The Tiffin tribune. [volume] (Tiffin, Ohio) 1848-1859, 1856-12-05
How to Promote Poac e in a Tami

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I. Remember that our will is likely 20
be crossed every day, so prepare for Il.
g Every body IN the house has an evil
nature as well as ourselves, therefore We
must not expect too much.
3. To learn the different temper and
Disposition Of each individual. 3
4. 10 look on each member OF the
family as one for whom We should haze a
care, - .. t....If ....
g. When any good happens 70 any one
to rejoice atiL .r ..r... .it-at.
6, When inclined to give an answer,to
return good for evil. re .g
T. Ii from sickness, pain or in6rmiIy,
we feel irritable, 70 keep a strict watch
over ourselves,
Q. To observe when others are suffer-
ing and 70 drop word of kindness and
sympathy suitedto them.
8. To watch little opportunities Of
pleasing. aud 10 put little annoy snces out
OF the way. t ""t '' N
10. To take a cheerful view Of every
thing, even the weather, and encourages
hope. if-. .. 900 ''.i p.
IL. To speak kindly to the servants,
and praise-them for little thihga when you
can. a h..H"l'
l9. In all little pleasures which may
occur, to Iu, yourse lat, I1'01
| 10! 10 try for ths "soft answer which
turneth away wrath. 7D i.A lo''HH
IA. When we have been pained by an
unkind word OF deed 10 ask ourselves:-
Have l not often done the same and beer
forgiven? o' a.. ."' ''''lH
Is. In conversation not to exalt your
self, but to bring others forward. 'l
! l6, To be very gentle with the children
and treat them with respect, iaay
II. Never TO Judge another harshly,
but attribute to q good motive when We
can eH -.laa a.nl- laHnI '.
Men may blush to hear what they were
not ashamed to act. l.... ....
Men take less care Of their conscience
then their reputation. rh .s
I Moderation is commonly Rrm, and firm.
ness Is commonly successful.
More credit can be thrown down in q
moment. Than can be built ia an age,
Most men employ their first years SO
as to make their last miserable.
Much goodness, but no religion. I'd
Neither believe rashly, nor reject OBJ
stinately. . '"H
Neither look out for troubles. nor
be entirely unproyided for them.
Never accuse others TO excuse thyself.
Never carry sword in your tongue to
wound the reputation Of any man.
Never do that in prosperity whereof
you may repent in adversely.
Never marry without love, nor love
without reason. '...
Never think OF raising your reputation
by detraction. .t eI
Never wade in unknown waters.
Next my friend | love my enemies, for
from them first hear my faults
Never wish for thing done, but do
it.
Nobody can stand in awe Of himself
too much. a...fi a
No cross, no crown.
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A man should never be ashamed TO own
the has been in the wrong which is but
sapiug in other words that he is wiser to-
day than he was yesterday. e1a eIf ta E.
! Opportunity is the flower Of timei and
as the stalk may remain when the flower
is cut of, so time may remain with us
when opportunity is gone forever
I little passions do not profoundly dis
turb the soul; they are like the breeEes
which ripple the face Of the waters.---
Great passions, stormy tempesis, agitats
the sea, even TO It's depths, Oft wreck the
vessel aud tho mariners, sometimes car
rying them aiar of into nswly discover
ed regions.
How many, adorned with all tbe rari-
ties Of intellect, have stumbled on ihe en-.
trance into life, and have made wrong
tchoice on the very thing which was 70
determine their course ioreyerl This Is
among the reasons, and, perhaps is the
principal one. Why the wise aud happy
are toe distinct classes Of men.