, 1875-09-25

"tsot!ui ilhhua Win work. brt 10 tifcRH tip in
pllks and laces purchased by tho tha,tlc~. toi! Of
their hutbands or fathers, and i1oll reccptions
m tue ia1loE, whofe lena Fortunate women a!e
picked to p|cces atid thrown. shred by shrc,I, out
upon tho ceaecfeaA ciirfent OF sptc.
II eoclesy would nnly nquat,xe tt.cif. the world
would be tho better for it. MIKE it IL wotns1l'n
duty to oarn at lcnat her pin-snotcy and sllc
would not find quito 80 tuueh time to hatch up
and deal out scandal.
When hud woman who, instead Of catch
ing up What In thrown ont about her s;aer
woman aud sprdndnK 1t, trieA to etup the ncAudat
Is y nhlr1s and epins ntoun amid ttto ed'tiea of
public opinion cherish that WOMAN Ms rare
Fpccimeu Of humanity, hhrd 10 Gnd ln this stage
Of civilization.
1hanHs to tho sufo progress OF right. new
Ayonnes aro continually opening for womeu, in
which they can take md hold honorable poei-
tious berlda their brotherB. without LeluE held
TIP to 1rl!cu!o by thoso who arc not compelled
to Hora.
It il IL noblo thing to he nblo to work and casn
what one wcarH. A glorious feeling to think
Mat Tue fruit IT au's toll IL not spent IN dotn-
tnntt Ri'pear. Necessarily. grand, Rclf-rolians
!tcil'lg c9lnt over a ~o,nau when e!!e anls she
haa the a4Ityto rtani by tie ado Of llor brother
man, af''. Instead Of being 4 burden to him,
1cEofne u helP1neet indeed.
1tltre ure few, a, yet, who have grown beyond
eocefy = restriction. Fn far that they dhro como
CUT ana be te|f-au4taltIiug. Or who sec tho NO.
cetsIty Of cxe1tsoG TN their part
=
mnn jnst starting in hn.inca4. They began
housekeeping. bot tho only Article Of value thug
lad hcelI able t. purctlaro ret: in tho way OF
household goods, wan Saving nmllinc. which
sfio had coa3ed him n get fnr her, rati to t1nr
one day. How nice i. wiIl be. You haru nutA-
Ing to do bns 20 night sAesd and tako in Heniug
euonEh to clStha yourself and help your hus-
tand start in tho world"
lie: No, no. nv dear woman" waa tho an-
eHer. "No. rent do ever try to earn on It.
Mother es5s I! yol ouco let man know you c1n
% ai'ythln.. yoa may keel, Il. il. NV Ausbr.nd
shall never know can ta1n hnythlng, Eot
lin u support m0. and nos ist him do it,
"Whas will rou do, then. fur Rtn,l4eulc,,.:"
"oh. rnn to tho ncighbors, and 1eaI noEes,
"Yes." I wanted to add. ''aud keep tho
! neieaborhood etcrnalIs by thc eafa by retailing
scandal, ike many other aimIcaa creat.,ress
Another Indy ea,d to mo, 1t is low ar.h dc-
| grading for woman 10 work and earn money
| eApocia!ls after marriage. sial never do IT,
| Poor thing nhc neyer did, as tho world terms
| it; yet around her 1eeide is gathering ,ro"d
| Of little oues, and suffering. anxiety, End to,l
azo her portion II ,s thanklees work size is do
| ing, and thousands Of poor. thoughtltI,H crea-
| tutes who Mn1ry 10 get SUPPORTED wear their
| lives out in tho aame thabktess toll.
1t seens As il eome girIh think only OF getting
married aud owning T. nome whe1a 1natnn..
canuot rule. l. would be so nico to be tho lady
oE tho l.oilHe, md havc nothing to do but enter
tai1. company and attend tho theatre anu 60 to
parttos
few months Of such happiness, nj tho long
est. md thon comes the anguish OF tnatornity
Entertaining company, attending tlleatrca aud
parties. must be gvou u1, and tho poor soul ia
launched into = life Of continued hnxiety and
pain. Do girls e1er look back and 1oag for tho
olGen time, when 1t seemed 30 Lnrd to obey tile
dictates OF 1uatnma when she st troyo to insti
into their minds little useful and practical
All thousands Of tin,es Thoughts OF the
free. !lght.hearted life como up Like apectres
from the shadowy raHt. Had th,y ony bern
self-sustaining had they put for*. their encr-
iog cure tccane itkso,no, all this ~ steadily III.
crossing fau1il y-might have heer avoided.
| 1t in not Of the POOR, suffering clasH OF women
| whose life-energies arc sappcd aud cruHhad By
God knows they toll and suffer enough to atone
for world Of la1ity. and it IL llankless toll at
| bort.
! Tho srials md sulIcrings Of benring and rcar,
ting q family are uover appre ciatsd. l hayo q
! friend whose vito hns borne lin eight rudl,
| chlldron. md abo only q frail creature, It the
| best 1t had be&n ycA1s sine last nc had met.
| no aakeo mo wtnt ta1Ary i was allowed in my
business. Ten dollars NECK, aud hare had
] steady place fO1 rcars."
"rsn dollars week! j. ho exclaimed. ii, blanl
astonlshment. "Wly, thaf Is moro than my
aifo ever oarucd in all her lifo.'
| 4 yi-on Of the eieclAess nights aud days OF
toll and rain she had eudr.red came up before
amid " 1owcry bstin II oa,a." VA bp,,ny sIs #,
The thought that had be en- sp.rcd al, that Sic
had suffered. and oil. So tltankfu! that waH
ao!e 10 IA'nk tnss no ao!laf Of ny husband !,
laces. Happy-ycs, aud tho thought guys nc
renewed exultatlou that my husbana could ncvol
say in the days to coi1le. ~ 70 mauY husbands
might truly say My vife has BEEN proatlest
'aeuulp. ~ .Ace - !ne.
n,"v ~ r,,,, u.v ta1 ,1nrar qaa -. ao1ia,
| In nv hfo," Anl ret her husband Lost eyarr.
thing in tho great ti1o, and is now, kind soul
toil:nc early and !ste' acE Or we'll to Galn 1.-Two,
,, nnouI .,. lHs ~, @ tuer soal' ntaen ne,, as
ornit III ,he:r own l,e]nIcssncss. ''' Gu.rya, ~
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lh1oTHE EWAsrE.BasxeTp
10 tA< Editor II 7he cd.ca1o tribune;
CHICAGO. Sept. "a haso road With mitch in
tescst tho letters Of your rarioua correspondents
on tho different topics relating to Matrimony.
aud gould now Like to SAT & few words also. II