The Hancock Jeffersonian. [volume] (Findlay, Ohio) 1857-1870, 1857-08-21
MisteIlaneons.
Girls who " ant Husba nds --NeiIy,s Ad.
vice.

Wits VIM want husDAnus' '--Neliy's Au-
vice.
Girls you want TO get married
don't you2 All, what a natural thing
it is for young ladies 10 have such a
hankering for the sterner sex. This
is a weakness that woman has, and
for this reason she is called the weak
er sox. Well if you want to get
married don't for conscience sake
act like fools about it. Don't 90 in
to fit OF the nips every time you
see a hat and pair of whiskers.-
Don't get the idea into your heads
that you must put yourself into the
way OF every young man in the
lncigbborhool in order to attract no.
lticc, for il you don't run after the
men they will run after you. Mark
that.
A husband hunter is the most de.
.testablc Of all young ladies'. She is
full OF starch Fuckers; she puts on
many false airs, and she is so uicc
that i. appears ridiculous in the eyes
of every decent person. She may
generally b, foun at the meeting.
coming in OF course about the last
one, always at social parties, and
invariably takes front sea, at con.
ctrts. She tries to be the belle Of
the place. aud thinks she ia. Poor
girl! You are littin,; yourself for an
old maid, just "a sure as the S ,b.
bath comes on SunlLy. NJ IN viii
!. ilir with you, and fla,ter you simply
because they have no more idea of
making Il wife o!' you than of com
nlit'inS suicide. 1t ! WAS a young
man, | woul,i have no more to Do
witt! srch fancy than would with
; rattlr.snlkc.
Now. girls, let Nelly give you Il
piece o: her alvicc, and she knows
rom rNprri,ncc il y"u practice it,
Won Will glin rcputat. on OF being
worthy girls, AMI stand II fair chance
'h getting respectable hushandi.-
+, 1t ls we'll enough for YOU to learn to
'inscr tIc piano, work embroidery,
.'a'y 5'am-."r, ,tc., but don't neg.
l'ct poor gran Ina or yourdcar IN ,th
-; teach Yourself to make bread and
get n meal OF vicinals goo ! enough
ora king, no part ola ousc-kc"prrs
lniics should be neglected, iiyun du
not get II wealthy husband, You will
need t. know how to do those things
rs you would have them done. In the
next place, don't pretend to be what
y"n are net. Ailcctation is the IN ,st
'inspisablc o. accomplishments, AMI
wlll only cause sensible people to
laugh at you. No one hut a fool
will bc clu5ht by alilctation it has
:! very transparent skin, easily to be
seen through.
Dress plain, but neatly. Remcm.
her that nothing gives Il GIRL so mod.
est, becoming ard lovely appear.
ance, rs n neat and plain dress
All the ilum.nery and tinscl work OF
the dressmakcr and mliner are un,
necessary.
If You are reilly handsome, they
do not add to your beauty one par.
,icle; if you are homely. they only
make you look worse. Gentlemen
don't corrt your faces and iewelry
but you own dear selves.
Fingc" rings and foldcrols may dc
to look 81, but they add nothing to the
value ola wife--all young men know
that you know how to talk do il
naturally, and do not be so distress
Iingly polite as to spoil all you say
If your neck is black, wear a lace
collar, but don't be SO foolish as tc
! Idaub on paints, thinking that peopl,
are SO blind as not to see it, and i
} your checks are rosy, don't appl,
pink saucers, for the deception vii
be- detected, and become the gossip
OF the neighborhood