, 1869-08-28
10RD BYnoN'B MARRIED LIFE.


sut. h.. vic u . doueatlc myster5; that willis
he heli+ ted HIM 10 b intaae, theFe eould b n9
Il III san,tJ, sho held th8t ho was unpa1donAolc,
rcause tho dlxtespect Lowafd her naa been l9ten,
!obat He concludes that b3 tind szcatnient Lcfu
yeI, t io1iaR T hu,hand ID hi wife hid really
him with that a1seslon which smooth1
dop 20 nAnJ Of the ,aapef1nca Of named lle-
yea1e threuRn % ,Se @ auei tndsezoton 81 Tnosa
Moore. Though the particular oucnce u not. the
cla.s to wn,cnl. belongs u tnoNn:. i vas not
nuaspst tnsae the e0I stpa!aron @ nns Tas eaase va
Byron, to usn the woEu. Of her
husband, nsd becn taught thst duty both 70 God
could hut have known the circumstances In which
he asked her iU marriage! Being 4tfcnuoaAiy ad-
7lted BY friend 10 maHy. After 1nuen diseu.slon
ss soea s ~ G
Aad be nsmed Miss M!barte, to whom be had Al.
resdy made an offer Of marriage, WHICH sne hhl
hrr. Ecmfnt,tnR him TINT he could not marry With
out money: that Mss Atlloanke had no fortune
1t present and, moreover, tnat she Fas learned
q p1oposai 70 tae other lady. aud MAS rejected.
cane "Yoa aee," be said, "Nts. Milbanke Il
meu,, His Itcnd, sti1l strongly demonstrating
sgalnas the choice. read the letter. and aaidt
.lhs j. ytEy pretty Letter IT,. PITY + a saoul1 !
.si., Esi Z; Lord 1yrop, % .sis .hall %" il vas
pent, and, II sioores words, the ass Of big fsse
Was eea1ed. Miss Mrbanie had loved him for
na1iltd." Dc wrose Of her 10 bis friends, coItly,
perhaps, but It may be With no more than becom-
ing reserve His letters snoK In What estimation
she y wss held IN her Own country, among her oHn
people. By the way, ny Wfe-e1cct Il Pes7cc-
{tou, aud hear Of nothing but her merits and
her wonders, and she Is 'vcEy pretty. Her ex-
pectattons, an told, ara great; but what, have
month"; !" l certainly did not dream that she
was attached to me, which 1t 8eena f1c has been
for some time. Is:so thought her Of cold DIS
long story. and nour trouble Jou with It. As
TO her virtues, dc., Ar, you nil hear enonGh Of
them ifor abe is kind ol pc.taFn In the North,
Il is we'll that one Of a 10 OF such fans, einee
there L. sad denct In the morale OF that article On
MI part II OWING 70 ny 'biteh of = asart -
m old azd 1housh DID not know it TIL lsselyl a
mutual attachment ,-
Iie had been mAIned fortnight when he wrote,
"Addreas Joar next 70 Seahain, ssockton-on-
Tees, xh0e We arc going on Saturday n b5re. bT
ladys laty mother. However, Sir Nalph anil
Their sonln-law declared that he liked them antt
tbs rlace vastly, aiding. he hoped they would
I've many hsppy months, sud that Bel!!n!s wif"3
6ehaEior. Lord Wentworth. too, her uncle, from
Nsozn abe was to inherit seven or eIgh; thousand
a5eaI, had hetu so very kfnd that Lynn hardly
kHGU HtH W Hlsu HILL Ill AtAhtu Il HG lUliu
sa comfortable on carth. There were sresdJ
Signs that be was wcaty OF his mar.
ned HE, ons Ute month from tho wedding day
study" vi hch ne had fonud at Dougzs kinnnl.i's j.
