, 1875-10-16

fclt wife; not but what am an
| we'll nif as tho majority uf my clssa,-tor AIN
| hire have QUO Ut tie GeAt wives in tGn cnnH-
Ay--ha: tlIlnS 1t Is very great tnlhtako for
my min I" "rn.sry unless he has goud and GER
tam nicotine. 1t IN au Injustice TO a WOMAN a.
| well w M 1Innocefsarv responsibility TO man: !
Know tl,st Il my vito vas eln2le. .nd rotkod y
hd better fcd. clothed. and far bctio' ps'a ttAn
HON. Eur these reasons you'd stfnuels al'ieb
all ynIIng tcnplc, mon or votne'l. W cn'ri ter
advice and ''don't." l Atoutd think that 4 nnn
with .toa1y incoms OF from *Gu to 30 mouth
eau well aurtl to marry, but Is 1t wise tn to nor
| t!,ihk not. airl think any Wotnan II foonh in
| marrying hnrh q 1nau: for in s,,ch case q
woman villa dor. hnr duty whfls fully u haI II
not hafder than tle man. Yours, otc..
| BehTRlCE'S FAREWELL.
IA The Edfor ~ iht thra1o Tribune.
CMtcAuo, Oct. lJ.-ln NY youth hare jumped
| of hlcda II tost high; ! hsye rlddon hoEaea
t baTeback. and tiled walking tleht-ropes but
after nearly putting an end to myhof gave up
lha laAt-mcntuncd amusement; later. do.
hcenlnd INTO The crascr ofNcsuyiua no far gave
up all hopa OF ever coming forth alive. aud made
up l1y mind 10 aIo like horoIno; In d fo1.cl.aae
III EnRlanl !capcd tiye-basred gate, or rather
my 'lorsc did, aad u necessity weut over viii,
hiu,, but confeA. all those were castor ACCOM-
rlisl'et than tho Whiting ot tho letter you pub,
lshed last Sunday. wanted 40 much TO
wrilc, yss hen,tatcd. And finally tent
OF my Ict.er III q hurry lest my
courage eLould fail Ut tho japk
moment. As you probably perceived, ny forte
ia not etter.writlng, yos alnco you gayo apace 10
| tAat will homo yod hayo 3 cotner for this. Let
me assuro Harry i. FREQ aud Cherry blossom
That all Klrs arc hot like those tler cite. There
arc other and bot.er girls who are not all made
up. I, for one, never paintcd Or powdered ex-
cept once Wien powdered to rec how it was
myself; ! have never worn tight dresses OF
Bhoes. my hair, though IT is that color common.
~ designated tow, II st,l feet Z incles long,
and quito thick, 30 docs away With tho necessity
Of my uHtng false hair my figure. what there iR
Of IT. 1clug hllt ) feet ! in my higheAt@hceled
Shoes, is all my OWL. aud, as to blacking
nY eyebrows or Iahhes. Eatute hae coIoroa
them 80 deeply no amount Of blackinK could
| make thonl anY darker. ! am |. from hcad 10
foot, and know personally duzen of Tho moat
faah1ouable aud htylish young indics who could
sav the bauIo thoY aro not Of this city. though.
for only know two yuung ladies hero; but l
doubt not Enauy could 10 found hero just as
natural nj those arcak about.
1t IL 10 be dc;tiorcd that Harry q. Free and
Cherry lnoseor' have seen or known no better
class of girls than tnoso theY describe. III los
ihE lilo society OF intelligent indies they haye
lost that which nothing can make up to thcui,
Thby lnyo lom' estimate OF women. and instead
Of regarding them al companions they look
down upon tne1n a. hclng only tit to aress md
dalice. hopo thoy may tind good. ttle wires wliu
wlI teach them tho right value Of woulautiood.
mud may they live to tell tlIe.r grandchildren nf
the great dluc"BHlon On marriage 'iat created
such sir When ;" was youug man"
Most wise SIX, whom you hoticl tho question
60 entirely to your satisfaction. did not yo. COLI
st,lcr what lHrEo number Of girls you condemn-
cd to 'catH and ErcRn tea' According to your
/ ro AHf1 III
as our la!llc,auo: lspe1k entirely OF t4e wealthy
eHls ; know not enough ot others 10 Bpoak Of
thc,n. Perhaps you could support thonl as vel!
