, 1869-11-21
The Anatomy OF QunrrclinG.
Prom Temple Bar.


There Is one very singular cause Of guatreltug.
mat ar7tes from Peculiarly Eens1tive and AfItc-
liot ME temperament II ID COMMON to nearly all
:oEers, but II ls Frequently found amongst friends
AFRO There are eoMc people who cnnpos get on
without d constantly reiterated nss11arce or the
lore with which they are regarded. TneY begin
manifest itself from time to time to CONG ln some
marked innnners and tneir common method Of
proving .ts existence ia TO set mp some sort Of
amstsng up fneyy ny a1e Ike children I'D VINO na;S a1s
ccntlnEalfF pulling up the noHcss They hare plant
Cd 70 tee t they have saSen ROOT They are not
content with recalling to mind ceftatn uudeoiahle
proofs Of the friendship or lore which unltes them
to Their friends: they must needs hare some pal
pasac s testimony The5 Le an3ions aprEehen-
toa that they are never satiaaed With euch proofs
US would be 2 nertec: guarantee 10 other peoples
ROOD ecIte Yet 1t Ia 30 much that they dstsust
the ~ rmanencc Of the affection they have IN.
tIlresi, "a tnat they hunger for the pleasure OF
htas.nE It md uitetance- Hence iho astoutshng
uou Of few tender phfAses IN lovers tat. II d
nli very vel! for an outslder 10 ask what Is the
nsc OF 1cpea,1g thirty times 10 letter whs1 botu
nble fact; but both Of tnenl hare keen pen.ure
*tich are so remarkably commonplace aud oItes
luoIcrc1s 10 unuseresteu persons. By-And-ty
however, marriage forms the climax Of thts Inter.
change of assurances, and constitutes In 1tactr q
Of wssh csSe e nas,
lure who has heeu transformed into a wife should
hapreo to p0stets one Of those relt1css, sensitive
anxious natures, 1t Ia only too likely that she will
tAke alarm At the undtu1on strative aud common
plane *ay In which her husband accepts his hap
pattU She vii! be2lu to suspect that marriage
tcs cooled hls affection for her. aud Rhe will rem
dcr he1selt wrttched With the DOUBT Somequ,et
evening she becomes r1ther pcustTe, and TO her
hhsoand, Who u reading the Newspaper, she
ba5t:
"oh, Tom, I'm beginning to think Jou don't
!ote me nearly ns MucH ~ you 1scd 10 dor
stun ana nouscnse, !" he sayr, continuing the
reading o. our special Correspondents glowing
scsoans ol the performances OF Flying Rem
IN rev moments he loots rounn, and dnda her
zone. RetoilecstnR vaguely TINT she had sahl
sr1nttn,eH 1 70 nm ~ Fe5 peculiar tone, be goes
ats1 ntf. Atn ENDS hcr IN another room, alone
end dfca1ful distant IA nnunts lie il vefy re-
PeEtanss koe butxfs into tesra; and then be makes
~ theae prote%tAuons Of Affections that she mas
,scn Dying to bear. This ID 4 yeIy pretty lesson,
Whenever the monotony Of mRt,led existence
t1Fs hc!, and she lorss for one OF The loves.like
| o11ttf of endeaxpent Of their preconjngM days,
~ sne hss TO DO IL get up nice little quarrel
AID tefrify Der rer ror<etesa husuand into heso!cs
NOT would It ne fAtt TO say that sne does 70 out OF
mere intention to atIord herseif pleasure It 10
probably one OF the radical ctaEAcier,st!ca Of bey
naturn 70 hunger for these emotional crises; apd,
once she has found out the way to procure them il
IL very 1telJ that, Inadvertently she VIII hare n
oo0T1o 10 II Pretty often.