New Orleans daily crescent. [volume] ([New Orleans, La.]) 1851-1866, 1860-01-11

the New York Atlas we ana the following

In the View York Alias We hn1 me foiioE1nE
rary lecture:
Orr YouSG LADIES' The semfninfty the young
and attractive femninity of tisis metropolis having
an eye to matrfmony and The matter Of neHsy
which may accompany II, have been Of late yeaxs
making fools Of themselves; and their indnigenee
in the folly to which this article will ande, has re-
cefved new impetus by the ecsdt which attended
te Oviedo- BARTLETT wedding OF that world Knows
event we have nothing 10 say- n has had its time
sof comment and proved u be an oasis IN the ~
an oasis which revived their dropping genius and
reused to scratch Of activity the otherwise e1ete
pen editorial Of the Herald
Those Young ladies' who pride themselves On
n style,r and who would rather shave on their eye
iasles with oystsrkHifs than be 0ut of fashion,
who reaakd their !. dear Dapags II pockets Az gold
mines, and tIIeir !. dear niamnias 2 affection for
them az mining implement those yonna ladies'
who are extravagantiy romantic. and have an
especial f0ndness for husbands of the Count ct
Monte GristoH caber, are the class #e desire n
lecture. now tlat tlie lecture season tEas cone
nfenced-
They seem to ignore the propriety of contract
ing marriage with men Of their own country a
LOT of Creoles and spauiaris and Gnbans visit our
seaboard cities each year, who represent them
selves 70 be men of rank, the inheritofs, Or the
wil-ye-inheritofso of The vast estates belonging t0
their millionaire parents. They stop at the hest
hotel, cut awfIl dash. make an extensive show
of wealth upon the rattle two pennies aud a key
principle. and in all respects conduct themselves
to the high-fressHre, valve-tied-down style, 20
characteristic of the young Of blood sud bank
accounts.
0Hr Northern airIs take ii tfese fe1Iows lGe kis
tens to tle hot hearth bricks in country kitchen
Their alteration for these copper-colcred, curly
haired bucks is unreasonable. They smile invit
ingiy upon the thinslianked exoticss languish for
them. encourage them, marry them, and, 10. the
result - disappointment and divorce, and often
times beggary ana poverty,
What niust he The "feeiiukss of a brilliant
dasting, beautiful belle, who. after naarria@ III
one Of these Cuban fellows finds ~ Y ~ - J,
taken her to dear, delightful Cube &c I'd ihtf6<s
duced her to his family, that her law has
woolly head and her motleriH1t un amber
compfe sion and the afniable style III gffn which
made 70 expressive the features 6f Barnurns bar
boom Imagine the brides Y feeIinkss' too
when-alas too iate-she finda the hidalce Of her
choice asp0or as Jobs off OK. scarcely able to pay
his passage. She married him for the sake Of
tsstyIe,n for wealth, for title he married her to
net her dawry and save his financial department
from total collapse.
Now and then, during temporary scarcity ar
Gubans and Spaniards, 4 Fifth avenue belle, or
Flora MeFlinisey, Of Madison square, who Is anx-
i0asly looking for position and soI1etIiiig 70 wear
attempts to secure these ufimatons by d ruisr,
with d French or German count, the CHIEF charm
Of whose conversation is his method pf breaking
the English language into small fragments, asad
peppering them with choice extracts from his own
which he understands no better. Here too comes
the inevitable disappointment. The count Is Just
as likely to bel French cAeualie- dindast1fe or
dilapidated barber, as anything else.
Let oar ambitious mammas teach their daugfrteyg
TO look within their own land for Husbands: tearfs
them that, general rule soap bubbles are lxDI-
low however they may glitter in the sunshine.
Let them learn that there is no style like that of
comfort, nothing so elegant as happiness. Let tie
daughters of our wealthy ones marry men honest
hearted, upright brave men, and know that disap-
pointment and misery attend unions with tie efeIn
mate and etiete skinned patterns BIZ humanity taE
come to ~ like birds Of passage from those regions
below. denorninated Cuba.