The New York herald. [volume] (New York [N.Y.]) 1840-1920, 1858-12-12

should not she had only to work for ourselves; did not
belp her, had great deal TO do; thought my strength
required in my business, and DESTROYS OF pro
crossing in the world for my comfort aud hers the water
for her TO use for washing was IN the Kitchen washing
woodhouse adjoining the boiler ordinary one Sc,
in a stove; but had not my mind on those matters-my
mind was on my business; ! went over home
every day or two, 1.-TWO weeks or more,) for
l very fond OF my home; did not notice
about domestic affairs, and don't know went
more washing days than any others; palns
70 washing days; went because loved 10 90 TO my
bone and had not been for my home Gathers and my
business should have spent ali my time With ms wife
she is mistaken tesying that spent her time At
StepLcy in fixing pill boxes never saw her work at p
boxes, and know was never done don't rccoect that
she asked to 60 after quitting frames and still she
might have asked me- and refused don rccolect al
my gong after her when she was on VISIT rcco ct
her visiting at neiehbors and Icamc home from Bethel,
and If recollect right walked down there beckoaei
her cut and eld her wound like to have her home
and she went hone-but don't recollect stating any
time, only TO come home soon as she could had no
horse then of my own have asked her to oversee the
work at Stepney, in my absence, | obliged TO 60 10
New York once IN week or two; she became very much
excited; said she did not come there 70 do such
things, and would not do them; she asked 10
lei her GO home told her III like her 60 but was un
prepared just then; went to New York, came back
TIE day, and up stairs, supposng she would
be there; wanted to see her very much, but found
that sbe gone hurried down stairs very fast
body told her brother bad and her
his house. she stayed at her brothers little short Of a
week, and it happened that felt very lonely; n-rricd
up my business 10 go for her. surprised when
got there drove very fast for wanted 10 see her
very much was surprised TO learn that che had been
quito sck-under physicians careso much that she
could not return with me; she did not tell what
the raiic-I had TO guess II OUT she told the
paint and, from what natur ally had read of medicine
and medical works, imagined what was the matter had
physician while was there; my opinion that she
relieved of that which she ought not to have bcca
about the bonnet che wears, she asked for -four weeks
after marriage; bought her not only bonnet but other
things for found that she bad nothing and destitute
Of everything Was obliged TO get the wedding
fore marriage was impossible for me TO get her clothing
at her hay af hpr
id extravagarce; rather think dn'nt procure the
bonnet and the other things; did give her money
TO get dress; she had nothing except what she
borrowed-the wedding dress and what she brought
from BIZ mipgham; Il was Mrs. p 5 wish that we
should 60 to New York, and she told she
would 60 down and look up place, if would
let her have money and would stay with my cousin
told her in day two would go down and ASSIST but
at that time couldn't very well go; she went, she
about TO find place, and that she had not
found place before / went down; my mother came
TO see me and asked me where Mrs. b was; told
her she had gone 10 New York; she said, "Why
George, you ought to have gone down with her.; said
could not then, Was very busy mixing medicines, but
would 90 down day; In New York she sad she had
been looking, and had or two places view but they
didn't exactly suit her gave her draft when she wen;
TO New York; don't know how much aud snc sen, part
Of the money back from Bridgeport after went down
my wife went with me, and we procured place in SIX
teenh stree-wo rooms she assened and perfectly
satisfied beng much better than she had in view
both thought; we fitted II up, and seemed 10 be
very pleasant, and for what know FOR heard
anything to the contrary, but she was satisfied believe
GIRL and always made the lire, until after time, We hsd
a girl place was good my circumstances would
afford before We had girl brought coal and water,
everything needed and did everything please her she
speaks Of my urging her 10 get aud sweep the
three days after her confinement and such IL the fact
usually went 10 Post Office; almost always foot for
the exercise ana day came home feeling very hungry
found the cranberres had been burned and SPOKE
little impatient and said sorry she forgets about
boxing her ears. never did it, she speaks Of my putting
bed clothes and bed baby TO smother it, never did
such thing can't distinctly recolect Of the baby being
IN the matter at all but do recoeci OF taking part
OF the clothes on and laying the floor some
Of the clothes may have been upon baby under
took TO do such thing never undertook 10 smother it,
unless was with kisses; in New York my health began
failing me, and in the spring told my wife should Ike
70 10 New Rochelle don't recoect sencing away
two weeks after child was born; may have gone
she in feeble health and died after gd Girl
after that the VINO lived with Mrs Pencd at Siep.
