, 1874-12-28

ablo. An artificial young woman can nov"
or DO mistress OF any situation into which,
by tho caprlco Of circutnhtaneos aho nny bo
thrust IInr character 10 not stronger than any
odds tint nny asaatl II. Hor strength IL IL her
art atNl not in hor nature. and thia is not always
available, nor tB It often regarded as Of ns mich
vaua to society as 10 hor who found it. Alany
forms Of nrt nro Of rnre beauty, but MI artificial
yo,ing woman is thing Of t9ofornty forever.
II young woman could forcsee tho elevation Of
tho social plano whero she is dehttnod to dwell
nature lofty enough to 10 satlsncd will! tho
lowest aocnl lovc1, II neoa be, tho nobility
Of her requirement. will bo lor greatest stlccoss.
Simplicity Of chnlacter is consistent With Very
high intelligence. 10 put on somc of tho pho"
no,nena, rtyials Of Intelligent rotinemont, with
ont pobosRng them at all. IN fact, Ia to make
oio'n lifo Artificial. Just think OF a., artificial
Or tear, or snlilo, or young woman! Tho
main way of showing arttfoinl effort is In tho
use OF words and tones. just Iaton to the
prtonunolation Of any Young woman whoso nm;
No young woman nood hope to BIO conad-
dorod worry nice, simply by any very nice way Bhn
may have Of saylng her Words or of gracinK her,
! Infections. believe artificial ways will, at
| meaniuE actions at last hocolno HRcoro by pro-
ccdng from hollow and unnoauing heart, and
oyory young woman Of hollow md unmoanfng
! loert Is doomed herself. and sure to doom amy
IL nHsncIatcd. Dy oil moans let mo commend
the Christian, grace OF simplicity aa worthy of
any Young woman's hcarticst approval and fond
est effort.
young wornan's
THIRD GREAT CHANCE
TO succeed in gaining ita first eloncnt s Indus
try. No hive just been respecting her personal
character; wo now turn to lpr personal service,
After a fitness to work iB work. The divine
partnership known as ,na:rinlony mny begin its
bright career upon regular Income. and 1t may
begin with such income only ae It IL ablo to caru
and savo. The duty Of tho male mofibor Of this
firm Is to pour earnings into It, while tho fomalo
member mnst keep .heao earnings FROM running
out. More depends upon skilfully closnE the
escapes through which earnings loak away. than
upon tlo prodgality with which they arc contfn-
| uouHly supplied. 1t requires rather moro ind'1s-
try to save than to earn. social position is scf-
| dom continued by marriage. Tho married woman
ia snmetnlod raised, aud oftoncr lowered. by hor
| totter regponncs to tho priest. Industry can
never como amiss. 1n luxury anu abundance 1t
is loseryo power. iu poverty it is salvation. If
young woman inyo industry, aud doeu not mood
10 bo industrious, she can eaaily lay 1t aside, but
| II sho havo induBtrv aud does mood to DO indus-
! trouB, how fortunate.
The young women who now dwell upon tho
higher aoelal ptauca should 10 fully
| ACQUAINTED WITH ALL THE INDUSTRY
found to be necessary for those who dwell on tho
lowcat plaue, for, IL tho unaccountablo lottery
| Of marriage. their piacos may be exchanged II
| nut. imoMial alliances have any conspicuous
weakness, 1t IL iu tho fact that ono Of tho akso-
| catod parties Is 70 often unslslled. There
can DO no disglacc in. learning to do what
possibly must eventually bo depended upon
willing to ontor hoartily iuto tho idea Of
an industrious life, if. allowing tho kingdom
of labor to be divided into coarao and iine: they
a&e permitted to choose tho iino Elmo labor Ia
! nat, however, tho kind ain meaning to nrge,
but, rather, tho coareo, if by coarso is meant at
form of work that supplies . good living. All
industrious young woman will noyer be a tux uf-
| Oil income but contribution to it.. She will rc-
| turn moro to capital than is withdrawn to sup
| purt her. When tho matrimonial rln GetH able
to turn one Of it's tnoulbors tntn piece OF fine,
or luxurious art, no one 1ua auy right to critlcao
the muuiilcencc.
AyouuB woman's .--
| FOURTH AND LAST CHANCE
to secure tho first olo1nent Of u full SUCCESS ls
horoiHm. There aro respects III wlic! tho gen,
| aral fortune Of women il not onrlnb!e. Aot q
very wido range Ia allowed t,or eGrors nor u sllo
paid, always, for whnt aho docs do Il fair price.
Sue has no strength with which to asscrt berreal
or fanced rights, no prccodents to plead In her
| ap{,cul for Justice, aud no historic examples to
| justify her decisions. Woman liaB no way Of
compelling society to do anythng according to
lon excludes her from eyory opportunity, o., q
tho strength and uniformity ct male health
makes ulan her fatal industrial competitor. To
bear up under all this oIds, aho needs Christian
l
ly change in thuso particulars. Woman haH been
slowly rising for centuries, but not towards d
participation in political power. Thoro can he
no certainty about any predictions concerning
tho Acknowledgement OF Woma.l, only this nA-
surance can DO Bale that personal hcroism will
| bcar er ull until har change co1lc.
loo high al estimate caunot bo placed upon
tho aacredncHa aud perpctulty Of t4o tnarriugo
csIing that young nolnan'B SUCCESS III th!a
life is not complete until ehe becomes tho true
| wifo OF d chosen mud true man. Any modem
tcnclings iu conflict with tllis statement are
dangerous and imn'otal. Woman can have no
higIlor or puror mlsBion. Upon tho purity aud
peace Of this rolntion tho wesinro oi
human aocioty, and especially tho por-
petuity Of froo institutions. dopond.
cannot Inspire nnY young woman with holict
ambition tlan to finally bocome tho worthy aud
happy wifo Of MI equally worthy mud happy Lus'
band Marriage is comparatively easy to effect,
but genuine aud immortnl heart unions arc con-
summatcd with Aone difficulty. Would any
young woman bo prepared tor ller pleasing and
sben among tho highest attaiuabe. II mar
tiage be rcckoned less tllau the highcst huriat
cotnnact. it at once declines to notllug bottol
than authorized concubnase.
| TO BECOME THE TAuE WIFE
of truo and chuscn nlan, thoro arc before
young women four general cllances: First, mora
purity. There can be no renl aud cherished
popularity Of female character not founded IT.
wotnon for whom all mon feel profound respect
aud this Is tue clnss whose moral purity is al
clear and nndoubtod aa tho meridian sunshine
or tho crystal SNOW. Love is impossible nn
husband would have bis wife posseBs III
knows must pro-oxlst In tho maidon.- Fomalt
impurity is always n peryeraion of lludotilea In
stincts. It IL as truly tho nature OF Woman tt
bo puro, nj 1t il tho nature Of 4 t!owor. Young
women aro not more than half aware OF tht
! nDynr nf their MIRO instincts to restrain uiu