, 1875-09-13

alton. and mr. extcr1rmc having tanGht mn
ecunofn1 Ard tcatilnrts ] put MI tn7 rrnrEira
to tho HllecI. Alter eighteen in0nttE seEnratiUll,
when no wtrn planning f"r 4 re':onci!iatsrn. my
wfo tool: rir!s au'l dle
And nnw nv eul e1tc,icrco eo,np:i. Mo 10
acknowledge that IL wb'.tl ha.n brtn tie bn
polIcy to bare WAlte,f ftw 1cars, nheu would
ilayn had n gootl salary an! pleasant home 10
shara wlsb vito. Do IIot co'l.lder younS mon
under 70 ,cara nf ago capable Of ju'lr!ng furry
for thomseycs In rcEaid to quo wbo ii % yrn,e
ila htttHf Ur Wnfeer hall,
This ix mt an exceptional case, but il laore
the FliIe With tega,d to tho noIal It toachaA p.,
And ] n,nst sincerely udyiso nny young INN nr
woman before lespinE intn tho Traces II l;t,k
At least tNtcB hefoTe they iltnp for. ~ TIM Old
aid truthful alagn rnn,arhr. !" Whc,e Enorance
is bl'sa, TIT fully to be "ise." fonrs. etr:.
CHAHt.ga Ijl4Ain.
MoTHfHs ADVICE.
7a TIE EHtST n Tie tr1rnao 1,.tnn-:
EiIcAao. Hspt, ID.-Witl others Ut your road-
ers hase Eead l1lu iettesr on tht marriage lnea-
ton with interest. not tlas tcr Aro particularly
BcnaIblo or tIave yct cut tho "lpr'ian knot !" in
fact think tho inyaclI'n against girls IL mean
n1ld unjust. tn,aEltn thai girls. like the rest OF
human nAltlie. ara vHf" uIlcll wnt they havo
been hl''ce "Atlsm dalrel xt,d Eve njmn:" but
mort II The 3cstetH seem written rory much ln
tha h1'iflt ii tho old wotusn Who exclaimed.
"WeIl it takes oil L,lds Of folk to mako ,Sotld,
ailt ain E1ad amt one nf EN-"
have studied tho young people OF today with
all a mot htr's interest aud hlIx1rty. aud they
Heen sory much OIL o par. Ihelc arc nl,nut ali
t,,,lal proportion u tn weak. nni tho vain, tho
lilo aid Lie txtsaraSant in both sc,es.
Ar for the young tnen being airst1t1 m1rrv.
for INV part nee them eager tnaugfl to mary
Ill nothing II uhly thor tini g,r| whose Ia|.a
has ,nu,,ey! That they themselves haze
none, or;. ~or'o vt; L,,,o no .,nY., way o.
II ihe Giri's '.paternsl" Inns only hceu sul,i-
cicslt;y ,ndustrionB an'l ccoi,omica'. AMI In
3nntoh m reh." tte voNng mar III quite viii.
| lux to mako the hacrti'ce pEorose. Oh yer, and
| ,uarry! Aud then tbe astonishment atu ind,x.
natis,n il tho rich rnpa in not delighted with his
offcr It IL rHai1y tarc,cal. the an,uut Of griei
a.,d Indignation tLese bravo asplrlttu arc caEa.
bio 81 when thoIs offer is des1ued.. Tlloy may
10 lazy and worthless, without lur,,,esn oi
ability, sud usYer B4ow tllnr are ca
eso'' ss'' earn iis.ns for "l1 is~sreses' i"s'
to sxv no!lsinS Of vifo: yet with what nsaur
Rnco they pay court to tho daughter. engage hnr
at1ccIioiss II thcy can, aud thcn cooly uoman.
her IN innrs'asc, though they generally get hcl
to pis'1Ke herself. and III vulgar parlanee, " the.
tho old mnn may ltlp himself Az the lioras
1nen ray, they have mo ,ocord - but, forsonth
tlloy expect a mai will stAke Ills daughters hap
pinoss, moro precioua than money. without
| t;lsseutiny wuttl.
1t in tiino, think, tt,in flood OF worda Aowes
IN another channel. Gifla. bag Of you don
hold yourea1eeR too cEeAp Demand TINT YOU
Hultor to ma,l in all its fuil aud noble import
puIo i'll m,ias, bravo and courageous q 1tayar
III tits battle Of the world, knight "ralB pcu
ct tans rrproche "-realy to take hts place In Il,
| ranks OF ttcauy workers. aud win hls t,osit,u
and yonr esteem aud strive Jocrsclt to bo n uc
bla oman, fit for his wife. 4 MOTHER