The Tiffin weekly tribune. (Tiffin, Ohio) 1859-1868, 1867-10-24

drawer SO as to have surp p'us IN case
of an emergency, paying all this for
girl, who, accustomed TO il for
half. dozen years from hall. doten
sources, never EXPRESSES or feels any
gratitude. lie Keeps his pockets rolI
of conftctioucries 10 be generous,
and this young lady aud that say
iIsn't II fup to ride with smith2'
but ucyct saya"wduldnt II be fun TO-
get Smith for husbaud2' They
'say, rather, II don't, believe he will
support a wife very we'll; he spends
hoo much" There is much senti,
mental talk aud sentimental a afFectiOu,
and rcally much pure love, but young
women, for the most part, have, and
Tightly. too, a "breaj-and. butter"
eide Of the question, and aro always
asking, "Can he support me2"
Some men, in the above way, aud
some in higher and betler, are doing
these things with one aim, via: the ad.
miration Of society, which is to say
the admiration of women. That wo,
man like some OF these things is not
for moment disputed. They like a
neatly kept neck, we'll combed head
a good fitting boot. They like TO
have man talk just enough about
himself to show that he has some
sense aud some business power, They
Hike a hat raised slightly, aud n bow
ds though men honored tho sex be-
cause they had mothers, or sisters, or
wives. They like to have man oc-
casionally give them an inexpensive
Srlde, or take them to o ccucort or q
supper, ii they, by so doing are not
going beyond their mcaus; but they
never respect him for doing that.
Indeed, they think men really foolish,
lacking sense aud Judgment, in spend
( ing so much upon them when it
should be saved for a family in the
future, the head of which every man
diving expects some time to be. They
IHke a man who talks to them as
though they we're intelligent human
beings, or as though he desired to
make them such, who introduces
science, or art or travel. What If
they are not contersant with such
matters, you cannot afford to dwarf
your mind to make it companionablc
with theirs, ..lI .-.i la. rae. ..I. ,.ii
An erroneous idea has crcpt into
society, that it is not polite to speak
upon any subject with which the 9TH
CIR is not FAM liar, II may be thus
between men aud mep, and women
and women, but never between lhc
sexes. Every man of observation
knows that women are like children
in this respect glad to learn, proud
to be made the recipients of knowl
edge, proud that sensible, educated
men take time and pains to talk with
them seusibly. Men might foar that
women would f6efp sense Of shame at
their Ignorance; on the contrary, they
pacify themselves by saying, eve are
women, and, therefore, not expected
to know such thiugs." | was at a
tea.table where rati educated young
man happened 10 mention GicorO
The hostess, a lovely woman and an
excellent housckeeper, presiding with
real grace az the ueatest of tables
inquired, "Who?" as though the
name was strange 10 her. lie, Will
a manly kinrlness, in way that never
intimated that sha was ignorant
spoke Of the. great orator and Of the
exciting times in which he lived nnd
acted, and thus Roman history wai
made a delightful topic of converse
ton. .saz'r7 0<t "uH
| saw the same young man talking
with famous belle. BY tact he
drew their remarks upon mineralogy
He told her of his cabinet, anC
his knowledge OF the science, ant
she, who had heretofore talked bril-
liant nonsense while everybody lis
! tened, was now a pleased listener
remarking to u friend afterwardr ,ihq
she 'iadmired him because lie coulC
ltalk scnsiGly." 90. Other, men coalt
talk in the same way, hut they has
hever'used their power before 'heb r.
4 There are some things that womel
dislike. DThey DISLIKE heckties of.th
hues of Tho raiobow. A plain blacl
suits uinetyrpi9e w0mep qptafa 2 hun
red the best, because the latter, give
one 4 to some extqat, the air Of a maj
the former ttelOok Ofa2fop. The
have eSnteihpt for asmnn who spend
more dian aNyery small amoaDt o
time before Ills mirror Or takes
look al the bang Of bis goat, Or Il
, lit Of is,glpyes and Paptal0qps az b
walks qdownn toEp1q They gan do A
that il needsut in that lines The
expect to lean 'up5n'meh, strong mer
therefore they dislike those Who ar
obliged TO lean upon canes or lam
I posts. for support. Men who us