, 1875-09-04

Tinv verT ncnrlY all say thpy WOn1d marry >rO-
yi'S thoy could i so,oo yo"s aav losdol
They say II any Of ttIon1 should tappon to
meet with young lady Of refinement, ETC..
lio would marry her only III caao her
paronts would DO willing to glyo isr
Or him an amount Of lnonpy Which would enable
Him to establish himself In hlsncHs 10 them
and Nil A,tch wo would nay, they don't deserve
vifo 1t IL snoloy thuy want to masry, nut
band oven II Tiny llnI millions OF 1nunay. and |
pity thu lady WHO nay bs 80 unfortunate as to
got ono of tins kind. .
As lar an the blame for not marrying Is con-
certici. think 1t rcstH nj mitch uunn ono sex an
lie ntl!cr. They aro nath to blame-ttlo young
nlnn for allowing thon,Bevos 10 get into tho hub
i Of apond!ng their money II. salaons. for TO-
bacce l,lsv'nK billiards. and other hahite which
they call pleasures. but Which fnokH to me llko
downright NONSENSE. Thon thcre Ia Anottnr
class who ray they aro not ablo TO support n
wlfe-one way OF SAYING am too lazy to wnrk.
ut, II could get plenty OF inonov without l,av-
lug to work for 1t, | would Rot nlarraol. There
ara also several classes among Tho genslor sox
who arc At fault. So,no arc Too extruynghnt
Fotnt too proud; great many eau place their
affections only oil wealth. fine dress md onjoy-
mcnt. ignorant Ut everything tho duties Of l1fo
require.
i min nov milking 5000 yoar. expect my SAL
Ary TO ho Increased NJ grow In experience; am
vet young. but when the timo comes for mo to
marry. 1ntct,d to hunt y3ling 1AtlT with good
common Henso, one that I can loyo and at tho
Barno titne fuel tint my loso IL reoiprocatod 1t
matters not whether she 6o worth thousands or
haa hut one calico dress,-if Rhe haa . pretty
face. good heart, ana good conin1on solAe. Rhe
,h tho girl for mo. Will. ". WILSON.
ST. LOUIS HEARD FROM.
TO The Editor n Tie chiccgo Tribune:
ST. LoC!a. No., Sept. Ito be or not to
be-" whether II is better that two young hearts
shu,,ld beat one or that cach Should 't.lump"
at, o11tt tt, .3s..u th.t
The discussion waxes warm. and. wht1o many
apparently Are in for "j.non'" on, about tito
snrEo number prefer to romain "bac" and
"maid"; but tho rensona for tl.o thster acting AZ
they sso, know from bittor experience, Ia not in
accordance With thoir thoughts. II is very Ap-
parent. tho question of "apec,o" or rag" has
tho ofYoct Of nhrring Tho pleasure Of tho major
itv Of thcso bachcs. .ho would only live single.
Those who. In tho generality OF casss published,
don't wlRh TO marry, aro tho very peraons who
Ivy around using tho vulgar expression, for
"soft anapa''; that IL 10 say, for mate who Is
IMPLY capable Of sustaining two. Any young
follow knows 1t ia folly 10 talk OF marrying on a
$40 salary, while tho girl Who cali find none
but Aucl hs draw thnt amount monthly will
awuis TIL tho boy comes along with
aud fine clothes, very radical change will soun
be pcreeptlble Ill tho young Alsa WHO but q
brief time s.uce would not marry. S1y young
frienjs, 10 not "sal uudor ta!se colorB" do not
play tho hypocrite or pnrsopatc "t1e wolf in
s,eep's clothing" for it IL FAR better you won!u
acknowledge the ruth. and ind MI idol for your
heart, tan be the latae, aud Greats 6ad impress
Alon upon be WHIT wonld ba your idol by your
actionB previous 10 hls com.ng. which he will
certainly loarn. The lad or lass who il c!lanRo-
able as the weather car ha.dly be relied npoa.
Ny sentiments arc these Marry young, II
possible, and hy all means marry. Do not plno
and worrr because you cannot find tho ono you
would have but koep up your young spirit, re-
tAin your youthful looks, and your day Will come.
Fer my part, Iii pursue thB conrse. When I
marry, I'll "lave d house Wherein to tsrtv."
To ba Aura. many young girla aud men. in mabr
cases, marry bolow their ata:ion, marry wretched,
live IN trouble all their days. and finally dio
broken-heartod. This na!ady czn DO lalfi ns the
door Of tho parents. Young girls must have the
"pull-baok. ;" jemo,ry, attend danctng.achool md
parties. al! because pazents arc ignorant and
fanH nf rain H4,nw. PpfvATE DR..