The New York herald. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1840-1920, 1871-06-26

that he u humbethis Is bad TO tho one praised and
good deal worse TO the one that praises. In reli
standing depends on their regularity. They 20 as
custom requires and call IL DEVOTION That there Is
from love OF conformity aud appreciation is CERTAIN
In art literature the love or praise as predomi-
nant element. is imposious, and | DON'T bellows
WHO THINKS WHEN uE WRITES
or speaks, or paints OF the effect 1t VIII have Oh
others will ever succeed, and the weddings who
fiji literature those who never eau forget Them
selves. 1t Is impossible TO root out this quality ana
you can never cure t. IN
attempts to eradicate deep faculties resultA
IN ,s 1rvn9 them In making ~ them Deeper YOU
Men attempt TO stop passions by damming them up,
They have not yet learned that when
GOD BUILDS HUMAN NATURE
He builds SO that men can't unbuild. Passions can
De regulated. but they cannot be eradicated Let me
laughs me to scom; but let me get the BIT In hl3
mouth ana /! laugh him TO scorn. 50 the love q,
ersse sooa out you San Ca
down faculty, or watch GOWN faculty, or resolve
down faculty, but you can regulate.
WE WANT TO KEEP ALL WE HAVE, -
and regulate it. The love of praise ought to WORT
with Ideally. What men do Is never equal to what
them, but very poor when preach them. So he
who has this inspiration Of Ideally Is kept from self
cOnoeir. For man to ike to be praised for MS
knowledge by the ignorant is unworthy 1t is betteF
to put your effort beyond any mans requtsitl0n It
a Should y You M
praise thus allied with tho moral nature will lead to,
eternal and infnitc excellence. vulgar love OK
praise rends to draw man down; right love Of
praise lifts HIM up
PARENTS OUGHT TO DEAL MORE WISELY
with their children In the matter OF praise than theE
do. Some govern by praise without any scruplc "a
to the truth 1t scandaOus for parents to bring u
children In this way. Others go te other exgrome.
and refuse to praise the child at ell II the child Is
extremely delighted with its brilliant new shoes Off
the shoes come, and the oORrsesr are put In thelr
place. The love Of beauty Is natural, and it should
be minlsscred to. no man Is convinced BY hunger,
that food is not good. 1t requires an Infinite degree
OF patience Study children and find out the best
Things for them; but II II Is too much trouble to,
properly educate your children 1t should have beeh
roo MUCH TROUBLE D
to become parents. Young men are lured into bad
habits by love OF praise or fear or blame NobOdE
ever learned to smoke because he loved tpbaccJ.,
Men smoke, and because boys can't be men any
other way we see cigars going round the stroetl
with boys attached to them. There Is nothing
saider than the destruction OF hecatomDS or young
men unless 1t Is the indifference OF all OF u5 TO the
destruction. They 20 down, thousands OF them.
every year, tho best and the brightest and We 60 on
Gs II there were no
BREAKING HEARTS.
What are men that their praise should drive rs
over the precipice OF destruction! Look to God.
and at every step remember that the praise Of 00d
II 1t be not loud Is strong ana deep and lasting and
believe that the drawing Of Ills he0rt Ia more to
you than the drawing Of any earthly heart.