New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1875-06-04

wornans instinct should teach her whether her hnsbana
has true and manly regard for her, without com
polling him to wiring all the honeyed superatiy.s
out OF the dictionary. woman IA always proud
OF the Of wife, expressive Of all Oh.
womanly attributes well OF the bighest dignity
and prerOgative her husband can confer upon
her Az much ~ any respect woman in the trus
sense and this respect for her and the wish roan ,
respect for would alone prevent mo from SOLDERING
In my letters conversation. Those people vbo
demonstratve externally and notably 80 In Duh
lie, not the who carefully consider the real and
best interests OF thoso they profess to cherish and adore
not the ones, for instance. TO take title in IN.
OF tho wife, 10 portion Of ths
property earned by both-by his business tact and
labor, and by her domestic abOrs. tact and economy
This oversight OF her interest Is only discovered when
creditors are about TO swOop down upon IT, Nor re tb
OF those who consult with her where the hon nhd
tent shall be pitched or on other similar questions This
also accOrds with our observation in religious mates
The loudmouthed. painfuypious ranters possibly ION
est but palpably deceviDg deceived seldom the
ones TO seek out Others tribulations or tho mod.
Of their alienation "CbarIty yaunteth not tell.
but goes about quietly and unObtrnsiyely, YEA
efficiently, succor OF suffering distress am
that these ideas will not commend thenseyes 10
ALL at least to the simpler Of the fair Istos
10 cheap adulation, and installing it for genuine deyo
ton. Not that claim for man any superiority. but
have ceased to look TOR perfection In woman Ny
Is all angel. believe that and woman aye compile
mcns Of each other and equal; both together rounding
tho complete expression Of humanity; that they ami
mated and governed by much the sentiments hior
laws and feelings and that at least half Of all domestic
unhappiness arises from nscOnceptiOn, each fDndly
expecting find perfection I'm the other, and the newt
able disappointment rpening into sOuness, mOrOsenes
and hate IL recognizing at tho outset the fact hat
mutual imperfections must exist, and striving assist
each other, without any recrminaton they would be-
the simple lady and gentleman with each other the
with others, they would sail the sea %
matrimony, nyexed by storm bllow, TRANQUILITY and
happily. OF do not mean that there shall not
be affection and Of higher quality between them
needs not De displayed Obrusiyely publicly aud
certainly not in alternate spasms Of gushing tenderness
and positive slight neglect, and cruelty Loud proies
sOns seldom accompanied with effective performance
/ knew in this city couple Of these cooling doves,
who in public lavshcd each other all tue endcar.
ing terms in our language. such az " Arrest"
pet" darling" "my love-" sweet, &c, al
ndusedm, and thereafter almost simultaneously,
each unknown to the other invoked my professional AID
their holy bonds In contrast with such scky
Sentimentality cite which vouch for, beng
his wife who seldom address each other with endeanns
epithets and still less in Gliding captous language
and yet their lives, as between themselves. gliding
smoothly and grandy on attest the depth and wealth Of
their affection Although cripple and sufferer TOR
wears, no groan or complaint escapes his lips
to distress her; and her ministratiOns ~ him, even
in dressing him in his heplessness are uncommon
rs they are beautiful In contrast how miserable POI.
trOon Is man who writes words Of idoatry TO his wife,
shame a demon hating her because her stature 81.
minutive, which she cannot help and which ho knew
when he married her. hope THE TRIBUNE viii. by lns
upon line and precept upon pTecep continue - lstl
into the popular mind the fundamental principles Of
and domestic common sense for which has been
nspicuOs or course. preaching Is easier than prac
tce; that's why have written. III. l.. PETLRsOS.
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