, 1874-12-28

Gsone1 ~ ~ tls sou iaac unn ,hnir soS ntGaoco muc
~ o,ccis III ono Ia Irn}.cd hv tbo
hirrtnoan ~ iii. a,ttrna ~ c,,t
n"1o' Hv to inourabo % ineajon or Of lhotr ropnrteo
t,,n,' nnco ,nr IN t,ov oiorv in n,ln cinr sn,,,n
,,mfnrtmnotn AMI w,,n c,,nnccd in ia aassn1t In
mini,,t,rn nf thoIr rosnurces. A yn,,nr womnn's
intcl,nHiual ,nolraty IA lin inn,,tjf,ii nrjno ala
,c,,,ot, ra.a thotn VI ,,st arinl',no t1nS
tccnn,o rnn1lv rros1st,hln whe II, to f,if}ess of
t,,c;r apt t,cy a1,rs nw,v % fro,n cnntcntinn In.
fnro thny nro onnosod. "'"'
You soo. CONTRARY to tho us1A, fnallon novadays
a,"eosaf,,i @ n,,lx ,y,cn ov,Sr ionrnnd ,roli liz
ort tnor roniiyo tnn 'ora1tof nat ~ conocnisj
,"iTohno, Tonld iloyo no ot,,cr nn,h.,o com.
narohlc viii, thin' Nat oyon oMr nmrost jmngirn-
t;nms co, n hn hslf ~ ho,v Al far M or ynri oa
fa,l tn prcnnro air yo,nr wonnt, for comnotont
@ o"d ~ satisticd wivcs, thoy nro yn,nsloss. or
cyen nri,ninnlly moclectfu,. Every woman
finally found out Of wifonood, has wandered,
or vet naa eoneoa aon ea bo oecd
tr1;st no ,,1,ion 1t Iii viii occur. As lilo bost OF
nlf nnrthiv hicnsinrs IN TbrIntian wetltook, 80
T11r WORST or ALL CtjnsEs
In A. mntrimouinj failure. These failures arc
coming to bn bv far too frcoucnt in part, or
wholly. owing to mutually defcctiro prcrara-
tiung on the uart of principals Young women
nro jnrnntv rau,,onsib1n fnr tho yo1ur mon who
nrofcr 1ha1n. Preferences arc not given until
fboy aro invited. Mon Whose reHponaes aro worth
entertaining nre invited only by veed affection.
Plain md obtrtBiyo affection In not winning.
Tho most fortunate cloment Of tho fcrnaio
character Ia her Instincts. Sho knows how to do
all delicato things without learning how. Young
women show thor most decided preferences by
their hardest effort not to show any. Tho only
az may ho ncotled to sot Nature oil 10 advantage
Naturo has many sharp corners to be relieved
by rounding thom just littlo. She Inns many
good Intentions to ac1uaint with the ways Of tho
satisfy Of It's mpracticabiltty. There can bo
no ob]oclion to my young woman's rcsorting to
so much Of nrt aa will finish her nature, aud
mnko 1t popular. uor heart maY burn with tho
feryid glow Ct Il full affection, but lot no veil
ho lifted which now concealt lier great acknoMl-
odgment from tho eyeH Of Tho world. Affection
is TOO tentlor ard too costly to be vlowod oftou,
or publicly. tts glowing face md passionate
hnnd mnBt bo kept concealed. Only to soGlo
inuor confidence may this yoil, at last, DO
mutual testimonies Of this high, regard
may bo exchanged, but hardly till then.
Lot no young woman allow Lorsolf to DO OK
hatlstcd Of resources. Never pormit tho most
1eBulntc curiosity, or tho most friendly. concern
10 !'ul tho lowest doptha Of your characters.
serving It. Do ablo to 10 moro beautiful thap
you aro beautiful; to dress better than you do
dross to bo mors agreeable thun you aro aeroe-
abIe 10 smile moro aweoty tllan sou do smile !;
to po Appreciated more than you are appreciated;
lot 1t De said OF you, us it IL said Of 4 book,
II hayo read ith Inst chapteri" or,
40 NO 10 often say Of an Entertainment, ItB
Aurpriacs arc nll now familiar Tloro IL d
fuscnating power Ill
4 LIVING ENIGMA.
So CONCEAL your power aB to oluda tho skill OF
experience to anticipate. Always keep yonr an.
BouatcH iii doubt uB to many oi YOUR subtlcht
intentions. Whom stormy scenes would Iiow