Buchanan County bulletin and guardian. (Independence, Iowa) 1866-1869, 1868-04-03
BULLETIN, VOL. 3, NO. 40.

en-, or other amusemcuts, will be almisi
! bic.
! 2. And that the flesh NAV be mortified Il
an exteat commensurate with tile calamit,
that heI SesalIen US, no hkkcr will e allow
ed between those hours, ceptia to iayaln..
and persons Of estre me age.
There wiilbe weepin and wailin at ia !,
Corners when this is received.
- PEra0LErx V. NAsBY, p. NJ
(Which is Postmaster
ISsssisieA Adgiee - Unhappy Marie i
Couples.
Msifisys when sul5sSsed to public disc as.
sion and comment, maAea matter OF bar
gam, and iiahle al any moment to ride cA.
pesuIs in shameless divorce suits, is yer
sad 70 look upon. Bat for the irin bclig.
that 70 much agitation indicates tho III;
proacf Of heaisa.ful reforin, and. tkst atsrr
the turmoil ard fermeat is over, we shall rct
clear xi.e'1f anew order Of things, nots,in.
could be more Utterly hopeless.
All, If oae could but drill q few IDEAS in,o
the young heads who 50 hccdlessly rash IL
10 marriage, thinking IA more of the bsii..l
veil and jewels than the hong, hong, weary
life, which cannot be CLOSED over, but must
be lived day By day, hour BY hour--every ri
al every sorrow, every pang, cndurcd--.ived
through and conquered, or yielded to.
All, it they would but remember that lie
does not end II the alter, - il does roman :
ces that in fact, = generally begins the =.
that, instead Of being the end Of career. !,
sis the nrst deep note Of : beginning, ID
which their life has been but prelude.
All. il they could but appreciate the solen.
nifty oi tie ps0miss, = Fer better, fcr worse.
70 see The thoughtleasness with which.
young reople marry y, sOa thosghtful per
sou, simply horrible. Ingcneral the brid..
fled with her own importance. ia cour.
ship ka5 been sSeti0i. ard she; of course
expects TO be- 70 s,iu. Shes has probably
some sentiuanasl idsassof boiag rviofr.er,
.hould hsr kushasa proye vic;one S6s es,
poets to train his habi,s, with uaSarued
charactef heFseh, sAs nodsssly expects to
brfi his character. = And, through aJl shs,
in her heart, expects 70 BE- sdossd expects
q se the esusral fguse around which I'll
i The bridegroom, TOO, what doe. be e..
pecsf si~
All, we'll, we know that. II 10 drilled into
Us from our cradles. He expects q mode!
house neat, smiling wife, buttons al.
ways on, and dinner xiways prompt And
good. In fact, be expects . pssfsctiy deyo..
ted and charming seryant.
Now, in the name Of common sense, wha,
chance for happiness = there between thes;
tvo, sack Of whom Is bound up IN self-each
of whom expects TO sit still and be aaored
No need to tell the result. Our divorce sui.s
answer. M esiA
Mas1yisg with these IDEAS, Of course they
are unhappy. The young viSs makes up
her miud, IN mouth OF 90, that she has
made mistake, ssd hsneefossh he world
holds no happiness for her. II dives her
into one Of several things; either into fash.
ionabIe sociefy, 10 divert hessslfW Wflh Is nov
el diyerioss of flirting. etc, etc., (ses di-
vorce suitsl, Or ialo frenxisd housekeeping,
into weak, Whining Tossn. ! - S..... :.
tahlnphase Of fenah pGnsihl;t;aa a. =
she Be thoroughly noble i makes 81 her. q,
ter long years-Which ve win MOI na;nt--a
Grand. ejos;ous 49,. - A. nses.;on.ll,
plsass ous igAt on earth. -
In the HUSBAND. il drives either 70 smuse.
ments and e.tertr;nnests avny 6n~ he-...
.sAunea.a uina or fuss4 4ne:es 70 . tEaa-
icss eeuss.masle5, e,nsnlng and grading al
inoisionahty unoer MS IRON neeI.
WOW mere u mf:s sroe. Neither Of the
TWO seem 70 feailze snAs seas = ths turning
POINT y .nen nses. nus cno'ce to De.
ciae wnetnef tney VII oe wrescned, halt
nvise oe3ecss, ~, srs 'osg, candidates for
divorce, o. vnstner tsey vAl take their
wretcneu me nrmly m nend ana bring order,
ana even beauty; oss o. arrangements, Asny
nse teeas vnoas hves sna never and THIS Out.
otnefs discover II 100 iate 70 enecf much.
Al y one eouu 0a. recsn al snese hainns
eosPssA snd = Oeo shese vosass
ny poos if'e1oas you maas : missAks AZ
marriage, Prooao,y, put you make : worse
us.Ae now ~ y'esoan 70 your disappcins
nst - soaone 5oos Aeaos % pc unhappy
ne re~ OF yoor ives. ..
iou are unfortunately pound TOR hfe 70
ssoe, sn'as Parns,s ee1 eoe heeonole.
go. manly ana soneny cQere open 70
yog. s~ sisss nae " ycur ninos, aecsdtdfy
80 !. nn esI' sra' - @ 70 naks
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