, 1870-02-06
LONG ENGAGEMENT rs.
From tie Perad1ls FuIxyL


.'-a ctitnlal Judge. tns, arc peshspt roy 70
ppy to ,hr,1 stsuu euta1lao - 10 n U decsaio2.
ltey tai. back Ep0a theI veru c ~ cnaIAe.eE.
d ty the o.t tncsecr abe w1sAon- Y J0o
Il 10 'nyts.sase their IeAso2s, they c17td'y !
ON thea. s+lEes eurnics; thsiS opi2ioo nese-
\ Rertzsl zal!oo Of nnattd 1oaNi1ua! eAp.n-
CTS 1t wlli be found, ho&eyet, rna+ The bsIt:51
olter's retso:a geLetaly trsolst tnenseses q
10 tao: tist, teey Sal tsat II an eo1aluueat Il
o.te'tel5 9te:otkso: me aaaensets osatn - a
e !oee ttEsgentts tas Al Inherent ie.dtneJ TO &
in eE. .a,ion. tnst 1t "A apt 10 s0.Sr, AID t31r
nut .tR. tie surlscs - = ras:tes Ct co1ssieFs- 4
: t.aclcal IN. postauce, a2d may repay IA A. /
q ps Al e.ac.dAttt1. ---.--. ! Z
Ui coEess, cx'Eeu 'rstasceA are 10 be avosde,L 1
Ut Ihest lnn:Ancea shual re avoided so.a on me 1
ne SIDE or on sne oIn-r. SJEcs mts very oftel
we're 3hAu IocH enRsGtnent. Ao*t peorle !
ave head u iSsss stua aoGe queer etoncs Q!
~ .hcrt RI csxtGetts, l rentt noe1 tue cAse
gentleman who VAS going out as u1s.lona-
:. l do pos tn,nk he 1ss 2ol3G q. JFtseo noaS
= met n.te Ep1opeaE4 eau 1--we ys7y comfurta. |
IL tsplte the surrounding neatnenlsE. l be-
cre That II . m uLcefss oil ps;Iepl-, 1ot fsa.
ustti.d tut. geE..emnn bad nex.fc:ed. how.
yer, H. The very last to ptorlat HIMSELF VIA suca
lecepsar5 nolaLes 10 us aooss ms ,h.t ~
,ad 10 part Ter the EAs: he '!4J alter tne uot.
ow, ana a!,o tie unsatisfactory atate o. ms
,fessnss ra'her Nxtd him ~ AL iad.sidu u Ana
;teaIy tyrps;hIzed With him - niI'onaf!:
rie sur, which mAv pc rated IN An Aeflokea
,,n cte nsy rstr,ed him the te1t. aud sal |
= ay vi b hiEl ~ 1cits oo the tnf1d- We 90 sot
slsh 10 ccte II. for t1is In cftstlcR caaoe+ DAT
! Z ase sure lelt.nc paper might be wtiiten oo |
hahty nas1lpgeS.
Suw, te: re give case IN point on me otaet
B:de Of The qneAtlou- several ;ote en9aaeIents
kIov:euae- Tneze Was . Ean 10 Ausralia Nao
wss engaged 70 = lazy III England !o1 ttentJ
So I mo.asS i.oia'r, ~ the way. whether shs
had ever asked her mother =
an lot sure that JcnnS ladies' always lail5 IN
deratalu tht II nut these poiEts- Toe Ren-
t.etuan Allow cd inc plea, And laa2utu, ae1tp!a.
turlc cortes pot deoce went on ole nae EoIniu.
arctrtt ftterf iLfIt cling nu that her mpsuer was
pow departed this LIE and t1At Ahe WAS really TO
come ont 4: Il lLarTy him. THIS was rather u stt;-
while cIack!t hts egg st brfaStasF. lat ne con-
a,ceytu that ne had given his acceptance, A1d lIt
not tall 10 hcncr lne dfatt ID tue most nusines&-
Uerc il aco,her case OF quasi iooc engage
nelt character. 4 Clergyman VAS waking IN a
o:au1ni PARK 70 note atsaoos castle .n AND y ne
wax he met a lady. whose tace, tnen1a sane.
wrat cnnev.d By time, he remeIbeie1 He.'. Il
sncsssa sxenty yeats before. Tney had lo7e1
cacn o:her greatly 1hep. but. according TO thsaI
torons Of living. there did nj appear me inos1
stances the Io1.rs agreed MAT tncy would po~-
rol II alters Indefinitely. aud that eaca should &c
cors!te1ed At Fber.J. The lady weot out TO 1ndsa
| The RenSl. man stuck with peEtlnsel'y to n!s
| culacJ, and lemsiLe cd Oh the sane 500! for tls
! wtote twenty ,eaiA TneD. ale! sucn long
paEil &, they a. laA1 met aga.c. 10 tais acfid.nta|
| wsy. III tne great "shoN Pa.k. she ~as Wuo".
