, 1875-08-28

overheard gentleman remark DAY or Two aRor
"Tbank God. I've now little boy, aud won't 10
evcrywherc." Add thcy ars Glowing COUPLE
-ahe loves him now: ho lovcd her ouco, Aud
nnw-
No. my dear Mcphissophcfes. can aAy thcro
ara grin 100 HcnsibIc to uuIso themselves 10
man Ut tho present age, and have TOO
much respect for themselves to hare no
higher. nablor aim than that Of a married
woman. II may d ot he our 1niason hat It need
afraid when !. thinks Of ''orsnpo. bloraoms aud
LoneymoonH." Does 1t atop to think that one-
half Of tho amount nightly Bpont by tic 5oung men
would a!moht support, and eomttineH mora than
.1s s"n9 e yst ysass 1
onrselvcs to a man OF tho present DAY II no
wish for any happiness; and ~hT ? Decanse
thero arc mono that ate honeAt and true, either
married or single. defy bfcpEiatophecs or any |
one e'se 70 shox INC a rnhn that csn shaw pure |
recnEd Of u life such ~ they demand Of tB aud
yet. forsooth. ws must marry such ~ .oon AZ
porsible and bo tho other half" Of ono 70
from society forever. Yon tnaY claim thcro arc
Bono good men. II should evcs accidentally
meet E,,ch genus hono, won't wal. for lin to
"pop.' but will 1so my pfefogattvo Al woman,
and ask him to marry moi MARGUERITE.
VIEWS OF A COUNTRY BACHELOR.
70 The Ecsfor Of The chteada Tribune:
GnAxp DElorn, ILL.,. Aug. 25-Nosicing for
few days past several srtic4en from correspond
onts on ths marriage question, havo been
much Interested. and concluded to throw In 4
few views Of bachelor In the country, especially
on the question Why mora young men do not
marry.
Am young msn Of moderate mcans and fair
Income for the country. $500 10 $1,000 per
ycar,-but from what could observe that would
not do, sm afraid, TO venture On marriage with
I'm fa1f rf rnv MT has
have no great expectations either; but aro con-
etd5fed accomplished aud bright members OF 60
cety which means they eau dance we'll. play tho
piano, and make themselves agreeable. But as
I think something e1se sery necessary, / remain
single. know by experience | can eAyo every
year half my income aud live comfortably, aress
renpectabiy, 70 in society d much as want to.
aud otherwise take secsess'on.
Inm very fond of company. and especially
lively and intelligent young lxt!ies, and u min-
Cling moro or less with them. havo noticed one
thing In particular: Young ladies who have M
| rents ia easy circumstances. or At least vol
enough on to give their children fair education,
| and often many accomplishments, i'll ulne cabos
out OF ten II asked to go into tho kitchen aud get
up meal and putt OIL the 1ab!e in SHAPE would
Eavo to call III the nciGhborhood to tell them
how to do il.
What Ia thought Of a Young man who loafa
around doing uothing7 III tell you busiuess
men don't want them for hclp at nny price, for
the reason that thor don't know how to do any
thing. And that ia why young men who
hare their own way to MAKO in the world, and
know@he way to do It Is to Save Bomethng every
yoar {spd not put II ali on their back tor Home-
bodyB elso admiEation), don't marty girls who
don't know how to do anything ouly crimp their
| hair and play pretty.
The wonder is how 30 many get along that do
marry. ! snBpcct = goodIy humber OF huaoands
don't pay their honest debts. GO into any
thrifty town Of 2, 800 to 5000 inhabitants. aud
tho young LADIES' Of what Ia called "tho hest
society you will find associate with clerks,
young professional mon. and the sopa Of wu!I-
to-do citizens-which Is all tight. Still they
would be ashamed 10 be scon BY tleso same
young mon doing anything at homo.
| What iB wanted Ia = ciats OF young ladies who
have Intelligence. common sensa and are good
hnueekscpefB. Young ialcs often wonder what
thore WAS about Miss 4. to attract the attention
| Of Mr. H., aud suppose they will keep wonder :
ing until perhaps some day she may call on what
used 10 be Miss A. md diBcoger in tho looaa OF
tho house and If Aho be 10 fortunate III to stay
to toa she can see without bpoctscles. perhaps,
sonic things that caught tho attention Of Mr. u.
NnYt Hnrra tsat1s FrpS1MY.