az their fathers d.. supposo vas to marry .
aud MY. father gsro mo dowfy Of
one hundred shonsau:; With q prudent
management We could live In comfort but il
1--we as have always: buling whateyer mar ds.
wLo,oyer "tah, lluw long woult my towry laat
Probably thlee years Wo have to give up much
whcu We marry. unlo>s wo do marry ricl. mon.
and wo ali cart do that and tho "LonelY Blk"
think we wout1 rather loso tic completion OF
our lives and remain single tLan to give un the
iuxutieB wo now liase. What II wa do have
troubles mud are poor. will not the sofrows VIC
layo develop aud eniarse our uasn1os?. Jean
1'au saya, "Sulov and bs strong" and
when prosperity docs come, witt We not
enjoy it moro for our experience Of .poy-
cry, and then ioye. that wonderful thing
vii! po with lii. enabling u. to bear anything.
eo be it We can bear II tosalher Give 1,s loye
and We arc content to tako you ''fur poorer
tnr riehcr." Walt I'll! the Xix fall in love, aul
they will not Etnp to think "hcthr they cau sivs
tho sri they lvt nll tliu luAnrIcs sIu has had III
Asr fnshes'a ha"se, hn. they viii bs only TOO
eager to ask her IL en'ue nlht eharo III cir bolne
though II ba Lit three Ioullis.
how !es me- ssays t=w ~"rds with tho Young
ladies' that have takcn part in tllts discussion.
Whan you apcaE ~ YOU do Ut tha yunag men,
accusing ,hom Of all u!ahner Of extrayagapcc
nn4 branding theua all ~ bru'ncss tops, aud
~EaAing you could ,asoot hanse aellalhlo mcu
you siye tho idoa that you know no
otl,or klnd. !, Il stranger in ihis city, raading
ynas lattcra, have conlo to the cpnclueioa tnat II
there are, aB the.e must bo, intelligent young
men in the city, the, to not 30 III society that
you do. Why they do uot 80 lpto souiasy UNI.
ut Il loss 10 understand. In New York labt winter,
ut the Charity Ball sat III us box reverb! hourB
talksng wi.h different young men. With one l
Europe; anos.scs gave me 81 !eassh h,s ssews
OIL ths political hspeo.s Of ths day another do
acripoa in glowing language scoue ho Ind VII.
uessed In tho Polar regious. Again, At 4 te-
cePt'on III WASHINGTON | was entertaned
ma NAV vl,o.e ready sammsaa 'fe of lssssusse
greatly admired. 1hese wore good dancere
and all nlnn Of society, set were not bia.nieas
forB Aaye negar heen anywhere That did
not meet intelligent, earnest .ounE mcn, and !
thtua IL must partly ho tue fault Of tDc.e young
ladies' that shey DO not l'a'e besteE companions
amonG tue gentlemen.
| AAaVa %Ettea u 'o''S .estes' hns' as u ta NJ?
last had to Hay all had to NAY I'll il. mntt
bit-1 wKs gotn,; to eay "fatawel." hnt viii .4ot,
remembering what llyEon saws Of it, "For IN
That word. that fa.a. Word, howoer VIC hope. be-
llcyc. aud trust. t1ero breathes dospaIr.'-so
will Hinpty say good -hy Ia all waase letters
have read With 80 nluch pleasure. shall ofteu
think Of you whsu I ut among tho
, 1iawora pna vines of California. Noxi Year,
among the many new married couples that will
! taka Ph,Iadelphia III their bridal tonr. shall
fAncy thera arc naany Of the youths aud snat.lana
who haye tlac,,Lsai sha marriage question 10
earnestly now. Who knows but may como
gc1oss Inc ssl.nneiY Biz " wandering Arountt,
each with d aweet little wife on hls arn.. Would
not i1hh to know thtmI How ! wDu'h con.
gratnato them! Tho best wish can Ioave Yoll
i'll with IL, that you may Try happily the oxper1-
meNt Vt marriage, aud live to have your shll1ren
riEe up anu call you h!esstta. DEATu1cE.
THE OBSTACLE TO MARRIAGE.
| Yh.ths Hd,fur of The Ch1euoo Ir,b,fn1.