Wheeling daily intelligencer. [volume] (Wheeling, Va. [W. Va.]) 1852-1859, 1858-12-31

perfect christian is one who has taken all the
degrees in lore. a man who has never loved
himself as he Ought to cannot love his God
The lecturer illustrated the different suseep-
tibliteS, and capacities to love by exhibiting
drawings Of different individuals, among them
that Of Raphael, who was remarkable for his
suscePhbilities to lose and his power to bring
it out IN his paintings
We make husbands and wives partly in pro-
portion as We are adapted to each other. That
adaptation comes out Of the chronological or
ganlzauoD; and hence we may become some
what acquainted with each other by the study
oil physiology and phrenology. Physiology
makes US acquainted with all the qualities
parts, and relations Of the body, giving rs to
understand the constitution, the organization,
the stock, SO to speak. Physical loye-loye Of
peFsOn-comes from an appreciation of the
physiology Of the individual That Is import
ant IN its place; and inaSnuch as it is import
ant IT IS necessary that ne should understand
physiology so as to understand those relations
that may exist between US and the object of
our choice Phrenology, far as it goes
makes US acquainted with the elements Of the
mind, vita the tone and various tendencies of
the mind, with our likes and dislikes By un-
Outstanding Phrenoiogy We understand whether
such mind would be adapted to our mind
whether their likes would be our likes, their
tendencies our tendencies; whether our minds
would probably unite, blend and harmonic
some individuals IN going counting try to get
somebody IN love with them. That never ought
to be the case. A man just as sure as he urges
and praises and pets woman to get her love
has got TO do it all the way through life. But
When he finds woman who loves as naturally
as he does, and their souls come together like
two drops of water that cannot be separated.
then he does not have to try TO get her in love
with him. She loves as the boy wbistled.-
SAID he, II didn't whistle; i: whistled itself''
tLaughterl
Man is social being, and he has social
brain IN the back part of the head, giving full
ness to this region. Where this portion of the
head is large, there is capacity to enjoy domes.
TIC life If the back head IS wanting, and fully
developed in the coronaI and intellectual parts,
man IS capable of exhibiting high moral DUAL.
tiles and strong intellectual powers; but thev
SEEM IN seeking their objects to go far away from
home, they do not center in the family. So a
man who has family, with want Of the social
brain, IS wanting in those qualities that render
happy one Of those domestic men who truly
feels that he has family of his own.
lie lllustrated' at some length, by portraits,
the different developments of the social brain
Temarking, that as there is difference in heads
and difference in bodies and qualities and tone
OF organization, it is proper that we take into
account that difference, as happiness in married
lie depends upon the affinity and adaptation of
one to another.
have said enough, thus far, to prepare the
way for some socia! remarks have endea.
yored TO point ont to YOU the fact, that there is
difference among persons-one is more intel
iectual, another more social. Said young man
to me, Nv no would You marry-a Young lady
whose father is rich, but she not very intelli-
gent or young lady who is very talented but
IS PoorE Said /, '.If you marry the rich lady,
you are sure of lady who has not much sense
out you are not sure of the property. If you
marry lady who is talented and well educated
she, with yon, can earn all the property YOU
need, and you will have the consolation that
you have an intelligent companion; and if YOU
become parent, you will have wife who can
educate your children" he finally married the
talented woman. If she had asked me, should
not have given SO much advice in his favor as /
did in hers.
The first ofall these social organs is Amative.
ness, the faculty that adopts us to the condition
OF Parentage. 1t causes fullneSs of the head in
the lower part OF the cerebelum, in the smaller
brain. This quality of mind may be large, and
yet other qualities larger have a control. 1
once said to a woman, ibid you ever love 81
she said, II love my father" SIS that all 3"
Yes. Are you not married 81 Yes u
DID you not love when you were married Pr
NO. why did you marry 2" 81 married TO
get home" That is too often the position of
woman. She rnarries "to get home" That
ought not to be said. But still it is SO; and the
marriage relation is sacrificed.-In Aaron Burr
this organ was very large, and he was noted for
me manifestation of the disposition. John
Randolph did not have the organ of Anatiye.
ness; he did not manifest any love for woman:
and If woman made love to him, he repulsed it
Amahyeness is very large in Brigham Younp.
aud any man that will have religion that viii
excuse him Tor pursuing such a course as he
does, must have avery strong sensual nature
1 would like to make some suggestions with
reference to this quality of mind, but perbans
had better not will state, however, that
more life IS sacrificed through the possession of
ms faculty than any Other; more virtue is de-
stroyed, and more strength and health and lif.
More disease is degenerated through the peryer.
SION OF 1t, than any other one faculty of the
mind. The great mass Of mankind are sacri
hclng themselves through peryersion of this
clement OF their nature. Parents should he
careful where their children go, and keep posted
up with reference to their knowledge and their
habits and parents should impart to their sons
and daughters what they onght to know. Chill
dren should be kept employed; good books
should be put into their hands; they should have
something to do. II you want to ruin your
children, give them plenty of money and moth.
ing 10 do. Then they are on the road to ruin.
Tho next faculty TO which your attention il
dIrected-Si is Love of Young. The child is prc-
sented 10 US perfectly helpless; and hence the
necessity OF having parent, and loving ma
rent This faculty is stronger in woman than