The Jasper weekly courier. [volume] (Jasper, Ind.) 1858-1922, 1859-04-06

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There is a certain class of married wo
mcr, who are always telling horrid mon
sters" the men are. Doubtless all my young
lady readers, like myself have been taught
BY " old married women" lhat 'f we know
what was good for ourselves" we would
never marry, bu. ,~n cLi maids &c, for
III have no one 10 care for hut them
selves Now, | think that very TO care for
is what we were mide for, you, young lady
Yes-and 80 DO |. suppose some Of those
unhappy matrons who expected to iiad per-
iect happiness. short Of heaven, but were
diseEointed that their husbnAds pyssessed
me fault would raise their hands holy hor-
ror - here me call man an angel. Women
are al angels they say; yes, all but mothers
ir-law, Fanny Fern trsches.
Yes. coll man an angel, Of course laoi
an. OH. nn,) blt when see Young man
ioiIisg and striving with all he energies 10
support widowed mother ani orphan sis
ters. giving up perhaps some cherished day
dreams Of future greatness, Of M. for then
-- would not .al him hero he deserves
gru,isr. nobler name, an angei!
Young man work on. God and the
heavenly rnge love you; though he world
town, aud that Il. ke-hearlcd Did coque,te,
Mss Fortune, turn on you cold shou'ler.
hy you fear! Treat The naughty thing
with The contempt she richly deserves; yon
are ia The right, and heaven will bless you.
When I see an atfrctionase husband and
father suspend 'bc ion~, lonely winter even
ing- AZ the home tre-sidc, striving by HE
presence 70 drive the care from hi. coiapan-
loL's brow, when | see him sharing with
her the solcituse she feels when bending
over the tiny era. lc- bed where little Charlie
= ;soaring with fever, Or when perchunce
'nr snaels come and bear his Infant spirit
hrnlr, ne strives hiad ,rorfts with ~ com
'ort mothers heart, ol', tell you, he is an
irgei .h,n'
Or, when see i'm daily enter hi- liilI-
World home, with brain flied with thoughts
81 dusty Isdgers.and long columns u figures;
Il through al! the babel of confusion that
bn' haunts his poor t,.nd -l.e can smile, and
thereby help 10 tighten the care his loving
help mate endures--5y Kind, gentle, soJ,h.
ing ~ords, then, oh, then you fnd true
man.
Young man, if you intend 10 get married,
don't expect you have nothing 70 do but 70
sii down and wait for happiness and ease 70
come 70 you; il you want Jenny Wren to
say you are a =" dear good angel" love your
wife aud never, no never speak unkind 10
her. you 10 no, know what multitude OF little
'-iala and vexatio,s she must bear through
the day, and il her husband ndds to them by
being unkind, or even Indifferent, you must
not be surprised If she learns TO scold. Sac
must be more than angs. 10 dssis'. II s
not enough that you keep her finely clad, Or
lor keep plenty Of servants; she wants more,
and what il in the keeping Of all, both man
sns woman--kiad lror.is and II she be 50
hard-h-sr,ed and stubborn asto i'll treat you,
why then - she is not an angel You
are very unfortunate and deserve better
fate, and heaven alone can comfort ycu.--
However. do your duty, and though thou
sand Fanny Ferns assail you armed like as
many porcupines, with their quills, and
thrust them ihreatenngly iu your face and
eyes; turn this way, Tor you have one friend
your humble JESNy WREN.