, 1869-06-20

: Should haEtttten. He.. SC. :
From The .ser York Fsru-
For Year, the custom Of New York society rra-
tive 10 the turning Of the corner Of the card hA1
been nc sae - a. taat ~ o. xnra eaS r
righs-hand: the word aomge On the lover l.f. cor
md r. IT. oeen On =. s e h ha
lis mater, and procure the adoption Of so1ne-
ie9s AZ L. been sea q ea f.
urged Is thss tu!aing TIE corner dls1gaFrs ne
caSd. and that the phrakes have become utterly
rrsfed, Therefore, taat 4 moro oz2dfM and
fmpulGaye Eystem ahould b substituted;
"a e .as s3d ias pT,sss a,1 g; g;;1a!sa 4
n pRases .s % dc ne 4eve1s I'D sisA tic f1ag Il
ph.s o 81 ape1 e as sa q
il seems lis1y 70 zuperseds tne Old formally q
50 long ta1d rstnes unwoithlyl naalatsincd i;s
supremacy as correct p1r etettteaae In the leRa
sa as PpSa ine a'fS en-, s1d The
case. Tho innovation Ia. IS ret extended o2lJ 10
40 lake leave for the eonae on the resesre,
+ ~ ne iSr%et oenX Tsn = pencil On sa
10 sIhEt to ACgl!ctzaft1u also, In the coursc Of
tfis attempted pu..ss reformation: "conaasu!a-
uon has been Insisted upon IN pl2ee Of the unia-
telltG1hle tttcitatvn; and The traditional e.s:..
Eue.lsh "ri*1L -
The custom Of calling in person, except IN cases
an3 aot es npopsr ass e e
transmit II b5 mali q special messeuse.-thouga,
| IN card envelope supesscz1bed with the name OF
| the person. The two are then euclosed Ia Sec
ond cnyeiope aad properly di;Se:ed. Many 2e?-
tpg their cards Of congTataIat1o1 on .sew Tears
Day Instead Of calling "a person, With tho reserss-
uou, Of course, Of making the pezsonA call upon
select few Of salued aocia1 iatisosses-a systca
| which somewhat reduces the former calling and
wine-bloblEg OF that greatly abused annyc1sary.
- nay os fo iH snn; he
I the naturaii and tho custom Of writing Messages
Of congo and vtsit = beginning to be viewed With
serted without fear OF sainsay, that the Of
terms has sse9 tts zenlsn, aaa = gradually giving
place TO more 1euhe methods. =
The n1anta Of the etcrsto1re j1st now IL tor Arti-
clcs de Paris A huge bug NTH horns, the writing
desx once opened, c1zWs ont or nAunts out In
eo1o.s Of seaI,et saa takes h!s r!see, ea1onsost-
Take one ot these metal horns Of his between
yorr thumb and n1gcr and LIT the Insect gently;
and, presto, tnose avs Of his ats Vide open, =
yenlinH The fact that the insect has, By some ms-
hap, swallowed half dozen excellent pens That
s.ian:nx Aepnis:ophnes, sho1ll 5ol raka- tha
nans 81 'G iii e H. sa gef 1oo
1culd .aspeet Of no beverage ess aTlssoclaue ,San
old port Your penhoidcs Is The attenaatcd iTnrJ
| lycV foot imaginable; 3 miniature column NON
/ the pIsce de yeudoEr, 9 E1aaa par1hc1en,
hronxe alligator. an Aast6nda Ill co!ed Tor a.
tnconeeiIntle, upon history or comparative
anatcrr, answers 10 keep ycEl papers In placc
xhtle !ou w,.ts; md tans 5oa nad yourself sur
rent, II tie simple matter Of indning q ti.ts
dosss- Enough to stimulate ones invention to the
eyolct,ca Ct cne phrases, one Fou;d sappose,
m Inclination to dulness; ind yet these uttle
epst!es Of society are generally the s:aless things
u tae world, with tns possible exception Of stale
Fr:e In the midst Of d little world Of iu,put gro-
tesq1ca md the result Is the most foruA naiser
poss'oie u ses paIsses. every one Of which has
The tak Of the period Is pura,e-snanye having
been tabooed a!together. and 1snark, 10 introduce
usual popularity Of a.ue.G dabbcd Riama.k. Tio-
Is It, scaaet, yellow. and other fancy tlnta hare
exception Of crimson. purple and blue. sear.c:
looks excessively vulgar; and no tint, except blue
y adaptable TO al the general coio1s OF ssa.
| tone1J.
e BE- notteed. The Phrase * Al home y L fast
iasns nl nc tsase especially IA Invitations to we'd
| The inv.taEon fo,mula for acercnonioos wedding
taTeieses dias{s l!;s from the style which nas
l
o9e the e'f Initials Of fnosfsss s7s M GnGss sfss
| gIoem, ia st.l De r,'u<ur-tha collection of
phEssts te:nS Lie sa:oe As formerly. The mono.
| gram appears at the top. About one fourth down
| from t6e top Is the Nosl "cereiaony.' 4 frW
~ DBas of r. Ct s Pe s
Broadway aud SIKH sreaue; aud nnalls, ii M ,hc
,Ss sheet i tee xetdlns sectp,,os esra '.nea oe
ths hINica pa1euts1 Which, instead Of reading
anu humber u street - % iofae.lg u 1 IL 1spp }epn;
OF scrip 'n'ts:I1n; ~ .D,i TsSs: En- -
Request Tor detre> the pleasure Of your COMPANY
at the wedding reception oi shelr lsuxater
nan te1, as hefoTe: aSd seeead sari annoane- X da
| The insertion oi carl, bearing the name Of tnc
E2othef Of the bridegroom, nay oe noted also al
~ Innovation which has made It's way rsplllJ,
AMI L becoming quite customary anti proper.
new FORM OF cards of announcement has also
made ITS appearance and, nom Us e1ceedlng aim
I ss; s,esa q tae ,so asg M us Wss
sasn Ia ntoop. % ~tt2 ne n4sae ~ q The bsadexroon
u2mc OF The Grtds Is Ptece4ed By nse-the cA.l
Nj. and Mrs Lewis Mason.
