Wheeling daily intelligencer. [volume] (Wheeling, Va. [W. Va.]) 1852-1859, 1855-03-07

scotsdnllea yearbook ie6Ss about III How con.
gedlsd and c6ilIyl How we'll she dsscutss The
oidSasid4 10 thsSltlc. u almost fancy ! can see
hetsllti6g In the comet pussy sitting opposite,
and hear her holding fetlhupon the sad teachings
other own experience, aid hear her sing
'lIere soesa nonrntA crew
0troor old maids
What she says Is ttUe, nevertheless, and we hope
those will ptoht by Il, who need Il. For my own
part mean TO notice The dtess, &ca Of lie gen
tIemep, aud their other toiblesIoor patIOHlallythe
''lonsto blacks" which 80 "eEacefaily cuEl'
and fold With each senuynotlon Of The weatet.- =
One would think that al epoch Of Plesl' had tS'
TUNED III these Kao@.Notbtng times. even, But
Iwlll give 70 a special Ielteto these thtnss'
Youts BETTY.
Plom tie Times aud Gazette.
Ma. EbtToR, peteeiie by the lutelligehCet Of
The QGh ILL.,, that Miss Betty Fern has pitched INTO
the young gentlemen Of this city aud has read them
quite a leolltte upon tIlet Iyn0tauce Of disregard
Of The rules of etiquette, AMI their seeming uu'
nardoLable neglect OF proper attention 10 tet sex.
Nov, | think that Miss Httty Is tematks ate un'
called fof, although admit they ate pe!haps or
Rropriatej but what wish 10 say Is, DO not be-
Ileve she understands tu part Of sculpture, Which
teaches us thFt charity Should ltgl NJ boIne..'-
II is upon Ibis principle that shall aol All'l as
Miss Betty has given The gentlemen one dose, anu
promises Il lis 0letalon meets With tue oppEoDa'
ton of The eitof OF tic ntelIgencet, to give them
Il few more Of The SANE soil shall content N.Y.
self With Offering few thoughts 10 the young
lnlts, hoping They will remember that true saying
OF Tho Bard Of Avon,
"TheY are our hlcHdS who tell IA Of Our GalIs."
Being conscious OF The lni0tlant relation ~
which we SlNul in community, conceded oS II IS
ny all, that society is moulded into its d'iIttent
shades Uf vice and virtue, Just IN rOp0Iton 10 Ile
natute OF the influence Which we sled around Us
BY our conduct md cOnSetsation, II heIloovcs us
aS ftienlS nj reform, progress, aud refinement, 10
make ourselves acquainted thoroughly with our re-.
SntctYe duties, In the different relations, which
nature and nntNfe'S uEd designed We should Uccu.
~ IN ills world as maiden, wife aud mother, that
W. may 10 allie 10 aCquit ourselves with llal hon.
OF tlue the respective StaliOns which we may lie
called upon 10 fill IN life. In 81 doing we will not
only gain the niSe Of OH own SeXt hut Will SccIr
Ihe love and admiration Oi those we arc ever de.
slfons VI plrasllR-.''I'lle lords NJ treatiOu,'
ROt the present Shall cOntine myself TO thnt
potion Of my seq 10 which Miss Belly belongs,
namely, those WHO have just entered The NlarilnO.
'nial market, and nte IN llieit ItAt w0Nlet-wO.
detins wil0ttey will have 1T q husband.
Nav, m! deaf young girls, must tell Yon lint
an quite oil old lady, and thut have ad eSlm'
rlellce enough ~ br c0ltSinctd Of one important
fact, that OIL Oit part there Is great ignorance III
reyHd 10 The true character, tnSle AMI disposition
OF tHrn. ! HlcaH men who arc endowed with ihUse
amiabie qualities which alune constitute true
genteni1u, such as are calculated 10 make gTOl,
kind and 0tItclOllaiG husbands. Perhaps this
will exclude folS, handles aud cOAcolnbsj bt is so,
il will pt0ve 10 your advantage. II is 10 our IgnO
lance IN this respect that mainly attribute The
fact tfp 80 many Of our best men, men u lnSlr
talent and refinement, OF SObef uni industrious
habits choose life OF cGlibacy. llnt wlO ever
lcltt Of Il dandy becoming au Old UaCheor frOlll
choice, such case is llot OH record IN tile annals
Of wUlI1et The consequence Of this ignorance
then, is that many Of OUT sex ate lett 10 lle away
their daysln hopeless agony aud dtSpa!t
"withOut orc cheering beam ii hopt,
Or spark Of glinMeTtlG day."
