The new North-west. [volume] (Deer Lodge, Mont.) 1869-1897, 1873-10-25
BEAUTY n Aw et.
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desirable vif,. and il il certainly not . joy
forever II il apt 10 develop spirit "f
coqurtry that je"pardises domestic peace.
and 20 stimulate others than the husband Z"
gHllaniry y trifc too tender for the tran
guilty Of home Coquetry. too. is cxpen.
sivr. and likes 70 army i,sclf In beautiful
attire; then often the one pair Of eyes nc
longing TO the husband are not deemed
enough for such elaborate decoration. and
the appreciation Of other eyes is sought for,
and Il" often found. The splendid woman
attracts too much attention, and clicits too
many comments. for the husband Of a quiet
turn. The ,rse proverb that beauty 10 only
skin deep Is particularly applicable to the
man for marrying woman with such
gift, For six months Of married life the
ordinary looking wife may look Is hand.
s"me us her more favored sister. There is
certain kind Of vanity in some men. how.
ever. that finds compensation for the loss
Of their own admiration in that which their
wives produce in Others. who are thus. to
some extent. married for the galleries, -
". il rs themselves. The beautiful woman
creates her greatest impression in the be.
ginning. ard il she has not the amiable and
mental traits essential to command esteem.
in time her heSu,y comes IL be common
place. r" maintain the first impression re-
qnir's unusually good resources. The
ordinary looking wife, possessing these r..
sources. like good winc improves with age
The beautiful wife is generally too con.
scious Of the charms Of her person and
should she be disposed to forget them.
there nre always people who never fail to
remind hrr Of them. Familiar with gen.
c'si admiration. II anything goes wrong in
the family circle. snd her conduct does not
meet with the husbands appreciation. she
is inclined I" think that every one but her
husband finds her without blemish. In
such case, she is accessible 10 regrets ut
not having selected one of her old and con.
slant admirers. who always found her per.
feet in oil that she said and did. Naturally,
the gallant choir Of her maiden days were
never capable Of telling her that she was
naughty under any circumstances, but al.
ways sang the one fSvoritc cir about her
resplcndent love!incss. The symphony Of
old times becomes more mcloli0us contrast.
ed with the Iisc"ri~nt SOLO of the reprov,ng
husband, which she listens to with i'll.
disguised petulsnce. In . word, in such
Of chagrin che is apt to lind all
the world agreeable excep. Der husband.
There il u general rule Of life thst the
durable should Ike preferred to the snowy,
and with limitations it applies 10 the choice
u wife. The h"rem belle. when asked
what her occupation WAS, replied that II
was 10 he beautiful: but the requirements
of the Yves, src greater than those Of the
Orient. The man s'S'n makes up his mind
o. Ia whsi he Mdmires and desires in the
physique 1T ~"'nsn. but II requires more
time for him 10 come to conclusion as I"
what j, essential to his happiness in mental
qualities /, may he pretty safely adopted
~ rule. that the woman should have mind
enough 10 comprehend that Ut her husband,
u share his plans, and to sympathizc with
him in his daily occupation. The absence
of sufticicu. intelligence to do this often
leads to an enlargement, for ignorance Of
the husbands occupation implies ignorance
Of bis financial res"uras. Familiarity with
the husbands business enables the wife to
regulate the outgoing u the incoming. and
tends TO reprcss unreasonable demands, and
unpleasant di. cussion. In this respect, the
wife is behind the French one,
who is generally well acquainted with the
practical affairs Of life. and is as compc,cn,
70 protect the interests Of the family o the
husband himseIf-a trait greatly f".t1cl by
the code. which places Woman on the esn,e
legal footing as the man. Thus to know
when the purse Is full snd when 1t is empty.
IL hin Of knowledge that contributes
much 10 the pleasure Of married life