The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-03-31
THE QUESTIONS or rnr lorrps
From Far and Near they come TO The c..
for Advice aud Cancellation

SIN: I have been render Of THE Sun for eo,.-
cr "i Arafs AL n'nt conylng@i u"t no one Is moro
dy-love ant !onuc.-i have con lui, o submit s
un", ga,' w i'' ol. 100 .9u mere lciur many no
nave been ou.ae,d IT, a Nouns lady. VINO is HOW Il.
have grown up tscih,r almost Is brother aud ,.t"t
could walk; and ln''t auxou,y awaited the time wh@p
-, III "un !" al ~ az, ihIt could rev Al the iact
from the tact that thcrc we're several ot"r. of M cone
the same notion H. myself ana thought de "a, sn,s
tic>e circuinstinccs DANGEROUS
ihc hrst time a,oW,d nay affections fer her she in.
formed me that she loved NE also hut ior when
we ngarl'd 90 and -uncicni We agreed possible
to keen the affair u ourselves To make a long .tnrv
snort She agreed t. marry me ~ soon ~ she ion ong
Since hSsc ' orn.d u bs ai ' o,, a.os
gagcmcn with SON. OF her aimrcrs At Inc h 80 en.
had prcyously made one with me. Twice have given
that 1 tried 10 believe She had r"e.o NV ne,
S' tune s Sow "SS "'y Tc, sST m. The
fact ta, she Ind an ensaeemeni at the time n4i pew
could rut up with r'ntiucnt no longer a, ,hs, shs
e"%se NV vi SG.' emr s d wy a - @ you'd
VIII, some reluctnncc ,aicd hcrat liz app"nes
badge and ring SIZE has refused to allow me +" ,, 10Y
out rn6nstfatcd VIII cf or wearms T a loS Snd
r",iay the ring one VINO had Just Addressed her
mproprc in IT at all aud refused to return the same
uinlnento OF The promise made me Sow please t'n
me # did right IN having her break her enlargement
VIII No the last time. I" iulh the with lnC lion.
S,'y M, !, NE inr,encs to ee drawn .m the tact
" NhuNA lHuN Nthllhb tlt mug t 4 young
many Advise me how 10 act III case u iouri re'nr.
ne" o. ,hG ,. double cns"go,n. ..ol occur aud
Knox CocNry TN, fS'''' 0O's' '-37e'
She ought not Ia have taken the ring and
badge, but perhaps she ouly did it to worry YOU
and make you Jealous. Young girls sometimes
act in thM way from sheer perycfsity Of spirit.
Which in maturer years they overcome They
enjoy the sport of So testing the devotion Of
their lovers. and wo6,i be made very unhappy
If their pranks produced really serious results
good way to proceed under such circum-
stances il 10 assume an air Of total Indifference
NJ To whether the l;ir nirs or not. Her fun Is
IN making you Jealous. and if she secs that sho
doesn't succeed i'm the i,nme she may g'i tired
Of paying it, Moreover. secret engagements
are bad. The best way il to have your betrothal
to Il girl freely understood by all her and Your
friends
sm lam n Young lady, % years OF age and canno,
rcde one question IN ~, heart winch Is ihi- Nlcuer
III 'arnest on tis sutscL and trust that you wi s,o
~, 9ur cinhL "llii"n ,., I'D,
9l;ht 10 Ice ahle :" decide .u'h an important question:
statement o my "rims' 80 that YOU WI lee i"it raio
i"lud-c corttcil, n ils riNc me youn- . tn lu es
AMI wish % love this one as ~ brother O., d,if
i. 6an i"r me To- i, How o,c iIis one W,n an, ~
n, ,orlcl i.rl ,cn' q" l,rc,t haptnc-s nni t.is
VI hi. rich voice; and feel Tat love hiu.Arnw int
dtllht ne i MI TIE Nufi u ne ana without
ing 'od. KNOW that ought not To love l. .n,. ,,e
another and rr,cf ha. rpi, s,d 60 nr 0ny 8
brouicr think %, brother So, i aacar
sister aud loos- u'u 'lc QUE o hi. best Irr- Out
an rot cerii,n mat ie s,rds uc ia thu i.li
enar,, To INN but ,ti.. ,,l ~ ~, ,oul ai j.. D.. nv
ru,ay he r,l.n," Wuc .n not Ia h, .ori,t, irc "a
nlep', longns :. ice wlt.i him. that cannot BE- halpy
W love Tor him !. very jealous and eNncur. aud
not Eel iiai Nuh &C. marry him lut it j. 81. ony to
e"nmmrlni' h',m,tt,mr any one It, l. lac % luus my
tHinhow core for him, uiat love hm asa .ii Wufi
ia, care or hmor' a, a woman can c,t l' ,n,a
-'ia complete .ur'nirn- OF tic heart 60 o. niol no
nnshien N. pathway through lite / do not
ssvS NgnS Ha9 IA. tt%Grqa, heagi to cg ny
I4H hon, b n WIN, WIN u9I my mat, a'e,% %" m fm
That could marry some other and he hnpp, IN that
one, love The tnou.ht Of ~, MARVIN nm ,ecm' re.
onted To- me- ennrey amt could not see him n'lons 10
onc tlan 70 nInrr,. Do you tlinNit loved IN. yourS
ionsins Tor HI. socc,t, when int o. the on, no
oasS 'he demon leainn'Y ne up m my heart, amt
would sooner MN in his conlni Do you thut i
ui God Tor first cousin, tO marryf
II Is well established 10y experience that a girl
is unwise when she undertakes TO love any
other follow than her brother with sisters
affection The chances are that she cant do il.
You are pretty deeply in love with your cousin.
but If he has given his heart to another try to
do the same thing yourself. First cousins mny
marry without harm resulting bat they cannot
love cnch other like brother and sister Per-
hap,. undrr the circumstances. IT would 10
wiser not 10 Kiss him.
sns un.td.t''l go wratcl.d' VIII you .',a. t,y 10
n, ur. I'M, t..,. ,r ts ", -
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