The Charleston daily news. [volume] (Charleston, S.C.) 1865-1873, 1869-05-27

niss would rejolce. Meanwhile, however 30.
cieey gpes. on getting married o. the Eagle
and. riHsted- t the communion table, and &C
TeptingA B ,bleashg frotn g posse OF parsons,
up ID "A e.ee -. =
.sIos4hs voice tSaibfeit6ed through Eden
re lit earliest Wedding day." - g.. -
and The organ played ont the psir. TO Mendels-
DohnS wedding march. and all the eccleslasti.
oal psgesniry compiete.s Il. is hard after all
.&his, 70 attempt, to dssociate the religious
ks pTex seeai nature pr .a ottne proceeding. m ss;aS
fphicAk inquiry, Try to dissociate them in his
.WilsAt presepcs. Let him begin by observing,
HAlter an, my dear, We are not married In the
night oY Heayeps and all that; IT'S only Jdcoi,
Dc dsp0ys@;aweikxve simply entered into sort
ss SeSs * esEaAs ocs 9ly n sassss.Ga sssnps
ethiA VEIN q ofmasfning, and frsm his Hifeh re-
ispaT6ewm Be able 10 estimate the: rooted feel
..anR pf socdetY In the matter. -
his, thsl the lEurit zssish a;ssssas ~ -
,HRf1fheueM aveTnon so eeceua MaI!IASy,s - y,
dm mt into words. Matrimony BEING. nom
= ttss sentimental point of view, holy business,
\ bond which ID not only graSely to regulate
this Hfe, but in san likelihood to exeruse an
iu6oSnce Cref The life TO come, the incongrui..
tie Sesy . s.Ssa,sgsSi ,ls s1sa
one partner, ts suhaciently obyicus. - ssvora
Of psychical polygamy. ssate BesEiee."
an Hensdick, sisthe oae participant in my
veal or NOE; take her for time and for eterni-
ty.s But in year or two Beatrice dies, and
tke6 Denedi6k chooses Laura as the one par
HcipAuk for Tina and eternity; and Il he sur
Yiyeg surs there 81 nothing to prevent him
NlalRg 8 third and fourth to the nrm. Now,
M eS6h betrothment the sancity Of the busi-
ness falls b peg. Nobody enters upon second
iInarriage with the same reverence OF earness,
Aede or .ardoc WITH Wnfcn ne sons5ao!eo
rHedfst He ts older and colder; ismmarty
Wikh the estate hashred indtf f,renoe; the being
4at his side 10 not q HemDtng. pure ntsie SOU,
whom all hie strong, chlvairous nature rusnes
forth 70 protect 1us Q nice aort OF person, VINO
30 E6mk 70 look aiter hts servants ana see tnae
his linen 70 kept IN good order. Even with the
I'M vie romance ended 1y sss.nnf stanos: Go.n INTO
NH the second one there is not even the ro-
Haoce,Ao bexm with. For few men-so lew se
aDbe ,out OF count-make love match twice
1utheir 6vee. The fret marriage Is contracted
tnth6 ardmof youth; the second ts mostly
Vtlcdinsioh. Either the widower is weary OF
solitude and has been hsbituated TO the house
Hold Wder over which Q mistress presldes; or
Aaees NE chance Of . wealthy alliance; or he
kaspfopertS bat 10 heir, and must needs have
onesr ha Nsnte somebody to look after his
Httle comforts. There are o hundred merce-
.1aza Nos nm o second marriage to one plea
lQf sdStipa, Trua love-ve mean now true
I'M ia: fts flaming bachelor state, not ths
HSrhY.a1d. Joan e1rot-saidom survives In
a man tier hirty. The truest. faith.
faifeE :. hottest. and most blissfulIy un-
Cofaiorsabie love Of al is cslt-loye, which
seaSem .laste after seventeen. All subse-
.qosnt passions are mere imitation Of this
not half 10 absorbing, not thlrd 90 blind, not
tentkao pure. The calf outllses his calf.
dom, gets the better OF spooniness, laughs at
It., ,and afewiyears .latee tries to produce 1t
ovsE AEAin. u But he neyer succeeds. The
taurine pesdon 70 mere stage play. DE may
persuade himself thai he is desperately IN love
NTH the dear girl, that she is an angel. that II
aha jilted him he would do something desper-
akSGEo Saad, eniGrate, blow out his brains,
peRhSps; bot IN hisdnaer soul he kno 's that
fhis Is all mere pretence; that bis heart Is not
. raging furnace, but tepld as mlldest shaving
water; that his pulse would not hear her and
6eat had he lain for century dead.lndeao, 1t
aaee pct even quicken now when she enters
ah6tooln. BE sees her faults, none clearer;
Andhe intends to correct them one day Ihere
ID nothing in his love hike the Wild adorlng
passion Of the schoo; boy; that comes but once
In hfe, and the love which is bold enough to
propose and Gallons enough to treat of settle
ments Is mere earthly imitation oft.
How much baser, then, . second marriage,
which means fftieth Lowell II into the first
there entered some element Of caution. or
mora lQpOble ahf6Wd0aSS. the SecOna l6 Who'll.