noy at New Rochelle Mrs Bennett seemed to be pleased
hired pretty little cottage there from Mr. Banks for
one year; II was In the centre Of the village; came
there, and while was looking for trunks the hacks had
all gone; was sorry about IT, in New York never pro.
msed 10 get her piano she would give laudsnum
the child. Dieter shown 10 Mrs. B. and admitted a.
hcrs) Dr. b. swore his wife handed him this the lrst
anniversary of marriage paper dated New York May IL
1850; wss cory Of very arectionatc from
dey Lddys Book was sorry At New Rochelle that tho
hacks gone, for Mrs ID not able to 20 foot
however did ask her TO lc carry the baby. but she
Ike many mothers Preferred 10 carry itherse house
not ready: Mr.. Brooks who lived near by and who had
public place. where stayed last summer said he wa
sorry happened 80, but We could come and stay at his
house free Of expense; We went, however, 70 Port
think did not 90 into Mr.. Brooks house, but re-
turned Immediately, and carried the baby 10 the depot
think did 60 into the house hired; stayed lew
days Port Chester and returned 10 Now Rochelle and
fitted up our house really forget abor, tho carrying the
baby from the Depot when we returned don't recocct
the circumstance came back 10 the house and left
and went down 70 the packet after furniture. We
got lifted and lived finely and Pleasantly house
not cleaned and whitewashed; don Know that she ara
II things from the packet my health poor
didnt 80 through the ceremony Of whew ASKING: few
weeks passed on and got 10 be fishing time; 90,
pole. and pole for Mrs. b. with good lines and hooks
took to be my business TO dig the worms. and went
down foot abOu, half a mile, bright and carly
every morning fishing she al on one Of The rocks and
The other face face, and she had the good luck 10
catch The hrst FISH, and hailo~e, "Dr b. I've got bite,
I've got btei-pcrfectiy oserpyede and the dAh took
hall hour AFTER that, and We both had good luck
and she took hold Of side OF the basket
and the other and we went home this was the first
time and the others similar 10 L. she seemed
Joy very much, for NC went every morning long AZ
ash would bite, when tho baby was three months old,
am gentleman enough TO carry part Of the time and all
Il she wanted; II Wa our first child, II warm day,
aud Mrs. said, doctor let's battle the baby, Cmprcs
sycy) she prepared for The water and then waded in
about three feet and dropped the little thing under and
looked blue possible she dropped under and then
raised out We connected ourselves with the Methodist
church and she went nts tc choir and was very mach
delighted and d resulted n good results, for used
SING good deal together al home; We had no girl part
Ms. h. went out visiting, visitors present
day in particular. when Mrs was out was playing
with the baby on ult moor there lady and
her daughter ~ the door, and Knocked for
zone time, ! didn't know il I'll | happened to
look Up, ! at hrst thought ! was low down. but
locked up smiling at them (cvdence stopped inmacri
a). TO throwing smashed potatoes "a Mrs. n, don't
know but may have done ii but Vi did, Il could not
have been very cool one aud Just threw IL on the
plate, have impression II some bad potato aud
throwing 4 on did no, throw against her I DID not
whip ms child when IL va three weeks old not IN
the habit Of whipping my children. doubt, when
tending g. the little thing cried not ng how stop
a. don't know anything any than kindness on
M part any time - 70 hor keep ng ny books New
Rochelle, don't rccoCct her keeping aayth NJ there,
than 70 enter ugon sheets e psr stitched together
shc assisted IN making books oat OF letter paper
leather scraps and pascbard HAD only letters
week 70 have copcd forgot all about refusing lct
her baye paper 10 write annual verses refused her
Iapcr. (1he verses shown not written on fooscsp
papcr) When Mrs and her sKter wanted M ~ 70 10
Episcopal Church, said / not IN habit OF gong
Episcopal Church ius before that che said che would
Method ~ Church because they hoong and
following and falling down, and just after that
said would not 20 ~ Episcopal Church 9rog shop
y stay IA New R0chcsc vi fail although aihlrcd
house tn sprnr Mrs " said q unIseasaat In New
Rochelle. my business WIS n New York And wanted 30
stay she came and plead Z wlh he always listened, and