The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1877-11-11

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s%s% Would M z" rsrts snd SS S W. %o"G
bow to sci Thought w"aid write to you iSr advice
70 car II did not s9rored in getting hcr love her Oh
no tonrot csn Toll how much '''' '''' ~ VI
Yof arc foolish 10 talk that way II she roally
said ohat You quote. she isn't worth your mar
rying. but Ia q cold -blouded and merconary girl.
STA am youne LADY almost 10 years old rhsvc been
nv enor T so IT, nnS Ie,i
eight m9ntna lie has a,kcd inc % he ms vile bu, my
wsys .oas ' ys"r a s .sa s S
sy sss sd s nc h 1oc nn ccns 40 ssad H. rnes
bad cold did get home ~ time nv parent. thns
arc sh @ I'm IL, s y ."d hs ia ne,
esn aoash saSns c Of yo" u" LADY 1" Void nfI ~
i in cail after her when .ie goes out 70 spend the
SsyaES ea,sTsd lie Prsisnd. r b WV J"a@a bs.i
~ iin aud yet he Won't Tell nv rarcns an, hing re-
R 6 eur or r." tour n1n coro m Hc qt
,9u please give ne some adyice on THIS mgicr whetgr
iathcr has bee resdr OF ybur pancr ur thiry wears
and take hrs advice in wnuns to you. BkRnA
We think. Miss Bertha. that he is n rude and
selfish fellow. and you will do well 10 toll bin
frankly that you will no longer stand such
treatment from him. A pretty answer to make
to your sweetheart that you can't call for hcr in
the evening because you will lose scepi
sra In reading over rns sgs this morning was quiic
disarrreahlc experience with maid OF oiy " last win
sr Just IKE or Pyor Snnday .eog leHShe 'hcy met
he going home from your citv SHE Washington try
hu.6snd sho ic dcad in love As iid nc maiden q y
" a i gGr r Of nave" g Ss T9lf to h WIZ sna
her III Jus, as sweet sram as she di 10 him II went
carried them ig his pocket Then not hand. on twoo
an psay D5% t. Tn nv IeS @ II sq sS
~ HI or hers The maiden WIS iu, eleven wear. Older
Than mat had Tour little children whom the 9ther wa.
bounl :. SUPPORT, and ,hs ios,iaiins maid. 2 ., ~
M Their should ccr!inly be m asylum Tor decaycd
nnslc- such as we hnd in railroad cars or tumbng in
me men would nndit much CHEAPER ming in the long
INN To them tooct cmnes ana tl,n have t,ir
,cnt her /, married Then LEI Ngi9n from jersey CIV.
loo out loI she vii get umcaru"d MS sure rs did ihn
shnud S "',.r, INV ,il i"nK AM cr cb,nc, ,r1nni
a CAS,DI1S WosAS.
We have only to add that we agree with our
correspondent.
sr lam kcerins company with Young lady, and
love her dearly but my iok. object 10 her because her
never raised or rctnd son that wa. good cnourh tor
W nc "S @oSr .i such 20" hia r Ii rd sos%Hi
have been ,usiiin1 her hou-c with looi iue nons
that period her mother has never given cross loon
or 'iii ANYTHING before tat would cau-c to think
daufhtr hns nu ault 10 ini with m, Tor when asked
,hc was od ,goush e. Know what she wa. SAYING
~ ought mo TO- huf saws She could moi icp At VOL
know that Now. Hove the rir, a. sait hcr hut ucns
vnn wonh sd,i. me- To- s,iil tc"n c@m,env Win M,
,rti.', my in.atd parents. wv j, j.
The Girl is right She is not to blame FOR her
mothers angry words. U.s. your diplomacy to
settle the dini uliy. and make everybody happy.
s s ETA, s .s l me- ya,"', e gfope %G gl
t. hnnd 70 90 hiu ie hridceruou or she Efnon-n1uf
CASa,rorA, oct ~. a SUBSCRIBER
The proper time Ia after the knot has been
tied. and nj moment when the money may be
handed the pnrson without undue publicity.
