New-York daily tribune. [volume] (New-York [N.Y.]) 1842-1866, 1853-10-26

Le reject tie wicked W4lf5 n
single ~ not father should be impartial % al his a !
cItD ara cultivate the love for them al. s
ve sLc!l in- into the mind. OF her children the
necessity Of loving the children Of each Of the Others a.
tfoL.It and sisters Each wife should only for
nc Htleie 90 he husband anI olaEsn but sI,ai seek
tie aIilIess # each Of his other AMI cIl.lvl
Ant ia "se, the Children # each wife should Mt only
rt4ttt honor ara love her Itser. O-t also the
mothers Il al der brothers ard sisters BY DOS rriG
these ieceIs peace and tranquility n c-a ihrpgrl
s.tl 81 ti1Htn II The amly and lie sslt o. G ID al
Nothing much to b. desired in familie- a. peace
love aLa union hey are essential happiness here snI
hereafter AAd, IL order % promote these GeTabie o5
Ing rules
Ash ls-Let that man who in;enl. - become hls-
beIe SEX trs he kingdom # Goa and ts r.te,u-uess
tho ,e4h u govern himself according The law II Col
or lie ~ cannot himself cannot govern others
e' Inn q Ga aie Las properly rs talents bis time All
even Is , 70 he service ii God holding ali things az
h. cstosal 20 Go wiki the according he shall
GTt q through The counsel HAT lie has ordained
A.~ LII LIN next seek for wisdom to direct him IN
tie choice Of his wives Let him seek FOR those whose
guam, lions u render ana themselves happy lie,
I'm otA "h0ly az the beauty OF The counienance,
lie ltlooT 81 lie apparel the great fortune the
eItll IN o, 81 he effected modosiy OF females for all
CSC LoLt tn genuine virtues Ike the dew drops
vL1A llttr 10 the sun. and dazzle ha We
but on vanish away But let him look for kind and
d[cstc Is Tor unaffected m0dtsy; for industrious haLs
for s;eTs virtue for honesty, me gritty and yah!llless
ir CO n iors, and apparel Ia c10Siag AMI Tor
ever! ~ ~ domestic lalOT for Caeeuilos patience.
dLo az tLa. lyfCr and ABOVE al genuine
10 control and govern their every Thought and deed.
When be has TO- Nd th possessing these Qualic atoms
1t hin seek 70 obtain then lawfsly thr ugh the counsel OF
m vlo holds q KEYS Of the everlasting priesho that
tiov ne mar led 70 him by the authority of Heaven
tbu BE- .ecu.ed TO him r time ard Cor al eternity
A'le ~ len man he's oltained bis wives, let him
net suppose IL they are already pcfflct all tinss for
this = expected those who young anu mex
Iacn-od in tie oares AID vicissudes 81 married life
IhfY O. WoiLtr NCsels arc given % him as tie stronger
to Iomh cherish and protect 70 be the head. their pa
D. g. tl q n. =.
Iei't . them j. az ilrgs relating 10 fanny government.
ard iC " Tore AMI lap mess OF Themselves Cni their
children Therefore Jet A.n realize The we.ghy resp,nsi
tily low placed upon HIM e. i.s head Of family aal
iId t.o 81 Lm study G!ge.ly the disposition Of his
wi g. hat lie 81 now how 10 instruct them in wis lon
kat tn.--RoiIay not the confidence Of your wives
There oIC miiy ideas IN afectiona,e c1nhd.ng wife
which e. would wi ~ convey 70 her husband AMI set
sLc would 10 very Linz 20 have them nmInl a.el
. otltr ltel each OF your wyes secrets from All the
Ct os ard il any else, unless in where good
vi result t. acirg Otherwise.
Auc 5hSIoak not Of tie faults Of your wives 20 9th
tis. iog ia doing, You speuk against yourself l. YOU
sreaR g. erc II wives u the mpef ctOns 81 the
oers who may he absent YOU only injure them in
htr Estimation. bat she viii expect that you will speak
0Ca.t h rIctr Ike crcl msGnec- this il calculated -
weaken tier cnce In YOU, and division IN the
family. IL each one Of her faults in spirit Of kindness
I'D .oyc and ,he VIII most probably respect you i,r IT,
fld do better for the future; and thus the
ohGs vN not cause of your proof take occasion to
soak Proa Auly # her There may be circumstances,
Tr dlcc a sa.tory influence upon al Wisdom il proda
90 oie,; ana should be sought for earnestly b. those
vlo haze lhe responsibility Of families.
HuitCi-Ayod anger and frCliul peevish dsq)'itiOn
in yoUr fam l.. hasty spt accompanied with hash
voids 81 I'D u generally boeet is own likeness Or
cast Il w, eventually, the feelings Of yo1r wives
and u d.cu, end greatly weaken heir affections for you.
