The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-11-03

A. Zee ,t2ule. IF ,hs 9ycr' in Al ga,'I ct 'hC .,
trouble We have IN thu Indian Trrfitofy For long
time tbavc been for twn hrglhcrs in df, so"S
stu". After vhi,o the oldest brother married my sis
Wr Anernlj sister wa. ina,rNd n,rc .ang yolni
course SOM ica VA love with hcr For long unic my
love was returned. Hut We were happy Rt our hiWi'
not rrel cot paying att nnous To her nm seems
what tu do rs an IN srcnt trouic mink |
Will have to go ~ the ,u'r tu settle this matter
Yeats ~ uoUbH. T.
what codc2 There il no eodc for you 10 20 to
except that Of love unl,ss You are a tool. Cut
him out and get her maiden an 'ctiOns back
again. Perhaps you haven't lost her after all.
He hal ~ much right to fall in love az you. AMI
tho best man ought 20 win.
siR We loved with v,c uyc that to tue hearts
but once ~ u einnc We wrre rniaird. ~ 'nt,t
r'-d. anl We wr,c parted lc went to distant ~,
rhroush nntual TRENT Know that be wishes To- have
NV hkcness ihav~ his What sort NJ an act wouhl It
D., mail MY pho'n to hn wiihnut name ~ ire-s'
or could properly de- - with my address i~rDtNoH
" would be n very silly net Ifhe wishes your
photograph he should ask for It: mother you
ought to be- raking up old embers. Tho less
married people think about their bygone loves
the better.
sra Nyca- j. one u love At nr.t sight am a you~
man about - years IT Of rather prrpussc-rihg az
pearancc, and am quite iayorils With the ladies'
ansehc briiv ever met Al tai iinc she was il wears
o aye AMI she truly the most charming aure
ments and =. beGatn god and md9.,ri"us a. Ne I.
p1sTcd msr ny @ "y w wG t ,
her Of nv love for her but supposed she Inferred It ron
About year ago she asked ne 10 90 with some other
NV y g 20, VIII ni a, ns SSyiut a' anu
70 ple1s, hcr g"n'cp'el hut ,rw mslt- after sl,
"gaying h'r more than ordinary attention
had heart uiat TN. Young fellow had. on Ger
Yin occH'on become in,9Nc9tcd after having .irngd
len his company and snueht mime But shc li. sine,
inter from i- that .lic has ieronc iienmtat the at
vice which gave her Wy nulc WITHHOLD, me FROM *
,gr ,el .,laa.t Nos nih ,'a.s ,es questions ON
1t wa- nshtin giving her the advice which did,
- Wolllil lie proper for me 10 ak an explanations
81 shall disc ntnue my affections sud Try 70 cease
he no more 10y n Ia. o fur mes Ticas, inform me tic
mode Of procedure. as s tcrric susensc = more than
can endure. ONO.
How can you tell whether she q. or IL not In
love with you. II you haven't ask / herr Leav-
ing your intentions to be Inferred il poor way
Of winning girl II YOU wish her To- marry
you ask her squarely. You may have been en-
tirely justified in telling her the other fellow got
drunk.
sra am youne man in good circumstances aged ~
years Some tour wears ago. while
@ ,hrs eva anor ,% ct AZ S {1 o
but II was %. ull ihis winter. when she was on visit
here uat became we'll acquainted While ,ie -taeod
here tsn davs showed her orahie attention taking
.he wa engaged. and shc rchct no . whether there
wa. q fhahcc iot in9 ali ,'e an " Ic. sccom.
CHANGED pictures, ana ara nscd or spondcncc
from ca, part, twioe week. wrote that conius
To- nyr Town 70 .'g hcT and Ne icl exrr,',ns ,r
inne wasl beg '@rtN TO tne almost utter xruson q"
kiw of on r.ronicncc. O" our cNchansu OF pirur
anil from the dt cot their con,er.ar 'n, oi nv attica
m'nt presume, uu Uc average. was invited 90 take
one meal 'lgy at 'gst At her h.u-' ON going away.
CORE --ini'ncr, Witch .lr replied s,r,pit anirra
uN'. - waste "h huNnes' til I" ftiuri lu about
, n1. my 16scn'e ar kcgtgr
Saved on heT ,seonJ ,t.it trs. wr is,, uie
from three 20 twelve hours every iay and VA, Al ny
naturally am mo our family eiicIc aul want Win u.
several times g. places where oniy those bound 10y family
t. niakr Ions story short during these I've month.
az ~, mind that ,incsrey loved her and mat INV love
would stand the test ume Although / had man,
times Infatuated my regard Tor her. had never formal,
Mers not hrt bu, an honest rirl it due 70 her
'u 70 M" u u.l"ie ny AueIuon were TOO much IN
n.N,d A'.r COM a, lar - iI.atclphis VIII, her.
accept an esarement ~ at st TO accept my attentions
one reply a. Sic lad seemgly been RANK snd saegrS
snd net IN thc least coquete Her came tie
nut she de.red 70 ust herself AMI wantd me Ia visit
her before she made her nna decision The letters came
length when t n, asia, ~ u" lies IN
mnd she did not think the regard she hat tor me was
what woman should have for her husband and hop,
would uof tiiu< Size had tunrd with me- twrutr. ash
lFl htr 81 ttsua was nual uud she ~ud. Nvs ~ Was
A. had gwen her nt every stage ~ init macy an nf
loIiuriy 10 brak On this WAS like clap OF thunder
from clear skN.
What would like To- know j. Your opinion Whether an
N,M 90 tlc~' ttcts tWUud have been honorable t me
after our hNr months w intimacy. Co have trnHf,l tr
-i' tui. whether % WAS honorable hrr fu tIeh
'fHuN strive ~ Pat ulV 90 position where Imu-t a.h
SIMPLY to.iNr her ih' -rllncHtou uf rrfu.ulf Thiri
- u uihr i"n. care q" acgusHi1nce amt hyc month.
m intimacy io" ma" tu hAs apro.usil uuf FOURTH su,
posing TIC tltl 20 Dee r,AA ENGAGED 800 tl. utnp l..
another man 40 Htu unk b r-t ior hvr par,ut. T. ou
e"u'".e me- a. hcr scetialnly dd' lNQtiHru
You didn't 20 the right way about it. twas
stupid OF You 10 mako a declaration by letter
when YOU had So many chances To- ask her by
word Of mouth. She has probably grown tired
OF your long winleL letters. and We do not be-
lieve that she is q lirt at all. You made love
too deliberately and too formally, and left tho
coast clear for fellows ~ a more imprtuous
temperament. II was entirely honorable for
her to act Us she did. You had time enough in
which TO win hor, and ought to have kept her
affections. stop writing to her take the train
10 her place, lay bare your heart before her.
and do not leave until the victory is won.
When the fortunes of battle are wavorlns. tho
general must be on tn spot personally leading
the hosts on to triumph.