Vermont watchman and State journal. [volume] (Montpelier, Vt.) 1836-1883, 1851-07-31

pditites nc uuJtCt - hlLn, perUdnen.
one. The union ought to be formed with
view to the whole Ike Of man; his mtellec-
tnaI aud moral life his here and hereafter.
How few look upon the matter in this balt,
and enter upon it with such views Some
thug transcendent---Uto piau-- can't be
made to enter into every DAYS life. Hal
say you sol They are The only views wor-
Thy of the union of two Immortal beings
They who marry with such views aud feel
ings, will be married body aud soul both.
The highest happiness can rest on no sure
foundation but that which is laid Ia tie hu-
mau soul. Beauty, wealth, eqlipage-lll
that Is outward-may be swept away IN a
moment, or, u continued, may not satisfy.
Intellectual aud moral qualities are a
more sure possession. Time serves bus to
improve them, and the enjoyment of them
never clogs. Marry your wle's soul, friend
marry her soul Let ITS qualities attract
YOU Then, every acquisition which she
makes, every days experience, every hook
she reads, wall AID ia her onward progress.
aud reader her more capable of minlsteuul
10 your Improvement and happiness Do
you want wife capable Of assisting YOU 10
become wiser and better, as we'll as TO patch
your clothes, darn your stockings, or cook
your duner Alas alas how maty
think woman need to know nothing else.
Such might almost as weII marry a thread
and needle, knitting machine, or cook
ing stove.
What you are a mechanic, farm err, or
a day aboer May n,t, ought not, me-
chauIcs, farmers aud day laborcrs to grow
wiser and better Have You not a yetia-
Die soul, capable ofimpro,ement Aud do
you not want "a vie with a soul Dimug
stocking aud cooking dinners are important
affairs, Cue latter espcciliy) and mag be
peculiarly SO u you. know not. however.
shy a woman with s1ul--may not d..
these thugs. There is mo- good reason why
you should not take the most elevated views
of this subject, aud 90 about THIS business
90 sensible, rational manner D. YOU
say, O1e can scarcely find the articles
yon recommend" Somewhat difficult. /
allow. But 1t is TO be feared that hue de-
maud exists tor wives OF this sort. Let the
demani become generai, and the ARTICLES,
(speaklng alter the manner of meu) wall
slon come to market Higher ground must
be taken, higher views must he lncuclted
The true subject, the whole subject OF mar
uIge must be understood aud felt, and hus.
bands aud wives must be educated IN view of
IL ere they can become ali toeach othertb
God desirneJ
have urred deliberation uoon The mn.
married Itisind,.nensable tom ,y,se ch,,.e
Do you remember the old saving. Marry
in L,s,o ana reoant at Ie,enTa % p,,y
waiiiill YOU gct ID lew years older. You
need the npest md yment possible for tins
business The ewes of sixteen do NOT see
thin7s I'm The same h1bt as do the eve. of
tyent,-tbree or four Seven ar eitbi war.
at this period of Your life will improve ,our
vision wonderfully. especlally # Won laok
well about you. Get old enonrh touDler-
stand your wants tolerably Study YOUR
own nature. Wbat are your predou,n1tiu.r
fastest Good ones, of course. What w,ll
probably be your vocation i'm lifel What
qualities I'M n wifi. will be likely To render
You the most happy as years rollon, Len
the points be well looked TO ere vsn max q
your choice. Perhaps can sum uo all m
one word
Get connanion-one who will enter
heart and soul INTO your pursuits-wbo b,s
the po,ycr +, do so--tbe disno.ii,nn T., IN,
,,bon, ,,,,, ,h,,.,.
re,d Win van, If W., ,es1--..,d,. an, w,
r. Won s,n'l,..,,bo =, IN no..es. XII ~.
n,ibv win van in mos, or IN IN r.,,.,s
ybo r,p minister ~ a.. h,rbo, and ,7oro
refined wants If ,.onr ,,,,re and ,,bn,,,li
he hsal, to's,ir y.,,'n,. Il, n,iI,. en.r'..,,,.
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YauuecJ a mind ,l,t nill ,ravei Win v,nr
o,, =, sbou Won ba,e commune,
Tbore ,ro ,,,,os and husband. ,,bo ARC y,t
No, c,moau,ons Itw.,,id sad tb,n.,t o
feel that IN the hi,be.t and most dpl,,bifnl
,,lss.f lie IN tbe ,e,,,ou. If t,sto or ,n.
tcliectual besutv Won are ,hoorh u,rl,J
,,oxp All alone. vonr house well nse1.
caro- ~. ,,nr d,,oers and SINNERS and ali
,b,, cot nm veil. nm, m tbe h,gbe., host
ole.snre of bre-alooe Alas 70, thee
i,oL ,yeu the, IN l.,. hn.tness
n. ma, ,c ,c,,,d oc 4, ,y,,,,, nossessod
oc ,'oil c,l,,,,,ei mind n, n.i a3,,,
,i, ',nl.,,- error ~ s,o,os,n, th,, snrb +,
mas, ,,o..,l. h., ,,,6, a., ,.ro
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I,l,mes,ir afr,irs. tbat. indeed. ali this must.
as a matter of course he sacrificed If IA.
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