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Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1862-12-10
sCOJYH HCARoLINA-YORKDIS-

sE9TRicT.--Wh sWiLLLAM E GUNN hasysp-
Piled 10 me Letters of Administration, ON oil and Sun,
guIar goods and chael rights and credits of JESSE
NJ. GUNN, late of the District aforesaid, deceased
These are therefore cite and admonish all and Singular
the kindred andsredites deceased to be ana
appear before me next Ordnas Court for the saia
Dsirict be holden York Court House on the lsh Gay
q shsS eaas why 'he "a
Given nndesmy band and Seal this End day Of
In the year OF our Lord thousand eight hundred and
siktytwo and in the eighty yem Of
.sIs osnes y !. 3'u' ~ john "A. BROWN, o:YD!
no..,,lora ~ 40 -. q
GOUTHC CAROLINA-YORKD1 DIS,
~ TRICT.-Whereas,; n. s. TIIOMASsoN has ap-
piled TO me for Leers Administration all and sngu
lar the goods and chattcs, rights and credits OF
r. THoMASSoNi late OF the District aforesaid, deceased
These ne therefore cite and admonish all and Singular
the kindred and creditors of be and
pear before ordnars Court for the said
District to be holden Ye Count House on the 18Th day
of December Instant shcw cause If nny why the said
Administration should not be granted. rt1 -
Given under my hand and Sea this 2nd dayo December
the year Lord thousand eight hundred nnd
sixy-two, nId in the eghtyseventh year of the lnde
y pendence of South Carolina. es4S sa~y.s:,-. x
> - I1Tr-ssT ~ u sJoHNsA. BROWN, o. Y.FD.
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Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1862-12-10

Trouble WITH THE FIFTEEN INCH
GUNs,-5The new, Moaitor. !, Passate, has
made another trial Of the IS inch gun, Of
which the CINCINNATI Gazzette says.
'.sAsEillful gunner mighrtbrow a shsfl iu.
to a1porthole large. enough fortthessguds,
therefore the portholes Was 61edi for fling
through without. pretrudipg the. gun, being
little larger than the ball. The first fire
va vas "a as much as the crew cared toI risk In
that experiment. ss Fhs snoEs and fame
filled the tqrret: s!Then aEasngs was fitted
TO the mazzlei et the gun and the teurvaef
the turret to increase the space, The lest
trial was 81 this contrivance. Thirty Eve
pounds of powder and hollow sHoe we're
fred..a The coucussion lifted the perforated
shield5plates, ,oust top of the atqrret,a .opesiof
which fell on Captain Worden's, foot The
lume Of fame from the muzzle set the tackle
for hoisting the shot on fire, burned the
eyebrows aud hair 81 one Of the gun crew,
and the:force Of the gastorn hoH the aauge.
1t was found also that although :thea extra
ssfauge might Ct the. inside curve of.the tur-
ret, the gun must recoil before the charge
left it. II was rather queer ordnance Of
Gers should have to experiment tosfnd that
out.a The result proved shat1ths portbde
must be enlarged 50 jastolet the ,muzslesof
the gun. .protrude, or some sliding arrange
Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1862-12-10

.pr The Chicago Times thus talks to
the kangaroo lar1 President ofsthe Abolition
Government: "Ses here; Abfaham' En-
coin, ,PresideotrOf ths,Uoited States, your
own city Of SpriDgfeldshas pronounced ga.
gaiust you byas popular A. maii9sisy. g. of dfqur
hundred your own county of Sapgamon
pronOunssd against You by d popular ma
jority Of thirteen-hundred ;'yeur own State
ofaIllinois has pronounced against yoasby
a,popuhr majority Of some twenty .heasaod.
These are the Judgments Of your own neigh
bors against your administration. Tbese
are the voiees0f your own neighUors scall-.
ing upousyousto withdraw yourself fronthe
association Of sabolitionism, and, retnEns to
your duty as the constitutional Chief .1gF Mag
istrate. They are voices that o wise man
would heed. s3"c ~ - SO @,'' s-N'5 Hs&'s
Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1862-12-10
IN COURT OF OR D1NANY,S
y" WORK niSTRlCT =.

