, 1876-08-28
conceivable amount Of l1npertiucnt staring with

1cct IL to learn whether tho staret-at is what
,soF5sspondsnt eaEls 1prsste.s o. re- 20
rules ot which American women nto ignorant;
anil cach. gcntlunnn and clown has lis own
rl!c; a slight start, = amilo At somo re-
s a1k qato e1Pssa9 viii Nr a '0as sssns s
may bc construed tntu encouragement. A. look
Of nervousness, fright, or timldtty, may 10
coHuctFy, or coyness, 10 po overcome by mascu-
ta, H. younp a sy so a .on sTe liz t
her face At home, mad could not, Is nervous
Invalid and n coward: She can facs no kind Of
danger, and gets NIL Of 4 trcmblc+ She Is 80
n me. R h'Es Tor I yaa aunos nsr CON-
troll her nerves to tic German standard
OF proprtsty, under close, crft!cal c1anll.
nntton When acrman gentleman gets
sis M COCA to Church 10 hear The oratorlo, places
Ills elbow on the back Of the pew In front, rests
Ills bead In Ills hand, and, with bis face not more,
perhaps, than 3 fect fruni hers, falls 10 contcm
tat 's faco Is igii 81 iaqntfy and suspicion, sGs
falls into tromble. Az German women have
no nerves, Of course her agitation and evident
effort At sclfcontrol arc Suspicious and, II she
were nlonc, do not know what the consequence
would boz but shc no more goes out alone than
s1!E WOULD 90 INTO DEN or LIONS.
We l!avo found no place 50 free from this
kind OF annoyance - the opera, where tho pco-
pie are all hooking At the stage. 4 womat, wto
sl,o ras young would be thoroughly German, and
escape the annoyance to which strangcrs are
sublectcl. More Americans must "dc-np y all
Europe irt siK months than can spend scys,,tecn
Tor tho benefit Of the s!x-montbers.
A woman who proposes to come, TO Europe
alene Ind better get her education before s;
III iii fses.s Seasit Of y her SIX nave montss
and 1 can think OF no way IN which
10 American woman could bc SO well.preparcd
for European travel Us by standing on q dry
and playing statue. Orshe might Utilize her time
by acting aa sign-fguro at . Ggarbhop. Let
no ono Of them come here until slo can sit, or
stand, and bo stared at by all sorts and sizes Of
men, with NIL sorta Of expressions, for an hour,
II need bc, Without moving muscle.
This father who proposes to send hfs daughter
hero should hire twenty or moro strange men to
sit IN rooms shc ts to enter, turn around to stare
mud making ron,arka about her, and smoking,
rs she crosscs the room; sit, and atare, and
smoke, whllc sho rculains; turn, like dress
dummies on pivot, to follow her motions with
and comment on her appearance, ~ men do on
that Of horse trottcd out for their In
spcctlon,-whlle she remains as seemingly un-
CONSCIOUS as II eho were madc, Of plaster.
When she has reached this state Of hig.i-b1ccd-
Ing, II may bo quite safe for her to travel or re-
Side a1ono In Europe; but until then
SHE HAD nKTr8R STAT At HOME.
It IL not plea4aiit for ono to make these
ne.r IIna bcfnrr trhnm 1iona crt,,,rh IN n,yc,
Enn n,n1nor ,sit ti,hr,,tn fnrcos - JIM
out and ignorance within; but owe 1t to the
thousand ot my countrJwomen, no Visor than !,
nyrh NJ AmcricnnS S Ssonits,jsts to nrovdo srhools At
iaInc +, With oF ynI'ua ~ ncnn1a can he adm
Gated.
Your correspondent says that the man salutes
tho woman Us LIS superior. So lot 1t be; but
he Ia mistaken In saving that gentleman does
not no = salute woman 70 whom he has uot bccn
intrvlucrl, Such u,iy bo the rule, but there
WHO VIII ' owns lie bloex il which We laye rooms
lives In IL. a1,d came to know IA bofaro we did
him, lie saluttd the Young ladies' on the
street, They did not know lliin, thought It IN
for an sxpauatio lie ua sinply % ssted % tbo
pnrt Of a kid neIshbor; and but for tllo warn
iuge they had had, they would have returned his
eaIutatfon at once. sluiplv noted tho Incident
by lilo general b,as character of tho men.
II We buy ANYTHING in q store or nt 4 stall.
tho ycnder recognizes and salutes us ever after.
/ II va take Jrosctky tho driver aIrays bows
when we see him again. There Is q droscehky-
| uS, Beside il Is 4 fruit-stand, aud once, when I
was buying fruit at It, driver crossed
| over 10 talk to me. Ha was kind
/ and crowded mo away, wien tho driver TOOK
| hold Of hin, and pushed him ulong, md re-
! moved him; then called I'M two Children, ard
presented tlom % Ills. That was the ouly In
| stance in which have seen d man here resent
| a rudcnuas to woman. Another plain work.
| trOduced Ills baby and his frau, because ho
| tlopght INC lonely and q stranger. They nrc
| kimi-hcartcd cn1 friendly, unusually honest
@ a,a Industrious loasn,s but ~ o, ,.,vz -, a,,,,.
TREATMENT or WOMEN.
! did not conc to hunt faults, aud shall be