, 1874-08-23

| supposed to bo the weaker TesseI; TO llaF
nerves that are, easily tlisarraneed; ;.to feel #
tisue sooner: and yet you resoiutey. and wit
malice uforethourlt, deny the modern Adam III
special prerogat .se his absolute authority az tn
strongest, aod assnme your own and hs slar
| OF parental duties. ~ hate q nolly-cotld1e Tor
lluaband. I dout want man interfering III th
kitchcn," is the very natutat opinion of mos
women. The present writer quite agreen wit
you. Fussy men arc iutoerable. and tho mn
who unnecessarily inyades the kitchan quite do
| eerves to be adorned With the Order Of the Dish
cloth: but isu't tbero juEte mil1ieu?
"1,ut he, Adam, has to so down town, aad ba
all the pecurtarv caro- OF the household" il
urged on the other hand when, as Grand Seig
| neur. he orders and expects everything to be II
| readiness for or to wait upon lis Serene High
ness. Admitted; and We have often found It il
our hearts to wish that every woman WAS, Al
some time of her life, obliged to provide for thu
| pecuuiary wants Of herself and some one else
She could then sympathize fully aud intelligIbls
with that husband. She would know how hard
| it was to realize that ONO must live. md yel
| there might be no income to do it on. II
would teach many oil idle woman the USE
lesEncss. the w1cKc5ness, OF vain 1rett1nG
about t.ltlcs. It would make them
STRONGER AND EETTEn;
but it might open lJeir eyes ul5o to other mat
ters. Such women, who lad to labor for their
support no dount would have, at the sa.no time,
to ill not only fathers, bnt d mo,her's place
Ill the family. Days given to business. aud
nights to rest, aud cigars, or pipe7 By no
1neuns: Days spent over . ledger, aud nights in
manufacturing dresses, bouncts, mud other
articles of apparel; IarslnS stockings; It might
even be dong extra laundry work, that all might
lie lit aud sce1ny for her and hers. So Oh late
into tho night. Fancy o man acting as ilB own
tailor and hnttor after tho days clerical work
dane, Or ironing Lis shirts. 10 say nothing OF
cooking his meals and washing the dishes.
Can't you hcnr tue Eroa1ls lie would uttcri
Don't your cars turn with tie echoes of his To-
dundallt aud pu1lGent remarks when tic starch
sticks: Yet uhy should Ite not !? Why il it that
su,uc woman il always to be found WHO il ready
To rolcyc him OF tLeso supafiiuous cares I Many
woman has her own aud her c1ilirc1l's liviE,,
L, earn. aud Ill the other, work which would fall
to her lot, Lcside, to attend to.
That carries us back to our original ass,1snI>-
tio,,. that it in tic nursery cidtgy. s1o aid be
educated to bo
AMn1-SAIUnEn AS WELL As Aa1Er-lECTEnED.
Epicuro only III this: that in OF necessity,
or when it should prove desirable. they may
fulfill the duties which custom las ascribel to
each. Whether man shall be help to his
wife. nuisance and O worry, depends entirely
upon the women who wait upon the young
Prince when he arrives. Get down o,,.your knees
to him; bend your heads beueath his feet; teach
him lie is supreme, that lie is to be waited upon,
that sisters must yield to him in everything;
and you will succeed III making him the latter.
If YOU are without girl. don't expect him to
peel potatoes or wipe dishes. That is girls
work, remember. Do it youraef, if YOU faint by
the way. even ii he might do it we'll; and
then, il he ma-1lcs and fortune frowns, aud lie
has 4 scRly. wife. Why, he will have cnancct to
choose second in little while. 1t ti5qulte pos
siolo that you are, to certain extent,
III acc0mpHce in that first w1fos murder; that
hat you took tho initiative but never mind.
You brought your son up in manly way. and
Goals or lighting tire, whlo you aud the girls
could do it. You did not teaol, him to glory il
lis strength and show 1t in helpful ways. lie
earned to skate, hy kite. play ball, aud amuso
himself. while you toilcd. If lie grumbled ut
our humble farc. yon went without, aud denied
'ourae!f tia: le might have something 4 little
octtcr, until he grow to consider it not prlvi-
cgc tlt a right; and. all Ills lifc his tastes I
It1s. be consulted, let who might suffer or 70
Without. Would 1t not have bcen q little better
0 have assured him that what was good eno1.Sh !
or you, LIS mother, lis superior in age, was |
Iuite s:oo!i enoagh for him
When men are ntolerant, tyrannicnI. or fusBv, !
o1ue NDl.l1 ut Some tnne
HAS BEEN TO BLAME FOR IT. |
Tue old alage. that lie uu6eliish mother makes |
he selfish Child. and vice versa, is, in certain /
e,.sc, true, except that it it, perhaps not al |
,nys unsei1ish,less that makes women abneeate
themselves to their children In many cascs it |
merely unother phase Of self-loye. Let the |
'reoent generation heed it, then. When the
'onng Prince comes. let him learn that. after |
III, He IL otlls Tue queens SOD. ana size la su-
'rcmo that 1t Is both his duty aud privilege to
crve her to the bess OF his ability: If her Hing
om is very small and poor, 90 much moro will !
lie need his help. remember now Il young lad !
l1nost grown to manhood, at the head of his t
hub Il all athletic spnrte but tender aud help l.
L! & woman to liA invalid mother. Another, !
little Prince. only years old. taught al !
ays to wait upon his little year-old sister first
Ladies first Mamma ?? " he will query. "Yea,
lways. W,llie.' Educate the babies, especially
c Princes, properly, and
THERE WILL BE no TROUBLE.
reach equal wages, suffrage, and anything
lee you WANT OF think You walt H tbs nursery;
ud. if you have time enough TO STAY ut home
Id attend to it., dercnd upon it your boys will
row up with different notions from their faith
rs. A crusade through the nurseries. aud ser
IONS to young mothers, are tho surcss road 10
iccass, Susan. and even you may live to see all
our pet scheulcs realized. H.,