No kind nand 10 SUlacU NJ c0tllfOtt them In ntc
lion, OF 10 FeCinEOCaie any kindnrSS ~ affection,
save rtihnps sonic old domestic cot who gently
Eecliles upon their breasts.
"llrea,hINs Its HE out swretly there"
And, OIL when they reflect upon the days Of 9th
81 years, what billet pallsS and deep tcnlGrse Of
conscience rack THEFT tender lEantS, then how
glowing Was each fond anticipation, AL lhrlF
hopes were bright and rvtlY prospect cleal; hut
all Tele lh%altE,l by Their own unsolicited Efforts,
and they have vanished Into tatkntSS lihe the
shadow OF tie forest tree upon The mountain bow,
as the evening sun withIEawS Ills t0!S and gently
sinks behind tile western lIOE2On.
ESpellehcc Inns tnNeIIt Inc that the affections Of
The tight kimi Of men canllot hu CaplMIrd by
storm, TINT they ale concealed behind EotrcSs Of
good sense, HpFesnaOle 10 oil the Willy arts N( lhr
fitl OF coquttle, upon the b1ttlemenlS OI Which
stand a well tfuncd judgment 10 dcScty to the
SORl, tue nature, strength an Ctalactcr Of the
enemy, that would apploaCll the citadel Of The
hraIt, anl II Is bil 8rIHOnl surrendered To any save
IhUSo whose noble AMI lady like tails Of rlATnD
ter constitute teT a VlEinoNS, amiablG md MIAg.
luminous COllNcl0E.
tI1w disgusting even 10 OUT avn EcX is TIC COLI
duct OF Sonle ii or lnVjFTlI wOuiAse hrllrS, tie
climax Of whose accomplishments cOnSSla in Tie
graceful Tipping VI the fantastic. TOT, ar horny
their visitors with lhriF everlasting drumming Of
the piano, They study and Gaclice IesuaE sy$.
TEN u Irritation, drvOtnlg iheif wllVl" attention
IN thtit Personal SNeaIance, lotPelIuI u that
great fact, loundc'I upon eieEnHl Truth, aN'I the
experience Ut all the old llaldS in the universe,
TINT is not The style Of dteSs, nor tie acquitted
fascination Of perSOnI tut The lrIg aml gentle,
mental and moral cHllUte, and that sweet grace
Inl,IeSs OF lnanneIS and department thai UlinSS
the stubborn heart VI man to YIELD aud how at lir
slrlhc OI lovely woman. We wish not IL he I'M
drlStoOd lat there should l1e nu attention pNiA IL
ptt$OIlal NpprlnNce-iOE from ll-H we'll trained
and property educated mind will ever tiC,Ote the
pioNtlsly Ofbens Ieet and tidy, mol only in IeEard
IL PERSONAL apReatalCp, hut IT home IN tie IL Gu
Iipt arrangements ami MpalHeSJ Of TIE household.
View The cO4uetIo artayed M all the gaWdy lTAp.
piuss which pride and fashion dictate. iIehOd
lct-as she lhinks-bUTsl forth upon The cnrNpUt
Ell vision Of gazing muItll DE-, und by her Gun,
duct we infer that AlIv wishes us 10 understand
that fhe lS always just so nee. but ~ IL Ict
hone, see let tlrre, and IL nIue cases Oul Of Ten
you will lnL Sattern, her duties all nndOnc, her
hearth UNFINISHED, ulnl CUbwebS hangiug in EruCr.
lul feSlODRS around her fuUn.
The wIly arts OF The ColuGIlG and brilliant dis.
play Of The hui, may sometimes claim the eye
aud please the peculiar allCY Of The tUpi wlO, like
tie fit, MagiieS that his Importance ind respect.
ability increases just III proportion 10 the cut AMI
quality Of his cloth; but such things have hut III.
tie influence upon man VI good sense NlIt tr'
iiucd taste, save 10 disgust and call tntill lis pity
aud cOinMISGTHliOn.
hut have nltrt,iy irlDSccnlsl my limits aud
shall for The Present dv$Is Looping that when Miss
lielly aeun Lectures tie young gentlemen, shv will
dot will an eye SiIlslG 10 tue reform, Tel them,
betty, vi their evil NlIS, such aS lJppcly, gam.
Ing, ,ipplls, uluE all that suit Of thing, (Or you
may test ISSUED, should il he necessary Tot me 10