VIA Al oI15 child, rich. art was htndso11e .ii I.
Wa.Ea se~s tet.a:h ite ss1nSeE rs snss,nus ,;1,ns
At1 tGea tne psrso1 ta:d tua: tie Proposed
| 10 fGiErt tntte past lE,n'J Years, 10 erase
.e,t osee ro,e us IS tse e: ID ,ys q 1er eussse
u.rt. Ard The ls.,y sad, In aI,ld ehrases ne III
~ Icn, that sEe bad 70 oltec ,loo. Aun t1e
\ IuI e1 tnseceEt revived IN The form OF EezT
II nay be sail that We arr loosiuR upo, the sub
itct IL au eu prs way. citing opposite trs:arce'
aLu ret Iay Ig down a p1uc!pIe. II *,tua bs
essy 10 make ! Htde-s*rrpiLg geceraiza1ton-:f
ve teth orty see OUT WAY to u. Dn! iae all '1tc:
.s,a L. atep II 1+I sase a. 1se 'asss
once li'een,iy pursued BON b. koman!ss
region Ct e,h!cal cuaosities. The cn'y general
consent Oh the sunjeer Ii thkt adopted BY no:htrs,
| rho look uTon lorg elFnEsDents ENa an a!slls
colnaence, nnd tell you hcw ye1ed and aax 90.
| they are about their eiE:s, md enfnEge on lna:
sp'rs hopsle, vnsa y i,s &c of saa1or
! sn'ze with theif t1ouh'es, nud be pesauadtd ~
I the!r rhetoric. A qrea: deal Of satire u ot:eu
| c.l;td wer.dl!rsts Rocd mothers are orten m.
| worldly and unte1sh- They onlJ want - hrow
| 1or certain what Il Really fer the tue good
| There 10 Rentraly a considerable am1nas Of p.a.
etic ,nte1st asont !ourE tERssei pa,E; haa M Y
long euEASsnect 'hsJ ilsIa.nny s,.Goaat n ,as.'
tsgrst at the Quite: Is e1ch lnged tor tue sml:a
Lstt vEen sae Euows rna, the Is plt;ed. There J.
| often s1.Le amount OF aGtc'lou about al e1Gaxe'
GIL which Is sctesln ea nmusinR. and eoEetime
ataur!. She Is sptto rctirr, Ike q s1icteE deei
10 toue lonely glade IN the dsa~ta9.rooI 7
where The cons,dtIs general society a. mere IL
nefe Zone n,:ies. sile viii exempl.,y tna; sslasi
| ress which. II htce csses out OF ten. belongs !
!o,e. Her OWL bore viii have for her a sas,old
| late ard Iec1csstcR luteres- sac vii! love IN
fresh love OF ua.ure and the seenness Of her &c.
icr strhy. Her uina w',i be Obviously uutet:ie.
Iler R1I.ncod teems vanished, and prc1atai
II ,ntye i au7 COZ st,tuttona, WEAKNESS IN be
s,Hsr, tpw il the time 10 1eok foE It's manifesto
/ lion. You vii, deseci = cough, . hect:c n1sE.
xtasrets 10 tie tnce, hat Mt. Robertson III b.
"scEool" " calls "a .uAs'1p, CT tA,nunE. OF
ns,cs. j ur, when The joung people are nut = VII
bet rt r+p1red to Esarr1 than ireJ "ert Jest
| ero, aco perhaps VIA di-fufntoZ lcellaR IN.
Mne Of tue es' years cf We have oeea nuN!1t!
it,ti;. iesHi. IN ''1s 't'' '1.' ~. - -
| thkr dargat+r from kuca Al cmlren:ly ulsa,4
Itctn.y cpL1tlon OF AaslrH. she II no. 10 y
thought bsri aud ror.'IlJ, II, with pr+tcltn
eye. sic detects p>asio.e entaagienen:a ~
eirRlee,cauy Qu2frS b9AtuBt them sne nAs
vrsl srurI iel asesson ao'i oh|ee'in3 to tie T.
rtcHLiels c.'11hrnta:, II the fnt-cn:et - !ta
NEE NJ ~ " % co +sl. es.,a,n. e1ea We PIT N
selyrs 1910 very hard A71 wor!d:V as:ifur1r. TIM
; tte rough asa rtafJ nethod at Re!:trR III Of q
brpst,rg Il ca is really the bea-. Tat Hr:nctp.e
that II Eir!s cant OF form lorR crRs4fEen:a va
.. out rptest'r then st.ves ~ th.s tHlt o. .at,
! losntrS lorx enfaSrncEth Tue ltEuff
: vii lt TIM: The yo1fg lady Who bars N
. e. Of esrcnn stances III nu-. he ~. 0oo
,ftLx<s IA T.
