The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1877-10-24
THE LOVERS AyD THEIR QUESTIONS.



ted Cases.
Tho lovers continue to pour in upon us
many Inquiries. to which we must make
answer. slough their great number will pre-
vent us from considering them ut length. In
few words. however. we think We can satsfac-
tOrily trent each ease.
The first IN that at rejected lover:
siR. About two VEGAS since addressed lady who re-
lids who're Am boarding A. could not get m onror
g INV love or hrr So ,n.d ne h,1 rgl' IN .he nis,
% ne same Day at wrote Ia y r. siat NAV ne hqd
friend hri i'd no, love r,du, sting me asihc
her tic ncSi day. ana told hg1 ina, would DO
a., sle dy'tsn' 1m9 .n", ". W"Hu =, & III ,r n
very careful not to annoy her with nominations
ne, SEEM as friendly l,ward mo as .hc formerly
r ,o i " "I cca i "S, to er aud hs,e acted TO-
ward her ri nd taking car not I" let her see how
have even her several Ho1S, since | addressed her
thinking that by consulting her taste ~ that way
aud behaving III sensible manner. might perhaps
s'lnc Jay make more favorable impres-inn but u
lively ~ .hc formerly did ani seems omcwhat con
Now sr. il ,"n can susecit any wav in which can
act - cause her to be friendly - shc ns,d 70 be-
her dearly aud would sacrifice any n1 10 sain hct lgN.
s To- ' ea" beer Iii cc cS T "%
wArSnsDO.O, Ga, oct X
The trouble probably is that she feels little
awkward in the society Of the man abe has re-
Jctcd. and 80 puts on mn air Of reserve. This
will wear of in time. when she gets used to see
ing you around. II must be rather Disagree
ali for a girl To have TO daily encounter in her
boarding house fellow whom she has been
Obliged to 70 treaf. Tho next time you have
such proposal to make do itby word Of mouth.
Counting n girl hy litter when she Is close NJ
hand Is bal strategy. and indicates
lark Of tact which invites disaster. Bear
this in mind. and perhaps some moon
light might. YOU viii ind her ready To- rrvcrse
hc. decision. Grls like n man who isn't too
shccp,sh TO speak out his mind. and ono who
knows how ~ take advantage OF the III moment.
sie nn y"ing nian - ,car, oh. aud sometime;
utk rrn"-iN Of - iuiE married, ny s'hhN, h'.,
Lutd advice aui prefer NNurH e. ANYBODY else N,ui
Sou d,.e ne to ict married now or wait ull am od'
lhr ira."n VII, tear tn marry now j. hccau~' every
s' "rcnns,nn'"s and nv own "ciions p,' 10 me i.at
t,ia,. tomorrow DIN. At B. wrong. and nm AFRAID
Nav yoG oct Is Ronvm BRrrS
Until you know your own mind. Mr. Bruen.
We advise you to give up all thoughts OF marry
ing. You would make pretty poor sort OF hus-
bnnd now. The thing for you TO do is 10 make
n man OF yourself before you think OF matri-
mony.
fgani id' Il N''r asi n,t %,,k a, a., " cr
A. H. y" ,t ~, b, AZ, m ,.r y, wv. e b"r ~, r.on,ilv
H- live in firrrn r'rt OF m citv Would d. RIGHT
!" her ...tr T., k hcr Win me and it should takc
nrr. "rsht To eoto her house a. have ne yer been
Nsw YoRr oct II.
Get your friend 10 take You to her house. and
ask her yourself 1t won't take too much cour-
agc to do that.
sm have hcan kcerlns coinpanv with Young man
Ter 'oge n. o." nisli' he made remark WINCH a.;
wv, ,, -, ~, ~ IN, WY ~ ~, a. i' ,nI ,cn'ys
he escis 10 ..ceE to me- wod, b. proper tor me 10
him. speak to him when zee him' AGSts u
Speak to him when you see him. but you need
not ask his forgiveness. He shouldn't have
displcased you. and you had right to ignore
him. II you thought best. Do nothing. however.
10 tickle his vanity. Young fellows do not thrive
under that sort Of treatment They are apt To
be vain enough without help from girls.
sia am youth .iSte year; Of age. and have been
drrng which ln, Have found tai she diris m ohcf
follows AM W nl iurn have formed the acquaintance
OF "no hor ,o,'ts lady whom dnrn- my short aelaaIn
acquaintance JANts W
Do what YOU think best The love affairs Of
| boys Of sixteen are not Of much account. any
way. She will get over it.
sa Do yog ihnk there is any harm in second cousir:
1r,ny' whai !. the opinion OF the med al world
| Not necessarily provided they are strong and
| healthy. and have no hereditary tendencies to
| disease in common. Physicians differ on this
! subject rs on some others.
sW Noni Is months az hsi q serious quar- with
-"n" umt alter made Written arocy. hui r'c'i,,i M
rp' Ia ny nHr Ia IA Early summer.ht pn-~d my
10 fon a., %i, '"nn. lNn ,nd 'ia.s hcn Ma, rc-u
No. s' ,a, , Wen. f",. g'ir iir ,.in, lqut' -
@s.k .iour fhr .si Tine : saw her ms. couple O..
s, , ~ l" H. u' ne, l,a w. Iri"eIn w.
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