American Lancaster gazette. [volume] (Lancaster, Ohio) 1855-1860, 1859-11-10

III bhye noihing 10 90 with her-=l won't
visit her. nor. call her. sister. nor even
speak 10 her.. ~, ne sSisa. sdr hsus,
What's the .oljeetiOni' ssked Tom, in
his COO. .ldty way, fixing his -hrge calm
eyes upon the pretty iaoeiof bis sister. rs
she sat uneasily swaying half around and
back ssain upon the piano stool q 70 3T,g.
.0bjsctionls The young lady's lip enrled.
Who is, she? What, Is sbtGas Hd flhsaaI
"A sweet tempered right thoaghted,
rue,htsrted yonDg-woman. who will make
me good little wife Are you not ans
swefed sister?'a5,a ys,.lh b 81 .v
j 'Ass.wing girlP said Lizzie conlemptu.
onsly. % a7si .ss eari d sa s&eot
btWhat our mother was. as ] bavsbeen
told, before her msrriaee,' answered Tom.
And ifmy eyss have not deceived me.
she has been sewing swomans ever since
my recollection, Of her, !Iss1,u'.hs-, - p7.sg
THAT'S another thing said the sister
mother was superior to her class, and has
risen above IT, sti 4.fI 7l l. Had a o.
Suppose I answer your objection 10
Harriet and say she il superior to her
class. and rises above il?' v lsfss 1r ,F
| whist ihen?' lsl Hps hva ,atf lAtI
my father made a good matrimonial
venture. and may do the same.R .lgeY
l'But why brother TOm.' urged the sis
ter. don't you choose a wife from among
those on yuur own level! .aa7is- : ,a-sbs
What do yon nsan by those on my
level? Let us understand each olher.'-
| From among those who move in our
own circles. FIom tie educaw d., refined
and accomplished 9, p, a3-p
,Suoh as the Misses Walton, for instance
Yes, or the Misses Ed,n.s se 90
Whose fathers support them in idle.
ness, and expect the young men who mar.
ry them TO 10 the same. Now Lizzie the
fact Of the business is, like Mary Eden
very well, and came very ntar falling in
love with her that L was really frightened.
did not 60 near her for six months after
felt The tender passion. 4a- = @.ttt
Dear Maryl Oh Toni Why mol marry
heI? could love her asa sister. s
.Canst afford il. Pretty. but Rmonly Q
{ poor young u an, and have only industry
aud talents to help me forward in The
world. Mary can't DO anything herself
i and would expect me 10 puta,er in an es
tat lisbmtnt but little ltss costly than thu
one her father owns
Oh, bat Tom, thers'h re DO necessity
of going to hvuse .keeping ct first. Apt
!, then you know her father IS well off in tn
! world, aud he'il give her a house and fur
ni,h i, no doubt. when she IS married.
:, But Tom shook his head. va-
= Mary Eden's father may. or I've ma,
: not, be rich. Myow private opinion is
n that he. is living mp to. il nota little be
= yond his income. Aud as TO Tie hous
and furniture. that Mary's husband is go
% ing 70 get. ,hatis something very fine
feed the fancy upon. The real bricks an
:, mortar are another affair." tmsi ~,
!, oh hut Mr.. Eden is rich Tom
Il T. .The rich men of To-day. are cur pot
- !, ms n of TO ,norrcw,. Lizzie. i wouldu
n give . strap Of my finger for him as adj
= pendence,o j mean TO trust in myself, 9
h honest purpose and conscience. As 4
d my wife, ! want woman with liz
n purpose, independence in her; not gre
- a. lundle OF lacts. silk. bonpeis and curtin
~ papers. with a pretty help tp-do- nothin
4 doll. hiddtn omewhere. inside, three
:, lour feet from tie circumy alatioB. Ar
" then again, Lizzie. Pm something Of .
20 indepe ndept yt ung mans wonderfully gi
70 - en- TO The work Of taking care Of my self.-
70 70 happen to be at the bottom Of the ladd
Id and il lever get to the top Of il, my ov
+, strength will carry me there. Now wi
ID on my back instead. Of on the rounds Oft
- - ladder, keeping step with me upward
81 wonld be asdsad, weight, and we sbou
!; re main at, Or near the foot forever.,,; N
:, no, ,LiSsie, /, cannst afford one Of thos
Il Il finished boarding school Misses for a,wi
i i I---tbe luxury is,too expensive for me. 4
- ! am going TO marry giFl, who kno'
: something Of real aife---a true, good, p
+ tient enduring sell. denying, darliI
II, little body, who is not ashamed to earn. b
~ living with her Atedls. And tell y
!" what. Dolly.I only wish you we're me
q lke Harriet Parker, there would be for
:, - more chances TOR your marrying man
~ 4. sense than you have now. Don't' y
- know that q new society has been form
- among young mep, and thai some Of I
80 very best eoatches' among them have Gig
7 ed a pledge not to marry any gIl who
|, mot willing TO commence matrimonial
y ',s' with two rooms and kitchen. and "
u.s. u.s. dossn't knot how toyDake, cook. and g
~ Eald TO washs iron il the bargains i,
- the President. ssHna1 p4' "aT
'su ~" .Prtpostsrousi' exclaimed Lizzie.
~. You'll cry aome oihsr word when j
,.,v set on the old maids list, and see yt
~ place fiiled in the house Of some m
AL by some womau who Is not ashair
Iha of useful employment when she va
IN girl. i can tell. you what. my DAN
IN I fliule usisler, i,hers's' reform at wo
IA. and men worth having are beginning
-. choose bet ween taarrisga and no aparria
m with plsinsT Botions Andamope ussfali
~ accomplishments than possessed by q
IA lbutlreAiss who loSags oqraoias oil d
has knitting aephyrs or reading novels: Is
a.. maxi up your mind'fOr acomfort paad q
= lInaiiisnl.s Aud now, asiih all Probabil
~ you understand that l am in tainest'ab
,ent marrying, harriet RafEsr. Hbope voulv
ing Eeconsidsr your hatty Conclusion, sb
po. speaking to your istersiu,law;ths L