The Bolivar bulletin. [volume] (Bolivar, Hardeman County, Tenn.) 1865-1888, 1866-09-22
Marriaeea and DiYorees.

/ mandment, as seen. lR the reports OF the
/ daily papers, undertakes to giEe some. advice
j 9nthe subject Of matriBaony.T He beginsbg
/ eoncedIng the dreaQtuI- tTuth, that with the
i b0asted advancement OF CIVILIZATION and re-
/ hgfon,@ bheEGois1 q cVas t. in CREASE 01 sefime
agaiRst the mapriage govs. asVeAe ifls the
4 moral State of CONNECTICUT the. land OF
steady habits, there is such an alarming
advance in this direction tf1at the official
records Of the sooaftsAFe -preHoaReedsinerets
ible when theX report she numbered suits
forEaivoree. II is better # not-warse. in
the city of New ork, and far worse IN. MANY
other parts OF our country. IF you ask me,
says the writer, aslIat causes tend the M
+ crease Of domestic iafelieisies- and conse-
I.qsent divorces, I silolIld mention 7bNT0 or
three very ebFioas Feasenss vaeas ss1t5 ssas
.szs17. ssl J. ESJUnIe5Qpsg 81 RRs AGtss 1as1sass
+. Contracted without due reflections and suf-
ficient acquaintance to enable the. parties to
become we'll informed as to the temper and
ldisposition Of each Other This may be
learned by the aid of -PhrsnologyfF fFE-it.siis
scarcely possible that the union shall be per
maaently agreeable, But we know that in
i terested motives, such as the question of
business, or mere personal beauty, often. cod
troll the choice that is to tell qpon the hapPi-
ness of g family Tor life, These are not to
be overlooked Marriages made in defiance
liof these auxiliary quail f6ations are E6ft6h
unhappy tits well for. Soung people toBeeI
and End eompanioHss for life ameng those
| whose relations, associations, education and
Il prospects are on the same plane. Very. true
and very sensibIe.1 Now and si4eh 61depaFt-
IsnEe from thissrule, regarded as Banstntic md
hazardous turns optr weHs but as a general
rule it. is wiser to avoid such experiments.
But the real basis Of permanent happiness
dnJ5t beaoh the Affections TThe affections
lbeing blind, ige should say hat the re1sl basis
should be ensthe intellect moral sense, and
the affections. land these. are to be.fastened
| on those moral and mental qualifications
which are In themselves lovely -Saea mar
riages are almost invariably happy Andso
simple and easy and pleasant is the preserjp-
| tion, it is wonderful that even young people
! donot take it and try it, rather than venture
their life interest on the hazardous sea Of
niatHimeny with althe chances against than.
q Z + H. TIfE.asEw THEORY OF MARRIAGE. aaf.s
It is only within few years that the new
theory of the equal rights Of married people
has had any hold In the religious world.
I None can have forgotten the amazement with
(which the public mind received the 'facs last
winter that1seFeralof our orthodox religious
Journals in New York city zealously defen-
ded a work the design of which was to reYo-
lutionize the oldfashioned ideas Of marriage,
and abolish marriage VOWS altogether IA
bshot at the sharp Gail Hamilton, who viii
hreply for herself. -a -ssfl se-nss easr
:, 1t came out that the heresy was intreneh-
ing itself in the bosom Of the Clutch, and
ministers Of the Gospel approved what all
right men and wOmenz knew. to be q as bad
as bad can be. y The prevalence Of thissen-
timent is at the root of the evil The laws
of marriage are laid down very plainly in
tie Bible The Apostles taught them clearly
under Christ But thousands Of Christians
signorean essential element Of Christian mar
riage, which is that the husband is the head
of the wife, as Christ is the head of the
Church" We doubt the truth of this state
ment and ask fOrthe proof It is everywhere
-eoneeded that the Husband is the head Of
the, wife" unless, perehanee, he should hap
pen to have head with nothing In it, when,
of course, the wife would take the lead
Many marriages ceremonies are performed
where this principle is not recognized BY
Whom2l When love abonnds, tits the secret
of harmony The husband is then the house
band as his name imports Where this
lpfinciplesis not admitted, and the rule Of
the Gospel is trampled under foot, perpetual
strife Is the result alienation often begets
separation, and this is followed IL not pre-
ceded By infidelity. 70 doubt or deny this
brule10f Christ is-infidelity beguny q ag.7 ss.'
! Apple .Bqstter. This is an excellent dish
for tea, or supper, or dessert, at this period
Eof the year. It has tone advantage, that q
family having an abundance Of Gpple-tTees,
and fruit from the same, which they cannot
use or dispose Of to advantage may, by.
little trouble, and the aid of the following
recipe, be enabled to preserve the crops as a
! luxury, until Pomona In her bounty displays
before their eyes her crop for the next fsea-
son Take one bushel Of sweet apples, peel
and quarter them, remove the core and Iiips,
| put them in stewpan over a slow fire. or a
small charcoal stove, or a gas burner 5Tessld
! be preferable, as it is an operation, which
requires time When boiling, and the ap-
| pies begin to be soft add the juice Of f6hree
t1emens, one pint Of ran, and one pound of
loaf sugar dissolved in a quatt ofrV4ter
boil it up, pour it in jars, cover, with bladder,
and keep for use. In France they put in
some parts Iimel or other sweet wines.
& GERMANY new cider In Switzerland,
sbOilsdssyFup Of wine and cider In fact,
/ the favor may be altered7aeeprding to the
means and u taste OF the parties making it.
Yeask-Boil a Single handful of hops and
Ia sliced pQtatos IN three pints Of warter. In
+ fifteen or twenty minutes strain It out boil
/ ing hot on two pInts Of -four stirring it well
| When It is 50 cool that It wifi not scald, pat
in tea capful OF light yeast gaHd littIe gin
/ geFi when the whole is Eaiseaf put jH sized
meal, as mucfl as can be kneafed, -thep Jake
~ upOI gVih DOetiu anu ffsoIA ~ bthA3 tplFB
5and cut it in thin slices = ay them on tins 10
sdryg Be careful not to .seald them wlsile dry
! ing. When done, put It IN bag, apdsT9u
! will have the bests0fs yeast. Soak it at night
and STIR in little -four IuIthe mornfBg it
viii be ready-for use.. This is preferable 30
any other at any season Of the year. 1t can
not be affected BY heat or cold II keptina
liquid state, the saEas yeast may ibe. putin
felose s5ar1orejag} and gfilln make excellent
~ Sab sssa FatJeastRg S1stnea-A-A c0FFespdn-
jdeBt etates some interesting xpeFienee to
j test the use of salt iR fatsening swine. he
! selected two pair Of barrow hogs weighing
/ 100 pounds apiece. Ore pair received with
tkeie daily. allowance of-fsed t,sa ollEcss.of
sslE,Bhe other pair similarly fed neRe.,.4n
/ the course. of, a week, it was easilYseen that
I the salted pair had D much strOnger auneEIte