New-York daily tribune. [volume] (New-York [N.Y.]) 1842-1866, 1859-02-26


meets this question.
NJ. Cirer sitoces. With more o-teo'ation than re-
svarcy. the fact that he bought large aense ana
funsied IT, a. o Cos. O about forty thousand dollars.
He ard hi- family kuoF and do other parsons, that
tbs ou'.sy nct cot-ste1' with my "ishes; That
when Re proposed this establishment. expressed ny
deciced pFelefetce To- o1e Soich w'u d h'Ve c''i
about thd Of that san, en- TIA, was oYeGrul-l
BY bic oEn peculiar Cesirt5 o. plT2csee-
II was BIZ own Argument, addressed 70 otters "a
vel % myself thsi rent excepted, tue expense OF
lsrge houFs would b. 10 gfcster than sWaA one
gave him credit for tersly in vi AZ b. 81, aai @Aa
ersteul very gIa'eul FOR It, a. bis daus ltef un'-
bsrd. Bot a,kef 20 hing Of hiIn, never hhte eFeo
at toe question Of mercy 20 having airy sATe IN ny
ergsEemeEt or marriage; 20 tor IRON u, tlN on
CT gg hmself most DESTROYS - eNpsd the m-i-
risee, end a very few DAYS after confirming the CO.
gseer-tnt he'd out incentives TO NE to tnst enc.
He urged upon ne a visit cf two or t1ree yeSrs -
Europe AZ bic expense which | positively occbeed,
bfcsuse was unNiilirg 70 gon dePeIdeut cJuirion.
NJ. Grigg renewed the same ChrT On a. esrb oc'H-
sion argued earnestly sgainst ny o.l"cIoos say
irg ia L Tob-dys Business a. whose co't "eAI
sbfoadi tat he would send ne to Europe u3'e 10 We
sly e Of prince II ordiosIy min-tb!s beng his
identical Oppression. thsnsec bin enc -gcy. - ms
proposal cemstced bat still preferred Tue aeI'oh
ard consciousness q ny oEn bu.ife's, sac my N'tI'
by 4 AZ bone 70 he ileress srg pleasure ~ ioreSu
tfsvel If eIioJet az sny mans e1Peose, even my
fafheI-n.aEs. mentioned at e ure, tbs rlf'un-
starce Gpd Mr. Gnggs peculiar lans uags 20 Two OF
three ifieLts who well Teme1 Der both Nhtre VS.
oTrs SD bis sIs from the day that formed h.m 0i
ny attachment to his daush prove ois "ins ness 10
re- al lt by ny uairisge No utn could have had more
encouraging tokens that an alliance would De se.'o ne
tlsn Mr. Grgx extended 10 me Yet, Nv, ia ooutemp.
of truth he would create the inpsessoo that came
20 bs door an uBFrnop.ed adyeniureE, ana dAros To-
asseTt-I quote bis orn vOr1s under Oatn-that l
robbed bin Of his child 10 the eager pursuit OF Der
ioItuue | subnit thst this opPro1rous chsrge
srri hates every obligation 20 hlm, aut every clelm'
which, up 10 this moment, he may have hsd my i'f-
beerdIce.
When The marriage took place, and my bridal party
we've to leave the city, myself provided the money
fci orr eXrerses ard paId ttem all, every dollar OF
ten. kr. Grigg had previously given his daughter
tritsl pIestnt ot several hundred dollars, ol sue
did rc COZ fde il TO my care rever asked Der for T.
never cant 20 do 90, and she never tenccred 10 me-
although when our honeymoon bad s'sreely wlned,
she VIOte 10 q strange that she would use u 10 90
snc I've near him. for all her love wss ceutered Un
him" ard che hsd - no one 70 look to but him.
Itis true that When We had been more than font
night abseut Mr. Gugg wrote 10 bis daughter that be
had Intended the sum tor travelling expenses reNsnse
te usy then have been aware ttat WAS deuaymS
them. Still. reIta, never touched the money. Al
60 il is tue that after return home whcn made
him acquainted with his diugh'ers behavior to M,
III was before the detection OF any correspondence
and when told Lin that If ne would not upJoll h5f,
she ms Ut be brought to stJse oil d0tyi that feared
that il he snpIeo her with money il you'd encourage
her rtsstaI &C T. my proper influence and therefore
he sished to supply her, It bad better DO throuse me;
true tuhf zen &c lu"ftu lr thcth iOi ufN L'h
dreo dolars reuarkug that had paid tee travelling
e1verse. | declined to take il &, fret, ieelog the
tffsr on bis pSt 20 be very lLOpportG1e, Ou' as no
p,esied TIE oilt took It. l. nas ali the money
ever received nj bis hends, ana but Etue more lhan
orr travelling eXoeusts amounted 10.
