Grant County herald. [volume] (Lancaster, Wis.) 1850-1968, 1860-02-11
[FIom Cotles's I.ady's Book ]
Hints About Love and Marriage


IScoMPATIDILITY- difference Of
temper or TEN, erament is now often urged
IS a reason, or excuse, rather, for the sep
aration or even d..orce between man and
wife. We do not think this plea should
ever lie allowed to affect the sacledness Of
tho marriage contract. The trial Of court
lship should have made each party aware
! Of their differences IN thought and chatac
ter. If these cannot be harmouized be-
fore marriages then the engageneDtsho'd
be broken Oft. If the lovers can bear the
differences, then tie husband and wife
should res lve, reselutely. to keep peace in
Their home, and r49er allow tic hatefal
though. Of moor aiibilits to tina ex-
preston. Miss asaccb, in her last novel,
9 A | ife ior LIFE" has gieen some true
hints by which these differences, when
really incompatible, may lie known; those
Who are ID the +" lovers vein may study
the hits with advantage. Dora, the he
roine says:
I nefer sciuple TO spesk my mind to
Francis Charters. We do not much like
one another, ard are both aware Of it,
Ills soft, silken politeness often stfikcs me
Is insincere, and my want Of refinement,
IS he terms il, naY be quite as distasteful
TO him. ne do not suit. and, s0ere a0c
eger SO fond 81 one another, this incopa
patGs'ity ecould be apparent People may
Elike ara respect each other extremely, yen
not I" suit even rs two good tunes are
mot always capable OF heiug harmonizcd.
| cnce heard an ingenious periormertry 10
play, at once, The Last Rose Of Summer,
and Garry Oven The result resem-
bled many conversation between Francis
ard me-
TRuE LOVE" There are two kinds Of
love- says The hero. On. eager only
10 get its desires, careless OF all risks and
costs, in defiance almost of heaven and
earth; the other which, 10 itslmost desper-
ate longing, has strength to say, If il b.
right, and for our good If il be according
to the will Of God This only, think, IS
The rue ard ctnsectated loyr. whicl
therefore, is able % he faithful til death
=
81 be first duty Of any two who love
Truly is towards one ano her; that is, after
God and the right-which means All claims
of justice and conscience-the fist dub
of any two who love truly, is towards
each other"
| a Mans IDEA or Love-" When i
man loves woman, before he tries o wiz
her he will have, if he loves unselfshh
and generously, many doubt concerning
both her and himself. In fact as once
read somewhere, When a man Truly
lloves woman, he would not marry her
/ pon any account unless he was quite
certain he was the bestperson she could
possibly marry But as soon as she loves
him, and she knows i, and is certain that
however unworthy he may le, or however
many faults she may possess, they have
cast their lots together, chosen one anoth-
Ct for belter for worse,' then the face Of
things is entirely changed. He has his
rights, close and strong as no other being
can have with regard 10 her, she has her
self given them to him, AMI, if be has any
manIiness in him, he will never let them
50, but hold her fast for ever and ever"
no the Officers and Members OF
Grant County AGRICULTURAL So
cicty;
/ Notice i hereby given chat there will
he meeting Of the officers Of the Grant
i County Agricultural Socelv. held ~ the