New-York daily tribune., 1858-06-29
NETWORK DAILY TRIBUNE, TUESDAY, JUNE %. 1853

worr an degraded II meut.l s1t ncca. s,.vsy. sac
urst demand h.r recon Der rgr. to recsve tie
equs w.g-s man fo' Der l.oor-her riss' 70 of'
cs,Icrrn rhes sh 1rN, and 6y i-ton she 'rrA
Woman is rot to.sly deprayrd. Ste Will oevsr sodse
ere r. ht tia, given 20 her s1d sGe will neverseP
aside tron hsr rosn ps'ure sne desires 70 20 70 tee
lot. boz. il because there is wrOfg sous Saefe,
,nd she that way 10 right t. Ii she desires 20
hAr1ma LAWYER il Is because there sre lass TO be
,edessec and better. II she oesres 20 presoh.
il il because che feeis ths woss scd sfi cuons OF
bumsptv II abe desires rights, II l. because she
needs them bele'e in ths sbsoute freed om OF the
.r, ctiors sd ths. il s woGsrs privilege, aye her
riy 10 accept refuse sny love inst comes 20 her
~. skord Il the ruling ror-cr G r1ters ~ i1rt
and hen TER love bse died CD; for Toe nsn sho bss
taker hsr 70 his hear, she 1, hvrg lie g herself
her OWE nature and 70 hin, II sns continues -
hold an !nana.e relation w o bin. Ana so Is msas
relative position 20 wcmar. When his love nat di.d
ont and 10 continues t. live sth his wife, on sly
cstou lee strikes blow to the morslity OF his
nature a1i lives hfs Of deception, not ooly to her
and society, but he IA Responsible io si the en- mes
that his children, borne uoder those cucumstsncss,
ere liable 20 commit. gentleman said TO me lt;is
tine age L" Ny wife = Womsns Rignts woman
.ba tsks e her rights and all ~ IL, but soe really
bss nope am her hus5aGd, she IL my property ard
if 90 10: Ike thing say so, and DO not lnsidef
she has any right TO d8oute it. ! DO not holc a'y
argument, for coils der ny will law. And Owed
A ~cmsn and was not bound TO ber BY tue N ~
rage ceremony, 1 should not think of diepoung
her will or wishes, for fear she would sooS
NE the door, ana should have no Alternative but TO
90 ont of IT, Her will is absolute for have no claim
uoon her ard she is justified 10 ell che does so 1t IS
sssry guard nyself and movements IN order TO
retain tie love and respect OF the woman l love.
What pic a,pg prospect is this for the vile, VINO IL
rearing her children IN her isolated nousenoid, ana
imseinpg the husband Immaculate IN Thought 81 Wel
rs action and respecting rer N tae sscre1 once o,
wife al d mother Why should woman tame herself
Ito calm submission, and be the slave and 10Y
ard plsytsing Of man Wnr Is marriage is
IL the linking together of two loving hearts IN
b,,s -scr-d union No! Seldom the case waer
o.rSpared TO the msLy Thousands upon u 'u' sn1 ~
marriages cf couvenieIce. Women are ooue1' aNu
paid for the negro sIave Is. Que a. ~ to ,
thing of barter; for q man cours the cost OF MS M
srJsd n. as deliberately If be thought OF keeping
COW, t. dog OF pig Nov, what are the fig s's anu
n,iyiepes OF women in the marriage lD-ttus?nl IL
nnvas ns the priyiets 10 become Ms Brown instead
ef Mss Smtn. That is honor, no doubt, "a 1t re-
I.yes wouan from the stiguia OF Old mad. IL gives
us the privilege of being supported and attending 10
domestic sfsrs; the privileges 70 see hat tie ainne,
aeryed a, the proper hour for hungry husoand the
privilege ofteDtmea TO it up alone half tle night ID
let thai husband in from adelghu concert and oyster
supper thst lie has enjoyed with Mc. Jones eni his
! besutiiul wife. Then We hsve night; and-usten,
women Of the Nineteenth Cer.ury-the marriage
institution gives you cne right ore right that you
have not, perhaps, hitherto valued gtees you He
right 10 tear chldrn Ii is not privilege It is not
al heItsuce that your nature Graves but IL Is tue
/ law of wise men, VINO know very much better thsn
you do when ,ou rant a cAd, and ahen you ought 10
! lrcomc mother. Now, sey again, that resoiu
is irccmr.bep-ve. Loveis not depen ndent on resson
or Judgment or educstiop, mental acqulrements, or
socety coLtfo Of any kind is an respiration OF
the soul IL is holy, -a'led emanat.on from ire
mos. vital part of our natures, aid to say when or
where shall be limited restricted, ID violation OF
| cur individual rights. .
