New-York tribune. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1866-1924, 1869-12-20

marriage how much loftier and richer marriage
becomes. Then the husband and wife, all , one
lips, but as being men and women thinking, worship
ing planning praying together It is chimera nst9y
simply to human relations Those who are unlted Are
united in heaven because they united IN faith De
man with the intellect Of the woman the masculine wis
dom with the feminine love- here In the perfect ana m
them is there anything ignobe In that Anything
mean or debasng in that ovei Does not enlarge our
ursbiyi Nothing, unfortunately, is more true
than that society Is fun Of discomfort and 30
crude and immature that 1t is natural that mistakes
oped together pc SS SSy ca ye and they
call love Is only kind OF personal magnetsn-the al
temperament viii exert over another Aud so their
experience their impnrty. their reckessness, knowing
cnang nnbD ,a asn SSr eraned ali as
sumed In advance II such people will stand up ana take
escn other Dy the hahn Tor 9etter OF PASSION
cools; the desire dies away. Woman Is disappointed
ne now & Sbont them
selves and alas about each other and more about tne
than they knew, and then there comes up Goodness
devotion fading away, and finally enhancement II inter-
they may SOIi the he void u caused by this separa
tlon. But suppose none OF these resources e1
sist The will Is unframed, the mind unaught ana UNI
disciplined; that there no treasures OF wisdom or
knowledge TO draw upon, interest in outside thlngs
be allowed to live separate Iivesi Should they calmly
deliberately nelligently and solemnly part and each
take his her coursei But now suppose that on
Of these there dawns spark Suppose that one
OF these while pursuing this solitary way sees new me-
at last there is hope more IL that new union Do
formed, might not life smile again as in childhoods
hoursi IL marriage union when the bodies become
people to poison each other all their life longf Religion
says yes tho law says no society says NO
S the people truly 'D wish aS ' laws human
divine do not tend to interfere, then the fresh i
union may be allowed TO introduce the fresh life But
should be done only In tho solemn assurance
that passion does not rule that Intelligence and con-
science do An friends, the remedy for all this dscon.
tent for all this decentralization, for all this breaking
asunder of relations not 10 be found In any increased
facilities for getting away. Lot men and women under
stand all that is involved their relation TO each other
What union means what sympathy implies what oongh
put before themselves they can, some conception OF
what is fe of what discipline IT, what sorrow Is ana let
them their relations at the beginning II the rela-
ons were made comprehensive at the start then
all this Generalization would cease This doctrine OF
the he' problem, '" for that says men and women
belong each they are related to each other
by sex but by mind and mutual capacity ana Dy the
power help each other along The time may come one
OF these days when these unions win De just ana true
Those days be hoped for and prayed for Ihey may
not be Ipected but III the meantime. while we are all
idle while impulse is so strong and desire SO we
cultivate those qualities OF mind and heart when
shall keep passion down and shall bring reason IN the
life We can do something TO diminish the amount Of
recklessness Of poor and fictitious romance We can ao
something 10 prevent all this recklessness we can do
something make and women pure TO each other,
aud happy 10 each other all their days
SERVICES IN OTHER CHURCHES.
Mr.. Beecher preached TO n very large con.
regaton yesterday the twelfth chapter Of Matthew
3lst and 32d
The Israeltes of Brooklyn were addressed
al the Young Mems Christian Association Rooms last
evening by the Rev. Drs Adler and ID. g. Levin OF
Temple Emanu. e. NewYork, upon the subject OF Re-
form advanced by the late Rabbnical Conference W
Philadelphia" The attendance was large
The Rev. Mr.. Powers, Pastor of the Elm
place Congregat Church, Brooklyn preached TO ms
congregation last evening upon eresy from the text
But this confess thee. that after the way which
they call heresy worship the God Of my Fathers be-
leving all things which written In the law ana IN the
prophetic" Acts, xiv, H.