Vermont phÅ“nix. [volume] (Brattleboro, Vt.) 1834-1955, 1869-12-24

! al ~ hotter
hos M more rot pre-emption right to
somc norfect woman than you have to a
norrect man. And If you are going to be-
ein Inv beinp soft as wax now, and trying
10 make yourself all over, pity your case
when he gets the power; for its my expo
rience. that when human nature gets TO be
n hammer. IL comes down as hard as If IL
had never been an anvil, no matter what
YOU think. You know you speak great
deal softer yourself to strangers than you
! do to folks at home, and men and women
is pretty much alike. just you take my
advice-tie up your money. Hell look
sharp after his'ns And leave 1t TO you
all if that wasn't good advice Ana what
! do you think she saysY why, she piA"N
mp liko peonJ, anu says She' q
I "Ir can't trust him with my money !
ma, don't sec how l can trust him with
myself"
As if any body said they did see. If she
makes up her mind to trust him. it's risk.
Maybe they'll live together like Darby and
Joan; maybe she'll soon be glad of her
money to help herself Nobody knows. [
have seen the gruncst, most outlandsh lel-
lows turn OUT inc tehuerest husDands' ana
I'll ere was Aeke refers used 10 laugh ati
he's Member of Congress now this bless
cd minute. And there's DIR. Fanshawe, he
was Always talklhS no" man shoulu VroaI
woman Inc girls was all crazy lor hill>
And / declare if his wife didn't come to mo
the other Monday and ask for a bit OF
bread. Inc brute had kept her all Suholy
without mouthiul because ne was III one
OF his ugly nus sometimes ne Keeps hef
without hre; sometimes he breaks every
thlng III ire mousse sometimes he 81. mas
the money they are suffering ior In ire ing
boys to dnnk' Ihere am no help' ile's
the head OF the house. The money IS all
his'n. l remember when he wouldn't let
her put her own shawl on, or carry bag
just big enough for her handkerchief which
tell jimmy, if have seen one such case I
have seen twenty-five, for husba t--pnd,
wives are both the uncertainest p perty;
and say do as the generals do, an have
force to fall back ON, and tie up yor mon
cy to yourself. And if your beau
thinks you can't trust him, tel him, ON
the contrary, yes you do; but Ger since
the Fall in the Garden of Eden, when ov-
crything was going on so swimming, you
have been doubtful of human nature. And
why shouldn't you, pray? Yol can't be
sure he'll leave you your own money. I've
seen woman as brought her husband
fortune cut off with three hun ed year.
Ana can tell you a good many things
happen in married life. a man oels mighty
different TO the girl as sweet n, a rose and
all smiles and honey, and clean collar on
for him every time, and the woman he's
sccn in n ninbt-con. and so,,o ,vo,,,o,, IL,
look owiuI and nc oross a. .,,., I'll.
scolding tbo childro,, al II, -
railing regulor 1,,i1,s tIa, a.a-,aS' ,,is, as,
LOVING o~5511I 11Ilr7-iA<--s~ls-<S~ S~e----< r~.A
circumstances. as toll I'm, inst os nr,b
as your baking does ON the oven and ibo
-four. And it's risk anv wov. and tbcI
man looks out mighty shsrn. and trios N
make himself safe as he can and nv adj
vice is, be as much in love as Won like. but
don't let go on common-sense; and don't
20 into matrimonv unless YOU are wba, I
call forehanded; but if YOU have no mon
cy. get trade or profession that can NAL .
it.
That's what l said TO jimmy. But tberel
'taint no use talking TO vounp things Of
eighteen which conceit 10 know evorv
thing. What the Young birds can't see
from the nest the hawks can toll them and
Sam Smith. hos onnosod to vomau,s RIGHTS
He saws woman ougbt always to bc
clinoing vino and dono,,d ontirei,, m, maj,
Tinnv tells mo bnt bo hasn't settled vet
understand whot man Thoro,s v-i'lo,y
pohbins tho ,yoshor,ro,,,o,t Sho 80,
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