You,lolh rmonher that her.h eXpre,s ns against
Of yorr v.ycs used ia the hearing OF he oiher VIII n're
dDeIy wound her ngs than II she alone heard them.
RIrCof .ha, rrc imty and otherwise good may lose their
good ,ocf IS being administered in wrong yrt inlced,
ihoy VIII most probably increase the evils which they were
int rde io r,m,iy Do not End ilpt with every triHns
cror hat you may for this sd discourage your fam
H. erl iiy will h. gin to think hat it j. imnos ble 10
T. !cui and. after while become Indifferent ~ to
NlC'lfr loy Ticsse Won ~ not. How unhappy AMI cX
umds vrei,hod r that family where nothing ple1'es-
who're -roldrr has become almost nn,nra a. b aiming
AaicIh-Usc imparialty in your family a. ia As cir
CMstls6s wil GLOW. an let your kirdne.s and love
abound toward thom al Tie your jul IN mt rs the
load or dc mlv in regard 10 your duties ~ relation To
ln AMI Ia i. fwaved ON Il Ut whchis right b. Your
own K 'ir ~ Dol. by he feeling II others.
Y.ksb- Suffer not yocri alignment L. be biased agans
cIy cIe Il vour wives by the setion3 of the hers
u - fcu Law -ood grounds 20 believe that those aecr
fai,f -. rf II ode rot hastily r20n partial evidence
lri ril nC al things. that your mind NAV not bsrpm
irilaly ilf lalctd When one IT your wives complain
# .Lc iatlI'Ccirn e the others. and end uyOr 90
ny ui' O. r-i hom teach her thai all have imp'fi.c
.us and of he necessity OF bearing with another
lo..-lce, ard 81 o.ius one Tor another
La' Call your wives and Children together IRE
q opty anl Instruct them in their duties toward God to-
ysrd your 20 and toward another. Pray rh them
ana en- oen and teach them - pray 3D. ID It the
Holy 81 .i, nay dwtl N their midst, without which -
in o. bic to mGiu.ar hat union. love, n oneness which
a. 500 necessary 10 hgIp.ness and salvation.
E,b loH.-komenbcr, the, notwithstanding written
rs vii o Of service in tcec ing you Your duties As the
D. d OF rmy. ye without the Holy Ghost - ea,h and
ilruo, 'ou 4 Is in Os-ble for you 30 govern family in
ltsou.L,fs therefore geek after the Holy Ghost ald
4. p ~ ten Won all thing AMI sancfy you AMI your
fair and make you one. that you may be perfected in
in GTd H. in y0u and eventually be exalted On Ugh I'd
dv II with God where your joy viii be full forever
Rate llA-Let 70 woman unite herselfin marriage with
my mon rre,s se h. fully resolved b. submit herself
Wholly to lis counsel and 10 et him govern the h at
l. ag better Tor her not to be united with him in he
cod b. IDS e eternal union than 70 rebel eSinst the III
wire order family government instituted i1r higher
sayeon if she altogether herefrom she VIII re:
Cliye CIt tor CoHd nnation.
HuL l1h.-Neyer seek 10 prejudice the mini Of your
h lrd AGAINST any If BIZ other wives for tn purpo Of
exarg yll,, IN lis e,tiu alton, lest the evil which you
N justly Try to bring upon them fall with don6le weight
uIon YOU hoad striyeto rise in favor and influence
with your husbandby yonr merits aud not by magni
f. NJ TIL { uiis Il others.
Itk SEEK 20 be peace maker in the family W IN
whom You esooiated Ii yoa the least appearance
offtu arne use your efforts restore union
frd sootlo tie feelings OF all Sof and genle words
spoken IN Season VIII alay contention and strife while
haay st and hsrh Language add fuel to the TIRE already
kIdi.d which viii rage with increasing violence
pr rff-sreaa not evil Of Your husband unto any OF
H. rest If the family for the purpose of prcaicing their
minds egans him; for il he be Informed thereof j VIII
inure YOU IN bis esiimai on Neither speak eva oil aAY
n,cubers oitke family for this vii destroy ther e2he
derce in YOU ~ old all hypocrisy for ii you pretend 10
l,e yCrr husband and 10 honor and respect his wives.
When prd sent but speak drspec;ful Of them when ab
sent you viii be looked upon &c hyPocre as tatt'er
and L a mischief making aud be stunned as BENZ
dangerous than an open enemy: Aud what - SUI
more cC6stubc l. taitle out o the family and endeayor
10 crnte enemies against those With whom you are con
peced Such persons should not only be considered hypo
tics bit traitors aud their conduct should be de-pisd Dy
every lover Of righteousness Remember also that there
arc more ways than ore ate il not Away the case
L ,erseps who are HE bOldes in their accusations