The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-04-22
Welded LIFE.
a dviec TO n Newly Married Wan from an h.x-
pcrienccd Hcnedtct.

FRIEND --: IL is TO be presumed that
you have chosen wifc after mature reflection.
and NOT alone from selfish impulses. Novorthc-
less, do not ina inc that you can possibly havO
forcsccn all the duties. responsibilities. an |
even trials To- viii. a married lifA may rcai e
you liable. In your intimate relation 'hir an i
'omuaWunship you aud your wife Will appear
10 carh other in au entirely new light 0uwill
And d'iccis IN her. AMI sho in You, whiah can
only hc properly mot by ono coursc, and that il.
mutual Cancellation. strive to see which can
exercise the erclt st lonion'y toward each
oihrr. Theso rct of happiness in married lifn
!, mutual confidence. Trust ono another.
linv' no s""rots from ono nnoihor Nv iii
m'ahs' h"v"r rnll in 2 third pHrivto interfere in
,1y,T y dh any ianily Jars. You will be NOR
tiun nnhnh ~ you anu vuur Nle can a,W1,H
nri NV a9r"". ut. willis You cunuot prevent
u,rrn'rsi you, rhn PROV MT, amy cyl 'on '-
hi. kr'u II 90 yourself and VIII, Co.nfrD,t,f ,
" u s"'nr' vnn uu'ou'ted hnuriu. 50. By All
means noyora oYN quarrel 81 la.t over ni-hL
y M ~ ashamed u yiclling when You nr,surf
ynu ar' M iu" re- ?. Thcrc is no srrriiirp or
s'i-d'ntHl in yielding only wh'n you arc ia
mo wrong Iou must consult your wifi y
y r ana, caprir's aS wei as b = roasonul.n
u"slr's. M".f az Us x ~ rlliy governed hythN
Passions; not ~ tho rason. There les no eN-
cuse for trwpl!ns upon wifu's desires b.
cause YOU think tnom unrres0nnhlc. Women
nilVe AT times the privilege OF being unreasOna-
Avoid personal habits which arc offensive 10
your VIC. 9r, IL you "'nnot avoid ll'm d TO-
Ecthor avoid them in her presence. Keep clear
OF your wifr's relations an have her keep clrur
~ Yours. in Hil uain.ss mator~s II possible. "
l1tlons ~ th" other. iho-n antipath.,s must Bog
con UTE :, rNl III NO. removed must he rHspaot-
ri. "r 'I>n your family Jars will be numerous
H.; YOUR mnrriol life begin with qyst.ma,',
iru2 .itv. pW"i" a eporill proportion of your
!nn'uri l thr future ~ your lgWNy. Your suy-
iue. VIII la tu,a way augment ulnu-t fuuelsnu-
tinly, ana rl't'' Won above asking favnrs
Live within your mrnus. and nobody will
KNOW now nu u you huvn ahead: lUt tho mo-
mont you borrow % cent people Know how poor
Go IL wnllH Won are young. Tho duties II
house unl family will come soon enough Take
i ,"sy whilc you may in your early married
b. patient, AMI wait AMI watch nnd-rrav.
Ju.l ir't..t tho Do rth ~ your frat child you
VII ossihly find your wife frriful. cro--. pccN-
Kind, umiu'i .'. anal l.viu: women havo boon be-
i"rG her II such should .r t..e et- dpnt Eot
prlanh her. Th"h.-t ding Won .artiu l. 10 grin
and i.'Hr II. Toe hr-t smilroi tht. hluywill stop
d iVHd .!Al i2r all you nHne endured
soil up M "a pnit'rn 'or your vie. II shr want,
To soio church amt Nuu don't remember that t
may D. dpy"l"h p .rn iJ.lti thUr'.. y 'u't
S.old }ulr Wi'". and duu't beat y,ur children.
if Won hay" ANY, Tonri your rlillran ~ on,
ainpir,, Br COPY Tor ihGm, LAtus" them for
uu"Hth tucm a la-ty t"nu.r and then whip
ihom ilr il. Don't gossip before Thorn mud nun
JON them for go--ippinS. Don't prevent tlrm
ron! rompinE or hu,ing minds of tlrir own.
- o. irigItn il"m with Ghost Stories DON'T
II" ~ Them. Don't neglect To- give them any
lllug NNu prpuliS" them even u.-hmruf.
Don forget that YOU wrr" "a child once. and do
a7 You would huvc had others do to you.
Don't gct crazy II You have u few buttons
of your shirts. Remember all the time tina,
you aro q poor weak mortal. liable 90 err. and
man probability no more perfect than your wife.
Latino often. look after your health. and never
60 home drunk. Yours joins.