, 1875-09-13
Additional Light Thrown upon tho
Great Problom.
4 Good Deal Said upon Both Sides Of
The Question.
arguments Of All Kinds, Goos Bad,
and Indifferent.
Sense and Nonsense 1ntermingled In
Entertaining Proportions.
Tom, Dick, and Harry in tho Lists, Dc-
aides q Whole Lot OF tho Girls.

Tom. Dick, and Hurry in tho Lists, Dc-
aides Whole Lot of tho Girls.
WHAT ONE OF THE "oLo BOYS" THINKS.
~ The Editor Of TIE chfraaa irtbunc'
CHICAGO. Sept. 10.--"To marry, or not to
msr7y; thats tile question: lave had much
pleasure and derived much information from
Tho numerous articles upon thc subject Of n.atri-
unony which have been published in your most
yaluAblo paper.
Will rou Rlvo apaco for The views Of q man OF
20? Yonr fair correspondents arc dotorminnl
. that all tho blanc OF 1njBnanngemont shall rost
npon tho young mel. Well, 1t Ia characteristic
OF q certain portion Of tho sos to abuse tho
lords OF crention,' and at tho samo tiulo. with
downcast Dyes md a sad resignation upon tAoir
brow, 10 cry cut their own grievances. {For In
stance, Eoor "ransy.'D
A great many avoid tho question at Issue,
"Upon What sam can yonng man vcntuscnpon
!. tho matrimonial scar" I am receiving 81 ,00D
per aunum no ono to support but inyaelf, and
yet do you think woulA daro TO tako to myso'f
. vito? Mol Ny 81. 900 would DO CONSUMED in
ak months unless wns peculiarly fortunate In
my choice OF : partner.
"WllIam" gives Aome very interesting hX-
urcs. 1io believes young man can manngo
nun for three years:
First year. y, FL
scsold ear.........-........,- -............ ~
Tulsl year NEUTRALITY-SUSPICIOUS.. 2,b90
ro,ai, $500
or m nycrago of S1,5i3 year. Tba looks
rather gloomy for sl'Vuo year to embark ln
My BUSINESS requires my presence night hnti
day. When any Eencroua-nnInded, opon-hearsed
real estato dealer will guarantee mo - nico
pleasant cottage for 91O month. tito cottage
to bo situated within twenty mI,'utes' walk Of
Madison street bridge, then am ready 10 think
Of matrimonY. When tan hnd q young lady to
take me as I atm, and whose sole desilc will not
makeup lesB stunning than that Of ''Les fash
ionaIle5 Of tho upper ten, then am Wiling to
cast my lot with hers.
/ do not sock wealth or beauty, hsvo a
constitution. ! ask no aid fsom woaithv papaa.
have cared for ouo 10 could care Tor two.
providing thst other ono could manage. whIlo l
mado II al1 the gontlcr sex had but t9o WIS.,
Daughters" men would not lhtuk 10 much OF
fostnno hunting a. they now do. lbslieve that
ayoupg lady possessed Of the accomp'. .slnients
Of "Une OF Chicagos raugbtcss" can. a. a
foad to I" tamo aud fot tuno." o1en II he has but
ss.scd ot Is, 1000 year,
Mi1d. 1hpcak Of mon, not nero adrentnroFs.
What Wontd des,ro iu wife would be sweet
naBa OF dtapoaition, cultivated mind+ md ability
% manager. No man with auch q VITO would
have cause to fear for tho future.
Ono nho egnB herself '.oia Maid" sasa.
DO not marry n man who drinks, for, though
prido may uphold him, sooner Or later be sinkH
/ think she il wrong. myself haye bepn At QUO
tttno iu my life addicted 10 drink; not TINT 1
asssous Il eeing cue ot tha :6nya." tiualiy saw
tho tolly of such lifc, aud I dcteEnloed
to abstain from oil apfrituouss liquors. Wilh mo
to determine Was to do and to.uay would not
bteAh my pledge to myself though 81 900 Nbre
offered me for doing 50. . ......
II theie waa more conpatibility OF disposition,
md less biting and biekerinE, betwocn husband
and w1fe, thero would bo moro happy homes.
Let 1t DO tho "ifos most PLEASANT duty to msko
homo, though it DO humble one, 30 pleasant
and cheerful that her husband may lind In It q
hayan OF rest from tho toll and turmoil Of the
day. Think you that Il posaessod such home
such wiie, that Kould still frequent tho
theatres, tho billiard saloots, OF other places 0,
amuaoncns7 No! thousand tunes no | It
should be nv aim, al It should be every mans,
70 ind no endowment hut with her to have nc
solve that a. .she had left everything for my
aake, that would leave nothing undoue which
ahou}d pttrnoto her happinoaa hhvc 500!
much Of ths world ; have elosoly observed = =
aclAsh.-hoth men aud womon. When We car
determine to bo moro easily satisfied with eact
other, and with Whist We have, then l think thai
snn yoans n'en aao Na". r,sr,;o f 9Th
Tha sisicn Of iii. q. G." ia to 10 commend
I'd. Il folio we'd BY tue uowly y-1narrfcd they will
think, tind TINT The pathway through !fn.t .tnsecat
.! being rough and hilsa a. WIN T. obstacles, WI "
"ta "sa ssa .rToa sora 80 Ic r. clnrnv ob
served will, In Eny opinion, ba coplucya to lB1,
ptuess they are: Industry. Economy. snd Con
tensmont AJAX.
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TIE kIhn OF olhLs THEY HAVE 81 Hfoe Fam
7oaas HatoF ~ 9ns cn'eoo' i''oa"
HYDE PAnx, ILL.,, bept- a-pertnte me TO add
faw words to tAs many that haya haau writte