, 1875-10-10

Life Of toll and haruahip, thav usually end whert
their parents beXan-in poverty ard obscurlty
minus the hzppineas and tha honor uf tks ole
folks-s
| T. 4 pri7ata word to young men: Ton
sometimes say 5ou cannot fnd good girls in q
great ci:T. In say1og this you are egTeg!ously
mistaken; and it you persist in it. you will sho.
your ignorance and vilonoss- Lister to one 1ho
is young IN feeling. and not old in years, who
knows what he afhrms. You 90 to tha churches.
Sunday SCHOOLS sociahies and pralse-msatiugs
find, and. il worthy, be introduced. to as good.
vlrsuous, Intelligent. prudent, economical, sweet
| dlapoa:tioned, accomplished girls as tho san over
J shons upon. They are the lovely daughters ct
| our ncrchsota, manufacturers. professional
! met, capitalists, baakers, md proud mechanics
| ANY young man may ha proud OF such an hlll-
! ance. And such IN slEance il practicable. An
acquaintance with them is easy. II you are not
stepped IN vices, aud are worthy Of good society
X no., and you do not intend or wish to be. keep
| away: dodle not the altar Of purity, knowledge,
! and refinement. But it you ase Ike "CR!obs ia
/ search OF WIS.," 60 ahead; 'sfeer not," and
| you can win the best Of theu- They are not
| aboTa hsing married. 4 FAIHxn-
FOR Fathers 70 READ
| To tAs Editor ef Tbs Chtcaeo Tribune:
| CHICAGO, Oct 8.-We ara very thankful tot
| -FOUR kindness in allowing us to air our ssnti-
| raents on this great mxnisge question. But
we've heard about enough Of this never ending
CRY, "Why do not mothers teach ther
daugbtors" this, that and the other? Nos, I
would Ike to ask, Why do not tho fathers teach
their cons eome faw Of the duties that will in
evitably fall to them when married2 What does
any unmarried man FROM II to 50 know about
housekeeping duties? You won't find ono in
every twanty who can select good beef
steak or ro6ss OF any kind, or good
poultry or game; much less hou 1t should be
carved. Or from what part Of m animal any
coed cut should come One young naighbor Of
ours the first t;mo he won't to market for him
self asked for corued kGef When asked what
briskly t'tho f1iaket." His wife had said
. *'bnsket." aud that's about as mech - most Of
them know about marketing.
Why do not fathers teach their sons to pre-
Bida at tho head Of their table IN q
graceful, easy manner; not psas the sweot-
meats OF cnko first, As = beginner usually does,
aud $50 thew know how to put up and take down
the clothes lines Oh wash DAYS; always have the
wood and klndhngB and fuel provided the
night before; then to &c: up and hight the fire
IN the morning, put couple OF diprezs Of water
in the teas& &ettle, 30 it may be boiling and the
Kitchen warm when wife comes out then she
will fly around cook the hash tha. sae chopped
the night heforo, bake tha muf6ns, make tbs
coffee in three minutes, a1ld in twenty minutes
from the time ho lighted tho fire they are ready
to ait down to treaLfsat; and with lunch packed
he is OH for tho dav. Every Saturday night
count up tine weeks e1po1ses-to sae il they
keep within their income; te4ch his son never to
cat with Ills knife, then stcl. it in tho batter for
general use; when in the D1rlor to sit on a char
or sofa like man, not sprawl IN awkward OF in
dacent postutas. or sit on sofa on tae small Of
his bach, and all the rest OF it ad indnltura.
Now very many nice yonuc men hare these very
great faults, notwithstanding they have BlwayB
bsen in good society. Now I have stuek-up no
tons about these things. I know, bit when
I'll Say Ba1Ais is wlllin'." FA1R PAY.
A MODEL LoVE-LETTER.
II the Editor 81 The C.aicaao 1-lottns:
FoSD Do LAC, Wia, Oct. 7.-Now that you sra
printing so much that is interesting in regard to
love and Ecatrimony, send you copy at one Of
the most touching love-letters ever read. I
give it ss found it, verbatim ct ute:atim, and
think the reader will aSroe with me that the man
is to ho envied who has such woman to love
him Is the writer Of this uote. The note Was
addressed to no one BY name, and not signed by
go much as 50 initial letter. It wss written in \
Iady's delicate hand, and Was egident1y intended
rs the makeup OF q lovera quarrel OK the mis-
understanding between husband and wife Hota
it.
Oh, darling, my heart is heayy and md this morn
ing sId your loving touch. do lovo you, and vAns
to make YOU happy; but can't or don't aeen to be
able to thus far. sorry for the heart1cha that
came Last and shall he unhappy al dsy for tho
6hadow that Of it. did not mean to rope you,
only wanted to rest quietly In your aEna and tn your
love. Darling, don't oe sad aud unhappy: forget it
a1.-foreee ms, IL need b.. It will always b. 10; wo
together that everything that daturhs will
kMrt, and We can't help It. Be lsppy to-day, Dear
Heart. Imagine HsanR away tho clouda sud call
ing buck tho sunshine, because love you
There is delicate tenderness half-regret-
ful, but perfectly loving and confdiug tone to
the above that must have gone directly to the
heart OF hiu1 to whom it was addressed. 4 man
who has sach Iowa al that has rich treasuce
that hs Is not likely to oyarastimate. l.