,avorr l., tho ,,in,,r 80, Ia ~ ,a,,,,r,. H.,
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tended bv maidons Of religions tendencles
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Ihey must, oil course. be accompanied To these
the privilege of their exclusive society on the
way and can find many a fit occasion TO tell the
,ole th.v wish IN raln,o Therc oro olso tea
partics bees dancing parties donation parties
sleigh rides, and sewing circles. all Of which
bring the young together in the winter and
furnish the propinquity which encourages
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,orocos, ~ love ohon, IN u, modc or love ,ybicl,
n,,. ,,,, IN m, ,,,en ,.nur.e I'm, ,b,, .n.linro-
lion Of surrsrines caused NV love which has
,okon possession Of our correspondents and
drought them doubt and nernlexitv. or sorrow
i.alou.y and denression Of shirts. The first
question is TINT of a lover whose marriage may
bc prevented hy tho consansuinity OF the grand.
parents Of himself and the girl:
81. A,r, ,t,., ,.s,, mot u,e civ, to,.,,oy,,
she ncc'rtl my company Tor. some time, and finally
han ans QUE altlonsH We could never hS am nesr'
.sia,yrs Than we VI. thcn The irYuPi' Is inls hcr
sister Now What relation are We, would iths right
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Nou cau marry with urOpripty and safety
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provided YOU have sound health. You are not
nonr .nnuph related Ia nrovent "A union for
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even cousins marry.
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your Impartial advice with reference 70 love AFFAIR
fhrre resides m i,"Ta Soanr iads Mo is sincerely
"yed ~ AMI IN ,e,S WIN Young mn Of no mean
ami who Is destined 10 make his marx in
,n ysns. he lazy aHms S' sn mn's
has been unfortunate, and, IN all probability, were a
ASIDE from ali ts At would wei ,h be- death blow 10
her mother AMI NV the question IS which !. me bet
incur her parents wrath and indgnation and We'd her
srnat hoh h p' ",ers nH ' h ny ins; an"
await your reply AfrRTLfitD fkiiNn
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NO, you needh Dfehk inc engtScHcht' but
before Won undrrtnka IN claim the Girl as vnur
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vile, demonstrate by what you actually have
donc TINT vou are canntl. nf n,nk inu vour mn RI
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in the world. and can suppOrt her prOuerly. II
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you nave more IMAM ordinary lhlcHecluul aDll-