, 1875-10-09

~ ''',t'"Es ~ tI'itH WIZ iot6A4A'I HUI
10 discharge tho rnrynn's anL did their wor1
from tEtHcn then enui'i gp hmm and live in
thu brown ht"ne.fr0nt w!th tho old fulkt." Fnf
oifco. tho'l!.h woman. / Ial neneo ennHsll to
hold my ionyun. Times las0 changed Hthco tho
poet "tDte
tor Incn must work snd wonnrn m'tt wecP.
Now. fancy uplt1on work and ,weop ~ we'll.
but too often, Tho daya OF Rhtghs-etfshtry are
past, and nnno OF ls want to 300 our heroea bat
Ting with wind -.niils; but we live In ehiyhlrys
rAllnieat days, and trne. mainly men nevor .ook
tp ts,n Instruments Of toll 10 keep the giant wnf
from tho door Ut loved onca moro bEavely tltsn
now and It 10 iAro that VIC find hny whp hara
not Il, their henrta tho loving ,,r1o TINT leas
tl1e,n to surround thotn with comforts aud tuxu-
rles evon boyund tl,oir meshs. Aud right lore I
wA.,t 10 u.aka this p!en for my text IL otteaer
through what IL given freely By. tLun what s re-
,uIroG Of. man for bnt. .that ruin comes to him fur
which 1llu is cenHurcd.
Wo oAniot btamn mon for Whist ~ 40 natural!
nor can no hlan,o tllue1 vito re!uno to ifatty Tn
neeount Of thoir inability to gs0 ouo they love
tho oaso to which hhc has boon accustomed IN
her fatLof'h houne, and without Hhtch aho could
not bo comfortable In l,ia, The result oF a con-
trRry course is stamped "a plainly on tho iacoh
of throe-fonrtha Of tho wIY6H uno neotH that he
WHO runs may tead. l dctpiBe tho woman who
mai rcs for tho nero eako III being supported.
but what wot1s could c1ptesa our contempt tut
the snhn WIN doeB 1t for economy fcca,iso Home
loyinH. tte!u1cd wonlan gives lin tho benefit Ut
tecon,peNbei
Evidontly, however. to como back To p.oasaut-
Of things. human uatuto ID tho aamc IA when
Adam, wll1 at bost waH bashfut young garden
O., asked Eso to DO his wife. and have nownoro
seels IL oh record that Bho aslod Inn to walt TN.
I'll his Bafaty WAS lasger. or he had eAvcd up
something, but like dear. good womsn, ~ slo
was. slie said yea, and the5 woro t,atlled on tue
sp1t-no ttonssoau, mo cards or cake"
You may talk and proach pr,dcnce until you
aro blind aud gray. and young poop1o vi! u.oatiy
10 nB their fathorn aud motllora did before
thon (outs too Tor that matter. for which let
1,a bo devoutlY Thankfully. and when her lover
vthdew, "-lItcrAl!y ho HASN'T oven that 10 oiisr
-Rwoot sittcon thitks only Of tho poetry aud for
gcth that carved walnut, hais mattresses, aid
woven wiro ato considered Indispensable now
adaGs to Hound nna ltaltlY sleep and you tnRJ
talk about generous impulses. aud congenll
houls, and mnonshiue, Until yuu ar0 ready for
kti'gdom como to others, snd thoY will shake
tho.r hea1s and tell you they, arc not ready ind
tuuat wait Till they are--so what's the use?
Don't you know everybody knows beat how to
manage his OWL aifaira, and will do IT, too when
all has boon aaid and done, Juat az II no advice
had hceh HtTctl, ~ thoy oughti. Married people
may sroan and sIsh, aud 81 wata the young of tue
de,lco to tako from ttom husband or wife. what
do they dos Tic most sensible thing In the
world get another; mud tho problem Of human
loEe will repeat ttaeif
whj!o the wstern reek the sea,
And whtlo the young etars hhne;
and hearts will boat high, aud pulses viii eh,iIl
and tho light thnt mover was on HoR OF land "
w!ll shino In beautiful oyee. and lips will ror.
sasnsasy repeat "f aas't ss. ,sA,n psrt Tine
SIX spuNKY MA'oENs.
