, 1874-10-04
r., Smoking ghi|e Dr;'iag With Ladies'
''' In lps:I!:nt ccnS:st at e!a'>s
Of Amusement.
n.a reef, end the Bad Way in which
o~' 1zr 1;rtci:ers Handle =.
r,.,oaorous aad Noa-llluzaiaative Gas.
". =, o{ rs auose more or icss-
No -. ~, y. sd so,se power the f,ifGe gle us

Gnu '''. 10 rrrr doubtful. however, whether we
11ao, If ns. 10 satisfied to have the mir
"ou.a 49, -, - Nature in any such way. at lcae.
1oz dns,s Still, Wien stranger visits 4
IS -liariics-esFec;aily i:s garcicrles
e"3' :. orco a subject Of comment. and lo is
:. .,-n-.ra anr other place cnfayorably
~. ~. 49,, Sill, wka. We would resent as
"''a ....,. - c,,;rrnt IS Individuals. when it
IT,. .:.. -, c,]ectire!y VIC do not mind SO MUCH
49,, 1,ngh 4. as meaning the public at large,
r.r rto.u NO a-o not personally Responsible.
ra,,, are certain Caicago!sms, however, that
-. 90 pccui.r to tho place that thy wall bear
-.,;s;,r and il is Of these l:ti" .;eclal:.es we
Tpal1 SPEAK to-day.
r,ro !. is scus:o:ra7--pcraa?s no. among the
.r,.,r.d and Travelled portion OF tho community.
MI etI with largo portion OF the citizens-1oc
TIRE Man TO TAKE TIE wo21AS's AE11-
7-1e,her t1,;s is sor. OF clbowlnG-alcng Pro
.,es tv which ho asserts his right to shove her
..t.s IS suits Lis soTc:e,gn will and pleasure;
=, whether i. is 8 bread assumption OF wollan's
-;:-h,s-a proc!a;rling that she is got tho wcaler
,,s.1 b1t il capable OF not only supporting
trre,I Lat his ,c;fa's Husband a!:o,~aa-
7o:.s Of question. Howevcr It may be,
+. is most ulgraccful proceeding, a-d
r.oyaEcs immediate c1nEent from strangers.
.:Hss that man got his arm around that wonans
r,=t:" asked m individual rot posted in t.sis
cscu;ia-;t- OF oHr civilization NO; he has ler
,ra," "Wh.r!" Aad no merely printed words
certainly notli1. in the way OF puac'ual2n-
c,r,d possibly express tie intcrroga;iyo cx-
c..ua.on Ct that remark. Where this person
c,us from. as in :a:o5. other cities, 1t is cue
tcz.r7 to lock Cpeu Wo:caa after tie Tenny-
sou.aa fashion, az, the "lcs5cr aao,"-:lctcfo1o
to le deal. with gcn:l..'. to be supported; and,
Il tho o1l-time stately touching Of the
t7ec.-ucs has given way to the mozs
fani!iar o.-cr Ct THO &-n, ell it il
lie gentleman who oIc1s his, end Who cacorts
to lady The :.iot; fingers are seen on lis
In, and tho lady TUES no RISK OF enFpo.able
soooriog il the street. Il tie Chicago fashion
ro. one tha. wo.sld lear correcting aad modelling
roon the Plan OF older cities? As it is now, it
ta1ors too much OF tho policeman. Wlo hands
,hs visitor f1oil the suburbs scrosd Z crowded
to-ouSalaro in E1uc.1 the same manner.
lnotucr point in social etiquette, observable
b7 aay one who is Used to noticing men and
thiuss and has been brought up to regard place
au1 dimes" as oce CT the Important founGa-
ron-stoncs of polite soc;etT is tho fact that, i'll
Yery nauy of the carriages you meet in driving
pyins tho tacl seat, "4ilo the l:cics are left
cestsd
WITH THEIR EAcEs To TIE HORSES.
ulss sways been co:ccdsd That. wien it is e
question Of fex. then the fair should 10 per-
FITTED 20 choose, or, il there is anT preference
in tie matter. the better position should ct once
be yieltcd to them. As 3 mere qaes-
ton of physical disability, this Chicago
rract;ce ia worthy OF criticism. Thcro
Ire few women vhcIa i: does net make i'll to
Eda backwards. while mon rarely suffer from
.cy such cause. The stranger Who sees carnage
load after carrsge-load OF people driving on the
rubEc md fashionable streets and boulevards,
WITH The occupants seated in the manner before
described. is apt to excIaim, How vulgar
hoT il-a.cd." Certainly not without cause. In
10 other city that we hare ever waited has this
manifest lack OF courtesy bEen &c often shown.