lie Wrots t., Moore: my papa. Sir Kalpho, ha.h
recently made speech u Durham ta1 meeting
sp not 1E, n eqs asT seyssa ts
Ing II to himself q lef. him III the uidd.el over
EnIious decsnteEs, which can neither interrupt
PIN no5 "a. a,!tep n9.t s. to ss%la,nn tea =
lecture INC about T." The following sentences
ars copied frpm th!a letter, because they are IN
stanced ~ NJ. Moore As proof Of tonl bJrnnt
"sincc wrote last hare been tranAferretl to MI
fa.her.Ir-la~s, with my Indy aud fuy !shJs malt
e's md 6s ~. ovs a @ n
to and 10 = admiration. swift saJa NJ
wise n.an ever married." but, for q fool. think
ths tlost a.ntruslal Of y possible future s!a,es
hut AM rery sure Rhoulh renew mine As the eS
pirailnn, though ne1l Term wcft fur nihcty nt'
nine ,cass. wish you "nuIu correspond. for
An here 'HIhtuA3uA rntpram, EblittsttfitNa =
It'll. Pra, tell nc what ls going M in the way o
| iniFg,tery, aud how the - nnli roR,ra u lh'
af'er mattisue aill wGo arv Eu.ng to Dreas IA,
| particular commandments"
Aaah,, r1nrtIy tinnth later. ~ am In snrn I
state pf Raulcntss atl'i ttagnnton, and 40 total
occupied IN consuming the fruite anu satli.tcrinx
ti,inu "a tcnti oil Nnunsf lteas,rfa AMI III, a
watching !hc Erow n q stnpscl k'n.e'trry I'Ishe
IN the garden, TINT have neither tine n"f sru4
g snv Iin1t linn {nurt etrr." Ami mr." M"ts
hctr, Il%;' unH 10 tint trntlnlug,In ntI
elderly lIru tsl! r"ns'taeteL an! III whlrh M
rtnn' tn!h. + l,.sw tetws!. b'n1self srrt{ rre'nl
N mn. Ut ~ tns,ttase. atr. ,'mt" fn!a, .'rt
.t%. + l.. 'iss ,sf: 3""r, s s .t h" s'"' e! .1 H.
hsptrss " l"r4 llttnn shni1ll !'e r,nhAr,"sl ~
thr fM Lr 'nt rhasrt, t t,trs"'t! IN nthrt w"t,1i
1T hIa Met,1apn t'Ith a'tll = w''tHail NJ Mts' At
| 1,ahte, Itn' itrs1 nu1hntlntta u n ts.htvrtn
htstt s,ai, traa"4t, fhn lnrhsna If Ita ~1fn t'e'
rams '44hta EstG RIIi t"r4na,, aipt lh"f9 auI.
srttaI" trrnf e ''"nnt sn Te.tll,,as "i!'.,
nhtra ihr tnRyaphrf l1afl tInE lhn atHI tukaFie,
TIN tnrsa ae ~ tho lat ietttE i'efoEh i.r ne!t
Tst1l,. u Hh1rA lAtt ts}rhI AiAlnALrea thr iIlsl
u h!a InnKhtrr, thrr- MaFr Dn41h4s fnF thw A!ir
slr Vt Ihr AtEnIts 0l tl,lIalat. and !nr llgkt o
th3Mpus nih \ sight" llasa now heen mafTlrs
year m 'tiE VI Ut this IHnnii,. !lctKtI.o"l" n
| which Mu1Ee perceived Rnuln Return If lhe rtat
lrts nt.t 11.,rg huitt which unnapplheAs ur In
rstirn'e a!ws}s talrd up; and he knew mat |
wa tis n hntt TT Of 'he % ws1tsss mimi. nnasr % a. =
that tensc oi freedom whirh told hun that Their
mtsc ho!ncs for Lilu elsewhere.