Divisisn or Sale real estate Of VIM cre deeeased
Harvey NJ Ferel, Applicant VIM. Robinson and wife,
Mary James FerreA, Sarah Ferrel, Robert Eerre Ihos
L. Ferrei, Matthew J. Ferren, Martha A. Ferell, Mary
A Ferre Elizabeth a. Ferrel Minerva j. Ferrell and
heirs Of Thomas Ferrei, deceased, Defendants.
TT appearing to my satisfaction that
the heirs Of Tbos. Ferre deceased, who vast un-
Gle or VIM Crews, defendants In above snted case out
whose names are known, reside without the limits OF
this State it's therefore, ordered hey do appear and
object to the division sale Of the real estate OF William
Crews deceased, before the 5 day OF January, 1885,
or their consent 20 the will be entered OF record
- ~. JOHN A. BROWN, o. Y. d.
September 3rd, 1862 ~'a'- - 4o'.s s-',i'r'5 3m,
IN THE COURT OFoORDHNARY.
d. ..' - -. .. - YORK DISTRICT
For Division or Sale Of real Estate of john R. H. Wa
deceased
lanes Wallis Applicant james A. Walliss Thomas s.
Wallis, Harvey II. Wallis, William M. Wallis Joseph
F Wallis Samuel w. Wallis Rebecca Campbell, Vile
OF Samuel L.. Campbell and Martha A. Wallis, heirs
-; Of John r. II. Wallis, deceased
TT appearing to my satisfaction that
L James a. Wallis, Thomas; S. Wallis, Harvey H. Wallis
and Wfain MVvaiiis, defendants In the above stated
case reside without te limits of tnis State II Is there
fore Ordered that they do appear and object to the divis
ION or sale of the real Of John R. H. aeceas-
ed on or before the day of February 1855
t,er consent 10 the same will be entered of record
80 JOHN A. BROWN, o. Y. d. ="
November ls, 1852. z \ if7-s' FiilS5 -3in.
Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1862-12-10

REPLY OF RUSSIA TO TIE PROPOSITION OF
FRANCE.
ST. PETERSBURG, Nov. Is, 1S62.-The
Journal, Of St. Petersburg, contains the
reply of Prince Gortschakoff to the note Of
Yorkville enquirer. [volume] (Yorkville, S.C.) 1855-2006, 1862-12-10

Jacobs CORDIAL.-A SURE
e Remedy for DIARRHGA, DYsENTERY, AND
~ ~ THE ENQUIRER OFFICE
Inlr Ii % H
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21
The County Convention.

The County Convention on Saturday need,
but few comments. 1t was largely attended and
~ near as we could Judge all the old party or.
CARNATIONS were fairly and fully represented. A
large number OF candidates were before the bodv
and OF course those who were not 30 fortunate
~ 10 ana themselves on the tcke, were more "
less disappointed. But this was an inevitable
result o making ticket at all and We have
seen DO convention for many years when new
ticker was made with result 80 generally sat-
isfactory.
The ticket Is good and strong one Hon
koDERiCK RICHARDSON, VINO heads The list of
Senators, has had Legislative experience. having
been two years member oi the Senate from
this County, many ears since and having also
represented Waltsfeld in the House. lie is one
OF our most useful and influential citizens, ana
his nomination is tibute to his worth, which
he mas well deserved. In all times he would
make useful member OF the Senate bu; espe-
cauy IN these war times, when important
financial measures are To DC acted upon, will his
presence there be valuable 10 the State.
ADDISON PECK, Esq, the Democrat upon the
ticket Is well known Throughout, the county
Tor his clear head and excellent business ca
paclty. Since the war, he has been earnest and
enthusiastic IN his support of the most decided
ana effective measures to suppress the rebellion.
lie Is wa7 Democrat who has no its or butts in
his support of the Government, and was the
choice OF both Democrats and Republicans in
tue conYeutlen,-his nomination being the only
one that was unanimously made IN the Com
mittee. lie is ready speaker, good deOater,
and Will make an excellent Senator
DR.. BRADFORD Is also an excellent selection
tie has had considerable experience as a Mem
Der of the House, AMI Will bring to the perform
ance OF his duties as Senator ability, fairness,
sound Judgment and skill as a speaker. We
are confident better ticket could not have been
selected.
We have not time or space to speak in detail
OF the rest OF the ticket. Ii Is all good and was
agreed upon, We understand, with much less
dlfhculty than usual in the Committee, and was
unanimously adopted by the Conventions. There
Will not be votes enough against it IN Sep,elu Der
~ be worth mentioning.
AS to the resolutions, we have only TO saw
we believe the Convention might have dono
better.
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21

