The Panola star. ([Panola] Panola County, Miss.) 1856-1857, 1856-10-29


common hypOcratical misery OF keep
ing up appearance? And how many
are condemned to this constant Strug-
gle, deception and fear by. assuming
false position at the commencement
Aud what did these persons ever gain
by their abiect slavery to cast. Mere.
" Tire passing notice of Il few fas hion
ableS, who doubtless, snecred at the
pretensions which they tolerate. BY
daring to appear what they really are.
you may command the respect of all
classes. BY assuming TO be what you
are not, you will bring upon yourself
the hatred of those whom you look
down upon, and contempt of those
whose society you affect,
Is it not the extreme Of folly to sa-
orifce independence, self respect, and
home comfort that you may be called
on by fashionably dressed persons,
ana by such recognized in the street
when by this course You forfeit the
respect of every sensible person. 1t
is really distressing to see a care worn
man toiling all day and deep into the
night, that his wife and daughters
may be fashionably attired and live in
genteel idleneSs. This kind of conju-
al happiness is confined exclusively
10 cities and little upstart villages, In
the country, people live nationally.
When girl becomes a wife she ex-
poets to keep her husbands home and
assist in getting a living. And coun-
ny people are in no haste to have
their girls married, because they are
The beauty, the sunshine of their home
sud valuable assistance in all the
Iabors of life, Now boys I am going
TO say do not marry out Of your
sphere or class. Glasses do not make
people though they from habits. If
YOU know an agreeable ard amiablc
Girl, who is willing to take you for
what You are, and accommodate herself
to such a mode Of life as your income
warrants, take her and be happy but
beware how you deceive. If you WOO
her under false colors, if you permit
her to deem you what you are not, and
promise What you are not able to per
form and so win her deceitfully, you
richly deserve al the miseries that fol
low. When you see your wife disap-
poh,ted and weeping, when you hear
her complaints and upbraidings, and
feel that she despises you as vile
deceiyer, what can you reply? A We.
man win forgive a man almost every
sin but deception. A decciver sh,
Gan neither honor, trust nor love
Therefore use no concealment, If {
young lady refuse to marry You OF
account Of your Peculiarly circumStan
ceS, let her 60 /; she does not love you
Surely You would not deceive such a
enc into becoming your wife! If yor
do live mi&erably, or drudge yourself
10 death, to maintain the appearance
OF her accustomed rank, why you are
q poor poltroon, a slave, very foo
and il is your own fault.
Never marry girl who is ashamed
70 be seen engaged in any useful ant
suitable employment, Flee from
The girl who sits toying in the parlor
While her mother drudges in the kitch
en-. as you would from the leprosy
she has neither heart nor soul. Sh,
VIII never care how hard you toll tt
support her selfish idleness. One,
more, | eonjure you, if you must makt
your own fortune by mental or mutua
labor; seek 4 wife who will assist VOL
by cheerful labor; her gentle sypath,
and judicious advice. If you canno
iind such an one, live an old bachelo
and be as sour and surely as yo
please. Better so than be burden wit
q proud; silly and unreasonable wifi,
and children Of Ter training. Sosay
q woman.
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