Washington standard. [volume] (Olympia, Wash. Territory) 1860-1921, 1878-09-21

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Coavess.Gisa i he Issssa Asssr q
culture. IL sssaa. u oder 10 esos -
ssythinG sear pes5seeSaa. . essseos1s
of inGuea ana sutUnsd coaAlfboas. the
shseoee a any 90 a which - kA6l.
The delicate exchsaee ssA alseraasioa
which Il iapliss y iaPss.ibls ~ ssly
Il there IL MT sooe parity q val1e u
the thoughts exehnA0ea. bot $50 the
tat and art a selsc1ioa aDoae thea-
II requires. shove Ill tAings. . light
hand, the poser Of taking mp . subject
easily and readily. Of holding e MOI soo
tightly, Of aasy6ing the treatmess II it
10 the inissloesssss psed a. paint a
viev. Of loo<ing IL when it hss csased
t9 serve - . Dental stinulas, and Of
taking mp another sith the saae reaAi-
ness. 10 be dropped, in iss turn. - sooa
N il has seFvei lis Pusposs. A
thorough di.cus.ioa a Q subject 10 a.
WAYS oat of plsce In . convcsnaaioa
W" s@us 1Aess, Ssop-s -
suggestion OF vsrsed points 81 viev,
ssde-liehts, the play a fancy and
humor. even The ironscal tseesDest os
ones own senoss interest," al coIossd
by Q direct reiereace TO the inAividual
mind 10 which you are for the moment
brought mar. To dull natures Q good
couversasioni always looks inconsis-
seut. His -sidedness oeems con-
Trajectory his instinct md need TO BE-
all thing. 70 al men has :. .. car !. O. q
insincerity about u. while in TACT it b
only . sublimsted veracity his sen
Of the relatively OF truths and Of their
multitudinors phases, aides, shapes.
and references. wears 70 the narrow.
Flooding understanding look Of soph.
istry and frivolity. The homely Wit,
whic., stays where it grew in it, own
little plot OF earth, il puzzled ct the
vsgabond instinct which sends other
minds soaring and wheeling and circling
in search of fresh and distant prospects.
There is q trick which ct 6rst sight
looks like this conversational dexterity,
but which is in fact its enemy. Tie
true conversational touches lightly ON
his subject and then passes on, but he
has touched some interesting or charac.
teristic feature in it the pseudo con-
versationist nibbles and pecks at any
tag or corner of it which may be for
.ne 3en. R.oea, % on,, u;toi
sno I'LL. .o. III a. "I",a will
sas;" wiz. ILL., ao Ill. MI :. ~ Iii
nancns - .nemo oaony' ~ II.
Possiole 20 pun your I %ino " ~. !. -
also Possiole, W ". 0onns0n ns: A. ~
put your mino larry 70 .ne MN! y.
your companl9n' Ana Inns ~ !us'
wnat the Ps1udo-conVelsaclonist c.n-
NOT 90. I9ey are common amons
the men, ana SUI more among TUG
WOMEN, WIZ aIe in'Eouuoeu ~ ono ~ :
party as oucn remarkably anseA1,
gent person 90 mucn 10 say On al
suo]ects ana tney certain1y nsve =
laise ar OF 1nte!ngence, an1 may
orlginally nave started WIN goo9
aeai OF mlnd. a me incessansiy Pas:ea
IN company, witnous sne oalanclns
enects 0i stuuy anu irequs.t sou.Icos
Always Detrays ltselI ~ tnAs Pecul:sr
quahty OF tne YAK, wnicn we notice
with most aisappoantment IN tnose Tue
externaiS OF whose mind: 30 20 sPea'
give ~ nrst sient 9 promise OF lnteua'
gence ana mentai c0mraaesnlp.
anu IN THESE two tnnngs-An
e ea comraae c,a9s AZ. sns Ih nsR9h t4ei
interest in ali that sppeais TO the in
taiiact and the nersnnai interest Of
soc;si Fellowship each feeding and
snnnortino the other.-personal sym.
nathv forRiddinr the intellect 70 be
rpedantic or absolute. and the intellect
irving n 0ronnA and a charm to per-
s;nma odnna:so.;nn a. ;ts ha.t t. IA
. ..Uns ~. -, rnorr o.ha- th;nos 90 n nor.
s s."e ' .hs ra,:,;on hatwaen tslEers--
. ,'so.,a s.0 .nmaarsnoa Iross evan--to
,n;nds s,ona;t;va r. such ;nfinences AZ
.Ln u ,',;nJa ~ tho hest NEUTRALITY-SUSPICIOUS.
o eI ara~+ha social atm osnhera around.
NV haer;na hreed;no and mental
.It;,,1a - Tho .oc;etv IN Which thew
%anren n f;nJ IN, nsricas Ore push
;ng doomat;cal ;utarl oer can mar not
oniv a tete o.,.re hnt ,,e most harmon
ions assembly If talk 20 The fact that
tSara Is on eager listener nresent who
tales what ia said otherwise than as Il
ia meant to whom a playful allusion
nasses for vour last word on a great
sm ~l;eo ~ yb" " vii not lot n snccest;,n