, 1874-11-28

! combat, will 1oarn 10 distinguish between TIM
tfuo and tho false, aud ilnu inclination walk
hnnd md l'nud with tho dictates Of ronaon ind
hlrs. Croy hsH hit Upon tho exact truth In tho
1nat,er.. When two pcopia como together in tilo
apiit OF mutual loro aid respect, With lie cot,.
| sctousncsa TINT lilo WIS neant for duty. aud not
for pleasure, ana with tho understanding that,
III TUG GLOBE Intimacy botweon 1nntl and w1fe..
happiness will bc tho result Of mrtuai forbonr.
ai'ee and n'utna! Aervce nnt aoit-sacriico rathcr
tllan o! Mutual rcrfoctions, tho exnorinuro Of
"auaou lte. even With those WHO ase In many
rehpeets lhcompatib!e In taste, disposition. md
education. Will 10 rich tn tue swce,ost aI,d pi,rcst
loys Of earthly nx'stenco. Ihip ne one anoihey,
y tho Junction which should bo continual ID
so h,t1ia q snnrried couple. It In tho purpose
1of "!oh tioy should bo joined in lastiig bonds,
w, ateaatly adhered 10, It will Gail Git aud cn-
ness ai,t! happiness.
but it neesls long aud right training before
marriage Is entered inso. to iisura Its heat TO-
suits. lhoro must bo very two before thoro eau
must havo diati,rt and decided characters, ii,
ofder tAat tllcro may be IN equal aud larmo-
fsoun copartnershp. Much st1ess IL laid upon
this necessity by Mrs. Croly, N no doyotca SOW
ornl preliminary chapters to Z consideration Of
tue lnettuds Ut thought aud practice that
snould 10 required by both acxo. in curly lifo,
to secure happineas III tloit rclatlouB to oauh
utliof. lilo essential qualifications Tor mar
sngs, as snn1nofa'od by hot, ara health, self
rel;anee, Judgment, trafh,. consideration aud
forbearanco. mud indl1utry. Individuals ouaowcd
with lAeec cardinal virtuea arc Httoa III tue best
posglhle manner for profitable a,,d coutented
life, whol,cr they cnooso 10 spend 1t III celi0acy
Or raasr'nsonT. l. sound ,nina iu souud body, n
Just ounldouco in one's owt powers, nabita Of
careful observation and right dlHcernmont, Of
sincerity Rnd ioyAty, Ut charity and PATIENCE,
and OF telllgont aud c!llcisnt activity, t3lrsj,
forth man us woman for successful oiior1 III any
sphere Of human llto aud lator. Il ip not too
much to nsk TINT tucae qualifications should Ge
possessed By overy canaiuaio Tor marriage. Tn.
der I'll dluAry circumstances It iH possible fur
the education Of children to be so conducted
thnt, nilen an adalt ass Is reached, thoy shall
have all thoHa requirements unlor firm aud full
coatto!. TIA M end .orth tho dihgont exertiun
Ut parents and instructors, and mora aud moro
EonerhllY. We NAV trust, nb books 1llse the pres.
ent are multiplied Aud leedcd, will it DO capable
If reai2Ation.
M,a. Croly sposka in open and uniliBCuisst
honesty on avery point OF !o, subject that cumoA
uLdar discussion. Her wUrds are plsin, aud
strong, aud Inspiring but the Importance OF
hor iheue. aud tho carnrs,tlosB Of ter purpose,
FULLY wurlant tlem. Tho pungency uf ho, style.
auI tue drltt uf her teacl1tus, lnsY IL gathered
lrutn tho following random quotation;
Ihe indulgence Of appetite, tho passion for drsss
and df4ilay. tie sacrltce of every truthful aud
nomuny confederation Ut Tho shrine Of fashion. now
conou nfunR American girls pf every aeHree IL full
tf the aaltes auYUries for thu future. Wv cut hntt
no mothers until wo can laws women who prize their
wonlanhosd lsyona false hslr, calkcd complications,
!alnted eyebrows "hite hands, aud xtunted feat. We
tAn laya nefthrr wives nor 1no.hcra until we have
women who think mora uf ru.h lu,lor, sincerity. sud
thu purity VI all untantud fe tAau Of jaWoa mud ates,
Gio hausts, aud personal bsluty nde up Of disgrace
iu sialns. Ilore than this, AHye manhood
wnIui thu n-Ius until ne arAt hayG u true sud rurt
~on,snhuod. capAbe Of living its Life, aud Bet,lg
Itself sgauts lid vices and noaktasev common hs
age.
1t Ia social life rhich forms tbs heart OF b,,-
mautJ, xna s healthy unhealthy colluitlrn tlo-
ternliMes the htsts Of Tho rrat Of te Byate1n Tie
growing tcndoucy 10 sclfbh indulgence Of all kinds IL
ua,1cssn2 u unosrliJ aud physically. Ths breaking
up OF homer, The subsdtuton q h'ardtngho!'se snd
eEstauraut life public corruption. and want oi public
Integrity. arc Ill evidences Of Il.
Wunluu can STEM this tide Of national ip!quity:
they ckn preserye IN our country tAaxe ELEMENTS or
flts, honot, devotion, rereona purity. xnd love Of
ruth, whirh founded Iud n,as II waE 1t l,ss bpe.
VIII they net dott7 Or nst 1t futni tile destiny Of
other na.ionE Ise to greatness and stnk IL decay In
tie sbJ4s created by 1t. own rottenusss3 The yong
nomvu Hle read tAfa shall answer.