New-York daily tribune. [volume] (New-York [N.Y.]) 1842-1866, 1860-03-24

.,a gravity defended hinssif N this manner: "Qun-
t,s Varous Hispepi,rs alleges that Marcus bcaurus,
PRECEDENT Of The sepste, sxc,sed We s,ies 70 sr';
ras,e IA no wisosss. Utri Credits Quirites Which
Az Won believe, Romano 7 When he had sooken thsse
oyds he raf aosolved By the nby ofthe people.
SO that in this, az ID every part q me- oean,y .ns
6nish of things. Tie most useful man in the mos,
seful world as long az only comfort Ia served, wooid
ne upss,je6ed but fast rs he sees beauty, iie &c
ou;ree tho highest worth. have seen manners that
make similar impression WIN pessopa, rssms y,
HE that, and there Is beanog wnicn rs
mnch surpasses besuty as Il bids sehance 70
uplines. But they mua DO marked WIN hne poIoupps
The acauaintance with real beauty Ono wouid
cav thew must always be marsed with seu-contfoi'
Won shall not be face you shall not be spoiogetci
YOU tba not be Ieaky; but shall De kng oyer yoas
word and all your gesture ana acnon suai, iuoiVs 40
mower al rest Then they must be inspired oy the
good heart There Ia no bsantlier OF compexlon, o.
fern OF Of behavior like this lhere must DC 1oe Iis
10 scatter Joy and not pam around u.s. US go. W
give stranger meal or nights lodging; His oeWe.
TO be hospits BILE to his good meaning and thought anu
20 aiye courage 10 companion. We must he as conr-
te ms TO man we are TO picture, whcn We arc
willing to give the advantage Of good light. ] must
not a. his late hour perhaps not at any bonr oer sny
special rues for behavior yet may De forgiven
saw there is one topic peremptoy forbidden to all
well bred rational mortlls namely, their distempers'
II you have not slept, you have headache, or sca
tea OF leprosy, thundersroke, besseeh you 6y
kil tD6 apBeIb, W yOuI PeeO0 nv" P"nS
morning by corruption and groans. Come out OF the
azure. Love the day. Do not leave the sky out OF
your landscape; the Oldest and most deserving per
SOD should come very modestly into any Dewlywaked
company respecting the divine Communications our
Of which all must be presumed TO have newly
core. An cid man who bad loving culture OIL
tie age Says when you come Into the room think
will study how will make humanity beautiful to
you This nobility ia found in all conditions OF society
Some of our best anecdotes not only OF sefrespect,
but of high and profuse hospitality, which ia herol5m
Of manners, have in all ages from the Arabs
people entirely without our arts useful and hne.
Gen. Daumss has lately given another book on the
Arabs in which he relates the following: ION the day
of cur departure Abou Bekr wished TO feast us for
the last time and assembled to the number OF eight
at bic house TO cup and pass the night We had joy
GUS party. Ills son, boy of seven or eight years,
had ehai med u.s. and dressed him out brlvely In a
new and pretty burnous and ared chaeha embroidered,
and yellow slippers This evening he did not appear
az supper and when asked for him hi father said bis
son was asleep, The next morning, after prayer,
Abou Bekr sad, My friend, i have tried to make you
happy and now cone to ask Of you testimony OF
your Kindness. When i said last night my son slept
sopnoly lie had just killed bmself by falling from the
ysur fesst have contained my cries. and have slenced
The cries Of my wife. Now eDtreat you this morning
10 assist Il ID burial Of my son. This news ~ this
free OF character overcsme us and we vent religious
ly 70 the nermen of the poor child For the question
Of culture, manners are not 10 be directly cultivated
That is frivoous leave to children Bat to be recog
nized by ia as the 6ia band which has ever dyulged
the secret, we would fain keep from our real rank.
We must look at the mark not at the arrow, and per-
.rs the beet rule is Lord Baeons that 70 attain go)d
forms only needs not 70 despise them.