start They argue the matter with the Presi-
dent and discover an evident purpose to hold on
to Slavery. They assert their own loyalty, ana
ayow their purpose OF never joining the South
ern Confederacy, but in all they show no lncli-
nation to give up Slavery. Twenty Congress
men sign thus reply, which, we regret TO say,
gives very cold shoulder to the suggestions OF
MIR. Lincoln. Seven of the Border States mem
and MIR. Maynard for himself, give more cor
dial response to the Presidents appeal, and ex-
press their willingness to meet it in the same
spirit in which it was made, and to urge the
matter upon the attention Of their people.
Here Of course the matter must rest 70: the
present. But events are hurrying thi, people
rapidly forward. We are doing to-day what
the most radical among us would hardly have
urged six months ago. Necessity is establish
ing It's iron rule, and the customs, teachings
and maxims OF a conservative philosophy, an
doubtful patriotism are shiyering and breaking
before it. Gods providence is discipllning the
nation and compelling US to take our only road
to deliveranee Our faith in our worldly and
mercenary maxims may keep us yet some weeks
or months stumbling in chains which our enemies
have made for US, but the time is not far off,
and is surely coming when the nation will rise
and shake itself free from the chains which
have bound is, and strike blows for constitutional
freedom that shall make victories certain and
illumne our history and our asg for all coming
time
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21
A Prison Chaplain in a tight place

The following dialogue took place between
the chaplain OF the penltcntiary Of Tennessee
and Gov. johnson, as reported by the Union ::
On enter nc the Executive Chamber dia.
logue of the following purport eusued
Chap Governor | am preseu, at YOUR re.
QUESTION.
Gov.-l wish simply to say TO you that the
time has arrived when the soyernmcn, mus,
know is friends and put down its enemies
You are suspected Of being hostile to the GOV.
ernment whose agent am
Chap.-Well, | gard myself as Ioyal
man. and expect 10 DC oOedlent TO the gov.
ernment. L believe tina: my very frs, tenn
po1aI allegiance is due to Tennessee and am
ready to 90 whichever way sac goes. Bat [
am citizen of higher government than
that
uoV'-N hat government is that?
Onap.-I am citizen of Hearen.
GJv.-There are men in Nashville nrotess-
ing that citizenship who are responsible for
the blood OF more of our countrymen than
the soldiers who have bayonets 10 their hands
gu call yourself citizen of Heaven, Just
look at this document (haDdng him the fol
loving extract with the name Of WIN. II
wharton annexed to it y
i have witnessed with much satisfaction
the cheerful alacrity aud diligence with which
tue prisoners tin the peniten,iary) have la.
oored for the State, n tho last few months
IN preparing the material of war, to which
Ihey were stimulated by MOST coMMryp..
BILE AND PATRIOTIC ARDoR they have labored
faithfully for their country, aud many Of their
young men P laced in confinement for minor
Oneness might be judiciously selected as Oh.
Jeo'S OF Executive cemency, who would en-.
deavor to atone for the misdeeds of the m.
oy acts OF bravery and heroism on the ba,tIs
held Commenting with earnestness the above
suggestion to the authorities,
'emain, most respectfully.
WIN. IL. WHARTON, Chaplain
Is mat your report, sir, and your mama ,
DO you call that the language of a , c;t;roa
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21

