The weekly Panola star. [volume] (Panola, Miss.) 1857-1881, 1871-04-01

wife. qu4 q longlnr. hunyrriug void
10 ber heart willn bc dllci Men
sto 10 not .iily th.msase. anil
NE naiars " woman, niay never
hope 70 spproueh her mot sacred,
iuner soul without dssrcfatiug anil
irampling ulpn precious, beautiful
lowers, which whcu uudcrsi3od
yield the richest perfame % liic.
Love at fr,t sight ia not The lind
ofdcyo,ion which my be clioi upon
10 brave The storms Of n lifetime I;
lbut when The heart couvsclr with
judgement and reason A. 10 the
adap.ability Of natures aud ,spos-
tions, and almost heartily approve
the choice, then NAY mauor wo-
man believe IN lifelong happiness
Woman must have greater risks
in the matrimonial compact than
men, but both need 10 ponder the
steps well bctoretaSing il. a young
man who has no settled purposes or
principle, no habits OF industry,
economy or ambition. to be some
body in the world, ueed not expect
TO become a happy husband. For
| lifhe marries a woman Of whom lie
Is worthy, she is not fitted to make
n good wife. And ifby chance asil-
tly loyesick idea enters tho head of a
really good girl who niarries him
against the judgement OF loving par
cnts, his own unsteady life will plant
the weeds of discomfort and unhap-
piness where flowers might have
blossomed, la.I asde.s8 dlG
Such man cannot know what
real happiness is. If q woman de-
scends in marriage sooner or later
she must, be, dragged down to the
level of her husband, no matter how
high her ambitions, how noble hor
purposes, how fitted to shine among
the cultured alfd refined. p I A
To find the right one1 9f @ inq
Al, TINT wcrea difficult task in
deed. I.,,-0,,i
Only the uncertain Future can
prove the choice wise one, or that
hearts have been deceived, sac
rifccd upon unworthy altars, or
thrown upon the world for sympathy
and kindness. W k
Love curdles at such unfoldments!
And the world gives to disappoint-
cd hungry-hearted womanithe sym
pathy Of the dcstroyer-the protcc-
ton that wolvesglv to lambs.
Ol,it is fearful thing to lovo--
opening Heavens gato Or helfs.
Friendship were far safer. nwon
/ Even in choosing life companion
deep, earnest friendship based on
harmonious natures and tastes, is a
most secure foundation for a life
happiness. 'a5Ala Y ,ta'ah iA17
I9s Then love viii follow Not the
impetuous,sweeping tempest tossing
love, a passion which spends its tu-
ry,anIl in The calm which succeeds
reason guides, to tue basis, Or rail- al is
lost-but a deep, heayen-blessed
union oflives, ofpurposes, of inter-
'csts, which make two hearts is one
and every day one ofisunshinc. boz
Appreciation, sympathy in sher
noblest thoughts aspirations, q
soul to walk side by side in closest
communion IS What a, woman needs,
beyond the every day Kindness and
thoughtfulness, for creature comforts.
Y But oh, how thankful wouId mh.
titudes of noblcatwomen close the
innertemple toball butsGod, II their
husbands would only speak, kindly
sometimes, and not treat them like
slaves Of passion, aud servants Of
their viii ai''' .s''fA A'' "l4 y
sWso5man gives all to The man She
snarries. IIc holds the dearest
hopes Of her life in her hands.
And how often does she pray to
God, bathcd in the niseryof pegr
lcct and broken VOWS, that he will
have mercy, and take back the life
given only to torture and US ffering
Thoughtlcss husbands know not the
sadness which liyesin the hearts of
their patient, waiting wives. "iasA
~ And there are secrets of broken
hearts charged,in a Higher Record
against men -whom the world fat
ters and introduces tea new wife,
while the first SHOWS are falling on "a
grave. 80. .,s,...,,
More kind in their cold purity
covering. her from tic, frost aud blast
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