The sun., 1878-09-01
.ys QUESTIONS or me LovERs
,o,.iu. MarryT-A Had swsetheart-A
~" Girl with Two Lovers.

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~" Girl With Two Lovers.
,,, r,,civo scores Of inquiries from the
~. t,uching the wisdom and proprcty Of
p'.arriaee VI cousins. We have often an
III VI" aueh au.stons and given the latest con-
t'.s,ps of scicnre on the subject, but still they
..,i,un IN come until it is evident that it is
~, COMMON for cousins to fall in love with one
,,hsr II /. obvious enough why they should
~, Thev grow fond in childhood with n sort
,bro,hcrlv md sst"rly affection, out of which
laval may eusiiy grow. one day. from being nj
,,.t.l p,avmntcs. thoy all of a sudden. find
,,,o.sslycs lover and sweetheart. His hoysh
,rlen.s. and familiarity suddenly changes into
s.lyrc-. rye and gentle consideration. and she
n,m r,s,ntiug his cubbish approaches and
rom looking at linn rs creature designed for
theaunoyance of girs. comes to cherish him in
her heart ns hero and cavalier. They have
oN I'm love with one another He has found
n,r that the liking for ones cousin is very diff
,oron from tlai for ones sister and she grants
him n devotion Of a sort she cannot give her
brother.
WIN grown cousins meet thcy feel the right
I, bear themselves toward each other with
Freedom from many Of tho conventional re-
srsini. inpo-ed uuon the intorcoursc of Young
mon and mailen@. And that kind OF thing is
very apt to end in love making. He is the frst
man perhaps. with whom she has been SO un-
reserved and she may be the first lndy with
whom hc has felt right or with whom he has
dared 10 talk freely. What more natural than
uat u.oy should direct their familiar conNcrsa-
ZION the theme which Is uppcrmost in young
thoughts;
Bu,now that they are in love now TINT they
have exchanged their betrothal vows may they
marry; Alas, obstacles appear. and hearts
vhi'h lately beat high with hope and JOY and
Of. n are oppressed with sorrow and full Of
hatred f,r the cruel laws Of nature and almost
burst with indignation at the misdoines Of their
ancestors Tho pair are then in so d"ep
h1uh,e tha, oftentimes they write to The SUN
tr alyicc as to what to do. and we listen
aurniiycly TO their story and give them what
they came for This subject s introduced by
tie following letter from Virginia.
sn lave '.gn reader Of your wogsy pargr l.f
N!lf urt knuW huw hotter 90 Nrlrss my higl &C.
B. i,, 6c.n ircan,r, struck with The wisdom well
SN ' Manfr n Wnon ou rgs,Yi ,.''' w "S ] eis
Mi .l mature YOUR conciu.ons that it can be reaii,
i'' & '' ,oarriisniS. ,ir. iSps'nc M',i'y'
r." ,Nu ' l, n''',e '', Nr' , ",y ~, ~ ny s' w
t...n.lt r A. .,.f f.I advice Thus with iuil as
r-anrc tla'l uIn.t Hru'e hUresonc wish, Nina SIR
ti,,c n,-tnf.afH.i.a t.uns 'aty who 3. my treble
tifN ..-i. N'r ftlr. N,i.- Nt 0 l' second cousin.
i.i %. 'i,.l, .,.l. ,.. .. nse4uent ulou
goIior'nu. .l t, ,lc .iir u D. o.i nc on ihs etsr
pr sp , M r.' .s ., ',. ,, n.I,,, ng, ,
l.e las c.n'urteI h,l'ri "s ti' size merits sf,Ai
NV snl, ria, "a, youln reference to tho matter
sAoull address htl 90 not OLp plNNiuN
Our friend docs not at all bore US. but II be-
1al road THE SvN with car he would have
IN. what w have repeatedly said. that the
Nh,.n ot this matter Of the marriage Il cous! ms
l. ihi- There Is the danger that when rela-
tves marry they will transmit in an aggravaied
form the diseases thoy have IN common. II
however they are of strong mental and bodily
Lealth come Of n vigorous stock. and arc very
much in love with ono another. they may per
Laps marry without harm following. As
tule however cousins will be wise MOTTO marry
an WHY should they marry? There are many
other women in tho world for you to fall in love
viii besides your fair cousin. are there not
The bond of relationship in the case of oui
rathcr pondorous Virginia friend has. however
become SO a,tenua,cd that we advise him 70 ri
bw.u the object Of Lis admiration.
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bt.c loyci dancing. and won 90 20 g,mg hal.- tc
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