Wheeling times and advertiser. [volume] (Wheeling, Va. [W. Va.]) 1839-1849, 1843-07-31
CANDoR OF HUSBAND AND NIFE.


Whistler 10 the HUSBAND.
The happiness Of the Nllc Is commit I.
It'd To the keeping OF the husband. Prize
the sacred trust; anl never give cause
10 repcn; the cOuhIence she has repused
N yoI. la contemplating her chlrac
tcr,rccplieal Jnc m1ler,aIS humln nature
- c1m21seI VI, da1 ID n1I expect per
lection.
10 justice 10 her merits AMI point or
her faults; ,ur - not ask yOa To treat
her crrcrS with indulgence, 5u, then en-.
oeLvor 10 0m .ui then with Islu.n.geu
leness aud love.
DO not est about the bpljS o. a mar
rict STAKE Make il al est b.IShcd rule
10 consIlt yoar wife GA al. coca SONS
loJr Interests Is hers; auI undertake
nu plan contrary 10 her advice and aP-
probation; thea # the affair ilras oLl
|. you are spared reproaches both from
her m your owu feelings. There is a
woman a. lutuitIvc qlickuess.a pGSctra-
tiOI anl foresight INTO thc probable
Consc lIeLcrS Oi an event, thIt mtxc her
peculiarly calculated 10 give her OpInIon
AMI advice.
Il you have any male acquaiEtanc :,
whom on reasonable grounds, your wife
wishes yoG to resign, do 50. Never ~,
ness tear from your wife with apathy
GO i1IIlcrc ace. ~ ords, looks, actions
all may be Artificial: bat tear * one
qnivocIl; II cones direct from the heart,
aad SIP" AZ =; once the language 81 t:uln.
nature AMI sincerity! BE assured when
You see a tear on her cheek, her heart
Is touched; an 20 not, | again repeat it,
10 not benold il with collucss or ilssn-
sibiily.
Let contradiction b, avo dcd ., all
times.
Never uPbraid your wife with the
mcanneSs OF her relations: iuyectivcs Il
galnst herself are not hall SO wosndiDg
Should suffering OF any kIud aSsuil your
vile, your tenderness and attention are
particularly called for. A look Of love.
word Of ply or sympathy, is some.
times better than medicine.
Never rrprolch your vile with any
personal or mental defect: for Il PLAN
face sometimes cJnccai Il heart OF eNlui
site scnsIoIuy and merit, AMI her con
scIouSneSS Of the defect III kes her
awake 10 the slightest attention % .ual
tenuon. hen IN the presence Of u,h-
ers, let your wIie's laudab!e pride Ue N
dulged by your showing you think her
an OBJECT OF Importance and preference.
The most trivl | word or act Of atteu-
ton and love gratltics her feelings; aud
man never appears TO more advantage
than by proving 10 the world his alice
ton and prelerance for his wife.
Never run on in euthusia site ecomi
uns on other women IN presence o. Your
wife; she does not love you Bette tyr 1t.
Much 10 be condemaed,Is marie! .....-
constantly rambling irom home Tor
Inc purpose OF passing away time. sure
y IL nc wants employ meat, his house
ana grounds WI" i"f"ish man win land /
j. nc "ishe' lot Soc'e'y' ne VII. ma MS /
"'i'' c".'dTen ana DoIAs' Inc best sOcie-
y III. III tue world
mere are some men VINO Will SIT an
ch''re DAY wia their wives and scarcely /
"ord escsPe their lips. This IS wrong;
you should Sunversc freely on all such .
ana Sood Humpred. When abroad do
not AVOID speaking 10 your wife Few
women are lnsensIOle Of tender treat
ment. They are naturally frank and at
icciIonaie, ana n general, there is no
InIng out auslerlty OF look, or distance
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