The groonsman should be intrusted with tho
management oi the matter. for tho happy groom
will not wish IN think about pccuniary matters
at that blissiul hour. The neat thing to do is -
enclose the money in an envelope. which should
he gracefully slipped into the hand OF the minis
ter. who will understand that there is green
back in it, Or il you are in favor of resump-
ton. let him have 1t in gold.
STA. One year $50 Last October was passing through
certain street "a Nuu city "lrn ,tw yOGns lrl ,it
r, ~ ~ "a ~,na,~ & pi,s' =, g. lo,,J h,f
sN,-'cnoc ever ,ng' It ,n-ecs, 'o".u nov hcacaii
da'. ar when thonah' o our ihrr NJ social
n",t,n. l", .' ,,,msf an mi rom ht ,,,i
love aud non. or NV hri,f n, tents io H. , r,i,,
oi heaven Thought she did sccn a,cr.c t. making
nav NIu lnianer. nut my cNrr'uc. 100 uc way. . 40
emtN ~ limited AMI knrw NOT TOW to ndircs- her
lrand Nc woaid result tlic liberty, ana splsa'c ms.
needless To writ how hope carried at time, Ia
Hltcr,a :, Of sp,r could hui " ,s Tor detb In ."b ~
unconirqlahle unnule, visited the CITY ,oust her
snce Nut aso' passed The hSu.. .ee'ra ums. 5ati
saw no way, and asain rctursd hou" kngw the
wrote her hitter aud directed It to that nuni-,r All
sliernacly hole aud despair iii home came 10 The
Guy ami s"nsht but could NO. md her. once had
INST umc cloud ,ll an my sir, that hls been ieer.u
think Of N, iuinrc Ny on! hope be- ,oid tho grave.
ESQ ilooK Nov ptsrMs
We advise this foolish young man 10 give up
the hopeless pursuit OF "A adywho would regard
his speaking to hor as an impertinencc and
treat him accordingly. and find some girl in Red
Hook. who knows all about him. to fall in love
with. II he does this he will learn that there is
"A good deal Of hope left for him this side Of the
grave Any way. let him give up his wild goose
chase. and spend his time in improving his
Thus he will gain mental health. and be- doing
something that Will help to IT HIM for the love
OF some girl he meets in tho way tho rules OF
society lay down.
SIN am Young aiv 20 wears oii have been cor
responding with Agcutlr man t' b. nl~n form, -'hp
nla. iur The past rNr Nttr-. Ills lt A ii
trrestiu-. ht l. GENT ol tnt uu4iif4 i0ut
MtiNn iva years have teen Introduced AND hocouur
engaged a. another gentleman nom Nrw Nnrk. VIA 10
hr pf"cr tor me 10 continue the e"rrr-pondcnre with
tic former :. hoolinaiet MAUD LOCKWOOD.
Nov 5. ISL
You will do better II you consult the young
man TO whom YOU are engaged about that.
sra am n Young man. ~ wears oi ase Some
two wears since met, nd uircd them loved very %,
unl and ACCOMPLISHED young niN. whom I've h,cn
pHNtng my respect, since our mceuns A., know love
Her dearly anu AS NeN know s'n loves inr DIS nurh
expect ~,un a. make prnpu-al Co. her, Wh.ch uu com
rant ui tho custom ~ ,idine riil- would u.k 400 DO
tell me Nh,n anl how tH lit sent r-l What KIND u
rlug shnud get iur uit oDta-unf l.. 4 ~.
Wait until You have mado tho proposal before
you get the ring. for though you are SO conf
dent, she may refuse you after all. II she hap
pens to say yes. take an carly opportunity to
purchase tho ring. the valuoYi which must be
in accordance with your purse Rich men give
expensive diamonds. but poor men must con