The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-12-29

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c and V do You believe he truth Of poc, who V says y
"L?yersmay marry at forty,
1h9' rl ii, o ,,. gr ,si ga "a sanss,r,
nv a careful answer Won will immea'utably cblisc
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man, however, TOT ne proDaDy ulsllkos 10 give
Up MS unusn'pr 70 any man =, you ueseree
ner' ne WIN yer. eeell'uay 10, It Is ulircuson-
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came ae rn.s the eanmn VaSsiios Of d. Lover nnd
r,ad tle letter written ~ y9uIs country doctor who
| hai habits er iaults
nv history In some WAYS, think THIS yogng man and
my,rn ati o1ih lronhlcd about Tue ,am, t,int wv
not tmnk II 100 much trouble Will You please be Mind
else let the youne man know in some other way what
an , n@w s".ns 40 ,s yon q, y.or,oe., rb.v.r.v,r
soue aeros, ,hc yous man that would like to cali BY
q Young men who would Save but. 10 te YOU the
am pure. upright aud Niriuou. girl and 1t would break
my heart To- nave The husband Of my choice li had one
an 'rns snd faithful to The end No. mater u lam poor
M have a. yteat respect for myscn as any million
Ar. We ana. IKE We yonnf man also hope 70 win
and work Tor. and also be comfort to him through
sr viii VOID do nv. Sre. fyer 10 atbSr in.sS ,h Fun IN
Your nest sundays paper Or else lct ms Young man
him to Know that there Is some Other person trying to
n nn S.g, s mn b I'VE Ty a. a. hns now AK
uis matter, and oblise this, your respectful friend,
NJ w.
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very foolish ,bcx 40 no, ,atc Tor ,r,ves vo,,no
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SIR. lam vouny man u wear. oe ,-o Your vsor. .go
became aeagain,sd with Sonns laiy neary n.e years
one year later became pSssSnste, s.tSe6ed to her
sa S@us psS mo- ssd',p ep ,e"uo1 S hsF sIs
thought that could have regard Tor he oyher
q Young ladies and under he Dr. sent cifSumsans@s
,h."snt al Mhim Az irrd :" convince myself 10,
H eens When Sn ps' sny e 1se % & VILE
In tho company Of other ladies have sort o ennu dis
Now lust as would begin paying my adarcsses to her
hrr ar1 ", ~ S, 80 n,@ , 1891
with The hope that / might complete my .Tns Tor
s.,inabe AMI Ssae" and T r n s h So
she Will not he without suitor Size ha. moi an
fnSms ~ ~. world neheys 9.e her a. can never
have her become INV wife. How TO accomplish nv pur.
sSnr sy,re am nv" r~agy 10 marry w, bar, M,
6ssqn s'sayinr for ntcie'.ion which %i take me six
II You viii conde sSend to ve YOUR mos, aspeese
transcendcnt advice you viii oblige. s {. l..
II YOU have six or eight Years o, studv ohcoa
OF you before you will be able to support wife.
Twill be- tho part OF wisdom for you to devote
| yourself 10 that study instead OF trying TO win
glrl OF sixteen. who IL too young to know her
own mind.
s There are iew so ms would ke to Ash You
lady na. now e9sssedt have r,sd TOT tour year;
should no, Young lady answer letter by one Who Las
a"nbs an onencc o. "a. cXf@csnt ragt ~, "Ve so
~. si I , al,,-, T. ~ Si manuel, 10 ask
us az tn '''ush ueIe - no otA'r way 10
There is very little hope for him IL she Is a
w worm p'lnE engaged TO- ana she does
rightly II she treats his letters as an imperti-
nencc. I'll bad manners to try 10 get acquainted
Win i"ny Wi'hou' an introduction
conn,nS Win ,a ,n,al yonny ~ sse AN nespins
my junior love her most dearly, aud have reasons 10
| bcwNy my love b. rmrued Now. Mr Editor what
would like 20 know j.. would Il he advisable sct mar
si,r2 ~ ~ T. - ,,t all WIS
SSn vii confer Iavef ON wSskIS Myc Ss1inh
= i would also like to know your opinion q making
! long engagements.
Won hive aroucb ,o- n r,achonio q, r,or-, 90,
| Long ENGAGEMENTS unless formed under pecu-
liar circumstances. ought to be avoided.
SIR. Ms trouble il this am in love with A vonng
~ EI ot @s no rnn hsI NJ, husband ogt
lay my respects 20 ihis Young widow hec conditions
her Ra ws viii sres, r"so 20 and SsI.,,' o No
decision. Please don'tdeay Respectfully yours. p'N.
''N--~ '.'' 'F'''"''' 'AN'NS
who are made SO. not by death but by separa-
/ ton from living husbands. from whom they have
! nodlVorce, are dangerous sweethearts for young
men
N"'
SIR am young lady Of nineteen summers I am
very much ~ love with young years senior
| have been keeping company with him some year,
| want IN know whether lie loves me ur not he went
with m" about six months before he spoke love
/ M l!.h We met and had = long tain, when he ex.
Pre- -sfd ms adccuun Tor He said he D
other XVI and hal not for several years AMI would
Set married rsht AWAY but he not he said IN sud
clffuUi~ stances ne has "A
good home. huf sonotues fried makes great
change W financial affairs and Ice said he could not think
taxing from Wien vrr. non sure ,If
hom' U our own So then he said a. hciuv Ne parted
what shan do about 4. quit "a We
further or on'' said yes quigk y that We would qnt
well Dee says YOU have tue say Then he said hr
cnuh NOT giNe me ~. So then he asked lac would
not combine with me. Aud 4 hr ia
gone With since. ttuunt think he cares an,
thing about me- Hlihuugh lac j. always very loving 10 me
seems a. nv COMPANY. bat ma n.vgr mon
TONED marriage hut d, never go, out c ne i,d