Fayetteville observer. [volume] (Fayetteville, Tenn.) 1850-1966, 1853-09-01
A Bachelors Plea.

liev e that you would recommend a
course, IN less you really believed it
to be comh len dable; yet, pardon me
for sayingl THAT with me the best evil
dence Of a ma rs sincerity, is for him
to practidd VIII nat he breaches. am ii
bachelor fdm choice; consequently, |
recommeH dInb M. II to enter the con
tnubial sta I'd. I r member, and sub
scribe to, q bat GID rious old hymn
which shp pld be 9 sung with the spirit
and the d hhcrstan ding
Fl The bach lIBt'4 life, Aizzal huzzaS
4 How 4 ptyIa life that;
. i siveth bib wealth, lit 4yeth hm health,
His che H4 are rdday and fat.
! ri bach slPr true. hbz1a, hazzal
The .A4lor trr Z f9r me;
4 H4 hath 81 Wife, il Is Pleasures are rife,
Ills jQFF hte upfe ttefed and free.
Many d fine h4ye | deliberated in
my own nlihA, whether or not it were
better for young man to marry; and
the result of s ch deliberation gen
orally is, That it IS far better TO re-
main single
How hi ny there are made mser-
able for lilh, by uniting themselves
with those ID, Look around amongst
Your own acquaintance, and see how
many YOU ed n count that would not
have been better off by remaining
single / can number b dozen lily
assorted pairs now, where there is
almost alw;lys something wrong when
the parties dire together Perhaps
you viii "a they ought to bear and
fotbear, bu they can't or won't do it.
A man II Isot made Of patience, nor
a woman q ther. lie does not feel
much like p rbearing when he comes
Nme at night, tired and hungry, and
finds a cold supper waiting fJr him,
which as he proceeds to eat is ac-
companied with the everlasting elang
Of a wound i 5 tongue. Gle ought
not to haYd married. a woman-of that
sind, ? YOU say How did be know
shat Kind Of a woman she was? A
nan might 10 to see woman for
en- years. 'iad not find her OUT
Whenever he saw her she was all !.
miles and dffibiIity, and he d f course
bought he could live with her in
'eaca snd harpincss, else 4 e would
iot haFe nR: .rricd Ter. Til result
ften is, t hdt he's lied to d woman
II life WHO ie can neither live hap +.
iIy with, n4F vet get away from.
Some are married to extrayagant ,
omen, some 70 sldven, pecvish, lazy, :
ross, disc6Htehtcd, grumbling, high !
empored, idtemperate, and worst of ;
4, nnlaithful women Surely, either :,
f these Eaults, if carried to any ex-
mt, will ca4se a husband to b4 IN
ippy, Dots it+n4t seem bette : for =
young ma4 to avoid running such
tremehdpuk risk, and remain a hap :
= baclielBr,I with none but himself !
care forb no grumbling and growl- :;
g when L comes home, no jealousy !,
ID upbraFdihg if he happens to go y
it Of the h9use after tea? :
True, m / b may sometimes fall in le
tn and marty woman who is what tn
woman ought to be; who would an
Ike home almost paradise who tn
uld always greet her ! usband with an
pile, and 20 her utmost to make
n contentea and happy; who would dir
oice with him in prosperity, and sta
Ter him in adversely, and whose in
ole ambit-on would be to make her Oh
3band happy, and his home pleas for
but hbF mans women of this no.
d DO we fad? Not one in a doz. an,
and with oft she possesses these bel
lilicationA,fa man cannot, in my i
1ion, live tappily with her So Il<n,
sems to me best nc { to "take your Eff
nce.' but to keep d d the safe side, cen
remain single. In marrying, a son
cahnot toll what awaits him, be- INC
Sc DO one can scan the future; m
,elofe, I think it best for hi m to ara
auttous. a$ after the knot is tiled, 10