OF Heaven, 10 advise the r..
ieIons fIom the coils wbs,. A
placed them, that they may III, .4T7
Of killing loyal men and de,i no u "a.
government IN the word ? | g"g@.
the Almighty approves Of ,p.b ''''
that. "'1.
Chap-Weil, the frs, du,v T..
our State, and thought j, ~. , >:
pei the invaders. SeIf.deEn,e ' !,
lighting | approve o. @'
Gov-Did no, Tennessee ;,,.,
lucky Did not South C.rg.,r, la, ,'' l.
property of the United State. ,,5 's''.
lellow-citizen ? You have .e.r,.4 I' e "a
very incorrectly. @'
Chsp.-(Looking terribly De,,1.-
don't wish to argue the case With F'A''
cruor. My mission is to preacn = wv r.
am no politician, and submit r. 'a'%
government may get the power D'''
Goy.-But you could urge the ,.
felons to aid in numbering ioysI n.' '''
you pretend that your gospel is ca, Is.
the limits of your Southern CoDtsd."
| always thought its precepts If ~.
charity were co-extensive with tho
You can not justify yourself before ~ w
God. ''
Chap had to go with nv ST..
defend her. That is justifabIe vart,,.
Gov.-Therc arc ruIcs OF wsrfars .
Christians and barbarians alike ob,..,
You advised the turning loose of fe.o,.,
placing arms in their hands Did ",
that from the Bible ? Does il Tell .o' !.
q man may atone for felony By comm
treason
Ch.p.-As | raid before, cauno, a,,.,
politics it is net my profession. Cb,is,
to dis apostles, : Ny Kingdom is not d
world
Gov.-Yes, and believe there wa,
das an ong his disciples Ifhe were O, .
again there are some of bis p. olessed =.
ers who would sell hin Tor less than -,
pieces OF silver. They would terra7 Nm
half the money.
The Governor then directed tie chan
TO be conducted to the Provost Marsha ;,
disposed OF.
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21
Don't make q Fuss.

BY all the motives which have Eeght =
man or woman, be 40 used IN any case rU
mike fuss. ln the first place. it never 10
BIT OF good You can accomplish al =
intend, and obtain al, You desire, qq.
well without 1t, If not lj;lc better. NJ
sometimes it prevents your succeeding. VT,
you certainly might have done 30, Dad y.
kept cool aud not torewarnei aud rorea,a.
every nody by a canonadc OF ass.
In the second place, 1t Is exceeding
noying to others; there IS neither pace o.
comfort IN the n-ig nborhO0d d d u,s4r q.
Is always p.agulus you to !,aow It you tad.
1t will rain uex. week, wnen he i, Gong
the Waite Mountain; or dreadin, ths /.
carriages viii iun off the track Or the ON
BUSES will break down, or the aotes 4
crowded, or some such imaginary rrQ.
ever so long DelOrohand And, wneD a,.
started u such an excursion, I tus>er de>,r
all the comfort and snJoymes; 0. bis III:
tunate companions, ana mnke, his OBu u.
cled tormenis real ones ~ them The-r.:-
MS company is seduous y avoided
Thirdly, no one sympathiars witt 'r;,-
Even other tusscrs have 10 felov.Ice
with hlm. The word (and a mos; expre,,p
word 1t ls) means worrying over trifes ii
who cares straw il Mrs, Brs-s did e
her band box, which contained her Fr4s%
bonnet or il Mr.. Browns bed room ~
invaded by shaggy dog that wou,dDt :
out, SO that 1t made him quite nervous, As :
pathctlcally declares , Nobody cares Hhsa
er you or | couldn't sieep because the IA
ran over our head all night, or b.e4Gse :
had such startled dreams, or such BAD .A
IN our shoulders, etc. People don't like
nave their sympathles appealed to lO' -
nOusense.
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21

PATRIOTISM OF VERMosTERs IN Ou,o-W.r
tlce In Cincinnati paper an account of great
war meeting at Columbus Ohio, at which
Slo'ooO wa subscribed for the recruiting ser
vice The list of subscriptions was headed BY
Me'srs kelton, Bancroft & Co. of Celunbss
with $1,000. This firm, as our readers will he
glad to learn, is composed of vermonters. f.
u heiton and Howard G. Bancroft, who went
from Montpelier, and Harvey Bancroft and Car
los Bancroft of Plainfeld
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21

