Daily Ohio statesman. [volume] (Columbus, Ohio) 1855-1870, 1867-04-16
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The PhstddelphSd Ledger says that It has
TeceFe6 EALComm uuioatfons ot4aCe IN
referehee GO the frequency of funhapgy mar
riages, especially insfashionable society, as
1t is called. One ecorrespondent says ne mas
kpoWn the cases of young ladies' OF refine
nienC and resi- ability wnos having mar
rled young meiE met WIN IN good society
ana with dashtn& expenutdseres, ts nave peeil
utterly wrecked I0r Lite. = wO ot the young
men have Deen since cohylctee asf0rgers
anpf an9thsr pl1eg pH1seg SPfEsSvtvgs WIle sslli Nv
Ing. upon Chese-s shaselnehCS, tne Ledger
.ueomments IN many gk tness Plenqla sores
bmaskeq 1aals anq private 6heatIicals where
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ShtA ssockilxs Ano knse sHlalL, et0thes
bAn9stSfteei Sohes5 a.e atL1 tne rage, IN ndeofs'
'Ot1oor-tu-h@ua oftFes, 81 pets - atlo ~ ilq uo1s-
OUT tneTe is lar greaser cendency 20 THESE
EsnlseFa1le marrl$ges atlast tna9 would apI
pear possloie. w Know lliuseo Una slat some
OI tne yoqng laqles Who ~ seem mosE 81 iasnlpn,
"a1iy iaseinas.nes Are feaiiy as sherP .Ie aIlu
cneVntsi2 LOT ~ 60 - sus slls sllaps
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"1,I the ishrlS Ti,sir.Ieu that, ,,nf7arlia
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6anS,,,- II onol,ts trr have the saacfion. ali
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.raat the .hese' connseIs' Of thts 9famiiv.- a
Tnarria0e that pstranoes fine family on each
side Is On that account. generally' a source
81 nnhanninpss and want of rtssr,ect and
continned affection between the parties.-
MoCt maTried man know that thev ,m;0hr
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NE; Anu muse 1nO 20 lu oPPoslClou 10
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in pSltl, ~ sfclsty petoiiit's, IS lnore
comp clyau ana blie extremes o lie more
pr9ught IN contrast IA our sltlts.s ..yistzgg
a,sM Marriage MAI Is not ONLY ier the happiness OF
Igne united par, much A IS lor tnae pomen-
hFary fancy tnas oiten seems s @ as L IL ana IT,
alone, were gne Wn%oie % happiness OF llIe:-
Inc wnole WelIare ana happiness OF cnll-
dren ana cnIldren, 8 chilcren . may De most
seriously anecGed Dy Gne caicl IAtei fortune
aor casual propinqtllty endlng IA marriage
sof hfst cousins: Happiness IN old age Will
chiefly depend. on that mutual respect
eHiIIcn leads eo'tne study OF congenial nab
it's The cultivationsby each ct respect for
land conformity with those habits in which
the otheris .superioriis the sufest means of
happiness, ,dand far more necessary than
perfect similarity at first. In women, SUI
yperierity in refinement purity, religion,
and even education and the, fine arts, tends
much to this respect, where there is enough
good sense to appreciate them. In man,
courage, strength OF body and of mind,
hprotection from poverty, eilnlity and dan
ger.will atone for many W aknesses and er-
'rors In the estimation and respect OF witeI
But there are differences that tend to IN
creasing iahenatlon, which a. parents eye
can foresee, where an Innocent, trusting
daughters cannot. --.s,-.s
10 induce the full, Tree confidence OF the
ch1ldren or family from INFANCY is the
best way for parents TO seeare 1t, even In
these greater matters. Children cannot
&roWsnp essrengeq rom lsllels pafentss % Until