Lamoille newsdealer. [volume] (Hyde Park, Vt.) 1860-1877, 1866-06-20
THE DAY AFTER MARRIAGE.


,s The departure of son from beneath
the parental roof does not present any
spectacle Of desolation. Masculine life
has, from infancy, an individuality. an
Independence, an exctism, so to say,whichi
is essentially wanting to feminine exist
ence. E..~s.f. ,f.,sat -N+F q 4rt ta
When a son abandons his parents to
create for himself separate interest, this
separation causes but little interruption
inltheirsmutual relations. "A man marries
and still maintains his friendships, his
| habits, and his 6lial affections, Nothing
is changed in his life it is only an ad-
ditional tie. His departure is consequen-
ftly mere simple separation: while the
departure of a young girl to become the
wife in a, few, hours, is real desertion--
I desertion with all its duties and feelings
ttill fresh about it, In word the sol
lisa sapling which has always grown apar
from the trunk while the daughter has
: on the contrary, formed an essential par
t. of, it, and to detach her from her place i
to mutllate the tree itself
= You have surrounded her youth will
4 unspeakable tenderness-the exhaustles
y tenderness of your parental and materna
: hearts; and she, i'll return, has appeare'
= to pour forth upon you both an equal.
r inexhaustable gratitude: you loved he
yPbeyohd all the world, and she seemed t
n cling to you with proportiouable atfec
t ton tUm" 50 s1H'1 s13lug q t'
i, But one day., one ill-omed day, ma
+ arrives invited and welcomed by your
selves and this man, Of your own choice
=. carries off to his domestic eyrie your gentl
= Bdove, far from the soft nest which you
\ love had made for her, and to which her
had clung gaJf a.,.. 7s.g gset.4gg oI
|. On the morrow you look around yor
n you listen, you wait, you seek for som,
} tthing which you cannot find The cage
/. empty; the tupeful linnet has flown !; s
lence has succeeded to its melodious warl
y lings it does not come as it did only Q
v the previous morning, Auttering its pc
: fumed wings about your pillow and wal
,e4 ing yos by it soft caresses. Nothing r
/, mains bnt painful calm, painful vol
h a painful silence, ,sAt om is.J Sc
4 The chamber Of the absent darling 0
in fers only that disorder which it is so me
!. ancboly for mother to contemplate; n
N the Joyous and impatient disorder Of o
cupation, but that of abandonment. Mai
q. emily garments scattered here and ther
y girlish fancies no longer priced; chai
=, heaped with half.worn9 dresses; drawe
Bplcft partially open, a nd ransacked to tht
&C. remotest corners ia bed in which no Q
yo has slept; a crowd Of charming trih'
dis which the young girl loved, but viii
,e. the young wife despises and which q
70. Uttered over the carpet, like the featht
"A dropped by the linnet when the hawk ma
,er the timid its prey. gaiba9' 90 ig amea
of Such is the depressing sight whic wrin
Oh tears from the mothers heart. Nor
Dl this all from this day she occupies OF
,t. the second place in the affections of !
I,,I departed idol and evenlthat merely
til the happiness of maternity shall hs
nd taught her for whom she weeps to asst
;s to her one still lower. This man, t
,cb stranger, unknown few months, it n
lbe but a few weeks, previously. has
no sumed right over those affections VIII
an. we're once almost entirely her own a
,cb hours Of Aceting, and it may even be
ON ON assumed tenderness, have In a great
on gree suffced to efface twenty long ye
en-, of watchfu!ness, Of care. and Of self ab
ida CATION; and they have not only rent ay
ish her. right to be the first and best belo'
ind but they have also deprived her Of
ade flial caresses, the gentle Affections.
! of the adorcd presence Of the hearts Il
in whom she has herself given to him
ian life. Nothingris left to tho mother
,led the attachment of respect All war
the emotions are engrossed by the hush