, 1875-09-11


only rcglet that din not choose tho better
part scsr or no before d,,}.
!. sly eaao j. similar, have o doubt, to tha4 of
thousands Of othsrn. and 4! ~ tir sams thai
hnat y every vo,sng fnann would be, II, fnstead
OF stopping IN TGtbble orer tho prnptbte az
renrc. aud tho possibls oea of como soHnfs In
asaKerce. 10 would ges married, taking care, Of
I'd FiFl Tint w1nI1 bs I'll companion for him,
fiu Hfttlo down to II happfness mora complnte
aud satE"factnry than any he conld loHalbiy lnu
1T Any coufns nf ningio~3t1peodneee.
cAniG out Of the army al the sge Of a. aud
wH* rnA' fte5 shortly after. Nv cnJItai oons}HteI
It hosittf. atroogth. reasonable stuount Of en-
ctsF, apd very enall anount of money. be-
but ow;nE lily to eaceot]ing notisty must bn az
et'-eti from. naming tho quantity. Ne,-thht IL
ny vito aud f,-lisad economically, but mt nlg-
fardiy: worked diligently but not beyond onr
/ strength: kept WlthIn our INCOME. but did hot
":'.y tnferves any ueeessatr atnusument,
tn1 Tho reasonable requirements Of aocie-
-. i>"t: =: sho eud OF ton yen1ss hare =
10 :}Ho ;nar. Ny Efa ia ioAurcd lin case Of
osHtter) Tor eG mo, ono half Of which u already
tai! III, nud ara,np comfortable shnpe financially
81 t"e inajo1ats oi she Eroplc in tho "or1l WOW
ha7e mt fut rirx1e moncnt regretted my
cao'eo i'll H!le. or ~.sh-4 lad eona tiitls sreu.-
u by postIoninH tl4e inaunr II 1nnrn convenient
saa ~.'.ed to s',ss ssS sSO7nSsa ss., tbst
| business. aud secure compela,sco and hotno
| before dol!ig NY dnty by marrying TIM riIl 1
tuved, Sould never haze reached .be point I
was coming d, but would at he rcor. njser-
able. starvol "roussabont Of n b1e ehalor: stii,
vainY locking for happiness in the carrying out
Of thy o1n Feiilsh cnds. and waiting for the ttuu
70 come, but Wh!ct probably would mover have
reached ME, When could step into pIacs si11,i-
Jar to the one nov occupy, bu! without amp
HpeG.si stpss ~ n1f pa1s'
:.i~Ity IL ~ ~ ,,,s Inat,,s & ~. =.
| marriage nooso without thouult or ajncra,,ot.'
| but do it when you aro convinced tnat sou hare
round the right one and dout fear TOO mnch tllo
LYLE .e =. 1a nasn0 " oateluo s1a1 tae lo. "no ao
ieen eye,v ma Ella nm ~" "'1A ~
Thass yiews arc sent from a married. ro.na
.tandno,nt hnnira th.t thc1 msx he ..,a ,.nas
If insnenr spmS *, vo,a w sao ,Gao ~
toa ta rsrk and 1890 so,,o ys ,,,.e tn1t isSu
hanny hv rsng h.r Az wall or hat ~ Ii ~ ,ndar
| Tie must favorable c,rcu,ustancna be vnnid nsa
nimseIfs Yours tr,1iv' HrMrrn11r
.+.ro,uoux .uo nouro-x
| II he Edt.u5 er re Chieaot, Iy.ausx.
cu1c.e;u. kent 81 am ouo ~ tto na,r,4a
| osNs' ~ wv " eto ''s4'''
! p's'' ano uA'e "Ateuoa Will Aeo'1 interest quo
t d!scuss'on pro aud eou on tho marriage ques-
sus,. Have carefully resd your editorial CON-
cxurca.,d ,se1.;, hr, t,',nL u..I' ,,rtsa- 'o t
oAsas"a*u .As'e'a, si'l 'o'ah s't'l 'ot'aof, ta'
as'n:'.fhts uA'e moi bsc'i carried homo 70 their
proper tource. think tho fault lies here: Thu
| make a wo,kiuu,nan.. x;ra 1hn;- f,th... ,or-
| t.a., s,o... ...a ss,,.. .,'' t14''' ~"
n'pe oa.u' -, sae 4au3'} oal " sne s"eas OF nln
p1u%' 1' v "a''a 'ne5 l@'' from Tue common 70 the
eudcs taAo aIl their time: thew ara tao trfxi 1t
unit to ,,o anv rnnucvo,n ho.,s', ~, as.,os
,,e,, ~ ~ ~ ~. s. "e.a. 10y e'a',os
'oh mans fnift eannos wash, cannot bsko
b loaf Of bread; whilo mother tolls ovsr
hot store to got up summer eressca for the.,,
tloy arc diligently employed reading book