FIr1n Tin rctutn To lonliun nntIl Ihe Aay th4
luis wtir left hiHl, period af ten months, We Nas
Int few AM! tar between Rllinfses ot iit doIuest
life. II The interval his daughter wan horn, an
Lord Wentworth died. Dfthe expected hlrlh, tn
talhry. ,Lany lLop,ls ttefote II tiappcnet, wrus
that 1t was subject npon which he WAS not par
I tcularly hu1lnnu, except that he thnuGht It Wou
| father md Mother. On the eve OF the nnetr'
fuhe:al he went to DnlJ Lane thcattc, md. IN hi
p,iynse p tox, Win ST Jsnea Maekiatosh, clapac
inK bcfo.c h!m Lord B5ron's journals, has nc
thought nt to tell moro nG his daily fife, for
| month before and month af,er the birth OF HI
the period, he was drunk, day amer Gay, vii
Sheridan. The interest, he Rays which the ueta
would poetes5. "pow that thetr INST 1est as
slight to Justify me III entering upon them mo1
pu1t1cuiarJJ." A shallow excuse for such rcser1
At the veU crisis OF tho roets life. More tsel
causes might de found, and, among them, that III
! joutra!l Nould hare contrad!cted Mr. Moore
| story ol The separation. That hls wIfcs sorro,
himsea oearn witness. IL had brea,ned m ' upon aa a
! "tAe breath Of bitter worus:" their child VA
| " born In bitterness aud nurturcd IN consulson.
| never had, or could have, any rrprcacn 70 ma1l
against her; The fault OF the cruel separation Il,
| with HIN alone. Adding Ills confession that b.
every body else IN contsct With Il - hIs nttnRtlo1
that, following the doc,rtne Of Nl1unu Of NASSAU
he chose to 30 wherever be bad mind, and nere
ireuned bis ls!y was concerned.
Prom these reEelat1ons OF his Eites wre'ehcd
ness may, IN eomc degree, ht !n2G1nch. Frou
her w ltaEn Incidentally, that dnrin1 the ,atse1
bantl, tnat tweutJ-ReTen days after the birth O
her child. lie fl9nined 70 her, IN Mrluny hts anso
lnle deslte thai she should lease London on tat
earliest DAY that ste could conveniently IL. ant
that ehe went accordingly. And <hat manner o
Wonan xas she to whom the VOW to lore, aoaol
aud cherish bad bcea thus Kept: Let her hus
bitter business" Immediately after she had en-
forced separation, and while, IS the consequence
81 1as sBse sa.n be- ~.s saGsus
ont hope. Without raie, 11snou. III Ml.y.as,ou u
~ m5st eel yon rteht d one point, however
IN my choIce (1aess IN choosing At alD; for tt
not benese, and mist FAY 1t IN tne very dress Q
-1 this bitter business, that there ever vas bet
Ter, or even brighter, Kinder, O. more ami
able ans agreeable Icing than Iady Byron
never had, Ior can hare, any rrprusch 10 uak.
nes M Nane With nc. WHERE there Is blame 1t he
In the "por5u.s' O., the Countess Al
~speatlns q his ma1T:sse9a Ms % debate SUB sub
Is ' aas aas s.ssfsa .;1s ses.'lf isesi:! /;
eeen tae innoeea c.ase Of ii his e erroIs s al a u
bis g11eis+ o. hts wife he spoae with much ~
speci AID affection. He haid abe was Al ilus:1t
ous l1dyr distinguished Tor the qualities OF hel
heart md understanding, and tha, nj tie fault 0
lhe!r crIel separation lsJ with himself" As
taunt againht hts wife be wrote: She was sov
eInea w what she Called l1ed rules End pnuci
Pies" Thcre Is a remarkable passage IN . Iette
10 Murray, d letter which, coupled with ono u
Moore, ahoNs the wtfea delight In sharing, a
humble minister. IN the glory OF her husaxnd-
few weeks after irelr marriage he sent to Moore
Ia Iad5 Byroo's handwriting. the Tezzes wnIcI
begin:
-1hcfrs nes joy the world EirelEke thzt t.ke
Some daIs before the day on which he express
ed bis sntoEse desire that sac should leaye h.
home, he sent 10 Murray raar.cnpta, also Ia b.
wNes handwriting, Of "Jhe Siege Of Cotsnth
and PaI1staca, p And Nruse presently a1rer
w2tdk:
81 am glad thas tho handwriting WAS q fAyo,a.
bic omen OF the morals OF tho piece, but yor
nutt not tzust 70 thai for ny copJiss would wire
Eocence. hope. however. IN this 1n5sAnce, win
no great peril 10 either"
How could Lord Byron 10 soon grow weary Of,