| Imay hsye taken an extreme side Of tie question,
but eny cier nay Vless ss os ana VISA 'nss ius
wbs cor iugai love Is and to how few, or how many,
an iscased household nay be limited. viii read
resolution, that think would bear more directly on
the marriage question:
Soc then 1854 the suhjoined resolution;
Rs.red Tts he slavery aud degradation Of woman proceed
from the n.tuton Of m.Ii1se that By tho n...sT &
| heI affections. her children aud her freedom
grand commotion WAS instantly visible IN the
ranks OF the marriage CONSERVATIVES, but no one had
tks puck step into the ring and meet the matter
iairy. So a little docgilg was resor,ed TO-.
Nj Stepben 5. Foster, the husband OF Abby Kelly,
stepped forth. He proposed to amend the mariisge
| resolution, which If ~ fJuO Ss:
Rtred That tie ony slus and natural un.se al efcu H.
.v, copsA leween one nsa and Hne woa.a, Aa ae
only Home is the sOed Hore, based upon this exclusive
lcve.
lie propOsed to insert after the word womsn.
the phrase based on principles OF perfect and entire
| equality. -
This amendment. being secorded, he went On TO give
some Of his Of the subject IN speech OF muca
| yi2or and gestculston. He thought tnat the evils
sflspg from the marriage relstion sprung from
Inequality in the marriage. People we've not caIetu
the man suffers much &c IN &c unhappy marriage as
the woman. He went On to explain in rather circuit
Gus language trst he and Abby got on very wen to-
| sether end On tha whole had desire to lie sApa-
rated. He himself, be said had found N evil in
bis own marriage RELATIONS, for he m4d7 MS
sife egsal With binrei ia evey respect.
He had tired bo,h t,s blsssedness OF single beSsed
meas, and the blssledoess Of welded lie. Tho
day lie entered into the marriage state, ne nsce
soem vow, pOt 20 God, no; TO nso, but u his Own
soul TO regard her a. his equal 10 everything. lie
sAd however tb8 a. g-ner rule every "on "a III the
ey.s Of hs husband II s,v. aod breeder ot ives,
blt he CID not want aug violent remedies Immediately
.pped; be wanted the n1arriage reiston TO oe aity
t,.ea before it wts discarded by TIE community, tor
| TO dissolve the ties of marriage would MAKE t;hs
worlo 8 bell in advance. he wa WIN Mrs; Is. IN Isr
view Of ,hs evil but not 10 her view Of the rensdy.
Joel Tiffany Of Ohio irdGlged In some very p 40.
| fpoksr remarks. He tn ght that the people dda
properly Distinguish between love and lust std that
| free love- was but another nsme tor Tree lus!.
Men marry wives that they may be ot use TO them,
AID after marriage. when man hnds th1. ere ' not
perhaps useful be expected and bis arc eo love
| evsporates he regards his wife too much rs tniag
| Of purohsse, as he would bore or an ass. Tho
women !oCk upon the n the ssms ightI and MAKE
calculation Beforehand Of what use husband Is 10
be to her. Thus marriage becomes mater OF os'-
| gain ana sale. Mer snt women are not mGrrHd 10
| true sense This Is what the marriage restion an-
d. cQbteoly e ard yet the commun upho!cs the sys-
ecl. S0ch union Is not union OF love- oa' of asl'
When D,an fnds IL woman all that his soul yea ne
for 81 when a woman hSds s mao who 10 ths idii
em oodineut Of ell her desiros, if IL II IN N and woman
Unite under those conditions. teen they are truly oIaf-
RED. Woman then becomes TO man source OF inspi-
ration AID man becomes to woman source 4i Strength
AID power. She is perfectly united with hum her
soul with his. th6t be sEnOt develop Tthout devs!-
opipg her, ard they tnus become ore.
Voice III the crowd-Whch is tns one
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The same voce-wbich OWES tie farm
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