The Jasper weekly courier. [volume] (Jasper, Ind.) 1858-1922, 1877-06-29
HOME RULE.
Some Hints fori the Management
Of Husbands.


~ WIFE.
I Nothing is easier A smart woman.
and all women are 50 smart can rule
any man If she only knows how not by
loud and violent discussion, not by
strong mindedness. not By tears, not by
obstinate adherence TO her own will
but by tact. But then SO few women
possess II, and II can hardly be learned.
Still, few hints may fall like good seed
on holy ground aud take root: shall
give recipe?
FIRST GET YOUR HUSBAND.
How do we get husbands? Some
choose wife for her prcttiness. others
for her neatness, Others for her sweet
temper, and still Others for her talent
woman with any tact will soon dis
cover what her lover likes her most for
Whatever il may be, she will studiously
cultivate that quality before marriage
until II becomes part and parcel Of her.
self after the untyable knot has been
made fast Daily contact shows up the
little discrepancies in our natures com
mon 10 all. The young wife, outraged
At the shortcomings Of her husband,
ceases Ia take pains with her part Of the
performance. and the virtues for which
she has been chosen seem to die out.
simply because she Is not on the oUl
lyivE TO practice them. a woman with
tact will always try to appear after mar
Irisge as she did before. Appearance goes
= great way, believe me. Never put il in
your husbands power 10 say that you
appear At your breakfast table in
LESS ATTRACTIVE FORM TiAS yoUR LADY
FRIENDS.
Whom we may chance 10 see. Men
hate to see their wives look ANYTHING
but well. Charley. DEAR" said lady
20 her husband in my hearing. did you
see Mary this morning, aud how did
she look Z"
"Wcll. she looked clean and neat,
though you know. Kitty, she has not
your beauty. Yet If you would only
como down 10 breakfast in white dress
hike hers, with bit of blue ribbon at
The neck, think would bc as proud or
You as Once was
Kitty. you see, had evidently fallen
away. and gave her Charley opportunity
for fanlt-tinding aud drawing invidious
comparisons, wherein she lacked tact.
Always dress. for your husband /: wear
lis coior; study his tastes: let him he
proud OF you. Again. never nag him III
he says No. II you want something
he refuses ~ give, never ask again, but
suggest that such thing ID is his inter
est 10 get. BY and BY he will follow
suit aud think you are right. When
.;,f 10 hc.., xas...I
NEVER crow OVER HIM.
DO not pretend that you were the prin-
cipai mover in the affair. Above all,
never snub your husband before Others.
lie will have a deadly revenge if you do.
Always bear III mind that though YOU
have secured your husband. You must
still study 10 keep him. by all tie little
Establishments OF affection OF which YOU
are capable. Therefore act, all the time
As ii Won we're lover. By givin. In 10
your husband. even his uhins. although
il may be hard work, you will keep him.
Men will always 90 TO the most agree
able place, and II yon make his homo
the most pleasant, he will naturally stay
there. a woman can never rule her
husband unless she loves him, aud shows
~ aud All willagree that IL il no trouble
Ito give way TO those we love. Some
women won't allow smoking some will
ldrag their husbands 10 church sr thea
tiers, nolvns volens; others object 70 his
lever going out to visit his friends. Don't
do IL. good wives; don't do any OF these
things. Husbands are only human be-
lings and must be Unanswered.
PET HIN, PLATTER.
Dress tastily, allow him to trade upon
your superior ideas as if they were his
own, and you need fear no outside infu-
ence. If man can say, my wife Isl
swcet-sempcrcd and good houskeeper !;
Il am never bothered with disagrccablc
details never annoyed by untimcly in
trusion Of the children; never scolded
never vexed by bad dinner"--thc most
important consideration Of all then that
wife may consider herself true mistress
b. The situation. But, oh, fair ladies
never let your husbands ever dream of
the idea that you rule them. You may
still do 50 in fact, and yet completely
conceal II by having the--taci.
\ "A st. Louis Sunday school hoy gave
'lhis faacher this illngtratiVc definition NJ