Sharp County record., 1878-03-08

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not know?
the question IoJ W.d
table during
woman now DEATFpo
writes to us for 'S z
way Of managing
sure it would do q An
women good to get a iilTnS
direction. itlIs
Yes-but how about t'V
VIII they thank us? Is the .
GER Of their learning too much,
public advice? And does or,
friend forget that we beIos,
class, and may be interested I, !
er side Of the question?
However, we are alwgv,
topic, and so we will try to en-
tie wisdom out Of this one. 4,
shall get an article!
In the first place, then, aeco
our notion, the true way to a,
husband - is not to manage
most experienced and success
mOIders and husband-ramo,
agree with us in the subtle !
this suggestion, we are confds
average man, high OF low, sa
of p - Q in one particular; h
get him to 90 north is urvnl
to the south. He is also iikesI
You can coax him to you will
the measure; but if YOU Iea7s
corn too many times, he is h.|
blindest, and most absolutelv
eut Of all animals. He ma7
get very near him, but it is 9
own diversion. Just as youg
to slip the halter on. up fYE
and away he goes!
Another thing: if a husba
too much management, itmdc
there has been a mistake Son
There should be but one will. h
ried couple that are truly ms
that should be the will of-bo.l
husband is the head of the bod
as it does not always !
by any means, the dg
gone by when sex alone
natural endowmens Of mind
is not the woman the heart
as sometimes happens, the head
heart-the judgment and The
affections or emOtiOns-COme |
sue, one must give way. ButE
is the umpire there can be no
nor any sense Of injustice The
Yields. We have known con
so many as we could WISH
whom could truthfully say, aft
en- or 20 years walking Of 6"
path together, that they bad
own way; becafrsethe n6cesslt
yielding had been done sQa
and 50 wholly that but theraH
NAMED. ~
There is a certain sort 4.
headed, blundering, self-wilsl
good enough at heart, but viii
( queer ways Of showing it @u
'who-t Undoubtedly needs " mali
the feminine sense. The d
this-9sold as Eve-we shoul
sumptuous to attempt to I'd
woman possessed of the slight
edge of men. But for those
not, we will repeat that IS
" honey-fugling' them into
that they are having Their Il
when it is your way all the TIM
bands are requested not to an
apply this too closely. The II
a really necessary one at tns
leaves every body happy-as
rimoniaI ether, producing aq
consciousness, in which the I
" giving up" is not felt!)
Some Of the more direct n
managing husbands may be n
if it can be done without
''preachy.n Keep him IN l0n
is the first injunction to a wife
such a question. When th.
done, all the rest follows. Y
be done, we do not know; yOls
if you know what he loved IN
the first place. We do mi r
ply faithful, and provident, Sd
but l0Uing, with all the world
ing which that very word Of
tains. 1t can not always be r
many men are selfish, sensua
and more yet are careless anp
But the good and true mel
their wives are easily " mana:
all reasonable directions.
Uniform good nature and Ds
ice will make q company Of y
ms tractable. GOod-tempeIV
encc will wear away the ro@
inal's obstinacy or indifierenq
ness will propitiate a lion
will inspire respect in the
savage. Tact will supplemeH
swaying a state or leading
And above and in all, and S!T
all, is Love- the impeln!
life"
If with this equipment a W.
manage her husband, she hau
him manage her, or deyO.e