, 1877-06-02

NEooA. ILL.,, May 9A.-I think with Am!e n,
Hale, II Is dcptosablo fact that many women are
forgettgl Of what belongs to poltcncss whcu hhcy
accrpt favors Of men, for they scc TO take It %
matter Of coarsc thnt mon soud givs up their seats
to them tn crowded paccs. pick up their handker-
chief or gloves. and nssst them over prccasous
places. hnd never ouce sccm to think that any ac-
acknowledgement Of tho favor, by thcm Is called for.
Like her, have often wondered thht mon did not
cease granting Us these favors altogether, for we
certainly treat them very nhabbly whom VIC pro.
su,ne 70 much upon their kinlHess, aud believe,
and In fact know that many nf them have kcpt their
scnts nnl neglected tn scrvo nics In vaeions other
40 Often unt there arc thousands Of other men
who hare GallantrT and respect fut women IN
le1llby atnlnpct tn their Eatur9 they cnnHnt bring
them'eycs 10 allow such opportunities for bcstows
In thor kind acts npon tl,o nlics tn paas unin1.
osa;, ts sSy selmaO te ps;etee tfEm nnro
exrn though they rccrlyc ITO rcwaIl.
Huw let u ytcw this in cundi.! sense. md eec II
eclyes when We eare'csaly and thoaghticl1iy. nc:.
leet al acknowledgment Of favor conferred upon
Tor ps he Wild ii iee %cts syS s n .
The sans consideration fur his enjoyment and ilia
feelings that ho does for ours! Teas thlngs do nnt
belong to IN ~ right, md We o1gt not to demand
THIN as such, Or acccp! them with n,aRnnnIntona
Indifference They arc nothing lnorc nor less than
them. and mover no iaf forgut our inuyshlp as to
make no retusn for them. VIC need not always
speak our thahks, although many tHlcs thls ts lust
the thing TO DO 6nt ono can alwaya acknowledge ii
20 w viii ma unly Insure tllo good WIN and kindly
appfa1s q a;o; an "a o oas9 sai and 1tets t. III
astquick to notice an oversight on onr part. To.
sldjt. wo feel 80 much betSr anu have moro sclf.
ton, for
''we cannot do wrong and feel right"
even n !tlo things for It 10 tho inRlte ttlos that
enee, md wo should bo resni how wo perform our
little dntlcs. else wo may not 30 competent % per.
t. to 81 s e would s.ss
ca!ecs1 In tho minor n.nltcft.
nHt q. Ito again ,n.imatcd. this IL not All. wa
wa.d our sisters md vIco eorss. Taking II slto.
ecther 70 ought TO begin A. tho root " tho atter
ourselves M to troat those outside Of our hoi1o
With srsspce., md really thInk we oaxht % DO
memtcta Of our own homo than tho good win Of
outsl1ers for do We nut associate With them motoi
And do we not owo moso to themf hut how many
overlook this point and scom 10 think po1tcness il
garment 10 30 worn only away from hons OF when
What IL truo .rolItenesa ou. manifestation n of
proper rosaF4 for the feelings OF othcEsf and how
many h1asohGa s.s mlghs bo avoided werc thIa
Rfane,nlo carried ont fully and not 80 completely
4 said o. the Carey slaiers that ono grca, 70.
csct q & taslr tender feelings toward and
polisenssa which was such dominant itat In each
and a. served many times - a pcaeemak.F between
t9rEetlulness Of tha would haye caused somo sleht
th differences boIwson them. Can ono help admitting
II mt ohligHtc every ono VI ns 10 cultivate ills
ta,1o trait, and bring It TO a. high state Of mar.
fsst'o s, =. ,Go,;.bet Il y worked well ~ their
sisters could enjoy each others eoccty, whtle ihsy
,hos s5o dwrlng t1gether anaor the parental roof II
wup 9n sw4ys praetiss h fos 10 ono can
and trcas them with genuine poii!encss, jiow
much nero influence rlstars could pvrr hroih.
M he1sd to; an4 how often, through this lniucnro,
might savs them from ,aln and Disgrace. ilow
sc oer Wos4 sna whs
sal nar lfcs ocean together II this wcre pfaciics
# a.! tine. IN oyssyday te would safely bear
say tb bsSs f9ans 9 "aTes and eventually
Hey in,sh ;apnlst would childhood DO !, parent.
tast oad ts s sts
little ppats In childhood, and thoy grow 70 man.
hood aud Womanhocd. 1t would Ne 20 natural to
MT fa!l II Maxng trivad. instcal of enemies Of
ahoss WIZ whom they wcss thrown In contact with
u parents p.aes!ced this besure THAR children
an,i , towara theIt children, Il would not 10 very
nilsnlt so teach thsn 'o pFsst' T. and how many
waat world q dIIleuliIes ,hey nisht heip thota
while llfe listed, aud ofientimes saYa shem ftom
bcc1mlny human wrecks. '''''"
Hshsi Il ofa TSa .ush P;rsn. hs likely 70 b do
b. compelled to drsg ont ther nissraols ex,atenea
an1 un!o.ed. When they reached tho shady sids
of IT, the!s children would prove ths'r blessing
tulaess anA love, and when thoy came u eIl lhIa
transient llfs would bo lovingly cared for And
botte by ths go'dca.tlntcd winst Of peace 10 the
bright world beyond HlAcK1E,
A WARDIAN CASE AT LAST.
10 sAs Editor ar TAs Trtsun<.
OTTAWA, May s0.-What Il q wardlan cassI
What aro theJ msdo Of, and how mAdet These
and similar questions greet my eye nearly every
uay ~ open letter after letter. / thought 10
much bad been said on this subject that ali must
undensand Il; bat will tty once moro and make
plain 70 you. for soa,e OF you say, Explain the
nioat minute desatls. sven though It seem very
s"ople 70 you. First, hayc your eass made. II
square or oolong baYs latga fer Tho eosl u only
. tshe more. and you will never regret 1t. son,e
have very handsome round ones, and these arc far