CoNvERTED.--The vital thing in l7A
conversion Is the turning from the Q7e 90
The practice OF siuning to the heart suI at
ne OF real holiness. The failure IN mai
sad cases Is, they turn--it it be any 'aE'a,
to something else besides an earne,' Buy
hle. They do no, ihrow tncmsevc, ,a,a@.i
aud truly into the >ympatLies and cfJr',A
are called for IN tue cause OF their Lori
Instructive to this point IS the case Of M
H., OF Callfornia, for years strenuous 0. r
men; OF the gospel; but, "a, length, on va
among some prayertul Christian friends :
Western New York, be was converted. lN
further account, as We read from pr"s
letter, runs thus
lie has taken his religion right in 'u'4
all his former ungodly business associates
California; One incident shows his chat"
ter tie has been building new h'aS
one room he has prepared for a sort OF '''
ny chapel, tor family worship, family DS'
logs, religious instruction, etc. Over one "
tue doors on the inside, perhaps the main I.
trance to the family room, he has pl'''' J.,
conspicuous raised letters As Tor ne )"
my house, we will serve the Lord. l0S
are similar mottOs in various parts Of ~
house
we doout whether Paul or Daniel So'.
10 this sort OF thing in a community VIZ"
the relgnlng influences we're Christian su'
10 the midst OF very ungoIly commuoY'
they would mos, surely do it, 10 hel''
Babylon Daniel prayed rom his open sI0'y
three limosa lay; and to proud pagan h}D
fauI boldly wrote am net asblnei ,
the gospel OF Christ. '-Oberlin Eraay'"
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21
Washington County Mass Convention.
AFTERNOON.


The Convention was addressed by l.. Henry
Esq, OF Waterbury, and Rev. L. H. Stone Of
Mortified. The Nominating Committee then
reporttJ as follows:
f fi5 HSHS Fss A. Senators.
AK AK V " , tRuRLFl1ERroN' Judges.
7. K. MERRILL, Judge Of Probate
AhONZ0 NJ JACKMAN. Sheriff
EhAS ID, HEATH, states Attorney
E. O. WATSON, High BaiHG.
COUNTY COMMITTEE.
n A. Taylor, Montpelier II. C. Dw,cur
Barre; NM w HENRY, Waterbury J.sprp
II. ORcUrr, Mortified STEPHEN SpyycrR
Marshfeld r. j. GLEASON, Wsits6eld q ~
ABBOTT, Worcester
TOWN COMMITTEES.
Barrel. Carpenter, Josiah Wood, X.
Martin, A. Ciltiiin, ID. Britain.
Berhn-A. X. Warren. i. {. Wbinn,a
{. Burke, d Chandler, Jr. Geo. 5. johnson
Cobot-J. P. Lamson, Edwin Fisher, Z p
Coburn.
Calais-A. NJ. Foster, \. Dwinell. R p
W bite, n. Eaton, A. w. Hawkins
Durbwy-Geo n. CrandalI. ). Y. Tu,nsr
NJ. &. Canady.
Easi Montpeiier-J. a. oburn, E. II. Vim.
cent, Thomas Stevens, Byron Goodwin. + W
Ormsbee
fayston-Wallace Bruce, Samuel Summer
VILE 5 K. Griggs, Hiram Boyce, G, @.
Boyco, =. {. Campbell '
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21

Mr.. A c. Winshp of Moretown, desires us
10 state that he does not accept the Office Of
town committee assigned to him by the county
convention on the 18th.
The daily Green Mountain freeman. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1861-1865, 1862-07-21

