The Jasper weekly courier. [volume] (Jasper, Ind.) 1858-1922, 1878-10-04


The world isfull Of s'advice 10 wives. !,
and even the cheap commodity ~
courtesy addressed "to married peo.
pie Is mostly one-sided and intended
ior the ears Of the weaker sex only. W.
can scarcely pick up n paper without
reading the oft-reterated Injunction n
always meet him with smile,,
(whatever may be his delinquencies) 10
% = always neatly dressed'' (whatever
work on handD; TO "never complain 10
him" (whatever the weight Of your
cares), and all The rest Of It, which ev-
cry BODY knows SO well. For the sake
o. a more evenly balanced state OF
Things, let us administer little OF the
same dose TO the other side OF the
mousse, on the old principle that "what
Is sauce for the goose Is sauce for the
gander." - 80
Husbands should always appear be-
lore their wives in neat and becoming
AZURE. Remember that was one Of your
chief attractions during courtship. A
man Is not at all beautiful en- dcshabiile.
ana now can you expect to retain a
woman's love If you suddenly drop all
the Establishments that won IL? Illus
bands, be neat. Never come to break
last with hair looking like "a fig-tree
BY mighty wind" or soiled
collar and neck-tie all awry. Never
lounge about Of late hour in the even
lng. IN stocking feet, sans coat and vest,
ana with slouchy suspenders. Had she
chanced TO see you thus in counting DAYS
II would have taken vast amount Of
romance out Of her, depend upon il.
suppose your circumstances in life are
such that you must assist in doing the
. morning chores,r then steal to your
room before she has seen you and change
he working coat for the dressing
gown, polish your boots and make YOUR
'elf presentable, that no suggestion Of
he barn-yard may accompany you TO
he breakfast-table. The look Of fond
egard that will surely greet you from
behind the fragrant cotfee-pot will be a
reward.
Never wear clouded or angry coun-
enance in the presence of your wife.
80 matter what the cares and annoy
nee Of the day have been, before her
GU should be all sunshine. Thus you
Eill make her happy and forget your
wn troubles. In her own sphere she
as petty vexations to bear that would
reak the spirit Of any man alive. Don't
id the burden Of yours, too.
II the children are noisy or peeyish.
uiet and amuse them with as much tact
$ possible, in order that you disturb not
leir neither, who, in the evening, should
nd the rest and tranquility that will
repare her for another day. Above all,
low no impatient word to rise to your
ps should your wife object TO your
'ending money on such selfish gratifi-
.tion as expensive and choice cigars,
lille she is economizing in many little
avs Though you may think her in
e wrong, you had better be ruled by
n wishes, as thus you may avoid future
lpleasantness.
Ii you wish TO be the true companion :
your wife don't allow yourself TO de- /
nerate into mere drudge and money |
tcher. Keep your intellect refreshed I
reading good books; read the things
Q reads and repeat TO her the news, |
tn political and general, that you have
eaned in the world outside her sphere. y
Bear in mind that many overtaxed I
YES are mere bundles of nerves, so To I
eak, and subject to thousand and one i
itations that enter not into a mans !
ilosophy to even comprehend; there b
g write II in your heart and prove it 4
your daily conversation that 3 " soft h
swer turneth away wrath, but griev- 4
words stir up anger. "-Burliagton .
Irkeye. ,