Belmont chronicle. [volume] (St. Clairsville, Ohio) 1855-1973, 1865-02-09
ADVICE to aYSu.s Map.

| new come to 4 grave question your
conduct amongst women. In the drawing
rooms where yeu are going, take for your
principle not to waste yourself III ooquetry.
One of the most successful men OF the last
century was accustomed never TO occupy
himself with more than one person during
the same evening, and always to attach
himself to those who appeared neglected
That man, my dear child, was the master
spirit Of his age. Most young men thus
waste their precious fortune'-tne tine no.
ons.bslf Of social life. As they please by
! themselves, they have very little to do to
sttach others to their interests, but this
snrinstime is rapid Learn to employ II
vail Cultivate influential women. lnhgu,,
ential women are elderly women they VIII
teach YOU the alliances, the secrets OF all
Families and the shortest roads TO success
They will be yours heartily Protection
ia their last love they will serve you mavel-
lously they will talk about you aud make
vou desirable. Flee from young women i
The vemau Of City years ofage will do every
thing fer YOU, the woman eftwenty nothing,
, the one viii demand all your life, the Other
onlv moments attention. Joke and be
agreeable With young girls if you will; they
are incapable Of serious thought. my friend
thew are egotigtical. little, without, rea
friendship; they only love themselves
thew will sacrifice you to the FIRST success. :
BESIDES they win demand devotion, 40,
your situation requires it towards yourself
: two irreconcilable pretsnslons. Nene Q
! them will enter into your interests-the
; will iniure you more BY their vanity tina
they will serve you by their. attachment
;, they will devour your time without scrupit
i will cause you to spend your fortune WI
= destroy you wah the best grace in the Worie
:, If you complain, tho most fssiish anon
y them will prove to you, that her glove
@ woytb tbe vbole world, that nothing
Is mora gloriaus than to serve her. You kno
s. not with what pcrHaious art they will col
~ vert a passing taste into love which cor
10 10 m.ncos on earth and should continue
Oh heaven. The day when they will quit ,yt
IN tbsv will tell veu that the diotum II To-
10 ma longer" justifes their abandoning 20
le inst az that" love" excuses their passi
%, that love is voluntary. Absurd Belle
at mo trus love is eternal, infinite, always tr
en- to ;tsalf. il is cauablo, pure, without vioe
p' demonstration it may be seen in er
avs aiNars Young in heart. Nons of th'
things are to be found in a worldly. .womi
ry; Sha will interest you in her griefs, she '
hu annaar the gentlest and least exacting
eu women, butt when it become necessary
W;o will domineer over you slowly, and M
~. ,.s YOU do her wishes You Will want 10 0
,,prs diplomatist--te 60 and come-to study ID
ny interests, and countries. No, you must
'or main at Paris with her, she viii tie you
70 her aprsn, and the more devotion yS1a sh
y.l ,er the more ungratsful she viii bs. You
E'e:u sink seine day. but she will ho.t over y
'sis Tho Tb last Intriguing woman Mas iB6l
line lne leass the mast imbecile triumph
'ted the t little suspicion she excites; the !
irto the -. .',s =. sA he the ous who would
orr ork you withaut knowing why, would quit
me withou, motive, and resume you, from
aols aol itv. Both will destroy yoe IN the pre-
oine and future. -[Ds Balzac.