Cincinnati daily press. [volume] (Cincinnati [Ohio]) 1860-1862, 1860-06-02


"sho thou nsnes sleeps in peace by yonder clositer
For her young life withsred quickly from this world
on earth her knight lament her, till in heaven We
--lII n meet again. tia p. ..t' if-r
"Drluk We rather faithful comrades, men of iron
Who with Us in battles front have felt wars mad
Drink we o sS our high ambition Drink The triumph
of our throne !" .Irf fr-..
Mans Iujustiee 10 Womun-A few I'm
pleasant Facts. . Ht.
Those remarks, in which there is only too
much truth, are from the true-hearted and
gifted poetess, Alice Cary; isr,- --s.l-f
In almost every newspaper in the country
there may be found day after day, week after
week, and year after year, articles with such
captions as the following advice to Wives
"The Way 10 Make Home Happyp--'How to
Keep a Husbands Affection and other sim
liar titles, scores Of which memory will at
once suggest to the reader. In all these
appeals, eternal forbearance is urged; as the
great duty Of the wife in reference to the
foihles, faults, and positive sins of the hus-
band She is entreated with all the forms of
eloquence, between the thunders of denun-
citation and the tenderest pathos, always to
meet him with smile-fo keep the fire
cheerful, and the lamp trimmed, against his
coming to have the table spread elegantly
snu Snu a ,h to hasIst IA ~
sS t,S;lv ard fostef,i,v no noss;bie rsaSv to
AZ rsrsysnca 10 thar Satl,er hv Sy;nr };tr
Sosss - ,bs rS;ndor, rrhs, nj, stsn ;s heard
IN tbs Walk liz or the g,rstina atm. Of T he Iateb.%ey
at the door. 'If you want to keep yom
husbands at home" say these wise advisers
,nst as II the hast and most devoted and
SgsiS Ssacri4c;no and seH.abneoat;no woman
fbat ever xvas horn could make horne hanny
;ndsnendentIv If her bnsbands ass;stance
and ro-onaraf;an -
tell Won. nayi have seen IL tried a great
many times. and | teIl you too thare 10 ether
htyranny than that Of blood and chains. and
the ,Vives and motbers of our land and of
everv ,and nnder hssyer 7 sunnnse % are s. stae.
caring nnder IL and falling dow, under z.
nd bsino hurled away from II avery day
and hour and THANK Cod there ia a rest and
= silence down IN which M irritable growl-
nnfvrsnnons ersct;on can And ~ wsv
have seen in INV lie a good many nlsce,
called bomes-I have seen women in fthen,
doing ali that mortsyty could do 10 make
fhem agreeabie 10 the hears Who came thithe,
io feedsN,,~sfSrr;,1 as thev said d,.v hrs u
20 beefstake. whei, the stake was small apd
the husband hunorv--eltiInmi MING ali the cream
f-onr the mint of min. for his cotfee-isservino
him frat him last him midst. and without
end. d.n 10 ali that Abstinence and painstakino
ON their part could provide. and have yerS
seldom been RECALLED with Hthank you,n ol
Chow kind r from the pampered and petteC
head of the honseI GeneraiIy / have seer
snarline or sullen silence. bestowed in nav.
rnent. HsrIil8' Illn' '.''i '',' 1 :
Many a time have seen women turn Their
addresses bottom side nm and inside ont and
make chem do till decencv could stretch itsell
no fnrther-ehange the flowers from the yiobt
TO the left eide of the summer bonnet anG
make il serve the winter--take the baby
blanket for shawl. and cnntriye a I,e, Goa
for the boy ont OF the fathers old one, and
rnoreover nersuade the child nv those itoe
nieus aranrnents which oniy straiobtenn,
mothers know how to make available. Z tha
tho garment was altooetber brighter ana bef
Ter than A new one: and all this for the AL,
of seeing said husband and father 90 Ia m,
church or 10 the club. or the theater In 4 ney
coat and hat. II can not call to mind. how
ever, any similar sacrifices and contriyance
elected by such behavior. ,1 ~ ~
We all know how women violate the com
mandment, ''Thou shalt not lie,n by creatin
Fictitious ttmosphere through which thei
children behold their father not as he is, bu
as he should be- For instance, when TIA
husband spends money for cigars, whic
should have bought shoes for a bafe.foote
child, the wronged and disappointed littl
one is told, most likely, that father forgo
the shoes, and will buy them tomorrow -
When the husband "tarries iongl at III
grow clarnorous for supper their enawin
stomachy are quieted by the leiusion. tha
their dear parent is in some comfOrtless sit
uation cOinitiu, his 1ife- blood N their serxi;o,
and 40 on. according to the enormity "a of Il, II,
offense, is the magnitude of the fabricatio
in defense.
But Notwithstanding all this make-believ,