The Arkansas banner., 1845-03-12

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 That of all 0thers tiat feel.
 Of Truth, et Charity, and Home,
 love the best, il wo or veal:
 IL is not iser-LoVer-Bfide
 'Iss dearcr far than all beside
 h all the cheqHefed ways of life,
 Her hand in mine I Il whisper Fife!
 We think that some of our young men make sad mistake, inrclaton to married life. The timid and nervous among them imagine that to marry, is to involve themselves in all sorts of pecuciary responsibilities, without in any degree Increasing their chances of world ly prosperity This is great error. We see illustrations of this folly almost every day. h our view, the cases are rare, where man becomes q good and useful citizen until he has entered into the matrimonial state. + he have good qualities, married life will bring them out. Ii he possesses energy and ability, he will find 1t necessary to exercise both, when, i'll addition 10 his own worldly welfare. that of another and gentler being is made dependeatupoa his efforts Thousands oi yoaag men, inclined to gay society, and of a somewhat dissiPated disposition. have been safed= by prudent marriages. Thousands again, who shrank with apprehensons from what they regard as the additional obligations of married lie, have hurried on careless and reckless of tile world aud Of reputation, until they have involved themselves in iatemner- anee, pro1igacy and ruin.
 h point of economy, we believe. that mat rimonY is decidedly preferable. Where one wealthy bachelor ia found in inc world, nine tF-i2ine iheu of family may be counted, who haze amasscd large fortunes. The prudent eouasels ci a good wife, her advice and as- sistahee, arc quite as important in accumula- ling means, as the energy and activity of the husband. Nay, in many cases these are found still more essential. This is especially true ol men of genius, impulse, and enter prise. Such are not apt 10 detect the difficult ttes oi life, the hazards of rash undertakings. t5e ragucry of proteaded friends, and the hol- iow-heartedness of the multitude
 But when they submit view of their worldly atlairs to their better halves and con- suit with them, ihe quick and intutive percep- ttons of woman at once detect circumstances probabilities which had before escaped the notice of the Husband, and thus disaster and ruin are often prevented. Marimony, moreover, calls up thoHghtfuluess and reAec- ten, stimulates energy, and makes man aim at and attain his trae position in society. It Ia an easy thing comparatively speaking, for al individual ol ordinary powers. to get a respectable livelihood, to obtain sufficient means to live with pfopriely and decency.- saeA beng the ease, those amoug the bach eiof tf'be, who arc somewhat disposed to in- do!eHce, or who need extra stimulus, in or ter to induce them to develope their powers. i've oil for years and years in mediocre sort  oi way, careless of the future. because they have neither wife nor child to lean upon and look up to them and satisfy themselces with mere humdrun sort of existence, in which so many of our bachelors pass friendless and uniamented into the grave. But a married man occupies nobler position in socety.-I He must not only live for himself, but for Ais iamiiy. He must aot only seek to ob- tam mere subsistence, but to acquire inGu- ence or property, with the object of assist Ing the beings of his love. If his wife be ttueie- her duties as partner and mother. i she will also strive to brighten the renula- ton of the family, to secure for it a charac- l ter for virtue and integrity, to save somewhat ol the earnings of her husband for d rainy Gay, and to llPe ill such manner that their children shall refer to their memories win stseton, pride and pleasure Tine deligAts tao, et sympathy, oi intercourse between latAef and son, mother and daugler. the gen fsat teaturcs which ehaactefizea happy iam- r circle, the amUsemaats of childhood and 6! youth, the joy which anjmates and ex- eiie5 t'ie mind. IS we see lae germs of intel- iset mioid, ycar a.ier year, h tha pledges of eur aieea9n, cannot he appreciated by taa tone, the selfish and wmafFid What, m8fe- etef' can be uaee lmealable than j.ne- sef1, neglected, and unbelaYed taeheler. 9ae who, when h. sbal ha about 10 pass ttseaEh ,he Valley of the Shallow of Death. s.fail have no saHa t.esst to ea8-n over his sase,a sou os tsa-4laf to cherish aai e,n-
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