Ashtabula weekly telegraph. [volume] (Ashtabula, Ohio) 1853-1873, 1866-03-03

currept ,of popular sympathy on The whole
The impression made by Mr., Bancroft
orsljon upon men whose opinions are en-
titled to respect is, that u cont aimed man,
thiDgsfto be admired, and some things i,
he regretted; that it was o most able pro
ductioD throughout, but Of questonabl,
app'optial en's' for the occasion. ,s,fe.
T. suyuh oa talking. r1s31qqr l4
b Silent people are Unsatisfactory people
Unsstisfactoryl they are exsspers,ing, ---
Give the fora companion one whose oung,
is never still, rather, than one who cannot
orlwll not talk with me. How interesting
tits 10 sit hour after hour, day after day
month after month, opposite one who. sc
lar 'as you are concerned, might as vel
have no mouth. IL you like the dummy
i, is all the worse; if youT love him, il i.
enough TO drive you out of your senses
fon tell scrap ofness, no response; you
npart some item OF Information. ysileuce
you complain Of your troubI nothing said
you express affection. he dout You nigh
as v ell ltalk to empty dis, or, to a stone
Image. or q corpse. Isn't il sstisfnctoryi
A mo e The a'y way ia which you can get
word out ia dummy isr to get 'raving
mad. andiupbsaid him with ail the severity
allowed by the English language. He
will then, sometimes, '''open" on you with
the calm remark that "you are very IN.
reaso' ahle;'t aod that you know he athiaks
every ybiLg of you, bot he wiA add. with
'he cnly approach 10 excitement of manper
that he Is apt TO show - What is the use
of everlasiingly talking ,4obut itf 81 As if
you wished that he slH uld eserlastiugly
talk abour 1t. no II he would only once
year voluntarily and heartily tell you that
he loves you, and would 10 the Interim,
converse inan Intelligent and systematic
mauuer sithyou which te is aLuhdantly
able 10 ds]. you would he more Than con
teut. b Balobe will uot.i He 10 silent; he
is non commisist You may express yont
opinions tilIyon are ared you may turn
your heart inside our bef,te him; you'll not
get bis opiiqlions;; you'n. not not get 10 peepia-
10 his heart. ,...,..,..,. go,
4 It,is very selfish aud wicked not to talk,
1t is uot deing as 3yoasa would be, done
by, tlais not Lone whit better than TO
talk fooliShly aud mischievously. .,adWhst
did God gtvenhe power rofispe,rh fory il
not to exercise? 1t does say in Scripture,
In a multitude Of words there lacketti no
sin, bu that is not saying that IL need be
SO. Look at Paul aud David aud Aaron
aud Cnrs, and sLnlher and ten thousand
Others. What if these had all kept their
lips closed as tigkt as sirstJtrap O. when
sprung? Aud others, alliso.bers may talk
truly good purposeas' these talked.-a
Taik, men and women; exercise your
Tongues in. saying, good tbihgs.I,, Open,
slingy lips give ods Give Wit, give, en-
enlargement, give kindpess, givsaffectiop,
give smu-cneDt, giyeI reprOof,l mingled
with hove, give xisdums gise. warning. give
inspirationtidA dAi 1these aud more, O silent
composition, yoli have the power TO impsrt.
D5n'. deIude y6nrstl ip' O. 'ths bottom that
you win not tbsst called to Strict account II
you fail, through laznesj through pride,
through ,eontrariness. through indifference,
40 be faithfulftogihis dnty-s., LsgtiiAi 6:lu
7di The, ,EFFEcT or. MARRIAGE -Dopbtless
yon have remarked wiih stisfse,ien- how
the little oddities ef me n who marry ra ther
late 10 life are ptuRed away speedily afdcr
their marriage! Y gu have found nsat
Who nscd 10 lie shabbily dressed, With
huge shirt collar, frgyed at the edges, aud
O., glAripg ye low, silk. p, cset LsDke chief,
broken of these things. aud bfcome a pat
tern of, saeatness. a YOU have seen q msn
hose hair, and ewhiskers were fdicnlously
rut, speedily become like other human be.
-ings 81 You have seen a man who took
snuff ccpiousy, and who geueraiiy had his
breast covered with suof, absddoa the vile
habit. A wife is the grand wieider OF the
moral pruning kafe !, Jobnson's wife had
lived there. would bave been no ,hoafding
up Of III s,of orange, ,peelj. 10 touching of
all the posts walking along be streets /;
no caring and drinking, with aisgasting
-voracity.l If Oliver Goldsmith bsd mar.
ried be never would have worn that memo.
rabe aud ridiculous coat. Whenever you
tad man WHOM yoa kaos iittleDabOut,
oddly dressed, or talking ridieulOu>ly, or
exhibiting eceentricity Of Ipanuery yon may
be sure that be is not q married man. e. For
title corners are rOuaded of, the little
shoots are pruaed away siu married "a a -
The wife'S. advice is the iiller that keeps
the,sbip steady! Jtis 'like,the wholesome
though painful shears, nipping off the little
gsowths of self conceit aud folly sUs
A GoaD WORD FOR Far MES Says an
Euglsh, wriler. - IL is = notable fact in
criminal statistics that no fat man was ,eyer
ypuyicled Of The crime Of murder. S;ont
pertons are not resepgeful nor, ss q gener
Alg things are they. agitalsd by gusts Of pas
yionI Few purderels weigh more, than
ten stone Seldom hassuehsq phenomenon
as fsl house, ,breskerl been paraded at g
criminal bar. 1t is your lean, WHY fellow
who works with ,he Skeleton keys, forces
himself . through closet yipdossY wb'ch
seemingly oyonld seareessufice, fot the en-
aranre of a cat !, steals gith, poiseless step
along The lobby and up the stairs. gldes
Into he chamber i; .sDd,, with the husky
yoice and .he exhibition, Of. ,au enormous
car ying &nife, conmepds silence % pain ol
instant death, aud. delivery Of cash aad
ljewels., .7ga.u. tsw rlt..1j.J ..ao,5.s
III is, yOnr a,ehpatsd thief who insnu'
a,es himself under beds;J behind counters,
dives into tills Or makes. prey of ARTICLES o.
commerce .arrsyed at shop doors "A cor
puleul burglar,i is as much out otplace, ssd
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