Tie house purchased for my wife's ans my occups-
ton bed by ,r. Gsg hinself, without any .rost
fCr settlement upon either ot u The furnur WAC
in TO ru al given to either OF us, but vas pu'
into the house simply for our Thus, as / have
ssid ny wife had nothing notDi1g 10 call properly mr.
oar, or over which she could " ere ~oud, give rue
the control" But tie lss did give ms conttol -
this extent ard under these orcums auces. Her Ia
ther had provided The house shJ iunluse for our cou
mon use nd Ell jymeIt, ard had placed me, Witl her
il pofsefscp. Nheu she deserted that home 7, T5s
Still M home Of night, and MEhI, IS uVuos ~
have iaued possessou Of the house for at least two
year. after MY wife dsseroD, ard Ut the idrtitnre AS
ltug gs che lived. Bat what gss my conduct | ie-
tanned ptses-iCu only few weeks lltcltOLhy ioog
enough TO afford no prote 1t for tie chsrge that too,
tsn absudored NY bou G.; and then Of my own free
will suuetdcied IT, with al its contents, 70 Mr. Grgg
Was Ibis morceLay!
Such are the facts upon which BIO seconds AMI re-
neht. hia caumby 10 Terence Othe motives
ssro ctcnrr,terc.a OF nv marriage. Because nc was
Iich was his daughter lot to be- married az Gil Ana
who could have married ter uLioss man OF over
grown foItune, Independent OF All eteiIion eao pos
rave Incurred sidIlar cLsrge from The inscIence OF
his wealth I brought his daughter t1e tram
ing toe oousry tie experience anG the eha scter oil
q sefrelisut busiGess mau, whose honesty ana nonor
n 2.
The second poin. il Mr. Grggs memorial, Which |
select 10 aLege' IS hs dttoupt 10 parry the charge
have ade thai be virtually encouraged ME dauStter
in her utty to ne, and in her hnal deeerton OF me-
l. the most critical MOUeLi " Ter h4fed LIE, ~
resled Z. lin % s..tsin her ogn and her hutb-uds
horror. had accidentally detected Whist seemed u %
ar Illicit corespondeuoe. Without break'og tho sea!
q tie later nyse'f claimed 10 kuo~ Who addressed
Ler invited his pfesepce TO support ms IN th's c'a
Ste pieyaricsted, 6tt retUied to tell VINO was tho
ytie r turned 10 her farie r. last wastee instant
FOR hn 20 hsvC spoken as father as hu-bapG hul'
sef e. Of virtue std courage, snd COCO t.lth,
stretching ut haod 10 save @Cuen on the Ofink OF
rim std ruiz. hat dc he do lnsu.tei ne desralef
Il c in the eyes of my wife fortified her falsehood,
-arc,iOned Der shame IL tpst instant all VISA lost
Hat be been fst IN to the plain dictate OF DUTY hal
he been tTm; had be not CIioked nes0,iely "heu 10
should D6ye stood up 10 the dlRpry Oh paernal 10
fierce ara rcbuked the perhdy Oihs daughter 10 oer
tust6Ld, AID poicttj ont tbs path Of Ter crJuga,
ft5 as The OF entitled to bis Own sympathy aad
protection had lie done The the sole prop 10 Ger pad
purposes would have failed end bad tue past peen
JaTcoIat'e the f1'ure might possb beve been bon
Olhble ana bappy. But be wac found wantirg. 100
bird 10 nhihtr 1e was rCshipg, or TOO rresoile
10 arIest TER fatal progress lie ie Lef i lnto ths
CTece from vi ch too late and by means as igCoOiS
g. BIZ error piif-', he seeks 70 rescus her
For tbs Airggn hun; ard thsre s lot paTett hno
Knows parents trust, not g husosAd VINO kto"s
a husbsnos night, or feels husbsnd h0hof ocI VIZ
ion ip c9nogLcipg him as have recreaoti impe-
becs I'd unworthy e ti.her o. those sacred re.sons
TIE ttifi point 10 Mr. Grgg's memorial, which 1
shan meet, II he allegation tsa' sept MIC fo'c>
Ca-tffe, with q libeCus attack upon ny wit. pro
fumei that 'Cr Ery Il u Of JtnuOn seize had sam
ciep cispo-td e that charge IL NJ aGsSer 70 lrf
petition already rrefert-d 20 your hCncraDly bCcy.
But Mr. GIisg ~ % indorse srd rttsrs,e tLaI
cbarEe, -hai meet il again. IL my answer 70 my
SI.es pr'itCp WAS as forbesring a. toe necessities
~ my cause wCui PERM. Blu, new. attacked oy
NJ. Gligg directly as was before indirectly, ucier
cover q bic daughters name love hin 10 'endern-es