, 1870-07-31
d.rIltlc1ncn,4 EslyOriic~.

These arc Of two kin:s--thc briyt. wac,.l
who a.nuEe them. and the symratheti" or.
who love them. But these lest src Of 4 lo;:bs-
ful-what country rccrle call "c..ancy -
openly, who foil in lnys too seriously, OF. Ve--
hars, unaeked altogether, berg mere .iSe1vta
initiate hnd disgust than to charm Ii1t the
bright, animated women. @f.n know llnw to
iaih aEa do no,t preach. who say suaaciacs
slungs III an lsinoeens way, who are eleycr
aenre; qurk ia follow iena wilsn
sl.cnn them, anil who knaw the lif-
fercrre hstween hasinage and earnest
nes., flirting AID seripus Intentions
u.rse arc he women liked By. nen, Erd
uEoae eccial succces in no w'sc depends on
tl:er aeautr. OF one thing, the cterer wo7.a1,
Hlo wants to he gen:iemar's fsroIi:e mus.
always he easeiui-to keep .hat half step il
tho rear which alone Eecont.iie4 lur:l +, her
superiority Of wit. She must not slime 70
:a,:cl OF her owr hight Is by contact with
theirs and her most brilliant salilcs night to
canyeY the impression Of being Struck t,.tt Ly
them rather thnn Of being elaborated l,y her
ftH alone suggested By what had goue be-
f,,rc. il improved on fer their advantage.
Else she ttfenls tlle masculine selF-1ov=,
rcver rlow 10 take frc, and Ga;Es an clement
al hardness and Fclf-aRsertioa 1ncom-
:,atib1e with her character Of faenrite.
Not that men dislike al! kinds Of
r.lt-aetertion. The irreTre.4itle lis!;s woman,
with l,tr trim waist nii jsNnt? ais, ?e7t, pref
~, dc tisnt, ,wo laSLe in the face Of the tur1y
el.cet1lan wEo could cru.h her lt,tween his
fj.lcer md thumb sad to whom roH-5 and har-
:'.ls are things I" BE- skipped over or dtTctl
,;.,,!er, as The case nlay Ie-esle s..o Is all
Lcul tes aid self-a>strtiGn like iits,e bantam.
ae!rc moet frequently gensleGan'st -as.-".
I'd encouraged in her ssscy to!:Sa-,l1"ss.
IIrn ii ere is tho sr.ccfu1- fra ;s;., -wAn
s,rekel Wotaat:, w:,o . generation $50
,,.;.d have teen enc os the Dell,
:lusic ari. iiue feeling, a,.i, OF a ,:c1ic.s:
- refined that nature walld 1l.vi,
! I'd to be vailed and lo,eG down to the SUBJ
'ued Icy proper for tho graceful crc1trra to
s,sePt.. Ao~.a-dAss she punges eolalv into
TIC lriGft ct the most tremendous realism. is
FIJI asient advocate for wernan's rights. and
II rms and tho like, 10 advocate doctriue. ~
title in harmony with the kind of being che il
- would be 4 diet Of horseilesh and brandy.
?:ut She ge:: her following; and men who do
,st agree with her delight to get her OF on
lt- favorite topics, jus, a. women like u Fec
cat to tLl harmless dummy the experiences
| HEieh have been read to t.1e-n.elrea.
Tl.se two claAs.e of teif-a<.e1tiou
IT. mete playa which nmuse
| ,cen: but when it comes 10 reality. and l. ne
| .oEeer play-when man is l1a:c to fee
! IEE4A, ASE'ttE$ ~ AAD EtHS -
| .,eman-he meets then with something he
,:ci'ker likes nor ehsily forgive.; and il rucl
;. woman hst the aseauty OF Venus, she Nouae
rot be gentlemen'e favosite OF the right SUIT
:Lousn some Of course would admire her i'm
,nenselr. snd do their best to spoll and MAKE
foo! OF her.
A gentlemen. favnate OF the right sor
rust, among ther things, be well up in th'
:srh!ence Of flirting, and know how to taxi
u at exactly its proper value. She must b
stie to accept .broad compliments. or mon
.;.ltle 1ove-naklns, without either to-
..1:oua an acceptance or 400 grave depre
sis,icn. This iss great srt, aud one thai
':.'se than any other, pn.s men At their ease
stl se,s :he machinery of pleasant insescouEs
Z: harmonious action. Never to sho~ whethe
lie is resllr hit OF not: neser to give fo
ec.sion for beast. or an enemy room for
:1t,ing snecr; 10 take keever.tlins in good psrt
=s.d to hc as Quick IN giving ~ receiving; t
,c Fever on her guard. ncrer to throw n"a
Ter arms, and to conceal any humber Of fo1e
iat may lie snswirs At her beneath b sclo.
| this kind of firing. m which mcet gentle
zen. f.vcrites are adopts, is an Art tbs
reaches almc ct the dimensions OF = science.