1901 F1f.h avenue N'''''N' " N'7''''
a tote-saeet accompa1les, and the envelope,
with wh'sc Of embossed monogram, Is used; ana,
IS thesc coas1tc;e the innovations se1tatim II
wedding etiquette, the subject NAV be ti,s,atsed
xith TIC eantton shss. even In anniversary WeI
dnSs 1t Is now dc rt7uer 10 oE,is the phrase At
nome Nom -sasunG tnstesd = regular note pi tnELta-
The paper wedding, al American Invention, has
NOT lsen QeneralIg adopteI-tne tin wedding. o.
the other hand. hat1ne catne.t IN popularity hoa1
dola casssyed-.tLe reserae being tue u is. wen
era.y celebrated Il the alrer and golden weddings
Considerable tchase Il tus, nov go,az Oh In the
G1t Tles reiatse 70 he rsupttety OF dropping
P. G. (frur j~tnsrx ecncs,. and Cstu.rt De ~
H<u1; and thus tar the advocates OF the atltma-
i've Etsr seem 10 bare the advantage. Tne DUES.
ron has beea acItated before, but not With Any
setal result: aad tie asa's.:c taitta,s have Kept
taet1 plscss 7 spite q sseE Sal9.elnsto,!rJ. Il
knts IN either ease, - j. R--snat q, answer H.
sueste.,- ,-toE 7 $; +. T. L-saas s, % taSe
ssse!9t .;- ,, F; G: ~ M aszs., o. ?: 5of
posed hs1e lie better 81 tie ssssnr: nSns 81 rs !.
tae pars ttnen has now become almost uniser-
=: present; though he listed caoss. Of ec,7rs2ou-
dehee nu5t yield before long.
The nranis fct naonos1acas Is It tts zenith The
Ihe fetters the better fashion seems 70 be suttc.
Whole names arc not uafseQocaty cpi!ei to
enmies, md grotesars tnIfts,, sre eo,nt.r M ~
7 he monogram has even developed the dignity Of !
nemsnc..ssIe: and latsesiJ one s enllghteaea |
EaSeu!e, cs Marie Louise rcrnex7atu OF ! c1r-
qEeI military. n1ral. tckc!, ) rnedtsval .. |
Ii fset Se1 York society lives a5l Eorrs |
ard has It's bring in racr'S:s3.s. AMI spends !
most OF The ting n the tec12s>s:as Thereof! Tne |
pcot lone Initial has bern dy1sen tie w.ii; sac
~ 20 cztsss and the LIE, Ihey AZ 70 longer Il |
r,.r<r. One mus: hHTe monogram or onc - |
nooody; and tie more r1dectpneiA5i: the uloEc-
91am the greater It's tnscatton OF AEsstocracy Tie
EedlEFI letters, owing 70 the present FttuaIsttc |
movement ase perhaps more poplar saan Anj 1:
TIC otaesA k,t a-r. n sAct ex1ena.EeIy used FOR
p:t:sT they xre; nevertheless, extremely dt1acalr
70 decpaeF. wh,ch mar OF uos be nerit accosd- |
TT 70 ouen standpodas Of judgment
P7l:1an E@ured ncte paper, Almost square u The
sheet Tho patterns S-sacrtik knd h1ys t1cas-
barred a:d ssnpetD constitute the az4,ti ~ Of
d.nce. c11rp: xsere he pa,aea ara on :efral u
peculiar tE:.l1cy. Thick Eaxi!4a uur1Ied pz2er
= esed eJ Etnueuen The nane OF co1urrJ 1es.-
top OF The note aaeet the Monogram 4ppezs3u4
u sae ctEsre. LaselJ. too, h1l become qtn:e
eskss:2as! 70 bare the nuaaer q cues rezAeore
% nc s:seet e5d ne nai2r ol rae ssSeet engraved
o. the cppeS corner.
Aucpca to this sohjec. a.,o, ma.1 be nnsn1 The
faes thas reFolnion has beca Eroegat n tic
tt:J:e q ees1ess eaz5s md teas the o.d slo1enlr
!otGs ~ Gp5s oct Of use. The neN stJca arc
yer! elseora:e, sc17e ot tier. H1Ia monograms Ct
tae frin, and form specimens 10 5e preserved II |
~ ea.d.osx1et Ne ersEartox II .ezae a n tie
Q. oeaat5 Ct e1ecatso.- TIE s:y:e 1i ocz.oess
e1lLs ftl3 !eAf Il 4ctxsiet tSan formally, n |
sell = mote dencs:e, the uono7oi7 n iarEr carts
beng he'd b. .ne ladies' aSd sraEto:a ts.ag
Cae AI-sler And 1lorr o5.9t. ..,-..- Ea=.1ess
aoEsts 1T 40 yGJ {tlcEai4I a4tt ;*1E1 the sr9- |
tn CT pE!nlaz ;aeis a'i-ess A.:oas :a,. .e.s 4Aod
Of the envelope, As .oc ao:i +, E2t1 cse Erection
70 tetCt1 oos caitt+ !cr :te:r twe1r3.eve daEs-
Formerly w13 ctSicIEa.y VIII c.a1J people 70 |
Ezate The aldre.s On tse rereEse sLe Of ta- eaTea
cIe. thu. cbsattrx the necessity Of opening |
letter Il Il N01 tAfd fpy within .nE Ie1at Te. |