The Wheeling daily intelligencer. [volume] (Wheeling, W. Va.) 1865-1903, 1876-02-11

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Trust there must DC. Love WiInou,
trust is no love at al, ana Inete s9oulu
be stout resolution taEen against Ts, iFeIs,
iealousies, and e1actihgnessi Tue oid
Latin grammar provefo' mat the Ire oliov'
ers is the refrigeration oil love, Is dan
gerous one, Tor, II true once, eaGh success,
sive refrigeration VIII De shghteT ana
slighter. In TACT, most oil the STOCK say
ings about lovers are founded on the un'
certain, hayward, petulant creature thG'
the very woman" was before she was ed
ucated and seit'FeStrained' Inc saresses
and squabbles and reconciliations mere
meant are like those oil couple oil child.
rem always quarrellng, yet who can not
play apart, not those oil beings III earnest
Fretfnl complaint oil supposed neglect
nay, OF. real neglect-are not the way TO
keep affection.
One proverb is indeed eminently anu
exceptionally true, namely, that on love
blindness. Some time or other, either pc
fore or after marriage, part at least oil inc
dimness will be removed, ana the parties
will have to perceive that tney must
make the best OF one another, instead oil
finding absolute and adorinS perfection,
ready to have one will between them.
Now, real engagement, though not
ratified as betrothal, ought to be sort oil
marriage Of the spirits, the ginning TO
each OF the "ungel friend to share in ever
lasting rest" and therefore the entering
on it should not be lightly made, lar less
should II be lightly abandoned ihat II
y mol lrrevocaOle Is lhueeu wen, Sl'ce
there may be cases where the comprehen-
sion Of each other was imperfect, or
where some unhappy change has come
over one or other, and to persist would
be the greater evil; but even then there Is
broken pledge, and the one who Is dis
loyal has much to answer for. Once en-
gagged, n girl has need to take care that
her.spirits and love oil notice do not be-
tray her into LOOKS and words disioyal TO
her lover and unfair to other men. she
may be secure in her own heartfelt ale.
glance to him, but to toy with 1t is not
only unsafe but wrong.
Why do say these things? Everybody
knows them, everybody finds fault with
those who do them, and yet, when the trial
comes, girls do them, and laugh of the
censure, and thorw away will not say
their happiness, but-the true glory oil
fidelity.
One more thought. When man gives
woman his love in iull earnest, thence
forth her personal qualities are so much
positive or negative quality added 10 his
own. Ii the motto OF both alike bC
could not love thee. dear, 50 much.
Loved not honor more
the woman will be even here IN her own
way her lovers Beatrice, raising and
lighting him with her own spiritual ma.
ture and purifying the current OF earthly
love with the water OF life itself. Happy
are hearts linked together lin Christ"
with His honor and glory ruling over
their love for one another. They are
safe; whatever storms may blow over
them, theirs is emphaticalIy true love,
refining and ennobling each.
The strong man will make all
sacrifices to the right with frecr and
more gladstone spirit, ii she whom he
loves goes along with him, and cheers
him to the ciFOrt-yCa, even il it be one
which keeps them apart: but il she weepS
nynr what he thinks his duty, tries to