, 1877-11-24

~. married. r.: c,rs r. h.nr. @ ,,,;l e~n.
7s ms% rasn T" :'.iss sss,f' Ia r!s Viii S's; .su.
Thy laRlr Will hraren'a own tuttro bright.
slDSltDE, Wts.. Suf. .u.-,rhe Icttsrs on the
wife ind molhcr, which llase been No well dsA-
cllssed In unr tiosnu columns. have becn read bY
me with the deepest Interest, insonuch M thrhs
subjects have hccn my lifaong study. constitute
ing m t1,cy do ths thivf eIuucnt VI home; for
wItl1nt the duties wifo and u1thcr arc we'll pcr.
formed. uues tho dwelling. .housp uhd tta ,ncupants
etllstttuic a ''lnuIe"s w ilaye utany, many
happy IIuIcs In klts uur behaved A.ucrIcn thanks
b. tn t'pd Il, hut aaa: VII hayd far tao many unhappy
UIxs; which, viewing tho opposite class, we are
1rL tu ask s,hyY llasin1 earnestly thonsht upon
1p,t ka,nfnal this xnbicet fur many ycass, be.
l,cso an safe In asserting that three -fourths, A.
1eusl. 1t our unhappy marriages., nn1 subsequent
d,s,eputshIe hnnseholds, ariso from the '.ma.ry.
i,.s ~ ha~lu" ana too curly. Our g!Els might far
lrlter lus*h ltrs household educatlon under tho
.up~rtntcnIling Of tho dear hoase mother. boz
fors undertaking tu govern John'a dOmtctc: and
fnhn hI.iat!f tnnicEa horn with tho collaca spoon
IN hia nIDut.l, wontd act tho Wiser part II Arat
l,net tbs t,rst provIloa for his darling mate. In.
scsl of this, ars not oar git4 taught from earliest
chiidhbnA sn consider the securing Of q husband
Tho ''ch,ss end Ut man" tcspee!al1y tho wealthy
ones, VI tlods with great e1pcclatlons}1 TO
this end aru they not reared and cau.
rated, dressed, aAicgdcd trailtedi They ntust
uul pako nor brew, lest heak lnHams their
ar!,cstc skin; nnr must the wind Of iIcayrn touch
thetn, lest It renrt'an their c"mpIs1!on; sweer!u:
and .t.islfhg might make lhrtf A0ft Dlands other
tH4n suil; wt.,le my outsIsns work, even a1noug
lis nnwrf' 'r4!s. wontd brown and dlsdgurc them.
Tn ,n.uro thar hel1tg militant and enchanting In
lhr rsea.n:, tbey must sleep th!,!as lufIa i'ar.
ta " Ils aay. aMs te*a ! tnnua " ,"nE!nea thst
anI lind tnast 10 rhco'n!asstd In order to Maks
EltM appearance.
tn The degrees lIlat rnias their sstrfa, they t,3
ottrn haze shs seeds nf ruin sown tn ihrir tn.nls
%.ss ~ ~ shs oetfns
that make nonry IN she ono ob!rct In 1fe Ut par.
AtAA!Ht imlE'sFis'ct. whit tnuthff sui tho RtI|a
tressss shc u ''eutan.on" twhcl. means Ioorl.
Ahu lhat bte4aac she dots l,ut ''nuye In Our
belt up - .hs ""ly oas. W,flhy u .lscn.ton. i'm "
hAse k"aHn thls etiuGat!nn lu commence IN famt-
s,vs ttau The early seh"u'.days VI the children
| liIetsuf, nah We ASK, takt tn, Al n whole. do NIL
suth families tohsttut1 large prOpNtt ion Of our
pr"r!s, And ina7 We hua a.lF1''ats lhs unhappy
his. lhe nurcTua utyufecs, u tbi4 fact, that w
do ut a,lng W oat ehi!a'*" wah proper views Of
llh! iha. parents EACH une IN ths nd-eoutd bo
brought IL itel thH inulensc responsibility resting
pp.,a ltsm ~ seepcta II 't,.tot.al souls That VI
could u. ~ tF"uEh! t" realize tist tins life IL moi
t1sfaIty. and 10 1--we In that gsatl day Wv shall
pis.sut out.el'rs aud .h"ss dear children .iu4 has
Thos hast gwen ns," 10 a''oa " all live lhus
tusIs will Lc hs,,ty homes. atrpts ua4l feel the
es.ss tit .sy - sS. iaiai iSs datss u fs sG ao'
y. liat tu lhs inatbes l.eonys The blessed pEisi-
lexe Of Yud'nx and guarding ear.s p.ee.uus soul1
| tuf MIlGA uuT SxSluf bicu uh4 died. Aud II this 4
task lur our uaurhlrts tu s4suHc EeekleEsly! Are
We. lhe n.uItsefs Vt Ibis generation. suTclIes fo
tl.esc uur children, auu II VIZ dv not teach ttri[
huw 10 h,s t&u ws L!an,r thxm for golpx wtong.
and trat hnE their udspfinV falsely' AnoiheI
gfs4t d4u.cf In thus day 4n tu onF cuuutEy 10 as!t
great uahxrs Ut !ss,lt In tbs marriage eonErast,
0wtA9 " Lie fatal facility With WHICH dttotcea u!s,
lx"bsa~u '.l4o.e tstt.ttc palsnt. " wteleas@ W.
unhappy u,atIAsss. lsut sas p.slnc law VI ~
| S1YIuf jtkhH {,UfiAl JNt0 kluCftuO tbt& UUttA
aid easy mode Of rcifaeius the tlet. taken on III.
matrimonial toad anl E''es NJ sanction for fuet
saeapr fsunI The sacred responsibilities AsAuuuA u
liza, huur. wnea 'Iut bctlet, Tor wus.e until dealt
" 4o pasl." the :elea.n prou'..s W.. given.
taena .o'h wisrs uHd husl'auds; but ahovs I'll N
sts'! iAto theu thai sse.y ons tnkilx IN he'
imn"siaut dulicx Ut VIE Ot husband shoult
u'a'idss the acl forever irse.ovable.
LSautfLt yoeul called tFar Wife" IAN appsa
aid Ftpt.t.,rt. W Mrs Z: j. EraEl. E,srs toucl,'
iE AMI teaEnEul I1uslsaiu'A Ut lii, sul .un uttJ.
Aht L,4J hot TIN .r.rtase The taLe u NY u"n dIe
Aax' EhtS tttl- HI III Hiii.y E!ii'arGs. nui ouil