= = T., ira ,encR ss:'rs. although "e ~iI cet apr
I fU'tt1 tuch ulci.1. Ahst~"uves. do, as rue, .e
1cu., 40 txas II me IRA. VI ~.'rnood q
u nott erno< d. ttree:a:.. !u chronic state OF u
!, peculosiss !: uss se =! oAtd -. tatl she
!. Ie lone trgh., e.s,t'c ha,ctts, on vaoa ~
: etrsr-uert "a. y ;, :v-ty tas;scras;nx e.e
:; the i.,dy Ct e1cep'lnrs wo'c1 ln*s fu1nssa t.
:. y eates tte extreme a,tncolty OF laying down q
!. live m,eEt .ertnle % :rare gerssa:izscoo
- Any ron, wc hhoald esq tea! tae !! y
esca ,s, a,' sSso H.. 1esnsiy ne
u keels hin ttnp'c, and stt aiy, and earnest.
:. tic ioser 10 xottn navtaR, tae loEef, one NO!
:; alracs; think, would pe wor1n waiting for.
~ no.neE Of cour>e Gays that the long engaSeu
-. Affords such hazard that II wtil oe ntoken
nLd be! daughter, alter wasting her besr Je
=; and oes, fte;,ns~, may Ike )hse1. fer1srs. h
~ ever, It IL m .rsccurate use OF lan11aye 10
w., = ,a1!sst !; ses ~ s nse ,sss
1e often tarr = Kit! iron an uoHost0I nalts
~ ~ There Is certainly coastant possol'tJ q
~ ofeak.oo, when tie cetrosEal Is MT. as u 6
y many, solemn ceremony eI sne o1sues' 7
i, | llcny- a.,
- ueDs Of marriage wLuld te altogether 1ofalt
4 tooe sanctions were Iot Seo 10 t2e !ong
-. areenent. TIE crra.e IN tue church, me I
tebsnt IN tie arc's. the clerk 10 ING naoI,
aH1ab;e, DON e.tlc. well educated vel manne
-. yCutg people would make such sats.iactoIJ
ae tancr, II oLiy tnas vnlQas e!eaeIt Q! nsny j.
M s1.lted IN sufacsent force s!tasse INA. Ihe
- | eral kppRrat ces Of god SID silver sneolu q
,s ns sucn 4 ote1ener 10 Immortal eonis: Bat
~ too, a1e Gods czealules - wei. ~ tnoie who
70 arsp Tnsg a' uef sa' eeesu.s
,ns Aeepa rat k!nR account bat on the E0ple u1ts
rss rss gYoutt That theE are human be!naf He
1es' a::er oi lezi::rale arsrneLt. But man
Inv. 10, De both hare AID hsfr7eE. H+ cannot
80 | ntoau hun an fFtutd IN one duec.loo aul 1a'
~. ~ eoly e1uonal ground II another nfeeEoo.
zo' thould rot make an engagement On The plea
,,y- | te Is mar. AID then Hske ne ecs1Re3ee
~, ut tn:rely lopg o1 the plea taas Ie ius e!es
", @ ci c1v.!fzastop. II he nsfes the i:nd o. en-
=. 1us Eent Hhteh which IL lon2 he snoul1 Ecsolse
; 81 II shall NOT oe pro!ouset yocd ceNG9 nat ~
Ne AlsnouHn the ladies, VIA tneif s!a,s:a! 1 lnl
.u.G nG ", we tniEk that Ibe KoG2o law was Pro
ALL gcite fair n permitting term o. @ ,m2 ,, J
Alter that !et soe FAT. In the pa'r aA.S "as y
LEFT snpyeue earthly 5000. Gss mazso ~ ua5 ~
the Let them e-n9rate, Keep school, nse "a ~
o;K nth w;a Ise ~ me Sd; make he bed
Tho lsy The tsblec:otn, Ard tue gentleman aos ss
A1f t4 il and p,ack hts oEu boots. HaFtn9 maze
rent Snc Eonse in the bactvcods Of toc:A lie 70
MIN youtn, they VII prooah,! ehase d2Tn pni me
ILfA+ ! good lhiER oelote tney Ea's 3atae4. -
nief. na:a.rs II teey are rot gsa'cel, t1ey art
eply, en,i.le! to The dangerous "1ofs o' ions el
nert
r1er. TIE chef se11ora IA: lol Tue p-@1tst @
saA I EuI1occd lote engagement a1lso iEun
Tos wre.cnt dly mistaken vleHa OF naa1a9e
IptuE | prevail amoEs Tue RsNlV! o. Noctea. Az
Et.u- | we th!Lf, = no hI2Mp1s 10 EaAaS Nue ~