DEATHS OF VERMONT SoLDIEns.-The n. Y
l'16une of tho 18th contains the following
deaths of Vermont soldiers In the hospitals at
Baltimore
National Hospital
9. ". Cole, Sd Regs.
c. Grairin, Co. B. Sd Regt.
n L. Baxter. Drummer, 9Th Regt.
Z. G. Waller, Corp, Co. G, 5th Regt,
Patterson Park Hospital
ii. T. Groot, Co. c, 9th Regt.
Litchfield enquirer., 1862-11-06
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FEMALE INFLUENCE Il have noticed that a married man falling into misfortune Is more apt to retrieve his situation in the world than sin gle one, chiefly because his spirits are soothed respect kept alive by finding that, although abroad may he darkness and humiliation, yet tn re is still little world of love at home, ol which lie is the monarch Whereas, a single man is apt to run to waste and setneelect; to fall to ruin, like some deserted mansion for want ,f inhabitants. 1 have often had occasion to remark the fortitude with which women sustain the most overwhelming reverse of fortune Those disasters which break down the spirit Of man, and rrostrate him in the dust, seem to call forth all the energies of the other sex, and give such ihtrepidity and elevation to their char actcr. that 1t approaches to subEmty. Nothing can be more touching than to behold a soft and tender female, who had been all weakness and dependence, and alive to every trivial roughness while treading tie prosperous path, and sud denly rising in mental force to be the comforter and supporter of her husband under misIor tunes, abiding with unshrinking frmness the bitterest blasts of diversity. As the vine winch has long twined its graceful foliage about the oak, and has been lifted by itinto sunshine will when the hardy plant is rifted by the thunder bolt cling around it with its caressing tendrils and bind up its shattered brow, so, too, it i beautifully ordained by Providence, that wo man, who is the ornament and dependent o man in his happier hours, should be his sta. and solace when smitten with dire and sudde1 calamity, winding herself into the rugged re cesses of his nature, tenderly supporting hi dropping head, and binding up the broke heart.- Washington hrving.
Litchfield enquirer., 1862-11-06

MINERAL AND JEWEL RICHES OF INDIA.-- There were lately sold at Auction in Calcutta, the following articles, which were taken as pri- zes at Kirwee, by Sir George Whitlock and detachment of the Indian army:-One necklace consisting of 92 rosecut brilliants, perfectly alike in color, water and symmetry, let into 94 emeralds of the richest green, without flaw. A number of ingots of pure gold, weighing from 320 to 800 ounces; small model of Hindoo temple in gold, with all the utensils for sacrifice, weighing 5sO oz. A solid silver temple, ele ganIy gilt, weighing 650 oz., while idols of sil= yer and gold, and statuets, presenting elephants, lions, vutures, &c., abounded. Besides these, there were several full of gold coins, some of them very ancient.
Litchfield enquirer., 1862-11-06

TIE GREAT AMERICAN LAKEs.-The late government survey of the great lakes, gives the following exact measurements: Lake Superior, greatest length 355 miles. greatest breadth, l6O miles, mean depth, 98S feet, height above the sea, 637 feet, area 32,O00 square miles. Lake Michigan, greatest length 26O miles, greatest breadth lO8 miles, mean depth 99O feet, height above the sea, 587 feet, area, 10000 square miles, Lake Huron, greatest length, 200 miles, greatest breadth, l6O miles, mean depth 300 feet, height above the sea 574 feeet, area 10000 square miles. Lake Erie, greatest length 25O miles, greatest breadth, 80 miles, mean depth, 200 feet, height above the sea, 555 feet, area, 5000 miles. Lake Ontario, length l8O miles, mean breadth, 65 miles, mean depth, 300 feel height above the sea, 622 feet, area, 6OOO square miles. Tot I length of five lakes, l,645 miles, total area, 64, GOO square miles.
Litchfield enquirer., 1862-11-06

SECRET OF BEING LovED.-Wiliam Wirt's letters to his daughter on the small sweet cour- tesies of life,'' contain a passage from which a deal of happiness might be learned
 " want to tell you secret. The way to make yourself pleasing to others is to show that you care for them. The whole world is like the miller ot Mansfield, "who cared for nobody no, not he, because nobody cared for him. And the whole world will serve you so, if you give them the same cause. Let every one, there fore, see that you do care for them, by showing them what Stern so happily calls " the small sweet courtesies," in which there is no parade whose voice is still to tease, and which manifes themselves by tender and affectionate looks, ant little acts of attention, giving others the prefer ence in every enjoyment at the table, in the field walking, sitting"