The daily dispatch. [volume] (Richmond [Va.]) 1850-1884, 1857-04-30

TIRE In PETERSBURG On Tuesday morning.
sooul naf past one o'clock, fire brose on. in the
.naeuine shop at the foot of Lombard street. Pc.
.ersourg. on the land Of Mr. John Mann and leased
oy Or Morrison e. Co for term OF wears Tks
snop, with all its fixtures was entirely consumed
TT. morrison e. Go were insured for s3 500 OF
mond " AS'eA
The fire then communicated to the brick dwell.
,ng ,ag owned by Mr. Mann aad occupied by Mr.
mus, VINO sustained considerable loss by damage
70 furniture, &c. There were several small tene-
.nen's consumed, also owned by Mr.. Mann, bu. the
snan1s escaped. with slight damage to furniture.
Mf M loses Sc OOO.
- ine Circumstance proved good occasion for the
fioneer visitors to exercise their sLill and they
WORKED nobly to prevent the extension of the
oonn nagafon, but the material was of too infiar1.
importance.
LADY ON THE MISS BOXER MAHRrAGE-The
NICE appreciation of the female mind, when disiu.
teresleo, is seldom at fault In uddinK social rela-
'oas and assigning the true bearing of personal
coaduef This gives value to the opinions of Mrs.
II . Nichols, in the Miss Boxer marriage case. a
transcript OF which we findsin the Hunterdop Ga.
zette:
A young lady, high bred. polished and of great
wonisnly deticacy, encourages q rough coarse,
uninteiiectual man. filing q rnenial station in ter
parents household, to approach her ss a lover and
hnaiy elopes with and narries him 1t not he.
Gause ne Is poor, or that he is in lower station in
iie than herself, that makes this affa;r so mo-
sIfous Ia the eyes of those accustomed to look he
tne present into the future; it is because of
.ue toai diasimiiarify of feeling taste onportrn;
~ "uo endo~ments. And yet Mise Boxer cannot
become 10 US refined woman No refined woman
Iou.a nave borne to have been addressed in the
us"ass ot ioYe by an unrefin ned, coarse natured
aias' W say nothing of her living under the same
~ tool Win hlnl' and oeholdng him condemned to
uo.a WIN tnose ahe esteemed SO much beneath
si, WINE sue queened up stairs in another sphere
Si sso ienaea aud right'minded woman would have
=, Ing away fathers and mother sioye or traated
mem , 80 usingenuousy, after all their kind care
nuu anecaonate guardianship, as did this younp
lauy IN question. No deeate.mnded wom.o
YOU'D nave subjected herself and her private AT.
laifa 10 toe rude remarks and pitiless animadver
slons OF an excitementhuntingp public as this
newly married Mrs John Dean has done.
Marriage, to bring happiness to the parties in.
tefes1eo, must be union of tastes feeling and
senumeat; there must be eonReniality of spirit.
sonetniog nearly equality of mind, and certaiulv
tnat sympathy of pursuit, which equal educational
advantages always develop. Without these. there
can be no permanent happiness in life but after
Tue novelty and blindness of passion wear avsv
certain misery must follow, which is slways sura
to fall most heavily on the weaker party
C!andestine marriages seldom bring kappinSess
the woman who sacrifices home and q fathers and
mothers affection for lover, unless the parents
are unusually unreasonable generally reaps that
reward which follows In the footsteps of inerati,
tude and dsobeGiance.