, 1869-05-23

ln.ists on having n word to say about his nepf;;
cw e1ucalloo. Incte l. dA!lker u u. a4sa
uot bear that those they love shoull run the
Ttsk OF either. Wherefore their boys are modest
and yirtuous uaiy, but they a5s not manly and ana
eooHcr or Later, they sre either laughed Il for
{nelr p1!gE1snness, or shey 60 70 the had ~ the
y i's e II fasa e ssa sas ras ofssa 1sst al
The srea1 srrna wholly unprcpared either
i5eir o.n rAl They ha,e u.:En Aept de.a up %
when stto,ateay forced hr shs necessity Of eFsnts
hut she holds on II he last moment, Even when
The ftre rr,tnr4 FIR ~r!.es- NE md sear1trc. she
often goe4 With her daring and takes lodging tn
aTts Ii. hcal;h and morals and continue aer
careful labors for hts destruction Tho chances
are That yunth 20 brought up neyer becomes
il he + rood, s debaacnee ot Inc voss: ma p
nrst e9wtag ihs nuk OF tbs spron-sung round
az Rs 3 r. hood .na ats s. psrea ss are
no matter wnaf the temptation Of tnc QuazTy Adeld-
be u essentially domed:ie man. NJ caee only IN
delicate ID health, and with drend Of strong
neazureA phy1!ca, political or mental; crotch
e;y man. and gwen 20 passing anae1eEsa. but not
When there are many bose, Instead Of only one7 In
widow family. the opposite Of NJ this Is the
ease. AS NOON ~ they have escaped from the
nursery, they have escaped from al control what
soever; ant II one Wants TO realize puenle pan
ttcmoriam al dit, discomfort, noise and general
,lkurEan!xatlon the best Place tn the world Is the
household Of feeble ept.1red mother oI many
sors, where theTc is no controlling masculine L.
G2eaee. ...... .
Iauxn.ers, who are naturally and necessarily
tied up 10 the mother = npron.sung, suffer occa-
sioEally from TOO tight Htrain. though certainly
/. II not the fhul: Of the present Day that gts ere
too closely fettereu too hone-stAyiug, or sabdued
ts;ill. every now Md then one coMts across mn
iron whu has crushed all Individuality out Of her
children 70 ler In go-AFH and !t1dlns- -s.rt1G1
TEev nlay lie ttr least attractive OF nhesf sax but
a m0fher u this ktEd has one 1xc'l deus!on re-
fpecftrR then-uameir, that the wortd Is fall Of
sre only saie ~hen close to eet maternal npr,n
and browsing within an Inch Of tte tetner stake.
Ttese arc The girls who berozaf hopeless
old maids Men have an instructive '!read
OF the rlaternat apron-strtuG. They do nat
want to marty mother as we'll ~ a wife,
ard 10 live under double dominion and relupt-
cate opposition. II Ii all very well 10 SAY that \
u.rt tsAt brought up IL broken I'll already, and
therefore more likely TO MAle good VIE than
tn2nl Others, seeing tnAtlt Il only a u.anaies Of
be ot'.er then slaves whoever Is the master; but
1t does not do inr women who see tnelr 1rtents
frcer than then1selveA and who might, II fate hn
70 ordered, bsen free too. The chances here arc,
Al with the niothers BOYS that the girl keeps too
ciose to the arrun.string urnE her spLntstcfhootl
gots all abroad a. soou az she gets on the free
ground OF n11srmony, and lets her Liberty run lato
license. Or she Keeps her old allegiance to her
mother intact, aud her husband II never Innre
than the younger branch n tcst Nost likely he
yor Of the Hghtfnl rnlcr when tncJ chance to come
into collision.