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thus He has enc virtus which vail preserve
hiu a. he 10 forever A deep sense. an in.
destrHetibls feeling for ever rythips that IL
great aud gsod aud noble duslls 10 his 30.
sou. And this delicate sesptihility 10 all
that 10 noble dSslls in me, slse, heps, a.
well n 10 him This is the innate pledge
and security for our h.ppissss'
bat " 10 shs1ld grew old vita yss-ifit
should change 20 hateful sxeitability-and
exeltability 10 the worst enemy Of matrimo-
ny You both pssssss sensibility. That |
do no, deny but beware lest this grace
should degenerate into an iriitAbls sad.
qaarrelsoms mortal
'Ah, dearest, II might never become eidl
1 could then be sure that my husband
would never cease TO love me
Thou art greatly In srrsr, dear child -
Vert thou always As fresh and Beautiful as
to day, ,till thy husbands eye would By
custom Of ysars become indifferent TO thess
advantages Custom 10 the greatest en-
chantress in the world, aHd in the house
one OF the most benevolent Of fairies She
renders that which be the most besutiful, as
well as the uglirst, familiar A wife is
young, ane becomes old it is bis custom
which hipders the husband from psreeivina
the change On the coatrary, did she re.
main young. while be became old, il might
bring consequences, aud render the naH IN
years Jealous Ii 10 better as kind PrSyi.
dsnee has ordered is Imagine that thou
hAdst grown to be an old woman, aud thy
husband were blooming youth-boW
uouldst thou then fssli
Louise rubbed her chin. aa1 said
Il cannot tell
Her aunt oontinuei-
Bat l will call thy attention TO secret
which
That is it, interrupted Louise, hastily;
that is it which belong 30 much to hear
Her aunt confined
Listen to me Atteuiively. What I now
tell thss, have proved, II consists eftwo
parts. The frst part, Of the means 10 rem
der marriage happy, Of itself prevents ev.
cry possibility Of disssasion, and would
even al last make the spider aud the a. the
best Of friends with each other The SEQ
ond par, il the best and surest method of
preserving feminine attractions
Abr exclaimed Louise
The former half Of the means, then. In
the 6rst solitary hour after the ceremony,
take thy Bridegroom, and demand solemn
vow Of him, aud give him = solemn vow ia
return. Promise one another Sacredly, ne.
vor, hot even in mere Jest, to wTangls With
each other never TO bAndy words or indulge
in the least i'll humor NeV-rl say; ne
yer Wrangling. even in jest, and putting
on an air Of Ill humor merely to tease, be-
comes eArRes, by practice. Mark that -
Next promise each other, sincerely aud sol.
ennly, never TO have a secret from each
other under whatever prstsxt, with Ehatsver
excuse it may be You must continually
aud every moment, see clearly into each eth.
ers bosom. EVsa when one Of you has com
nittad fault, wait not an instant, but con.
fess IL freely, let it cost tears. but eoRfess
10 Aud as you keep nothing secret from
each other, so, on the eontTAry, preserve the
priTaeiss OF yOuT house, marriage state aud
heart, from father, mstksr, sister. brother
Auut, aud all the world. You tWo, with
Gods belp, build your SWn quiet world -
Every third or fourth one whom you draw
into 10 with you, will form 9 party, aud stand
between you two That SHOULD never be
Promise this 10 each ether. Renew the vow
at each temptation YSu will 6bd your ao-
count in il Your souls will grow as il vsre
together, and at lSst Ein become As oae -
All, If manyA young pair had on their we'd.
ding day kRo~n this simple secret, aud
s,raightvay Prsotissd 10, how many mar.
riages we're hsprisr than, alas they are
Louise kissed her sanCs hand with ardoT
Il feel that it must b0 80 Where ihis
eouhdeaea Is absent, ihs married, even after
vedloek, are two stESBgsrs, who de- net know
each other 10 should be so without this
tters can be No happiness Ard nos, suit,
ths beat pTsservaiiVs Of female bsAutyf
Her aunt smiled, and said
we may not conceal from oursslVss that
= handsome mao Plesses us huHdrsd times
more tbpu aa III i0oking one, and the men
are pleased with us when Ne are pretty -
But wba' ve esll prstay, What In the men
pleases "a, And In us plsssss the msn, IL not
skin ssa hair, aud shape aud soloF. ~ in 9
picture or ststue bat il Is ihs obbFs0tsr,
- Is Ihs soal that V within thess, Whish sn-
ehants as By looks and words. earnsstnsss.
and joy snd sorrow The msa admire ne
ths more they suppose these Virtues Of tks
mind o. ssis, 10 us shisb tbs outside pTsm
isos aud Ne think = malicious mao disa
gfsssbls, however graceful Aad ksadssns be
may be Lst = y9aBg maidsu, thea, uhs
uould pFessrVs Der beauty. preserve BAT that
parity q soul. these sHss, qaaliaeausbs II
the lsind, thoso virtues, ia shart. hy uhioh
che hfst drew hsr lover ~ hsr fees And
ths best prssorVsliVs of Tirtus, 70 render IL
uselanRing aad keep it ever ysass, is rsli
Ei0u that Inward uHion With tbs Dpiiy and
stsrsity saa hdh--is pistJ. fhst vslkiug
wth Gs4, % Pass, 80 Pssssfal, % hsnsassn,
a. moftals
See dsar heart, esniinusA ths auat.
'tbsFe are virtues uhirh arss oet ~ mere
experiences These grsN old gith tine abd
sltsg. bssaass BY ebsoKs ~ sirssmstaness
shd iasliBstigs, Prudsaos aitsrs hsg nsass
81 astisa, and bsssuss bee gssvtA doss sst
slEays keep pace vith that of eur years sad
psssisaa Boa Fsligisus ViFtass ssa usvsg
sAsHEs thsss fswaia stsfnaiig sbs ssHs.
bsoaass oaf Ged is sisays ths see. aps
tbat stsFuiiy ths sane, uhish us aba tlsss
uho ioss "a ere hsstsuing - satss Pre-
serve thsn, = uisd inpsosat ssa pafs iosE
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bsaaiy - seal fsuals fsf uhisk ihy bsias-
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