The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-12-15
THE QUESTIONS or THE Iorrps
Advice ss TO ProprIety and Eucourneew.n,, =
the Dependent ~"

Advice as to ProprIety and rncourne.n,....
the Despondcnt.
SrR: have kept company with youne no..
ueman for several months aud have not known hin, "
with any ono else until about two weeks ago ueo.o
his step sistor to and from church. being as he
away from home. I overlooked that AZ he gs,.
good reasons and went with him as usual Afewcy..y
ings ago there was sociable In this neighborho,i &
he went and took his step sister. Now would IL no, u
place to "mitien" him nublicyf lie could have . ,y
with her before he did with me II lac had wished Tp',
heard Of his trihing with girl before and have ~
him since we were children. She is older than he NJ"
several years and engaged to another man what d
It was necessary for gentleman friend to wr,o IN
IN regard to mater between two mutual friends "a, ns
snare and had and Would give Ea ons sc % aos
S%swcm s R"aS az answer sSs s1 nothing about
It right for gentleman TO keep company with alaax
Isit proper for lady to Keep steady conpanv Will,
gentleman younger Than herself '"s
1su proper for couple to exchange pictures and co.
respond ai,or an acquaintancc Of two wceksf ' 'Vn
II sht ior young , ladies' to allow gentlemen to 20,
Is there supposed to really any truth in fortune. ,
should Young gentleman discuss tho charm. ~.
i npo op9wavn ~ MN men Young and old
really means 1t allf ~"
Why shouldn't no Take his step sister to .
sociablcp That is n very natural and proper
thing to do and il affords no evidence wha,eyer
that he has any other than n brothcry afroct,on
to and from church. Because n young man ia
keeping company with another girl that is No
reason why he should totally neglect his siste,
or his step sister, whether she is older or
younger than he and instead Of finding fam
with him the other girl ought 10 rcoice 10 see
him display fraternal Kindness A lady NAV
properly accept the society Of gentlen,an
younger than herself IL she is so inclined and
IL he Is her step brother Of course She asso.
ciates with him even II she is engaged There
II no great harm In young peoples exchanging
their photographs, but they are not ant To wish
10 do 1t unless they are very we'll acquainted or
related. Young ladies' ought not to need 10 be
instructed MS 10 matters Of ordinary uropriotv
You can tell fortunes from teacups as well IA
from anything else; but unfortunately. you
can't tell them from anything. A young gentle
man will be- wise to refrain from the discussion
OF his swcethearts charms In miscellaneous
company.
slE am ~ Years old and my friends say quite pretty
About year ago commenced ceping company wills
young pcntlcman lie profes.ed TO love me. and Ire.
IA the mean time he had taught ne lcssou-tat VI o,c
soon thought he did not care tor me asmucha 10
him no longer and demanded my letters which b. save
me. Now have found out how much do love him w
people are wealthy arr his bat since have soptei
gong VIII him. he has LEFT h,me and gone away mwoL
Last SUNDAY him and wonsl not return hisgntt
ing AGAIN mot hin and he bowed aud would aot
IN
forget Gim .ti caunot Now. What want 10 kaoWis
5 q e eoiae e 6s me M S T a H Sg sl do "
GIRL
Oh. he probably loves you just rs well as ever;
hut how can you expect him to come back toyou
If you won't even bow TO him Thoughyu
were in the wrong. surely your pride oughito
allow you 10 do that little. and IL 1t won t. you
must go without your lover
SIR want your advice uron this matter want
To- know IT Young man about n, who b, Co. be-
upon by the whole community us good sir about
wo wears ngo and tell IN i"Ne with ,, ana pono-d,
but the engagement soon. for some cnu~ hens broken
s, reused sni told he could never be yias moi,
than friend. Pc leaves keuiuck, md goss 20 an al.
she visits his relatives In Cincinnati and remains he
him. st III avn rcoaest Gaw"ytr lrr pioi".raph ani
hss large number Of gentlemen admirers W.gI lga
Mhe9 is returns t. his Swn ny or wg9, 1a eas
and 20 drawing his affections away from her q.
We advise him to go ahead and win her.
Past discouragoments are nothing in love.
SIR. certain gentleman Ia. been visiting friend or
time Lately his business be. called him 20 hc cy
consequently hs visits have bccu'cy frequent Ihc ~
SuuiH, cot hi- say hv called n the morning and requested
the privilege Of calling IN the evening at Ioclock winch
ucman who DID not put IN AN avg arancc until o,cA
The lady entered the room. and proceeded without cr
monv o. administer severn lecture.
The younl mans eNcu-c Is as follows Tie called a 10
lasted ull hall past O'Clock ats they locrcl around
TIE table until That hour llr aro-' aud ci tr hul -
soon as possible But tins did satisfy the Young l4l
who remained IN di.mnod silence tor The rDmlua.f
ana babe the entire family t"Ui A. n' 10
| tnc city thc following evening hut 90 place eauas
Tue Young Gentleman returned, aud c't1ihin- N1saAe
The qucsuousI wish YOU to answer are as follows
What dn you t.tuA ut the young lliA Nfha,i'f ~ly
Ter Do, reatucnt consid, nn- at There }, n.u.a- Dec
tween the parties hut mere ucnd.hpt AN'h
Tho above is from Charleston young aiy q
spirit II seems TO us that she WAS unduy See
we're with the tardy young man, who gave area
sonable excuse for his delay. Il must have been
very notifying for him to bee 70 codly re-
ceiyed, and he showed he wished 10 regain hI
appreciation by calling again. We fancy thai
Young man has hopes that eventually Ml'' |
Annie will look upon him with something mo'' |
than friendship.
SIN en years 2ld very rfcgo','e'',,.ns Do a'p''t
goods store. with prospect oi be- omne YHrrf W.T..
ia,iy about Is years of axe viii Whom i,, l.,in
love look iully a. old a. ,lc lr. Slt ,,r.tt
match and AZ that thtv Mi 1,.Ilrrit inc mary
her us she !, poor But NV 900 lur is large ,'-" =,
SUPPORT her without thcir and 80" What M,Dn y
Would you marry TINS s''' OF ''N' your '"'''G ER
She is too old for you. and you are 70" young
TO get along without your parents avc' Wa"
four or five years and you will want yvuhs" |
girl.
SIR. am in love with young ia'y ana ha'clftat
long time. some four or nNc 'fur- f '' 1904" -
i"S"S. , sli nrns long s' r~ ,r yar M
divided attention. but she never hi' tl,'' "' a. y
ptuy very much lam almost 'ur' tIai '.t Us g. "a
W. are on the very best oi ria. n'N. 80 l''t "'N"
me what TO do, and you Will -ie't3 '''- sr,...luR
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