, 1875-09-25

RA HEX SPB TT Uks
To kas EuiAr " The Esicn5o Triouns:
lIE1R1, Sept. lG..-l have awaited your views
upon this soeininEly nll-imporsaut subject, aud
have been in measure gratiaed.
Tho Chicago Times H;'caay Of tho subject as
"THK IKuuNEs nonhonBo about matHtuony.7
Did the cuit Or Of said paper gtyo IL 3 monlcut d
thought ho would scarcely Epenk 60 eneetinsty
Of one OF ln'a's grontest vicssitudcs, which
SHOULD 10 CO nxidercd we'll before tho almost ir.
reyCcaGIo step is taksu. Dickens, IN his .amcri-
can Notes." dsscriboB himself AZ "looking not at,
but through, tbs sky" and 60 with tLs subject
VIC must aoak through It., for with us girla 1t is
lifo OF 1nisory or llntpiuesB
Tho opposlt' Bcx, young Married men, como
gallantly to tho rescue Of the weaker sex, while
the unmarried, Bour-Rrapes fashion. fiug ''ox.
travaganco" u cur facts IauntinK1y, daring Us
to rofuta the churgc.
Lam personally acquainted with an unmarried
1875, tns n,,loun. ed to <3n I.50, neither ,ung-
nifty nor dwarf. defy uny young lord VI crea-
t,ou" to cite one siugle instance In which one
Of tic "luli- Bstks" liavo oxpoulet that much
for poarl-powder or candy tn Tho aa1le space Of
tinc. What tllr.ss the aforementioned geutlo-
mans bcts on baseball, theatre, eEan1 1ayue-
supEcrs, "tt,eatFo Bmiles." opera, otc., amount
TO Mt thc end ut TIL, yeas at TINT rnto? 1a!k Of
girls being e1travaGalt!
Tho young gentlemen ogotisticalIy Imagine
thoy know I'LL about liz By hsars, mud still for an
their wisdom Baeul to enttely 1oae sight OF the
TACT that 1t is tho un'b, not their respective oc
fact, and rernenlber 1t IL ono Ut thaso "ox-
t11yaKnnt buttartlloB" who writes it.
See here " Lob Darlington" last Yinter your
humble seE!ant attended club bail Ind won. In
the cars. Whito thore G Elolen. nnov-sto!m
catne up; my eacuFt being unable to obtain q
carriage NJ wnkea homo from Tweuty-Hecunl 10
Thirtr-iirst street, Ieuryived, and an still rosi-
daut Of thus tnunttane aphore.
I've no doubt tho men are perfect. Harry i.
Froo snnrnA to thluk w. L. for one, wish sou,
alr. II. u. F., to thoroughly unicrstand that my
principles are not one particle leneitcd BIZ
your catpiug cynicianl, 'ThcAo g!rl8 arc well
marry"
Tbs wifo Of h,,ch man {airt is tho proper
narue) In to be pitsd. She IL well enough to
talk 10 for faw minutes, but how aoon doeh
she become neglected. bEokss-spirited, premn-
tnreay-otd woman. Danto's Iufcrno and us
horrors are far preferable to auc|, a lie.
Would that Wero descendant Of Hhrotll,
to convinca II. y. +. thnt there s solid worth
aA wul NJ trtll among tho American girls OF
tho ninataeutl coutury; aud wero tho parents
stead oi money, thero would ba quito reynlu-
tloD IN our n0s'nty a,iu VIC would sec feWor
uut,apry nsarrisses. Hoping you will not decM
this only worthy the waste-basket. am"
a cu1oAooAS IN Tue COUNTRY.
THINGS AS THEY ARE,
To shs Edlt,r # TAd Chicago 1t1buns:
CHICAGO. Sept. Al hay0 tsken great doal
OF iuter"rt In your columns headed "Thc You1x
Poople, aud, If atn not yet too ate, would like
10 toll wLat know. am young man. work.
in: on u comparatively email sulafy, and sup-
porting mysoEf eAsiIy; sssoss neatly, and saye
quite portlpu Of my luuney. Ono roadon ia, very
likely, neither smoke, chew, drluk, or gaubla
III any way. while aeIus,ttaucos of 1pino who
receive two or tltFoe titnes III much ~ do save
| huthiHg. The girls that l happet to kuuw
much shout, us do not mix much Will, 1hou,
are enough tn tpako bachelors of any mau,--nt
leAht the majority Bo,ua xhose parents are
laMo ssll od Do not keep any hired girl, but
Hoae, o ~, 70 ava sasss daushtofb DO it. viii hep
s4r..t snn e1aHss Ill.,: SHAFT II yon meut her on tho
stEaes, ia aud hhTp yonr "Hu,day best" on, she
w. snSak hat. i you arc in your every day"
her oy"i aud. It spoken to by Ler mother. iii
say ~ | hoard onu, "Well, he I1ossoa nhabhy
and looks a"tul." have boon waiting and vii
wait Until lind SONS Of y ds!retynt nature.
| III. JAaEs.
WORD Of ENCOURAGEMENT
| 70 tho Edilor Of The fhrayo Ir5u,s
GEaEvA LAKE. Wts. Sept. 2o-1t NAV nm, bo
out OF place JUST No" 70 tel tic young rcopis
how dFAnt Ibofbnfn tsia "len he wAa fisss tnas-
ried. Ho said 10 Asd ouly two rll.jt., aud. whan
friend came iD. he xnt in lls wifes Ism. md Of
course gayo tho friend .hs chair. The pluo
tsbly. and 10 on. Tho readers Imagination will
1oHlily tind out tho rest
There arc plenty Of sensible young meu Iu
the world and young womon, too, All II wlcn
lhuy get married tlle huahand viii l4ass ,ho d.
cisson to ray, II can't afford this Or that,"
the wife II she has made tha proper
hunG training will xcanlesco II Oncs. And hero iA
wIlere tho mother stops in. Has nha lifted Ler
daughter by procept aud example for good aud
stnslble aId economical wife for \ goLd EAu ::
u il bad ons perhaps all tho Mots necessary.
guld Iockcts aud chsus. TN Paris they rersg-
n,zu American lAllea by their gold chains. ]
/ TY!ug back thslr dseases eosss uoshlog, save =
| lttls ulolessy.
| It ~ TO lo L0pcd thst sosrs good will grow out
Of thls dlaoua44su. s. Keep .lo Iii rolling.