The Hillsborough recorder., 1846-10-01

disth thsrrf war peruliard rdp,ics : ehsissienI
wives. viii taodessy.. indBslry. n.cekness
and slIsrsiUu. ises ynur husband see. lsl
him &C.. fhss next b God ie i snshsoneJ
n sonr heart Lsthiu have dc preoi of
his ii your loaks. yuuf words. The nsainsss
Ialyour person, and theafraagemeniof yoas
household matters. When. Hisll indns,Ti.
Gus soii snd earr, he provides ~ yout hands
lie means Of coBloFt let him see thai his
wife knows bow 10 nse 10 lie hest adFan-
iage he means placed II her disposed; and
that they are even multiplied under her
prndeni management. Study his peculiar
iasies and temperament. and aerommodsie
yourself 10 Them As Gar = may be. without
colnpronilting The sacred dictates Of con-
srience. Does lie return home from con-
tact with corrupl men and adverse fortune,
his brow clouhed with disquiei, and look
Of trouble and ill-humorl Be sure you
NEE, him with sunny conntenance. Let
love be Ia your looks. and in The sweet
and gentle tones of your voice. Wait !
linle. and he will soon be himself again.
II in some gloomy moment he happens 70
speak short or harsh word, don't notice i,
reply 10 Il with gcnileness, and he'll soon
repent. Don't look sour, maintains dull
silence. and keep him at distance or else
Won may. drive him. before you are aware
ofii. beyond the power nf your attraction,
and lien wo be 10 you both. Would YOU
retain your husbands love! don't pre-
sumo too much on ils strength; don't be
always taking him to task for some inad-
veriant expression, and telling him that he
don't love you as he used to do; that he
did moi use 10 speak 50 shorl 10 you as
he does. now; or else the very fact thai
you manifest any such Suspicion may
put him under conslraint before his wife,
whom he may be led to regard as sori
Of spy upon his words and aclions. This
reserve may lead sou 10 jealouss. and fear
\ ful results may follow. Doubtless many
4 husbands once kind have been ruined By
such management. Be certain to deserve
/ your husbands love, and always act as i
| you were sure Won possessed IL; and !
: your husband be not q very brute, yol
will surely succeed in obtaining and re
iaining il. Should there unfortunately b
on the part Of your spouse any manifesto.
tion Of declining affection, still bear in
mind that you may possibly win him back
to his first love, hut you can never upbrait
!; or scold him back. A man can bear tht
I cha6ngs Of the worlds contact, men may
! sltNsf ~ asss .slFsa aa.biaA and he nnaysh
from all without, but his heart turns con
fiden,ly 10 home, sweet home There
!. one spo. on earth where all is peace; ther
!. is one heart whose every ahrob is true
! him; one being whose gentleness sha
!; soothe his troubles, and shall make her
!. him as the angel Of God. But suppos
this angel be demon, and this paradis
: garden Of briers and thornss what thel
!, In short, keep pure heart, bright ey
: : a kind look, loving words, clean hous
: a well-managed pantry and kitchen; !
, neat and tidy in dress and person; 10y
!, yonr bible and your prayers, and you "
= likely have quite as much influence al
\ 4 power as any good woman ought to
!, trusted with. Some wives waste eSel
~ ~ thing they make nothing; they take ca
,s Is of nothing; they buy every thing, al
- !, have nothing after all. They dance, dre'
, ! and 90 TO parties, read novels, sleep Ia
~ ~ and are eapricious and ill.iemPered. !
~ ~ else they are slnttish in dress, dirty a
= g ungainly in person, and in short, ~ hou
y, y and appearance they seem 10 have ma
- - 4 league with dirt, till the league Of &C
~ =, iugal affection is broken, and ruin con
,ra jtamain.s hze sse I'll: s@e r S4
;sa Finally, let me say to both. seek, BY
~. proper means, 10 promote each othe
nv happiness; and especially remember u
,w -, the grea, object Of your union is 10 h
49, m each other 10 heaven. Strive Tor This G
-, ~ stantly with much and earnest prayer.
the peace of God shall be with you.
II To be continued. III s~