The Jasper weekly courier. [volume] (Jasper, Ind.) 1858-1922, 1871-03-03
From h. ,,ae-.s4a As-tcai,arisl.l
Tic WIZ f..n yo:.nsFarmer.

.fS W Ky Rs- a. AN..-f =
Nj Seem 70 agree That arming caavot
hc carried on very probably ~ man
WHO has lutiabenl u,lna h,seN labor auo
hired supervision inside the house. y ~
not "lfcclt.c 10 ordinarily paid hoGSc-
Keeper VIII look after ihe odds ana end,
with sufficient ccO,.omy." Then an ox-
racrslnary houSckecpef. who docs al
tend to nli tie little details that save ex-
penscS. aud add "a lie profits OF firm-
ing should receive more tiens .osdinagy
compensation. should size not. even
though size goes ~ tie name of "vic. F"
"Ilui a VIE. yoi say. ''Nll do all iiaf
for love, Eot iornuNpH.' y es. she viii,
indeed. ior! oyr." There is 10 telling
how much woman will do II She is
eirc 0f her lgsbanl'. lose, and ii She
loves in return.
i3usiny dear Young fIrm5ron the look
OFT .or suitable hclpmcci. want 10
whisper few sistrgly words IN your
car. Don't marry iutt for the sake OF
getting q housekecper. 80 vow not sec
tia: il is the worst kind oil cheating TO
tel { Young woman that you love her
VIXEN YOU are really intending 10 make
Of her an unpaid upper servant: Eot
thai Wanl YOU 10 pay your wife 4 SER
wants wages. II would 10 better tol
give lcr tie rank OF 4 partner in ilc
ooi.ccrn. iuta truc marriage is not
mere business transaction. II is love
affair. True love is Gmenable 10 reason. 4
When any person Of tie opposite SEX
ATTRACTS you. ask yourself what rart Of
your nature i moved. AID whether Tic
influence YOU feel Is cltvuiing or lower
in". Jol c j, something more than mere
seXral passion. 1t is more Than mere
fancy. i is choice in which The heart
and intellect arc agreed.
i it'll this definition oc love IN mind.
l s'olli shy. instead of giving 4 cata-
logu % The peculiar virtues farmers :
vie slIoE:i possess. marry tic woman
Non goycsiE a.fer Mi intimate Gcgaainl-
nncc, you both, believe. on reasonable
grounds. hat you can be happy tos.crh-
rr. Learn each others tastes. lalits.
plans and hopes. and seriously consider
loa YOU are going 10 keep the rot boil
ny All the better for yoi, bnih IL tie Y.
Dnc Won marry has practical EuowieIgo
lgc (: Lui ii she j. 4 good and sensible
woman. and If you arc a rood and sem
siblc man. you may be able 10 get along
very happily. tl!ough She las al her ex-
periencc Of housekeeping TO get after
j would not ADVISE any Young
rouple to try this, but far worse mis-
takes arc possible.
Ii is a hazardous thing 10 rest your
hopes Of happy married life upon the
quality Of butter and bread woman
can make. Some perfect housekceperl
may make You the most wretched of
mcn. And it Is silly thing to he scared
out Of natrimony BY any young wom-
ans wardrobe. Let her know tie good |
and sensible girl whom you love Il just
what your circumstances orc. and she
will conform TO them without n mur-
MIR: that l.. IL size loves you rs | sup
pose. You will be astonislcd to $50
how long she can make her nice dresses
last without looking Old fashioned or
shabby. II youlovc and uiarry wom-
an who is essentially silly and selfish.
you will have 10 take the evil fruits of
such character. and this is why say
make characterize test--not accomplish
mciu of any kind, nor cxic rnal circum-l
stances though all these things should
be duly considered.
1t IL possible that your manhood ~
which Is OF rather more Importance than
Your farm may find the best compile
mcnf in the woinanhood Of one who has
n decided talent, that calls her away
from The business of housokeepcr.
Shall she bury her talent for your sake
Have you such genius for The business
,orhlavc chosen as she has for her art.
whatever it may be? Perhaps you can
arrange matters so that each may follow
h CHOSEN vocation without interfering
with the other. Most people in giving
advice 10 young farmer, would say
seek q vic who is healthy, energetic,
thorough, practical, and amiablc. On
tho whole, after all these remarks. dare
not give adviee-Eot even the advice OF
Punch TO those about to marry: Don't"
Tor how do know what experience is
best for any soul?
FAITH ROCHESTER,.