The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1877-07-15

| needed In manipulating n fragile and
costly vase. As for THE Sun, we feel it
as much our duty 20 give our readers sound
views ON this mOmcntous subject as to in
struct them in their political and other So
cial obligations. Therefore the lovers crowd
about us for advice, we'll knowing that we
| listen To their confessions with an attentive
ear and lock up their condolences in a re-
coptacl" involablc 10y man or woman either
Tho first ease which we are called ON to
treat to-day is that Of u correspondent In
! this city, and it is an exceedingly difficult
one. His situation is thus put forth ia his
| letter:
ISM perceive that Won arc gradually coming to the
point where lovers and young adcs tor
regard to love matters Somc people may think that such
things very little qucnce. but am glad that
YOU take the ripht view OF ic question: aud that your
advice Is good aud sound Love j. a trcasure-worth
more than gold-and tie human heart is not satisfied
unless We have II ha,, been unfortunate In my love
matters, aud 50 AM going to ash you One OF two qucs
tons
"Do you think that there Is a Providence In such
things' Would you advise young man to look tor
wic from among people who consider themselves Of
higher standing and of better social po-iuoni Has he
amy risht to marry such girl. knowing that the
means at his command would be Insufficient To- support
her IN the style she had been brought up n the
Ffi were ~ilhng' man may he Intelligent sober. hon
est but II lac bad friends ami influence he could
build himself mp through them Twas acquainted once
with girl aud she loved ami her. but dropped her
on account vi the DAD, IN circumstances Dad
do fishtw
Our correspondent is right about loves be-
ing II treasure 1t IL worth more than any
Jewels dug out Of the ground or found at the
bottom OF the sea. But you must bc sure
YOU get the genuine article. Tho imitation
is worse than worthlcss-it is positive
| burden TO the gcttcr Of il, the unfortunate
person who has mistaken it for the real
stun. Now to the questions above pro-
pounded. As a rule, n young man and wO-
man about 20 marry are better Off If they
are OF somewhere near the same position IN
life. After all poetic as love may tie, mar
riagc is Il very practical business. and unless
1t is entered into with "a degree of coniwup
sense. trouble is likely to cu-uc. CUPID
knows how to pierce hearts with his arrows,
hut he Is Il poor hand ut providing victuals
for the household when the hearts so hap
PLY wounded are merged into one; and un-
less the pot is kept boiling, he is apt to ily
out OF the window SAN, the lack of riches
is no reason for not marrying, though
absolute poverty may Ice. A young couple
who start out 20 maze thcir fortune together
are often in the best possible situation for
securing Happiness and for developing con-
jugnl bliss. A man must decide for himself,
with her help, whether ho shall marry Il
gill when lac can't support her as well as
she is supported at home II Tine olI people
discover him tohca fellow deserving Of their
confidence. and IN to he iutrut ted with their
daughter, they should give him lit when
the pair marry. That is the time to help
Young people. A little money given then.
if YOU can AFFORD TO give it. is worth moro
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