The Hillsborough recorder., 1846-10-01

hdeus@i friend IL ihY heart, lily counsel
los. III eomfones. n heir with thee 81
imsuostzliiy srd eienaI Irse. Lei thine
eve ht brighl sbes lhou lookesi 81 her.
I.efa III law of kindness he % shy lips
when lheu speakesi 10 her ssd nf hsF.
let hef Eeel lkat thou ron6desl fully II /
her a III lines: 10 short. lei her feelihasl
she i respected. - wen = loved BY her
husband. II i moi enongh li.at you do /
not lf%al her with hardness. A End
pifs's heart NAV he wiihered. snd is eve
~ bud u promise blighled. without one
angry wonf. let her but see ard feel
that her hushand's confidence and SYM
paihy are Withheld frnm her. and The deed
i done. And Tor this ihe elonded brow |
and the sealed lip may lie entirely snfh-l
Gent 4 woman's heart may be petri6ed
BY coIdness. IS well as broken by harsh
ness. Your wife i Identified wlshyou in |
inieress. therefore consult with her in all
matter affecting your mutual welfare. II
viii have good effect. whether the adj
vice he implicitly followed or not; but in
most cssrs husbands would find their in
leress promoted hy following The advice
of . prsieni frlpinale. Aud should mis-
fortune threaten yoil. and bankruptcy
knock II yonr door. don't conceal il from
her who Is, above all others. interested IN
knowing IL. Tell her al once. freely and
frankly. the whole matter. and j, shall he
better for thce in all rcsperis. ! once
knew gentleman, merchant. who had
heen Cor some time prosperous inhusiness,
and his family OF course were living in
comfori: but suddenly clouds gathered
around him he saw that he was ruined |;
hut he concealed il from his wife. She
saw, however. the change Of countcnance,
and stroYe, with aiicctionate soliciinde, 10
lelicii from him the character and cause Of
his gtiefs. and al length succeeded. He
said. | am mined. and the only thing thai
troubles me is, ihalyo are to be reduced
!, 10 want and am. to great extent phy-
! sicalIy nnabIe to labonr for your support !;
and this has made me perfectly miserable.
And what said this excellent woman
|. And ID ihat all, my husband, that has
! been sroabling youi Don't lei that irou-
hle Won for another moment, | am in good
health, and can work 10 support Us both ;
itusp pronerly 60, Ged wils.provide for
ING. But once more, ,rear your r'Aiie A1til
special regard before your children.
! Il have known some intelligent and re
!. spectacle men who seemed 10 me 10 tak'
special pains 10 mortify their wives b!
! finding fanlt will, almost all their doings
: lf at table, even when visitors were pre-
i sent, nothing on the table was exactl..
!, right; The dishes were not well selected
. or they were lfot well dressed; no,hin'
!, : was as well prepared as he had found
! at somebody else's house; or somethm
: was wrong, either in meat or bread, or We
!, getable, or pudding, or sauce. Now
: whether such gentlemen intend to exhlol
1, their own superior skill in cookery, or I
i lecture their wives for inferior taste an
= skill in this very important department
]. ] we beg leave to suggest to them that i
= rather offensive both TO the visitors and
- !, The lady of the house, especially when,
= happens (asl have sometimes known u
! j that tile children unite in depreciatlng u
= : housekeeping qualifications Of the M
]. J. .her. Finally, remember that your wi
g. is fallen and imperfect creature, suhIe
= to many weaknesses in common WI
II j yourself, and to some, perhaps. which .
n x.n
J" !, have need 10 understand well and praetI
!. : on the maxim bar and fortear. i" co
IL * clude on this point you are to love xo
-. ~ wife as Christ loved the church. tic
~ was that? He gave himself for 1t,
-. M life, lis blood. 20 do you love 20
IL. wife. @ =.
M, And now for little advice TO WV
od. The Apostle says. !. wives. snbnr. 70
selves 10 your husbands" tie taxes
The granted that You love your husbands,
cer. proceeds 10 enforce that duty which ]
= !, might be most inclined to neglect n
one are some wives who seem to me 70
he. very unwisely in this matter. They
J IN all The while quarrelling with the Apo'
lnilv for giving them this advice. They ms
,her tain that obedience is just as much 'ne
,aste siness Of husbands as il is OF wives;
ran. their prac,ice shows the sincerity oi y
/ he faith, since they are constantly strugs'
Ice, for empire They must needs bear
ser. in every thing. There must be nel
| bo. buying nor selling without their appr'
and ton; and il is matter Of special imports
,race with them 10 ,hwart their husbands
ME. matters where the public eye can dls
sian who rules. This class OF wives are
ble,. orally fond Of displaying their snperl,i
= in intellect, taste, and judgment, over y
i tba, whoare by Gods appointment eons"'
and their governors. Such wife, espec
;b;ted if she be given to extravaganza ana
,bere. ion. is a sad drawback upon the pc
: ST. and The peace Of any poorfellow VINO
.n,ls pens to be her subject. God pity
Now, he has sorry time in this world y
vour yer he may fare in the next. Let M
,,onr.. seecla the wives whom ! address, 70
- a.u .h;s c,,l;eh struggle Be coute