Weekly Trinity journal., 1877-04-21
10 SOME HUSBANDS.

not bring Eve to Adam rs the last AID
highest gin to his son and heir. Youare
not {" measure her as YOU measure
steward or a cook, by he ability to make
ihng. g"to suit you. Dpuullr-s he is
yoW wife. There is an ownership of
love. Bat then you ought to be her hus-
band. Th" ownership i. ~ truly hers as
your. She j. not n mere satellite to re-
volve about you, shine with your light
and Elori,r yna by her silent praise. G,d
mad" mqn IA hi, own Image; ma'r and
trua crrul,d BE- thcm; -he a. much a.
y"u ia H.. Image; sho ~ much us y,u
tor her own -skr aud for his.
s. -hr j. not 70 BE- mere dependence
on you. The good old tim when a
vie wa- 10 be mere pch, and family
repent hel husbands latest opiui1ns,
have gone. Il that /. your opinion ofa
wife. you ought to have lived IN Cnr.
iulh ia The Hr-t century, or you ought
To 1--we IN IndH row. And even in H.
dia you wouid have to keep out Of the
/ way of t'.uhl-some Mis- Biiiain. Your
/ vie is entitled t, her own individuality,
her own opinion,. They ought To- h,h
srm"'ime- with yours; and vou both
ought t. know how 10 strike fire in con
yer>atlnn and hnv" no explosion. Be-
why he should not be- Republican
/ brc,,u-c vuu afc Cnug'epqiinunli-t j,
no ien>on why 81" should not be- an
/ Epi,copn Shame on the notion
/ that vile j. only cipher to stand on
/ the rieht idr of her husband. 50 us to
make. n anil into ten A dumb wife i
! "a disgrace to her husband An iude-
pendent vie i his glory. If he never
d iir1s from you it is because she is u
-etf and YOU are drspot.
She ought to he your best advisor
Sh" ought to be your most confidential
coun.cior. The self conrcit Of men
Amounl- ton genius. There are many
thu-buud- that would as soon think ~ trk-
ing ndviceol their wives as of their chi
reu. Bat it is only th" fool who j. too
| wise 20 seek counsel. Was Mr. Sewn d
less ihHu ~tnle>mnn hccau-e his wifi was
his prime minister? ? Women do rot
I luow anything about cuisines. uiHir> Z?
lfom the number OF bG-in"-~ taiures,
commercial disasters and di.Lnupiub,r
doia'cu'ione, we should imagine that wn-
mru might rotort mat nor know ve.y
/ l,ti'e about business. A wonrn's intui-
/ tom is often wiser than a mpn'- judg-
mrnt She seesj herca-on<. w. con d
point out severn chulchce whose pros
prct- would br maternity hiiehtonrd if
the men wbll all resign nnl elect
women in The Bonid Of Trustees. Your
wife j. your pnItucr. You have earned
The money but She hns saved and sue
ri',ccd ard pinchrd and worried and
worked tp h"ip accumulate it, She has
/ d M her fair share towad making
Your property WIN, it j.. She has u
right lo be consulted how it shall be-
u-.d y douhIr right hos ,he 10 ho,e
E"' Judgments Nciphcd ara measured
4 n nll questions rc'n'iir 10 the al
pr.i'inu Of the fnniy, nd the training
u"d culiu0e o. thc chil EN-.
Pc hnp~ you have newer guessed it.
/ but ,oul vitr l- social and ist.lhc'-
to'l bni"e. Il -he is not III, yol fault.
She Was 50 when you married her. If
you have hocn growing away from her,
u d he has lrrn standing still, the
mptr shame to you. 70 bay her dresses
AID hodnet> ard give house and II
good table does not eqojp her. She
wants iutrrectlHl food ard ,;mulu. +;
and you nrc the one to provide it.
/ " hle you ale among mru d .cu-sing
business, politics, religion or what not
She j. with the hyu,,mnld discussing
c.ockrrN, or with the cool> discussing
b steak, or win the chi'durn playing
the lnrt ct uor~enaid. VI hen yuu
como home nt uighi Tired, do yau not
.,uppn-r ~h" is tired too Bling ,omo-
thirg with you that your mnrl,rt ha.-
let cnunol obtain. Bring thc uew- OF
the day; bring the latest, freshest
ihous.t In boNing your evening pa
/ pen, %. sub,c ibipg to your monthly
mngnzin", OF renewing your rrHainu,
/ wrcl, y, ret whit suits her needs and
meets her tastes. There is more in thnt
patient quiet, silent wife OF yours than
/ you think Tor. You have frozen herup
/ by your contempt for ", manhood for
/ t"nting your vile rs "a toy, to hcplea--
I ed only with dresses, aud 10 be ted on
/ " ON gossip, is the wort kind Of con
tempt Il she does not feel it 50, it i,
only brcau-r -he has dcgcnclatrd that
sac may fiji The place you have prcpa,-
ed .or her.
Ab,ve All, bring her love. Now
! life l. in many thing IN your store
S"af customers your clients; yourpo-
/ itc.. Her lie i, in her hnu-chnd. Her
home j, her rcn m her children nlp her
subjects ; her husband is her king hes
ambition l. satisfied with their love and
/ their prai-r. You are cruel if YOU deny
! it to her. Grumble over the muddy
coffee mud the burnt steak if You like;
4 she cHu hear that il you will only com
mrud the coffee when it is cloar aud
/ the steak when il il juicy Her hu.-
baud praiseth her," says solomon in hi-
description Of the excellent woman /;
4 doubtful il she would have been 81 ex-
coIent il he had not praised her Praise
is comely A little praise judiriously
used is sunshine in durlened home
aud oil on complaining machinery. How
often have you come home, and She