Spirit of the age. [volume] (Raleigh, N.C.) 1849-1865, 1862-02-19

kindness 10 other quarters. Re-but Why {
90 oal ysan-sad years Of crimination
and recrimination, Of ~provocation, q bit.
reproaches and suspicion, and
mutual jealousy, and dislike and hatred, ;
wore away. A: length they PaEted.-i
What became Of The pair of pictnres, We
o(ten uooder. !
sHoe obout too years aAsF ] was mar
RED" sAys CObbstt, 10 his Advice TO Al
iMa1AAnd, I retained eons a my'militaTy
nsun6rs, and used 70 Fotnp most fanously
waA tAs girls that came in ny way till
.srs day Il PhilAaslpbiA, my wife said to
ns - . very gentle manneE, Don't dol
|cAhk 4 DO not Iis e. That was quite
cnoaeh : I had never thought on the SUBJ
iect 6ofbre: one hair Of her head was more
dear y me than all the other women in
| the world, and fhis I knew that she knew
bat I now Gaw that tAis was not oil that
che Md : right to from me; | saw that
che had ths further claim upon me that
should abstain from everything that might
hdnce Others 10 believe that there was any
sther woman for whom, eyen IL / wero 1t
iberty. / had any affection"
= besesch young married men, con-
Times he, % bear this IN mind ; for, on
,soass. triAe q this cert the happiness or
misesy q I loog he frequently turns.-
II the mind u : wife - disturbed on this
score, every possible @eans ought to be
uaed 10 restore Il 70 pesce; and though
her suspicions be perfectly gpouDdless-
Though they be wild - tho dreams of mad
msn-thcngh they may present . mixture
" Tie furious aUa the ~Sidicul0nA still they
are 70 Be treated with the greatest lcnity
ard tenderness : and u, ahecali, ron fail,
the Aailty u 10 b lanacnted q a misfof-
time, aud not punished So fault. seeing
that II nust have its fouOdstion in = feel
ing towards ycu, which It woulG be the
baSsst Of iagrstisnde, ard the most Zero,
icicus Of crucity. TO repay By h~arshness Of
any d~cscription.'
The tTuth u" Odds the same writer,
that the greatest security Of all against
Jealousy On asWiGU 10 p shoW, 70 prone By
your aeth that 700 prefer Der TO ell the
world; and / know II DO act that is il
isbis rssPees equal 70 spending in her com
pnny every m0nent q your leisure time
kvetjy body knows, snd Young wives bet
! jter than any body els, that people, wht
enn choooe. will s. where they ike bcs
10 ~ ard that they viii Be along viii
ssthoso whooe eompany they ike best
The nattsrn vsEy plain and | do be.
!. laeech yea % beaf { iazmind. Nor do
.ooe ne ~, Or sense, ct keeping : gTea
|, dsnl of compsny, ~ i is clIled. Wha
III tA>-AAAA zA-AMl 81 ~A~mMA 49,
moeo than their two selves and their chil
dlen, II they hare any IL here not b
. N1nny eIongh, Il s bnt ! sad afair.-
H1tS3nl aftar Nsxes
s6umly pe6sA t16t you va1t sonslhia,
'beSu1A Tie sCciety, ~ yOur wife; ant
J tkat che i aure ~ feel nost acuteiy !; til,
hAEe hcs oonsains imputatioD against bel
! end iki pretty snrc 70 las the foundation
Of jealousy, or o. something still worse.
Addfouoed, % these sentiments are, +
he husband, they are equally applicable
. 70 the wife; and op the part of domesti
. happiness, We nFge upon q readers, al
70 prove their constaney Of attachment b
mutnal kind cmcts and dclicate attentions
in lhnnlth and siehnesA il joy and il sor
soW By a~b1tinence nom I'll thot ma
& woNud md ~ honest prefeFeacs Of hon
. esioymeats shove MI other cnjoyments.
! Bot - ksep alivs this honest preference
i tbere must te,-in addition to other goo
) auali6ations which have heretofore passe
! undeE review,
; 1. Constant cheerfulness and good la
! NOR. A wife and mother who Is perpct
; ally frctful and peCvish ; who has nothiu
; - utssT 70 her husband when he rctur
\ from his daily occupAtior, Whatever it m,
~, q % her children when they sssemb
= aFOund hef, bus cOsuplaints e her ba
= LOT rid miserable destiny; who Is alwa
bruodine vver past aorrowA or anticipi
DIR fnE6re svils; does I'll abe can, unco
= asionsly & may Be, 70 make her hear
% ideDolakA. end TO mar for ever dcmest
tappinol2 And the husband and faith
1. Who bsi1ra 10 TIM heaTsba morose frow
i og : gloomy brow Who silences the pr,
lSinR tDAgue Of infancy By . stern cor
Ima1d; Who sufers the an~noyances .
tcarss q life TO cut into the hearts CO
= lend felhses % beccmfoFted o. charmed
y ithe thOnoAud endeaEmenfs Of her wht
=. lie hrs sworn To love and cherish such
.. lone dos moi deserve domestic happint
u Yo41E ssrd6r. md expectant Of fut,
- !domontie hlieA takes word Of advice;
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