The Kenosha telegraph. [volume] (Kenosha, Wis.) 1860-1888, 1874-01-29


and all ont Of ,ioars looks so lovely. I1u
Wet u ikea walk Don't hope for it.
Only the very vile cru q be guilty OF
~nrh 'niqui'y. Honest, well meaning
people 60 to bed; 80 you sigh for the luz
nry in van; and. taklsg the Kerosene
tnp u hich is IF red yen, meekly go TO
the small. suffy room allotted yen, and
x.sh there were
FEWER ARBITRARY LAWS
+ - govern uns III The ceuntry. You rise
for brra ksast vt 7 o'clock at the very
ast.s' Nothing bur illness, and hat q"
sew, re as to prevent resting At all, could
permit of a In or hour for the matutinai
ne.l. Awful shiftless must be the person
no would think 4 lying in bed until 9
), 10. S, you return after little. Aot
qale So r,nch rstresieJ by your cutting
,s you might havc been. Tie etiquette
aud c,nventlonalities by which you hays
~sn hampered have nearly de sroysd al
tae goo that the frs b pure air and
Change hal guaranteed you.
1t is very &c dom thai questions Of this
X nd arise ia the broader sncisl experi
.ncrsof CITY life As regards one of its
.urns, however,
AN INCIDENT
occurs 10 us when harppued in an East
era clly. A lady, Of whom it wAs not
'osl,ivciy knowe whether an aucestsr of
hrs had cn.a- over in the Mayh ,wer. ~
seen friend IF old Peter Stuyvssaa,,
showed lato q certain nrighborhnnd. and
was called upon and introduce int0 4
CERTAIN Clique. Tney reg rdvd themsslv
As ne creme d. la creme Of society, and
prlded themselves up*n their psrisc'
kaawitdgs If all the etiquette upon
which < cd breeding was suppose oil
based. But who WAS the new-cOmer?
Was rhe = lady, or wAa she not? Sh
We; her manners we're courteous,
even elegant; there was no grammatical
itnperfecslen IN her language; her co.,
duct was pr"priety its T.; sbe had moaa,:
a nd there had be en- H.; So all the
necessary requi meas were fa!f,lsd.
Still. this bedy OF fair DANES became un-
,asy. Their fathers were merchan
princes, and 30 were their husbands; they
tidn't say much about their grandfsthefs |
L WAS terrible dilemma to bs placed |
In, and the question must be solved. The
Arw and where were decided. A lunch |
Was ven, and the ady was invited. It
wss arranged that She sboaId
CUT AND sERvE LEMoa PUDDING
md hsr eligibility o be acccpisd as al
lady, or discarded as "a noosdy, turned
apoB the manner ia which ,his was done.
Ike fatal moment arrived AL eyes were
upon her. Two implements were before
her. knife sd spear. Erch feminine
heart thi obbsd high with b .ps r. ear rs
they were aft cted tsward the tair creature
aron trial. Fortunate womanl ,hs tsok
'hs sps1r; she Was ens OF them. But, had
he taken the kuife, what wvuld have
been the rssulis Drspped, -ixuorsd, -
i'fgntten by these self leotsd censors.
Now with all due re pect Cor the ebssrv
ancss # society, the secret ot true et,quetts
lies far below any of them. 1t is a mat
Ter At the Asart. aud not the head; and lite
whds expression lies 10 the simple intsa-
lion to hurt NO sBe's feelings, no matter
what their station or position. Hsrsis
lies the secret Of all true gosd-brssding,
the soul of all etiquette. II sa slae
The true laiy will o
sss8 NEVER FIND 1T NECESSARY
10 be Arrogant or self asssrtivs. she will
not fear little intercourse with one
whom she may account socially her infer.
or, bcassss sure of herself. of her own
position, tbs unassailabls FROM any eu.
side influence She can afford TO be eourts--
"us at any and all shines 10 the stranger
within her ga.es,-ste the trsdssn,an with
wAoHa she deals the servant whe doss
her bidding She does not fear sggres
aion from the enc, familiarity with the
other,or inpertiAencs fran the last. she
does net dad it necessary to &c around
supsreilioasly, ass On rasr, and seem to
be in a constant stats Of asserting sha.
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