Saint Mary's beacon. [volume] (Leonard Town, Md.) 1867-1983, 1870-12-01
MEN AS LOVERS.

Was there ever such an accident as 70
modi lover! A man 20 endowed with
common sense and that fine equjpoj.e 81
/ character rs never to do a weak and silly
thing because be loved 4 man I'D eil-
( ted With beauty Of soul and expression Of
feeling as to photograph on the vision ul
his omaHia only picture .hat exalted her
beyond herself!
I Love should make a man heroic paii-
( fly him, lodjly him against temptation,
make him eloquent brave and talyr-
II this were always true, ctrgy body woglI
be wishing that ali men were itvrts 81
some woman.
Some ono within mouth hla said that
"a man in love has a license 70 make a
fool Of himself Whether loyc grants
them Il per 81 license so to DO. or met, NEST
Of them dc; aud bolr Of their follcs are
ullstoues to their success, aud demmal-
ling rather than ecyatiu2.
To attempt TO make luws OF rulog f1r
lovers would be like writing the Ten Cant-
maudmoGts upon the seashorc At ude-lis-
ing But, .ylnpatbiaing wnh Young mcn
H dIas f aiiiFt iiissl 4ag i hssia= d. ~
Of a variety of lovers leads me TO give
what believe to be "eSccllrut advice. ."
Every young man has his dream ofloye
"a dream woven OF the modest aud finest
Caneies Of his being. lie fairy reycls 10
the air-casile he builds Of the future, and
gazes on bis good angel with as delicious
! a rapturo Ar Murillo did on the realized
glory Of his Madonna ile awakcs one
/ day with the belief that he has found her
and goes about the winning Of her. But
how He visits her on Sunday nights,
and stays so late that she yawus With
WEAKNESS, aud says she is glad he is
gone, as the door closes after hjm. lie
goes home sleeps little appears late at
breakiast-tuble next morning with so,t
of shame-faeed look, blushes aud wf,tbc,
under the banter Of the family, and is rca-
DIV to declare any moment that Fanny Is
nice sort Of a girl to frt with but a'
for being in ioge, dlat is the tartaaat out
of the question"
! In tie first place, it is an imposition OF
any welt-brcd girl TO keep Der up late
than half-past ten O'Clock whom you have
opportunity 10 see her often. II you al
ways leave her with tue wish in her hear
that you had stayed longer, you gain 50
rpuch, Never run Che llsk OF wcarynG
. NJ with your presence. lfyou do, sh,
Is sur be asking herself II She wouIdn'
: llfe u see' you around forever, aud j
quite aifaid SUI yaud. BE- Just as earn
ySt and straigbtforN nj in vonr loving n
inyour honorable deaf, yith man I'm
pressyour friends with tie .ntll,inegs an,
ur SERIOUSNESS of your love, so to- t,o MI
y gar and senseless bauteriug viii app>ar /,
q them as Sch
Is, Love Is rligloa, the supromest happ
ness Wear 4pauiqily and proudly, b.
holly.
Woe womal bravely. If tbcre
anything humiliAipg to a woman il Is
have a ioyer, wtI,ni sde wishes Ia love an
honor, weak and vpid overwhelming an
half afraidAf herr She loves 10 tell hin
to act like q maliH A nan who h,
sweet thing, and makiSAR. ppeuien'o
! ! 90 90 near the lest way, fails IA p6gn way ~
0 90 crct OF giving of Aoee'"t5 sigbo
2 60 happiness. IN
90 The manly, honest expression o. :
7 90 90 devoid of Stiffness or fulsomeneis: q
9 = co who conceals or denies bis love from
Is 90 Of being laughed Mt, ia coward. J1e
), fourteen years Of gefvice for Rachel !
-ork eocord If love (Which there Is none
or more herofc re, ~ :.
E,.ovv/po0d thlnm IA lie nus lto II
and, q true wonan's love is, next to
zen. worth the winning. II any
Ta doubts this, he may take 70 his soul
N junction that lie never possessed ~
was incapable of apprcciating ii an
the love Of some women | do not wc