The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-09-15

30 without harm. but girls ought to- be- very slow
about accepting gifts Of value from gentlemen
to whom they are not engaged.
SIN Linz many other; IN sgouhie come to sea for
advice Ny trrnic Is ms The gcrtcmnn IN = !
,ult.cd lives great distucc ir"ni her.. ami r gus
un .l'li.- iu me iu W.! dr..is' TIL. .i ~, .
anAi,t, FOG ihoneht nothing but Hines or death would
..sr ' ca,,c nv ,,c,ng q, rc"i wa! ingi. Min
cna.in fog he ,aa'a Only re- OF hn. i a. ',
hi want Of runc.uay. and not h'r alc to say angry
M i.n r'i , ,,, e. r ,'a d ,o@a,n, ,,
humtha ~ hnk that he d,rs not ,ink ne OF nnfv
" wa. o .Isc hat he io,,. ~" q. much a.,y,r Nd
on, tnnh- hat uu- h to t too surc oi W ,onancs to-
my p,t n HIM unsh"kcm
nj thought he had ceased to love mo and tr,ius
70 hr, III q tad n.S 'uI Wtr W 't.' aug, &
me- when he wont away. and, surely, he c'nn"t have
t ,aro an ~ ." Sdn W. r"' Gre "ne Of 5,ni rha
,ou can ,l pc what course e. Iursc ~ regard 9" NV
il 20 On and raf, nty wait for hotter timcs mgraty
rc, ,, y' he ,r i me trosc ,i 81 long he
without linn isappens. but be has cra"d i"lgtc mt
ort tie batter twin be- rcisc advise me hro- rour
excellent paper. aud greatly ohlse NELLIE
He certainly ought to ha moro prompt with
his letters. and his alleged press Of business is
n poor excuse for his negligence. man must
be driven very hard not To have time to write To
his sweetheart at least two or thrcc times week.
unless they despatch letter every day. and
some are so infatuated that they take advantage
Of every mail 10 forward n few tender words to
the being of their alteration. In truth. % man.
no matter how much engrosscd in affairs can
usually IND time to do what ho very much
wishes to accomplish. II is not hard for any
one to snatch a few minutes In the mids, Of the
most pressing business 10 write n love lot
ter. II need not be Tonga few words
Of devotion will be prized by tn
recipient-and the composition Of 1t IL well
come relief a. the writer Sometimes. however.
an engaged man ia not good hnnd ut letter
writing while nearly all women are adopts at
that art and therefore he does not keep NJ with
his sweetheart in the mattero Of love correspond
ence. Yet he may be burning with affection all
the while. Perhaps he knows how to dash on
Potter ordering goods hut when IL comes to tn"
expression Of his feelings ho Is all at sea. silll.
a lover should do the best he can and be- pune
tunl in his msslvcs bcthinking himself 81 the
disappointment his sweetheart will feel when
the mail bag il opened and nothing is brought
out for her But in this case we advise our
friend not 20 grow despondcnt. and not to chidr
her lover too severely. He will perhaps wake
NJ 10 his duty and learn that tho most pressing
business an engaged man has IL e. keep his
sweetheart assured Of his uudying affection.
Be very careful about writing harshly to him.
and don't impaticntly throw him overheard, for
lac may explain 1t oil when he soos YOU \
severe written word is much worse than a
spoken one.
s T. n'; now ,csn on '. -ycP y,er' '".S me- get
love How wen ,fitcr the DAY il was at coui'-
rN school size Wa 10, ami Us mt htnfd ~ h't
sN . s"i me me ,a mel aI n,or ,o s' -61
I a. | n
then. AM .aw hsra few time. aurwafh hnt MN Vr
hsr mo,,s moved irep ms r''ssGi"rnoi" III
cry they have nccnto me T. seemed that an ne lEhi
form have ,siri'en nmc after time +. or-ci her
| turn 81 the AL consuming passion. love- have tough
am conquered conquered ~ Tie icndcr passion. and
he NH e hart,. Min" hefs cSHa, wopd,c,cl
express my -en~-lc-s an,s's hi'' without conn a'-
lhaeyoa WY ds@ kp!y vim me for am alrs, g,
pnncJ q the school .hc nov attending. thought be-.
hcpy tl-ht hut .he little lousht now shc east dafi
Y' Aa da g.. are s"9 oSc }'S a E a a's a
ha', ihc NJ, lelore then am IN great un.,tini'
long 20 know ny tate, aud nis adN.r-, To lay ne dowi
Al. tie misery Of love that rrorss IN uncertainty
| susc!y itls worse than the agony OF tlc damned VII
man rca.i ithS nd noi intend hat It should h srauned
SS49es @f '9s T.rS +, 6 ' Re AZ =,
fo hc Hskins tut III tel Nou uni tHtrD j, NU one
crii D., shat sweet Wogl "Nuc" Size dIs ail my N,ar
A, ialr %, fo- o. cla.ie %. Diane a. sfri a. Wine,
IA very Hlerl fu cafth-shs sie alone. 400 hc anime
a 4, ~ IN n's s ~" '"""v 90" I AT 'i GA
The above impossioncd hotter Is from stu
dent in southern college. lie seems to b
distressing himself n"edlcs-y Tho gil
hasn' said size won't have him. anlwhy shou.
lo fool -, lullVg When sho utf- ONT nf -t,linI