Saint Mary's beacon. [volume] (Leonard Town, Md.) 1867-1983, 1874-06-04

How TO KEEP A Wires LovE.-Manv
men. believe. would retain the warm af.
fectiou and romantic love Of the women
they marry much longer. IL they would
express the tenderness they feel ofteuer.
Woncn love to hear things talked about.
They like to hear . husband say that he
loves. over and over again. They like
to have him tell them. in plain terms.
that he misses them when they are absent.
They like compliments that come from
the heart. however free from vanity
And little praise Of dress. or faco. or
manner is a mighty comfort to one who
has given herself to one man for life
time.
Il is said that women have more imag-
ination than men. but In matters Of love
scarcely think that it is so. Man will be-
lievc in womcn's love with far lcss visi-
bic token Of it than il necessary to prove
his tenderness to her. She wants moro
speeches and longer letters than he DOES.
The moment Of promise and vow must Be-
supplemented by many fond words scat
terc oil through her life. else grieviug'
doubts creep into the soul. A term OF
endcarment. . pct name. some little token
that she is to him what no other woman
is. will make her feel her ma,rimony .
happier estate than the mcrricst time Of
girihood. And If in public he shows 9th.
er women that he csteems her and values
her society. jealousy can never poison her
life and his also.
There is great deal Of talk about wo-
men Glowing forever" however the man
they love may turn out. II is true ia
one sense; he may be a rascal to other
folks and not ALLEVIATE her tenderness; but
once convince any highspirited woman
that her husband is false to her, that no
loves her no longer. has = romantic
friendship"-.he worst Of oil firsstions--.
With another woman. and in place Of love,
comes on emotion too cold 10 be called
hate. and that puts stronger barrier BE-.
tween them than anger can raise. 81.
lence is apt to foster the doubts that bring
this feeling ui.h it. Often just saying.
"You arc better. swee,er, dcarer than any
one else" would save her. But man. az.
ter boyhoci. rather shrinks from wordJ
love-making. He thinks that his wife
should take his affection for granted. eyen
il he sits in the corner whispering to Miss
Flip With his back to her all the evening,
and lets het put on her shawl herself
while he interests bimself in Miss Flip1
boa. s t
Little words. little deeds. little thought.
fulness. would ward OF many OF those sep.
.raiions' which blight 50 nnany liscs. Trd.
iy. these come Of great things. bot little
Omissions often lead to them. b. this
neglect he spoils her temper. and the spoill
temper drives him from her At last. aud
turns her 6r.t foolish suspicious into real
ities.
Co-crRaArrox OF TIE wGfe.- M maa
ever prospered in the world without tho
cooperation Of his sife. II she uni,es
in mutral eudeavors. or fesards k;s la
bors sith IN endcaring smile. uith what
confidence will hc resort to his occupa-
ton. meet difficulty; and enoountes dan.
ger, il be knows that he Is net spcRdinR
bis strength 10 vain. but thas his labor
will be rewarded BY tho sweets Of home.
Solicissde aad disappointment enter the
history Of every mans life. aud he is bsso
half provided fof bis 20, age vho 6n's
bas aa sssoeiass fos ,hsppy hours. ~Ehs
fer his mosshs Of dasksess asd dislrcss CO
sy"rssh's'"s partner is P~earsa. -