The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-08-04

About four months ago We became cngagcd Tmust
s as e S Sh e S S1 hS soaS mot S
way. She remarked one evening that II her nothc
part OF the house Ia show me letter she received from
ts cr Him. While we we're ' ra her T"i onSr
called hcr and told her 10 come to her place We did 49,
posed 70 me She sand tor to come some other time
Aud asain she said her mother afraid she thought
too well of me The old lady grew nrmcr. aud told my
desired to break the srsagewent but ,he girl di not
30 we nam ie' Ionr, W'vs n', " ."Ns up Ha. an
she does like him. bccauso he snot educated ~ am.
GOOD circumstance aud can rci her any time rl,a.c
s,,c a., Your opinion and advice how Ia get me old
size not ut the other fellow aud inform INN OF me en-
think slc real, loves mo have no reason To think
otherwise, only that she did not do as she promised
Her demonstrations Of affection arc certainly
remarkable. and far from maidenly. Moreover.
they do not necessarily indicate that she is
very much In love- II she were that she
wouldn't be likely to keep up the correspond
once with the other fellow. and break her prom
Uses to you. Her mother is right in holding
such daughter by II tight rein. but If you nre n
III man for n son-in-law you can win over the
old lady to your side. Tear yourself away from
your too demonstrative sweetheart, and con-
verso scnsibly with the matron. upon whom you
can ask tho privilege Of calling. Yours is II
ease Of love making. however. which we shall
do nothing to encourage. II you go. the girl
will get another fellow to fondlc before long,
and you will not suffer many pangs because of
her loss.
sra To settle dispute please answer the following
Cannot two persons being engaged both ofngc get mar
rago license without their parents cou,cut and nrc thev
noieranied at ali umcs' HS% long vgHdi friend w.hc,
toknnw how To become correspondent VI paper AMI
how much does correspondent receive for hs pays
YouR sERvISr
Yes, they can got tho marriage license where
tho state prescribes H. at any time. and its term
will not be fixed. II your friend sends to paper
Of position and ability what il wishes to print 1t
will pay him for II what II regards his commu-
nication to be worth-somcthing or nothing rs
the case may be.
Sra am 20 years Of age have wealth. father have
lucrative business position, hesdes possessing few
thousands mysci hgic excellent Prospects and ~ act
Have been un the last year considerable beau In New
cicty permits and have In fact more fr Than can
keep for acquaintance merely relate all this that you
Since was very Young, however have always loved
daughter cfweSthy high toned parents Who have how.
ever W TO the last two or three years kept the young
otherwise. made her most accomplished our standings In
was educated in foreign lands by superior tutors have
kns for study and am also her equal in abilities had
when believed had encouragcn,n enough 20 vouch
conrasemsE consisted Of reespton of nv Sdntios
her attendant To theatres her companion most every
fecuon During last AL. as was visiting her in the
She ayt me NJ" answer AZ tbe a S " > yel
much surprised. week later asain visited her when
sen,lemsn friend. but could never marry ne ! was
she who gave the answer Since then hsve met her
oen al ume, shin,ns IN lmet manner as vel - tell
Even then she would show affection for me but never
call upon her often before my proposal she ap
pcarcd offended. although When with her she would not
Hsf.u In ftNu rar n.tfiu ua uf
since this has transprea de,es, society; and almost
sought gain adv = Sfectio xccpt this one viii
you kindly inform me n you think am justified in KEEP
ins with me, or there Is something back of 1t all which
have been very much infatuated and still remain 50
A CONSTANT READER.
There is nothing in her conduct which ought
In the least 10 discourage you. You can't cx-
pect TO win a woman in single battle for her
affections. You may have to lay siege to her
heart for months. and even years. before she
acknowledges that she is vanquishcd. though
long before she may have secretly resolved to
make terms Ne. there IL no indication that she
If uirting with you. She is only watt ny Ia find
ont whether she Is really In love or not, and that
she ought to do. Never lose heart until You see
her giving her affections to another fellow.
While they arc disengaged. the coast is clear for
you. and II II your own fault II you fail to win
them in tn" end. But don't hate women. even
II she does fail 10 find you agreeable as
you wish TO make yourself. They are beings 10
be- loved not hated. and misosynist is the
most miserable Of creatures
SIR You have expressed yourself opposed 10 male
teacher falling IN love with one " his female pupils
Hut how u fellow o Keep from ~ man who has any
bowels - bound 10 love what i good and and beau
utul. especially u these qualities dwell IN Young wu
man You say that eaChcr Of little girls who is liable
a. ia In love with ono Of them h dangerous character
To- have around For what reason do YOU make tllis
hde man IL ~ to teach oVahle sirls DO you supp0s.
there u les honor among male teachers than among
men o other professions II YOU want male uAchtr r.
vino are not liable tu iAi IA love with lovely girls then
you must get poor set have several times been IN
love with pupils In my Please this
question ut advisable Tor man Who H. poor yet edu
GATED and accustomed to the best society, 10 marry grl
whose only faults that she is poor uncdncated.
cultivated, and unacc usiOmed ~ hrst,laS society
J.Y. y
We adhere 10 our original opinion. A very
susceptible young man is pretty sure 10 make
trouble IA a school teacher fgirls. His business
is TO inform and educate their minds and MOTTO
influence their hearts. ana he cannot treat them
all with the impartiality n teacher should show
10 his pupils IL he falls in love with one Of them
man ought not 10 marry n girl Of whom he
10, ah.