The Council Bluffs nonpareil. [volume] (Council Bluffs [Iowa]) 1857-1867, 1858-01-09

4 d L. ~ 4
VIII - 1-l-gll.. - - :
- .........
, -.....nr !.
a.. ;, ~, -.-..l.a. -.
!oH .. s. 1870 s..a yosI :. -.
80 .-Iy...@..S.s.SsI.. v..,Sk
apoe les. ~: IvoI nanug. P0ss -. ~ -.
!, 81, @ :, ~. rsor,s,. MI, bsns6t bes;ass your
ao1 80 ~ DS;P.. !..s..s ~S.,H .c,,. ~
s~.:...s oI @ ~. -. - r.ores. m;ts;ns n.
Y.s.s'0. Ys.s.S e ~ - hlus .n5 .;lver dams.L Won
-" .s .s,l;s.sa ~ e ~ "A l ha- a. !. eosld yon i've
~. '.S ah..I;.a - I;.tla d;nns. n.rt;es vhsoh.
~ ...s's -. S.. - a...s.,s.his q crs ;r yom,
~; ~; ;..nr. ~ ,..s ..ry.rt. - ~ :, how IN
, R...as. ". nssi9 NJ. NJ q .on 2snt into 10.
sasss.. !. IN s ss -. t;:G -o,; rov 10 tesn 9Th
~ iI....,s - -, sa.,,sI i, ;ncc,es -onld meit avny
d.s..s. h".c.,s..' "a ~h;ta Ia c,oye:.
~ NJ =. A.. 81 I csr hv - mean. sdv;se
~, ~ -. sS -. ~. vo,,- h,,rd-.d :
yos.U ~. - . - '.',' = - !,
NJ ron,. f.;snd Looked nm /. l;ttl. Doubt.
2 yIsus % ;s.t - - II ss,ns.s , a..' !. and M.
u..., H. = 80. 80 -snt - to an ;mnot;ent ..oh. Il
,ho"9ht ] s pnnr th;no. y, for they we're
sa"..iy i !. ios. nd ,b.r. m. M ssrthlv
".".a "0.s ~. - ' 49, I .ho,,ld not m.ryv. Hox
- nssss h"nJ 81. ,.ors a.. TIM. vastinr the
h... 49,. -...s - ns .h.;- IA. ,hs Neat hcnes of
49, ...L iosa hoM. ,.sf.lrs.s. ererev
'1s. {Ss, G.I ,.si. 49,. - .,,.h h..;asse.
~ - ~ ~hs.s Evs,;rr r.rt;e. dressa.,
.I",. Sr. ho.,a and Nine and s;lver cur.
e' et.;nss' = --r-'-'--, n
[ Vst vow.n ~ the world would have
aid AZ .ha. mi. , connie ~sre on;,e rieht: that
- tha. hsd ,..rr!ed .nd lived n9terxards
-;.h IL hore.t n,"dence that would alone
has. ~, noss;bIe n : Young man Of Mr..
H.n-.,. ;nden.ndent character. thew must
hsva ;nfail;hiv have zone down in society.
hsrs .on. ao.n II the;r naturai circle. to
49,, 1;f. :. tha;, rsrants d;d. a. mort md
S,s -. - ..s,.. hava h.onn Kfe. narrowly
md hur,hlv Thouyh v;thout much fear Of
nos;.;s. 80 .,.,v.t;on thew mnst have piyen
p'. r. -, h,.",;.s have had 10 Learn and
s...:s: ~ @ 80 scorom;.. rh;ch nrobably
P"s.I. S.a y .a. ;ntn ~. he.d ~ either Iady
ae~...i.,ssa. ne's. ae IL .rd yst love mivht have
OF gsn.,em .Sa ;1t !. t.!eS.. the msst ;cno-
"ugns MEM, ~ "a ...Sa..h,sdI, - h.vs hsd In
,an'. Ian iey W. 49, g. 49,. - i..., not for
nvc, Ios .ne neA' .. ~ I .hs;. = o.n 80 - s.lv..
soc'e.y ~ Msge! ~. .a;a.a ~. ..s,, sorrsct;on.
anu men m1ss msai. Wan"~ wonld hsv. done r.
u w s.I,a,- ~ iov. Iii IA m;oht;ly
L ~ V1h . nd n n p NJ
neaeaS.na neae.S nf ,sm T hs;ng we,L enough to be-
o'a. H.. .sat : .n"n @ sres;5e' where a Cheerful
neso t.a. na., e.as neo, "A ~ .i;rr.r. and
laceu M..,e "ms n", I h;s teaMeven r. oblired to
sitS pouring ". no ~. ,nss,.;-.
