, 1870-10-30

noty III calling wit1ered old dams Of Gu
had called her when elo was = slip OF girl or
10: The contiDu1,ee Of love from youth 10
old age is very lovely, Ta15 cheering bnt
even "!ohn AnasEaon m! % would lSss its
pathos II Mrs. Anderson had Ignored tle dit-
ference in between Ia the . 5a.en s;hs and
plsr Of familiar Affection ii nevss aeen
.nopg men who pride thsnsaivea
en- mak;rE good lovers; ia certsin men do
those who have reduced the practice of love-
Lesson to letter These men arc d.lghtful
to woE,ep, Hho lie Eothiug SO much ~ neinS
ms dc love to, A. we'll after rlarriage as be-
fore but men who taxa matters quietly, and
rely n the good sense Of tkeiz wives to taxa
matters quietly too, sail round these s:ientido
aoaen knew their Eeet interests they would
care c1ote for the trn>t th4n the eci-nra
Al that excesA Of datte1iug hni pe.tinG Of
7LitE nlmcn z.e 80 fond becomes bora to 3
EEL if required IA part Of the daily habit OF
Ute; Out in the would As he is. ha1asscd BY
s1,s bat;es!1s lis rl:ce OF rest, .wh.ro hia Hiia
il bis frieLa wlo kuo*s his mind, where to
Eay to himself without fear Of u1end1ug. and
.t'x tie strain that must be kept up out Of
dse:s' NEeEs ho may fee; himself
caesns tie colecst or the le1@t lovi3g, ne
| wire ennEEh to understand this Feed os rest
ID the nsu's har6er life, and. accepting the
quiet Of seruEity Is art Of the condis ioEs OF
nhs'sgf. eonsep; themselves with the uade-
Ecrstra1iye live iato which the fc.er Ct pas
sion EAs suttiied- Others fzet over i, aud
nsIo tien,. e!yrs and tleishusbauds wr:i.hetl
estauso tLey canaot believe in that
Sai;l. %1;:h ,,,d;- i evcs rot n forever nss7lsa
| l.. f,rf ia - :,
on eeg:thclls. erey monen. afraid OF wound.
irf.. She suscc: tihieitice of a woman who will
! t,ke nothing or trust, aud who fia- TO ue Goa.
tirusllr assured That he still lIovts her, b,fore
the viii believe tl,at to-day is as yes;e.day :
OF ore thing she nzy be certaia 70 wife wac
rage demands tltsc continual attentions
Which. volrnt.ry offerings OF the lovc-;
become cl4fosc.d ts,bate from tho Lu..
taro. Slo fnous that as . vito, whom II
IL not Necessary to court OF d4tter, abe has d
olle1 place than that which is e1rress.1 III
.ne st.en,ions psil to nistzo.s. Wilchooi
Ike Ill asEutcd Conditions. does not need st
H. Gnt!rctecd up; hut lc.a certain positio.
! InuEt be supported fIQm the outside, and NJ
insecure se1f-resrcct+ an urccstain holtios
must lie refretually strengthened anl reaa
eurc.a. Women ~lio canno. live happily with
out teirg made love to arcl more like mis-
sie:tee tlAn wives, eud ccme Int badly Of II
:lc great struggles OF life atd the cruel hand
lirG VI time. rlacirg sll their happiness i.
things nhich caluot continue. they let s!i;
hat nliict los II their halids. and in their dc
sire tc tetsiA Tic romantic position Of loret.
!ose the sac Get security OF wives. Perhaps, i
they bad higher stras in lifo than thcse vi.l
eEicll they make shift to satisfy themsei7e.
they would net let themselves sink 10 tn
level Of this folly, and would uuderstand bet
- centInstel NTH zppenrzuees- And get VI
| c:l mt bat pity TIC poor, weak, craving soul
nfso long 20 Iiiifully for tue freshness Of tn
| Mcrs lrg to continue far iuto the day au
evening, Rlo cling 10 ienacious1y to thu i1ect
Ing romsnce Of youth. They ate taka
nc rtst; and .thc man who is ahowicst i
ls stIec,iop, who can express it With mos
color, ard paint it, so 10 speak, Will. the u,
J nu:fst touches, is the mau whose 1oyo setuo
to them tic most Trustworthy and tie moe
iEsense. They often mako tho mistake Q
rss,ce, Ct trusting to pictorial c1pref
non rather than 10 eoiil facts. An
| stey often make tho mistake Of c!oy;n
t!tir husbands with personal half-chiili=
raIe.ssa Which were ali very well in the earl
tiAyP, but which become tiresomn ~ tiu1e gee
wien The nun either quietly keeps the,
| nG. or mtrc hTusquelS ropel4 them. they AZ
lust sid miserable, aaa thiLk the Who'll
EsI ri1ess Of their lives is dead, and al
1l1tt makes marriage beautiful at All ent
What ia to lc done 10 ba'accc things crenl
iu Ills unequal world Of sex: Wh4:, ineoe5
i 10 he cone al sny sime to reconcile strcnst
With weakness, ana TO give each its .tuo ! On
. thi: G. At least, is eure. Tic moro thorough
women learn the trne nature o. men, th
frwtr missiles they viii make. aud tho lee
ELha.rln.ss they will create for tac1
stlycs: and the moe pat;tnt racn Al
Hith l:sterital exe,tabIity, tho restlcs
craving, which nature, for some purpose .
| present unknown, liz. made the ereci1l teu
Rer7nent of wr1nen. the fewer jtmiaes inc3n
prices tLere will o in ma1ne,l homes, and II.
larger the CHANCE Of married hap;,inc.4. 4
1 cnc's theories of dtIlesti, life eoluo down ,
last to the Givo and take ey-te1., to hcar;r
arc 1osssinFng, ir sna os ,aeetn hslf aS i'i2