The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1877-11-11
THE TROUBLES or TIN LOVERS.
An Intstcsfsnn Lot .r oves,ists tnreFsny
Treated.


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since ,en hays VISITED on her cadonsly ougs
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sS.oS '% hard That 'a"''' allowed 10 "iT o'
Her parents show thoir good sense Content
yourself with seeing her In the prcsence OF her
family until she Is no longer echool CIR. Simply
to be in her o'icty ought to make you happy.
sin I am young dinident and nctUtn IN the com.
pcny Of eenti,ncn 4 man who hae bccn married iyite
iac, aiicrrrd snd dctcsicd him sill. hc 6cityea he
suited and forbidden to speak 10 rio he snnoys inc b,
satins ,l staring at NE whencycr W happen ~ meet
low can se; rid Of such NAN ana what 90 you d,ni
Oi hmf M.
We think he Is an il-bred and impudcnt fol-
low. but all you can do IL to ignore his exist
encc. Then he may got tired OF staring ut you.
vd ss nSyG hen ENGAGED 70 ysuUs say tor three
ia. sed ySrs gnain1 ,owsrd me The S,canI,sncc.
She cncoungcd nc in every posshlo manner and when
m s s bsr w s sc o A. e o S sr
4. l9nE ~ hcr mo"1 Incd as sh, would only ,. 1nr
out OF IT, q. was willing to take as Eoci care o her
an as sa T now "s sy hs s sw ou nf out essd
as no. . M, an AMI s.s. Il W. efcsk The .ns.ge
say. we could live happy together Now what would
b' the best thing for me todot DICK fSRuusOs
You surely 10 not wish to mako girl marry
you against her will. Lot her break tho en-
gagemcnt. If she desires to do IT, Likely enough.
when she has had her own way for a while. she
will make up her mind that abe loves you after
ALL and will Doe glad to renew the contract.
sra am engaged to young isdv Int since our en-.
@ rns NM wat Ho ~ DO, 'g sSa ,sS S y y. l
D, 9n next pr ns or bry TX on the engagmcni She
She say. that she lo,csm Sometimes think that size
would marry ici me have your advice u, .oor as
possible. and you wiii obigc a subscriber. JNk
Her conduct Is n little singular. but she may
have some good reason for it, You might po-
it'ly suggest h. her that it IL not customary for
an engaged young Indy 10 make such a condi-
ton. and request OF her to explain why she docs
ii. reminding her that lovers shouldn't have
secrets from each other Unless she gives
satisfactory answer why stop calling until
next spring. and then see how you both feel
about H. But no careful TO 10 nothing IN an
grr or resentment
Sra Ihavc gentleman friend who Ia. rccn visihr,
ana ,ynii9s wn ne ,9r nearly .1rce y,ar, ony
i'N' MN Hnl 81 requires rr' 40 rn"lt" my part mcun
cant ''t Hm i", proud 90 show II ave no ono hut
rir.rin,l o. be- ir ni. YOU are not Obliged 4, love hin
II a. @ n , ,,n'. i s, o ~ ~oa "''p ns
ani 'y. a. nn..t M im % - Other men r,v rre
irc' o, oi6,i frcni' h" !. NO. lover mi5ci' inint
h'' ir"grm ni''t- g'%n d'"r Other vouns gentlemen
u-uae When he av,v he seem. misc rphc b. Ing M
ws ii qrS n a ,,' i, nm, '. e
rh = indr'd, To me labor Of iovc. tides scnas
un... I could lcav. n,- mart. nns,own sni kc.n M,
~ N'f,An"ei. iore' nnkn'wn. ~hi.1 would d"u II
uroish he columns Of ue ovcrwcicouv AMI nsiiS
pi"d otN lNNA O.
Th,ro H. ~, ,,.,,si,r TO- a,,,, ho,oi..,,,,
though ne certainly ought TO say squaroly inst
Wiht ms Intentions are. Perhaps your beet
vnv would no Ia refus, IN lon,.er cnrraa,ont
Wv, "Vu' ", ~ r''uS' ~ 'o"E', '"Iioeponp
,oc, ,na, :, 'sns , h sa' "s, w 20 que
i"' VI" " WIS tihe lot Nun to tike the plhce OF
n declared lover. We fancy II will all come out
''-"' =" '"' Gnu
viii cn amt w" run a ane unc 10 ncr iS,ner
= sgd nat- to -crarar'n She VIII MOI 90 live out
Nhcre awpy fpa IN. sr, Of tie Sann,r, vhrr, We esn
~. 30 i,n,e hai her inicr ipr1Hl, her to SO VIII me
lu-nald 81. 30 NO. ro q, any place. WL,rr both ca
o.. ,wa, h7.is When .wy ron .'r
WV or Il @"i he G'f, 40 o, "a,Ii l1Ss ,
~ ~, thud ami s"amny llrr father wschc, her u Is
No s-hor during work h'ars aud ak uien IN tor.isn
sif q ei No man rut n, around her neck all NJ,
he sr we man ii i5,ns,I me woman snsascd to
says IL l. BON proper and rGht iOvsG husHASD
Unless husband proves himself unworthy of
respect "a wife should obey him and yield To his
wishes NO tlsW-mihded parent expects to
daughter. such conduct us you say her father