The Tipton advertiser. [volume] (Tipton, Cedar Co., Iowa) 1856-1962, 1874-07-09

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Tor everybody loves me 20.
And God u good 70 me.
sax Days ssall shoa Laber.
Next 70 bed.e - oaly child. Il Is a.
most = disastrous. in many cases. to be
the youngest child of . large household
Too oftsn indslgsns parsnts, who have
urssehs . tAeif other children 70 lab
~ Or Industry. allow the ''favorite" &c
become general ..shirk" when there is
work 70 be done. Nothing develops
much msaner traits il boy or girl. ]
have seen hnlk of . lad sit toastine
before the frs. while . feeble mother
toiled in and ont Of doors, bringing il
wood and perhaps splittiag IL. taking
many nssdless steps 70 valk around biz
gcAsfr vile canning % hss household
avocatioss; vet the selfish boy never
moved, NOT y.,sed : finger TO help her.
Il WAS . sorry sight. but one hardly
knows which 70 censuFe most for such .
sssae o. shisgs-Doshes or soa-
A boy properly brought up would
never do such thing. Bot no growing
Child 10 content 70 sit still and keep
himself out Of harms way Ii ron do
not lind business for him, he viii surely
pick up something TO do for himself, and
boy leis to himself runs into mischief
- naturally - duck takes to water.
There is . merciful adaptation to the
needs Of our very natures in th.t com
manc, .Six days shalt thou labor Few
people regard that - . command equal.
ly with the one TO rest on the seventh
day. 1t 10 . command alike to all, the
rich - veil Is the poor. and man hal
no more moral right to bring up his lad
in idlepess than he has to train him for
thief. Indeed, by doing the former,
lie 10 quite likely TO qualify him for the
latter, or for some career equally bad.
Il hope your Oldest son may prove as
great comfort TO you as mine has TO
me-" SAID blssd and courtly gentle.
man, = hs laid bis hand on little gold
e. head IN my parlor.
His Oldest son was then in college, q
young man of exqaisite address and ap-
pearance, with hands like q lily, and
manners % bland and courteous that
his father could never imagine an evil
thought respecting him. Yet others
knew well the course Of deception he
had been carrying on for years. When
fond parents fancied be was IN church,
be would be longing over cards with
few boon companions in the hay-l
The exposition came at last. The young
man borrowed several gold watches Of
fellow students, gathered up quite sum
Of money, which he held in his own |
right. and considerable more which was
freely loaned hin, and then took :
steamer for Europe. His broken heart.
ed father made good all the pecuniary
losses Of others, but his own heart stab
who could heal!
1t is not enough to hope that our chill.
dren are truthful and honest; we mus.
be watchful as well DO not follow
them with cold, suspicious eyes, but
with loving, earnest interest that will
not allow itself to be foolishly blinded.
1t is no kindness to child to be blind
10 his faults. There is nothing that
brings more discord into family than
Q Partially, which takes all burdens
from one pair Of shoulders, and lays the
double burden on another Pair that may
be more willing to bear it, If Joseph
had not been . most remarkable lad for
goodness, his fathers partially would
have utterly spoiled him. We are no, i
surprised. when we reflect on the aver
age amisbility of human nature, tina,
his brethren hated him all the more al
ter that coat OF many coiors appeared
among them. Il has been much the
same from his day TO ours.
In large household there should be /
BE- wise and just distribution OF the
care and labor, and even younger ones
be early taught to bear part 1t is q
trouble TO teach the little ones, but not
half the trouble it 10 to keep them out Of
mischief If they grow up without indus
rious habits. The child's future IL Of
more importance than the present ease
If those who have i. in charge. and the
dlers in society are its greatest pests.
I is they who form the dangerous
classes" in our great cities, not the hon
ut. hard working poor. If you desire
% have your child grow up useful and
IGNORED, bring him up to real business
If some sort, whether it be Of hand or
brain, not to mere play work. A big
'alary in = business which was mere
'inecure has been the ruin OF many
Toung man, wherein real work might
nave toughened into noble, vigorous ,
manhood
The DeacOn's Grief.
Old Father Rrayne of Syracpso ~ !.