New-York daily tribune. [volume] (New-York [N.Y.]) 1842-1866, 1854-06-16

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g.. AussNra g,gl,pS 10 The question
warns MARRIAGE
lflsf : Nr-rsrs' In what consists the relation Of
b,SNSrS snd w''c, in which stand 90 each ohcr
A. $ r in tht fsV. that have license from the Church
thus relation. SNON Se ua' 'NtI
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usxi>rstc the moutroCc oi society. has assured us
tcx Others that God hath Joined Us together and that
v,s, rvgnain So ill Death Divorce makes us other
for suCh ceremony has been Performed ON rs ana
viii BE- Nor does our MARRIAGE consist IN tbs "c
tAs ave NS ihcr as husband hao wife Tor all in''c
sh,rS are Goac bv men women between whom no true
rsiSEv exists II j. not IN Che pcwcrot Chuch or Si1e
Y-'es; o. magistrate. 20 make thee my vile that can be
tore only /. power Infinitely allow o.l these And yet
Row MANY, With and without censt are living together
- husband aid wife between whom tcra Is NJ marriage!
Nc human law OF Incense. or authority or social CUSTOM
can make that right which would otherwise be wrong
;aat wrOug which would otherwise he right.
What tleu is marriage. as defined by our hearts for
The heart alone truly define l.. Words are nohlug
msrsge MAY express al that j. good-it often stands for
81 thai evil IL may he the most vi,aizug improving,
happy relation into which human beings can be attraced
a-di is often the most debasag and b.ghtDg; What
then are the facts. with regard 10 this relation must
s?esk for myself yet assured that in speaking for
myself speak for thee ana that thou IN like manner,
wilt speak iorme.
These ,lon are the facts touching nay relation TO thee.
Nv nature has a certain want and the power 10 attract
and assimluic itself natural and hea lful supply.
II has selected thee, and that want has ceased to exist.
The want pertains TO my physical social intellectual and
spiritual nature. and it complete in thee. restless
and ever-preseni longing pryaded M, entire being Ihat
deep void has been filled that restless ness hes given place
I absolute repose thu; nieu.e longing has given place
70 satisfaction still, more intense. Ny ideal of beauty
purity, truth justice and love, longed 10 see embodied
found them in thee. longed to lind my highest OBJ
ect OF love and alteration, my God incarnae IN living
found in dice, my wife
My heart renders thus definition OF wife:
TON 90 Con TO HER HUSBAND. The great Invisible AMI
Intangible made visible and tangible in the deepest and
most intense and potent living relation. speak calmly,
knowing the full import Of the words use No phrase
fully expresses what thou art to ne as this TIN
TON or GoD lily heart is often oppressed in its efforts TO
utter itself 10 thee and no words completely express my
feelings 10 these.
In thee God manifest the flesh me- he il in
other being Of the past Of the present 90 no more IN
sprt into The regions of abstraction to wander in thought
n mo -
ezpend tie energies of my soul in love and devotion
hnd that object IN thee my wife MY love for thee will De
accepted as my supreme love for God
Worship If a necessity of my being. | must worship
something; 50 must every man and every woman. Wy
sOu caDno; soop ia worship times and places stations and
titles. see no GOD III them They are oil the work OF
men hands. But worship thee without shrinking
doubt my right to doso to whether God will
cept this Dc, Oon to the embodiment Of my highest
cephOn OF his attributes, as being paid Ia hun
Our souls believe, are substance as truly are air,
light electricity and magnetism. The law OF attrac-
ton governs souls that governs all other material bodies
Human sOu attracted 40 another in four distinct
relations There may be othoss bat these are marked.
The broadosi relation that which exists between human
beings in contrndistncion from the brute creation This
would call The Human Attraction. This attraction ind
yidualizee itself in particular friendships in dearer and
stronger sense than The human ihcn man attracted to
by force stronger aud doarer than that which
draws him 90 his own sex. This would call the SeraH
Attraction. This attractive force indviduazos itself in
marriage and this is the CoaarbH Attraction. mas
cune soul end feminine soul in marriage absorbed
each into the other The of each enters into the
other pelmeaes fills and thrills it, leaving neither
separate existence Thought responds TO thought will to
Will hear; heart. The advent of man aad woman TO
each other husbaI and wife is the advent OF the true
and natural Savior 10 the soul of each The entrance OF
two souls each into the other thus making of two per
tect being-ils is marriage as my heart defines il:
This is true o. our relation cannot feel that have an
existence apart from thee. Without thee, can do nothing
/ am nothing. In thee live move and have my being.
TO dwell in thee is to dwell in Love in God. have no
hopes, no lOngngs aspirations life apart from thee
To me thou the way, the truth and the life. have
no God no heaven no eternity d.sconnected from thee
Such my present feelings toward thee ESQ near and
dear priceless and vast beautiful and gracious,
infinite art thou now TO Wiz thou ever be ihus TO
mel Ny soul turns 10 thee now, necessarily the
needle the pole. Other forces NAV draw away for
moment but they have permanent influence. Their
power is exhausted. and then Iny soul IFS
great central attraction and sternly itself looks
thee. and finds absolute repOse.
With regard to the perpctuity of marriage, Mr.. Wright
maintains that the proposal OF the question is IN
suit ove-a cruel outrage the deep and sacred ten
derness that the parties mutually feel for each othor
Still in his opinion the pcrpetuity Of the relation depends
on the continuance of reciprocal affection;
believe that marriage intended to be enduring
relation between two individuals from the facts daily pre-
scented 10 notice even If there internal EVIL
dence the subject
1t is true thcrc are manifold instances wherein the
Church requires the solemn before God and man,
which the heart does not ratiytha two who claim the
name of husband and wife shall remain true in heart and
hfe till death shall part them perhaps, unconscious OF
this want of true union they choose each other for
specific external advantage and learn their mistake too
late perhaps, love, which in embryo a, hrsi
crushed by neglect and abuse Domestic life ~ full OF The
victims ignorance, wordiness an insane curiosity
snd sensuahty.
man with one woman should last while both remain in ina
state of existence believe il is My faith rests on ne
nature Of the anon set. As defined by marriage IS
the actual blending of TWO distinct souls attracted 20 eacn
other by power which neither has CONTROL so long "a
thew remain within the sphere of each Others attractive