In o:her ci:iee riya!ing Chicago, even tho most
accl';E1ed persons have learned at least the 4
3 Of good manners: and, when people Of that
class co ou: fer IN airing. the men give tho
place Of honor in the hired hack to their wives,
listers, or sweetheaits. Here, in elegant pTi-
rate carriages, men with the most extensive
s.o1e-clotEes place their lady relatives or
friends, Wno arc superb in the la-es: OF Worth
costumes. With their bacl,s to the handsome
lo!ses which theY Own, aud tho coaeI7uan, some
times in livery, drives; while they lounge COM
tor:aby and objcctiona5l7 uoon the baca eeat-
hho u to blame %, As,-!he rccn or tho vom-
en-? It is worth STEERING, a2d is one OF Wonl-
~ rgats ThcE, in the n2clo OF courtesy, s1o
Eborld insist upou /
What is to be said Of tho barbarian
sIo sIoEEs WHY uZ Is DRIVING OUT WITH
LADIES?
u "a has tic least respect fo- them be certainly
WI not CO So. for stranger, meeting slcn an
INSTANCE OF ru!SaTlty on the fashionable drive,
Eight not uunataEally TO led to suspect tho re-
t|pee'aoil1tS y OF the e2tire party among whom
Nst ulsar:ty w:s being pcr1e:ratca. In fact, |
eFea When these men arc Alone aui thus |
indulge ,ten*elves, the looker-on is apt to re- !
MMatk, What . los Of loafcrs:" I suppose that |
A'a TOO bsd that men should not bs allowed to !
Es1e furnaces Of themselves at all tines sEd |
N&soes, without let or hlndra1,ce; but. FL !;
eeafeccs custom demands many sacrifices FROM !
*Insn. lsteqClrcs FL occasional one FROM men. !
auoluel little 1u1cncs5, and very oud onc IN |
asuansera cycs, IS to sec mai deliberately |
"a: nalA a1"n Though the miles Of theatre, and |
~ nasa "ae1 the usher points to aud turns dorm |
~ sea1e.-ansseal Of pauoin5 and allowing the I
~ sao accompanies bil1 to enter first a1d Eeat |
ae:sef,-walE in AMI !
u LEAVE 1ER TO FOLLOW As lest SIZE 3tAY. |
~ Particularly Objectionable in his case, for |
ga m:n is sure to belong TO t!,a. thirsty class
WI %a3 aeea to go cat to get something warm Or
~ ~ as INC case NAV be, between every act. /
t. 10y ooesn the woanaa teach him better ? Nc !
es'e scca tho C.scoIricous action nt theatre, !
sxsa' and conccrs. Il is quite possible that tl11s
~ oe scst OF Masculine emancipation, only
tor tAe9 y tie present generation;
I I. noticed ttat it IL the old men
~. ~ men OF Past generation--who riso ana
s; e'c ssa1s to the ladies', while the young ones
- 49, LIS mother taught her boy to be court t
- ~ &c does 1t in Ehameiaced way; end. it
r.sa ssea 70 make room, even FOR SraT-llalrcd |
~ tbssn, ne looks at his adolcsccns companion
euu aees no. Stir III dcprccatin@ manner, as ii
1-Ii' Don't biano me; it Was uuntent:on2l; I
r..su ~ never DO so again" Lyea tho st.tcly,
~ snonloas s.as manners Of Chesterfield, which:
w !. w rushing through life as uo now Go, VIC
.sse. 70 % lack time for, might be modified 80 as to
tb.s .ss .He needs o. tho present generation, it
~ = could no: be returned to in their parity.
r1,ss, r1aees arc lew o{ tho mora salient points Of
~ 70 criticism IT. there are others that arc
sta re n3dSeaing l1rt5e;r effects upon Tcuple
~. Ie not used I'd tifm. Primarily is the TACT
~, se'efy time you efs3er q rozs. Of Eeei from
H. ooatcher, you must fel him thst you want
e. !5eS. as can y be earEe@asops7}y' and nosa wal
r,n,. no COED EEET.1: CHICAGO,
n 80; oe pa'cn: to every one. You remonstTatc
Ec,.:a1': aou EaC to your butcher, "Clicago
~ ss tcat she hs3 the finest beef in the world,
- :e1 you can get neither ssteak nor roast ench
h w ~ pe bought at any butchers stall either
ro.S;" sA 1o.k, Boston, or phsladel2bia !; to sly
a,rit OF what Xou may ocder from tha large
IA ~ such as Nas!l:nytonGr T1aeu:1 HALL"
r+o7ia ass; HI thb go:d becf goes East: that
ple pb;ia there VIII r., % cc,:ts po:;ii fer it.
=. aeH mere IS Is .4Ie hiu;,css ti;at he caE get"