, 1869-01-07
The Three Stages OF neroism---
The Cradle, the Church
and the Grave.
Young Men and Young Wo-
men of the Age,
Who Obtain Choice Articles Of
Feminintty.
The Expenses Of Fashionable
Wedding IN Chicago.
Interesting Quotations"

Twice ii q man's life he IL a hero in spite OF
himself, and he has an OF portrnfty 10 bo q tctrd
tune II he wtthes, When born, be Is the sub
jcct OF tie family conversation, aud the friends
come from near md from far TO ADMIRE th latest
edition Of The fam1ly mime. The poor, uueon-
selons babe has no tdea he is making such 4 fuss.
When his eyes ere said to be like his fathers or
~ Cousin w1lr'e,'' his mouth pronounced to be d
dazzling little month his yet rndeve1oped
nose Put down unqCssttor ably Grce,au, and his
whole careaes eatd 10 constitute the sweetest baby
ever borr, he OILY cries AID whines ana wants
bis mother. Eyery baby introduced into the
world Is the eweetett baby every NH living aud
every woman. though they ma: be ~ honely as
rail- fercc, wst 1t the very beginning of their re-
tpccttve c.1eers tie sweetest aaoy. How sw=et
TO be 20 Awett! So every baoy u hero, iuSol'
uItar1!J 70. and without having bis N1a1ee coz
quilted. as they ought TO be.
Tie baby Grows up and the tcrolsm vanishes,
perhaps neref to return, until he maKcs his exit
from the world. Then 1t comes oack. When
nfe leaves him his friends taiK Of hi,n. 70 and
htia lying cold IN the cofnn. and they follow
his remains to the Iorg bone, carvAts and criti-
ctee his past life, mud he Is the hero Of the hour
He may not be 4 willing hero. bat he canno: help
II. fer when 4 tnar dies he bcco -ncs Kind OF &c
0tao luh''c character, OF more or less paoAc in
Between the cradle ard the ersre, man has
another oppt s1nn,ty Of being hero: That e,
WITH NE &A%S 4Aa4AAEAs AhAS &c VPtASA4a4 "iAA
hin, OF onPbt to be. Nevertheless. II he deter.
1uires to embark on The uncertain eea Of naui
9n ns M fc n aPee e u, M
g sood euilset. Young ,ssis. erttls1:e his. poor
no4e, a1irnadyert upon the color Of hle hat1 and
general appearance. wsoolns up t1e:r cog,'auons
By ~ouderf. how his be fotned could think OF
marrying ruch ''horrtaf fellaw.. Thty 80 to the
wedd1lg. however. The higher his social posl.
1lon, aId the Weather be II, tie more prominent
be becomes. ana the public, taE1ng .tetpond'
e nsp1 81 81 ~ 1tadn n,e sih @ae6 Il nut more @
Rrat:neat1on thsn at a theatrical petfo; ;raanee.
1t ID marvellous What number Of pc1sors 60 70
wee d1Ecs. They inn0CeLt dram - IN II a life,
that ople lore ~ watnrse ESQ calls fema!e peo
pie. Pelsons v no re:rain from alteuoinE ttcs
Tres Ere usually tie most as .1du2us IN assenda1Ge
1onablc cturch. IL a. grand an affair, u Its way
as The best opera. Ttere NJ gooa music usually
sd full dseseeo lao1ee. though the latter are not
half as fully dressed As 1h' former The attend
aEee IL uz1slly 1arEe, alrro0eh Tue affair Is moi
advertised. Then there are hero snd heroine
real hre oree, too none Of t1ose lmae1Eary. 90
gus beings, that grs iorfd togr' ec1 II the end o.
thIeevcirme Eoyel- q: fse.a plays.
Bttne WY OF anoittr the MATRIMONIAL matEe
IL dnl1 At preeent. II has becu so oil wiptet aas
tie latest quotations show sIt slight improve
melt 7his II especially true Of 1pcust e a1tt
cles. They cannot be had fur loEe, aud money Il
extremely tight, Tee times, to- are hard, an
men eay thv, caEnot sds.d 70 maHy H., !
money as veil as thodtnt- III the 1frt piare. th
gentleman hss 10 eptnt your G foItune in hoots
going reuna smone biz acou ,sntan :es seeking
wife, and very cften t1dlLE n re. At len
ais,r much raten ard p t,ererance, hs Is -
Of a woman at shcte .eel he long TO a.n2 hln,
self and bis fortune. I. cclerslly tak,s 1ron el
TO tweire NJ ntnr 70 Ia! tieEe 70 hcr hsa5t. a
may he twelve msuths hciorr she hs7lH down be
l,G and rapisulairs. Hnr1LR ul1 this time &c hs
been 1LSestiEg largely II opeEa ',eksts, ear'iaEc
and preseIta, 10 tny no1h'tg. OF h''oks Of poe;f!
ont tf VI lch be cp1I- cEtvulrte compliments #