70 fht Editor 0f The Chicago 7trlou'n:
OTTAWA, ILL.,. Oct. 9.-uaying inferred tllst all
bavo tho privclcgo Of communicating, wo rem
lure to cxpross our opinion in regard to this
- Matrimonial Revival" III fact 1t would be
almost impossible to refrain after 1enaihg soma
OF tho etfusiona on tho subject. somo Of tic
young men arc laboring under nstake. They
ecem to thtuk the girla ato getting desperate at
tho halt in tho matrimonial market, mad have
deemed it their duty to rsso and cxpialn. Well,
you havo made tho mattor very plain, indeed,
gentlemen. You lAvo shown your shallow and
aotah natures to perfection. II you cant mike
your Air Castle" big enough for two on .
salary Of $500 per yeaf. ThS, mako bachelors
hall ont Of it. aud quit. hont l'riug tue girla
noss. Tho little word a-f-r.a-t-d accounts fot
n'sentas OF ,', ear bashS!orsh.s whats
nfraid hc should wish to b single
aRain. Ha! ha! Well thss'a enongh to mako
one laugh htu1setf to tiecss. Ho declares hinl-
aelf perfectly comfortable with his Giic9not and
hunting g-ttaps; but how Is IL that when ho .s
lonely he calls On bis lady sstonas1 Ali that'ii
mover do. Thcro'n vacancy tn hts heart that d
''yelao" b!sd-dog can never hl!. Even II he
did find girl that would make good wife, that
Neu!A 10: he !as a sxcaanEo rs tox % LIS "!!tt!e
right on. "Sonhy"; wotl lot you asono,
>"sopo IL not at all too oxactiug in painting
his ideal woman, and ho nlny reHt insured that
he has conturcd nothing impossible to lud.
poet to win her unioss liz IL somewhere near tho
"idcal man," and II tint Is tho caao, hs tn Que
OF tho foH. The men NOWADAYS stay % long
In tholr "mothcr'H cupboard" that thoy yet
spoiled. Any young man Tint can put u,
with cold dinner III tho back yard during tho
house-clo aning period. will make naaiel hus-
baud. Tlen, why don't a0sna Of these young
nsoa save . sslo of the!s precious love for tAo'r
Wives9 fovo is just as essential aftor nsar-
1iago hh betoro, though none ot them thiuk 20,
Girls theso men al wear masla which they
throw aslde with tho honeymoon, Try aud un-
mask them II You can beforo you nlak1 thatu
happy with that wonderful word Of tb1eo lo.tera.
The ''ideal man does not care how much
his girl "tIxea up to please hitn.-that is hot
own businosr. Nor locs 10 expect hor to hoop
houso a. we'll as her rnothor; for that is inpos.
pssxs saa xes snoas s s e Sua up .rsssr xn
suttlcient . stamps to "tjll tho plll." should
his fall short Of 1t. Let those chaps learn
their share Of domestic Affairs befose theT
sensnfo n. ,hs tie g.s III u 1sgssa to natts ter
Better use your precious tfms Ia learning
10 chon wood, eto., aud mate It graceful husi-
moss" than In pouninR each uonaeuscal Trades,
40 that In aftor Ifs you may not be 90 nagenar.
GUS ~ TO call your wifo estravAgant If it takcs
fourteen d0xan ctothea-psua weck to atart tho
fires.
Laat but not least don't bo carried away with
tho impression that the girls will be tho least Bit
chapgod by your curtAiu-leoturos. II they donv
suit, you may console you.selveh with the fact
tha. there IL no one more contontcd than
6I1 OLD MAIDS.
FE00lE'6 ADVICE.
1fr. Tribune Han:
DunASp, H., Oct. 5.-1 took up TnE TRIBUNE
'tothor day. and cano across All awful lot OF stur
bout matrimony. / thought that was = queer
Iiul OF uouoy, but soon found ouk. Thinknes
me- ! woudor II they would low mo 10 put In my
"sss' Il allus' uoca to honle). / though. Id
Try. anyhow.
Tbs Afst opo eane ACROSS WAS "Wor!dling." !"
didnt like what he said tall course hos got !
sort OF right to live so il lo wants TO- hut I