The Jasper weekly courier. [volume] (Jasper, Ind.) 1858-1922, 1874-06-26

lovers would be like writing the Ten
Commandments upon the scashOre at
ltide-rlsing. But, syInpaihizing with
young men in love land just how il hap
pens do not know, and having obsery-
ed the mistakes of variety Of lovers,
leads me 10 give what believe TO be
excellent advice and advice from q
woman ought to be regarded by young
men as Of considerable value.
Every young man has his dream Of
love-a dream woven of the noble,t and
finest flncies Of hi. being. lie fairly
rcyels in the air-castlc he builds Of the
future and gazcs on his good angel with
as delicious rapture a MurillO did on
the realized glory of his Madonna. lie
awakes one day with the belisf that he
has found her, and goes about the win
ming Of her. But how? lie visits her
on sunday nights. aud STAYS 50 late that
She yawn~ with wearines-. aa' SAYS She
j. "glad he is gone a. tie door closes
after him. lie "oes home. sleeps little.
appears late NJ the breakfast table next
morning with sort Of shame-fnced
look. bin shes and writhes under the ban
ter Of the family. aud j. ready TO declare
any moment that Fanny is a nice sort
Of girl 10 firt with but a. for being
in love. that is the iarthcst out Of the
question"
In the first place, il is an imposition
on any wel-bred girl TO keep her up
later than halfpast ten O'Clock. when you
have opportunity TO see her often. II
vou always leave her with the wish in
her heart that you had stayed longer.
yoa gain so much. Never ran the risk
OF wcarving her with your presence II
YOU do. she Is sure TO be asking herself
If She wouldn't tire of seeng YOU around
forever. and j. quite afraid she would.
BE lust as earnest and ghtforward
in your loving as in your honorable
dealing with men. Impress your friends
with the worihincsS and seriousness of
vour love. so that vulgar and sen~eless
baniering will appear to them as such.
Love j. religion, the suprcmeSt hap
pine,s. Wear il maniuly and proudly,
but holly.
Woo n woman lravely. IL there is
anything humiliatng 20 q v oman. II j.
To have lover. whom She wi~he- to love
and honor. weak and vapid. over-yield-
ing. and half afraid of her. She longs
10 tell him 10 .'act like a man 4 man
who has not the faculty Of making obc-
dicnce sweet thing. aud making his
own way appear the best way. fails to
possess the secret Of giving or receiving
the highest happiness.
The manly. honest expression Of love
Is devoid of Stiffness or fulsomeness. A
man who conceals or denies his love
from fear of being laughed AZ. j. n cow
e..
for Rachel Is "A record OF love of which
there is no finer or more heroic.
Every good thing in life has is price.
and true woman's love l.. next 10
Heaven. worth the winning. lfany man
doubts this. he may take TO his soul the
uuction that hc never possessed IL. else
was incapable OF appreciating IL; and
for tie love of some women DO not
wonder that men have been willing to
sell their souls
What "A touching. eloquent thing that
WAS OF tine lover who. q little time ago.
stole the body Of his bctrothed to keep
il from burial and placed it IN cave
W here he could see IL and feel it. Peo-
pie called il insanity. IT. might have
been. We do Insane things every day.
.v,nnotlv m .ncr vi:b him. and nom
lis heart SAYS. II don't blame him" lie
ia. ,.,.,.l, ,s',,- ,-.,ned liz bi- int,u.e fool.
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