Daily State sentinel. [volume] (Indianapolis, Ind.) 1861-1865, 1865-02-09
Advice To "a Young Man.

4 now come TO a grave question: your conduct
among women. In the drawing-room where
you are going. take your principle not to waste
yourself ia ccquetry. One OF the most success
tul men OF the last century accustomed
never to occupy himself with more than one per
son curing the SINE evening. and always at
tacb himself 10 those who appear neglected
/ hat man. my dear child, the master suir,
OF The sge- Most young men thus waste their
precious forrune-the time necessary 10 create
relationships which form oue-half OF a social
lite. As they please by themselves they have
little 90 do to attach Others 10 their interests but
this spring time - rapid. Learn TO employ +
se!l. Cultivate Influential women: they vii
teich you tie alliances. the secrets OF all tamil
lies. andthe shortes, roids TO success Thes
will be yours HEALTHY. Protection j. their last
love: they will TUX about you and make yoa dc
sirabe Flee young women. The woman
OF City years OF age sili DO eIythng FOR you
the woman OF tsenty nothing; the one .iH de
mand all your lite, the other onya moments
attention. Joke aud be agreeable with Young
girls.H you vii, they are incapable OF a serious
tnought nv friend; they are ego'is,icsl, little.
withou: real friendship; they ouly love them
selves they will sacrifice you TO the FIRST success
Besides, they all demand devotion. and your at
nation requires IL towards sourself--two irre.
c0ncllablc professions.
None OF them nil enter into YOUR interest
they WI mink OF themselves. not Ot you: they
will irjure YOU mere With their vanity than they
will serve JoL by their attachment: they will &c
YOUR your tsne without scTupie viii cause you
to svcnd your fortase-wiH- DESTROY YOU with the
best grace in the World. IL YOU complain. the
most foolish among them will prove 10 you ths,
her glove ~ worth the whole world--that moth
ing IL more glorious than TO serve her You
know not with what perfious srt thsy will cor
vert passing taste into love which commenced
on earth and should continue IN heaven The
day when thew Quit You they will tell you thar
the dicium q" love no ionger." jusiifes their
sbardoning you. just as lbSt Of Il love excuses
their pas=iOn-that love i involuntary Absur6,
Believe me true love j. eternal infinite. ALWAYS
true 20 itselI y Is eq1sble pure. without vioIcT
demonstration; It may DC seen in gray hair. al
vsys young ia hear.
None OF these things are 10 bs found IN
worldly wonsa. SAe ell iateres, YOU IN h.
grieis, she will appear the geu,lest aud least er
scting OF women, oat wheu x becomes necessary
she VII dominces over you slo~lv. and make
900 90 her wishes You wi.i want 10 be diplo-
matc-tO 20 art cone-to study men. interest
snc countries. No. YOU must remain IN P.ri-
With her; she will ile YOU - her apron. and the
more devotion YOU show. the more uugrat.ful
she VII te You eiii sink some CAV. bat she
will fDst over ron
The least intriguing woman has ilfuifc strata
gen: the Eost limbs cie us by the ltlie
suspicious She excite: lie le - dangerous would
be the one who would love you without knowirr
uhy she would cult va without motive and r.
sumo YOU rom vanity Both willdes'rov YOU IL
The present. sad ire fu'Gre.-De H.lrrso