Daily globe. [volume] (St. Paul, Minn.) 1878-1884, 1878-04-21
Husbands and Wires.
MRS. CHARLOTTE E. FISHER.

do not say the husband is always to
blame. The wife often makes home I'M
happy; too often both are in fault. Yet
think the husband is more apt to be-
come careless and neglectful of little at
tentions soon after marriage than the
wife is. A trusting, loving girl gives up
her freedom forever and goes out from
under the sheltering roof OF the old home,
to bless and brighten the new Goes to
be his own in sicknens or health, for "bet-
ter or worse" until one of the twain shall
rest from all earthly labors.
Before marriage he was all attention as
to his personal appearance: eager to graf
ify her every wish. He admired the rose
bud she selected to wear on her bosom,
but thought his own chosen rosebud
much lovclier. He admired the dress she
wore, the ribbon in her hair, truly she
could do nothing to please him that fail
ed of its objects. And he told all his
love and admiration in actions, and what
was still pleasanter, in words.
Now they are welded, both sure of the
others love. The days are full of light
and joy, she knows shadow can never
darken their home for is she not his
darling; his own happy little wife and
does he not tell her SO every day9 She
does not believe any change will come at
ter marriage unless it is greater and more
perfect love and trust. Years pass. Have
they carried the bloom OF life with them?
He has business to look after, but he loves
his wife just the same, she will not believe
| otherwise. Yet, sometimes when he goes
f<, h. l.,
never once noticing the lily buds in her
hair, or that she has on his favorite jewels
sometimes, say, feeling Of disappoint-
ment clouds the joy in her heart. The
full glory is dimmed. He continues to
grow more neglectful. She wears the
colors that used to please him; she strives
to beautify his home in every possible
manner, but he speaks no word OF praise.
He even finds fault with her once in
while; but what pains her most is his
constant indifference, and he has too,
a habit of putting her second in
stead Of first in nearly everything.
Occasionally, when he does happen to
notice her he wonders at the worn face
and quiet manners; and doubtless there
by, she has become very careless of home
enjoyments and love. Does he never re.
member the many times gentle woman
stood beside him, lifting the hair from
his brow or parting it with soft fingers, or
caressingl y laying a white hand on his
head. He used to kiss that same hand;
holding it in both his own, and say many
kindly things. Now she fingers near hirn,
but he never lifts his eyes from his book
to the face beside him, or finds one little
word of endearmentf for his wife.
1 Oh, if the walls of her room could
speak, would they not echo the words
that had SO often been spoken to them
ooh! God, what have done? What have
failed to do, that life is not as it once
was? Oh! have frighted away all the
tender words; all the caresses that once
were mincY Oh! why did not die when
every word and action were full of loves
Better-far better, to have gone away
from earth ere the bridal roses faded
than to have lived until my heart calls
out yainly, day and night for the glory OF
departed days!''
Whosoever would become good cook
says Mrs. Mary DIN, must give the mind
to it, and in order to excel in this branch
of domestic economy, one must have, OF
/ cultivate, taste for it. Seasoning is the
most difficult part Of cooking. One may
, know how to stew, roast or Droil, but te
know we'll what scasonings or spices t.
add which will improve the favor, re-
quires patience, practice, and / may ado
ideality. Again, badly cooked food i:
, sheer waste of material, strength anG
} nerve. What mother can justly expect
J to rear rosy, happy children upon SOU
bread, indigestible meats and rich pastry
No woman should take upon herself thu
J duties of wife or mother, without 6
J thorough knowledge of the art, and NJ
| woman's education is complete, however
brilliant, if this branch be neglected. II
mothers taught their daughters from the
, first that it was as much of an accom-.
plishment to manufacture light whole
some bread, snowy biscuits, or to be en-.
abled to broil steak to nicely, as tt
master difficult piece of music, or one
! of the languages, there would be fewer
divorce cases, fewer complaining hus
bands and miserable, unhappy wives.