Worcester daily spy. [volume] (Worcester [Mass.]) 1850-1888, 1860-05-21
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THE DELAINE SKIRT.

encouragement. my uedr, interrupted
Aunt Mary. ono one calls it by worse name
than acknowledgement"
at might have been called acknowledgements
misfortune, or any soft name you choose at
first, but every person should learn wisdom
from experience, and mismanagement perss-
ted in becomes folly if not something worse.
Nelly's husband does both her and himself in
justice" sad Julia, earnestly.
"But if she does not feel it so Julia, is it not
just as well % asked Frances
"Thc old story of hiding the cancer. But
she does feel it, although unknown to her
self; because she is living an unnatural life.
1t is not the one toward which her whole soul
leans. She does violence to her own nature"
"Well there is Emma TOwne, what Of her!"
asked Frances.
~ cannot but pity her" was the reply.
- tareful, economical, prudent, industrious, al
HHaARost to fault was Emma, yet is she yoked
to 4 person the exact reverse ofthis.. Reck-
less, wasteful, idle, what but poverty can come
of such qualities. Always in debt d.
(Which with the poor house was Emma's
perfect dread, the bugbear of her earliest years,
l recollect," interrupted Frances.
(Which feelings she inherited from her
motlier' 1hey were ner peculiar Characters
ucs, III her grlhoo9' salu Aunt Mary Ill a
10" VOICE: Emma grandfather was lntem-
Perate am lmprovident to that degree, that he
dissipated a handsome fortune which he pos
sessed IN lght OF his wife, and hhalIy died In
poor house.
"His wife fortunately did not live to see the
the fatal end of his thoughtess career, but died
leaving an only daughter, Emma's mother
Shat was 10 De' 10 the charity Oh a, kihu helgh-
oor' 0Ywholh she was auapteo' L ms ACCOUNTS
lor those sfohg pecuilarlties Ill pom Elhlha
ana her mother. mean tle areau OF lie OF
PoNet'y an" tnc uisS'"oe WHICH tiiey ""tuf"'ly
assoelaIeu WIN It,
anu yet the picture Oh Emma "hole
weuueo i'ie must present procession OF cred
itors WIN duhS, OF ofncars WIN wrlIs, march
ing Ill gloomy array towards large ouliulhg
looming up III tne PACK GROUND, winch upon
examination proves 10 pe poor mouse.
Julla salu TINS EaSt Ill sau Tone anu Tor
Jew minutes no more was SAID
AT length Frances spoke more cheertully.
Inc description you nave drawn from re-
view OF tlle circumstances ana conditions OF
our rrle'lGs' certainly cannot 4 10 make us
WISH W c1ah9e our sta'e o' celloacy tor one OF
matrimohy' even at our present FISK OF BENG
stlgmatlzed as old MAIDS:
ouSnatlzeu, lndeeo sad Julla, scorn'
lully' one VINO Is not aooVe leelng any re-
proacu consequent upon oelhg an ola maui, is
NOT worthy 10 De one
nut seriously COUSIN Juila, what 40 you
recommend IN cases IKE those we have just
examined What would you 90 were you IN
'lie pace Oh either o. our friends
th!hK l should notbg~ tor independence,
o9t 90 Ior IT, woman Is NOT Just TO herself,
"hen sue suomlts TO any course OF treatment
winch FORCES her 10 40 violence 10 the dictates
o., 9i her Juusmeht' or wheh during her whole
ne she Is iorced 10 hVe contrary 10 her lhcilh-
"'loIts'
IL women woulu not iooilshiY make them'
serves the heipIeSs creatures t'ey are they
couiu tiNe care Oh themselves; DC independent
anu 40 oet'er WITHOUT tlCir husoahuS III nine
cases OUT OF Ten tlan WIN them.
nat goou Is Jane seymour uoinS hef
huSoahu, III fostering ms natural carelcsShess
anu negiSehce' oy Walung upon nm ana put
ing IN t'lelr places 'nlhgS whleh ne ousht, yes,
ous"' " pu' 'neie a'i'uSell VI Ne'iy D!oWn'
III ca mug no,G? ioi ncls 10 squahuer III 'le
eld'lro"'lo'i Vi ~: 'ii"ni% loI ti'olh9 Vi En
III" 1o"u i" yinS ~ NTeP up ieSlcct"oie
ippei"i' "n,,u n.y. "9T''iIt n'Hes .i'se,'
oioie 10y wy ~ oHy 'e', SUI"
uieli 70 tneir own run II Ihcy wiz llot le'rh 10
tiienu ilo'n eApeileuGe. li,ueg1 a'ii moi GER
IAN puS 1ney "Vu'e ','eii" an '.ig eucnVi' II
'"ey h'u nv o"e ~ ioetei t'ieii o"u "'oi's' "
coicei'' t'ieIr loIoies' anu ooistet 'lG'l up III
thelr ruilous coutse' o. "iler att an, hot
SO sure out IL IS woman duty 10 leave them,
as wen ror 'leii own s@Aes as ior hers'
"l' sure U! o"e 'iiiiiS INC "oiiu "otlo oc
iar happier With sucii hfassorteu marriages
orokeh; tliah III having theh, Eept
NH.s' guns, s"!" Nhu 4n"ty ""l"iy w"
taik OF tnat OIL wllicl' 1u are ehtireIy igno-
rant before mari~oe, elther OF the friends
whom you now SO mefclleSSly cehsure, might
nave talked as you now 40 but 1t would have
oeen through the VerleSt ignorance. NOW she
woulo say no sucu t"ihg' because she mas
learned iroH experience tlaV 1lle course you
propose Is all unnatural wrong, and would
Ieau 10 uhhappihess ana misery
heh you nave loVed a man wei enough
TO become MS ~he, when he has assumed the
relatloh OF husband TO You ana you nave by
r'ght called MN oy lhat undcarng name, tie
mas oeGh formed between you, winch cannot
DE suhdered without iaceratlng YOU own heart
with wounds winch no time can heal When
80 ana woman become husband ana wHe,
SAW inter upon relations winch no ruthless
II sid, no lght 0ilence, should disturb. Their
place can never be supplied by any others, how
ever pheasant they may appear; because tnese
are the hottest OF an human relations. Two
persons cannot thInk and act alike. When
you marry my uear Julla, you can no more
expect your nusoaiiu 10 become IKE you than
you can NC "hliis 10 become IKE nm. Each
person mus retain MS OF her own individuality
along WIN ms or her ulVlhe humanity there-
iore you must uo' eApec1 TWO 10 De merged
III one OF 10 lose t,iell i"ehIiy ia each DINER
People must consider lhese Individual differ
ences' ana study ana practlce mutual 1oroear-
ahce,
beheVe me- my qears' you Wou'u cease TO
respect huSoanu VINO uu not respect his own