The Hawaiian gazette., 1870-04-06

ADVICE Br A LADr.-Never write . compromisinr
letter to married man. Sooner or later they win
fall into the hands of the inevitable wife Perhaps
he leaves them in bis coat pocket and from the time
Of that domestic escisndrs in the house Of the Cap
tain Of King PharsOh's guard 70 the present date,
much mischief has arisen from the shifting Of coat
1t would be better to avoid lovers with legal ins6m-
brances altogether. It is pity too, for there are
some charming Benedicts, whose only fault is that
they are Benedicts. Be wary with those whose wives
also Live in Arcadia" The wife who is there arc
no has beens in this case. once cOqaette always
coquette airt brings all the advantages of finish
ed experience to assist her in detecting the clumsy
msneuvres of her spouse. H'''
If you have heart. give it not to married man,
nor in any way make yourself uncomforable for his
sake Sooner later he must and win resign you for
his wife. Habit snd the law give her an unassaiabls
vantage ground. The horse that escapes to the pas
ture. and kicks up his heels many times with exceed
ing great joy in his fictitious freedom. will return
meeky to his stall at the feeding hour and the mar
ried man whatever he may swear in the delight Of
novel wiekedness win always return to the bourne
where his easy chair, his slippers his daily occupa-
tions, the mistress Of his house. and the mother of
his children await him. This reflection has decided
moral tendency. Wives. be patient with your hus-
bands. Should he make a slight deviation from the
paths Of conjngay you win be able to, in sporting
parlsnce, I" make good thing out of it, He win
tire of his love certainly as he has tired of
yOu and you have in your favor nine points Of the
law.
Trust no woman. Nor men either, If you can help
it. G a Esef-s .-t7f i.1aal l5i 81 l o
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y trusted-unless indeed. they prone habits Of
intemperance You must not object to their pulling
up their shirt collars uneasiy when you are mention
ed. to their blushing when they meet you. OF to
their indscreet and spsfuI defence Of you to your
spiteful rival These the folliss of youth and al
though they betray the boys feelings. they do not
necessarily imply your completely.
Our great misery generally arises from our ovsrrat
ing ourselves. We get dreadful hurts through our
vanity, and think it is our hearts that suffer- ep-
preciate myself, (nO succeeds who does not .
but am rarely blinded by my selfestsem know
when my nose is red, when am otherwise look
ing plain. Then conceal myself from the view Of
mankind. Some women are less modest, and are,
consequently, less successful. as
If you have genius. conceal il as you would gray
hair, or hide it. Brutus did, under the appearance
of idocy.
aTsct is the suprenest weapon in the hands Of Z
woman 1t is the fine tool that rvets the chains Of
beauty.
AT the first short letter yourlover writes you dismiss
him. No man who loves has ever need to excuse q
neglect to his MISTRESS 3. ,r4.r.e5 oi l.s if9r
Let not your lover feel that he has ever made
sacrifice (even of cigar to you. Promote his COM
fort in small matters, partly because 1t is Christian
like to afford some compensation for the torment you
nAict on him, chiefly because his attention should
never be distracted from you BY little worries.
Never forget that mems vanity is greater than their
hearts They win forgive wound to the latter sooner
than an insult to the former. aa3i3s
Never love at all where yOu wish to be loved great
ly. a,,,.l+, ,.. .,......... .a.r
As one is abused to willing listener. the friend
who tells you she has heard you illuminated must be
ranked with the calumniator. A 7p Pl
Listen to nothing your friend wishes to tell yOn for
"yOur own good" and because it is cher duty )" u
will assuredly be something unpleasant.
An Englishman win trust his friend with his mis-
tress sooner than with his horse. a"
No Ere is SO difficult to rekindls as one where the
ashes are already burnt black But every man has
his price, and be reached either through his van
ty his intellect his passions From Neo Novel,
BY NSs. A. G. Steele 'ai's8