New-York daily tribune. [volume] (New-York [N.Y.]) 1842-1866, 1860-03-24

TOM sno the scholar ne no defense VIVA - the |
talent Of that character c1noon, te Euccessol mea
of the word in all mats, and ltee, aud draTing |
rooms1 Mlnrers--manners is power-the sens. 70 \
see bis advantage. See him approach his man. He
knows ihat troOps behave az tley are handed a.
fret Os instantly P'FSSsvSs pc Sa, ssS the
others will as the car does q monse.
The theater in which this science OF mannsrs has
formal Importance is not with MS Court but dressed
circles everywhere, wherein, after the close OF me
mntnol entertainment in ornamented drawing rooms
OF courfe il has every variety Of attraction and msr
but 10 earnest perscns-to youths and madens who
have great objects AZ heart we cannot eXto II very
hicbly In the we'll dressed, laxative company
where each is bent to amuse the other; sill the
Oriental stranger who was introduced, fanced tbat
every woman seemed TO be suffering for char, tnh
all the takers were Drained and exhausted by the
yrepa ed ART spoiled the best persons, put all
ON sita Here are the secret Biographies written and
resd. The asrect of that man 10 repusiye. cont
with TO deal with himthe other is irritable, shy; Anq
from his corner the youth looks humble ana many.
choose him. Look on this woman--there II no beauty
nor brilliant attendance nor distinguished power
to serve you but sn see her cody
her whole air and impression are healthiai
Here come the invslids, Else, who caught cold N
coming into the world and has always increased IL
since. Here The creepmouse manners, here the tniev
ish manners. Here are the sweet folloW.ng eyes o.
Cece; it al ways that she demanded the heart
Noti ing can be more excellent aud KIND. No,hmg
can be more excellent in their kind than the Corn
THAN grace of Gerrudes Manners and YET Blanche,
who has no manners, has better manners than she
She afford to express every thought by lnssant
action Society is shrewd to detecs those who do not
belong her train, and seldom wastes her attenicns
Socety il very swift in its instincts and if you don't
belong 20 it resss and snesrs a. YOU or quietly drops
you. The first weapon enrages the party attl,Ked
as the date of the transaction IS not e1sy to be found,
the seco1 is still effective, but not to be resisted.
People grow up and grow old in this world never
IeeDg the Truth, a;eTibpg the solitude which comes
Init haK tshfA
The beginning of good ia eelfIes )ect. Eeces
sity the law Of all who net sefposesed. Those
who are not selfpOs essed Obrude and pain Some
men appear TO feel that they belong PaIilh case.
They bend and apologize, and wa through life with
tmd STEP as sometimes dream that are ia we'll
| DIE sed company without any coat They act es II
| they entered from some notifying cire9mstancei
! but the hero or gentleman should be al
\ WAYS at home where he is, and look comfortable
in eyer6 situation The hero is suffered to be hueelt
The Ieron Of strong mind comes to perceive that Tor
| him an Immunity lie secured so long as he renders 70
society that service which is native and proper to hin
an immunity from all the observa1ces,
YEA. and many Of the duties which society
| tyrapIicllly imposed on the rank and he oil Its
members. Eutpides Gays Aspasia has not the hns
manners of S0phocle5; but be adds the movers ana
mas ers Of our souls have naturally right 70 throw
ont their limbs DC careessy a. they please, or on
world that BE- longs to them and beiUre creatures they
have animated. Manners require tone As nothing ~
more VULGAR then haste. Harry l. for slaves. Friend.
chip shouli be surrounded with cegemon requires
more time than poor basy nan eau usually command
But through tbs lustrons yarnish The reality sever
shining; il s hard to keep the What from breaking
thrC ug this painting of tie How. The will come
t. u surace, oveTpOwer old manners and create ne e
and the thought of the present moment had greater
value than the Tast On persons Of real character
we do Ot TemarR manners because Of tier nftantae-
ousness. We are surprised of the thing done.
Noilirg is more charming than to recognize
actions Of this class Of character. Peop.e
masquerade before us in their fortunes titles
Offices conventions academic or civil, Presidents, or
SeuatOrs, professors, or great lawyers, or mer
chants and impose the frivolous and good de- on
each other by these clams al least it 10 point OF
prudent good TO treat these regulations ten
Derby, ii they were merited; but the sad reaiiss
knows these fellows at a glance as they know hin
AS when in Paris the Chief OF Police enters q BAL.
room so many diamonded pretenders shrink and make
the elves unconspicuous rs they can or give them
snpplicatiDg look they pass. II had received,
said Sbyl q had received at birth the fatal gin of
penetration" and these Cassandfas are always Born
said society Is the stage which this panorama oil
manners is shown. Novels It's literature. Novels
are II joupa. record Of manners and the new in
portance of these books the stronger hold they have
The reader of late derives from the fact that the
novelist begins 10 penetrate the suIfaee and treat this
part Of lie more worthily The novels used to bs all
alike, and had quite vulgar tone. Inc novelist nsed
TO lead us on a foolish interest in the fortunes Of
boy ard girl they described The boy was 90 he
raised from humble TO high position. lie was n waut
OF wife and castle, and the object OF the soy was to
supply him with or both. We watch sympahet-
icaly step by step, his climbing until at last the point
is gained, the weddng-day is fixed, and we follow the
gals procession home TO the CASTLE when the doors are
slammed in face and the poor reader is left outside
in the cold not enriched by 90 much az idea and all
because tie whole fabric Of the fiction is in tho
terIIal fortunes of the hero. Bat the victories of
character, when they painted are Instant aud VIE
tOriOus for all. It's greatness enlarges all We are
fortified by every heroic anecdote. nav aud higher
principle received by rali us, for all in the
scale Of being All novels are useful Bibles If
tbev teach YOU that secret told In one novel
,1v ,bst nc best Of life is conversation, and the
greatest success is confidence OF Ps.lect
between sincere people IL il O freh. uonul''Dl "a
fren5slip and deserves to be an English one Nolns
but TO understand themselves, reH de seninre. The
highest conduct make with our fellow is, let |
there be truth between two forever That is
the charm in all good novels as it is the charm in all
good history that the heroes understand from the rt
and deal Loyalty and with profound trust in each
other 1t is sublime TO feel and TO say Of another |
need nevermee speak, write TO him. We need not /
reinforce Ourselves, or send tokens Of remem- |
brance. / rely on him as on myself. IL he |
did this or these / know 1t was right. |
compliment. There is neither profession, nor always
sociaty as if the friend wasyou. The friend being
part Of yOu you speak to him as TO yourself,
sterny and really as to seem cod 10 those who do not
know both 1t il the great event OF life TO find, and
know, and love a superior person; to tnd q char
ac;or that pre6gures heaven aod the Saints on
esrth. Such is left alone, as the Code are In
all the sui eTior peIsOns have met, notice direct
ness, simplicity rnth spoken more truly as if every
thing like obstruction and malformat'on had been
trained away. What have they 10 conceal, what have
they TO exhibit Between simple and noble persons
there is always perfect understanding.
They recognize al sigh. and meet better ground
than the talents or skill hey chance TO possess name
ly their sincerity For il is not what talents or &C.
Mus man has, but how le 10 TO his talents, That
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