Holly Springs gazette., 1845-03-01
The cdded state.

! ITS WISDOM, FIRTUE. AND PorlCE.
.'OfaI the titles, woal4n fair
Dsar woman-uere can beaI-
Though aA are holy words 10 ne,
Associate in my heart to be,
Wish hply thoughts and things
i ct 0Ae dinong thcIn ever brings:
Such gushing feelings lis wings
Such memories OF Love ana Care
OF Trust and Faith in days that we're
Of Hope and Joy for time 10 come
OfTruth, of CHASTITY, and Home
That of all others, that feel,
Hove The best, in wo or veal.
Il is not Sister-LoYer-- BRIDE;
ris dearer far than all beside
In all the chequered way of life,
Her hand in mine. Eli Whisper -
We think that some Of our young men
make sad mistake, in re Iation 10 married
life. The tmid and nervous among them
fancy that tomarry, is to involve themselves
ia all sorts of pecuniarv spOnsibiities. with
out IN any degree increasing their chances
of worldly prosperity This is a great err
ror. We see Illustrations of this folIy al
most every day. Ia cur view, the ease,
are rare, where man become good and
useful citizen, unit he has entered INTO :he
matrimonial state. Ii be have good quail
ies married life will bring them out. If
he possess energy and ability, be will find
II necessary 10 exercise both, " hen. Ia ad-
dition 10 ms own wor dly wefare, thar o
another and a gent!er Icing IS made depeu-
deaf upon bis efforts. Thousands of young
men, Inc med Tor gay society AMI Of some
what dissipafed disposition. nave been save
by prudent tlItTf;ages Tbou an j. arain.
40 shfank with appreheHsioas f m vb 4
hey regard rs the additional ob1galions Of
married lfe, have bur led On, careless and
reckless 81 The world anu Of reputation, IN. |
II they involved themselves n intefnper.
ance, proAig cy and ruin.
in point Of economy, we believe thai
matrimuny is decidedly preferable. Where
oae wealthy bacaeor vii be found in the I
world, nineiy-nne men OF family ray he I
counted, who have amused large fortunes.
ne prudent counseis OF good wife. her
advice and assistance, are quite as inpor.
iant 10 accnmulatlng means, as the energy
and activity OF The husband Nav. in ma
ny cases these are found sill more essential
| his Is especia ly true OF men of oenios
impulse and enterprise Such are not an,
o detect the difficulties Of life. the fazarI.
D rash uifdeftakings. tie roouery of pre-
ended friends. and the bo!o y. .heartedoe.s
II the mali ude
But when they submit view of their
Nor dly aHairs 10 their better halves. and
ehsaI with them. tie quick and fntnuive.
'erce ftioas OF woman at once detect cir
nn'stances or probabilities, which had ha
ore escaped the notice Of the Husband. a,,t I
ais disaster and ruin are often prevented {
'iaIiinony. moreover calls up thoughtful.
ess ana en-cilon. Stimulates energy. and .
lahes man ann at and attain his true post
ph Ia society 1t is an e4sy thing. conn
afativeiy speaking for an individual of or.
nary powers, to get a respectable liveh.
eou' 70 OBTAIN sufficient means TO live wit,
ioPfieiy and decencv Such being Ihs
tss, among the bachelor tribe, who arr :,
what disposed TO incidence. or wha
ecu extra stimulus, in order to Isduce them
ueso'ope their powers. live on for wears
~ years In mediocre sort of way. care
- OF the Iuinre, because they have nei,he,
iis nor cnild TO lean upon and look rD 10 "
en-, and satisfy themselves with a mer. Il
sort of existence, in which so ma. :,
OF our bacbesors pass fliendIess and m =
mented into the grave But a married ol
an occupies nobler position in socieiy,-