The sun. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1833-1916, 1877-08-24

The lovers continue to come To us for adj
vice. and We shall not say them nav. Wlth-
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would he n droary, unpupulatcd waste
without love what would life Ice? 1t would
better not have been at ALL 50 black and
lonesome would bee its surroundings.
So thinking, We lend n willing ear to what
our correspondents, caught in the me-hes OF
love, have to say. The first writes to u-
from State and county which he asks Us to
keep profound secret; and We shall not
disappont his confidence. This l. his case,
and though he states it only by indiection,
We feel that We know it a. If he had not
sought that seclusion So dear to the lover:
"sis Althoush presume you are weaued OF lovers
Inquiries hope YOU wli rNe your wise ADVICE O. an.
other one who Is fortunate vr unfortunate enough 10 Do
ON, of that elias.
"fir.,-sulro.e young man fall. in love unawarc..
a. % vtr, can hr lttlk 10 up o. CON he ever t,tl
toward the uect OF h, love tic same As he dad before lac
iol iulo,ef
"s,,undi,-suppo-, a yonns man iru, and sincerely
loves. ,ay Ntar torc he uud, Go enter te rcau,
90 martnony viii that love la,-unw ofn and uniaded-
Mrou-h that uuof
"IudN-Wti u,ip love interfere with ones pros
re,' for instance -tudens' u .o what ;. 'onr ni
,iec e. ia, studyuu RirlsW."
We are not wcaricd with the inquiries Of
lovers, for If We can lend them any aid IL j.
duty done; and shall anybody complain
because his opportunities Of usefulness are
increasedt Rather let him regret that they
are so few. Fist. whether man falls in
love awares or una wares, he ought not 10
break it up without good reason. II it 50
chance, that lac does break it up, through
her fault or through his, from her failure to
return his love, or from his own doubt Of his
own heart, he may or may not aftcrward
feel toward the object Of his love ~ he did
in the time OF the early wooing. But he Is
very likely to do 50. on proper provocation,
ami to bee worse IN love than ever Ii he
wishes TO avoid "a recurrence Of the tender
passion, he will be- wise if he avoids the
sight and society ui the charming one.
Secondly, love may last through ten and
through twenty years instances Of that
sort OF thing are recorded but our advice
il not To 50 attonuato the bond. sun, some
times long engagements turn out we'll. II
you love this girl truly, don't forSake her
for another, whatever may be- the time YOU
have to wait bearing in mind Away that
if she does not stand the strain so we'll as
you, she does only what most other people
In her situation would do, provided they
had a chance Of exchanging Il doubt Tor u
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himself merely, but to make himself more
deserving OF the love of the fair one.
Another question propouhded to us con
Germs the operations OF the passion OF joal-
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49,
1t il thus stated.
"sm hav. h,en teoni,g cororo,v with n voprg
man Tor t.n month. n. is var, e,lous tn, otn,r
evening lad, rlei fntne and tnv.rll went for A w,A