The Kenosha telegraph. [volume] (Kenosha, Wis.) 1860-1888, 1874-01-29

but she 10 rich in possessing herself.
In TACT, these pecpje wh-,1A n most I'm
easy n.respest 70 their csp, .uct and 40
pearance are generally ,hseo uDsaus rseas.
who are anx'nus ~
APPEAR WHAT THEY ARE NOT.
They have lett lhe:r true station aed
probably kind hearts behind them, an
sre merely superclllaus aha aas,- s,eca,,s,,
they cannot realize b Nv much il, ,Islo L.
natural and true. These are the ipeo,gd
who are afraid Of COMMUNICATION wink
what they are pleased 10 consider IL,
lewer trders. A fellow Iseiny, instsao
OF making them wondrous Kind, make.
hem woAdrous arr gan. AID un.as,
They are impaIed apolr the isatei ooks
of hat they consider stlqietse, ,.n,i ar
Gore afraid OF what they are p}eased 10
consider solecism 10 good Iaapners THAI
they IRE OF coming ingrasiiuis or beng
guilty OF falsehood. They setlay them
selves wherever they 60, aud are shield,
in soul, as we'll as IN purse The, hay.
not yet learnedlhat he frat Law t,f zoos.
breeding i.a as .$tag
CONFEDERATION OF THE FEELINGS Or
.s@ OTHERS; 'at taa ..es
that the simple esuntry.w@man, VIII has
never been Uu,side the lIial.s~t her .sw,
village, may have more innate fobli Va
soul, may he far more perfect lady, .iial.
Mrs. Millionaire, with her speaeock' /
p'umage. f 8Hfa adl bna3
Therefore. d" we see how little, aft. ]
all, do conventional rules 8hays To ds
with perfect good bresiing. If a person
10 unex! ectsdly Introduced into d fer
ant sptsre of life rom that o which 81.
nus oSsn accustomed, il she 10 really ;
LADY at heart, she vii net be aggressive
"r bolsf'rens, but quietly watch th.s.
around her. and ascdmmodate herself t.
'he new circum 'tances. Nodes y, purity,
and csrtaia re poet FIR ones neighoor.
wsuld then seem to be
THE FUNDAMENTAL 4aINcIPLEs.
upon which the charsster of a lad, or
gentleman is buiIr; and not q few arbitra
~ social rules. Nor is The leveling pin-l
cess at all necessary to establish his |
Truth is sine qua MN. and lso an u,te,
sbr"gation Of stame Not that it i
NJ cesssry to "wear sns's heart upon sne ;.
sleeve for DAVIS to peck at" or To tell
mes private history and possible da |,
sacrifices TO the world at large. TIL.
modesty of which, we speka as a. prmar,
element would forbid that. but preteac.
under say form never confirmed position
When Harlet Bsecher Stowe was in yityd
to meet certain celsbrItirs at dinssr q,
the Duchess Of sntherland's, she asked
II there were any special fnrms to b.
observed which she,i her different sphsr.
would naturally be unacqaainted witb:',
ana received fer answer hat "The rule.
ct go"d breedisg were very N uch the
same w. 5U3 aa fss#g sas@489
~ ALL OVER THE woRLp,p ia
20 far as regards the mere forms Of so
c'cty. these are true; hut in spite Of her
nigh estate, III spite of her beng bern in
lac purple, the numerous evictioas. upon
tAe estate Of the noble lady in question.
"f helpless tsnAntry, would almost lead
onehothink that Her Grace might be
somewhat wanting in trus womanlinpss,
not be a perfect lady af.er our
rule. However. that is ASIDE from the
'uhject, except in reference TO our argu-
ment tina, DO perfect good breeding can
exist, no matter how closely the minut,m
of social etiquette may be- observed, when
= disregard of the rights,or even of the
feelings, of she humblest,is allowed to
obtain. WhenpeopIe so far forget them
selves as to be obtrusive and lm pertinent,
t may he necessary 80 pat them down;
but the true lady will del quietly gently,
and with periecs dignity. If it falls to
her lot, as It may to any one Of as, TO tell
smother unpleasant truths. the manner
will soften the matter, and the wsand be
healed as soon a. made. 'f8"" ~ "8R*
So we see that outside accessories have
LIYTLR TO 10 "'"s '.@*
with true etiquette; and that, while Ger
tain sociel laws help to oil the machinery
Of life. they are not absolutely indispenss-
tie to genuine good breeding. That is