, 1877-09-08


}cct, marriage. The first thing 10 do IA to make one
scls good and 1oyable ros.he, aut. no lnvahle
woman Will hnvC 10 rrma&n single or de m nf1wonl.
AMY or " forward" thing IN order Ia ,nrsy So, IT,
gtra do not get propo.ais-xood ones. too-tt IL
bocause there h fomcthing In their nsturc Or hab-
IT, that needs correcting. Ana, II tachslort do mt
Ind Niyts to suit their tahtcs. they either do nut
look diligently enough, Of arc themselves tonred,
md had bestar 90 nj once 10 work on tho labor Of
sveetcnnR their temnerR and opening their eyrs to
The loya ard bena.lcs of ilfc, IaStetd Of
cnltlvatiag their eeidsh vices. There II M
exenss Tor my man or woman not marrying and
having harny home, nnlcss some hopeless. ptyA-
icnt weakness or actormity ehouh be tho cause Of
!ncr being tarred oat frum Tho charmed circle Of
eanso tiey dont want Wart IT, to" s' t,ey shouiS % b. *.
down BY evesy one - lacking n son,s Of the mani!
btan!ify md hRrmnnfze the sexes.
nat I'm forgetting t'st the ohjcst Of my tt.ay
Sa ns IT, eTf h n NV ha .1 snd 1. ~
say at smother lime on TINT attractive subject.
have marie! lady acquaintance who ts always
sa'a; II sRssnemsS nc ea
anu ana. beine q an e1!Igns aspos!.ion, she Intro;
the aforrraid maii weula c n'adci'trpy tnot by my
as9'a!!a!anse'; ,ya bst y ths aeqaa!nsnss q NJ
fsssd s!e mi sat hons ny hsn he s1s srcs;er sS
ra1t 81 Tho, evening. and ponsinx fattena9 and
/ believed her to DO n wcil-ntaning xiii. de-
pointed fcmsle In finding mariner ! put myself 10
no llte ttons'o ana EXPENSE IN il,s good cause
knew n order that hoth might derive pleasure nnl
esnsat tf1m ~ n.t"cas. n seiisys 10Th seSs.
ions. ldeas and the eosnpanonshin Of cnen other.
| Al t9s tlme myrct wa* hcnst-frrc. bnt ready 10
ea LEX seein ien p! po!o Sme sa WorGy Ho
! l. confess / had ret my standard
around nc, anil help thosc les abo q help them.
fecnjs 10 them. and nrgca then, to call, and .ns.
ee.ted the rronr!ey e thci: taking this tanlsel 10
a osst III a .ss sa .s,
Ees TO any paee Under tle c.cort Of mir tnl lcman;
eouid not. she sang and played; and. alshoaulI
and the conl,l appear quite charming. She con.
stanty as:nred ne ot her affection to.inyseif: snd
H. ,ena. to sEs s st e Il
MY society. ucstrtng tn DO good turn
when, ! ean. / continued In ny endcavot
spn VA, to take part o, thu stage Ii was At thai
ttmu payln. with an amateur dramatic company,
old ss e. % sa y Sa Sny
her ticket and tc'si hcr With nnothef tuty friend
q o..ts. u 20 ono had olie5ed 70 taad hGr. u;
not tako l1cr with mo, a. 1 had 10 80 bcfotc lie
inns fur tho curtain 70 rise. 20 left her with
ny time was my own after tho last act. md y
recicti IN escort to accompany NC. ann was willing
po liz sheatse. 10 ilessea bvioro ieavins ,ani"o
in the costume W; ~ anrear ~ on tho stage tn
prevent taking cold BY dressing T. IN a-sometn.es-
s te apI tic eas espo,ure dsn.c9 ~
cu.. A',nousa NY so.tums xar en,,e .tG'n.
iG evening wa plca,amtfof and tllIsw
thc play thG weather, M changed ana iScams quite
S2 ana esan s,1 ~ i run ann t4, a m n r.,
ea!tsia sa,se5, aa :: t4e essn.aa W. thos plsas:
MI me nal not pr4's,atu M.n'fG waa IN nn apaein.
wilh 1saay Hey sonIa Gst , h1mS without n ; p,%;
ae 'T1 sHs M IN S rn ~ a,, m, n sms n
Wy naea saott , assnes. s @ ono only nau On
hn,d lx ,n,tltuv yoDn. ,an. onv r of our u' cluo 1
snloy tho GU comfort !s':. Of s'.cltsr stepps!
ns 6ns aoots na ~ M
10 hsr ~ sosGe. deat Mo esna ooia
See ansf r tS tu rDas u; ~; w. warmly @
ssss 70 %hstas f t. DO, L sc X knoW,ng ,g
ne ~oaS w ~ as ~ ~ ny y Ill.," "o ~ tn p1;n 70 o
f;easo y a sl sFts t ina
taS! an sG ncris s ~ she aea1ea 20 nsf
Sa"!ncs ~ wGn sac'sse ny ion.o enu ~ onstsa 1
% %and f. my sarp1!ss % 1.,a y, n'suss sny:estea that
snon1 @ sua On aons ~ ~ !oe ram as ,as ~ soala
SsSusi to accompany ner a. heF leisure: M l tevk
net aas!ee aha nutneu nouns. wv wa dfcneaeu
oS!nIe Sot shcse, anu VIZ man.ns Hcttlns otse te
smcets o. NY wettshT. stas GANG on lc'surely auI
nea ~ the l'"e te'i.ne ny islsha What heaft!ssa
Alft Has: 10 leit hef aE ny Rats 70 us"
gas5Sa th1t no inancenent n she intato
of onchea greaa Snough 70 ges UNI 70 eaii or
hcs az 70: nY ner riwon,an!y ss,a,hnsas :he loat
pusslhlc caanss o. husband ana thG Eood op!,..
ion q ono OF 20! own ses: WastoA snEce months
% ~ .s Mutn ta ~ tss AlnaJ tnsaos ~. WI ~ maNs nes
ys IT,. IT,, ana a. Inc enc ~ thxt ,,e
ness donn nll IN htr mower 10 iniure me. sho had
p1'.I 's9s om ny m1iss aRn 40 maRa1l
@ s sanaercd & nc taHd it, eorss u fiiend
10 ay aS S ia' III o after x. o y per
nassioa, anu l1se'y ssef ~ remain ~; 30: nny eiss
.O a. vns ~ " ~ ashy n yaSss Ua
sfers hnd .or III. Feason
o xsna1av unned u III sopi ~ am ~ ~
as,c Or 81 n ne1pS r Se9 r ats sss
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