The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1877-11-23
TILE LOVERS AOAIN.
A Very Interesting Lot Of Inquiries from
Many Quarters.

A Very Interesting Lot OF Inquiries IRON
Many Quarters.
sra: am a girl IS years Of age, and CON, come
yoins man ~ years Old lie acts like he cares great
T ss4 ss' Ss @'Sf IT, si a c ne Pc receive Other
AZ . iSp' E sRSa me- to an ! s"f him. whc Gd
right for me to kiss gentleman which am not en-
gagged TO- WHITE Rosr BUB
Under these circumstances II would seem adj
visablc for you to give the young man your ex-
elusive com pany. as he requests, but he shouldn't
keep you long waiting before he asks the mo-
montous question. Do not let him have your
kisses until he has given you his heart unmis-
takably.
bcns bound 10 make her mine she having given her con
sent hut our parents are opposed 10 tt now wish To
Would S' c %' mn S ' We arc re- Proieslans and
years and am 10 r. W. H.
You are too young to get married without
your parents consent. and we shall not help
you TO do II.
sra am % years Old About year ago meta Young
went sec her tor about seven months, when ley tor
i"d me so. and / one Of thc converted SEX loved her
truly but since am out here have become indifferent
place In my heart though do desire am not in
rs ID" "r or Ve ,rSrs rourh he wins to Wait
yet, under the circumstance. doubt ,hc wi'dnm .,
You aive me 10 kecp on aud encourage hopesf NV
In The end five yc"rs can Work great change. Please
oGlisc CONSTANT RrAoKa
Five years IL long time for nm engagement
too long in most cases. Write TO her frankly on
the subject and see what she says. but do not
sneak out Of 1t in n mean way. 1t may keep
you straight to have u girl to love in the East.
SIN. have been constant reader Of your valuable
paper for long time aud now want to get your advice
am - years I'D and have heel in love with Young
lady OF ~ from early school days About eighteen months
that could get married IN few months but bust
,s hSS nm c ba m ous S and wan to
and live at her fathers house die Is willing but
p"r, and al The same time would not ike 10 inure her
Ss i've IN % BY m Ga not ss"S able to let
She has had several good on'rs but rejected them for
sscrnce my part to see her made happy the bal
is 1t risht and honorable to keep her in doubt as to
when We can get mhrriedf MANchhsihh
Go to her with your story. talk with her pa
rents and see II they are ready TO take the risk.
Unqucstlonably 1t is bad for a man to be de-
pendent for his support on his wife and her
family. but perhaps you will get something to
do and 50 be able to take care OF yourself. IL
she is much in love with you your misfortunes
will deepen her regard.
sIs have been for some year. constant visitor in
riagcab sisters have found the society oi these
pI"ad Min nv ,ocie,v and # perioi Of ten days or
Two weeks clape without my going to the house the,
Sow M, friends accuse 81 a feeling other N an pa
Min me Tut Viii oiher Gentlemen Who visit them not
withsiandns my assertions TO the contrary have at
sire and cqnty have been very circum.rcct IN ~
@ eS to Ms ne h s d. G X treaty. fD TO
my pca-an, relations with them Yet IL not my desire
To nure her opportunities and prevent any sutor from
approaching her -, .,.,., c ,.,.
| others with proprietyt An OLD SUBSCRIBER
Go ahead and call on tho sisters. The girl
may no, be fonder Of you than you are OF her
and you will be likely soon to feel the tender
passion in earnest. Ask them all. though they
| may not all accept
sra. Young lady 20 years Of ase: have ha(
but there Is only one that care anything tor hay,
Goue.t upfisht yonns man. lie is not wealthy did no
Know that he cared Tor me only IS friend nnil thr,
him return did NOT love him then, aud told him s.
1gsn ds s' me- esp Ssn S "y ne 81 ar
sascd He asked me abou, six months ago II would 10
contrary. but since that time he seems u be te d.
Ilis Tor waiting wa. that he ad not think h
S sgPS an an, A. be- w edS, not IN, S ~,
engagement He said that IT saw any one in the tw
70 MARY NV him %,' You'd Ike or you to sds- me via
lido Ian ins win one Of my [el"nye, at The
two years but have not said anything TO the youn
q other .uit,Is. that do not love but do min
| that would dor Please answer soon NJ. b.
Don't marry a man you are not in love will
but we fancy you are not so much in love wit
this fellow that you couldn't get up fancy fc
one OF the others. However. it is better to wa
two years and get the right sort Of husban
than 10 marry sooner and get an inferior maj
SIR. have until within a few weeks. kept the cor
Uf "A
my respect, tn her she had been keeping another gent
she replied in the negative. since then had nill ha
Stances lew week. since noticed growing intimac
on her part toward her previous escort | mentions
tion Tor him, stated that she would be true ~
notice S the matter Tor some time when not wishing
be recognized n second choice gave her codcf al
whom sue preferred 10 keep company with She pro-
has decided uniavorahy me and We have discount
ycd esch ether. company have no l Lw toward 7
docs not notice me She wrole to ne few Day ago n
to me- and am informed by several person. that She W
sny 9ss. SGss G gay" me Want TPS s sd fi me
right IN requesting decision Has she acted the lad
me- s DO "2 Should sS any A not he
TROUBLED LoyfR
=. She is behaving strangely. Perhaps the be
y thing TO do is to draw of pay no heed to he
! and await developments. She seems lit
. inclined to be coquettish.
SIR A wear and half ago was living in little cou
Il Try town IN Vermont. In house occupied 10y iarm'
= his wife ami daughter soon red into very iuuus
Ia relations with the daughter. AMI happening 10 awHk
the susuicions of her parents lett the house
without the knowledge OF any at the inmates Chan
led me To a Massachusetts, town, where became c,
vcrisd Feeling my sell called upon TO the scNi
o the Lord. aud having received a good education
tcrmnrd 10 90 10 the Yale Theoosica Seminary. n
here have met young lady oi good family and la
fallen IN love with her. have reraned from ask
:, her hand in marriage because the farmers dauSh
whom betrayed repeatedly hegs me by latter 10 mar
II her But do not love her and am sure never con
inasmuch ~ love this young lady in New Haven "
o all my heart and soul Wal YOU be 50 kind as To "a
. me some advice as 20 what ought ~ dor fEAiIkNI
Nav llANkN, Nov. Is
Before you get converted again repair t
!, wrong you have done. You will make II pre-
= poor specimen Of a preacher, and very und
e sirable husband for any decent girl.
sin. am Young lady 20 wears old and am decrlv
n love with man some Ii wears my >enor-a Large. d
If ookius mobile fellow, and love him almost a. dist
II ton lie man at property. moves III the best sugc
~ aud is a great aN urite among the ladies, has not
y enemy IN the world, and T. subscriber to your ytua
~ parer which occasionally he brings me- copy 10 re-
O and admire II very much lie has been WAITING an
y Tor some unr, and he tells me he loves me better u
l. any woman earth and hricNc he does lie waits