The Kenosha telegraph. [volume] (Kenosha, Wis.) 1860-1888, 1876-03-16
MATRIMONIAL.

MATRIMONIAL.
| Connubial happiness, should be con-
sidered one Of the most important
events of the human life f; For when
two, are made one in marriage, there
is a strong tie between them, and /
dare say, it would be hard task
for anyone, to sit down and tell ex-
actly why, they got married. This
goes to show that it is natural con-
sequence, just the same as young
birds Gas soon as they are fethered
out) fly out of the nest, without
knowing why. And | never saw
young bird fly out of the nest the
first time, that stopped to see where
it was going to light, and it is by
chance that they find comfortabl bic
resting place. Now if yon will give
your attention / will endeavor to
portray the results of few mistakes
in marria age, which have heard of
in my travels. Some marry girls
that brag of the number Of beaux
they have had. This is like buying
wild wood lot heavily mortgaged,
and working all your days to clear
the land, and pay up the mortgage.
Some marry for beauty of hair, of
eyes or form and do not discover
their mistake until it is too late.
Some marry an old man for his
money, and fail to get it. Some
marry for big name, but finally
find out that big name is no better
than skim milk. Some marry be-
cause they have been left alone in
the world this kind of a match may
be durable, if they take pride in
making each other happy. Some
marry for love, and not a cent in
their pocket, nor a friend in the
world. This looks desperate, but
where they pull together they always
succeed and live happy. Some
marry because they think they will
never have s1ch good chance
again, and live to be sorry for being
in such hurry. Some marry to
get rid Of themselves and discover
that the game was one that two
could play at and neither win.
Some marry to be happy, and miss
it, and wonder where all their hap
piness has gone. Some marry they
cannot tell why, and live they cannot
tell how. Almost everybody gets
married, / suppose because it is the
fashion. / do not know how, or
when the fashion started, but it is a
good one anyhow. Some think it
over carefully first and then go and
get married. This is a good way
if you bit the mark. But marrying
| is the worlds great lottery, in which
all people should be very careful
to get the lucky ticket. It might
be the means of making them happy
for life, or, v5cs verso, but ! notice
that everybody dont't win. Girls
are the children of circumstances.
No man can tell exactly what they
will amount to, nor whether she will
be just what he took her for. Some
never marry, and it is the same with
men. The man who stands on the
bank shivering, is more apt to catch
cold, than he who pitches in head
first into the river. Marry young,
and get used to each others ways,
and learn to love each other. Not
court and quarrel, and make up,
and then try the same game with
some one else for every time your
confidence is betrayed, you have less
confidence in the next and lack of
confidence, has caused more trouble
than any thing else. If you lack
confidence in any one your mind is
not at rest, you surmlse all sorts off
dark images coming up before you,
when in fact you have not the
slightest reason to, is is only the
lack Of confidence. Some marry
for true love, and to prove themselves
worthy of each other. They are
both right. and if they amt a sue
sess, then marrying is fraud.
HOPEFUL.