The Tiffin weekly tribune. (Tiffin, Ohio) 1859-1868, 1867-10-24

enjoy cigar smoke, aud "havu't the
lslighteS, objoctiou' to deus smoking
in their presence. All men have not
learned that rcmen can say great
tiany things they never mean. Wo.
men, tith their tact, are about as
OPAQUE 70 men as smoked glass;
willis mcr, with their frapkucss, are
about as transparent to vomsn as
window panes. No clean woman
would ever kiss woman who smoked
for any amount Of mouey that might
be offered her; nor would ono ever
Mss a man whose mouth was like a
spittoon 10 hotel, did not his sex
shield him, Give men the same at
fractions ono smoking aud tho other
mot, and in hundred cases out of a
hundred she would choose for a hus.
band the encwho never used tobacco.
Women dcspisc swearing, or vul
garity, the twin sisters of profanity.
No mau. whose lips are tarnishod by
such language, should ever be carcss.
cd by pure woman, or by little
children. Such lips, like lunar caus-
tic, discolor all they touch. Mep
who tell obscene stories, or talk iu in
uendocs, are not wcrthy to bo tho
pride or strength Of woman.H
Women hate a man who drinks in
toxicating liquors, whether in the
shape of choice wines in dainty glass.
cs, or poor brandy in cartheu jugs
You will say that tho scenes enacted
at Saratoga this summer have given
the lie to this, that drunken women
we're almost as common thero rs
drunken mon. is sadly true that
some women, with a desire to be bril-
liant before men, to be genial and
friendly, with little respect for them.
selves and still less for men, with
tight dresses and loose morals, make
themselves bcastlike. Much has been
said about women being examples to
men in this respect, but if men are
the head and women are to look up
to them for protection and knowledge
then they must expect that womeu
will copy their doings. When, in
thus initiating, wives shall be drunk
every othcr night, aud every alternate
night spend in the uuhallowod en-
braces of some friend Of their hus-
bands, men will begin to open their
eyes upon the terrible wreck they arc
making oIsoeicty to-day. Itis true
that wine has been offered young
men by the delicate hands Of women
God will never forgive such, but il
men half knew thoir manhood they
would have power to refuse, aud be
doubly respected. Men seem not
only unable to refuse women, but un-
able to refuse their own sox; or, If re.
lusing, do it with "Not this time,
thank you r. or, 81 am to busy just
now T. so, living lie, and killing
their own influence over those very
parties ut the sumo time. There il
some appreciation Of truth and right
in the world, but very little brave
standing mp and doing better for it
Col. Clarke, Professor Of Amherst
! College, Massachusetts, whose name
was so honorably known in the war,
did noble thing at n large dinner
party. given by Edward Everett. Be
ing offered wine from tliatn gentle
mans own hand, he refused il, 70 Tho
surprise aud apparent indignation o.
all present II it was an opon rebuk,
to them, it was only adheriug to the
rightl To such nu act, by wIiomso-
ever performed, all women feel like
bncoling. ''''
Women have the most thorough
! contempt FOR man who, on any oc
casion that offers, tries either to ca
rcsS her, slide his arm about licr wais
or kiss her after he has waited upor
her home. Such man would step
her virtue if he dared, and in a ma.
Jority Of cases, goes where thos,
things are purchased rather than to-
J len. i would as quickly brand as I
laillain q young man who, took such |
Iliberty with a sister of mine, as pnt
who had openly insulted her. ndeeC
this is an open insult, and when 4 la
r dyr through fear Of losing bis friend
, ship, or from affection for him, re
eeivqs IT, she inwaTdly ceases to res
Peot him, saying, Sith,truth,' "If h
: coresses me unlawfully, ne does sotC
all others whom he can" If awo-
man docs allow 1t, she ngst,be vcfd
ant Of She Is not to be trusted; bu
r fEhen ,bsye learned this and pqye
! marry aigirl they cpp fondle befor' osr'
she is qtbelF oNn' rra ia'raqol a.
9 Women dislike a mang who. pas
eomplimehis. There is a young pro
= fessiOhal Christian man, uot'a tbous
; and miles frOn here, who, thong
e1lhavihg a lovely wife, can. upon aq
p married ladies, talks to them abou
G their bright eyes, winning ways, &c