The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1878-05-05
I fznE QUESTIONS or THE LorERs.
The Advice OF The sun sought by Men aud
Women, Boys aud Girls.


until hc close 81 he nccnls kcTt her company 10 ant
RON ,hcsc wceanes except one night when she lett
When We two ace aunc she TO hink al the world
eo,' ~ ,hint ,r "S ~ HIM wien thc D,oiings CLOSED
as"ed the VrNiege oi calling on her. She siil sig
could cnii 6rl her the ,oxt sunday evening was sick
on tnHI ,',, a's' cop. 't 20" ia, a, ,"on ~ XII
inv aud She said tlcy wcr, good hut when asked TO
bai ' m, sn S4 Ii ,y e,sn,us hnJ htr wnit
Tnilg ,,-,.,...o an, ,,,,. ,.,o,, ,,,,.
rit al caT and nv ed wcni to spend The tSSne at her
nes nr,t ct ,hG S,' ,s ,h. s'ysH trs,, s %,
ny ti,ni aud on several occasions sishtcd me- as
in It To- my fricud t,int BIN lie person. Who had wri
Hnn'' urn, iolnd lu hct chair and hanicd d. to- mo.
taAui. with Inn tor ten m mute. at TIME not making
pS q ~, iae A,sc We were ready to como
homc. and ni o the rest we're gone out tc room.
vii ioigei all about me ancra wih5" Gul nnall .qi
could San ep Der tMo w.. from SUNDAY r,g, ana
s,.ln no. nam, ", 10, H. N"N "mioI 1w ',i
@ i,"n p"s ,2'g Sn nS, " or ro r aI
NcN nu1hcrt Bul don't 'ec how can d9 wiinou, her
| Nlp
why do you take your friend along when you
find lac draws OF her attentions from yOuY She
would probably have better opinion of you If
Won went To make love by Yourself. rs every
sensible man takes pains TO do. Her show Of
preference for the other fellow, however. is no
may make II simply for mischief. all the time
secretly liking you better but thinking 1t undc-
siratc 70 H., vou discover thc s,atc of her ,ccl.
ings A girl very often acts in this way for fear
II she l. too cordial she will seem TO be making
the advances. or because she hardly knows her
own mind. She may discover that she has
awakened tender feelings In man, and rejoice
at the discovery. and yet be unable to conquer
desire TO worry him little before she CON
lesses hrr own hH'cuoh' 20 To sec h't heN'
sunday evening nut lrhVe your Irl'hu III hohe'
inc oih'hs are Ill l"Noraoie 10 YOU
SIN. Would You kindly give me little advice az yon
asr--od enough you vii say TO have gotten over ali
non~.n'e and thought my SCI mat bclo,cd To- iat ior
Who might eo uiroush lie without having known the
sre a-o A. ~. , nnns "' sna ' n,r rc"yrd
much nuon from g,ntemen or ever became much
,.t ~iine s wen, o weeks VIII mafrci sister Who
lives about twenty mir. from home Niil' ihcrc ~
Axe, who very superior To- an, one ever saw before
Each time he T. iEcd WIN ~, neerlv the whole ct.nms
s NV own en- very many Inherent .ucgt. Tut inst. al
. ,tlMs ,n hn." w. , Iah s ,.t M M, A., nu', NJ
crowded l,ciucs and he ALWAYS happened a. be very
~ DO. ,,, .lans ', "l ib'g. 'wu IN, T.t c,,n
ns before .eng away. attended H. 'ars .ori i;
n" 'n W. ops home i n. III. A.. lame /" er~..ns
saw hm on te opposite side of the sire. and a ~
,,, ,nor ,n1 on thc impni,c Of the moment crossed
"r hr ~ n- ,n'"h u,,t nim ", a n nv, To-
Sow Nr Lutor have forever lost H. good uu'u Of
' i'', way ,. M , ',i '' '' .,l W n, ~.
iisr kins on mat an lan, mi.i he proud ~ a.. e.,
e,'t ifa t.r C,".~ f All. ! -, ,ter sirl. u,c ~ IN
.ut e. n- Il, sr.,i ini mof'ii.d, ,''. uin'' VI.
ni,t boz la, Ans b., wonauli.s :, mover cared t,orc
n"" Il 10y any way 9J N'n n. , ,',, '' ann mn
notatallpr,,ty Can itbt p.,hlc tat could D., s. a.
M iut ,er Do o,,i ,o ..n., some,
how do 800, no,i hANsA' "i"r
Yes. they do get over such things. bui some
times they suffer very severely before they are
cured anJ the scar remains. You did nothing
. wrong or improper IN putting yourself III the
e way of meeting him after the lecture anu II Is
not at all likely that he Thought you sought MS
companionship. sun. young women sh"ud Do
/. careful not to eNhgg'Tale the meaning OF mon
, attentions. man may be very civil To- a lady
b and ENJOY being in her society. and vet no
. thought Of making love to her enter his he"d
q Your uncontrollabe contrarness Wheh taking
: with him SHOWS th"' you nave HIl''"i COS
quetry In YOU ana so you need not ienr thhl you
D are uhW"mahy' very "N'lS u"' opp"s.''"" III
o trre-tod him. but tn heat time you -en him you
A might do well not to mi.rcpro-cnt youi
20 / tt,usli- ~: g. talk as YOU feel and believe
70 There is such tn.ul, as carr, NIX that oni-h-
r n,-s too far. and wearing out the pgti"ne" OF q
n man Of sense. You Will. of course 10 TO -c'
= your sister again. aud Will have further oppor
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T . -. p,,,,.',.. ,t.,-t. ha ,,,t,,t.
& your "N'''"nS' ioIn"pS "''p"u' nv UNI n
. "Dou you anu 'osie's .'."' you ICY "',ou. CIV
! INK ''''I 'I -
! best intellect do not care only for pretty faces
though ihey like to see llem' as 9'her men 90
~" '''%"' ,1 -, "
,r ~, IN" nortns ard r,noimcd in #
. / the whole evening if he hadn't found yot