MAKE sunary ys.h;sa I.erm nS.h oh..;nate,v refu.es
W qu.e' l, yone'e e"aessahls - h.rS,oms
70 goso sieePMs Pf..s.a..e .;so orJ ~ ";nar nor.v
sonHly ~ Guy u'.Ie a,. VIZ" IN, -
OF oan, ~ WHICH nc less.s 49,, ~ rSoa, ~ =. 80 nar =.
the smile, OF ata,!eian anse,, ~n ~ aV @ e.,
ask 70 wa1A so ,cI'uIn, ou' ua.: .:.h Nv. 49,.
ms Iie-or LOT ms nono' ,,a.;I ~t H. has a ~.
ask any o.nsr qaes'.on,, unsm .aa. =. LOO , e.
g.ay mars anu .noI siS,n {, ,is"rs .nd st;li
DaIes no,, ior .ne Mo'Iuy .hara.,~i.rah. . ha "
more ~oriaiy notne's' n"s, w. ..
tefs themselves, WY, unuei ...usn 'uen a'
mushns, are n",eenins ,h'o p"n.I p,en
men OF .ne wo!lo, ~ouu .n s'a"u Ssnh sr ~ on,e @
iaea OF iose ~ oo..sse. .h;"sI :" WH;.h Nh
ot:oaIe, aosurI, prePossero'sh =. ~ IVA .o,t.1.
!, His-lor People !" olns s";.:ss " @ 90 MSs
tne e1Pecsa'lons aIo neoeSs,.s Sa AJ"'
v" W. ~ ~ 'tho other hand Il = hardly pos,;.
h,e ~ over ~ calcnlate the evils accruinp to
;nd;v;auals and 10 soc;ety in general from
this , custom ] oraduallv Increasing. Of late
and nltro nrndential marriages. Parents
hr;no mn their daughters in luxurious homes,
e.nect;np and exactine that the home to
which thew transfer them shall be of almost
eoual ease: forgetting how next to impossi-
he for snch a home to be offered by any
Young man of the present generation, who
has to work his way as bis fathers before
him: Dauchters. accustomed to . life of
ense and lasiness. ore early taught to check
every tendency towards = "romantic at
taehment the insane folly of loving q
man for what he is. rather than for what
he has got of being content to fight the
~orlSlv ~ M hattie hand. in- hand with one who
is worth clasping, rather than settle down in
comfortable sloth, protected and provided
for in all external things. Young men-but
words fail to trace the lot of enforced bach
elorhood, hardest when its hardship ceases
to be consciously felt. An unmarried wo-
man, If a good woman, can always make
herself happy: find innumerable duties, in
terests. amusemcnts live pure, cheerful,
and useful life. So can some men-but
very, very few.
Scarcely any sight 10 more pitiable than a
vounr man who has drifted on past thirty,
without homo or near kindred; with lust in
come enough to keep him respectfully in the
position which he supposes himself bound to
maintain, and to supply him with the vari-
ous small lu1uries-such as thirty guineas
per annum in cigars. etc..-which have been
habitual to him. Like his fellow mortals,
he ia liable enough to the unlucky weakness
of falling in love, now and then but he
somehow manages to extinsuish the passion
before II gets fairly alicht; knowing he can
NO more ask o girl in his own sphere to mar
n him. or to be engaged to him, than he
can coax the planet Venus out of her golden
west into the dirty, gloomy two. pair back
where his laundress cheats him, and his
landladv abuses him whence, perhaps, he
occosionally emerpes gloriously, all studs
and White neck tie-to assist at some Young
beauty,s Wedding. where he feels in his
he.rt ha m;oht once have been the happy
=