The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-06-30


self day displays troubled heart that should
very easily and quickly I've put at rest.
SIN. lama young man 10 years OF age Not longer ago
than six months met beautiful and intelligent Young
osS With 6cf ro" he Ss ,ha Since The time Of our
meeting have not cared 70 visit any Of my former lady
stances were such prevent meeting until
ever n Win Gr 6" any an o 'S S gH H' would MA
n ea O sb Ss c o 70 eSgssa Sn Snc " H
conversation was broueh to close before could ash
nm fT several month"; Nov What Il would you sGs sr
me- To dol have tried hard to forget her, but cannot
TRovsLsp HEART.
1t would have been foolish for 80 young man
as you to make declaration OF love or an
ofor Of marriage to this girl at the second time
Of meeting her. You had better not take any
serious step until you are better acquainted
with her-so that YOU may know her personal
| qualities and disposition. and her ways and
traits. A fellow Of nineteen is very apt to fall in
love at first sight but II Is not well to he hur-
ried in pressing your suit. Be patient during
the few months that will elapse before seeing
her: do not try to forget her; 1t is likely that
she takes an interest in you and If. after an
| acquaintance OF a year or two, when you are OF
age, YOU think rs much Of her as you did on
| first seeing her. YOU can then take steps toward
Offering yourself. with fair assurance of her
| favor
s'. write 70 SGa Tor sSan.s The cas- :; Mi, Their
have been LOVING The Youngest some tune aud She loved
~ wv, ,, @ n AZ y, ~, nv, ,,,,r n ply. u
tell Inc how 20 regain her love She Is now ". and has
! inst quit school should relax my attention to the
| sunscmBsR
| II IA from Arkansas that this subscriber sends
| his inquiry. He docs no, know anything of the
duties of lover. or he would never offend the
girl whom he rrctcnds to love by paying undue
| 80. atat
cares for him. she should call him to account.
and the elder sister should give him to under
stand that his conduct is out Of place. Our i'm
preston is that his devotion is not worth much
| II 1t was Of the right kind he would demean
himself differently.
SIN. am sco,chman, have been twelve years in
| America. am - ycars Of age nnd unmarried have
ue rcason va. mot placed IN - position 20 Juror, 4
and provide for her have good stock farm oi 10
acres have gooi team and plenty Of stock Now.
character and rfct,sint as I'm o that persuasion
lie. earcs and trouble, along with me. RI,nER
We cannot help this scotchman who lives in
Wisconsin. There are plenty OF excellent girls
I'm that pnrt of the country and II he cannot
win the affections Of ,nc Of them he must be n
very poor stick.
sR lam In a dilemma ant need some nienil, hand
20 Sii, ns nv yery ejrng & ,@r b NAN y6 %G
gentleman has been taking some nquec, q Us. and TO
W. did not pay any attention but we're nevertheless
S o a.. "' So u We wan VAN, t ' se sSSdaG %s Inn
Would be- wrong Tor Us to indicate TINS - him through
no one who co Id intreluec Us. and our happnc.. De
Two yorNe Gini. rrovnrs
1t Is not good way to form acquaintance. It
is dangerous and unecntcol. The young man
may be utterly unworthy Of you. and undc-
duction 10 you. he can find some proper means
Of procuring IL and il he can't no does not
amount to much. Let him apply TO your pa
rents. or to one of your brothers; but in any
case. you must steer clear OF the kind Of nirta-
lions which YOU suggest.
SIN. My case Is peculiar one some three p.unu 49,
met ,ouns lsd, win whom sirasht al~S leii -
say. Circumstances permitting propose 10 her Very
6Ss S"s S.SS SO AMI me ar swS, Rns yona
man WIN very httle e,reucnce. ! hesitate on
mandcr OF he life. for ,n,.git do uot ire would
n and. ain AFRAID. too me xpcneussd to leave 10
lulsmen. Of hcr hgntnes' 10 herseL lprom,'e 70 Ice
governed 10y your advice Lo'ih
It is moro than likely that YOU would propose
To- her in vain. for the reason that she would lay
her cnse before her parents, or other relatives
II the Jewish faith. who would forbid your suit
Marriages between Jews and Christians are
more frequent in these days than they have
been at any other time. II is but IL short time
since Lord Rosebery married the wealthiesi
Jewcss in the world. and, at still later date
the daughter Of Rabbi Wise Of Cincinnati we'd
ded Christian against the wish Of her father
The Jewcss Of whom you speak is in any event
too young 70 marry you, and We advise YOU O.
refrain from proposing 10 her for some years
at least. In the mean time you might be inter
estcd in reading Daniel Deronda.'
fts int, nrH Lf
an n,ny og9i m'F r 9a AG'n. 10, basi' ,
Young ndy, TO- speak 70 her. neither DO AnoY
from seeing her frequently have given her he mgre,
3 son that 9u,' ~, w. ~ a., ain,d Mi.n n, ~.
MI 's M " an, v NJ y vg ','y,' a. :.
WITH three umcs u, usual sticsi ihi- WILL lat SOME
sight Tis Is what surprises me as she Is about "a. onN
Editor you let Know how ac under The above
CIRCUMSTANCES and can yon ne no" losSt re OF u
A. ANXIOUS s1rhIh
There is no limit to the ingenuity of lovers
q and you will doubtless find some way Of pro
a curing an introduction 10 this girl If she de
sires it, A great many young men have hut
! your experience, and not II few Of them have
got over il without much injury to themselves
Time and enlarged Intercourse with society
/ will DC 10 your advantage. You give us no rea
son for supposing that the girl cares anything
for you, or that she has any such bodily weak
ness or unusual heart boating when she see.
YOU as you have when you see her She MAY
be engaged already her heart may beat fol
another, or she might have no fancy for you i
she knew you.
A SIR am docpvn love with Young widow lady. ahou
years older than nyscll being p and she y year
have never mentioned The subject to her. owing To- n,
fact that not quit but that she IL too old fu
Therefore. !