, 1875-10-16

sHIlpott"tl. which rHrl,ApH il tha ttue honttuu.
Prosperity and Aaprinass will bH Sn'tra to tho
e1tnat Of solr adherence to yenr good tctots-
lions formed in Answering tha ab0yo questions,
AMI domestic infeE.cty follow in ratio 10 your
tttgartuEu from lien.
ain to preacher on this subject. bns btliere
''"t 10 ta:aprrnd with, Adaptation and setile.
uleut of mutual characscsantIcs should bo parts Of
tonrthhp. ant mt family tt,lNrafs.
it'a N" q smart. lsNdhearled. healthy lady
Of 5ckFtctAtG Chnir rttHha, WHO thinks H1cIent
'f mo to allow mo tn mahu her tfulv happy. ard
.he like"iAe ;nc,-then questions OF carriages.
ff'h-tAii carA. pnnt lace. cA'tct aud nix hutton
stnFeh Will to matter betwetu Ill., sud nat the
puhlt:. HSE ax 7AL uays.
STARTLING ASSERTIONS.
IN the Eaftor Of 7As Chttd9e Tr1.unt:
CHICAGO. Oct. t2-An tho young penr1e are
kindly allowed. through tho cuil:nns af your
tapoE. to give their yicwH OIL tho interesting rub
1ect Of matrimouy. may I, too. bo permitted 10
add nv mite?
am one Ut the class OF young women whom
many Of your gentlemen correspondents deem
unworthy Of notice. l am plain, 1pdcpsndcns
rather poor, and uot Al afl anxious 10 clip m:
head into the matrimonial noode. Let me tell
yon Why,
Ey far The greater number Of gentlemen cs-
pec'a.y aociety.men, ato not worthy tho lore Of
| hot respect They are fascinating in the draw
sng.soom. agreeable partners lit tie slat CO. and
rrcposSesnng in most respects, but to their habits
''bohlud tho scenes any young lady canuot 10
blind. for ihs tcll'tao faces speak for them
| selves Of nights Of dissipation and carpusal.
do NOT nchu Ill, but more than 0nc-t,alf OF the
young mea Of Chicago society. II she does find
man wlum she thiuEs wholly respectable iu
tho full seuse Of The word. she speedily finds
I upon euter,nE Tito cunsc1ta:'ou that llo IL fAr
| beueatL her III mental act!uifcments and is ,iu.
neArly as vel! Informed Nh tlUzt young LADIES'
oven younger than tie. WIN have not had one-
half Of tbo advantages that il mss been Ll= priv
I 1icnc u rtcelTo.
| Why Is 1t that but very few Of the young mnn
! Of oar day ale abo to converse eensihty OIL aty
topic except she light frivolous chat OF drawing
| foons and dAucing-lls'I This in not tie kind
| gent Eirl would like to spend ller life with.
She wants aon1o ono stronger. wi-er. and bc:tat
than heraclf: in snort, a tnss:es At wuoss ieet
| bho CUT Bit to learn something.
| You rnay laugh At tts, aud cay 'tls old mad
iHh. bnt stll it Is true. think it is rather hard
for us TO feel tia: the gentlemen consider uH
! 10 anxious to marry that We need but 10
b. asked. know ulans youns ladies'.
mot all 'plain aud poor." by tho NAY, that ate
| hY 40 means As lendy to take MI with any sl1ers
an the gentlemen seem 10 give them ciedlt for
| being. Spr arc they as dc!icient IN domestic
knawIodgo as ll.oy slceu1 1I.ey would TO ab!e
aud wiling to leIp Keep ths money their huh-
bands earned, instead Of rqnanlcE'ng Il. When
the Gess;le1uen stow that lucy are able to lalH
On any but llgl!t subjects then Will the yulln,
la1iea th9" t!lst tseir Hnosleneo u not az
sat'e' uSsa! tMauf ~ tasta We At.eFty "Aaoie -
!nose .na1 ,ne't a'''iu' 1ut' '" 'n's He'h''"i
fus!..o1,. L:canss the guIten,et. woull us who.iy
! uhe'lahl ~ lhle!"seH@'s confeFso th 4hJ LIT
| tlle.e mattera.
ash't 1uo et'fin'E pneHffa "aEacu"s o.
| Int tLFir IN n IN.
u'Eal Ihlsht 1nes ieaso sfh"u' 700 lo'1l'E' uf
! "ea'ee' ""Po'ssA' aeaa'ns A'sE' w ""'"s. ~ %~
W. T. CaHfHItL.
conuNoa,1n
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~ .au's .a'1'"" "'' ue'"'su ~ oHs'"eeA
nsa'l ana nave ho' "ae III 1eaa ~ tas so1"w!'
nous correspondence that las OF late appeared III
TnE TmEIsE on The marriage qr.u-tlnu; What
have rcad was more an,1,~1ny than s.,,siLIc, aud
90 ,,,... . ,rt,,,, ,,, t,,n.,;n,, ~ ;a.,o
~. 40 poee.p = 'toA. 'ou I"es'o' =. 'es". !
hoSoisheldts' nave leaf1e' Afo1i' shefn 1hal ho
couple Ehould mnffy Without possessing n4utual
"t.uc love- This eeems to lie the rotu they
! nre ail hart.jur at. mus: co,f;ss at, wholly
,,,,.,, o,on, ,1 ,,,,,..,.,, ,,.,1.. ,r, t, !. ~
! '"e'' e'."' ~ 1'"s1 sNeAN A" "s o'' 'S
nave askeu eofeiA1 10 eSlla'a "tt d set MY
comprehension Ct it's defective. In hoi'o OF
hayine tho cloud removed | at;ru,t:t Noic.t
ro,iyc,.4 1cctu,s NJ. SUNDAY. 1nt.raa of dir.
,nlI;ro .hc ,,,.s, l,c "c,., asa,,.r Jorlra.. m
p''t"f W. ns' @, A"' "'E' ="
rnans saying 10 Npn't marry. for ho don't
| know !lo will be gliding alouE no. knowing
where l'o il drifting. asll the '.."c!rtc spark
may eaten nun aaa i'e tloes ~ nsf'ich :. u
IN ~ az a. sp W "o.a
chi, tel you lie w,,I, tiks it Int, tatctIe,l by
an "c!sctrlc spark! Uh. horror OF Loy,v,s,
what does this 'ncnn
:ot D. u, let eeu' IL q .1'o r"pn a';0't u h'atileu
"u,,or."na Sr f,'tvs, s.v tt'n, t,nn,,r ~ =.
r,ayfs are the re-,,Its of tho .clactyjs SPARK =:
III tho unhappy marriages the ''e!ectrte spark
l4as no art; Suw. "!lst "nlI fon sdslfo the
.oIo M .'an ~ lel ret,. "Ip ~ netrt ssiucs us
wlon H. IL atr,,ts 1i,o cnnnnr,,,n, ~ ,t,a In.