Washington standard. [volume] (Olympia, Wash. Territory) 1860-1921, 1878-06-01

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mud, she bears il pstieuiiy; but her
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and her precious children for whom she
would make any sacrifice and bear any
suffering, she will wound with sharp
word or an ill-timed or undeserved re-
proof when it would seem tO be 20 much
easier to spare them; the effects on the
husband is of course different, a. tenn
permanent and disposition differ. Many
men bear it patiently, some don't notice
it at all; others consider it a feminine
vagary, infinitely beneath their consid-
Grafton, and some are so outrageously
ugly, that their wives dare not fret at
them, but in that case tho servants and
children get double share. Its effect
on servants is to keep up that system Of
change which is the bane of American
housekeeping. Few girls will stay long
in place where the mistress frets, and
SO many women do fret that servants
are forever moving on.
But the meanest Of all 10 to fret at the
children. The husband can go off on
business, or he can at least have the
satisfaction Of answering back; the SER
wants can find another place, and be
fretted at by another woman, but the
children have NO business; they must not
answer back; and they can't move on.
They can only bear. The delicate and
sensitive live in a state Of chronic irrita-
ton, the timid grow nervous and COW.
ardly, the shy and secretive learn to lie;
the sturdy and bold grow belligerent and
ugly. Their childhood is despoiled of
its beauty and happiness and one way,
or another, they suffer for it all their
lives.
Fretfulness seldom shows itself, at
least to any extent, until maturity.
Marriage seems especially to develop IL;
old maids, notwithstanding public
opinion, seldom fret. The childless
woman is quite as likely to be fretful is
the mother of houseful, and sometimes
an irritable, exacting woman will be-
come gentle and patient after the birth
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